This Hits Deep | First Time Reaction | Dax- To Be A Man

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  • Dax has been doing an amazing job lately covering topics that are rarely talked about. Props to Dax for putting these songs together and speaking up for other 🙏 Dax signed to Sony?? Now it makes sense why his songs are structured so well. Congrats!
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  • @Thatsdax
    @Thatsdax ปีที่แล้ว +340

    Man appreciate you for taking the tiime 🙏🏾 all love

    • @CliffBeatsOfficial
      @CliffBeatsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Man it’s my pleasure boss. Thank you for everything that you do. You know imma keep holding you down and pushing you message regardless. Blessings to you and your loved ones. Stay safe 🙏

    • @vivianwilliams2995
      @vivianwilliams2995 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🫶🏼

    • @jacksoncronin9540
      @jacksoncronin9540 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You killed it bro, this will change the world forever ❤

    • @Facts-over-Feelings.
      @Facts-over-Feelings. ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dax you the 🐐. At this, at rap, at everything.

    • @onscreen933
      @onscreen933 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      W Dax

  • @MrBoiseBomber
    @MrBoiseBomber ปีที่แล้ว +21

    As a son, father, and veteran and someone who's battled alcoholism and mental health issues; this song speaks volumes to me.

  • @teresahill7634
    @teresahill7634 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I meet my husband when I was 18 married at 19, he is a wonderful man and father. He will be a grandfather the end of the year and I know he will kickass at that too. All I can say is I love him❤.

  • @philliplambson9482
    @philliplambson9482 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dax is on “Knight Talk” saying that the guys working in the video are real workers in Kansas where this was filmed.

  • @silverdye7424
    @silverdye7424 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For all the men who need and deserve their flowers 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @robertkersten5231
    @robertkersten5231 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I felt this in my bones

  • @LazyGrey
    @LazyGrey ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thx Cliff, this song needs to be heard!!! Saying this as a woman. There's no need for anyone to be offended by the lyrics. Men deserve just as much as women to recieve society's acknowledgement and appreciation for who they are, for their contributions and for the sacrifices they make. We need to spread more awareness❤

    • @haidenlevan244
      @haidenlevan244 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where are woman like you at?😭

  • @achebwahs1111
    @achebwahs1111 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I've always been there to give my love unconditionally and did what it took to make sure my step daughters had a consistent and reliable adult in their life. Making sure they felt safe and that often meant bearing the brunt of a triggered partner whose life before me had been a revolving door of abusive cycles. I took it and took it and took some more. Better me than them and protecting two young girls was the only thing that matteted for over a decade. When they left so did I. I had to but the girls haven't forgotten. They live with their father now in another state, but they still send me messages telling me how much they love me and miss me and just want me to be happy . I miss them so much but our bond is forever. I finally can take a breath and think about what my life's going to look like now.

  • @kerrylewis2581
    @kerrylewis2581 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My Dad worked three jobs when my brother, sister, and I were young. I had no idea what he was going through at that time. It hit me hard in my middle twenties when I realized his sacrifices. I always loved him, but my love and respect for him grew as I matured and became a man. He's since passed, and there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about him and the role model he was. Beautiful song that makes me think and feel. In fact this might be my favorite from Dax.

  • @Carsandrealestate
    @Carsandrealestate ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🫡 to all the men out there 💗

  • @Muzik7872
    @Muzik7872 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Men have it so hard and so many women don't acknowledge or appreciate it. I watched my dad work himself into the ground. Now I see my brother and husband do it. Women's privilege is real. 😢❤

  • @BoldDreadman
    @BoldDreadman ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was so important to be said. So many things are considered as granted. We are all here for first time. Trying our best. I wish to be able to do more... I guess we all do... But dont put too much pressure on yourself... Everyone please try to stay positive. LOVE TO EVERYONE❤

  • @Tessimistic420
    @Tessimistic420 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Get up an get down with the sickness ❤️😘❤️ #Dax

