Exposing Britain's Honour Killings - Nina Aouilk Tells Her Story

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  • @MsKenzo7
    @MsKenzo7 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    Someone needs to make a film of this woman life. She’s such a force of nature. She deserve all the happiness in the world. What a catalogue of trauma she’s gone through.

    • @waterontherocks-ed5yf
      @waterontherocks-ed5yf ปีที่แล้ว +15

      i agree!!

    • @cassandras206
      @cassandras206 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Those people (parents, father in law, etc.) need to be behind bars!

    • @rubytuesday5567
      @rubytuesday5567 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Why? Why would anyone need to see it happen? Hearing it is bad enough.

    • @kikisan6328
      @kikisan6328 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@rubytuesday5567exactly! The idea!

    • @adrialee8149
      @adrialee8149 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Seriously she overcame so much it's insane. They tried to break her, to kill her, and they failed. She is so strong

  • @Bellaaaaaaaxxo
    @Bellaaaaaaaxxo ปีที่แล้ว +286

    The fact that her own dad raped and allowed others to rape her only to proceed and act like she was damaged because she was “no longer a virgin” enrages me, this entire story enrages me for her. This is terribly sad💔

    • @Nottodaye
      @Nottodaye ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I can’t even imagine, not only her own dad but to allow his friends to do such a terrible thing to do a 14 year old child is so inhuman. And her mother who is a women herself was so heartless!

    • @kikisan6328
      @kikisan6328 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would love to meet this man and rearrange his face

    • @gunnyoz6142
      @gunnyoz6142 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Nottodayeher mother has been conditioned to be sub servient and brainwashed by years or physical and emotional abuse ...that's exactly how she was bought up

    • @maddiemcnugget1076
      @maddiemcnugget1076 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr it’s terrible on a million levels
      1. Rape
      2. Incest
      3. Pedo philia
      4. Child abuse
      5. Slavery
      Plus it’s like… contradictory and stupid. Like OF COURSE SHE ISNT A VIRGIN. YOU RAPED HER. IT WAS YOUR SNAKE!! I have no sympathy for people who are stupid asf like this.
      Imo being a virgin is fine. Being a non virgin is also fine. You deserve happiness.

    • @maddiemcnugget1076
      @maddiemcnugget1076 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Nottodayetrue. Her mom is also a victim of this culture but unlike Nina, she put her head down and accepted it and encouraged it through her actions.

  • @The_Names_Bogdo
    @The_Names_Bogdo ปีที่แล้ว +164

    "That's not culture, that's psychotic" - THANK YOU I'm so sick of crimes against humanity and the oppression of women being attributed to 'culture and tradition' as a means of justifying and excusing it or saying that it shouldn't be challenged or removed from that culture.

    • @Tarotcooks
      @Tarotcooks ปีที่แล้ว

      👍

    • @alaynajensen9034
      @alaynajensen9034 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well honour killings actually is a tradition in that
      Culture. Sorry to tell you but you can't change a fact

    • @alaynajensen9034
      @alaynajensen9034 ปีที่แล้ว

      The oppression of women in culture and tradition is VERY real. It's because evil people have these beliefs and turn it into tradition and culture.

    • @maddiemcnugget1076
      @maddiemcnugget1076 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No but here’s the thing… culture is wonderful and terrifying. It’s exciting and scary. It can be loving and abusive. It’s beautiful and it’s ugly. Cultures are just to be followed. A lot of people have gripes with culture. Even more accepted cultures, there are issues. We celebrate and we are ashamed of our culture.
      It’s similar to saying “he’s not human, he’s a monster.” Like… no this is an action capable by a human, done with a human mind. It’s just a phrase but I know some people will believe that it’s a way to distance humanity from the bad things we do. Culture is the same way because it’s made by humans.
      I’d also like to add that by you saying “it’s not tradition” is also a denial of the past. People had blood sacrifices, honor killings, raped innocent children (pedagogy is terrifying). No we have to accept these things that are STILL HAPPENING and will continue to happen if we don’t acknowledge it and fight it properly.

    • @catherinelagae4486
      @catherinelagae4486 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Because it’s cultural doesn’t make it right. 😢 shocking what happened to this lady. Her parents were abusive monsters.

  • @thedrazzyshow
    @thedrazzyshow ปีที่แล้ว +564

    😢 I am so proud of this woman. She must be protected by any cost because many from her culture will hate to hear her say these truths. Legend.

    • @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS
      @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Agreed. I saw your interview with Nina. It turned my stomach, gut wrenching. What an incredible woman. Bless her.🙏🏿😔

    • @thedrazzyshow
      @thedrazzyshow ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS 😔

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thank you for all of your support Drazzy 🙏🏼

    • @richardgallagher4880
      @richardgallagher4880 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Collaborator🤮🤮

    • @thedrazzyshow
      @thedrazzyshow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@londonslifecoach 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @miahubble7506
    @miahubble7506 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Apart from the obviously horrific story that this lady tells, what stands out the most for me, is how amazingly strong and articulate she is. It would have been so easy to go through what she has and become a victim, but she chose to educate, protect and advocate for others. The world needs more people like her. 100% respect Nina.

