Accountability is shame for them. They don’t want to regret bc it forces them to admit to themselves that they messed up and made poor decisions. That causes them to feel shame and it’s too much for their ego to take on.
❤❤❤❤❤❤I read that Narc his last rights when I ran up on this channel, told him I figured him out, filled for my divorce, been gone 1 year, and have NEVER felt better!!! God Bless You Telsha🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Once you get in the head space where you don't care about what they do or who they are with you are in a good place stay silent and stay no contact and keep it moving
He knows that it's game over with me For EVER... I'm done, done. And, he is not okay since I've been gone. Next week, he's having surgery. His right kidney is full of cancer. It's got to be removed. And, my daughter said that during his pre-admission testing this week, they have discovered nodules in one of his lungs. It's just not looking good for him at all. He has taken a HUGE nose dive with his health since I've been gone. And, I'm not bragging about his situation. I have not been wishing anything evil to happen to him. But, I knew something like this was coming. God says, "We will reap what we sow." But, Narcissists don't understand that verse though. I mean, God doesn't play games with anyone. But, I honestly believe that narcissists convince themselves that they can manipulate God too. It just blows my mind how their mind operates..
The fact that all was premeditated it was all i need it to not even look back i vanished and been keeping it that way now that i got all this knowledge I see life in a new light is been 3 years of rebuilding all glory to my savior jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏.
💯 For those considering leaving or is fresh out the relationship PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take her advice. I was with a narcissist for 31 yrs and I went thru it all and his response to what I say is just like Telsha described it.
My soon to be ex of 20 yrs. Is getting served this weekend. I found he cheated shortly after my open heart surgery, no telling how long or how many times with others. I confronted, moved his shit out. Talked about selling house and then he attempted to used my 8yr old disabled grandson to get to me....Game over!!!! I told him he is about to be served, communicate with my attorney i never want to speak with him again. Dont put an innocent child in this position.... unforgettable!
They need deep seated Spiritual Deliverance! They need to come clean. Sellout to God. Request the INDWELLING of the Holy Spirit of God. That carries the Fruits/ Traits of God's Spirit. The Character of God.
I'm so done with the narc til he won't even get no feedback, no convo, no phone call answer. He gets nothing but these divorce papers. Narc only understands NO contact.This means you're not worthy, not worth my time, not worth my energy. All social media deactivated. I'm gone gone. Just waiting on a court date for divorce to be finalized.
Mine was willingly to throw away a whole relationship/engagement leading up to marriage to save their ego. It took me to shut off my location and leave for work early for them to immediately pack my bags and threw me out on the street, to get the message. Trying to endlessly tell them their behavior is destroying the relationship fell on deaf ears. Tried to bring people in to show her she is ruining the relationship but she managed to manipulate them as well.. Took this to finally set myself free. This discard will be the final one because I said it will. Good luck in life.
I got grounded, ten toes down & made him take accountability to the point of him wanting to give up rights to his neuro divergent child! Fly away bird!
These videos is helping me so much I left mine he still has his things in my home and he went back to his baby mother who had an order of protection for abusing her. He lives with her now and his daughter and he had nerve to say we can still be together. Im good he paid for everything while we were together and I am so glad because i didn't have to spend money on him snd and glad i didn't
I remember the first time he triangulated me, and I was trying to hold him accountable for it, and he actually had the audacity to say, “but you won”😂. I was thinking to myself I want what being triangulated being lied to.
If i mistreated the Narcissist they wouldn't forgive me but they would hold a grudge against me forever! They are not willing to become a better person, grow up or evolve they just want to continue be rude abusive and feel their actions is justified and do not have to self reflect about the type of person they are being! If you can't admit you are wrong or see my humanity to acknowledge what you did wrong then you shouldn't be graced with forgiveness. You want to weaponize forgiveness for control! Evil doesn't deserve forgiveness. I don't care who does not agree with me. There is something seriously wrong with this society. Narcissistic abuse is intentional!
