No More Mr Nice Guy - Dating Advice For Men w/ Dr. Robert Glover - The Fearless Man
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- 📚“Nice Guy Syndrome” is the number one affliction of men who struggle with women or relationships. It’s a form of manipulative codependency, it’s why IT SEEMS LIKE “nice guys finish last,” and Dr. Robert Glover wrote the bestselling book on it: No More Mr. Nice Guy.
In this video masterclass, Dr. Glover and FEARLESS founder Brian Begin talk all about Nice Guy Syndrome and breaking free from it to live a more fulfilling life filled with great relationships, sex, and general success in life. The also offer dating advice for men.
Some of the highlights of the No More Mr. Nice Guy Masterclass:
3:00 What 's a nice guy and “nice guy seduction”
13:20 Why write No More Mr. Nice Guy
27:17 How Glover developed skills to have a good relationship with women
34:01 The Law of Polarity and the importance of feeling uncomfortable
45:10 Decision making & why he decided to get married again
51:43 Why many men have an urge for younger women
57:24 Why sex sometimes becomes boring and when she's “not in the mood”
1:08:24 Rejection and emotional neediness
1:18:59 Why it's absolutely necessary to have help
1:30:20 Abandonment issues and setting a hard boundary with women
1:39:48 New book Dating Essentials For Men and other things he’s got going on
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Guys, the setting boundaries part is extremely important. I set boundaries, but the girl lowered them and I (blinded by love) did not notice. As a result, I lost respect not only for myself but also from her. I am back to full time in love with myself, and will never make this mistake again. No matter how cute, and awesome she is, make sure you get the respect you deserve!
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It was never the womans fault, you cant blame people for some you are not doing, read no more mr nice Guy
@@salvatorepillitteri6552 It is not even about " the woman ", it is about never to expect your other to take emotional responsibility for you.
That just should never be expected, which directly leads to set boundaries to preserve a stable position in any relationship, may it be romantic or platonic.
Without that, you loose your own course, and are dependant on the other one, which is a guaranty for failure, because you both are only human.
With this always in mind, you not only prevent shit from happening, you work through it in honesty and en par with another if problems occur.
Which always generates respect, and if not, is an indicator for immaturity of the other person, and how him / her has to learn their part. See ?
What are boundaries?
Love this guys! He's a legend. Reminds me how young I am how long I will be able to live the epic life I want. I just turned 30 and I don't have the same hangups that most do about it but I admit that I do have some and I have achieved some great things but I haven't achieved the financial goals I thought I would at this point and I feel behind sometimes. It's great to be reminded of what is real!
There might be a zillion programs, but this one is the best.
Thank you!
Love all the men who read and study themselves for their own benefit. It’s a super turn on for those of us women also on the path of self discovery. Yea for your conversation and work.
Hey Fearless, this episode hit me so today I went to Barnes and Noble and purchased the last book they had in store. For me, life has been about pleasing everyone. I am a fulltime filmmaker, I rent out movie theater's and host film festivals of other filmmakers films, and I do love it but my entire 10 years of this industry it's been all about making everyone happy and I go home and I question why I am slightly depressed. And when it comes to girls I have always had a lot of "friends" but never girlfriend.. So far, I've read 30 pages of Robert's book and it is shattering old beliefs and charging me with hope. I'm 28 and excited to have a better sex life, love and work life. Thanks for putting out this content. To be honest I used to be jealous of you man haha like, when I first watched your stuff because I am bad with approaching woman..but my old mindset is not me anymore. Apologize for judging..One day I'm going to your seminar and will be a raving testimonial.
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You're pleasing others... not giving. Oh!... the nuance. Jesus is King
I just finished reading the book cover to cover and my life is changing by the day dramatically.. I already feel like a brand new person. My affirmation written in my bathroom mirror is:
-The only person I need to please is myself
- my needs are important
Before this book I never thought my needs were important. Rarely eat healthy, skip the gym, constantly thinking about what girls think of me from their perspective, wondering if I say this what if it "offends" someone ...then they wont like me"
Even my clients and friends I was always thinking about pumping their state up, laugh at their jokes when I know they really werent that funny...little shit like that..
But now, I've been slowly speaking my mind, humoring myself, speaking up in group settings and voicing my opinion and I been loving the experience and people seem to love me even more.
My dad purchased the book and is now on his way to recovery. I'm reading this again cover to cover and taking the breaking free activities more seriously
Thanks again for having Dr Robert on your show, because of people like you who want to inspire other dudes, my life is better
Hey ,what's your state now ? It's been 3 years since you realized what needs to be done ,any success yet?
