Khaneisha and LaBarron: From Friends to Secret Lovers | Family or Fiance S2 E20 | Full Episode | OWN
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- A couple who started as friends but then turned romantic faces backlash from the bride's family for leaving them in the dark. And when the bride's mother suspects larger issues, a small miscommunication quickly turns into drama. (Original air date: December 11, 2021)
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Khaneisha and LaBarron: From Friends to Secret Lovers | Family or Fiance S2 E20 | Full Episode | OWN
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I think his mom did the right thing, letting everyone know her son has value and brings value to the space.
Amen
All of those things yet his fiancé said nothing. So he gets compared to a dog, leaving the guy open to be overly criticized.
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His mom at the end. . . I got chills. My mom always says the same "Don't go where you're TOLERATED, go where you're CELEBRATED." I love that his mom stood up for him with class.
PERIOD
Yes....
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤎🤎yes
Nah, she's holding onto some resentment because I think she's projecting a class issue onto the family. Her dad said he felt comfortable with him, gave his blessing without hesitation.
Had anyone seen that coming, there could have been time carved out to have a conversation with her where HER concerns could have been brought to the surface, and given light in this special setting. Nobody saw it though
It was a missed opportunity. In fact, the two moms should have talked.
Her mom said she loved him through tears despite everything, I think he is being celebrated in their company.
What if there's no where you're loved?
When the mom started talking about all of her sons accomplishments 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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What accomplishments
@@walterbrown2425You must not have been listening...replay it...
@@emeliaskoog2882 nothing she listed was an accomplishment, everything was basic from the college degree to working a part time job and personal training on the side! What did I miss? These things seem basic to me
@@walterbrown2425 I think the issue is because the bride’s family tried to make it seem like the groom is taking advantage of the bride in some way because she makes more than him and the groom’s mother was saying that he has his own and is not taking advantage of the bride. Having your own business is an accomplishment because not everyone has the wherewithal to do that. Additionally, we see more people just following along with trends and others, and being an outlier (in terms of morality, faith, character, integrity, etc.) is an accomplishment in today’s society.
I like him. He's confident, very direct, very respectful, very clear with his thoughts, and an excellent communicator.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
And he laid himself bare to be vulnerable, something that not many men will do...that makes him a gem in my opinion...
I think keeping the family out of their relationship is the best way to protect your relationship
Ye they seem to be jealous she's happy especially the sister
Only if ur doing it with both family's
Boundaries are necessary but there is a healthy balance
His family appears open and welcoming; that makes a difference. Setting boundaries is important, but it's easy to let those in that want you in!!
Absolutely 👍
I like how Labarron held his own against her family. He communicates well because he’s direct and straight to the point.
I agree. He presented himself well.
Yes...some people like her family thought he was aggressive, the problem is they don't know how to communicate that's why they felt he was abusive.
He is a King. Her family recognizes that he is not to be intimidated and not for the games.
When "If my confidence OFFENDS YOU...." is a person.😂😂😂😂
I LOVED how he turned the questions back on her family. They were not ready.
And now we see why she doesn't tell her parents & sister anything..
They’re very difficult people
HEYAL YEAH!!!!
Her dad was more on her side than her mom. When they were sitting outside, he looked like he wanted her mom to STFU
Exactly..
Exactly! That’s exactly what i said, the sister & mom are horrible. The sister needs to mind her business. The mom needs to control her daughter.
Based off of these interactions, I can see why she doesn’t communicate with her family much or maybe doesn’t feel comfortable doing so.
Agreed. Especially the sister. She's a real piece of work
Cutest Couple And The Grooms Mom Is A Whole Prize That Woman Is About TRUE LOVE Not Just Acceptance For Her Child
💯💯The two of them are gorgeous and truly in love-so proud of his mom for standing up for what’s right.
I wish Tracy had her own show with more of her coaching. I like the way she gives advice and reads people.
This! ❤
@@andreadavis5219 I want Tracy to council me!
Yes, Labarron’s mom is standing 10 toes down with her son and his future wife. I’m the same about my boys. Don’t play with them!! I see why she doesn’t tell them anything.
You
mothers
are,
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part of the problem -creating narcissist, mama's-boys.
