I'M NEVERRRR COLORING MY HAIR AGAIN
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The whole time she talking I'm just looking at her thinking about how pretty she is ❤️.
Awe‼️ You're so sweet❣️ That was nice of you to comment about her, she's beautiful and so are you 😊
WOWWWWWWW, that is so sweet, honestly thank you so muchhhhhhhhhh!!
Exactly she's fine as HELL DAMN 💙💙
@@OnlyOneJess You're welcome 😊.
Oh wow we have the same name ☺️
“Dying your hair back to black won’t fix the problem” sis 😭😭😭😭 you so right though 😂😭
“Sometimes I have to remind myself there’s no such thing as a stupid question” 😂😂😂
This one killed me 😂😂
sometimes i just.... i just cant lol
😂😂 thought that was just common sense .. but common sense isn’t common
Lollol Jess me having 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes the only stupid question is one that is not asked.
Her: say I won’t
Me: you won’t
Her:... okay I won’t
Ahnesty Boyd me too I said the same thing then she reply , I almost lost it 😂😂😂😂😂
Have faith in JESUS CHRIST as LORD and SAVIOR for HE SAVES ❗️
*What is the Gospel?*
The true gospel is the good news that God saves sinners. Man is by nature sinful and separated from God with no hope of remedying that situation. But God, by His power, provided the means of man’s redemption in the death, burial, and resurrection of the Savior, Jesus Christ.
Ephesians 2:8-9
For it is by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of GOD, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.
Romans 10:9
9 because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
JESUS CHRIST can come anytime!
Just Believe ❤️ Love you and GOD BLESS
Whenever I think about dyeing my natural hair I think back to junior year in high school where I wanted red highlights,then purple highlights, & finally pink ends I went from bra strap length to a damn chin length bob in my senior pictures!😭My damn hair pop locked & dropped off😂
“Popped, locked, and dropped off” I hollered😂😂😂😂😂
thats the worseeeee lolllll
🤣😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😊
whew sis im rollinggg lolll
Every time that I found TH-camrs that are really honest about hair dying I’m like Yessss! They never tell you what they are going through but they stopped doing length checks as they used to but they make it sound that it’s all good .
Honesty is the right way to go.
I will never dye my hair every person I know regrets it especially type 4
Same it's not worth it .
right thats y im using the hair paint wax cuz im scared to lose my hair i just made it to bra strap length
Same .. I've been watching Jess for a while and sometimes that red makes me reconsider it but I just keep reminding myself that it's only a matter of time before she tells us that it was hell for her hair cuz eventually colored hair girls always do lol. Now I'm convinced it's not for me. Thanks for the reaffirmation Jess.
Goddiss Love tbh! I’ve been wanting to dye my hair for a while now but my hair is so healthy right now it’s not worth the risk at all! 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
im here for you! LOL
Jess I feel your pain but you got me over here dying 🤣. It’s gone be ok Fran
I’m subscribed to you 😅
Me2 -lmbo! she soooooooo cute & funny
Was her hair past the point of using protein treatments & trimming until all the red was gone?
Just use the hair paint wax when you feel the need for a color change or use a protective style that uses extensions ....
Sydney Hixon where can you buy that? Is it black owned?
@@keracancook You can buy it online but I don't think its black owned. Crown paint colors is black owned tho. She's actually a youtuber
@@keracancook here is the link for crown paint www.crownpaintcolors.com/
I like hair paint wax better hairpaintwax.com not black owned i don’t think but I don’t really care,
xkanyewestfanx exactly dye is dye 😭
I remember EVERYONE in your comments saying “don’t dye your hair...it will damage it!” I was one of them 😆 And you was like “IDC for y’all’s opinion. And my hair isn’t damaged” 😆 Experience is the best teacher I guess. ♥️
A lot of people do not like to listen to people to tell them right. You still have women relaxing their hair, then they cut it all off or the hair fall off to where they go back natural when it sees it wasn't working for them, in the meantime some people have told them so, in which they refused to listen too.
@@Mimi24177 not all relaxed hair is damaged. Kills me when people say think that
@@sherlinewilliamson6600 It may not seem like it but over time it is eating it up, that's why a lot of them girls go back to natrual once they realize it.
@@sherlinewilliamson6600 A person with long natural hair with a silk press compared to someone who is relaxed. The hair is much thicker than relaxed hair.