  • @lesliprovince7354
    @lesliprovince7354 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ty for reacting to this ( I had sent you a DM - you are the only content producer who responds to every DM I send ). Dax is my favorite! I as a woman am not offended by this song, good men need to be appreciated. It works when a good woman and good man build a life together. ❤❤❤

  • @michellefarley7319
    @michellefarley7319 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This made me cry, and I am completely aware of everything he said. All the feminist, equality of outcome idiots, and all these down with the patriarchy, ignorant people, need to realize what that will mean in the end. It’s not a Buffet, you don’t get to pick and choose which part do you want in which part you don’t. Everyone is put on this earth for a reason, and it is not to tear each other down. Which is what society seems to be pushing for now. You can’t put the blame all the faults on one group we have an accountability issue, not anything else this victim mentality needs to go. It’s not Cute it’s not healthy and it’s not productive, and it will change nothing for the better.

  • @Brandon-mx3zx
    @Brandon-mx3zx ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think most fellas can relate to this song. good to see ya, brother. hope you're feeling better! 👊

  • @darkblondewatch8652
    @darkblondewatch8652 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow So Emotional So Real 😥

  • @anthonyholden-te9tz
    @anthonyholden-te9tz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We never talked but, I love you like a brother you're good at what you do and I appreciate you. ❤

  • @elicia93
    @elicia93 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I'm not even a man and I love this song so much. I think it's such an important message, just like other messages he puts out there. Everyone deserves to be heard and understood, no matter what kind of creature you are. It shouldn't be a man vs woman thing, we all deserve to show and feel everything just the same. He's an amazing artist. I'm glad to see you checking him out ❤

    • @therealistshow9335
      @therealistshow9335 ปีที่แล้ว

      You missed the whole point of the song 😂

    • @elicia93
      @elicia93 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@therealistshow9335 I don't think so? I only made the man vs woman comment in response to something Cliff said. To me this song shows what men really deal with on the inside but our society has conditioned them to hide it or just work your days away till you die. And that makes me sad. I wish it wasn't that way. I'm sympathizing here. We all deserve love. We all deserve to be heard. Just because someone is a man shouldn't make it any different. That's what I meant.

    • @therealistshow9335
      @therealistshow9335 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elicia93 your right but noone cares about us, look when I was young I cried because I have depression and gusse what my dad said? Man up and get over it, if a was a girl everyone would be like it's ok I'm here for you

    • @therealistshow9335
      @therealistshow9335 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elicia93 it's just the world we live in, you care today tomorrow it's back to business lol

    • @jonneateh5815
      @jonneateh5815 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@therealistshow9335just because some people don't care doesn't mean nobody does.

  • @peterbyrne-we2rr
    @peterbyrne-we2rr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi there I think it’s brilliant what you do I’m a man that massively suffers with my mental health just wanted to say thanks for giving men a platform

    • @meganmiller8232
      @meganmiller8232 ปีที่แล้ว

      I as a woman would like to thank you for commenting....we ALLLLL gotta come together in this mental fight!!!! I wish you peace on your journey!!!

  • @plottsy
    @plottsy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's funny how you mentioned about someone going through something. This is my first time watching your channel. Just within the last 10 days I've lost everything; my wife, house, both jobs, car, and sobriety - after 21 months. I'm so lost right now. I left Baltimore 7 years ago because of my addiction problem, and moved to Frederick. Now, I've moved back to Baltimore to be near my family, and I'm scared to death to be back in the city.
    I don't know how I've lost everything at once. I feel so empty inside. I'm scared! I'm 44, and I'm tired of starting over. Thanks for caring brother 🙏

    • @ambera.7668
      @ambera.7668 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry you're going through all that. Hang in there and take care of yourself. Sending you lots of love. ❤️

  • @dylanmiller3962
    @dylanmiller3962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cliff I've been waiting on this and DAX drop this song thank you

  • @gatornation1209
    @gatornation1209 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dax is a true artist. This was amazing

  • @johnwakely3803
    @johnwakely3803 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    CB your right man! I turned to Substances personally, that didn’t work out to well. My living death was the divorce losing the kids etc. Now the recovery story is real and that’s my new reality! 60 days today!!!