  • @johncrowe6489
    @johncrowe6489 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    😮 This interview is like a punch in the gut! Just when you think you’ve heard it all… there’s more. What an incredible woman!

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I appreciate your kind words thank you

    • @Tarotcooks
      @Tarotcooks ปีที่แล้ว

      What a Lady 😀🙏🙏🙏

    • @Tarotcooks
      @Tarotcooks ปีที่แล้ว

      @@londonslifecoach Nina 😀🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @Харитя-т3ъ
      @Харитя-т3ъ 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      І ,яке ж неймовірне огидне дно- чоловіки,що їй траплялися в сімейних відносинах.

  • @tristanwaudby9836
    @tristanwaudby9836 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I am 6ft2 and 16 stone bricklayer. I was in tears listening to her story.

    • @Isaac5123
      @Isaac5123 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      What does stature have to do with it?

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Thank you for being so open and honest and I see you attempted to paint a picture of how you look so others could / should understand that compassion lives within all of us, despite having an image that is seen by the world. I appreciate you ❤️

    • @alifaronno4494
      @alifaronno4494 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Isaac5123😂😂😂 forreal

    • @Isaac5123
      @Isaac5123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@londonslifecoach 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Isaac5123
      @Isaac5123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alifaronno4494 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @AmandaJ355
    @AmandaJ355 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    How is it possible that people can overcome such things? Honestly the resilience of some people never fails to amaze me ❤

    • @realnush
      @realnush ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Seriously!! I am shook by her resilience

    • @Харитя-т3ъ
      @Харитя-т3ъ 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Психологічна Дереалізація. Мозок захищається як може.
      З іншого боку, пів життя не знаючи нормальної сімейної моделі, людина сприймає свою знайому їй модель за норму, таким чином їй легше адаптуватися і вижити.
      Бо якщо дитині почати порівнювати її от такий досвід з досвідом середньостатистичної дитини,можна збожеволіти.

  • @saoirse32anois
    @saoirse32anois ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Nina is one of the most powerful individuals I've ever come across. An amazing women.

  • @lexilex1294
    @lexilex1294 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    In my humble opinion from someone who's watched many many podcasts from all over the world. James English is one of the best. Period.

  • @canmckenna2556
    @canmckenna2556 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    She’s sooo articulate and endearing wow. I could listen to her talk all day honestly! I cannot believe she’s in her 50s. I pray she finds peace 😢🙏❤️

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +39

      My life is full of internal peace and complete self love which is why I know I can help others who struggle and suffer and my intention is to continue helping others so in time they too can continue that extension of love and support to others.

    • @spongebobsquaretits
      @spongebobsquaretits ปีที่แล้ว +21

      she looks to be in her mid 20's

    • @ameen7538
      @ameen7538 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@londonslifecoachdon't generalise africa and middle east like u did here

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@ameen7538 if it’s a generalised cultural problem then that is what I do as I stand in my truth with statistics to back what I say about child marriages, FGM and other gender based violence. Thank you for watching the interview

    • @Isaac5123
      @Isaac5123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@londonslifecoach God Bless

  • @__Ess
    @__Ess ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I pray this lady stays safe not only for her sake but for her kids I can imagine she’s a wonderful mother
    I hope she feels loved cause my gosh lady you’ve got us in the comments feeling so damn proud of you! Keep speaking and please stay safe!
    How on earth her father is still walking freely is beyond me

  • @bitgoat
    @bitgoat ปีที่แล้ว +234

    horrific, nothing else to say... lost for words. I'm English and my wife is Indian Punjabi and her mum and dad are the nicest people you could meet I love them to bits. These people who did this too you are sick, sick people they do not represent a whole race, I just want to make that clear, even though you said yourself. These fkn scabs must be jailed.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +85

      I really happy to read that your in laws are nice but I can assure you it’s more common than you think as I’ve had thousands of girls reach out to my non profit End Honour Killings Org and I also work with the Sikh Awareness Society who equally are overwhelmed with victims needing support

    • @israeliana
      @israeliana ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@londonslifecoachthanking you for sharing this truth.

    • @cassandras206
      @cassandras206 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im sure it’s not all, but the fact that even one girl is abused is enough! They have to have a voice. They have to have an out. This is very wrong! 😮 This Nina is amazing to speak up! Love her ❤!

    • @graceg3250
      @graceg3250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@londonslifecoach I wonder what your perspective is on why some of your mother’s family oppose what was done to you. Are they the younger generation raised in the West? How do you reconcile the fact some Indian/Pakistani families do not abuse females? Is it that abusive people will more easily find likeminded people to become their friends in India? Is it because those who don’t abuse are not standing up to those who do? If your mother came from a family that would have supported her against your father, why didn’t she leave? Do you think she had self esteem issues that made her enjoy seeing you be put down? Did she see you being abused as a way to re-direct your father from abusing her? Was she so broken down by your father that she didn’t have the capacity to stand up to him? Did she abuse you on her own (other than neglect you)? My understanding is that most female abuse in India happens with the uneducated. But your family sounds like it was educated and well to do enough to get to the UK and function. How did your father treat English women?

