Really good break down. I had to use the lyric “I choose me I am sorry” to a woman that cannot accept rejection or move with her life. She then later called me a narcissist out of anger cause she didn’t get her way. Eliminating that stress and toxicity from my life is a healthy decision and choice.
Thanks for watching and for sharing your story. It never fails to amaze me, how music can be used in so many ways to get a point across. It's a great line from a great song. Also, anytime you are able to eliminate stress and toxic people from your life you will be way better for it now and down the road.
I have a parallel to this, in leaving someone who couldn’t reject me clearly, but preferred to lead me along and give mixed messages instead. I was so bent on finding clarity and maybe some kind of approval, that it kept me from being true to me and leaving. It was embarrassing, trying to find clarity in someone incapable of giving it without becoming defensive, or mocking me for calling them out. I had that “spidey sense”, and ignored it. I realize that’s the part of me I actually needed to work on. Self-trust
I also did the same thing, it took me 2 years to actually tell her what I want. Throughout these two years I caused a lot of pain to each other by trying to please her. It feels bad that I chose me but it’s necessary to break the cycle.
@@Seeattle Thanks for watching and sharing with us your comments. It takes a lot of guts for you to share your thoughts the way that you did. Relationships are tough to make work but when you are with someone that is not all in but won't admit to it, makes it a whole lot harder. Something to think about for the future, is what I call the two chances, maybe the first time you say something, the other person does not seem to get it, okay, but if you say something the second time and they still don't seem to get the importance of the topic, what they are telling you is that they are not interested and it's not going to happen. The clarity will never be there. You should consider about joining as a member, which would give you the chance to listen to me weekly and discuss in depths these issues. Again, thanks for the comments.
@@rishabhsharma6941 Thanks for watching and for sharing those comments. Sorry to hear what you went through, but it's important to remember that you need to please yourself as well. People who try and become people pleasers end up just making themselves filled with anxiety and self-doubt, since no matter how much you try to please others, it will never ever be enough. You have to learn not to hide your feelings or even feel that you don't deserve how to have a say in the balance of the relationship. Glad you were able to see that. You should consider about joining as a member, which would give you the chance to listen to me weekly and discuss in depths these issues. Again, thanks for the comments.
i resonated so much with this song and it made me realize that i must move out of my toxic family’s house. “point at me so that reflection can mirror freedom” and “i choose me” are so impactful. in the next week i am finally choosing myself and moving away to a much healthy place where i can work on myself instead of mediating all of my family’s conflicts. thank you once again for the analysis
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It’s also about the idiots taking about, “why Kendrick won’t drop a album every 5 mins” This entire album is Kendrick’s therapy saying he’s going thru REAL LIFE with his wife and family and he CHOOSE HIMSELF over the public’s attention and pleasure. People forget that athletes, actors, and artists are actually people and they go thru trials and tribulations like everyone else.
Wow thanks for watching and for those great comments and observations that you made. You are spot on, and I agree with you,100% percent with your insights. I felt that the album was very much him using a therapeutic perspective and talking about a lot of things that he has dealt with in his life. People today often forgot that the celebrities they worship once they hit the spotlight no longer have a break due to social media and have to be available and on 24/7. It could only be exhausting and never ending. You can also follow us on X/Spaces where we break down mental health topics and you can get an ideal on where the channel is going.
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Thank you for the video! Definitely something refreshing on the take away from songs. Kendrick has a way not to sugarcoat the meaning of music. He understands it and uses it as a tool or channel to speak to people.
Thank you for watching and for all of the great points that you made. I agree that what makes Kendrick special is that he does not sugarcoat things, and that he is direct and honest. I also agree with you that he does use it as a tool and as a way to talk to people in a very open and blunt manner. Thanks again for your thoughts.
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Really good break down. I had to use the lyric “I choose me I am sorry” to a woman that cannot accept rejection or move with her life. She then later called me a narcissist out of anger cause she didn’t get her way. Eliminating that stress and toxicity from my life is a healthy decision and choice.
