Sayyora and JD: First Comes Love, Then Comes Jealousy | Family or Fiance S2E12 | Full Episode | OWN
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- After a bride was unfaithful early in their relationship, the groom now battles with extreme jealousy and control issues that have her family worried for her emotional well-being. In addition, her cultural traditions clash with his ambitions. (Original air date: October 16, 2021)
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Sayyora and JD: First Comes Love, Then Comes Jealousy | Family or Fiance S2E12 | Full Episode | OWN
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Can we all take a moment and shout-out Pop for taking care of three kids after his wife left.
Those Children Are Ruined Mentally And Emotionally It’s Being Played Out Through JD Right Now And Ain’t No Telling What’s Going On With His Siblings!!!
@clashon4life843 so mom should have not left then or stay accessible.
Absolutely because after a single parent is a foster parent.
No because that's what he supposed to do as a parent. And besides the wife probably left cause he was beating on her and just in a toxic enviroment
@@marceejohnson4113 so you leave your three kids and never come back yeah I doubt that you know women can be trash too 😉
his family thinking it's okay for him to not be contributing is insane!!!
Enablers
@@jrobinson7765💯
Shut Up
He's not contributing in the way they want him to.
@@tempestlove9546 like in the financial way? They don’t mind him living off of a woman and that is an issue.
Those 3 women spoke some sense into her while away! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I pray she continues to move upward and forward (WITHOUT HIM) and he gets the help he truly needs.
One thing about Tracy..she is going to hold you accountable and take a look in the mirror. I thought they were going to call security the way he was looking.
Yea I am glad Tracy told her to go. He definitely was trying to intimidated her 😢
Dang. I didn't want to read too much into him saying he was "possessive" until he snatched that mic.
right!!! And then the whole in the room without camera was way too much. I can only imagine what happens at home when no one is there.
@@TeneshiaWilliamsI bet he roughed her up over nothing. His brother is also a bit aggressive
Him not contributing is him punishing her, period.
If you continue to stay after being cheated on, LET IT GO.
Sn- how tf is he upset that she lifts her skirt but, he takes pics of her for the World to see her on her Website?. Make it make sense.
I thought the same about ALL OF THIS!!! Especially, him punishing her. Smfh
@@ms.j9693 Right, everyone keeps bashing her but, obviously that Boy felt like he doesn't have to do anything because she got it. What Male is cool with letting the Woman, carry the load alone?
Wells that what he must like and chose to propose too so he must like that does that in order to pay ALL the bills
I don’t understand what’s wrong with wanting a man to work or get educated to better himself and his self worth? Thank you for your answer.
@@heavensurvivor2097 agree … girl is going to be a lawyer
What’s up with his mumbling? That would drive me bananas!!
I am struggling with this episode 8 minutes in because of this
Must be yall ears
Stop looking at how he speaks and what has he done to you that you can judge him. That's him, accept it OR leave it. How dare you. You need to reflect on your life and how you appear to others because YOU were triggered by his "not opening his mouth" nonsense 😮
😂 I was thinking the same. Driving me nuts
I thought it was just me, i was like dude open your mouth and speak. But i noticed when they were off camera he had no problem speaking!
Note about the couple. I don't respect man who wont work. Nope
And I think the dad lying about the mom not reaching out after she left. He strikes me as the type that would tell her “if you leave don’t EVER come back”
The mother never wrote a letter?
She probably was scared to come back....that man seemed abusive
BINGO! SHE GOT TIRED OF BEING THE BREADWINNER
Possibly, yet a mother not having anything to do with her children even when they are adults is a bit disturbing on a mother's end.
@@kamys6133no he doesn't
That stare summed EVERYTHING UP !! 😅😂😂Rap it up Sis … he could’ve had you & the career he’s a grown man the choice is always his as long as he’s alive
Girl leave him! You will be miserable and walking on egg shells for the rest of your life.
This man has serious anger issues no matter how calm he seems on the outside that scene was scary af!!!
Yes the way he got mad and the scene where kept staring at her got me really uncomfortable. Makes me think he puts his hands on her or can even kill her😢
Soon she she start apologizing I just knew it was going left
Yesssss😢
@@aniahrichmond7637 yes the way she started apologizing sounded like she was scared of him hurting her.
pure contempt for women...its scary
his dad is apart of the problem!!!! him dismissing his mom being his issue said a lot. and truthfully I wouldn’t believe everything that comes out his mouth. He probably is the reason she left .