    • @graceg3250
      @graceg3250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@londonslifecoach I know a gentle Sikh man raised in India who is married to a white woman with a PhD. He once was at a Sikh shop and was subvertly offered a girl to rape in the back room. This scenario was so foreign to him, he didn’t realize what was being offered until after the fact. And then he was horrified. So, obviously there are Sikh communities that are different, just as there are different cultural communities within the same ethnicities in the West. Do you have anything to do with other Sikhs, aside from your work with victims? Do you see much cultural change happening?

  • @autumnstar7346
    @autumnstar7346 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Hi Nina....I just discovered your story a few days ago. I wish I had a pen and paper, and just jot down the key points when you spoke and said things, I was like MY GOD! She sounds just like me. I'm from a Punjabi Sikh family, originally from Vancouver Canada, but now married to a great person and in the United States for 23 years. I may not have experienced things to the horrific magnitude you did, but I can definitely identify with many things you are speaking about, where parents in our culture only care about themselves and living their lives according to other's expectations, and then they become possessed with making sure you don't do anything as a girl to make them look bad. My parents were very emotionally, mentally and verbally abusive, but I was naturally very stubborn and when I look back in retrospect I realize just how tough I really was. I felt very lonely as a child, I had two bullies at home, bullies at school, because I was always the one who felt comfortable in my own skin, didn't go along and do all the crazy things just to be accepted and feel like a I'm part of the group. Life has been a journey of growing, learning and maturing as a person, and I've found myself going to a higher and higher plane spiritually with lots of faith in Guru Nanak's teachings, but to me I'm not fanatical or concerned with any religion so much, but just using the religious teachings in this case of Sikhism, and my husband is HIndu, and what I've found is religion is ok as long as you just use it as a general guide, and reassurance that you're on the right path. I've been to places and seen worlds, planets, and experienced things in my waking life, where I know God or WaheGuru or which ever name you want to use to refer to the Creator of the Universe, and that this physical body we have here, is just temporary, but we are truly never dead or die, we just move on from this world to go somewhere else, and the mission or journey here is to to do go onto others, all this show of acquiring money, material wealth, falsie honor false prestige, these have no meaning, because none of it is going to go with it. I see God in everything, in nature, the animals, and I feel more connected and getting closer to the Oneness. I'm sorry for the long post, but you speak just like me. I've been encouraged by my husband and father-in-law to tell me story, and I would love to share my story. When I rose up against the atrocities, I had decided to be a fighter, and started questioning everything, I was not going to allow to let anyone decide who I was, I knew I was beautiful, strong, worthy, but I realized it at a much earlier age I think that you did, I'm six years younger than you, and I felt like I was acting on behalf of millions of girls, and I was going to do my duty and responsibility to be part of the solution and not be part of the problem. I also have a daughter and I'm proud to say I broke the cycles. It doesn't matter what race, religion or nationality you are, at the end, once you leave this planet, you won't take any of those labels with you, except your karma, you wont' even remain male or female, so I've reached that kind of stage and just using Guru Nanak as a guide, but God is inside of us, all we have to do is listen to our heart and that is God speaking to you, He is always there guiding us, we are part of the energy that is what we call the Universe. Unfortunately people like your family have gotten lost in the darkness, and have been had be the devil.

  • @sadiaahmed5798
    @sadiaahmed5798 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Unfortunately this is a very common issue in the asian community 😢and l cant respect her enough for shedding a light on this huge issue. Such an inspiration to come on and talk openly about what happened

    • @fluffy00123x
      @fluffy00123x ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's so sad. People are also pimping their daughters out for drugs. Not every house hold but in some places it happens and it happens unfortunately in every culture tbh. Just so heartbreaking.

    • @Life-oo2tr
      @Life-oo2tr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      South asian community. I’ve never heard of such things in east asian communities.

    • @TENGRI-101
      @TENGRI-101 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is very common in south asia and also in mideast and africa. But no other parts of asia practise it. Ohh wait... I forgot to mention central asian muslim countries.
      Sound like you're a south asian muslim. right?

  • @andreacaughey6761
    @andreacaughey6761 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’m so completely in awe of this woman she has come face to face with true evil she has suffered at the hands of evil and she is a shining light to help others ..thank god for people like her ❤

  • @banjothedogslayer5800
    @banjothedogslayer5800 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    She is a really strong and brave woman. I felt so heartbroken listening to this story, her family are monsters and some people do not deserve to be parents! i really really hope she has a happy future.I can't believe she is 50 years old she looks much younger. You are such a good interviewer by the way, love your channel.

    • @oneoflokis
      @oneoflokis ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think so too! 🙂

  • @yryalam7874
    @yryalam7874 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    What an incredibly beautiful woman, physically, mentally and spiritually. I am in awe. All respect and much love to you Nina - you are a true hero.

  • @Serendipity-gj2me
    @Serendipity-gj2me ปีที่แล้ว +45

    She is such an incredible woman. I want to see justice for her. What she went through was horrific!!!

