@donaldjohnson-e8f the commentary was helpful and for me safety was involved so it was required in my case, my ex was committing so much sexual Infidelity while refusing to provide and not allowing me access to the car or to work either while telling me to get a job while he was doing cocaine secretly, cheating, physically abusing me, abusing my child and I in various ways, putting my child in physical danger on many occasions in many ways, and traumatizing my child with his behavior and was a terrible example and unsafe, abusive person, so it was very helpful for me to heat some of this even with the differences that are present
It's kind of a same / same thing. I don't think you can lose your salvation. But I question whether someone who is okay with that behavior is truly saved.
@@arkikali5632 I agree with you. Salvation is not an off and on daily decision- when we accept Christ by faith and repent of our sins we are forever washed in the blood of Christ. When he die on the cross he cover all sins not just some. Once you accept Christ as your savior you can't loose it scripture makes that very clear: John Chapter 10:28-29 28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand. 29 My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand. We have to remember that every day we have to choose Christ because we still have flesh side of us even though we are covered in his blood- that's why the scriptures says in Matthew 7:20 “Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.”
A good friend of mine explained it to me similarly. I grew up in a holiness denomination (well, it still is, I would say, but it doesn't have the legalistic overtones I remember as a kid), and the friend grew up Baptist. Many say they're Christian because of upbringing or some measure of attendance, bit without the internal determination to follow Christ, especially to the submission of self. I believe therein is the key element in the discussion: were they truly saved before? In the light of "I am convinced neither. . . . Nothing can separate me from the love of Christ" eternal security has it's strongest evidence. Though the element I have considered is all those mentioned in the passage (and left out as I don't remember the order and such) were external forces. Choosing to follow Jesus is an active decision, and could one perchance chose to leave. Ultimately, for me, it is best to live my utmost to stay as close to Jesus as I can, lest I start down a path that lead me away. Discussions such as in the video also lead me to err on the side of caution - not to the discouragement of those who love departed family who have 'backslidden', but to the encouragement of leading a life in Jesus footsteps.
Not once did I hear from these three men’s mouths what God wants for the woman and her soul. These are actual souls in this marriage. If we believe that, we have to advise based from that POV. Honestly, the wife needs to seek the Holy Spirit and his peace for her in this season. P*rn is THAT bad, and can be a complete deal breaker in the Christian marriage. It’s really dependent on what you believe God is calling you to as the other half of this equation. Let’s always restore women to their faith and their Heavenly Father in these situations.
Sounds like he has narcissism. I know a lot of people say that and I've dealt with some narcissistic people. He sounds like that. And if he is, all we can do is pray for her.
@TheNinjapancake14 what that man said to his wife gave it all the way so the most we can do is pray. God gives her the strength one way or the other and that she doesn't get broken from this.
Whether or not to divorce him is her choice to make after spending time in prayer and counseling with elders. Her husband sounds unrepentant and selfish. I personally don't hold to OSAS, but all my Christian brothers that I have discussed that with would never use that as a license to sin, nor would they condone someone else using it that way. I fear her desire to try to witness to him by staying with him will not end well. He is justifying his sin instead of dealing with it. It sounds like he is too far gone for her to do anything. I fear only experiencing consequences will be effective at this point.
So you think you can lose your salvation? But, you just haven't yet am i right? If you could lose your salvation, then you would. We all would. No one will make it to heaven if it's up to us. But, it's not if you are saved nothing can take that away from you.
@@endtimesarehere1322 Im undecided on the issue but "If you could lose your salvation, then you would." why do you say that? What you are essentially saying is, if you could stop believing you would. Why couldnt someone stop believing? And why couldnt many people stay believers? We are saved by grace through faith. We have to believe, its up to us to seek for the truth and evidence to be able to believe We have to give Jesus a chance to be able to believe. If this is not the case, how come God doesnt save everyone. Bible explicitly states that God wants to save everyone, and if what you say is true its only in Gods hands and we cant do anything, then we have a contradiction. God wants to save everyone yet he doesnt, how do you explain this?
@endtimesarehere1322 I come from a more Free Will Baptist position, which is an Arminian position. We have salvation so long as we are in Christ. However, we can choose to abandon Him and become an apostate. If one were to die in that state, his/her salvation is forfeit. Sinning alone doesn't forfeit one's salvation, but living in unrepentant sin opens the door to apostasy.