Hi Ms. Telsha. You have such a lovely voice. You sing so beautifully. I can just feel God when you sang! Makes me want to lift my hands in praise! Good message today! Thank you for posting 🙌💯🙏
MRS, TELSHA ❤❤ I DON'T CARE IF YOU TAKE A SHOWER.. BRUSH YOUR TEETH, OR LIVE UNDER A BLANKET 😂😂 YES I HOLD THEM AND MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE 💯 UNBOTHERED AND STAYING MY COURSE OF HEALING ❤❤❤ LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA
🤲🏽Amen I Most Definitely Had To Apologize To Myself 😢!For Allowing The Abuse,And I Noticed The Red Flags 🚩 😢 But I Hold Him Accountable To The Highest Degree Possible 💯🚩 And he knows he could never befriend me again 😡😠Big On No Contact, Look 👀 Like I’m The One Gone Ghost 👻 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
When you tell them I am going come there and tear off in your as if don't stop playing with me. They will leave you alone for good , we dealing with coward, account the accountability with that. Leave me the f alone demon.
She put herself in that hole she will live with that for the rest of her life for her evil doings and conquence and till Jesus Christ call her home and whatever that maybe but the door 🚪 is definitely close on her period and no return and you are right 👍 women of God and I do stand on business better believe that no one on God green earth going to forget what you done to them. I m willing to forget but want forget what my ex female narcissist and what she did behind my back and completely destroyed trust we had and that is no no period in any relationship today and that was not a relationship with her and plan and simple and peace.
She knows its game over for me cause the girl of my dreams whom ive loved for 11 years confessed her feelings for me in xmas(what a christmas present to me) and the absolute hilarious part is, she is also friends with the girl of my dreams. They were friends long before i met her and then i found out about their friendship after me and the ex got together and my ex has a huge crush on her, kinda like a weird obsession but i didnt tell her my feelings for her cause at that point i knew she was messed up..Fast forward to after i discarded her and shes tried to hoover multiple times and then the one time i decided to message her back she tried to spin it and said it wasnt me and she just didnt like some of the things i did. So i really wanted to say then why didnt u tell me that the multiple times i asked whats wrong and you should talk to me if something is wrong and i told her one of our rules should be never to go to bed mad at each other..Now her ex who apparently couldnt do right and no one will want is dating her crush (the woman of my dreams) 😂 . I dunno if thats gunna be a narc injury but she put me in the freaking mental hospital, she can kiss my butt..
Everybody talks about the greatness of god byt where was our protection from these demons? Can i hold god accountable too? Where he been? Why he let this happen? And let me add narc parents to this bc its not just the people we ended up dating its getting hit with both. Its fd up
🔔Help🔔👉🏽👉🏽My son father is a Narcissist of course he is in denial …. Currently he has our son and won’t give him back even though we both have custody and refuse to follow our agreement which is one week on one week off and won’t tell me where he is or nor do I have a clue where he has him and he doesn’t let me talk to him when he has him saying that until I take him off child support then I can get him back which is pathetic…Does anyone have any advice how I can get my son back or do I have to go back to court?
Pretty 👏👏 With That Flesh 🗡️ 🦅 🧗🕳️Sneaking 🧱 🚶 From 🚶🕌 A 🕌 Dark 💫🌑💫 Nessing 🎥 🕌 With 🕌 That 🕌🏋️ Light 🏋️🕌 💡Bulbing 💡 Glory's 💡 🕌🌤️ 🧗🕳️ Too Straight 🦅💫 At That🧎Leeing 🧎🥶 🙋Gloria's 🥶🦍 💫 Too 🧚Goded 🧚 On Pleased With That Jesus A Okaying ⛲ With A Cynthia Marry🎄 Kaying 🎄⛄ Glory's With That 🎄Christmas 🎄🗡️ Too Promiseing On ⛲ Timeing ⛲ 🧱 With That Will 🌪️ Tell On 🌪️ Each Othering Before 🤧 Time 🤧 Is Out
Every relationship I had I bust up that fuel matrix . I always stood up to everyone of em including my mother 🧓🏾!! None of it works on me. I def caused a narc injury last relationship I had. I held my ground and refused to communicate and No,I don’t want u in my life and not even as a friend. They blocked me and I carried on with my life!!! Major Blow to that Narcs ego!! They will never come back cause they know I’m not having it!!! I shoal did❤ I love myself too much to take him back.
Dealing with narcs and being abused by them are serious matters. Please stop laughing or singing and stop begging to hit the Like button and Subscribe. Too much every single video you do that. I am OUT.
well don’t watch her videos it’s that simple. why are you trying to tell someone how to run their channel? the information she is giving is needed if you are that sensitive cause someone wants feedback on the videos they make out of their limited time on earth then make your own damn channel and run it how YOU choose to.