Really good conversation. I am amazed it has only 55 comments and few views. This is so long and deep and it is very enlightening. I know Glover stuff for a long time, but it is such a relief from all the other dating and relationship advice.
I am amazed how Glover had taken his GF to task over her not messaging for a day. This is usually where they all go you need to take that cool and STFU and next her. But he went and said "we need to talk", "say what you need to say" but "don't do that [silent treatment] with me", and "you are on probation". Great. No games. Just straight-forward.
Such a great interview and it confirms so many experiences I have had over the past few years. From not coming to contracts and leaning towards younger women. It's so good to hear that.
This video is gold for me!!!
Man that was a fantastic story of him settling boundaries!
Excellent information and interview
Has anyone had the issue of moving out of the nice guy syndrome and taking better actions but still sort of feeling like you’re being a “nice guy” even if you aren’t?
Yep, I have that feeling. Its like you STILL dont want to piss people off, even if a little. Sometimes you have to do it for you, no matter how little (trust me, it is very little) you piss people off, upside is they respect you more. DOWNSIDE: they Learn how to start respecting you. Truth: if they do not stick around by their own choice, they did YOU a favor.
Dr Robert Glover's work on his discovery is amazing 🏆👏 his book No More Mr Nice Guy is a life changer! Nice Guy Syndrome isn't as simple as it sounds.
His book is very powerful and eye opening
Just Thank You
I lisens and learning 😊💙
Thanks for your hard work, #lifeChanger
I'm from Ecuador - South America,
I'd like to meet you guys someday
This is very useful, you @the_fearless_man you sound like ed norton that's badass
Hi Brian,
I'm a nice guy at "his best".
I'm not from the US, i live in the middle east where the mentality is different out here especially with women.
do you think that the program would work for me ?
I don't understand why people have a problem with dope yet alcohol is fine
Intro music please... What is that
People tell me I need to read "No More Mr. Dickhead".
Hahaha Actually there is a form of nice guy syndrome that Dr. Glover talks about in the book where the nice guy is actually accepting the role of "the dickhead" out of the same fear of abandonment as the other type of nice guy. It's the same thing because we play a role socially out of fear of abandonment. - Andrew, TFM Team
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This is an amazing video!
Clubs are completely different from the old days I felt so stupid the first time I asked a girl to dance and she made sure I knew. I discovered how it’s done and You will not believe me but apparently your not supposed to ask or say anything you just walk up put your junk all up in there behind and grind like it’s normal witch is weird and anywhere else is assault but in the club it’s called we’re dancing now. Or they walk up on you do a jumping 180 spin and plop there butt on your junk and your just dancing now I do like it but it’s kinda weird.
wait, what's wrong with building birdhouses?
Everything!!! lol
Robert Glover is The True Rizz God
I find it difficult to find a happy medium, it's either fuck the planet or be nice
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I may have missed it but I do have a question if you don’t master bait or have any sexual relationships no nothing it will only last for so long because eventually it just fires off in your sleep no wet dreams or sexy dreams and it won’t even be erected you just feel that finishing sensation open your eyes then you have to get changed. So you have to relieve the pressure at least twice a week so that doesn’t happen and my question is odd but Is that normal??
All kinds of things like this will happen. Also, consider masturbating without ejaculation. It takes discipline but like a muscle it will help keep it strong.
Landon, True Courage
Omg! I was all in till you started lying about blueballs not existing cause that really hurt’s the pain grows builds up and when you have to finish it yourself it’s like twisting an ankle shooting out hurts real bad it’s a definite fact does exist. But I have to move on now
I like Robert glover but if a man makes decisions based on his heart you can face some serious issues when dealing with women. What’s the most loving thing to do is nice and all but when it comes to big decisions like marriage using your logical brain is better than thinking with your heart. To many men think with there heart that’s the problem
hes a goofy boomer, hes not right about everything
But what if my heart is saying don't get married and my logical brain is telling me to try married?!? Lmao just do what makes you happy gentlemen
If we were nice guys what about the rest of other guys ?
