I've been in a toxic relationship where she was sooo damaged, we couldn't go 2 weeks without a fight.. She did this crying thing every time she realized she was wrong. I freed myself because I aint no therapist, and I gotta look out for me. This crying thing is sometimes just a routine..
I'm a bm and I say all the time that bm and bw need to come together in love so that we can better understand each other's needs. Social and mainstream media are working overtime trying to divide us with a whole lot of negativism. I love my bw and look forward to a better life together.
Yes therapy is very much needed, I’ve done it for 5 yrs now , therapy is a drug for me. Cause at one point I didn’t know how to love myself. So I definitely couldn’t love a man properly and it was difficult to love my children. I wish her all the best on her self love journey ❤
A lot of them out there like that! Been with so many men their unable to pair bond! They want to do what they see men do but don’t understand we’re built different!
Much Applause and respect to this woman for admitting her own faults and what she needs to fix within herself. Each and every one of us needs to look deep within ourselves and be honest about our problems like she has been brave enough to do. And she's already fixed 50% of it considering that she's aware of it and admitted to an audience
I've always been an advocate for therapy. It changed my life, helped me heal and now I have the healthiest relationship I've ever had. Acknowledgement is key then take steps to fix the issues.🙏🏽💚
The problem with most women is they want to have crocodile tears AFTER it is too late and the damage is done and most of the time after it has become irreversible.
How in the hell can she accomplish that when a parents actions are examples for there kids daily development, without getting them away from her and her environment! She can't teach anybody anything because she don't even know herself! She is not a mother she is still a girl herself!
@@allthingznatural5592 unfortunately you are correct.. the teaching comes when it's to late for her.. but she can tell her adult child and other young women that it's a bad deal.. they don't grow up until their older...much older.. she would have to tell her 20 yr old child.. hopefully the. Hold still has a brain to listen
This is what happens when the traditional family structure breaks down. It has given rise to rampant promiscuity which has resulted in the ruin of many women!!
@@Yahshe. I agree. Once a woman makes that discovery she has to walk back things, and attempt to undo things she learned and need to unlearn. Once she makes the determination of the key issues she can recover and learn how to avoid making these mistakes over and over again.
I am a Black Man who voluntarily sought Counseling. My life was a mess when I started. Now I have a different life with more Stability, and my Credit Score went up 50 points lately... You have to learn how to love yourself before you can love anyone else...
me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, Is all I heard, it's alway all about Me! Forget all the damage she cause to the men in her life that she never loved, not to mention her son who reminds her of his father???? No, it's all about Me!
OMG I didn't recognize her without the braids and light brown hair. After she got fired she went on onlyfans and I believe she quit onlyfans because of that. She went on crying about everything under the sun.
Therapy baby. Psychotherapy. Thank you for being honest. We are behind you. Go get some help and you will figure this out sis. Y’all show her some love brothers!!!
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecakeGo over to these drill rap and Meg d stallion wannabe channels and leave your comments. Oh I forgot, you women are cowards. You only have smoke for successful BM but your afraid to call out other women and the negros you love. Before you come for me, save all that hot air for the gym.
I truly believe that when women follow other women to be a 304 and have a high body count it makes them unable to love because they have been with too many people. Very sad
It makes them difficult to commit to a Man and be faithful if they were promiscuous. The more men a woman slept with, the more likely they are to cheat and the more likely they are going to divorce their husbands. This is a proven study and fact 👌
she's at least honest about it. Majority of single mothers are capable of loving only their children but never a man yet they pretend otherwise in order to trap some poor sucker into being a simp for her
@@proimagerah They sho was eating the popcorn and lighting the fireworks when they said us men ain’t shii and don’t need us while getting government help
I READ SOME OF THE COMMENTS HERE AND WHAT NO ONE HAS SAID IS THAT WE ALL MUST GO TO ABBA FATHER, WHO IS JESUS CHRIST AND THE HOLY SPIRIT. THATS WHATS MISSING. THATS WHO CAN HEAL ALL OF US IF WE GIVE UP OUR WILL TO HIM...“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. Matthew 11:28-29 NIV
People need to stop talking their business online! I am so sick of these women embarrassing themselves and black women in general with this! Who don't know about therapy?! Instead of going to social media, go too your primary care physician and ask for a referral! She needs to seek Christ! All these videos do is make black men hate us more! Platforms like this only show these types of women. Are there any black women doing anything positive, or do you only see the negative?!