Ms. Telsha’s laughter and singing really uplifts me. Laughter through the pain is healing for me. You may want to embrace the laughter and singing. It definitely brings me joy and peace.🤷🏽♀️❤️🩹
Facts, Ms.Telsha, she still lurks, I still get the burner phone calls, and none of it works . We we're done, that's it ,3 years 5 months no contact she knows she can't come back that's why the hoover is less. Peace Ms.Telsha 💯💪🏿🙏🏿🫡
I am at a complete state of apathy for her, my closure was her betrayal. She burned the bridge I burned the door, no contact for life, checkmate 🤡.
"HOW YOU GON' BE FRIENDS WITH A VIPER?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣THAT PART!!!! 🤣DUMB BIRDS
FACTS 😂
Accountability is shame for them. They don’t want to regret bc it forces them to admit to themselves that they messed up and made poor decisions. That causes them to feel shame and it’s too much for their ego to take on.
Exactly which is why they quickly move on instead of
❤❤❤❤❤❤I read that Narc his last rights when I ran up on this channel, told him I figured him out, filled for my divorce, been gone 1 year, and have NEVER felt better!!! God Bless You Telsha🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Congrats boo!
🎉🎉🎉🎉
Congratulations!!🎊 🎉
Congratulations 🎉😊
Congratulations!
Once you get in the head space where you don't care about what they do or who they are with you are in a good place stay silent and stay no contact and keep it moving
Amen 🙌🙌
He knows that it's game over with me For EVER... I'm done, done. And, he is not okay since I've been gone. Next week, he's having surgery. His right kidney is full of cancer. It's got to be removed. And, my daughter said that during his pre-admission testing this week, they have discovered nodules in one of his lungs. It's just not looking good for him at all. He has taken a HUGE nose dive with his health since I've been gone. And, I'm not bragging about his situation. I have not been wishing anything evil to happen to him. But, I knew something like this was coming. God says, "We will reap what we sow." But, Narcissists don't understand that verse though. I mean, God doesn't play games with anyone. But, I honestly believe that narcissists convince themselves that they can manipulate God too. It just blows my mind how their mind operates..
ME TOO!❤
Me too!!😂
HE no there's no come BACK 💯🙌🙏🙌.I'm in my own ENERGY.❤
@@KarenPettiford 💕💕💕💕💕💕
The fact that all was premeditated it was all i need it to not even look back i vanished and been keeping it that way now that i got all this knowledge I see life in a new light is been 3 years of rebuilding all glory to my savior jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏.
With one for 15 years.. I walked away almost 4 months ago and I found this to be one of the best decisions that I have made in my life❤❤
One of the most powerful statements I ever to my ex narc was that I don’t do exes.
HOOVER DENIED = 🚫
Told the narc i can't unsee him; I know WHAT he is❕🔥
My divorce is almost finalised and I've been no contact for 4 years and now he's messaging all my family 😂.
He's panicking.
Divorce speaks volumes.
Keep standing strong ❤❤❤❤
💯 For those considering leaving or is fresh out the relationship PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take her advice. I was with a narcissist for 31 yrs and I went thru it all and his response to what I say is just like Telsha described it.
My soon to be ex of 20 yrs. Is getting served this weekend. I found he cheated shortly after my open heart surgery, no telling how long or how many times with others. I confronted, moved his shit out. Talked about selling house and then he attempted to used my 8yr old disabled grandson to get to me....Game over!!!! I told him he is about to be served, communicate with my attorney i never want to speak with him again. Dont put an innocent child in this position.... unforgettable!
I will never take him back.
DITTO DITTO DITTO
Or go no contact and have them guessing and questioning for closure
They need deep seated Spiritual Deliverance! They need to come clean. Sellout to God. Request the INDWELLING of the Holy Spirit of God. That carries the Fruits/ Traits of God's Spirit. The Character of God.
He will never tell the truth
Amen 🙏🏽 ❤❤❤
Praise GOD🙌🏾🙌🏾 I been standing on BITNEY for 4yrs NO CONTACT !!!
I'm so done with the narc til he won't even get no feedback, no convo, no phone call answer. He gets nothing but these divorce papers.
Narc only understands NO contact.This means you're not worthy, not worth my time, not worth my energy. All social media deactivated.
I'm gone gone. Just waiting on a court date for divorce to be finalized.
Mine was willingly to throw away a whole relationship/engagement leading up to marriage to save their ego. It took me to shut off my location and leave for work early for them to immediately pack my bags and threw me out on the street, to get the message. Trying to endlessly tell them their behavior is destroying the relationship fell on deaf ears. Tried to bring people in to show her she is ruining the relationship but she managed to manipulate them as well.. Took this to finally set myself free. This discard will be the final one because I said it will. Good luck in life.