So basically she introduced him as a friend because of how her family is - overly opinionated and judgmental!
She even tried to soft launch him by saying there were dating
*They
Right!!! By the way her sister was acting, we all see why she didn’t tell them at first
I think the sis is kinda jealous too
@@jessmumbi I agree. That was the first thought that popped up for me. Too invested in not being told.
Her side of the family is obviously the problem 😂
😂😂😂😂
Miserable
😂😂😂 they too much
😂😂😂 cause wtf
Too churchy
Her sister is giving me bully vibes and her mom is giving me snobbish.
Very that! I was SO put off by their behavior
You hit the nail on the head 💯
I was like girl you all are pretty but be jealous of your sister because she’s fit. If you’re unhappy with yourself change yourself.
It was clear that she her sister aren’t close for obvious reasons not because she was left out. That girl doesn’t like her sister, it was visible in her eyes, her speech to her sister, her subliminal hints to LB. 😣
She knows how the family acts so she didn’t want them to know. They have control her whole life. This is why she hides the truth
On EVERYTHING🎯
Sister is jealous and making her issues with lack of a relationship with her sister a problem in their dating relationship. He’s a nice man and very respectful. I can appreciate his mother’s opinions and feedback. Ms. Rhonda plays no games and that’s fair
I love the way Rhonda, his mother, stood up for her son! You don't get to put my child down and compare him to a dog and then think that I am going to be ok with you. No ma'am, not today.
The brides sister looked unhappy ( within herself )
The look after she gave the blessing..she jealous 😂
That look was, I still don't like you!
@@comediccheffaith😂 I'm laughing out loud 😂
@@comediccheffaith Hell is HOT, why would you say thisssss. 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
@@emeliaskoog2882what did they say? It’s deleted now 😭
Her family, oh my. This is a class issue. Her family thinks they are better than regular Black folks.
What are regular black folks?
A man who marries a well off family will constantly have to prove himself. It's nothing to do with race.
im sure if it was some hnba player they wouldnt have nothing to say lol
@@janedeane3656😒😒 or white and wealthy 👀👀
@@walterbrown2425I'm going to take a guess and assume they mean average earning class blk ppl
I loved the grooms mother. That's a WOMAN! So direct and very respectful
"My question to you guys, Why would she hide it"😂😂😂Amen brotha. Her sister irritated me
MIC DROP, jaw drop ect lol
This is one of the best couples that has been on here so far...if anything they are there for eachother
As a fellow “one and only,” LaBarron’s mom has my respect! She was spot on about being wanting her son to be “celebrated and not tolerated.” Khaneisha’s family may have money but they are broken and he will need to decide if it’s a good fit for his future kids. 🖤
Hmmm facts
Yes because if it was my son that she compared to be a dog I couldn’t of did it I don’t have the tack or the patient that his mama have
Did you see how her dad rolled back when his wife kept playing hardball, after he made a concession?
Why does her family think her Personal Business is Family Business?
Heck I really thought they had a family business
They're concerned if she marries him that he would have access to the family business.
Said as her parents, they have the right to know her business 🤚🏽
@@michellebailey9960they don’t need to know all her business.
Because that’s how real family operates.😂
Her family wants to be entitled but doesn’t realize they played in the part of her not feeling comfortable talking about things with them. It’s like what did you expect?!!!
During the sit down, the dad was open but mom still needed to be “right”
The sister definitely need to go sit down somewhere and get her own business and stop trying to get in her sisters
Right. She’s terrible
I disagree! She doesn't ever need to SIT. She needs to GET UP and JOG everywhere she goes. 🤷🏾♀️
@@judygriffith1358OMGGGG😭😭😭🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾
@@sashatv382right! A year is plenty of time...
@@sashatv382jealous. Look at the difference between them. The least of it is that the sister is very jealous and very unkind. The way she chased her!😮
Child, please, my family dont know much of my relationship. Imma show up with a ring on it.😂
Yes.... and on your honeymoon!
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Same ..mine didn't know I was until my kids told it..that's all that needed to know😂😂
Lmao my dad’s family still doesn’t know I’m married.. idc they think we’re just dating.
Khaneisha’s sister is giving jealousy and bully energy.
