Janet Mock Opens Up About Her Dad's Gender Policing

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  • Transgender activist and writer Janet Mock joins HuffPost Live and discusses how she dealt with her dad's gender policing.
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  • @kevinrandall7685
    @kevinrandall7685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    she is so fortunate to still have her fathers support.im a transexual and both my parents turned their backs on me.but im still going ahead with my transistion into a full woman,then im going to change my name.i no longer want to carry his last name or the name my mother gave me.im moving on With MY LIFE!!!!!!!! Hello Kim Chanel❤❤❤❤

  • @daneelolivaw5951
    @daneelolivaw5951 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What fascinates me about her story is how much it resonates with things I've thought in my mind, even though I identify as a cis het male. I'm talking about a broader picture than gender, just feeling the difference between who you are on the inside and how people see you. I am so in awe of how this remarkable woman was able to navigate this minefield. Straight up, she had it much more difficult than I ever did, but it rings so true.

  • @bsmack66
    @bsmack66 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don't know what is wrong with parents. Why can't they just let a child be who they are. This is what drives a lot of kids to suicide or drugs, by being hassled all the time, "Stop being a sissy, go play sports with boys". And don't forget about your classmates. They can be just as brutal too, almost to the point where they would like to kill you.

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +bsmack66 Yes! I feel so sorry when I hear stories of children who have experienced this terrible situation.

    • @bsmack66
      @bsmack66 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +TheRetroWoman80 Parents are always thinking of what other people think of their sons being like that. No father wants to hear his friends saying so and so's son is a sissy. But when both parents do it, where is a child to turn for support. People act like its a choice to be like this. Sometimes the way a child is treated makes them like that. The child is going through enough hell as it is. That is why a lot of trans kids attempt suicide.

    • @Blueflamelotus17
      @Blueflamelotus17 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      No if you look at the suicidal rates of people who do this is pretty high. Everyone run away from this sexual habit it kills and its dangerous!! Even after these transplants they still dont feel like a true women. God created him to be a man not a woman if he did he would have gave him a vagina.

  • @amarosea
    @amarosea 9 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Janet Mock is a brilliant and amazing Black woman! Protect ALL Black girls and women at all costs!

    • @amarosea
      @amarosea 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Any and all transphobic and mis-gendering comments will be immediately deleted and blockedt. Stay pressed.

    • @RodRod82
      @RodRod82 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not a girl or woman.

    • @veynai898
      @veynai898 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rodney Rose Explain?

  • @mariahscurry19
    @mariahscurry19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The way she describes her relationship with her parents and how they treated her and how they treat her after transition is literally the exact same way it happened with me. I'm so grateful to have parents that really care and accepted me . But it was tough with my dad before transition .

  • @hollabooiers
    @hollabooiers 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Such a great interview, I'm blown away. It gives me so much hope for a future to see these things discussed in mainstream media, even if I'm a white cis female myself. Thank you Janet and thank you Huffington Post.

  • @goldwellnesscenter
    @goldwellnesscenter 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The power of her assertion and "calling out" of the injustices of the trans experience can tend toward a "victim" mentality when not held in check. I believe Janet does more than a fantastic job of treading this balance. That being said- JANET ROCKS FOR HUMAN RIGHTS, EQUALITY, AND BUILDING AWARENESS! Thanks for paving a path for me in my transition.

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Gr8possibilties I hope that your transition is all that you want it to be. Don't let the ugliness of this world kill the fire or the truth in you.

  • @elena7659
    @elena7659 10 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Janet Mock...you beautiful beautiful soul :-)

  • @velabela7634
    @velabela7634 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Janet you go Girl!! 🙆💪❤

    • @JJ-fq9zr
      @JJ-fq9zr 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a man

    • @velabela7634
      @velabela7634 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +JJ 36723 Trans woman. Men don't identify as Women.