Yeah. At least make yourself more presentable. Her hair is a mess and she is dressed very “comfortable”. That’s the image people are forever gonna have or her. She made it harder for herself to find someone.
@@majorlazor5058 That's another thing! People really don't care about how they look! I know I get irritated when men tell me about my makeup! "You don't need it!" Yeah, I do. I work with the public and celebrities! I was raised by my single mom, not too look any kind of way! When they see me dabbing my face with a paper towel, I am wiping sweat off of face! Not putting on makeup! Sorry! I agree with you!
Unfortunately, women like this are ruined already. They are damaged beyond repair! It was NEVER intended for women to be engaging in premarital sex with multiple men!
I attended a networking event for Black Professionals hosted by a company called PVO "Positive Vibes Only". The Brothers there were friendly and welcoming, some of the Sisters, not so much. One was giving mean mugg, standoffish vibes which is a shame as she is just starting in her career in an industry that I have influence in. I would have helped her but she was acting like she couldn't be bothered to look at, much less speak to me.
Many women I just don't have no sympathy for them especially Ms Sprinkle Sprinkle who try to teach women how to manipulate men those so called women get what they deserve in the end which is not enough but for this woman in this video I have sympathy For her
She was stuck with Pookies and RayRays they ain’t sticking around for noBODY! Only their mommas and grandmas that’ll let them stay rent free!!! It was all cute when they were young, but now it’s no joke! My grandmother once said years ago the penitentiary was full of husbands!!! She said most of the husbands were in the penitentiary!
Girl, why are yall crying on the internet 🤦🏽♀️ Get a therapist. If you're serious, start doing the inner work in private and it'll manifest outwardly.
When you take accountability too late. I hope she finds peace, but she better give this to the most high. Doing in front of Social media is like doing it in front of the enemy themselves.
Why is she crying? I thought a lot women were telling everybody they're "strong and independent"? I have three suggestions: 1. Stop crying. 2. Woman up! 3. Seek out a MALE therapist.
Yes we know. Ladies. We knew y'all were just using us to help yourselves and survive. We just didn't want to say it. There are so many women like her and sadly it's too late. I used to feel sorry for women like her but no more.
Sad to say you can't hardly even trust professional help these days. Seek God. And find hobbies that put you at peace. Last thing especially black folks need to do is rely on them folks based help.
No sympathy at all. You ladies wanted war and independence and now you can’t handle it . Even when a nice man comes your way you dismiss them and tell them have a nice dayyy. Well guess what we having a FIELD DAY when we see this! Passport bros up
I've been in a toxic relationship where she was sooo damaged, we couldn't go 2 weeks without a fight.. She did this crying thing every time she realized she was wrong. I freed myself because I aint no therapist, and I gotta look out for me. This crying thing is sometimes just a routine..
It's manipulation.
Facts
That part
Every person has that moment where they break down and finally get tired of being in the same situation.
She has finally shown accountability and responsibility she had to admit she was wrong and I respect her.
@@coachingbydaisy-cf9yrStfu and stop stalking male channels you weirdo incel.
Thank you for normalizing therapy. When people need it, get it.
I agree
“Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.” Socrates
Very true! I love Socrates
I respect her honesty👏🏽👏🏽
I'm a bm and I say all the time that bm and bw need to come together in love so that we can better understand each other's needs. Social and mainstream media are working overtime trying to divide us with a whole lot of negativism. I love my bw and look forward to a better life together.
She's just attention seeking 🙄🙄
@@novarem9828 The tears were real
@@alwaysblack2436 And I love bm. Wouldn't have it any other way.
She doesn't deserve it nor our attention.
Crying on social media isn’t going to change anything this woman is in need of professional help.
it may encourage other women to be transparent and get help not many women are transparent with their problems
@@joimonae4090yup
Most American black women need professional help
Yes therapy is very much needed, I’ve done it for 5 yrs now , therapy is a drug for me. Cause at one point I didn’t know how to love myself. So I definitely couldn’t love a man properly and it was difficult to love my children. I wish her all the best on her self love journey ❤
She needs common sense not therapy
I admire her honesty.
A lot of them out there like that! Been with so many men their unable to pair bond! They want to do what they see men do but don’t understand we’re built different!
