What’s WORST Than NO CONTACT Is SEEING YOU MOVE ON With Someone New!

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  • Insight on what’s worst than no contact with the narcissist is them seeing you move on with someone new.
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  • @ZoeBranning
    @ZoeBranning หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    The Narcissist didn't value and appreciate you because they knew they didn't deserve you. Also they took you for granted because they were ungrateful. They don't deserve to be graced with forgiveness and losing you is their karma so let them suffer forever. They are a dictator that is obsessed with power and control. I told the truth.

    • @Balert-z8w
      @Balert-z8w หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You told the TRUTH

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Facts !

    • @nextupafrica9897
      @nextupafrica9897 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You said it!!

    • @T_Nice
      @T_Nice 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ABSOLUTELY and AMEN!!!

  • @ZoeBranning
    @ZoeBranning หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    The Narcissist needs you for their own survival because they are not independent.

  • @whiteliner2253
    @whiteliner2253 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Narcs always have a back up…

    • @mjoseph4305
      @mjoseph4305 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup

    • @ashajeremiahqw8775
      @ashajeremiahqw8775 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t they they can never be alone

    • @DuggyDuce
      @DuggyDuce 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      But they don’t like them lol

    • @mjoseph4305
      @mjoseph4305 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@DuggyDuce yes because they don't like themselves

  • @ExecutiveProtection51
    @ExecutiveProtection51 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    You can get better employment, better place to live, better vehicle, and blessed financially......and NONE of that affects them. BUT....to see you with another person in a new relationship shakes them to the core and they hate it. They believe that they own you! You can't move on but they can lay with and cycle multiples sources since the discard with you!!! SMH!

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    No contact means you moved on with PEACE Too

  • @debraenard2260
    @debraenard2260 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    He can think what he want💯 🚫✂️🚫✂️💯

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Thank God! I am 201 days of NoContact! I have moved on to a great person in my life. I am happy, healthy, and healed.

    • @humilitybeforehonorsmk2311
      @humilitybeforehonorsmk2311 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Congratulations!!! It's so challenging for me to date and it's been 210 days and no dates. I'm ok about that though. I was abstinent 8 years before the demon.

    • @Librarian322
      @Librarian322 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was in abstinence for 11 years b4 my narcissist showed up. I feel you! 🙏🏻​@@humilitybeforehonorsmk2311

    • @FiiireLight
      @FiiireLight หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 I'm on day 20.😅

    • @mjoseph4305
      @mjoseph4305 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats really good 🎉

    • @mjoseph4305
      @mjoseph4305 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand, too early for me too it's been about 100 days /3 months for me , just putting dating into gods hands..determined not to make any more mistakes.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I left that backward walk giraffe with the britches touching in the back 😂.
    I moved to another town and I refuse to take him back he did too much nah I'm good gotta break the covenant completely and I will do it.

  • @abigailrodriguez2754
    @abigailrodriguez2754 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Oh wow! That's exactly what is happening in my situation after wasting 2 decades with my ex I would always go back with him because I loved him so much & he knew it and took advantage of it when I finally left him go for good & I was still in love with him but I had to be strong & I stood single for 3 years changed my phone number deleted all my social media accounts & he could not get a hold of me until I healed & its been a year now ive been dating my new boyfriend who treats me sooooo good like a queen BOOM somehow my ex got my new number and started calling me Non-Stop I had to change my number again he tried talking a lot of crap to my new boyfriend!!🤦🏻‍♀️ Its true these narcissists never let go completely!!!🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @littleclay1838
    @littleclay1838 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I really don't understand the mind of a narcissist because they act like there were no problems that caused the breakup, and you are just suppose to ignore that.....and still want them.

  • @flirtaciawright9562
    @flirtaciawright9562 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yes sister!! The worse narcissistic injury ever!

