Getting The Love You Want - Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt - Smart Couple Podcast

Interested in a super useful and deeply moving webinar replay featuring a legendary couple, both of whom are couples therapist and bestselling authors? If so, you’re in luck!
SHOWNOTES:
Why Do Couples Fight? [5:00]
Expecting Your Partner To Fulfill Your Unmet Childhood Needs [10:00]
What Does It Take To Love Your Partner More Than Yourself? [19:00]
The Importance Of Being Present [26:00]
Applying The Still Face Experiment & Being Present To Adult Interaction [35:00]
Turning Being Present With Each Other Into A Spiritual Practice [42:00]
How To Inspire Change In Your Partner [45:00]
How To Heal Insecure Attachment [50:00]
Helping Your Partner Recover From Dysregulation [54:00]
Why Caring For Your Relationship IS Self-Care [55:00]
Learning What Your Partner Really Needs [1:07:00]
Harville's Thoughts On Co-Dependency & Co-Regulation [1:15:00]
When Only One Of You Is Willing To Do The Work Is There Any Point? [1:19:00]
Changes In The New Version Of The Getting The Love You Want Book [1:25:00]
Check out the webpage for this Smart Couple Podcast episode at relationshipschool.site/podca...

[@kyraocity]

30:00 being present to each other
43:00 witnessing and sharing in your partner's animated wonder
1:14:00 Stop improving them or their situations. Ask questions and respect boundaries

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thank you!

[@kyraocity]

@@JaysonGaddis Enjoyed the interview!! Thx

[@lana2060]

On February 26, 2020 I was watching Oprah interview Kate Hudson on her 2020 Vision Tour and she mentioned the "Getting the Love You Want' book by Harville Hendrix .........that is what landed me here. Grateful.

[@JaysonGaddis]

oh wow. be sure to listen to all our episodes! so many

[@UNPRECEDENTEDPICTURES]

Wow! This is power! How amazing would it be if this stuff was taught in schools...

[@JaysonGaddis]

yes. one day it will

[@sillejogeva]

Thank you so much! Getting the Love You Want course helped to save our marriage and now practicing presents and dialogues have changed our quality of life a huge way. Everything makes sense now and that is so helpful :)

[@JaysonGaddis]

Amazing

[@danielhorning3606]

Thank you Jayson. The way you structured this talk allowed Helen and Harville to provide us with very powerful information. The best interview in my opinion.

[@JaysonGaddis]

thank you sir

[@lorikayser200]

Harville and Helen are such a lovely demonstration of the fruits of their labor in all they have learned and practiced and shared. Thanks Jason for all you do. I need every ounce of knowledge I can get!!!!!! ps I watched the baby video and could barely get through it - what a compelling demonstration!

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thank you

[@JosephDRupe]

I have always wanted someone to make a relationship with me a spiritual practice.

[@JaysonGaddis]

make it happen!

[@TerryManlove1]

I did 2 of their week end seminars. Great !

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thank you!

[@austinjohnson7746]

When he said meditation works because the brain knows what it is doing in breath out breath so many light bulbs went off in my head thank you

[@JaysonGaddis]

you're welcome

[@gabriellamolina9170]

So many woah woa wow moments. Love H&H!

[@JaysonGaddis]

right? thx

[@annevanderlaan6441]

Loved this!!

[@JaysonGaddis]

Glad you liked it!

[@abrahambenitez7104]

Thank you

[@JaysonGaddis]

You're welcome

[@rachelsweets]

I will watch later on

[@austinjohnson7746]

Now is later

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thanks

[@AA-ul9qh]

@22:00 Why would 'unconditional constructiveness' in a relationship ever be a difficult choice?!?!

[@JaysonGaddis]

Good question