    • @Logan800
      @Logan800 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      u go man is more like it

    • @zekcool5468
      @zekcool5468 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JJ-fq9zrshe’s a transgender woman

  • @NattyByNature-
    @NattyByNature- 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They don’t want us to see these types of conversations, to have representation because it will affirm the things we already knew. It would be our ‘ah ha moment my feelings are valid’. They find every reason to invalidate us such as it’s because you were raised with absent fathers, it’s because you’re confused, it’s because someone hurt you, it’s because you have psychological issues. It’s trauma etc. it’s us, it’s who we are, it’s who we’ve been born to be. And as a lesbians i stand with the trans community, I know the queer community sometimes excludes trans but it should be so. Our job is to love, that’s all, love!

  • @KelseyJoMusic
    @KelseyJoMusic 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such a seriously great watch, what an intelligent and lovely woman. I support LGBT 4eva!

  • @meaganhua5899
    @meaganhua5899 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It sucks that she had to deal with all that gender policing.

    • @dominiquevas9798
      @dominiquevas9798 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know, it's terrible. You should read her book, she talks about it very openly, she's really had quite a journey. What a beautiful, inspiring woman.

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Dominique Vas Yes, this book was a mind opener....especially if you're mind wasn't already open.

  • @DontCallItAComeback8
    @DontCallItAComeback8 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    +Kerry Pal, plenty of people are interested. If you aren't, please go find a video you are interested in and watch it instead.

  • @Prlvrboi1
    @Prlvrboi1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At this point those who don't understand don't want to understand. Little do they know they are not absolved from their own ignorance. Gender is a social construct: A set of rules that is made up by society. How can you tell anyone who they are? People can self identify. Funny how those who claimed to have been oppressed are the ones now who want to be the oppressor. Janet is wonderful in every way.

    • @weyde1
      @weyde1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      And who are those who "claimed to have been oppressed ? Would they happen to be the indigenous peoples of the Americas who were enslaved and upon whom genocide was perpetrated, some of whom intermarried and interbred with the white Europeans and now have lighter skin and straighter hair and identify themselves as being "white", Carlos Garcia????? Exactly to whom are you referring?

    • @jeromea.2467
      @jeromea.2467 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely. People self medicate everyday. But no one talks about that!

  • @dominiquevas9798
    @dominiquevas9798 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is so so beautiful!

  • @The8thKira
    @The8thKira 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    does anyone know where that dress is from?

  • @adriannathompson4552
    @adriannathompson4552 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know this is serious topic and I do appreciate that. But I'm going to make shallow comment, she is beautiful and I love, love her hair

  • @kleversonjdsr7986
    @kleversonjdsr7986 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She didnt have girlhood. She had boyhood

  • @michellemarie2590
    @michellemarie2590 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Janet is fortunate she’s attractive, it allows her a platform in our beauty conscious America. Her dad truly loved her. Dad suffered, she’s blessed he sacrificed to love his child. Beauty has its advantages sad to say but it’s true. I pray for our culture’s obsession with gender orientation and sexuality. Hopefully the pendulum will shift to a focus on feeding hungry children and those single parent families absent a father. There is where support matters because our children are our future and they need to know there is hope and they are loved. Janet’s parents did a good job parenting but other than the personal decision to become trans gender and tell her story how is she helping enrich the community? Sincere question.

    • @weyde1
      @weyde1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I believe we are biologically programmed to worry about gender issues because, as a species, at least for now, in order to perpetuate ourselves, it is absolutely necessary to have biological females and males to reproduce. If there is a drastic swing in transgenderism, where-in so-called trans women outnumber biological women, at some point there would not be a sufficient pool size of biological male and females to reproduce at a rate necessary to sustain the human species.

  • @deannagreen2006
    @deannagreen2006 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great speaking up about your gender identity I believe this is a choice we make later on in life once we become old enough to know 8/20/24.

  • @vanessaloy1049
    @vanessaloy1049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why could "he" not simply be a feminine-acting male?