@@Mimi24177 so how come some natural girls go back to relaxed hair? I was once natural and my hair was short and unruly. Ever since going back to the relaxer, my hair has never been longer or healthier. I have waist length hair and always get compliments on the length and thickness of my hair. Damaged relaxed hair may be true for some but it is not true for all. Just like healthy natural hair is true for some but not all. We all are entitled to our opinions but that's just what it is, an opinion and not a fact.
Sis cut off that dead weight lol! We here to watch it grow back!!! 🤣
woah woah woahhhhh lol hold thy horses we gotta try some protein treatments first lol
OnlyOneJess lol!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 you right you right!!
When she was separating her hair and said “oh I heard that” I could relate TOO much and cried
frrrrr
“Y’all can’t tell me this red not poppin ”😂
Im just sayinggg lol
@@OnlyOneJess I absolutely love the red on you, but we must get it back healthy.
Red was poppin!
Who was waiting for her to do the big chop 😂
me
Fast forward March 2020 she finally cuts it all off and her hair is healthy and growing!!! Once haired is damaged like that, you just gotta cut it all off and start over
“Your girl bout to be ear length” 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
Dorianne Kaboya 💀
But it will be worth it! Health over length is way more soothing! She needs to do a big chop cause we can clearly see that her hair is damaged bad 😓
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@DaughterOfTheKing_ when your friend needs a trim but you are trying to be supportive☝️
Color is fun until it starts to grow out. It’s not fair! But it’s so cute and fun!! It grew mine out as long as (like a year) I could and then eventually get the deva cut..I wasn’t ready to let the length go😆. I plan to finish out the year and do at least highlights next year. NOT full color. Too much work. Why must life be like this 😩
The scissors are too close to the hair😭😭😭
they needed to be closer i need to cut it lol
i know she skimmed off a strand or two playing like that 😭
I’ve been dying my hair since I’ve been about 15. I’ve had blue hair, purple, but mostly red. I bleach my hair maybe once every other year. Never has my hair broken off. I learned how to take care of my hair with the help of my momma old school style. I weekly wash and deep condition. You’ll be fine.
Have faith in JESUS CHRIST as LORD and SAVIOR for HE SAVES ❗️
*What is the Gospel?*
The true gospel is the good news that God saves sinners. Man is by nature sinful and separated from God with no hope of remedying that situation. But God, by His power, provided the means of man’s redemption in the death, burial, and resurrection of the Savior, Jesus Christ.
Ephesians 2:8-9
For it is by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of GOD, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.
Romans 10:9
9 because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
JESUS CHRIST can come anytime!
Just Believe ❤️ Love you and GOD BLESS
“If my hair keeps acting like a dry lip” 😩😂😂
Same thing happened to me when I colored my hair. I would just cut about a half inch to an inch every month.
My natural hair is currently dry as a desert so I incorporated weekly hot oil treatments and deep conditions. I’ve been wearing a wig as a protective style but in the house I just leave it in braids. I have a lot of hair so it’s time consuming but worth the effort for your crown 👑
ughhh wigs aren't really my thing idk lol i really have to consider my options here
@@OnlyOneJess start wearing YOUR product..and switch it up... you'll be surprised... thanks as always for sharing!
@@OnlyOneJess You do now have that OnlyOneJess inspired wig you can wear while you grow your hair out.
@LickMyCocoa...I'm dying too!
OnlyOneJess i just had to watch this again for the laughs 🤭 😂
I understand I just got into wigs 2 years ago. You do a lot to your hair (for us, thanks 😊) but maybe it will be a good time to do a “Protective Style” challenge with your viewers. I started my own hair health/growth routine last month.
I’ve been here before when I’ve dyed it strawberry blonde and my curl pattern disappeared! But when I went to a curly hair stylist (hairstylist that is certified in curly hair) I was able to get my hair dyed red without loosing my curl pattern! Going to someone who’s educated on dying curly textured hair is the key! My hair stylist has tight curly blonde hair and her curls are poppin!😉
I personally feel like black looks better on her but it's her choice in the end. Ladies stop damaging your hair. Just get a weave if you want to switch it up. Healthy hair always looks better!
Same
Agreed! Apart from the weave part 😄
facts and their is hair paint wax too the color can show up as vibrant as if u colored it so permanent aint even an option no moreeee
Exactly what I had to realize!
@@_22_Vinci yes, completely forgot about the hair paint wax!