  • @Papabogs1020
    @Papabogs1020 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this song means a lot to me...as a son who looked up to his father, I now understand what my father feels ...he once cried in front of me cause of th e fact that he's unable to send me to college......it broke my heart cause for me, he already done too much, not complaining....so to all men out there, stay strong cause we all understand you..

  • @erinhawks6602
    @erinhawks6602 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This song is so beautiful and needed to be released. Lately it seems that toxic masculinity has been pushed but the truth is most women truly appreciate love our strong husbands, sons, fathers and other men in our lives. We know that they do so much to take care of their families and feel like the weight of the world on their shoulders. Behind every great man is a great woman praying for him each and every day, and doing what she can do to make his life just a little bit easier, even if it is only for five minutes a day. Thanks for reacting to this song. #DAX

  • @angiedavis3200
    @angiedavis3200 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a very independent and blunt women, this did open my eyes to maybe how my husband may feel at times.

  • @jeremymitchem327
    @jeremymitchem327 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My wife recently found this sond and showed it to me. She said she was sorry and I felt bad she felt bad for me. I'm glad Dax made this song. She hugged me so tight and it was incredible. I do what I do because I got babies that aren't babies anymore. I've had hard times, I've said harsh words I've totally broken down and ran away. I'm so happy you're still there for me, babe.

    • @fammyno6752
      @fammyno6752 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I did the same for my husband. This song opened my eyes too.

  • @kimbo3468
    @kimbo3468 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a Masculinist female i love this song so much. My daddy was my whole heart the only person i always knew loved me and he passed from a massive heart attack at 52yrs old and i know it was all the weight he carried on his shoulders from the age of 17 when his oldest daughter was born sick and he saw her turn blue in the incubator cot ahe was laying in. Women broke him. He loved so deeply it broke his heart 😢

  • @blaircannon4269
    @blaircannon4269 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dax you just don't miss he always brings the truth in his music thank you again for all your positive music Dax 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @donavanmills1776
    @donavanmills1776 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Glory be to Jesus
    Shout out to all real true hardworking men

  • @donaldhaselrig5792
    @donaldhaselrig5792 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im addicted to this song. Hurts but helps also. But a song like this proves the point if it is argued against, bcuz it shows exactly what he says, no1 cares. A woman's emotions r taken seriously. All these r facts, nothing to argue. 💪🏼💪🏼 Appreciate u cliff, definitely 1 of my favorite reactors

  • @charlesbryson7443
    @charlesbryson7443 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Men don’t get their first flowers until their funeral”.
    Not that I care for flowers, but the statement has more meaning than people realize:

  • @erock10
    @erock10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    DAX hitting us hard again. My life was a one way trip to prison or death, I had a son, three weeks after he was born I flipped my work truck due a broken axle. I was ejected out of the van, broke my back, fractured my skull, broke 14 ribs, and collapsed my lung. 86 stitches in my head 54 in my back for the rods. It changed how I look at the world, my life. That was 9 years ago, I didn't have then. I knew I could not let my family down,and now I have a daughter, I own my home outright and own 2 vehicles. My back hurts everyday but I don't say much about it, I just keep moving forward because it's my job to provide and take care of the ones I love. I hope they can see one day what they really mean to me. We just have to be strong and make the right decisions and we can find happiness. I'm more than happy. Thanks for your reactions

  • @BOLOGNAINTHEHOUSE
    @BOLOGNAINTHEHOUSE ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This one hit different as a father.