    • @user-lt7zh4lv3b
      @user-lt7zh4lv3b ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep

    • @merrykaczmarek3757
      @merrykaczmarek3757 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Justice has started for her-- she openly tells her story with inner peace and a heart of love coming from her whole body, like she said in the beginning: “this life has taught me unconditional love-- “
      That my dear friend is “retaliation”. She learned the lesson of unconditional love.
      ❤️ actually that’s what we are all here learning, I believe.
      “Love those who despise you”
      Isn’t that in the Christian bible?
      Wow. Bodisatva right there. Thank you dear Nina. As you heal, we all heal, the world heals.
      Continued Peace to you.🦋❤️💦🩸🪼🥰

  • @zulfkarrather7942
    @zulfkarrather7942 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Feel so sorry for her! She's so beautiful and so intelligent, no one deserves that.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I don’t regret my life infact I love that I can help others with the knowledge I have 🙏🏼

    • @marktyler2068
      @marktyler2068 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@londonslifecoach You are definitely helping. I find your telling helpful even though I struggle to comprehend it fully. You are making the world a better place.

    • @leahm5882
      @leahm5882 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@londonslifecoachI think you do a lot more than just help other’s beautiful
      I’m pretty sure there will be lives you are saving that you will never even know about 🙏🏼🫶🏼

  • @wilM26
    @wilM26 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a beautiful, incredible woman! It was such a gift to share this time with you ❤ you brought the vulnerability out in James which was quite beautiful to see. Sending you both lots of love 💞

  • @kerriparr615
    @kerriparr615 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    James, your guests are amazing. What a strong woman Nina is. What she has been through broke my heart. This got to me this one. I hope she gets justice. Stories like this need to be broadcast all over and you're getting these Life stories out there and it's just so amazing James. Keep doing what you're doing.

  • @geebutteree4755
    @geebutteree4755 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wow what an amazing , intelligent , kind , compassionate lady and moving forward to help others , she’s an angel , I wish you well Nina , your story will help others.
    The law desperately needs to change 😢

  • @darrenhenderson6921
    @darrenhenderson6921 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Was going to say as well she looks amazing for 53, I had to rewind to make sure I heard her right, then look closer at my screen, she looks 33-34 it’s beyond tragic what happened to this obviously bright and empathic young girl and young woman, I hope she’s blessed with happiness, she is clearly a beautiful soul.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for your kind words Darren 🙏🏼

    • @darrenhenderson6921
      @darrenhenderson6921 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@londonslifecoach you’re more than welcome ❤️

    • @lifesthehardestgame6863
      @lifesthehardestgame6863 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought the same. Nina looks fantastic. This ladys story has just had me sobbing. My heart bleeds for her. Nina if you see this.. you are loved. You are Amazing you are beautiful and you are stronger than strength itself 🎉❤

  • @Damienuk82
    @Damienuk82 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I’m a 5ft 9 housing manager and I too was in tears. Such an articulate woman, I truly wish you well Nina x

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It makes no difference as to how tall you are, your size, your upbringing, your age all that matters is that we all have compassion for each other . Thank you for being an example to others 🙏🏼

    • @davidbyrne1439
      @davidbyrne1439 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What's your height got to do with it just curious about why you mentioned it

    • @TruthSpeaker94
      @TruthSpeaker94 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially considering it’s average height lol

    • @pimpette2405
      @pimpette2405 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TruthSpeaker94below average

  • @MissJones3020
    @MissJones3020 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What a phenomenal woman. How a woman who was literally living in pure hell but survived and she has the softest voice literally of an Angel. I pray God protects her and covers her!! Honestly the most horrific story on here 💔💔

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏼

  • @matthewnorthway1970
    @matthewnorthway1970 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Wow ! Nina thank you for your harrowing story
    I went to school in High Wycombe in the 80’s and the Asian girls were always diminutive and scared
    I too was born in 1970 and was subjected to mental abuse by both parents and have spent my life full of anger and I will not rest until they are both gone even though I haven’t seen them for years
    I am a white British male but I believe that all eastern women are treat appallingly and deserve so much better
    Nina you are amazing you are beautiful and you are a real inspiration and I hope you Male family members get there due deserved
    Keep strong darling ❤

    • @amandaa3713
      @amandaa3713 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @matthewn
      All eastern women are treated that way? Lol!
      I am a few years older than her. My mother went to private school ehere English was the medium which were nationalized a year before I was born.
      Just giving you some info.

  • @aishalaliyu278
    @aishalaliyu278 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So sorry Nina for all what you went through. May Almighty continue to bless you and your family.

  • @sidda3100
    @sidda3100 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    What a beautiful lady inside & outside her story is so cruel but yet she gives so much to others these are real influencers our youth should be looking up to great pod cast James 👏

  • @paulburnett1344
    @paulburnett1344 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The fact that this woman remains as positive and full of love after what she endured is amazing.