When I went natural I told myself that I am never, NEVER, doing anything permanent to my hair again. No permanent color. No permanent straighteners. No permanent styles (locs). Nothing permanent. If I can't come back from it I don't want it!
You can comb locs out though…
@@90sHillyit’s takes a life time to comb locs out and you have breakage and lose a lot of length
@@Rebecca.xoxoxoI’ve had locs in my hair and I combed them out in a week (I did a little everyday instead of all at once) you dont lose any length, my hair was passed my shoulders without breakage
I’ve learnt my lesson dyeing my 4c hair. Months later the red ends broke 🥴🥴💀💀
oh no! my hair didnt break but its ugly. idk which one is worse lol
lmao girl me too. i was in denial before i just chopped the whole shit off
Thanks for the warning!
Same experience later had to chop all my hair off😭😭😭😭😭😭💔
Same here. Had to go back to a twa. 😫
I had the same issue, I used a box dye before traveling to Japan. My hair hated me for the longest time (for about 6 months.) It felt dry, like if I fried it with a blowdryer/flatiron!
I was able to reverse it by doing:
•hot oil treatments AND deep conditioning CONSISTENTLY every week. My hair went back to normal in about 3 months.
•I recently discovered Olaplex and the Aphogee Curlific! Treatments. I wish I had those a year ago, cuz it would have helped immensely!
•If you dyed your hair and it’s damaged, make sure you’re trimming your hair more often than you usually would (trim your hair about every 3 months), because your ends WILL fight you lol (they are the oldest part of your hair, therefore weaker than the hair growing out your roots. They need extra TLC.)
I just took the scissors and chopped off my red two weeks ago and got my red twists sitting in a satin bag. I miss the length but my twist outs weren't looking good. So I'm happy with the health of my hair now and sure I'll be back at my long hair shortly again. Sometimes gotta just go for health and happiness.
I did the same
I felt this WHOLE video 💀 been contemplating cutting my damaged ass hair & I’m gonna do it now lol thanks sis 💖
"We just gonna deep condition and chat. I dunno why." Don't worry, sis, you don't have to know why. We sitting here. Best "Get ready with me" type thing ever 😌. Those musical "Chileeee"s are great 😂 Notification gang roll call 🌼
ahahha thank you boo!!
You are right about the no stupid questions part, because NO ONE knows EVERYTHING. I think when people ask questions, they are wise enough to want the knowledge.
💯💯
I feel your pain....honestly, I do! I’m a firm believer in following my heart...whenever I felt my hair stopped speaking to me, I knew it was time for change, which equates to a CUT! It’s just hair and will grow back. If its too much of a shock to cut all the color off at one time, then do it in phases. A blunt cut in a straightened state is a tapered cut in its curly state. Just go for it...
You can bleach your hair and have healthy hair, you just have to realize that the manipulation has to be at an all time low!! Sacrifices must me made.
How funny is this chick😂 She always makes me laugh. I used to bleach and try different colors frequently and it ruined my hair every time. Now I just wear wigs when I’m in the mood for a major change. At least she has that gorgeous red wig she can wear when her hair is back black.
Joy Deja King Same thing with me. I had the burgundy ombré and a honey blonde ombré. Beautiful colors but my hair broke off. Now I just wear weave when I want to play with color.
lol thank you queen!
Omg I watched this high af and every sentence had me DYING 🤣🤣
Girl it looks dry and I know your pain I colored my hair when I first started my natural hair journey and my hair was so dry I just protective style until it grew out to about 6inches of black and I big chopped my hair and I loved it. It got so much better. My moisture retention inproved. My hair grew back so fast.
I literally want to cut my hair EVERYDAY - so tired of braids and wigs, but I'll also cry with short hair sooooo....
me right now, im deciding in cutting mine cause i can’t even do hairstyles in my hair because of the different textures
Jess, Ive been in your situation multiple times. Grew my hair down my shoulders and colored it and boom damaged it. Please consider cutting it if not PLEASE try ayurvedic herbal oils. In one year I shaved my head (yep I did) and grew all my hair back NATURAL BLACK! The Jess I know is gonna finesse her hair back down her back!!!! Luv you!!! 😍🥰💋
Jess I don't like jet black hair. But my hair is reddish brown.. been coloring it once a year for about 3 years and it is damaged. But I behave about 3 inches of black hair and I will not color anymore. Just trim your hair and keep it braided . Maybe wear wigs. I do. But I'm older than you.
thank you!!!!