Maybe her sister is not happy within her life and feels a way about Khaneisha finding happiness(if applicable) and now wants to bring misery and doubts.
Sister go find you somebody pleeeeeasse🙄
Yup
Before she said one word sitting on that couch 🛋 I said from her expressions she is not happy with her life. Hurt ppl, hurt ppl. That girl needs to release that and have a good cry and some hugs
She would be much happier if she took care of overall health!
Yep she's a HATER
I don’t share my relationship stuff with my family either until I know it’s solid.
Her momma needs to go talk to her sister. Sis is verbally abusive.
Well she did say that she has a problem with the way he speaks in the beginning so it could be misinterpreted
I honestly feel like Khaneshia is a runner. She can’t stand five minutes in a convo that makes her uncomfortable even with the THERAPIST. This is why LeBarron also has communication issues with her. He is direct and blunt. Just like her family however Khanesia runs and doesn’t want to discuss issues. She could’ve clarified everything but instead she ran to Lebarrons family for backup, instead of standing ten toes down for her fiancé. Continue the discussion don’t get up and run. She doesn’t want to talk and that brews even more issues and makes them out to be the bad ppl. She should have shared her relationship so they wouldn’t have these random views. Smh i think the sister had a very Valid point. Come talk to your mom, why are you running to everyone else. Her mom was wrong but GIRL You are GROWN. Act like an adult if you wanna get married etc. She hid and kept secrets but was so open with his family. If they are so traditional and she was scared of their reaction why would you hide him? How would this have been proper steps?
This is the comment I was looking for! Finally someone who looks at the entire picture instead of jumping on the “her family is awful” bandwagon. You summarized the situation perfectly. This whole situation is her fault because she is too childish to stand up and face conflict, preferring to run to his family so that they can fight her battles. Who DOES that-intentionally turns her partner’s family against her own by giving them bits and pieces of the truth?! I can’t stand her.
I did see this, but I think it’s important to remember that when you have an overbearing sort of they run my life folks she may have been afraid to speak. I do believe she was afraid….this is how they probably always communicated with her. She have probably never stood up for herself or been allowed to and it’s scary and new for her. She needs to speak with a therapist for herself. I could be wrong, but I don’t think that she has been validated much or was allowed to have much of an opinion. She doesn’t know what that territory feels like. Hopefully it works for her and she finds herself but I do think her behavior is in direct correlation with the way she grew up with this family
Speaking to his family is like a breath of fresh air for her. She has been drowning all this time…feels like a life jacket…Of course this is just my observation from a show lol
Thank you someone saw what I saw. She is the problem
Yes! I was waiting for someone to address this! She’s playing a major role in keeping up confusion to me.
So the other sister doesn't speak to their parents either? They said her younger sister lives with them. Older sister is very hostile for no reason.
Oh lil sister on some bs too. Ok
If he is abusive in any way… she is used to it growing up with that family
So true. I can also see how she is running to his side of the family because they seem more nurturing and caring
Yes she ran to his side for comfort..speaks volumes
Agreed
Her mother and sister are emotionally abusive and extremely manipulative. No wonder she could not open up fully.
Her family is weird asfff
Very. Lots of passive aggressive hate
Dang, she runs to HIS FAMILY 😢 That hurts my heart 💔
This!!
I feel like that say so much about her family. Poor girl can’t even get a single word in without being put down🤦🏻♀️ The only one I see try a little bit to stand up for her is her own father but even he can barely say anything without getting interrupted. I hope she cuts contact with her family for a bit to get the therapy she needs after seeing how they talk to her🤦🏻♀️
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I honestly want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is strong. I really want her to come back, and I'm fully dedicated to making that happen. We've tried different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
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@@oglaskubuothang in there man. Good luck as you figure things out.
When her mom said "Kobe," I said, "Who is Kobe??" Then she said the dog......🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️!!!
Yeah, that was nasty work, but she went into this experience negative. She was saying sly stuff before they even arrived
@@TheIslandBelle You are correct!! Her spirit was already bad.
People who usually hides things from their parents are usually afraid of disappointment and backlash
She doesn’t have to have them in all of her business. what is wrong with them!! and that younger sister needs to be out her house
I think she didnt want her parents to know they were in a relationship and living together out of wedlock. 😊
It's not even anyone's business. They should openly welcome him .