@@joojotinfrom my knowledge the latter part is Calvinism. The false doctrine that it’s up to God who is saved and who goes to hell and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
If she is sat down with Biblical elders of a congregation, you best believe they aren’t gonna minimize it. Those are the kinds of conversations they don’t want to have to have because of how serious the situation is. I’m sure that women can have some good input to, but, not to talk down to women, they think more emotionally than logically
By your response to the video, you’re proving my point. You are upset with the idea of adultery, rightfully so, but are immediately responding out of anger, not trying or seemingly willing to try to salvage what’s left. If the man will repent, it can be a beautiful marriage.
@@stevenhusted4085 Ive been brought up in the church, been in a church all my life, dads a pastor. My best friend at the time her husband had cheated with over 5 different women, sex apps on his phone ( he was a youth leader) and believe me THAT was minimized with the elders of the church. A ' prophet ' that is very well known online, has confessed to ME for sleeping with most of his congregation and to another friend confessed to sleeping with prostitutes - he didnt get deplatformed ONCE! That was made a secret his life style of sin!! Through out his affairs etc. Even a Hillsong leader that i know was sleeping with women i know. I dont mean this in a condescending way, your still young - at least from your profile pitcher. Im over 15 years older from what i can see and ive seen alot! Trust me I dont speak from emotion ITS DEFENTLY Minimziled. A women will always be able to emphathise with a women and men will often emphasise with men. Hence why its important to always have women in the church on the team of elderse. You can say women are more emotional yet i dont see the prisons overflowing with women who have lost control over their emotions and killed someone, or raped someone - thats usually teh downfall for men. Over history men have thrown their whole careers and families in the bin for a moment of lust /adultery - If that isn't emotional then my love what is? A TOTAL LACK of logic and ALL emotional. 90% OF CHRISTIAN women or women in general have a zero tolerance to cheating and so does God!
@@stevenhusted4085 Ive been brought up in the church, been in a church all my life, dads a pastor. My best friend at the time her husband had cheated with over 5 different women, sex apps on his phone ( he was a youth leader) and believe me THAT was minimized with the elders of the church. A ' prophet ' that is very well known online, has confessed to ME for sleeping with most of his congregation and to another friend confessed to sleeping with prostitutes - he didnt get deplatformed ONCE! That was made a secret his life style of sin!! Through out his affairs etc. Even a Hillsong leader that i know was sleeping with women i know. I dont mean this in a condescending way, your still young - at least from your profile pitcher. Im over 15 years older from what i can see and ive seen alot! Trust me I dont speak from emotion ITS DEFENTLY Minimziled. A women will always be able to emphathise with a women and men will often emphasise with men. Hence why its important to always have women in the church on the team of elderse. You can say women are more emotional yet i dont see the prisons overflowing with women who have lost control over their emotions and killed someone, or raped someone - thats usually teh downfall for men. Over history men have thrown their whole careers and families in the bin for a moment of lust /adultery - If that isn't emotional then my love what is? A TOTAL LACK of logic and ALL emotional. 90% OF CHRISTIAN women or women in general have a zero tolerance to cheating and so does God!
he doesn't think it's ground for divorce? would it feel the same if it was the wife who was unfaithful? God thinks so....God hate divorce but he had to allow bevause men are wicked.
My wife cheated on me 4 years ago and divorced me. I refused to recognize the divorce the entire time and tried to reconcile. God worked on her over the course of 4 years and we are remarried again and have been married for 5 years. Stop trying to act like men are cold hearted and want women to suffer this stuff happens to us to. As Christian’s we are called to be loving and forgiving non of us are perfect we all fail in life.
@kirkchurchil8216 I think he was referring to the woman who the video is taking about. The "men" the Bible is written in the masculine mankind etc. So "men" meaning everyone is wicked.
I don't agree that she should be making the judgement of his salvation based on his sinful behavior. We're all in trouble if that were the truth. I have been in the same boat as her except my husband is apostate. I don't make judgements on whether or not he's saved, it's not my job or my place. However, adultery is grounds for divorce and that's scripture. Once saved always saved isn't a license to willfully sin. She needs to put him away and focus on submitting herself to The Lord's will over her life. Let the Lord have him and do what He will with him.