  • @user-xu1sj9mr9h
    @user-xu1sj9mr9h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    it makes me really sad to hear that in uk , the authorities did nothing to protect her from all this

  • @hmain7534
    @hmain7534 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Honestly I do love James but feel he took over in this interview by going off tangent so often. She skipped half her life and I kept waiting for it to go back as I reslly wanted to hear it. Amazing women though, absolutely in awe of how she's taken her trauma to do so much good. I have a different background but was pretty badly SA as a child and then went into a very abusive marriage and had to escape with my daughter. I'm working on myself everyday to try and not let them win. Watching Nina really inspired and encouraged me to show that you can be who you want to, that the past does not define us. ❤

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you connect? My non profit can help you overcome your trauma? It’s Nina btw the non profit has a monthly zoom the next one is Tuesday 9pm London Time let me know if you would like the details I’m here to serve ❤

    • @hmain7534
      @hmain7534 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow, thank you ❤ Yes I would love to connect and find out more. How would I do this?

    • @aimeemcdevitt1991
      @aimeemcdevitt1991 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree, it was so frustrating wish he would have just let her tell her story 😢

    • @lilyly6816
      @lilyly6816 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Agreed! when she said religion had no part, and he went on for ages about religion being terrible was incredibly irrelevant…

    • @james-yn4zz
      @james-yn4zz ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’ve noticed he does this, goes on quite a bit about I’m this I’m that I’ve done this I’ve done that. Thee long winded tangents that don’t really offer much to the conversation.

  • @chrystallambie55
    @chrystallambie55 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well done for speaking out ❤ my heart hurt when I listened to what happened to you. You're a very brave lady. X

  • @ednaidatipote5602
    @ednaidatipote5602 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. I'm heartbroken 💔

  • @Cazz_
    @Cazz_ ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m so sorry you had to put up with what your Dad, friends & father-in-law did to you Nina 😢
    I hope and pray that justice will be done for you and many many others who have suffered like you have.
    You’re such a strong beautiful lady ❤

  • @emmajp_9385
    @emmajp_9385 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I couldn’t finish this and it was one of the best guests, would have been lovely to hear her speak more 💗

  • @sophiabreidfischer6242
    @sophiabreidfischer6242 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this story. I am humbled and so saddened by what was done to this woman, I wish her all the healing an love she so deserves. Am so glad she is safe now and knows she deserves justice. Really respect how much work she is doing to help and raise awareness

  • @robbieorourke5534
    @robbieorourke5534 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The story is truly horrific, in fact in the UK it happens in front of our faces, in London British people have been taught to not get involved, because if you do it is the tags of being a racist pops up, and then the Police get involved but for the wrong reasons. It also happened in the town I live now, a girl whose father owned an Indian Takeaway and she went to school with my own daughter, she got to 13 years of age and was getting cheeky and westernised and she was shipped out back to India, and an arranged marriage was involved, she did not want to go, lots of tears, but was forced back, never to be seen in the UK again. There has to be a UK assessment done at schools, and independently, no parent involved.

    • @A500-g6g
      @A500-g6g ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That sort of thing was popular back then today things are very different and it is a very irregular occurrence. Times have changed a lot, for the better.

  • @denniskaimari
    @denniskaimari 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful at 53. Your a strong woman. Have heard your story before but I never get tired of hearing you tell it again. Stay strong, stay vocal and may God bless you.

  • @regcgreenfinger
    @regcgreenfinger ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Can’t even start to imagine what she’s been through. Love that you are now helping others, amazing. ❤

  • @dorothybach4798
    @dorothybach4798 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for telling us about what happened to you, Nina. Your story in this life was based on a justification for murder and abuse from family members.
    You are an amazing and resilient woman and I am grateful to have heard about your life from your own words.
    Thank you again for having the courage to tell all of us what happened to you.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Dorothy for your kind words of support

  • @fiaelle9268
    @fiaelle9268 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you Nina for telling your story and Thank you James for hearing Nina. I too am 53 years of age and like you Nina I suffered extraordinary unspeakable levels of trauma both in childhood and early adulthood. Amazingly I also do not look my age and astonishingly like you I have rare copious amounts of empathy compassion and a pure heart - a varacious reader tooas a child just like you. The similarities and paralells speakto me and I completely hear you. I wonder what it is about multiple traumas that makes one totally go the other way? Unable to hurt another human being and instead having a heart so big and full of Love for other people. It baffles me it really does. I hope I can reach you and meet you one day because when same people find each other as kindred spirits we can make a whole heap of difference in this world. Blessings.X

  • @nessa1605
    @nessa1605 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have so much admiration for this beautiful lady, she has been to hell and back but is still standing and putting positivity into the universe. I wish good things for her for the rest of her life, she's earned it ❤

  • @ann-louisejeffery8499
    @ann-louisejeffery8499 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing podcast. Well done James. Bringing out the best in interviews 👌

  • @Mike-1000
    @Mike-1000 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    *Hardcore topic this one James, rarely covered .... nice one*

  • @companeropl
    @companeropl ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a brave woman! Thank you for your time and opening eyes of ordinary folk like me.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for listening to the message 🙏🏼

  • @jackieb5386
    @jackieb5386 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What an incredible and inspiring young lady. We need more people like this in the world! Hugely intelligent and extremely strong. Nina should be very proud of herself. Nina should receive a knighthood 💯

  • @katrinalee5281
    @katrinalee5281 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nina ❤ what a wonderful human you are. You’re stronger than you will ever know😢 we are all behind you and glad you are here to tell your story ❤️🇮🇪 you are heard, you are respected,you are loved

  • @maryellwood3653
    @maryellwood3653 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Her composure in relaying what happened to her is awesome. What a brave, courageous wonderful woman and human being. Her story is horrifying. When she said her pet dog at home comforted her when she was a kid, animals are wonderful and knowing. I wish her the very best in her life for always.