That’s why he dismissed it. He either killed that lady or was so abusive and toxic she ran to save her life and he kept the kids. The Apple and the tree. That’s why they were desensitized to what happened in that house.
What’s telling to me is the dad said she left because “she was afraid I’d treat her like her mother did”. He said her family was abusive so why would she randomly think her husband would be unless he showed signs of
It’s bitter baby daddies out here too. Ppl don’t like to speak on that though
The older generation really sometimes hates it when we try to discuss our childhood trauma. Tell your son where he came from. Point your son in the direction of their mother's family.
I agree on the part of telling him where he came from, but the mother abandoned all of them and she needs to be reaching out to her kids. He needs counseling and some kind of understanding or closure from her leaving.
Right. Where is his mother’s family? Why would grandparents ignore children from their daughter.
Is the hotel there for back up or do they really stay there?
It’s WAY more to that story for sure. I don’t believe a mother would leave her 3 kids with their dad for NO reason at all. There are two sides to every story. I pray they all find healing.
I'm so confused? Did he give up a professional football position to be with this girl? Ain't no way in hell!!! he was probably getting nowhere with going pro and latched onto her
That part
He seems short. Maybe it was college football
It’s not like he was in the NFL or anything sounds to me like it was Arena football
The judgements on this Gorgeous intelligent young man is appalling. All Grace is given to the Whites and stepping back for the blacksm
If he was close to the NFL he would have a college education. If he didn’t make college ball, he’s just a wannabe
One thing Tracy gone do, is get. Straight. To. It!
Home girl said...JD she is breaking up with you lmaoooo
Blaming her for quitting football is manipulative
Very!!!
He quit cause he sucked
Right cause something in him didn’t believe in him self to begin with
@@ogriss412yeah i don’t know much abt football but id assume that if you’d give it up as a career bc of the long commute, then you weren’t getting paid
@@Alexis-wg5nx 💯
He's definitely abusing that girl. He's manipulating her to staying with him because she cheated in the beginning. I hope she doesn't change her mind about him moving out and them breaking up.
Lets be honest here. JD never cared to do football. It was just easier to put the blame on his ex gf so he wouldn't disappoint his dad too much.
Agreed! Totally
Agreed! Because there's literally no way. Quitting foe a girl let's you know he wasn't cut out for it.
They don’t need to be together. He needs to focus on football and real estate until he gets to where he wants to be. And he definitely needs counseling.
That’s the thing with guys they don’t focus on themselves, get therapy or have the pursuit to change their circumstances instead they rather blame the girl having standards
His dream for football is over and it shouldn't take this long for him to be in real estate if he really wanted to support himself. The fact that he looked at Sayyora in a threatening manner when she asked for him to get his stuff that day tells me he is all talk and wants to a woman to cater to him because he has alleged abandonment issues. He is not the prize and she did the best thing for not only her health but sanity to leave his dusty, and emotionally abusive behind!
Facts
As a law graduate, I can’t imagine selling your “sexy pics” online is a good start to being a lawyer, just hope it’s not coming back against her in future
I was thinking the same thing lol
It will
Exactly I think she really wanted the Daddy Type (Sugar Daddy) but landed the son because she aint the Daddy's type.
Nothing illegal about her actions.
@@DeloresSimpson-go7yfno it’s not. However, ethics and code of conduct in person and online are a thing for many professions because of how it makes the profession look, especially if working with the public.
He does not need to be in a relationship his mental is not there
Was scared for her the way he looked deeply at her while host constantly called him.
These people are delusional if they don’t think standards are important. 🤔🤦🏾♀️
No standard in the Bc just chaos
Exactly
i was sitting there like wow they have no clue 🤦🏽♀️
Standards and selling her body is delusional
@@Yourfavorite-cx6jzthat’s the families issues is that her family on considers standards on his behalf and not hers.
I'm glad her mom intervened. I was frightened for her.
I think JD needed a place to stay without being responsible. And that's all he's going to miss
She cheated once & he'll NEVER get over that per his actions. He said he's never been in a relationship, he's possessive, jealous & controlling & emotionally unstable. She definitely need to move on because most relationships like this don't end well.