Yes Ayurvedic hair care is amazing
She ripped out so much of her hair with that damn brush😭🤦♀️ painful to watch
I think a wide tooth comb would've been better
I needed this video I’ve really been contemplating coloring my hair knowing what could happen THANKS SIS!!!
Everyone I know who's dyed their hair red has suffered hair loss. Including myself. I had to chop it all off
What products did you use? What is your curl type and porosity?
@@chioma5633 We all had different hair types. Mine is a 4B. I used mainly Cantu products then and now. Why do you ask?
@@notbuiltforthat8686 Just wondering about porosity because that does influence how colouring will work. From what I understand red is a pigment that needs to enter the hair, a bit like a protein, so it can have the same effect as protein overload. But when you say hair loss, do you mean shedding?
Did you bleach your hair first?
@@ca-lj8ws rtt bc I’m seeing so many comments like bleach & dye. I could’ve sworn bleaching and dying are two different things so which process hurt your hair?
Yeah I was gonna dye my hair this December but nevermind sister. 😔😭
Nychelle White it ain’t worth it sis do the temporary hair wax thing 💁🏾💁🏾
me 2
Isabella Sisay I was so excited I wasn’t even gonna do permanent dye but I’ve work so hard on my hair
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Right my exact thoughts
I got my hair dyed red at a natural salon and I experienced no damage at all. I feel like it definitely depends on who you go to and how you care for your hair afterwards.
I agree. I dont have any damage but my hair does loose moisture and frizz faster. Maybe thats damage lol
"Say I wont.." I have been struggling on the idea of cutting my hair myself. It's never been as damaged as it is now but LORD I'm sick of these dry ends....sis WE are past conditioner...time for a cut
Brittany Faulk same! Every wash day I’m so tempted😭😭
Likewise!!
We're in the exact same boat 😩 lmao. I'm growing out this burgundy color & I've recently decided not to dye it ever again. My dyed ends were sooo thin compared to the first few inches of hair. I've cut about 6 inches so far & I can't wait til it completely grows out. Also, your hair looks really shiny when black 😍
I don’t want to cut my dyed hair. Will my dyed hair eventually completely all grow out without cutting it?
CUT IT! Let things go in 2019. Prepare anew for 2020 and just wear your new wig when you want the red look!
Hey Sis, I am not a professional hair stylist, but i have worked with many. One thing that I've heard (don't know how accurate but it makes sense) is that whenever you permanently color your hair, you are suppose to continue to color it regularly even if it is a gloss coat in order to have the cuticle remain sealed. If you do not, your cuticle will open and your hair will become damaged/break.
👍👍👍 for the info.
experience is the best teacher, you will never make the same mistake
facts!!
PREACHHHHHH
My stupid ass will tho
@@arwen9129 same 🤣
@@tatikay3660 😭😭
I feel you. I’m letting my blond grow out. It’s been almost 3 years since I colored it and basically it’s just at the tips now.I love my color but I’m never coloring it again. My hair is already dry but with the color it’s even drier.
I’m glad you posted this video. I was sooo tempted to color my hair again (blonde highlights 🙌🏾🙌🏾) but I remember how dead and damaged my hair looked when it was colored. I decided to go with ombré colored passion twists instead of coloring it. That should curb the graving of me wanting to color my hair for awhile. I had to talk myself out of it. My hair is growing beautifully and I don’t want to ruin my progress. I cut off all of my color when I had my hair tapered two years ago.
sometimes we all need a reminder lol i honestly love the red color but i cant wait for my hair to be back at its full virgin color again with my healthy hair =(
You are so beautiful ! Thank you for sharing this, I felt all of your pain. I’m glad you didn’t cut your hair.
It’s crazy that I came across this video because I was literally thinking of changing my hair color, I never really wear my hair out & I thought by me dyeing it I would want to wear my hair out more... but after watching this I know exactly what you mean. You can’t just dye your hair back black, the entire texture has changed. Please hang in there, and whatever you decide in the end will be best. Love ya girl ❣️
😂😂 you’re so funny. Like yo dry hair ain’t funny but you have me cracking up! Love your personality 💙
lollll thanks for encouragement haha
The year I went natural I dyed my hair red and it honestly was the biggest mistake ever 😩 it was cute but sis my hair was DESERT DRY once I cut all that red off my hair was at it’s healthiest 💓 and I’m never dying my hair again 😂
I learned my lesson 4yrs ago when I had to big chop again after bleaching . 😂♥️
I am not coloring my hair now 🫤🫤🫤 Thank you for sharing your experience. That’s what it’s all about saving others the time and heartache with our life experiences 💙 My temple area has so many gray hairs 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I use hair color spray between washes in a pretty rose gold with no alcohol in it, and I’m going to keep doing that now.