I agree.
didn’t she say she has a sister who lives with them?
I would think loooonnng and HARD about marrying into this family CAUSE THEY'RE NOT GOING TO CHANGE!!!
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I don’t think they got married but I will say they have potential if she was able to set boundaries from them
So she rather her daughter marry a rich abusive man smh her entire family a hot mess
Money don't equate to happiness
They just wanna live vicariously thru Kenisha
to not know him and say you don’t know him, how can you say you want better for her? you don’t know him to support that belief.
The bride is annoying me a lot in this episode, she doesn’t know how to communicate and she’s involving other people without talking to the source for clarification. The sister had a point about that.
She is so annoying. She does not like to deal with her sister.
Yes I agree with you 100%
It’s hard to deal with someone so resistant. It was easy to deal with her in-laws.
Sister had a point and it cringed to see her go back and report to her fiancé and family.
But we can not the sister’s delivery, you can’t be mean to a through out and expect more from them.
EXACTLY!!
I don't think she is annoying. I think because she grew up in a household where I believe she was criticized a lot, and with a stubborn mom (tad bit self absorbed), she never really learned how to communicate with conflict. She walks away too quickly.... The sister, may have to accept that the bride doesn't want a relationship with her. Whatever occurred in the past between them pushed/pushes her away. I do wish them the best though. I like the bride's dad. I think he had a revelation about why the bride keeps things away from them.
The groom mom is real, my son should be celebrated not tolerated..
Why is the sister so upset?
Because she is jealous of the beautiful thin sister 😂😂😂😂
She’s a hater
The sister wishes she looked like her sister and could get a man. Because if she had a man, I don’t think she would be that bothered by her sisters relationship. The sister is a scary big Bertha.
It's obvious smdh
She's mean to her
I love her dad's point of view. That's growth. @27:00
These 2 might be my favorite couple on this show....they were so open, vulnerable, and down to earth....i wish them the best
I CANNOT even imagine having such STRONG feelings about someone else's relationship, not even with my BEST Friend. Not at this BIG AGE!
She's more relaxed with his family than her own
I said the same thing!
I love his mother! She can peep the BS and doesn’t shy from it.
I guess I’m the only one that sees both sides. Makes no sense to bring the family you don’t want knowing about your relationship on a show asking for their blessings 😆 and I love the grooms mother- she’s a whole vibe ❤
Her family looks miserable and doesnt mind spreading misery
The bride’s sister has a lot of animosity towards her!
He seems to be a good, balanced husband. That's rare on this show.
I think the way the brides sister communicates is more abrasive than how the groom communicates.
I truly understand why Lebarron’s mom didn’t give her blessing ; as a mother, I’m protective of mines also! I don’t care how old they become, they’re still our babies!
For real. I am the groom to be mom in spades. I told my sons that if I see disrespectful behavior towards them I am definitely going to interfere
The sister is really on my last nerve
Squashing the last nerve
Down to the molecular level of my last nerve...
Been married 2 decades and our families were never and have never been this into our business 😂😂 whew chile
His mama look like her mama and her mama look like his mama😂
😂😂
Underrated comment.
LaBarron should run! Kaneisha should have been upfront about the relationship. She knows how her family functions, he does not. The sister situation is deeper and has to be worked out amongst themselves.
It’s not his fault she hid their relationship from her family. He don’t owe them anything.
I would hate to marry into that family… yikes!
Get the sister out of your house. She didn't even come to support but is sharing their private discussion/disagreement. Smh
The folks with “class” are the ones acting all the way up!
I don’t think it’s about class I think it’s that she’s the breadwinner and he’s a personal trainer it never crossed their mind that she would date someone like that let alone get engaged to be married to him
They're snobs. His mother summed it up beautifully! That's a mother's love ❤️!!!
She’s a grown woman not a child, when she tell her family she tells them! I have 4 children, and we are extremely close. When they get ready to let me know about their significant others they let me know. They are all adults!!!
She brought her family on this show. That gives them the right to be in her business.
The brides sister was off the chain and overly aggressive she needs a life of her own. Who follows someone the way she was so aggressive towards her sister. It's hard to believe they gave been dating 3 years and her family did not know ..why? Loved the way he spoke to the brides mother one on one.