  • @reneecollin8825
    @reneecollin8825 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    🍀 "social media" is one of the most immature & destructive concepts (imo) ever conceived !! I have no use Facebook. Twitter , bitter or whatever! When you feel the need to expose yourself or share or life/biz - expect the worst!!

  • @Narcissisticsurvivor47
    @Narcissisticsurvivor47 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    All im running into is Narcissistic demons been single for over 2yrs 🙏

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The dating pool now is full of highly narcissistic men

  • @taiskitchen6152
    @taiskitchen6152 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I pray he stays ghost & I know he’s hating even more now bc it’s a wrap forever. He knows when the right one comes into my life that I’ll know how to treat him . I’m still healing; but no I’m not giving up on life, love and he’ll be waiting forever if he thinks I’m going to rollover and die. Thank you Telsha for putting a positive prayer for us to be Blessed with the right one bc after him I know who not to waste time with in the future 💗😇

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I'm sooo glad that the narc i dealt with did not throw anything n my face...he was always very secretive and that's a good thing 4 me. Also he has not reached out which is EVEN BETTER!!!! Let him stay right where he is and with whomever while I now ENJOY MY LIFE!!¡

  • @kimvine9257
    @kimvine9257 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    As long as I have watched your videos you have never aged! You are gorgeous and vibrating pure love!
    Listen folks this is the best revenge is to be happy and healthy! Radiate happiness 🎉

  • @jamesrichardson4965
    @jamesrichardson4965 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    They're there for "Damage Control"

  • @zelmaellison4049
    @zelmaellison4049 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am now moving on from HEALNESS to WHOLENESS to BOLDNESS by the Power of the Holy Ghost and Fire! GOD IS SHOOTING ME TO THAT PLACE IN HIM WHERE THE DEVIL CAN'T FIND ME 🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @karenmilan9383
    @karenmilan9383 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I keep getting all these call’s 1 800 some with my area code and I wouldn’t answer them I thought it mite have been him. I don’t knw who it was, I have a block on my phone now they all stopped 👊🏽 I told him he can never come back.

  • @michaelmullins7074
    @michaelmullins7074 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "Tell your new partner not to answer random friend text messages or DM's.
    Isn't that what a narcissistic person would do?
    "Keep your relationship private."
    Narcissists do this as well. They portray themselves as the most single and available people in the world.
    It's funny how we, "the absued" now, have to take on or mimic their habits and characteristics to safeguard ourselves or new partners.
    I get it. It's just funny because I am now , after 8 months in a new relationship, and I'm almost in a way hiding her from the creature that lurks in the shadows. All I can think about is, how am I any different than her?

    • @dcam3035
      @dcam3035 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There’s a difference between privacy and deception.

    • @michaelmullins7074
      @michaelmullins7074 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @dcam3035 I agree with you. I guess only that person would know why they are hiding their personal love life.
      My ex, who I assume is a narcissist (I am not a doctor and can not diagnose her), but I know what o felt, experienced, and saw.
      In her mind, I'm the narcissist. I am doing all the things a narcissist would do. However, she doesn't understand why I'm doing those things. To her, it's deception when, in reality, it's privacy and protection for my new partner.
      For me and my perspective; she did it all to be sneaky and deceptive.
      Unfortunately, I don't know if there is a new supply. I don't check on her or her social media. I am assuming that if I did. Her new partner wouldn't be posted in photos or mention in messages. Because she's trying yo appear single for her new supply lines.

    • @samrabolden7421
      @samrabolden7421 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your intentions are different, theirs are usually to be deceitful and yours seems to be from protection, big difference

  • @leetheconnoisseur8982
    @leetheconnoisseur8982 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Guess what?? "I hit 🎯 that like button, hit that like button..." 😊 I love that...