I got grounded, ten toes down & made him take accountability to the point of him wanting to give up rights to his neuro divergent child! Fly away bird!
Tea you are a true sweetheart ,beauty and brains,baby tell it like it is❤
These videos is helping me so much I left mine he still has his things in my home and he went back to his baby mother who had an order of protection for abusing her. He lives with her now and his daughter and he had nerve to say we can still be together. Im good he paid for everything while we were together and I am so glad because i didn't have to spend money on him snd and glad i didn't
Hey Ms Tea they know when it’s over moving on with life and no time for the dusty weirdos 😂thank God we out of that mess 😊🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I remember the first time he triangulated me, and I was trying to hold him accountable for it, and he actually had the audacity to say, “but you won”😂. I was thinking to myself I want what being triangulated being lied to.
This is very much true. That joker knows he won’t come back to the spineless woman he left in shambles and that’s why he skipped tow.
Yessss baby they gets too stepping, that accountability puts them under the ground 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@loumm960 ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Yes so true . I think he knows I’m gone it was real bad Never Never again 😊
A straight demon possessed by an entity 😮
For my narcissist it's 100% game over-bye bye dog poop!!!!😆😅🤣
If i mistreated the Narcissist they wouldn't forgive me but they would hold a grudge against me forever! They are not willing to become a better person, grow up or evolve they just want to continue be rude abusive and feel their actions is justified and do not have to self reflect about the type of person they are being! If you can't admit you are wrong or see my humanity to acknowledge what you did wrong then you shouldn't be graced with forgiveness. You want to weaponize forgiveness for control! Evil doesn't deserve forgiveness. I don't care who does not agree with me. There is something seriously wrong with this society. Narcissistic abuse is intentional!
Hi Ms. Telsha. You have such a lovely voice. You sing so beautifully. I can just feel God when you sang! Makes me want to lift my hands in praise! Good message today! Thank you for posting 🙌💯🙏
natural beauty ❤
U better preach dat thang queen 💪🙏💯#STAYSOLIDISDAMOVEMENT
"Ole backwards flying walrus"... 😆
Amen! Every word TRUTH.
Gotta move and change numbers if y'all have no kids
You are we so on time! Gratitude ❤ This personality is real lousy and deceitful.
Thank you! ❤
Great Talk! Wise Words, Agreed With All That You Say. Thank You Lovely Lady😇
MRS, TELSHA ❤❤ I DON'T CARE IF YOU TAKE A SHOWER.. BRUSH YOUR TEETH, OR LIVE UNDER A BLANKET 😂😂 YES I HOLD THEM AND MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE 💯 UNBOTHERED AND STAYING MY COURSE OF HEALING ❤❤❤ LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA
On point sis 🙏💜 Halleluyah Holy Spirit Revelation and Confirmation Abba Thank you Always 🙏💜
🤲🏽Amen
I Most Definitely Had To Apologize To Myself 😢!For Allowing The Abuse,And I Noticed The Red Flags 🚩 😢 But I Hold Him Accountable To The Highest Degree Possible 💯🚩 And he knows he could never befriend me again 😡😠Big On No Contact, Look 👀 Like I’m The One Gone Ghost 👻 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
I packed his shit..Bye!!!!!!!!
hii ❤ im inspired w ur advice. love ur personality always happy..fr
nassau,bahamas
Apathy after this feels appropriate! She did have me going once, though! All into her and involved!
You turn da light on, them roaches scatter…
When you tell them I am going come there and tear off in your as if don't stop playing with me. They will leave you alone for good , we dealing with coward, account the accountability with that. Leave me the f alone demon.
I'm holding you accountable for every minute of my time you wasted
Thank You..😊 Fence built with Facts😊
Ineeded this i just need there signature on theese on these divorce documents that is it
What if they have your grandchildren? Greyrock? Still hold them accountable?
Amen! Preach Telsha! 🙌🏽❤️🩹
Yes indeed
My mom saw him she said he looked 10yrs older 😮
Ms. Fabulous
She put herself in that hole she will live with that for the rest of her life for her evil doings and conquence and till Jesus Christ call her home and whatever that maybe but the door 🚪 is definitely close on her period and no return and you are right 👍 women of God and I do stand on business better believe that no one on God green earth going to forget what you done to them. I m willing to forget but want forget what my ex female narcissist and what she did behind my back and completely destroyed trust we had and that is no no period in any relationship today and that was not a relationship with her and plan and simple and peace.