  • @ayeshapyesha7301
    @ayeshapyesha7301 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What a gentle pure soul she is.

  • @Impala_Lily
    @Impala_Lily ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Absolutely riveting! One of the best podcasts I’ve listened to. Nina is a beautiful woman, inside and out …. She oozes calm and gratitude! 🌸

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s Nina, Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏼

    • @ss-yn1ky
      @ss-yn1ky ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@londonslifecoachnina I've commented on the pod cast I wish u all the best & pray you get justice you seem like a beautiful person inside & out❤

  • @mrssclarkie5474
    @mrssclarkie5474 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is amazing! I can't believe how much she has endured and she is still so strong, powerful yet kind. Im so glad i watched this interview so eye opening ❤

  • @teresareynolds4364
    @teresareynolds4364 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a very disturbing story. This lady is so beautiful on the inside and out, she's so brave, and James, you are so right about each individual cards dealt, only you and you alone can play them,
    I believe this lady was put on earth to make everyone aware of the abuse these beautiful children are being exposed to, and hopefully, her " hand" will change the world going forward 🙏 😊

  • @philcurrie7524
    @philcurrie7524 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a Brave lady Nina is. Well done for sharing your story and helping others going through similar.
    What a sad world we live in where this can still be a thing. My best friend was a Sikh and his sister mysteriously died suddenly in India. Years later and my friend himself suddenly died whilst on holiday, I tried and tried to uncover the truth but sadly just hit brick wall after brick wall.
    Onwards and upwards Nina, you’re a special lady delivering a very important and clear message. ❤️🙏

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Phil I felt a shudder when I read this but strangely also felt you knew exactly WHY I speak out! It’s discouraging when I get comments of people dismissing that it even happens as they haven’t seen it so won’t believe it. My point is that is rife and continues to happen so who are we if we stand by and watch it? Are we no better than the perpetrators of these crimes? Speaking out helps others to learn and be vigilant but also victims and survivors to take some hope away that they too can and will be free of the fear that imprisons them 🙏🏼

    • @philcurrie7524
      @philcurrie7524 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@londonslifecoach Nina you are absolutely right, with my friend I tried everything, I went to the police both here and in Jamaica where his life was taken. I went to the consulate and British Embassy and just hit brick wall after brick wall. What hurts me is I know if it was me he’d have done everything in his power for justice. I feel like I have but can’t help but think I’ve let him down. I honestly believed the Sikh faith was the best and most loving religion until I started to dig deeper into my friends death. ❤️🙏🙏

  • @pemasommer8843
    @pemasommer8843 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nina, thanks so much for sharing your incredible story and I’m so happy to see you coming out strong,
    beautifully and trying to be voice for many others helpless/voiceless people out there! This will help create awareness, and educate our children that’s wrong and it has to stop right there! God bless you!

  • @xOrchid23x
    @xOrchid23x ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a brilliant interview, so eye opening and inspirational at the same time. She’s got a good heart and spirit despite everything she’s been through. All my respects to Nina ❤❤

  • @dannyboythephighter
    @dannyboythephighter ปีที่แล้ว +13

    this woman is truely amazing i hope she gets justice thank you for giving victims a voice keep it your a true inspiration

  • @SOARWATCHMANWALL
    @SOARWATCHMANWALL ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A beautiful lady who has endured such pain and suffering at the hands of those who should know better. Her spirit remained Strong. She is undefeated.

  • @t.wilson7578
    @t.wilson7578 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have watch loads of your podcasts but this one is up there so powerful

  • @NicolaBrydon-fi6fi
    @NicolaBrydon-fi6fi ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing woman ❤❤❤, absolutely loving your podcasts James English not good for my morning alarm clock though 💤 I can’t stop listening xx

  • @Kookia220
    @Kookia220 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a heartbreaking story from a strong beautiful woman. She deserves everything good that life can offer ❣️

  • @reecejones3187
    @reecejones3187 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The men in these communities are hideously insecure. The woman must not acknowledge other men, absolute insecure little men. Anyone who treats woman this way needs a good kicking.