  • @IncredibleTOPCast
    @IncredibleTOPCast 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😂😂😂 hit so different that my narco ex admitted that she'd stalked me for years after I left her and she was "envious" of my new lady friend 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @MissTia777
    @MissTia777 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hearing his name gives me a mild headache

  • @energy5351
    @energy5351 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Leave them in their ignorance 🔥🔥🔥🌎🌎🌎🙏🙏🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅

  • @Luka-DanteGodofMischief
    @Luka-DanteGodofMischief หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I refuse to say "my narc" cause it says that they some how still are apart of your life but the ex narc in my life that I discarded believed I was dumb as fck but I wasn't, I was just playing dumb just to study her until she over played her hand by making fun of my mental illnesses and boy was sue shocked when I gave it to her good and if course the coward tried to run away from the convo, and because we have a long distance reship she tried to play the bada$$ but I wasn't having it. I ripped her a new one, I made her realize that this was not a dictatorship and I dumped her via convo. The most interesting part i I'm dating her crush and I had a crush on her crush long before I knew she existed, so I can't believe the type of narc injury she has now and I don't care one bit. She never cared about me when I tried my best to be faithful and love her. She doesnt deserve someone good cause all she does is hurt and ruin ppl.

  • @kingac780
    @kingac780 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Experiencing this now … listen 😳 unbelievable. My lord!

    • @ShunThorn
      @ShunThorn หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I swear very unbelievable..

  • @suneesunee7576
    @suneesunee7576 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    He congratulations and wish me to get pregnant and praise my new man handsome 3 4 times 😂 taxted me like never before. Its fun to watch

  • @Fullgrace061
    @Fullgrace061 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m not on Facebook at all I look here in there but really I’m keeping my business to myself. I’m putting God first.

  • @sowandeamir40
    @sowandeamir40 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The drama associated with these bats is sad they will try everything to destroy when your living your life and it's sad

  • @lynnh4786
    @lynnh4786 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Toddlers lol 😅 wow my ex unfortunately lives around the corner i blocked him years ago. He tried the hoover w no response.
    I don’t give a f if he’s watching or not. I’m still winning period by getting away from his toxic ass. I’ve been building our Real Estate family business ❤ I’m loving on me & doing my thing 💯 thank you gorgeous have an awesome weekend

  • @braskinkeith9395
    @braskinkeith9395 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dealing with it now 🤦🏾‍♂️and she had multiple ppl

  • @blakeknight4773
    @blakeknight4773 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Telsha, Please do a video on narcissistic friends. How they treat you badly in front of their new friends and how controlling they are.

  • @juliecunliffe4414
    @juliecunliffe4414 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shituationship 😂😂😂

  • @ZonyWest
    @ZonyWest หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Oh well too bad life can't stop for the narcs.

  • @AmethystMoonrising
    @AmethystMoonrising หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely correct about the femal narcissist!!!

  • @violetavranjkovic4642
    @violetavranjkovic4642 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    HIT THE LIKE BUTTON PLS FOR THIS WONDERFUL LADY WHO HAS HELPED SO MANY!!!! 💜💜🙌❤️🎉🎉👍🙌

  • @uncleboslifelessons2448
    @uncleboslifelessons2448 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you I’m learning so much. Your videos are bringing so much clarity to what I been going through for years.

  • @letnothingslide1969
    @letnothingslide1969 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They can have a full fledge affair current and on going and still be upset and possessive of u when the other spouse have some others inboxing or e mail. My ex wife was mad and still throw up in my face about an ex lover who always stayed around wanting me while she was just sexing her lover less then a week !!

  • @enchantment8
    @enchantment8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My ex asked my son for my number, he called saying congratulations on your new house, I want to send you a birthday present 🎁 I need your address. I replied Thank you and ok. Then changed my number and told my children do not give him my new number.

    • @enchantment8
      @enchantment8 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He wanted to google my address to get the details of how much I paid for it.