  • @MoneyMicTheWolfMaster
    @MoneyMicTheWolfMaster ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yo Cliff, hope you feel better. This piece from Dax is definitely what’s needed in this day and age fr

  • @linda_smilesrfree2744
    @linda_smilesrfree2744 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was such a strong reaction with such heartfelt truth. This truth had me crying.
    Please "men" we women hear your heart, and your internal pain. Thank you, GOD, for touching Dax to bring this to the forefront of our minds. I hope more men will share their emotions, and their hearts concerns. ❤🙏🏾🕊

  • @girsmom
    @girsmom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My husband used to have a hard time talking about stuff military ,says suck it up ,we went through so much this song made me cry ! our 32nd anniversary is in 2 weeks we’ve walked through the fire and still together at times we both had multiple jobs the last 8 years he worked overseas and I / we saw him once a year due to my health I can’t work and I appreciate all he’s done 💜

  • @weareallthesame
    @weareallthesame ปีที่แล้ว

    That was heavy. Droppin' some truths. It ain't easy being a man and it really does seem like no one wants to hear it. The best we get is laughter.

  • @raymondthurber7689
    @raymondthurber7689 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me as a man my self confidence was shattered by never having my father there for me. He walked out before I was born. 30 years later I found out my little girl has a mild case of autism. So I am spending hours of researching trying to pile a folder of multiple people with autism that had a dream & got it. Regardless they were famous or not. Because I know this world will tell her. She can't do this or that just because she has a disability. I just hope I can build up her confidence that I struggle with.

  • @Mommajarritos
    @Mommajarritos ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I sent this to my son and son in laws. 🤍🫶🏼😭 I love Dax SO much! His music is so moving!

  • @MikeAndrews-gq6yt
    @MikeAndrews-gq6yt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost both my parents in the last 5 months. I lost my wife's heart a couple of years ago. We're still together but it's a shell of what we've shared fore 20 years. I faved the death of my parents alone. She had no comfort to give me. I'm here now only for my children. I'm deep down in a hole and can't find my way out. I love this song and you're reaction was great. Thank you

  • @gordonellison8437
    @gordonellison8437 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a 61 old man who work hard to provide and lost my self in alcohol and drugs. Still struggle now on disability smoking to take the pain away.

  • @SharlenaHaddad-uk8sk
    @SharlenaHaddad-uk8sk ปีที่แล้ว

    Dax your awesome..let's goooooooooooooo period

  • @bonkey12
    @bonkey12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such an important message. Thank you dax for speaking up.

  • @dperc6740
    @dperc6740 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This song is butter.. No real woman say s^%t about this song.. they cry like men do hearing this

  • @briandodson7659
    @briandodson7659 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent reaction. Thank you

  • @AzzekaTheRealOne
    @AzzekaTheRealOne ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Men.....you are appreciated♥♥

  • @BPDProductions-fd9fe
    @BPDProductions-fd9fe ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great reaction. Longtime fan commenting from my new reaction channel. You and Knox have been my main inspiration

  • @danielrickard4092
    @danielrickard4092 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey cliff beats I love your reactions and you do a good job and your a awesome person keep up the awesome reactions

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a widow of the hardest working man I have every known, who died at 45. He did commercial fence work, having 7 herniated disks, still working 14+ hour days. Not everyone moves on to someone else. I choose to stay faithful as his wife and refuse to have any other man in his spot in my life, or especially in our children's life. He was the only man who deserves to be their dad.

    • @blessd24
      @blessd24 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's okay if you were to find another companion someday, but I appreciate your stance still.

  • @GGCHILLN702
    @GGCHILLN702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's Dax ❤️. We Are The Label ❤️ 🔥

  • @blondie8167
    @blondie8167 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It breaks my heart If women take offense to this song. I've vowed to break this cycle with mine.
    I agree boys are taught crying is a sign of weakness!

  • @joshuastickley2796
    @joshuastickley2796 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dax is legendary

  • @karolynswete
    @karolynswete ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! ❤😊

  • @jodiegregory1977
    @jodiegregory1977 ปีที่แล้ว

    No WORDS....