Much Applause and respect to this woman for admitting her own faults and what she needs to fix within herself.
Each and every one of us needs to look deep within ourselves and be honest about our problems like she has been brave enough to do.
And she's already fixed 50% of it considering that she's aware of it and admitted to an audience
Not from what I see!
@@robertevans1486 that other 50% but she has to do work make change is the hardest
I've always been an advocate for therapy. It changed my life, helped me heal and now I have the healthiest relationship I've ever had. Acknowledgement is key then take steps to fix the issues.🙏🏽💚
The problem with most women is they want to have crocodile tears AFTER it is too late and the damage is done and most of the time after it has become irreversible.
Let her live her truth.. the best thing she can do is teach her kids to not follow her
Facts
How in the hell can she accomplish that when a parents actions are examples for there kids daily development, without getting them away from her and her environment! She can't teach anybody anything because she don't even know herself! She is not a mother she is still a girl herself!
@@allthingznatural5592 unfortunately you are correct.. the teaching comes when it's to late for her.. but she can tell her adult child and other young women that it's a bad deal.. they don't grow up until their older...much older.. she would have to tell her 20 yr old child.. hopefully the. Hold still has a brain to listen
She need to seek therapy for her mindset.
I haven't met one of them who can.
I appreciate her honesty
She also don't know how to keep a man!
This is what happens when the traditional family structure breaks down. It has given rise to rampant promiscuity which has resulted in the ruin of many women!!
Nope, she only wants a meal ticket for herself and Pookie, Jr.
Let the church say amen 👍👍
@@keepmoving2023-ku7nb Amen!
Wow! I feel sorry for her! She really needs help. She needs therapy to love herself, before she can love anybody else.
I feel absolutely ZERO sympathy for women like her.
Exactly the damage has already been done💯
Must respect her transparency...much appreciated ❤ She probably grew up in a non-loving environment.
It’s very painful when you become an adult. I know. Therapy (non biased opinion) and tools of education with guidance work wonders.
I work with women like this they wait til they are in their 30's to mid 40's to finally admit accountability.
How do you travel 9,000 miles just to go in a club and mean mug. The Club; that makes no sense whatsoever!!😎
These chicks will follow men anywhere but in a relationship 😂😂😂
Don't fall the tears, guys.
She's not mad at you guys she's mad at herself. How could you not respect that? She's becoming new. She's gonna be fine. 🙏🏾
Yup! Its a trap!!! General Akbar
@@Yahshe. I agree. Once a woman makes that discovery she has to walk back things, and attempt to undo things she learned and need to unlearn. Once she makes the determination of the key issues she can recover and learn how to avoid making these mistakes over and over again.
@@YahsheSome men will hate us no matter what.
@@YahsheIt’s sad but oh well lmao
How is any guy suppose to deal with this?? Life is a struggle in the best of times, why would any guy want to endure her problems??
Especially when they were self-inflicted. She chose this life by her decisions.
At least she realizes she fucked up
It's to late, Passport 🛫🛫🛫
These days,….. ALL therapists aren’t good therapists.
Choose wisely.
Unfortunately, these women are broken beyond repair. Therapy won’t cure them. Its going to take DIVINE intervention.
I'm NOT moved to tears.😂
😂🤣
Exactly she will be with pookie and Ray Rays next week stay single fellas unfortunately it's only going to get worse with these American women
Her honesty weights a ton!
Damn you Phil!!! Those sistas are following BM everywhere in the world.
I knew that was coming 😅
Because of her tears , it’s applauded but we can’t fall for that.
Let the church say amen 👍👍
I am a Black Man who voluntarily sought Counseling. My life was a mess when I started. Now I have a different life with more Stability, and my Credit Score went up 50 points lately... You have to learn how to love yourself before you can love anyone else...
This is what feminism hides from young women...Consequences and outcomes when they get old.💯
FACTS! and the consequences are far greater and severe than what she stated.
Amen
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 Wow! Respect her honesty
me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, Is all I heard, it's alway all about Me! Forget all the damage she cause to the men in her life that she never loved, not to mention her son who reminds her of his father???? No, it's all about Me!
Yeah bruh that sista need to seek professional counciling cause she's dealing with something internal. Probably from her upbringing.
Ran through ALERT ‼️
Facts.