  • @FirstladyPrincely
    @FirstladyPrincely หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congrats sis.. I see the ring 💍

  • @bustermarch8005
    @bustermarch8005 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks Miss T. Nice to wake up to this. You made my day. Can sit here repeating it again and again.😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tennillewhite9509
    @tennillewhite9509 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heyyy Telsha👋🏽🥰 Thank you so much for your Time and Energy💫✨ I really appreciate you For all you do❤️💯

  • @FREEATLAST-7
    @FREEATLAST-7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yep, she found out. I went to an ex and she started smearing me on her TH-cam channel saying calling me a narcissist calling me scumbag saying we both were toxic saying I was oh my God she just started going off on her TH-cam channel, but you know what I know she gotta keep that image as long as I have the facts she can talk all she want. I know what I went through with her and her six children behind them closed doorsand I’m happy and better now but when she found out, oh my God is she upset?

  • @_YohAsakura_
    @_YohAsakura_ หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I said she would be back and now she is. Lol. XD

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good evening Queen ❤ Thank you cuz I need this today.

  • @DuggyDuce
    @DuggyDuce 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Did,is, FEELS SO GOOD!!!!

  • @Trollzarefunny
    @Trollzarefunny หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She goes to every funeral of my family members that have passed
    She goes to birthday parties of my family members
    Me ? I stopped going to funerals and any functions of my relatives
    ( can’t call them family)
    Complete Blackout
    Traveling saving and continuing to work on my peace 😎

  • @metavio7
    @metavio7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep HITTING THE LIKES PPL LOVE U TELSHA

  • @TataShiku
    @TataShiku หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They Are bothered so much by our healing and us Remaining Unbothered . it's my 2nd year working on me. not Interest in no other marriage just want to reclaim my lost self and happiness. lately I Replay a certain episode on bad thing they did to me and I broke down. I don't know why yet I am not bitter. I just felt so bad to remember all what I went through. may they burn in hell and every toss and turn remind them of the pain they caused us

  • @Mikey50285
    @Mikey50285 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this game!

  • @11216mel
    @11216mel หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are naturally beautiful ❤❤

  • @Balert-z8w
    @Balert-z8w หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank You Thank You Thank You✨💚💟

  • @BeautifulJoy54321
    @BeautifulJoy54321 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for all that you do keep telling the truth ❤

  • @fahimashuma
    @fahimashuma หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are 💯right!!!!! I posted just a quote and my ex thought I was in a relationship and it creates obsession!

  • @WoundedWarrior-hi9yg
    @WoundedWarrior-hi9yg หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I testify…. Keep Preaching Queen #almost healed #healing journey

  • @_YohAsakura_
    @_YohAsakura_ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Matter of fact she’s obsessed with everythintS

  • @nishapage2757
    @nishapage2757 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ll do it for ya “if youssssss rockssss with ya girl”

  • @CS-mt3dh
    @CS-mt3dh หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    natural beauty ❤

  • @drypshunee8428
    @drypshunee8428 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Preach!!!!

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Ms. Telsha. I hope you're having a fabulous day! It don't make no sense how the narcissistics pry in folks bizwahzee 😂. Smh. Good message! I hope you have a blessed evening 💯🙌💎

  • @manoncote3131
    @manoncote3131 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If the new person we are with treats us well, makes us happy and the relationship lasts, will the narcissist understand that he was the problem? Or if he will believe anything else, such as that we are pretending, even after several years?

    • @phoenixrising8523
      @phoenixrising8523 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I've moved on years ago and am married and my NPD ex recently told me I "am faking it," "my smile doesn't touch my insides," and "faking it is what's really toxic." Mind you, we don't talk at all, have zero contact directly or indirectly via a third party, and neither myself or my husband are on social media. He is literally pulling this out of his @ss. I realize that this is something he NEEDS to believe. So in my experience if they are truly personality disordered (not just some toxic traits), No, they don't understand. No, they are never the problem and yes even after many, many years have passed, in their deluded world you are faking it (even when they can't view you). Their fragile ego literally cannot consider anything different.