"Chileeee". Even in your hair misery, you had me dyin' over here!
lol gotta laugh to keep from crying sometimes haha
You naturally have amazing hair you're gonna bounce right back girl don't even stress
Sis, you're sounding really stressed... Take. It easy..... Breathe 🤗
@@kailester4807 Sis... Fo real
lol im not stressed im okay i promise =) [BUTTTT if i was it should be understandable because this is how i make my oney and if i have no hair, i have no job lol] but nah frfr this video is for entertainment even though my hair really is trash right now lol
@@OnlyOneJess Lool, I get it
It’s like watching a therapist being their own therapist 😂😂😂😂 this was amazing to watch. Almost magical 😂
I swore I saw one of her videos from when she first started dying her hair she said how the color didn’t change her curl pattern or anything about her hair. And then in this video she like admits it. Lol. Which is cool. Idk if she was in denial there or maybe when she dyed it she didn’t see much change until she kept re dying it. But it’s good that she’s going back to healthy hair!🙌🏽 It’s good to show what coloring hair does over time!
Usually the damage from color comes over time. There are a lot of videos titled "I colored my hair without damage" and I find those titles to be a little misleading since the damage is usually not instant.
this is facts. its a gradual damage lol takes a while to actually see it.
this is facts. its a gradual damage lol takes a while to actually see it.
I feel you! That’s why I only dye one section of my hair in the front so that I can get the benefit of looking like I have dyed hair but not really damaging the majority of my hair lol
I still watch your old vids with your natural black hair cos them healthy juicy curls are my hair goals👌🏾
i cant watch them anymore i get sad lol
"My hair goes through seasons". Yes girl! Hair and Mother Nature are NOT on the same page. When my hair was bleached I did coconut oil hot oil treatments as a pre-wash. Warm it, add it to your hair, add a plastic bag, towel over that... then binge some Netflix. (OK not binge but like an episode or two). After that add your conditioner and detangle. Shampoo, condition, LOC, twist and sit with heat or the plastic bag/towel method. Do this every two weeks and dust your ends monthly. Decrease to monthly after 2 months. Good luck!!
Sameee! Never coloring my hair again either. I had red like you. Dyed it over and over again til I finally learned my lesson. I cut all the color out a few months ago and I’m back to Black 🖤🖤 my hair is thriving now
I noticed the difference in your hair texture a while ago. Glad you you’ve noticed and are taking the necessary steps to get your beautiful texture back ♥️
I really feel you. I’ve been natural for 6 years and coloring my hair for 5. I always covered the fact that my hair was damaged. And I big chopped every year, so much so that I just called it a restyle. I am a recovering hair color addict but I’m trying to grow it out now
charismatic army Hair paint wax could be an easy fix
Shea Butter Beauty I’ve never tried it but I know it was really popular last year or the year before.
Hey girl. I've been there. What is helpful is to cut off a quarter inch every month so it wont seem like your losing to much length. The red ends a fried and there will be no coming back from that! COLOR IS THE ENEMY AND I WILL NEVER EVER COLOR MINE AGAIN
Cut it Jess and take us through the journey of renewal and regrowth. You can do tutorials on t.w.a s clip ons and wigs. 100k + new subscribers guaranteed.💕
🥴 I’ve never damaged my hair coloring it some people are just subject to more damage
Ithe realG-DUB me either and I use the L’Oréal hi color and the 30 developer and my hair is in the same shape as it was before it was ever colored...so it’s just certain ppl hair....
Ithe realG-DUB she likely bleached it first and the damage is from the bleach
Same!
I feel your pain I just bleached my hair some weeks ago and I hate that I did it I should have just kept my dark red
There are hair dyes you can get that don’t contain bleach
THAT THUMBNAIL HAD ME SCREAMING! 😱😭😂
right i was like sissss u cuting ur hair for reallll lolll
@@_22_Vinci word!!!😭
Me too sis
@@nappyhairrebel5911 my heart skipped a beat or something! 😂
lol im sorry y'all
Curls pop better on dark hair to me. I went through this to and dyed it back black and it looked amazing!!