Thanks for watching and for sharing your story. It never fails to amaze me, how music can be used in so many ways to get a point across. It's a great line from a great song. Also, anytime you are able to eliminate stress and toxic people from your life you will be way better for it now and down the road.
I have a parallel to this, in leaving someone who couldn’t reject me clearly, but preferred to lead me along and give mixed messages instead. I was so bent on finding clarity and maybe some kind of approval, that it kept me from being true to me and leaving. It was embarrassing, trying to find clarity in someone incapable of giving it without becoming defensive, or mocking me for calling them out. I had that “spidey sense”, and ignored it. I realize that’s the part of me I actually needed to work on. Self-trust
I also did the same thing, it took me 2 years to actually tell her what I want. Throughout these two years I caused a lot of pain to each other by trying to please her. It feels bad that I chose me but it’s necessary to break the cycle.
@@Seeattle Thanks for watching and sharing with us your comments. It takes a lot of guts for you to share your thoughts the way that you did. Relationships are tough to make work but when you are with someone that is not all in but won't admit to it, makes it a whole lot harder. Something to think about for the future, is what I call the two chances, maybe the first time you say something, the other person does not seem to get it, okay, but if you say something the second time and they still don't seem to get the importance of the topic, what they are telling you is that they are not interested and it's not going to happen. The clarity will never be there. You should consider about joining as a member, which would give you the chance to listen to me weekly and discuss in depths these issues. Again, thanks for the comments.
@@rishabhsharma6941 Thanks for watching and for sharing those comments. Sorry to hear what you went through, but it's important to remember that you need to please yourself as well. People who try and become people pleasers end up just making themselves filled with anxiety and self-doubt, since no matter how much you try to please others, it will never ever be enough. You have to learn not to hide your feelings or even feel that you don't deserve how to have a say in the balance of the relationship. Glad you were able to see that. You should consider about joining as a member, which would give you the chance to listen to me weekly and discuss in depths these issues. Again, thanks for the comments.
This is great. Haven’t seen many analyses take this approach, very relatable
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i resonated so much with this song and it made me realize that i must move out of my toxic family’s house. “point at me so that reflection can mirror freedom” and “i choose me” are so impactful. in the next week i am finally choosing myself and moving away to a much healthy place where i can work on myself instead of mediating all of my family’s conflicts. thank you once again for the analysis
thanks for the breakdown to one of my favorite songs
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This in itself felt like a therapy session. Wheeew. Thank you for this beautiful breakdown of a powerful song. So good!
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It’s also about the idiots taking about, “why Kendrick won’t drop a album every 5 mins”
This entire album is Kendrick’s therapy saying he’s going thru REAL LIFE with his wife and family and he CHOOSE HIMSELF over the public’s attention and pleasure. People forget that athletes, actors, and artists are actually people and they go thru trials and tribulations like everyone else.
Wow thanks for watching and for those great comments and observations that you made. You are spot on, and I agree with you,100% percent with your insights. I felt that the album was very much him using a therapeutic perspective and talking about a lot of things that he has dealt with in his life. People today often forgot that the celebrities they worship once they hit the spotlight no longer have a break due to social media and have to be available and on 24/7. It could only be exhausting and never ending. You can also follow us on X/Spaces where we break down mental health topics and you can get an ideal on where the channel is going.
thx for the video!
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Love you bro felt like i needed this
I love you more
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Thank you for the video! Definitely something refreshing on the take away from songs. Kendrick has a way not to sugarcoat the meaning of music. He understands it and uses it as a tool or channel to speak to people.
Thank you for watching and for all of the great points that you made. I agree that what makes Kendrick special is that he does not sugarcoat things, and that he is direct and honest. I also agree with you that he does use it as a tool and as a way to talk to people in a very open and blunt manner. Thanks again for your thoughts.
thank you for this video
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