  • @jeremylmckinney3364
    @jeremylmckinney3364 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    IAM speaking for myself when our daughter said she felt uncomfortable with who her mother was with at that moment I spoke on it after that she silenced our daughter and once she posted another source of supply on Facebook I literally stopped saying anything plus one of her sources liked one of my post on Facebook I deleted all my social media accounts nah IAM not getting involved with triangulation

  • @MBFITNESS33
    @MBFITNESS33 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello somebody. Well said. Awesome video

  • @Denzelswife-rb7qz
    @Denzelswife-rb7qz หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    he sent me a voicemail after 3 yrs no contact on HIS bday today, " hey how you doing, I didn't want anything just checking on you" you still deleted....giraffe wearing combat boots...I don't put any info on my social media page..and I'm still getting fake friend requests

  • @auddrikaburr5305
    @auddrikaburr5305 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ok period definitely Amen

  • @williemaeboyd2966
    @williemaeboyd2966 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes indeed 😊

  • @Lacehairwigs
    @Lacehairwigs หลายเดือนก่อน

    4 years no contact except for 3 days of court.

  • @patriziastella6564
    @patriziastella6564 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God Bless to you too Talesha thankyou so much for sharing. ❤

  • @mzbize1
    @mzbize1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching the Replay 8/7/24 ❤

  • @yolandamenendez9783
    @yolandamenendez9783 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ty ❤😊

  • @zoey165
    @zoey165 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for all your video content. This helped me so much after the break up from my narcissistic partner. I would have to ask you for a big favor. Maybe you can help me to get closure in my situation. I kicked my narcissistic partner out little bit over a month ago, he was acting weird, didn’t come home, drinking heavily the last month of the relationship and I assumed he was sleeping around with others. I went testing after another Person, confess having sex with him on a Facebook page my test results are positive when my ex picked up his stuff from my house. The new supply or one of the new supplies was with him and he said we was not more than roommates. It was never a committed relationship. What do you think how the new supply supplies feel about him having an STD?heads up we working for the government so they will contacted him. Is the narcissist mad about the new supply? Please help me to understand!

  • @tamlamoore7962
    @tamlamoore7962 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SO TRUE

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Peace ❤

  • @Brattynsassy
    @Brattynsassy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dougedoug2105
    @dougedoug2105 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was reverse discarded for new supply, exited the relationship, went no contact, and sent an XXX photo of myself and my new “supply” to a flying monkey. Now all of sudden I’m getting 3am phone calls & last week my ex called my mom to see how the “family” was doing. 😂😂😂 Heartbroken I still chose to move on; Ain’t so fun when the 🐇 got the 🔫

    • @ShunThorn
      @ShunThorn หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts 😂

  • @FAITHOVERFEAR15
    @FAITHOVERFEAR15 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Woo🎉🎉 speak it

  • @peaceprosperity6705
    @peaceprosperity6705 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your myyyy cutie pie.

  • @fonzobooker7998
    @fonzobooker7998 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shalom

  • @kieshaspady4923
    @kieshaspady4923 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True Story

  • @fonzobooker7998
    @fonzobooker7998 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes ma'am

  • @plantisspeaks
    @plantisspeaks หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen 🎉

  • @IZZIONLIONESS
    @IZZIONLIONESS หลายเดือนก่อน

    SHALOM

  • @jackiecolbert3915
    @jackiecolbert3915 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤🔥🔥😂

  • @sassy46201
    @sassy46201 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pretty lady

  • @short6855
    @short6855 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Worse not Worst.

  • @debraenard2260
    @debraenard2260 หลายเดือนก่อน

    True facts 💯 that xnarc is married again x5 😳still hoover me 8 yrs NC 🧳✈️😇🙏✌️

  • @lindabruner6680
    @lindabruner6680 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    WORD!!!!!!

  • @ri52177
    @ri52177 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @luvbug7179
    @luvbug7179 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @deniseedwards415
    @deniseedwards415 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