I was just thinking of coloring my hair a dark purple but now idk. I've always been scared. You should try the Aztec clay mask that's what I did with my hair when it was dry. I have faith that you will bounce back!💕💯
thank you queen!
Girl thank you! You saved me from coloring my hair!!
Try pretreating Olaplex. It’s expensive but SO worth it!!!! It’s concentrated so a little goes a long way.
i heard!! gonna try =)
me : looks at thumbnail
Also me: she ain’t crazy
her : yea you right
Let me sit and enjoy ONLYONEJESS🍿🍿
lol you are so kind thank you for watching!
Maybe I'm staring the obvious butttttt.... you can't dye your hair and then just keep using the same type of products on your hair, or get lazy with your hair (no judgement, I've learnt from my own mistakes on this one). When you dye your hair, you strip essential protein from your hair. You need to add it back in. You need to do a hard protein treatment straight after dyeing and then you need to keep up with regular protein deep conditioners and products containing protein in them. One hard protein treatment (eg Aphogee Two Step) once every 6 weeks. Most natural hair products don't contain a high level of protein as they are not made for colour-treated hair - they are made to add softness and a little strength, but not a lot. So even if you deep condition with them every single week, your virgin hair will be happy, your coloured hair will not be feeling it at all. I bleached my hair a while back and I've BEEN knowing this for a long time... butttttt.... after losing my dad, a major breakup and just a crazy year in general, my hair care definitely suffered and I slacked on my bleached hair. It's ok Sis, we all go through it.
I did think your hair was damaged but I thought it was just me 😂 I think you should trim while letting it grow but red hair is hard to keep healthy so your lucky
Tionna Johnson i didn’t want to say anything either 🤣
right ive been thinking that but me and my sister just said shell realize it soon enough we knew she was in denial but i love her and videos regardless
JeannetteJ Beauty grew out her blond hair and trimmed. Her hair is big, long and healthy now. She'll can do the same
ya'll ruthless under this comment here LOL but yea im going to try to keep it alive as long as i can while trimming but if my hair dont get it together then Houston we have a problem lol
@@OnlyOneJess 😂😂😂
Girl that red hair looks good on you. Don't regret it. I enjoyed watching those videos. Let it grow out. Keep the dyed hair conditioned and healthy.
No Regrets just Lessons. That Red is 🔥 on you Jess!! But I agree, let it grow out back to its natural color. Love ya no matter what color you go with. A mini chop would be cool too
this is the positivity that i like to see! lol thank you!
My hair is bleached(blue and purple). I have to stay on top of my protein treatments & deep conditioning. However everyone's hair is different. I'm sorry you're going through this hun. Hope your hair makes a comeback!❤❤
Hey Jess! Don’t be discourage with your color..you need to do more treatments like overnight hot oils ( sweet almond, castor oil , olive oil) , clay mask and the hair mayonnaise from ORS ... hope it will work for you ! 😜
im going to try some of these options before i decide to go bald lol thank ya !
Sis I was in the same boat, before I bleached my hair it was sooooo dry. No matter what products I used they just always seemed to sneak out😳and I was low porosity. But since bleaching my hair I went back to an oldie but goodie from when my hair was shorter and I was in my transitioning phase, and that beauty is the Hawaiian Silky gel activator 🙌🏾 when I tell you that I am now able to keep my BLEACHED, COLORED hair moisturized for some times days at a time I mean it.. I honestly don't know why I ever stopped using that product. Lol I don't even touch cremes or styling gels or anything, that gel and some oil is all I use now!!
I do that all the time. “If I never let her straighten my hair, I wouldn’t have gotten heat damage and had to cut off 6 inches” biggest regret.
Don’t recolor it tho! 😩
6 iNCHES! oh my sis. i know that one hurt =(
"My curls are definitely looking like somebody raised them right." 🤣
You and NaturalReign inspired me to go red and I thank y'all I loved it. I just straightened and cut half of my hair off. I still have some red but I love my hair again sis got some act right with a good cut. My moisture retention is through the roof. I still have some red that I will trim off slowly. Go for a good cut Jess your poppin with any style.