    • @rizaanjappie
      @rizaanjappie ปีที่แล้ว

      They are “Men”. Absolute trash

    • @VWR7.5
      @VWR7.5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’d be insecure too if I was short fat and ugly with a small willy

  • @MensahAcademics
    @MensahAcademics ปีที่แล้ว +2

    'U might have been dealt the cards you've been dealt because you are the only one who can play them.'
    What a powerful statement.
    Really hit home for me.
    🙏🏾

  • @soundmind6477
    @soundmind6477 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Great interview apart from James going off on a tangent about stuff not related to Nina. Sometimes best to just let the interviewee speak and tell their story.

  • @sheilametcalfe9467
    @sheilametcalfe9467 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's my inspiration. I thought I had it bad, but this beautiful lady had it worse. Everything she went through but still turned out compassionate, articulate, and very wise. Most with this magnitude of abuse would have broken their spirit.
    I want to say thank you Nina for sharing your story, for giving us hope. Keep hold of your faith, carry on spreading the love. You are truly a beautiful lady inside and outside Nina.

  • @hatch8214
    @hatch8214 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Powerful. What a strong courageous soul Nina is . What she’s been through is horrific. We all need to help her ..

  • @lislelisle5453
    @lislelisle5453 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg I needed to watch this. Thank you ❤

  • @RichPickingsBT41
    @RichPickingsBT41 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What an amazing woman to have gone through all that shit ..God bless and protect her from harm .

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your kind words

    • @carolinemoore7048
      @carolinemoore7048 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@londonslifecoachamazing podcast. Truly inspiring with a beautiful energy

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolinemoore7048 I appreciate you 🙏🏼

  • @JacquelineThorpe-iq1yx
    @JacquelineThorpe-iq1yx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great podcast James a very insightful discussion from yourself and the lovely Nina I personally gained a lot from it due to difficulties in my own life thank you both so much I’m sure you have both helped many people with this podcast keep doing what you are doing you lovely people ❤

  • @leighbrownsmith1446
    @leighbrownsmith1446 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What an amazing woman! What a traumatising story and yet she’s come out it being so optimistic. Truly inspiring. Fantastic interview, raising awareness about a hard topic that NEEDED to be highlighted. I can’t believe how rife this is in Scotland. It’s utterly horrific! James, love the style you have, where you don’t mince your words or beat about the bush. You’ve one of those big Beautiful Glaswegian hearts. Love these podcasts. 🙌🏼❤️

  • @julielyden5168
    @julielyden5168 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would love to hug the little frightened child and make her world safe 😢 I hope she has a peaceful life for the future 💗

  • @Righneas11.11
    @Righneas11.11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What is this... I'm shocked saddened and appauled, but then I see how well spoken she is and how she is trying best to get on with her life. She should be able to hold her head high for being honest and strong and full of love . God bless 🙏 you.

  • @jassanghera4150
    @jassanghera4150 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You know Nina as you’ve been gracefully telling your story, all I’ve heard back from you is Guru Nanak’s Dev Ji’s teachings 🙏🏼💕 Wow you are a remarkable person ❤️ Truly you are ❤️

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your kind words.
      I believe that my religion is extremely beautiful, as are most religious scriptures that clearly state to live a life of service to others, not to cheat, not to hurt others but to extends love and to have compassion for humanity is in my eyes the only way forward.

  • @neceyjaitrueentertainment7570
    @neceyjaitrueentertainment7570 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Omg!!! This content is the best content to bring awareness about what atcually happens in this silc and twisted world. Bless her heart she is immensely brave and I wish her nothing but strength and happiness.
    I too agree with you James about the demonic peadophiles in this world, adrenochrome , rituals , sacrifices everything!!!
    Amazing work as always!

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️❤️

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for watching

    • @dbcoopertsv860
      @dbcoopertsv860 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@JamesEnglish good on you for even mentioning adrenachrome 👀👀 the world needs to know

    • @matthewbritton4149
      @matthewbritton4149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@DBCOOPER TSV what is that????

    • @matthewbritton4149
      @matthewbritton4149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Adrenachome?????

  • @violetholbrook1066
    @violetholbrook1066 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a beautiful kind woman, she is beautiful inside and out. I really hope she is safe and lives a good life forever.🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇺🇸

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Violet I am safe and in a happy state of peace and love which I extend to others

  • @CaptainDarling2020
    @CaptainDarling2020 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This Woman is absolutely incredible. To suffer such hardship and torture at the hands of the people she should have been able to trust the most is truly harrowing. The strength and grace with which she carries herself should be a lesson to us all. I’m in tears watching this, such is the depravity carried out by her monsterous family. My heart truly goes out to her.

  • @bethanyrhiannonevans5059
    @bethanyrhiannonevans5059 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This needs to go VIRAL

  • @Jojo-cd8wo
    @Jojo-cd8wo ปีที่แล้ว +12

    An interviewer is there to LISTEN and ask questions to share someone else's truth/story NOT talk over the interviewee and bring in their own 'opinion'. Stop talking about your views and let the interviewee TALK!

  • @Liam-us3cq
    @Liam-us3cq ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Anything goes 👌 great to see more subjects being talked about that wouldnt be in the mainstream.

  • @mintsugas
    @mintsugas ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk how anyone in this world can experience such horror in their life and still stand today beautiful and well spoken as Nina is. She went through so much my heart breaks for her 😢I wish her the best of happiness the rest of her life and all those poor girls suffering from this same abuse.