My mum did and he continued to cheat with multiple women but got better at hiding and lying about it. The phrase “once a cheater always a cheater” definitely goes into play for the unrepentant
My ex-wife cheated on me with a man and a woman after 7 years. She repented, and I forgave her. 7 years later, she did it again with another man and willfully was impregnated by him. And now has 2 children with him. She was a severe alcaholic and prescription pill abuser. I sought counseling for her in the beginning. The counseler who had decades of experience said, "She's gone." She was mentally abusive and narcissistic. I tried to hold on and was in agony constantly. One day, I prayed, and God told me He would provide a prudent woman for me. I released her and felt so much overwhelming freedom. A few years later, I married my amazing wife who had gone through almost the same exact experience with her ex husband. She loves the Lord, and God has used greatly. God is so good.
@ “Or do you not know, brethren (for I speak to those who know the law), that the law has dominion over a man as long as he lives? For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man.” Romans 7:1-3 NKJV
@@steven453232 That chapter is likening the Law to marriage. It is not about marriage or telling people you can never get divorced. That's taking it out of context.
Also 1 Cor. 7:10-11, which says, "But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not divorce his wife". This doesn't mention about waiting until he dies, but it does indicate she can't remarry as long as he is alive.
@ yeah I’m not sure because is the leaving like a separating leaving or a divorce leaving because Jesus says except for sexual immorality so is that mean you can’t get remarried I don’t know 🤷🏾♂️ which he could make a video on it. It’s kind of confusing not gonna lie or maybe I just wanted to be confusing.🫤
@@donaldjohnson-e8f well I don't know the women you interact with. But as Christians, are not of the world, we based our lives and morals on the Bible. So it's their kids.
If you use jesus name to do sin without cgange it means you were never saved because those that love him will do his will So yeah for you to be once saved always saved you should of been saved the first place I would say he should be confronted by pastors and if he refuses to change than two different spirits cannot exist in the same house that is if you are sick and tired of his anticks The other way is to put him in prayer and slowly talk to him about it Also make sure you are are not the reason repelling him even so cheating is still a sin I would suggest you give him Matthew 7 :21-23 if he works in lawlessness
That would make sense, but every guy does that. If they don’t apologize it comes off as intentional and your manhood gets into question ESPECIALLY depending on the culture of the area you’re in. If it doesn’t end in a fight, it becomes unspoken beef
After 53 years of being on this earth , the once saved always saved mantra. i totally disagree with it! Sounds lovely, but niave. It's like saying well you got baptised, so all your sins are forgiven, and if you slip up, don't worry, Jesus will forgive you no matter what!!!"" Errr no. Not if ones lifestyle is not sincerely following Christ. Yes Jesus will forgive your sins if you genuinely mean it, but if you keep slipping up and you know in your heart your soul you are not truly sorry and prepared to change your ways with Gods help or whatever then who are we fooling?! Only ourselves and certainly NOT God. He knows! If you do not live out your faith, then it becomes harder to stay on the path , to remain steadfast, to become virtuous, to become holy, to become more like a saint. I would never rock up to church and take the holy sacrement without asking for the forgiveness of sins. When you consume the sacrament, you are inviting Jesus to live within you, dwell within you, renew you , uphold you, walk with you daily so to be in a state of sin and consume that sacrament without confessing any sins is somewhat disrespectful . So easy to make up the rules to suit what we want! And I might add this is why we have the beautiful, helpful sacraments in the Catholic church. If you disagree them I suggest you go straight to the horses mouth to understand it. In other words, pick up the phone and ask to meet your local Catholic priest for him to explain it to you. You have nothing to lose. Sola scripture is foolish.
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The “it’s who I am” argument to justify sin shows they truly don’t know the fundamental aspects of the gospel.
As someone who had to flee from abuse with my child and my life I extremely appreciate this conversation
But you took your kids with you. That is a distinct difference from the story he told.
@donaldjohnson-e8f the commentary was helpful and for me safety was involved so it was required in my case, my ex was committing so much sexual Infidelity while refusing to provide and not allowing me access to the car or to work either while telling me to get a job while he was doing cocaine secretly, cheating, physically abusing me, abusing my child and I in various ways, putting my child in physical danger on many occasions in many ways, and traumatizing my child with his behavior and was a terrible example and unsafe, abusive person, so it was very helpful for me to heat some of this even with the differences that are present
Adultry is grounds for divorce.
any form abuse if ground for divorce, God hate divorce but he allowed it because of man's wickeness.
Not really @@RDCFemmes
Facts! Thank God for the bible as most guys would tell her to stay no matter what!
@@RDCFemmes correct!
Exactly!
Women or men should never again have sex with a cheating partner.
"lusting after someone, you have committed adultery in your heart". Jesus was kind of all about the heart. So ya...