It does make sense why she keeps everything from her family. They are emotionally abusive to her but want to accuse him of it.
Why is the “bride” answering questions like a toddler
What's her sister's problem?!
Her size
@@CeCeMe1I’m gonna need you to log off 😂
@@CeCeMe1😂😂😂
@@CeCeMe1I died 😆😆😆
@@CeCeMe1😂😂😂
That sister is so dame JEALOUS!!!!!!! why is she so entitled to information.
Something is up with her sister. She’s disguising concern with jealousy and a bit of animosity. She keeps referring to things as this family or that family when the goal is to combine the two families. Her presence gave me toxic and bully vibes.
I get what everyone is saying about her family but she also doesn't take any conflict about herself or him, instead she walks away without the problem being solved. She doesn't have a level of respect for the two parent household ppl always want. If ppl really want to have that grown attitude just do what u want and don't worry about anyone's approval or merging families. Some ppl dont care what their family do or say.
Whenever I see this house I am reminded of the bold and the beautiful Rich's house or was it his dad's,I'm talking about way back in them days I swear their house looked exactly like that
Girl yesss I always think this 😂
@@tweetzzzz2365 it's good to know I am not seeing things🤭😂
She shouldn’t be exposing all her families wrong to her fiancé family, people do change they might use it against her in the future . She shouldn’t run to them about everything
Yessssss. You are to be celebrated and not just tolerated!!!
The sister is so annoying and I think she's low-key jealous she doing too much
That’s right girl stand up for yo man!
I see why she didn’t say anything.. they’re so judgmental! They genuinely think they’re better than him & his family
Something still off. The bride face said it all.
What you mean?
@@ashleyskitchen7186 I think she is scared of her family. I think she is hiding something in her own relationship. In the second interview she was so defensive 😭 😩 even Tracy was like why you here. Maybe she just afraid of losing him.
@@Ginaaaa555 I AGREE
The bride is ashamed of her groom. That is why she is hiding and side-stepping...
I was wondering who Kobe was 😅
Me too! I was like is that an ex boyfriend? 😂😂😂😑
Even me
I was like “ma’am … you have gone too far” 😂
@@sashatv382You can't unring that bell 😶
Damn her family too difficult ....I see why she move the way she does..baby sis and that lisp was irking tf outta me..and had the audacity to chase her up the stairs😂😂😂 get a man sis..I like his mom
I swerdagurt I'm just glad I'm not the only one because it's like she has a mouth guard in or something
It's aggravating fr
I hated her family so much. Dad was the only real one.
I hope this lady comes back here to read the comments. Protect your relationship. Your family will ruin it if you let them . Wether you guys make it as husband and wife is solely up to you both .
I LOVE HIS MOM! I see why she is estranged from her sister and mom. She didn’t need their input they are uppity and negative. It’s only two people in a relationship not a whole family.
Those are two good people.
I hope they make it.
Her family are good people too. They just hadn’t turned the corner yet. 😢
I agree
Right. They just don’t know enough about the guy because of her. And they have every right to ask about the prenup due to the family estate.
Lawd I see why she doesnt talk to her family.
This young man is a solid, stand-up, and dependable guy. A real man.
Khaneisha is extremely beautiful. It is VERY obvious why Khaneisha’s sister is hating. Very, very, very obvious why.
The mom “and he gone have problems that he don’t really have” 😂
Hello
Kaneisha is absolutely gorgeous.
I think Khaneisha is being unfair to her family. She has communication issues and gets upset when there's a misunderstanding.
I like big Sis! 👯♀️Communication is high key 🔑! Once the air is cleared, it’s all good. 🙌🏽 I like them together though. You can’t expect something from your family or anyone else’s that you’re not giving. Keep that in mind. 💭
All the drama just came out because they were mad because she was private! The way her family set up she had to make sure it was real before she brought him to the table! Her sister want a relationship with her so bad!
She safer emotionally with his family than her other family. Her dad cares but her sister and mother cut him off often, they seem envious of her.
Her sister is a bully. She ain't happy so her sister shouldn't be happy. Unfortunately, I can see clearly why she's not talking to them much.