  • @udayshah7205
    @udayshah7205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was the one bugging u to check this out😂

  • @bretmannix304
    @bretmannix304 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate your reaction.
    Men lucky enough to have friends open up to their boys where they can be safe and supported. 99% of the time if a man is emotional to his woman, he loses respect, attractiveness, and it is used against him whenever there is an argument of she is having a bad day. She also typically disparages him to all of her girlfriends as well.
    Men typically are not taught to not express emotion, we learn by experience. Sadly, a lot of that experience is trauma inflicted by women we trusted with out vulnerability.

  • @-xaxtragicxendx-
    @-xaxtragicxendx- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Terrible day for rain isn't it fellas.....

  • @KingNubs1
    @KingNubs1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great reaction I'm 35 have tons of health issues 31 surgeries so far cancer in 2011 2 amputations depression anxiety PTSD this shit not easy can't wait till God finally calls me home

  • @Wickit96
    @Wickit96 ปีที่แล้ว

    @8:03 felt like you were speaking to me directly, it's almost 1am here in SoCal and I'm a logistics manager and truck driver, just made my first delivery for the night when you said that and I was like damn...
    This one definitely hit! Honestly I saw Stevie night post it and I figured it was going to be a different meaning of the word man. Kind of song but this was made and portrayed beautifully. I know you're trying to pick your words carefully but I feel like if it's a topic you feel strong about, which I know you do, just speak openly to say what you need to, you're just a messenger brother 💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @mytm1k3
    @mytm1k3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm an addict and emotionally not available..a divorce and lost it all but this song helps me..great reaction from you

  • @pauldeangelis8506
    @pauldeangelis8506 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great review of a song. I knew this song was different. Your the first person I found who spoke on it. Thank you.

  • @amyf9835
    @amyf9835 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved the reaction😊

  • @jamesbench2032
    @jamesbench2032 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this... Seen only you and Knox for this one..

  • @abxdk
    @abxdk ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this reaction and great points at the end 🙏🏼

  • @paranoiaaa4126
    @paranoiaaa4126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for that reaction. Its a tough song.

  • @Jodie_Tea
    @Jodie_Tea ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd love to know a world where nobody is how they are really feeling maybe we wouldn't feel so alone.

  • @honeybun8630
    @honeybun8630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song is going to make a global impact ❤

  • @JohnJohnson-yg6gs
    @JohnJohnson-yg6gs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When this came out. I was in a really bad way. Couldn't find a job. Was not good. And then my now ex-wife came to me and
    said it was over. I listened to this so many times. It hurt but helped at the same time.

  • @aixmhros
    @aixmhros ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bruh,
    we are always down with the sickness.-

  • @sahreinstein5112
    @sahreinstein5112 ปีที่แล้ว

    i subscribed to ur channel because u love seeing others grow
    one love #DAX

  • @kitty10141
    @kitty10141 ปีที่แล้ว

    Algo bump

  • @_griffin82_46
    @_griffin82_46 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that, from what I've seen, the women have been reacting with love and almost apologies. It's that thing where we don't see it till it's pointed out plainly. We can't fix a problem we don't know exists. The me too movement had to happen but, like the whitch trials 400 years ago, a lot of great men got unjustly caught up in it and now we need to bring it back to center. People of all genders suck but we need to treat people as individuals not in generalities.

  • @StephanieEMT16
    @StephanieEMT16 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t understand the new mentality that men have to step DOWN to instead of step UP to make anyone else happy. We should be fighting for equality in everything. Not one over the other. I don’t understand that mentality of how that is remotely going to help. I think we need to remember what equality really means. We should be lifting each other up, not tearing anyone down. Putting any group of people whether gender, religion (believe system), race or sexual orientation lower than others. That’s what equality is. And Dax is sending an amazing message that we need to look at this too! Great reaction and great job on Dax for calling attention to how men REALLY feel a lot of times.