I wonder about his statement that he had never been in a relationship. That was weird.
How are women any different when a man cheats
People don't just disappear, the mother's disappearance needs to be investigated.
Men do it all the time. Would you say the same thing???
Some men do it all the time
Naw some do my stepfathers mom did
Him shaking that lil finger in her face like she's a child is crazy!!! He's crazy
So we just gonna ignore him abusing her on the show
Turning the shower water on?? He was definitely about to beat her!
I think he did give her a few smacks
Right…she went from being mad to apologetic so quickly!!! And she said stop coming at me like that
That was not a one time thing for sure. Him turning that shower on was strategic. He thought that through and her fear was not the first time. She knew his pattern was on open display.
Whoaaaaa she needs to run away from his insecure behind and fast
So having standards is high maintenance 😂😂 if he was really focused on football he wouldn't have quit in the first place in my opinion
That threatening stare he gave Sayyora during that final meeting with Tracy was definitely nerve-wracking. He is definitely a manipulator and an abuser in every sense of the word. I'm glad she was able to free herself from that toxic relationship.
OWN we need updates or a follw up show
He needs to get a job … without an income puts him at a disadvantage. I wouldn’t want that for my daughter
JD has abandonment issues because of his mother. He feels no woman will love him because his own mother didn't. He feels he is unlovable because the one woman who should have loved him abandoned him.
Exactly, I honestly feel sorry for him
Damn u bumped the nail on the head
That may be true. But dude has some mental issues
And that’s sad, you can see him hurting trying to fight against the feeling but it’s just too deep
You can feel sorry for him but he will cause women pain and agony because of his own stuff. And to add insult to injury, he will try to be controlling but manipulative to cause you to Believe he's like that because of you.
This abandonment story sound fishy af🤥.......more like a disappearance that should be investigated🤔🤔🤔
The father definitely killed her because he said she vanished
My spirit said the same thing
Oh wow!😢😢😮
That's what I'm thinking. Where is the mom?
Went men do it do we investigate it
I wish SO BAD for JD…….
That the presence of a HEALTHY Black mother was his experience.
Because I’d doubt we’d be here.
He needs to raise his self esteem.
Ima also say this…..
Black women don’t just UP AND LEAVE the CHILDREN.
An abusive man….yes.
To leave her children behind either tells us there is a mental health issue OR his mother was ESCAPING. 💯
Facts.
💯
My thoughts as well
But I wouldn't have escaped and leave my children, I would have taken them as well..
I feel this whole heartedly and I wish this for both parties men don’t leave your babies idc how much the mama acting bitter fight to be in your kids lives. Kids need mama and daddy!
I’m so glad she left and I hope the split was safe. Glad she has a supportive family. He is off!!
JD had some serious issues and his family was fanning the fire
JD has some serious issues ; it was awful the way he treated Sayyora ; she did right to end it
Good looking monster
And she was unfaithful, NEVER Admitted it and makes money on OF 😮
@@HoneySuckle123 can’t complain if you supporting the hoizm
@@HoneySuckle123"NEVER admitted it"? huh?
@HoneySuckle123 Yeah, and JD helps her to film content and benefits from it financially. What else?
Tracy knows that daddy is lying. Something's not right.🤔
Right it's giving the daddy killed the momma
Dad probably harbored a lot of anger and pain behind being left so who knows how that household was after that 😢
You are absolutely correct. The father ran that lady off.
He most definitely puts his hands on her and i believe that his dad did it to his mom as well because he was dancing around the reason she left because he new the truth would of came out if the topic was pushed further
Maybe his mom if she is alive will see this episode and respond. Mothers are the first woman who loves you, he does not even remember her. JD's dad may have been abusive too.
It’s very obvious that he puts his hands on her in private. Glad she took this opportunity to get out & her family was able to see it 👏🏾
Definitely! When she said no please don't lock the door i knew it for sure. And then she got loud so they could hear her cause she was scared. He was holding himself back with that stare. He wanted to jump on her so bad! Im glad she left hope she never looks back.