It's kind of a same / same thing. I don't think you can lose your salvation. But I question whether someone who is okay with that behavior is truly saved.
@@arkikali5632 I agree with you. Salvation is not an off and on daily decision- when we accept Christ by faith and repent of our sins we are forever washed in the blood of Christ. When he die on the cross he cover all sins not just some. Once you accept Christ as your savior you can't loose it scripture makes that very clear: John Chapter 10:28-29
28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
29 My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand.
We have to remember that every day we have to choose Christ because we still have flesh side of us even though we are covered in his blood- that's why the scriptures says in Matthew 7:20
“Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.”
A good friend of mine explained it to me similarly. I grew up in a holiness denomination (well, it still is, I would say, but it doesn't have the legalistic overtones I remember as a kid), and the friend grew up Baptist.
Many say they're Christian because of upbringing or some measure of attendance, bit without the internal determination to follow Christ, especially to the submission of self.
I believe therein is the key element in the discussion: were they truly saved before?
In the light of "I am convinced neither. . . . Nothing can separate me from the love of Christ" eternal security has it's strongest evidence.
Though the element I have considered is all those mentioned in the passage (and left out as I don't remember the order and such) were external forces. Choosing to follow Jesus is an active decision, and could one perchance chose to leave.
Ultimately, for me, it is best to live my utmost to stay as close to Jesus as I can, lest I start down a path that lead me away.
Discussions such as in the video also lead me to err on the side of caution - not to the discouragement of those who love departed family who have 'backslidden', but to the encouragement of leading a life in Jesus footsteps.
Not once did I hear from these three men’s mouths what God wants for the woman and her soul. These are actual souls in this marriage. If we believe that, we have to advise based from that POV. Honestly, the wife needs to seek the Holy Spirit and his peace for her in this season. P*rn is THAT bad, and can be a complete deal breaker in the Christian marriage. It’s really dependent on what you believe God is calling you to as the other half of this equation. Let’s always restore women to their faith and their Heavenly Father in these situations.
Sounds like he has narcissism. I know a lot of people say that and I've dealt with some narcissistic people. He sounds like that. And if he is, all we can do is pray for her.
And she can go to counseling, with divorce as an ultimatum if nothing changes
@TheNinjapancake14 what that man said to his wife gave it all the way so the most we can do is pray. God gives her the strength one way or the other and that she doesn't get broken from this.
Whether or not to divorce him is her choice to make after spending time in prayer and counseling with elders. Her husband sounds unrepentant and selfish. I personally don't hold to OSAS, but all my Christian brothers that I have discussed that with would never use that as a license to sin, nor would they condone someone else using it that way. I fear her desire to try to witness to him by staying with him will not end well. He is justifying his sin instead of dealing with it. It sounds like he is too far gone for her to do anything. I fear only experiencing consequences will be effective at this point.
If you don't believe in once saved always saved. Then are you saved?
So you think you can lose your salvation? But, you just haven't yet am i right?
If you could lose your salvation, then you would. We all would. No one will make it to heaven if it's up to us. But, it's not if you are saved nothing can take that away from you.
@@endtimesarehere1322 Im undecided on the issue but "If you could lose your salvation, then you would." why do you say that? What you are essentially saying is, if you could stop believing you would. Why couldnt someone stop believing? And why couldnt many people stay believers?
We are saved by grace through faith. We have to believe, its up to us to seek for the truth and evidence to be able to believe We have to give Jesus a chance to be able to believe.
If this is not the case, how come God doesnt save everyone. Bible explicitly states that God wants to save everyone, and if what you say is true its only in Gods hands and we cant do anything, then we have a contradiction. God wants to save everyone yet he doesnt, how do you explain this?
@endtimesarehere1322 I come from a more Free Will Baptist position, which is an Arminian position. We have salvation so long as we are in Christ. However, we can choose to abandon Him and become an apostate. If one were to die in that state, his/her salvation is forfeit. Sinning alone doesn't forfeit one's salvation, but living in unrepentant sin opens the door to apostasy.
@@joojotinfrom my knowledge the latter part is Calvinism. The false doctrine that it’s up to God who is saved and who goes to hell and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
Hope she frees herself from him
Is that Vocab Malone !? Let’s goooooooooo !!
If homeboy was using “OSAS” to even remotely justify his lifestyle - homie was not saved 😂
Thank you guys for this video so informative and loving 🔥🔥shout out to those fighting for there marriage and putting Christ firstv
adultery = divorce! There is a spiritual, emotional reason for it ! To add - sit down with women too, men can minimise cheating.