Lol you can tell, she use to run her mouth until she got tired.
No disrespect, but I get some vibes that she can be very combative, contrary, and mouthy! Now she is having buyers remorse.
She put down her Kween crown just to get on here crying like a sorry Jezebel
“Not that therapist you saw on tik tok NOT her” 😂
Yeah where her baby daddy ? CuzZ 👼🧸📄
It look like her, oh well, Karma always got time!!!
❤🖤💚
OMG I didn't recognize her without the braids and light brown hair. After she got fired she went on onlyfans and I believe she quit onlyfans because of that. She went on crying about everything under the sun.
Therapy baby. Psychotherapy. Thank you for being honest. We are behind you. Go get some help and you will figure this out sis. Y’all show her some love brothers!!!
I’m glad she taking accountability 🤲🏾💪🏾
Most women go off of survival mode all the time
Shy from Philly 🌺 Hello Phil and the diaspora family ❣️ Therapy is all she needs and a relationship with the creator (pray more)❣️
What it do? B1 and shalom 👊🏿🕎⚔️🏹🌽🪶
Under No Circumstances are you brothers to save them. Get your precious Passport Freedom Papers and don't share them with Pookies and Simps.
I agree with you Brotha 💯💯💯
You guys can not even save yourselves. Let alone women and children. Get your own house in order and then you will have strength for others.
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecakeGo over to these drill rap and Meg d stallion wannabe channels and leave your comments. Oh I forgot, you women are cowards. You only have smoke for successful BM but your afraid to call out other women and the negros you love. Before you come for me, save all that hot air for the gym.
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecakeI hope you end up just like her.. ahhh who am I kidding most of you will
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecakeyes pookies
I truly believe that when women follow other women to be a 304 and have a high body count it makes them unable to love because they have been with too many people. Very sad
It makes them difficult to commit to a Man and be faithful if they were promiscuous. The more men a woman slept with, the more likely they are to cheat and the more likely they are going to divorce their husbands. This is a proven study and fact 👌
Much respect to her❤❤
Lol 😂 that pair bonding is a real thing 😂😅
she capable of blowin rod though she got 2 kids
At least she's taking accountability for her faults, I hope she seeks therapy.
women for the longest have ignore nature these high body counts make it hard to per bond
she's at least honest about it. Majority of single mothers are capable of loving only their children but never a man yet they pretend otherwise in order to trap some poor sucker into being a simp for her
Many of them don’t even love their children and certainly not themselves!!!
Wow amazing honesty
Tears doesn't mean anything to me, especially if it's from a woman.
Amen 🙏
And it's a cycle
Respect the honesty but that healing tax is real. Most do it to themselves. The jig is up.
Bwahahahaha! I agree Uncle Phil, not that therapist on Tic Tok.🤣🤣🤣
I feel 0 sympathy for her!!!! The game is the game..
Men went bye bye 👋
She crazy af
Wiping her mouth with her shirt speaks volumes about her.
Crocodile tears coping mechanism.
What’s terrible is that millions more are going to finally realize and gon be crying making more videos
💯💯
👍🏿👍🏿
And I can’t wait! Imma have the 🍿 and fireworks ready 💥
@@proimagerah They sho was eating the popcorn and lighting the fireworks when they said us men ain’t shii and don’t need us while getting government help
@@calvinbroad8618 right. Imma have a refill in my cup on them tears
I agree with Phil could be her childhood
I respect her honesty. She needs therapy, but I hope she doesn’t get a feminist therapist.
At least she has the ability to know she was in the wrong now she can build herself back up
She just running game....research her history and you will see
She needs to be on somebody's couch. She already admitted that she doesn't know how to fix it. If you don't know, ask for help.
I READ SOME OF THE COMMENTS HERE AND WHAT NO ONE HAS SAID IS THAT WE ALL MUST GO TO ABBA FATHER, WHO IS JESUS CHRIST AND THE HOLY SPIRIT. THATS WHATS MISSING. THATS WHO CAN HEAL ALL OF US IF WE GIVE UP OUR WILL TO HIM...“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
Matthew 11:28-29 NIV
I mean I respect her tryna take accountability but unfortunately some people only take accountability when it’s far too late
Brother Phil you have got to show that tape you were talking about @ 0:44.
I'm not going to fall for the tears I'm done with black women.