I recently watched the movie 'White Bird in a Blizzard" where the mom vanished without a trace, similar to JD's mom. Turned out, the dad murdered the mom and hid it for years. Raised his daughter under the impression that her mom just left because she was unhappy.
😟
I was thinking the exact same thing.
His dad drained his mom. 😢
He’s a ticking time bomb, he seems so dangerous, I’m glad she ended it
Very dangerous, the horrible thing is he probably wouldn't want to hurt her, but out of rage and all the compounded feelings, she could be gone.😢
If he does that ON camera, God only knows what he’s doing off! That was scary to witness
I really hope she sticks to her word and leave. He has some mental issues that he needs to deal with. I know from personal experience, until YOU stand on your word, the mental abuse will continue.
His face looked like he was gonna smack her up later. 😢
JD's family need to realize how is he going to get married but don't work
Thank u for choosing you, So Many of us don’t choose wisely
Really ?? Where’s jds mum? His father seems sketchy and jd is not right at all smh
The dad knows the mom didnt just vanish and leave him with 3 kids. You can see it on his face
Exactly..and not even a phone call???...COME ON NOW🤦♀️🤦♀️
Seems he passed down the dysfunction to his children. A woman normally has to wrestle with leaving her kids behind and never contacting them.
Something just not right here🤔
Right. I had to rewind it because I thought I missed something
The way I be googling folks on these shows..Im about scared to. Him and them strong arms just ain't sitting right with me.
If she gets back with him after this, she will be picking out her own grave plot by the weekend
I KNOW JD GOING TO STALK HER 😢
I really hope not. For everyone’s sake. Smh
Mom left dad with 3 of her precious babies?!? Sis run 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
He is DRAINING!!!!
That dad did something to the mom. Something is off about him and his son. RUN YOUNG LADY, RUN
If your loved one goes missing...don't you file a police report? He def threatened her life & she's in hiding...or he killed her in cold blood
Thought I was the only one who picked up on that... suspicious
I thought the same thing!! I hope she is alive and well.
She kept saying repeatedly stop coming at me when they were upstairs. He has been abusive in the past no doubt about it.
Red flag, Jd is probably doing to her what his dad did to his mother. His mother, probably didnt just vanish. Her kids better find their mother's family and ask them what they think happened to their mother. Jd is repeating a cycle.
It finally hit him that he gave away his football career for nothing
Right!!NOTHING is the word!!👏👏👏
He didn’t have a chance at career. Too short and too lazy
He did it by choice cos he wanna be with her more than he wanna make a life for himself
He is the problem
@@Cereal_kwillaand short tempered
JD sr is part of his son's problem. He needs to hold his son accountable.
Nobody has held him accountable. I don’t believe the mom left 3 babies and never looked back, even if she was a dope fiend etc, even the bad moms come around when their kids are doing well, sports, pageants etc….
JD NEEDS Therapy asap. He's a very bad space. He scared me when he stared at her so intently in the therapy room & couldn't respond to the therapist's call. Sorroya needs to MOVE ON ALONE.
When she busted them in the kitchen talking 😂😂😂
"Subscription based" = OF
A man suppose to provide, protect and lead...
He just felt disrespected the entire relationship, with her doing OF , she very promiscuous & cheated 3 mos in the relationship. He should've left her then & focused on his football career.
This guy is just red flags for dayyyyz.....
They only see value in these men when they rich and playing for the NFL 😂😂
Yessss you are sooo true and I pray they wake up and see the light!!👏👏👏👏
Yes then they good enough 😂😂
Facts
JD is…”lost in the sauce, not a boss, trying to find Rick Ross. “ He needs guidance and to be on his Square / purpose. He’s got his priorities BACKWARDS.
YEP. OTHERWISE, THEY WOULDN'T BE GIVING HIM THE TIME OF DAY
Ain’t this the girl from bad girls club?
Yup
That’s she!!!! Lmao
I hate how scripted the reality shows have become. Was she as Docile on The Bad Girl's Club. Because I often think people pretend, on that Show.
I remember her! She’s so beautiful
All the do is bounce from show to show lol
Are we sure mom “vanished”?
Exactly 💯
I think his dad did the same thing we're seeing onscreen.