If she is sat down with Biblical elders of a congregation, you best believe they aren’t gonna minimize it. Those are the kinds of conversations they don’t want to have to have because of how serious the situation is. I’m sure that women can have some good input to, but, not to talk down to women, they think more emotionally than logically
By your response to the video, you’re proving my point. You are upset with the idea of adultery, rightfully so, but are immediately responding out of anger, not trying or seemingly willing to try to salvage what’s left. If the man will repent, it can be a beautiful marriage.
@@stevenhusted4085 Ive been brought up in the church, been in a church all my life, dads a pastor. My best friend at the time her husband had cheated with over 5 different women, sex apps on his phone ( he was a youth leader) and believe me THAT was minimized with the elders of the church. A ' prophet ' that is very well known online, has confessed to ME for sleeping with most of his congregation and to another friend confessed to sleeping with prostitutes - he didnt get deplatformed ONCE! That was made a secret his life style of sin!! Through out his affairs etc. Even a Hillsong leader that i know was sleeping with women i know. I dont mean this in a condescending way, your still young - at least from your profile pitcher. Im over 15 years older from what i can see and ive seen alot! Trust me I dont speak from emotion ITS DEFENTLY Minimziled. A women will always be able to emphathise with a women and men will often emphasise with men. Hence why its important to always have women in the church on the team of elderse. You can say women are more emotional yet i dont see the prisons overflowing with women who have lost control over their emotions and killed someone, or raped someone - thats usually teh downfall for men. Over history men have thrown their whole careers and families in the bin for a moment of lust /adultery - If that isn't emotional then my love what is? A TOTAL LACK of logic and ALL emotional. 90% OF CHRISTIAN women or women in general have a zero tolerance to cheating and so does God!
@@stevenhusted4085 Steven you've literally made my point! Thank you : )
@@stevenhusted4085 Ive been brought up in the church, been in a church all my life, dads a pastor. My best friend at the time her husband had cheated with over 5 different women, sex apps on his phone ( he was a youth leader) and believe me THAT was minimized with the elders of the church. A ' prophet ' that is very well known online, has confessed to ME for sleeping with most of his congregation and to another friend confessed to sleeping with prostitutes - he didnt get deplatformed ONCE! That was made a secret his life style of sin!! Through out his affairs etc. Even a Hillsong leader that i know was sleeping with women i know. I dont mean this in a condescending way, your still young - at least from your profile pitcher. Im over 15 years older from what i can see and ive seen alot! Trust me I dont speak from emotion ITS DEFENTLY Minimziled. A women will always be able to emphathise with a women and men will often emphasise with men. Hence why its important to always have women in the church on the team of elderse. You can say women are more emotional yet i dont see the prisons overflowing with women who have lost control over their emotions and killed someone, or raped someone - thats usually teh downfall for men. Over history men have thrown their whole careers and families in the bin for a moment of lust /adultery - If that isn't emotional then my love what is? A TOTAL LACK of logic and ALL emotional. 90% OF CHRISTIAN women or women in general have a zero tolerance to cheating and so does God!
he doesn't think it's ground for divorce? would it feel the same if it was the wife who was unfaithful? God thinks so....God hate divorce but he had to allow bevause men are wicked.
My wife cheated on me 4 years ago and divorced me. I refused to recognize the divorce the entire time and tried to reconcile. God worked on her over the course of 4 years and we are remarried again and have been married for 5 years. Stop trying to act like men are cold hearted and want women to suffer this stuff happens to us to. As Christian’s we are called to be loving and forgiving non of us are perfect we all fail in life.
@kirkchurchil8216 I think he was referring to the woman who the video is taking about. The "men" the Bible is written in the masculine mankind etc. So "men" meaning everyone is wicked.
Vocab! 🙌🏼
I don't agree that she should be making the judgement of his salvation based on his sinful behavior. We're all in trouble if that were the truth. I have been in the same boat as her except my husband is apostate. I don't make judgements on whether or not he's saved, it's not my job or my place. However, adultery is grounds for divorce and that's scripture. Once saved always saved isn't a license to willfully sin. She needs to put him away and focus on submitting herself to The Lord's will over her life. Let the Lord have him and do what He will with him.
This might be personal, but has anyone here ever stayed with a cheater? How was that process for you?