Thanks for your question Austin. Can you be a little more specific? I'm not sure I understand. - Andrew, The Fearless Man
Ugh. What bullshit. Discovered Glover on another piece and was interested in what he has to say. Got a quarter of the way through this piece and realized that the whole thing got clouded and mumbled up and turns the nice guy into an asshole. The three contracts at the beginning that Glover says is nonsense, I actually agree with. 1. if I am a good guy I will be liked and loved. I understand that it can put you in the friend zone, but I should be a good guy regardless of what gets you into bed. You just have to be cognizant of boundaries and how much. 2. give what you think others need and you get it back. That is wrong? In the perfect world you get what you give for goodness sake. Karma. this number 2 is just mumbo jumbo. 3. if I do everything right I will live a good calm life. He asks where is the rule book for this like it doesnt exist. Well one could look at the bible from a religious point of view or to make it easy, THE GOLDEN RULE. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. That is a good rule. If this guy doesnt even have a starting point of this is a total mystery, then he is doomed for Gods sake. no one on the planet thinks that if I do everything right nothing bad will happen to me. What a simpleton. Then you Fearless man rag on if man had a calm and problem free life man would be so unhappy. Are you kidding me? You guys talk like chicks. Lets have chaos, pain and strife and that makes life great. I have been divorced for 25 years after my wife of 17 years asked for a divorce and ALL I HAVE WANTED WAS PEACE SINCE. I have it and chaos is hell on earth unless you are having the best most intense loving sex of your life. Then you can put up with it a bit. You complicate it too much. As others have said, good guys subjugate themselves too much and elevate others too much in an unhealthy way. That is simping. Thats all. I could not bear to watch the rest of this nonsense.
I disagree with the part that says men don’t naturally want kids that just pull S !!!
I am 42, had many girl friends married once. I am at this point in my life, that pissing my girlfriends off is my favorite thing. Nothing mean or harmful but ill just say what i know hits her buttons. I am not getting married again or kids. So its I have nothing to lose. Ita actually fun. Lol
Most women are unhappy. Just sayin
Both guys have shaved heads and latino gf's hmmmm
There is nothing wrong with "nice guys" the real problem is women treat nice guys with disproportionate disrespect.
If you're a "nice guy" in that needy/put-all-of-your-value-in-her-approval-of-you kind of way, they *should* treat you with disrespect - that way you have a clue of the destructive pattern you're running in your life.
They treat you the way YOU LET THEM treat you. If you don't respect yourself, then women won't.
The type of nice guy he is talking about isn't really nice tho. And there life seems sucky asf
Dr. Glover sells course for 10 000$.
Huge crook red flag.
The question is whether he delivers $10k worth of value which he no doubt does as one of the most impactful figures in men's personal development. Some of our workshops at Fearless cost a lot more than that because they have that much impact on our client's lives. We wouldn't be in business if the workshops weren't worth the cost. I've personally made huge investments and stand by my choices. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@@TheFearlessMan
This looks like crooks that prey on broken men to extort the maximum amount of money possible. Preying on gullible or emotionally vulnerable people. How is the greed correlated with the impact of your clients ? Sound more like someone selling a rock that has ''energy'' in it : ''I bought one for 3489466735764786$ and it changed my life !'' ''You should buy the one that i sell, i've never regretted it.''
With membership, crooks have found a way to make a lot of money with minimum work since most of the work is on the client shoulders. The best part is with this kind of plans, if one fail, it's his fault.
Writing a book is a thing, but selling online courses at 10 000$+ is simply greedy.
The funny thing is most of thoses ''alpha'' gurus gained their alpha status and money by selling courses. They can say to women ''i teach men how to be men'' for status and since they took their money, ''look at that huge house and that ferrari. I'm such an alpha.''
The only reason you're still in business is because there will always be broken men to exploit. Especially in this sjw society.
@@Damesanglante That's a very cynical worldview man. I hope you'll be willing to start asking questions about your own beliefs at some point. We only grow when we investigate our beliefs to find out where they come from and decide consciously if they are benefiting our lives. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@@Damesanglante So how do you think things should be done?
@@TheFearlessMan
Keep in mind that i am only cynical on overpriced course, not the idea.
As for your question : Most coach pretend they don't need money and do that to help others. Then if you don't need money, why are your courses so high in prices ?
If the reason for high prices are the ''pseudo-market value'' and/or reputation, since many people think if something is costy, it must be good ? That leave me thinking lifecoaches are using this strategy.
Which is using a flaw in the humans that's stupid, based on feelings, market lies and trends.
Example : A Louis Vutton purse is nowhere as good in quality as the one made by a real leatherworker.
Imagine being a 12$/hour factory worker. Would you put all your savings in a shady youtube lifecoach channel ?
Such high prices could destroy a person's life as i'm sure not everyone taking courses are successful. Especially since many are already in a bad spot in their life. Coming back to your bad spot with -20 000$... Ouch.
Maybe personalized prices based on the person's budget would be a good idea. You don't even have to tell everyone.