She knows its game over for me cause the girl of my dreams whom ive loved for 11 years confessed her feelings for me in xmas(what a christmas present to me) and the absolute hilarious part is, she is also friends with the girl of my dreams. They were friends long before i met her and then i found out about their friendship after me and the ex got together and my ex has a huge crush on her, kinda like a weird obsession but i didnt tell her my feelings for her cause at that point i knew she was messed up..Fast forward to after i discarded her and shes tried to hoover multiple times and then the one time i decided to message her back she tried to spin it and said it wasnt me and she just didnt like some of the things i did. So i really wanted to say then why didnt u tell me that the multiple times i asked whats wrong and you should talk to me if something is wrong and i told her one of our rules should be never to go to bed mad at each other..Now her ex who apparently couldnt do right and no one will want is dating her crush (the woman of my dreams) 😂 . I dunno if thats gunna be a narc injury but she put me in the freaking mental hospital, she can kiss my butt..
So true!!❤❤🎉🎉
Curious where the happy endings are tho? After the hell we been through has anybody found true amazing love?
Hi TELSHA
Everybody talks about the greatness of god byt where was our protection from these demons? Can i hold god accountable too? Where he been? Why he let this happen? And let me add narc parents to this bc its not just the people we ended up dating its getting hit with both. Its fd up
🔔Help🔔👉🏽👉🏽My son father is a Narcissist of course he is in denial …. Currently he has our son and won’t give him back even though we both have custody and refuse to follow our agreement which is one week on one week off and won’t tell me where he is or nor do I have a clue where he has him and he doesn’t let me talk to him when he has him saying that until I take him off child support then I can get him back which is pathetic…Does anyone have any advice how I can get my son back or do I have to go back to court?
call the police, if he is not following the court order, he is now kidnapping! Show the order to the officer
Report him to the court immediately
🤍🖤 entity, 💯
But even though.. He came back 😔
Hello 🖐🏾
❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Pretty 👏👏 With That Flesh 🗡️ 🦅 🧗🕳️Sneaking 🧱 🚶 From 🚶🕌 A 🕌 Dark 💫🌑💫 Nessing 🎥 🕌 With 🕌 That 🕌🏋️ Light 🏋️🕌 💡Bulbing 💡 Glory's 💡 🕌🌤️ 🧗🕳️ Too Straight 🦅💫 At That🧎Leeing 🧎🥶 🙋Gloria's 🥶🦍 💫 Too 🧚Goded 🧚 On Pleased With That Jesus A Okaying ⛲ With
A Cynthia Marry🎄 Kaying 🎄⛄ Glory's With That 🎄Christmas 🎄🗡️ Too Promiseing On ⛲ Timeing ⛲ 🧱 With That Will 🌪️ Tell On 🌪️ Each Othering Before 🤧 Time 🤧 Is Out
IDC NUTIN BOUT 'EM ......STRAIGHT LIKE DAT
1sttttt
Every relationship I had I bust up that fuel matrix . I always stood up to everyone of em including my mother 🧓🏾!! None of it works on me. I def caused a narc injury last relationship I had. I held my ground and refused to communicate and No,I don’t want u in my life and not even as a friend. They blocked me and I carried on with my life!!! Major Blow to that Narcs ego!! They will never come back cause they know I’m not having it!!! I shoal did❤ I love myself too much to take him back.
Dealing with narcs and being abused by them are serious matters. Please stop laughing or singing and stop begging to hit the Like button and Subscribe. Too much every single video you do that. I am OUT.
well don’t watch her videos it’s that simple. why are you trying to tell someone how to run their channel? the information she is giving is needed if you are that sensitive cause someone wants feedback on the videos they make out of their limited time on earth then make your own damn channel and run it how YOU choose to.
Ms. Telsha’s laughter and singing really uplifts me. Laughter through the pain is healing for me. You may want to embrace the laughter and singing. It definitely brings me joy and peace.🤷🏽♀️❤️🩹
Facts, Ms.Telsha, she still lurks, I still get the burner phone calls, and none of it works . We we're done, that's it ,3 years 5 months no contact she knows she can't come back that's why the hoover is less. Peace Ms.Telsha 💯💪🏿🙏🏿🫡
amezing❤