    • @amandaweidmann8359
      @amandaweidmann8359 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      because this is who She is

    • @Logan800
      @Logan800 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he is

    • @weyde1
      @weyde1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You make a great point Vanessa. Are we, the so-called cisgender to assume that every feminine-acting male is a trans gendered female, or vice-versa?

    • @lunamoon4603
      @lunamoon4603 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has gender dysphoria, she always identify with being a girl and wouldn’t feel comfortable in male body. I don’t know why you imply that she could just be feminine men. Do you think she transition only because she’s feminine because this clearly isn’t the case.

    • @Hjclost4154
      @Hjclost4154 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@weyde1 yea good term "so-called " she can define herself but she had no right to define others. This is the problem I have with this. Be you, define you but don't define other women
      That's the hypocrisy of this. It's not her right to define other women as Cis.

  • @aoloriginals
    @aoloriginals 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great interview! Check out Laura Jane Grace's trans journey on 'True Trans' here: goo.gl/2rGvnJ

  • @JesusandTiffany67
    @JesusandTiffany67 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are blessed with your family mine all deserted me, I have 3 grandchildren 4 miles away I can't see. As I read your book I saw parents struggling and trying to do the right thing. Coming out makes you stronger by the dirt thrown at us. Christians seem to forget that Jesus said what you do to the least of these you did to Me, what is Jesus going to say to them when they stand before Him.

  • @zekcool5468
    @zekcool5468 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @andreschavez9882
    @andreschavez9882 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    these comments are so crazy about trans women and all of you false opinions and represantations of them your opinions honestly dont matter and you dont validate someone's transtition if it does not in any way effect you move on there are bigger issues in the world

  • @DeShard64
    @DeShard64 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A FATHER'S WORST NIGHTMARE. NO GRAND BABIES FROM HIS BLOODLINE.

    • @sandrallewellyn2632
      @sandrallewellyn2632 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAASPT2 first of all boo hoo. Second of all did you miss the part where she said her brother just had a baby??

  • @charlylocke
    @charlylocke 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Am i the only person who wants them to hook up?

    • @minkagaston
      @minkagaston 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Xaldin Os she's married

    • @weyde1
      @weyde1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes.

  • @patforsman3213
    @patforsman3213 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thought this video was extremely informative and kind hearted, but the comments section is pure evil and toxic to read. Makes me sad that this is the world we live in.

  • @iloveamerica007
    @iloveamerica007 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im confused here, does cisgender refer to straight people?

    • @DorianPaige00
      @DorianPaige00 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      No, cis-gender refers to people who are born the same gender that they live as. It is the direct opposite of transgender. If you are not transgender, you are cisgender.

    • @iloveamerica007
      @iloveamerica007 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Autumn Aarilyn so if I was born biologically and in the gender sense of "male" then I would be cis-gender?

    • @DorianPaige00
      @DorianPaige00 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jonathan Thomas
      Yup, you got it!

    • @iloveamerica007
      @iloveamerica007 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Autumn Aarilyn lol then why not just say straight?

    • @iloveamerica007
      @iloveamerica007 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Autumn Aarilyn or is that insulting?

  • @dglorious1269
    @dglorious1269 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. Could fool so many people! But is he an actor? The face kinda looks familiar.

  • @Adaughtersheart-Isa53
    @Adaughtersheart-Isa53 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ahhh man...spoiler alert. I now know about her Dad's response...so won't be surprised when I read the book : )

  • @ummmummm563
    @ummmummm563 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2 minutes of that voice is enuff .

  • @joshlmccall6294
    @joshlmccall6294 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My god that is one beautiful Trans woman. I cant help but gaze at her! Lol.. I'm not into woman at all but she's very beautiful. And i think if your wanting or going to be a woman be a pretty one.😉

  • @ladycmitchell1396
    @ladycmitchell1396 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol..My stupid mother little boys don't do this and that..She would police me..