My mum did and he continued to cheat with multiple women but got better at hiding and lying about it. The phrase “once a cheater always a cheater” definitely goes into play for the unrepentant
My ex-wife cheated on me with a man and a woman after 7 years. She repented, and I forgave her. 7 years later, she did it again with another man and willfully was impregnated by him. And now has 2 children with him. She was a severe alcaholic and prescription pill abuser. I sought counseling for her in the beginning. The counseler who had decades of experience said, "She's gone." She was mentally abusive and narcissistic. I tried to hold on and was in agony constantly. One day, I prayed, and God told me He would provide a prudent woman for me. I released her and felt so much overwhelming freedom. A few years later, I married my amazing wife who had gone through almost the same exact experience with her ex husband. She loves the Lord, and God has used greatly. God is so good.
He can repent and get himself together and that would be great! But that doesn't mean she has to stick around through it.
Yo it’s Vocab! Street Apologist. ✌🏻.
Unrepented = unsaved
1 Corinthians already has protocols for people this woman's husband
If she does get divorced, can she get remarried or does she have to wait until he passes away to get remarry?
Where does it suggest that you have to wait for the ex-husband to pass away before remarrying?
@ “Or do you not know, brethren (for I speak to those who know the law), that the law has dominion over a man as long as he lives? For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man.”
Romans 7:1-3 NKJV
@@steven453232 That chapter is likening the Law to marriage. It is not about marriage or telling people you can never get divorced. That's taking it out of context.
Also 1 Cor. 7:10-11, which says, "But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not divorce his wife". This doesn't mention about waiting until he dies, but it does indicate she can't remarry as long as he is alive.
@ yeah I’m not sure because is the leaving like a separating leaving or a divorce leaving because Jesus says except for sexual immorality so is that mean you can’t get remarried I don’t know 🤷🏾♂️ which he could make a video on it. It’s kind of confusing not gonna lie or maybe I just wanted to be confusing.🫤
A woman doesn't get to dump her kids when the guy watched corn. And then she goes into ministry? lol You can't make this stuff up.
Correction. She left THEIR kids with their dad. That's not dumping.
@@jalisazari9387 A woman never calls them their kids. She always calls them her kids unless a guy needs to make child support payments.
@@donaldjohnson-e8f well I don't know the women you interact with. But as Christians, are not of the world, we based our lives and morals on the Bible. So it's their kids.
If you use jesus name to do sin without cgange it means you were never saved because those that love him will do his will
So yeah for you to be once saved always saved you should of been saved the first place
I would say he should be confronted by pastors and if he refuses to change than two different spirits cannot exist in the same house that is if you are sick and tired of his anticks
The other way is to put him in prayer and slowly talk to him about it
Also make sure you are are not the reason repelling him even so cheating is still a sin
I would suggest you give him Matthew 7 :21-23 if he works in lawlessness
Ruslan talking about apologizing when you bump into a guy to not escalate things is so crazy to me 😅 Im not a guy tho
That would make sense, but every guy does that. If they don’t apologize it comes off as intentional and your manhood gets into question ESPECIALLY depending on the culture of the area you’re in.
If it doesn’t end in a fight, it becomes unspoken beef
After 53 years of being on this earth , the once saved always saved mantra. i totally disagree with it! Sounds lovely, but niave. It's like saying well you got baptised, so all your sins are forgiven, and if you slip up, don't worry, Jesus will forgive you no matter what!!!"" Errr no. Not if ones lifestyle is not sincerely following Christ. Yes Jesus will forgive your sins if you genuinely mean it, but if you keep slipping up and you know in your heart your soul you are not truly sorry and prepared to change your ways with Gods help or whatever then who are we fooling?! Only ourselves and certainly NOT God. He knows! If you do not live out your faith, then it becomes harder to stay on the path , to remain steadfast, to become virtuous, to become holy, to become more like a saint. I would never rock up to church and take the holy sacrement without asking for the forgiveness of sins. When you consume the sacrament, you are inviting Jesus to live within you, dwell within you, renew you , uphold you, walk with you daily so to be in a state of sin and consume that sacrament without confessing any sins is somewhat disrespectful .
So easy to make up the rules to suit what we want!
And I might add this is why we have the beautiful, helpful sacraments in the Catholic church. If you disagree them I suggest you go straight to the horses mouth to understand it. In other words, pick up the phone and ask to meet your local Catholic priest for him to explain it to you. You have nothing to lose. Sola scripture is foolish.