Ask again! Not even a phone call to her kids all these years mmmh
Oh my goodness, I was thinking the same thing.. I hope the dad didn’t do something to the mom.. It seems like the son is acting out what he has seen.. Something doesn’t sit right
No. She escaped.
When a woman is absent and not deceased……..something is amiss.
Yeah JD is not the one, he needs to work on his self and literally open his mouth. The way he talked irritated me. He takes zero accountability! What family doesn’t have standards for their loved ones?! That’s unrealistic!
Omg,when he ripped her mike off her and locked the door..no way..
He's seems a little abusive to me.
Little ain't the word
A little?
Little?!?! WHAT?!!!! that was crazy. Her family had to rescue her and then her eyes were finally open. That man was putting her through some stuff. Mumbling in public and clearly with a raised voice cursing at her in private.
I think the son's behavior stemmed from his dad, the mom left to get away from the dad who also seems to have anger issues. The entire family has very controlling behaviors and need to seek therapy. And why does everyone have the same name, this is just to much!!! :)
Bag full of idiots 😅
This man is childish
with his slow speech, anger, and playing football. i think he has a traumatic brain injury. side note this does NOT excuse his behavior
Interesting!
Chile; this was a good one!
JD senior trying to dismiss his sons childhood. Yet he had the same issues is crazy. JD and senior both give abusive vibes. That's prob why the mother left. But senior won't admit that!!!
His family defending him 😩😡😟
That’s what’s wrong with todays man!!!
JD and his dad have issues. I hope they both get counseling
The dad is lying
Definitely, after he said the mom thought it he was going to be like her family . He probably was abusing her in some way .
He killed her.
@@crystalpalms2183hmmm 🤔
@@OurForeverMemories same thing I was thinking
Dude has the 'potential' to end up on fatal attraction is what
Run sis!!! Mr Man leave that woman alone 😔 you're not ready to be in a relationship work on yourself
He's definitely possessive 😔. I see something mentally going on here with mister. He needs to seek professional help.
If he get a NFL contract he be prince charming...
Him being financially secure would definitely have changed the energy…..
Because as stated, the women from her culture REQUIRE men to make the money.
Are they too called gold diggers? Or is is only Black women who are tired of doing everyone’s job who get labeled this term when we require a man to be financially stable to support a family….
I think if he had a job or was going to school they’d be cool but what is he doing?
@@Drando1989black men have never financially supported black women we have always worked other races of women is not going to stay with a black man with no money long term… they want us to stay in struggle love avoid the black community and date out …. When they get anything over 50k lol they date anyone but black .. black men only date black women when they down bad once they up your discarded avoid the treasonous beahvior and date out
@@Drando1989Exactly!!
What's wrong with both people providing financially
Her family wouldn't let him finish answering questions before they began another question..that's a big cultural difference...please let me finish talking..something we don't play about...they have already formed an opinion that's why they are doing that too...annoying as hell
JD is one scary dude. I hope she’s far away from him and safe.
Daddy is a trip and he ain’t telling he whole story about mom 😮
He knows they will never find her body talking about she vanished 🤔
Investigate the Dad, where is the mum? Is she even alive?
Because if she tries to leave him he might kill her. Scared for her
Controlling/ dangerous; a man that hates his biological mother is no good women unless getting therapy & properly healing.
So no one has nothing to say? About Amarais 😮 hair? I’m sorry 😢 but why???
Giirl😂
The mom was yelling as well. Her family totally overlooked her infidelity, and he shouldn't have trust issues, especially when she is like his first girlfriend.
JD's behavior was threatening, the way he stared at her in front of Tracy was scary. He needs to get help for his issues. Mothers who abandon their kids just well as when fathers leave their children suffer with life long issues. I wonder myself where his mother is maybe JD should start a search for her it could be a different story than what his father told him.
This man need therapy..
This dude is broken. Deeply disturbing. He has an angry monster on the inside. The crazy part is that his father doesnt see it or want to see it.
It would be like looking at his reflection.
Her faniky is going ham on the food. His family plates has bird food bites. Lol
The problem is he has to take accountability for making the wrong decision. You should never stop your own dreams just to be with someone else. If you can't do both at the same time it just won't work.
Him tripping over the camera man micing her up is very concerning
JD Go Back To Football 🏈 Don’t Put Nobody Over Your Career!! Period
Too many JD’s
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