  • @dennishicks8962
    @dennishicks8962 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to tell you that this made me a subscriber out the gate. I will share and tell others. I have kept my feelings in my whole life. I have never brought my inner demons to the surface. I buried them years ago. I make sure my daughters grandkids and wife are now and always will be taken care of. I work 7-12’s on the road fly home on the red eye and then drive to my house change and go hit the job. I own a commercial roofing company where everyone thinks I’m a millionaire but they have no clue. I let the blue beans go cold turkey 12 months ago and will not look back. I feel better and getting better but it is tough. Thank you for this!!

  • @greglecig5549
    @greglecig5549 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re both good men. Thanks for doing what you do.

  • @debbieholoquist2059
    @debbieholoquist2059 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't watch this Dax singing this without have a couple tears. I've seen my husband cry, and it just make me love him more. Of course it also hurts to see it because I know it takes a lot for him to cry.

  • @user-cq7yb1gs5q
    @user-cq7yb1gs5q ปีที่แล้ว

    this resonated so much, the son is my horizon part gave me goose bumps in particular. Never had my scalp thingle the way it did, there is something there in the song worth delving into.
    perhaps its because its the unspoken being so exposed though visuals and vocals, hard to digest it all in one take.

  • @ImDoneRunning
    @ImDoneRunning ปีที่แล้ว

    Ladies, Media, World!!!! What are we doing to our men? We are making our men feel less than. They provide, but they do so much more than that! We need to let them know they mean so much to us before we are at their funeral. Tell them today that you appreciate them! Tell them to talk to you! Men, we love & appreciate you. Seek someone to talk to if you need it! Tell your wife or girlfriend that you want to talk.

  • @dannyshaw2905
    @dannyshaw2905 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 46 year old I suffer with ptsd , just split 2 months ago with my mrs . Everything I did wasn’t good enough . We have a son of 4 years old which I ain’t seen for 2 months and I’m dying inside but as a man I have to just get on with it .

  • @Blonde82red
    @Blonde82red ปีที่แล้ว

    Breaking Benjamin “Dance with the Devil “🖤🖤🖤

  • @babymama406
    @babymama406 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a woman and I find a lot of truth in this song. It’s not men vs. women. When women are like “oh, well, women have it worse because….” that only shuts the conversation down and makes the men not want to speak on it. Which is why the song is truthful to begin with.

  • @leann60
    @leann60 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @dylanmiller3962
    @dylanmiller3962 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is kind of the problem when it comes to men pressing their feelings and emotions. And it's obvious if you look at the comments and watch the reactions to the song I haven't seen a single man react to this song and comment on it without first addressing women we are so conditioned to ignore our own problems that even when there's something specifically addressing them we feel the need to Blossom over or don't give them the focus they need because we have to include other people and that's not necessary

  • @user-do9rg2cu7k
    @user-do9rg2cu7k 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If a war broke out, would men expect your partner take your place? NO!!! You wouldn't, so it's our job, without the what the women did in WWII, men couldn't do the job, it's a primeval instinct and men cannot escape it. The song speaks the truth.

  • @SynergEbooks
    @SynergEbooks ปีที่แล้ว

    I tend to agree. But speaking as a woman who lost her husband only 3 weeks ago... it wasn't what he provided FINANCIALLY that mattered to me and his children. It was what he provided EMOTIONALLY as well. Why do we not give men enough credit for creating a safe haven for their families? Beautiful reaction.

  • @jacks9624
    @jacks9624 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not a gender issue, but it is an issue.
    Thanks for the reaction.
    Love and support for all the brothers

  • @jeremy3311
    @jeremy3311 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dealing will all but addiction so I can’t just be to high to feel all the time. This song explains the reasons I’ve been depressed for years and have so much anxiety against meeting women. Everything in my life has been provided to me conditionally after age 14-15 and the feeling that it’s unconditional for anyone else makes me physically I’ll and nauseous. Had to make my own way when I was young and wanted toys or digital currency, I was a game modeler slaving away for just a couple hundred dollars at 14-15 afterwards I ran a TH-cam channeI (16-17) gaining 4K subscribers a month before I quit due to depression (EggyBoiled) because both my parents were to poor from having cancer in the early 2000s. The immense pressure when everyone is poor around you is real. I feel betrayed by the world, evolution is obviously to blame but what can you do.
    And here I am reaching out so what’s up.
    3:52