People need to stop talking their business online! I am so sick of these women embarrassing themselves and black women in general with this! Who don't know about therapy?! Instead of going to social media, go too your primary care physician and ask for a referral! She needs to seek Christ!
All these videos do is make black men hate us more! Platforms like this only show these types of women. Are there any black women doing anything positive, or do you only see the negative?!
Yeah. At least make yourself more presentable. Her hair is a mess and she is dressed very “comfortable”.
That’s the image people are forever gonna have or her. She made it harder for herself to find someone.
@@majorlazor5058 That's another thing! People really don't care about how they look! I know I get irritated when men tell me about my makeup! "You don't need it!"
Yeah, I do. I work with the public and celebrities! I was raised by my single mom, not too look any kind of way!
When they see me dabbing my face with a paper towel, I am wiping sweat off of face! Not putting on makeup! Sorry!
I agree with you!
@@keciabrown8321makeup is socercy,most men do not like it because it covers up the natural look. Its like a mask. Take care of your natural beauty!
Don’t let those inner demons take control of your mind or is it to late ⏰
Unfortunately, women like this are ruined already. They are damaged beyond repair! It was NEVER intended for women to be engaging in premarital sex with multiple men!
I attended a networking event for Black Professionals hosted by a company called PVO "Positive Vibes Only". The Brothers there were friendly and welcoming, some of the Sisters, not so much. One was giving mean mugg, standoffish vibes which is a shame as she is just starting in her career in an industry that I have influence in. I would have helped her but she was acting like she couldn't be bothered to look at, much less speak to me.
A sign that you've learned something is a change in behavior. Will she change --- or are those empty tears?
I don't feel sorry for her. 🤷🏾♂ Wouldn't even look at her.
Ok since you realize this after she says it, than go to therapy & fix it
PASSPORT BROS really broke these women.
Many women I just don't have no sympathy for them especially Ms Sprinkle Sprinkle who try to teach women how to manipulate men those so called women get what they deserve in the end which is not enough but for this woman in this video I have sympathy For her
I give her credit for not knowing why she does what she do. Now get some therapy!
Too late we out passport bros ✈️✈️✈️😀😀😀😀
The modern day woman is stuck on being stubborn and don't like to be held accountable...at least this woman identify some issues and owned them.
Just like the black woman in Dubai who is locked up for being ratchet
She was stuck with Pookies and RayRays they ain’t sticking around for noBODY! Only their mommas and grandmas that’ll let them stay rent free!!! It was all cute when they were young, but now it’s no joke! My grandmother once said years ago the penitentiary was full of husbands!!! She said most of the husbands were in the penitentiary!
This is sad. She needs counseling to help.
Girl, why are yall crying on the internet 🤦🏽♀️ Get a therapist. If you're serious, start doing the inner work in private and it'll manifest outwardly.
When you take accountability too late. I hope she finds peace, but she better give this to the most high. Doing in front of Social media is like doing it in front of the enemy themselves.
Why is she crying? I thought a lot women were telling everybody they're "strong and independent"? I have three suggestions:
1. Stop crying.
2. Woman up!
3. Seek out a MALE therapist.
At least she admits it. Most women don't
🐊 tears 😭 she’s crying because she knows she will never be able to control herself and attitude to keep a man.
Yes we know. Ladies. We knew y'all were just using us to help yourselves and survive. We just didn't want to say it. There are so many women like her and sadly it's too late.
I used to feel sorry for women like her but no more.
Say it again, say it again!....in Pinky's voice!!
She better prepares to deal with her own single parent life.
Props for her admitting it, but she ain´t getting no guy for sure.
Sad to say you can't hardly even trust professional help these days. Seek God. And find hobbies that put you at peace. Last thing especially black folks need to do is rely on them folks based help.
I don't know if you are right or wrong but I low-key agree with you.
At least she being truthful but most of them be like this these days just dont know what real love is about with a man
SHE WILL FIND LOVE ONE DAY !
I'm not mad at the sista she just emotionally hit rock bottom a lot of us has hit it and just ignored it male and female
No sympathy at all. You ladies wanted war and independence and now you can’t handle it . Even when a nice man comes your way you dismiss them and tell them have a nice dayyy. Well guess what we having a FIELD DAY when we see this! Passport bros up
Tiktok; the miserable modern woman's dairy