  • @Englandweloveyou
    @Englandweloveyou ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Poor lass, any man that treats a women or child like that deserves to be hung, the stuff she’s gone through, no one deserves it. Especially children and women, I hope she’s protected and real men look out for her, never stop speaking out love, your a wonderful good looking women with so much greatness to offer this 🌎. 👏🏻🔥❤️😍

  • @melissakimmerwebb1188
    @melissakimmerwebb1188 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nina, thank you for sharing your story. You are so powerful and inspiring! May Heavenly Father and his mighty Angels continue to hold you close and protect you and your children!

  • @whufc41
    @whufc41 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a pour soul, she's a true hero.
    James you are born to do what you're doing right now, great pods.

  • @becksarmour9922
    @becksarmour9922 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thankyou for sharing your story Nina , i am a sexual abuse survivor and lots more but this is about helping others and helping them live and love and receive love again....thankyou for the love we received from you through your story ...sending love bk to you in abundance ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    Thankyou to you James for bringing this lady to give love and healing to us ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @planetrock8733
    @planetrock8733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your best interview so far James. I got so much from it. ❤

  • @gglendinningok
    @gglendinningok ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Heard her story some years back, which is difficult to listen to, it's so terrible, & quite amazing she has come through it with such dignity, the people who obused her should ALL be jailed/deported as a Minimum!

  • @terrywelsh7214
    @terrywelsh7214 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Incredible woman. God bless you Nina. X

  • @jimmycricket8170
    @jimmycricket8170 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Oh fur gawds sake James.
    Its not always about you.
    This lady has been to hell and back and you keep going about your own problems.

  • @Rachel-qc2ci
    @Rachel-qc2ci ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow this woman is so inspiration and I hope she has or is on her way to finding peace and deserves to feel love and warmth
    Great podcast
    Thank u Nina for sharing your story

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Rachel I love my life as it’s nothing but peaceful and full of purpose! Thank you for watching ❤

  • @jimkollet1392
    @jimkollet1392 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow... What an inspiring lady.. To go through what she has and to forgive her family.. I can't get my head round. Bless her.. Great chat.

  • @jennymclean2323
    @jennymclean2323 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is such a disturbing story she is amazing I hope parents were charged

  • @alaynajensen9034
    @alaynajensen9034 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Poor baby i saw her on snapchat but the things she had to go through as a little child is disturbing and awful and just evil. Im so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are blessed and thriving and i pray that you have peace and protection for the rest
    Of your life. I love you so so much and I hope you heal from the trauma your own family put you thru. I wish you well and manifest lots of love and blessings to be poured out on you and may you always never stoo havinn love coming your way.

  • @wolfcrewe7474
    @wolfcrewe7474 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What a brave and beautiful woman. How anybody could do that to their children is beyond me, but I’m happy this beautiful woman has survived this.
    Humanity radiates through her and I sense that she is a very loving person too. I hope you find happiness.

    • @chrissymc886
      @chrissymc886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have 2 girls and I would go to the ends of the earth for them. Can't imagine being so sick and cruel to anybody you are supposed to love.

    • @wolfcrewe7474
      @wolfcrewe7474 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chrissymc886 it’s a strange concept, even if it is cultural, surely maternal and paternal instinct will kick in?

    • @chrissymc886
      @chrissymc886 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wolfcrewe7474 you would think so right but apparently not.

    • @wolfcrewe7474
      @wolfcrewe7474 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chrissymc886 and again even if it is cultural, something needs to be done to combat this. It’s not compatible with our values and laws here.

    • @chrissymc886
      @chrissymc886 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wolfcrewe7474 they want to change out values and laws to suit them which is the exact opposite of what we would be allowed to do if we went there.

  • @davidrobertson840
    @davidrobertson840 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can’t believe what I’m hearing. Absolute disgrace in so many level!!!!!! Thank you for sharing your story

  • @JWhite-px6gp
    @JWhite-px6gp ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is so crazy as to how many women have this life. I cried watching this I couldn’t even get through a minute without feeling utterly remorseful

  • @ss__28
    @ss__28 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This guy needs to let his guests speak and not use it as a platform to just go off on a tangent and spraff his own opinions. Let the guests speak!

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  ปีที่แล้ว

      no thanks

    • @ss__28
      @ss__28 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Defeats the purpose of a podcast 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Humaaxxx
    @Humaaxxx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love how she talks about being non verbal because it’s so true, you learn people’s body movements and actions and that’s your communication but in reality it’s wrong

  • @martibaby
    @martibaby ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I recommend a book the daughters of shame about a lady who went through similar tragedy in life. She founded an organisation called Karma Nirvana , a place where they help young Asian people (mainly girls) to escape their horror life / escape from honour killings. Bless them all !!!

  • @Teenibash1969
    @Teenibash1969 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a beautiful woman. I am so glad you made it through. Wishing you all the love in the world ❤

  • @kronk420
    @kronk420 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How can you have so little love for someone especially your own child?