  • @Alex-tx2uv
    @Alex-tx2uv ปีที่แล้ว

    ****Rant in coming****
    Even as an (Asian) incoming college student, this hits deep, may not be money I'm providing but grades and hopes that I WOULD be able to provide money. I understand that I'm blessed with the opportunity to study and somewhat set my path but sometimes I ponder if it's even worth doing all this just to keep working in the future, I aim to provide for my mother and friends seeing as they are the few people that give me reason to live, but when I was recommended to change courses to learn (from Accounting to Nursing) just to secure a high pay I was really hit hard, the former was my calling and the other was the go to option to make a living, I don't detest nursing, hell I'm even interested in it but it wasn't what I enjoyed and was willing to do as a job, the pressure that other's well being are on your shoulders and that your never going at your own pace? I'd collapse just imagining doing that, all in all this song just cuts deep and helps let out all of that bottled up emotion we men have, thank god we have songs like these

  • @ianshirreffs5604
    @ianshirreffs5604 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should do Dax- Dr. Dre. ft. Snoop Dogg "Still D.R.E." remix. It's 🔥

  • @larka742
    @larka742 ปีที่แล้ว

    For people in the stoneage

  • @onepunch9485
    @onepunch9485 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a man, I always feel like I'm replaceable, whether it's work or family.
    The truth is when you tell your friends about a girl, they ask if she's cute.
    But when a woman tells her friends, they always ask what he's does for a living.
    We all feel like our guard is up all the time.
    It takes a toll on us.

  • @Angus4277
    @Angus4277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is not a man vs woman thing, but I feel men do not get the support that they deserve and need. So this song is needed.

  • @danielharry1075
    @danielharry1075 ปีที่แล้ว

    So bloody sad but so bloody true. Yet we men NEVER value a woman in what she can provide. We'll take her and love her like queen even if she's as broke as they come. Look, like you said it's not a men vs women thing but it's so true, scary even.

  • @thomasl.4482
    @thomasl.4482 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re not allowed to feel, just deal. Even your closest love will look at you differently to show any weakness at all. Smh even writing this is like, besides another father or man with responsibilities, who gives a shit? We struggle in silence and then most of us just…fade into the background. Is it any wonder why it’s usually a man that makes a horrible headline? They just wanted someone to hear them.

  • @william53519
    @william53519 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're most likely aware, but if you're not, he has released a new song called a real man.....his new song.is just as deep and impactful as this song, if not more so.

  • @lisa.hennessey19
    @lisa.hennessey19 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate how men feel like they can't express themselves. I'm a single mom working full time and being mom and dad. Mu days are long and hard. I put in the work hours and hold down the household. I KNOW I'm a damn warrior and stronger than strong. I come from domestic violence. But I know there are good men out there. And we all need to give ourselves grace and feel empowered to be who we are and feel our feelings. There are good women out there who appreciate that. And we are usually the ones who have been abused in some way but we still have empathy to humans (probably why we are so easily abused).
    I appreciate good men. I'm raising my 14 year old son to embrace and feel every emotion ans know its ok. I'm good doing life on my own bc i just don't want to be used and abused again, but I know there are still good men out there. I'm just now ok doing this on my own. No man will ever hurt me or my kids again nor will I ever rely on a man again. I got it.
    Bur to tou good men out there, thank you. I hope I'm raising my son to be one as well.

  • @wesleyk.8376
    @wesleyk.8376 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's a crying shame we have to worry about "gender issues". This is how it FUCKING IS. Thanks for the vid, man - my heart resonates.

  • @sph1nkter
    @sph1nkter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey cliff love your channel, wondering if you're going to react to "To Be a Man" mega remix?