@@NadiasCloud It is and I had my red for 2 years the bleach killed my hair eventually not the color
omg! I JUST went through this with the ends of my hair that were dyed bright red yesterday. I cut three inches off this week. Sis, my wash and go slapped severely today and that’s all I’m going to say.
BUT, my hair that was dyed red with a high-lift color is perfectly fine. I only had to cut my ends that were once blonde. If you ever wanted to go back to red, try that instead of bleach! Also, a nice trim would get you right for the time being. Best wishes 💕
Try a protein treatment and long term protective styling
Karissa Goodwin i did this and my hair looked better but it was still dry and my curl pattern just wasn't like it used to be. plus i could see my new growth was coming in but it wasn't getting longer because my ends were breaking off so fast. i literally just did a lil chop today maybe about 2 and a half inches and i can already see a big difference on
Karissa Goodwin it still wouldn’t do any good she will have to do a big chop and you should also know that with low porosity hair can’t handle protein treatment often!
Karissa I agree with you. I think she needs a protein treatment as well. The bleach and dyes literally break down the protein bonds in our hair strands in order to lift the color. She needs to strengthen those if she really wants to see some improvement. There is a such thing as striking a protein/moisture balance. All the deep conditioning and moisturizing in the world is not going to help when that balance is out of wack. If fact it will make it worse. Her hair actually looks like she's suffering from hygral fatigue. All of our hair is made of protein so the idea that this hair porosity or that one can't handle protein is false. Certain porosity levels may not need as much and/or as often. But all hair types can use it if they get out of balance. Striking a good protein balance will actually help her hair to retain moisture as well.
Karissa Goodwin that’s what I’m doing. I’m hair is at the middle of my back
That’s exactly what I did thank God . My hair was breaking off after bleach . I will never bleach again
I am going through the same thing. I going to buy some vitamins because what I learned in my 30s was you have to take care your body from the inside out. I’m just hoping that it’s not too late for me because I’m now 48 and hair thinning runs in my family from both sides. Also remember if you are going through a stressful time your hair and skin is the first things that will show signs of the stress. Over the summer I was rushed to the E.R. think I was having an heart attack. So, whatever it is try to let it go. Give it to God, this is what I been practicing and I keep reminding myself that it will take some. When a person colors they’re hair you have to take extra precautions to keep it healthy. The only way to do that is to keep it extra conditioning and moisturizing keep it moist. This is what I am working on. So, I feel you and your struggle! Keep at it, and give her extra attention and moisture and she will be alright. I will try coloring my hair again but, now I know that I can’t just wash and condition my hair she’s going to need more attention. Because you was rocking that red and I look fierce in red myself. I’m not ready to give up on the red just keep clipping your ends as needed. P.S. No, I am not a hair stylist this is just something that I used to do in my 30s and my hair was longer and healthier. Good luck sis 💗💖👍🏽
You look so good with you natural hair color too!❤️
I know Right!
thank you, queen!
OnlyOneJess ❤️
girl story of my life!!! but you’re stronger than me bc i cut a chunk of my hair off a few weeks ago bc i couldn’t take it. that bleach is the devil but i have noticed that putting a semi permanent black on top brings *some* life to the damaged parts
You won’t sis......I♥️ both Mielle’s mask and deep conditioner....your short black hair was very cute...your current color and style is still cute.
thank you! =)
This whole vid is my entire mood sometimes during my wash day😫😒😑😤😠😡🤬😭😭 I be seriously contemplating my life choices that brought me to this point of detangling my hair for what seems like ages 😭
P.S. it might not just be ur hair as to why it still feels dry even when it's wet. My hair doesn't respond great to Mielle products and certain other ones, it feels dry even when I pack on the product and saturate it with H2O💦. I would use a different deep conditioner to see if you hair responds the same way or nah. Then you'll be able to confirm if it's only your hair that's dry and not the product combo.
I have moments when my hair just looks trash af and it’s just like why ya look like that 😭🗣. But I agree your hair texture does change as it grows out. Maybe you could try the apoghee 2 step treatment I heard you mention dry and limp you could just need some protein. But that reminiscing ting dangerous man.
man that reminiscing will have me ear length by the end of this week! lol but yea im going to pick some up tomorrow and see because SISSSSS.. my hair aint poppin right now.
OnlyOneJess 😂😂 no but the scissors always seem a little shinier when the hair giving problems 🗣 I had to pick it up for myself the other day and it helped a lot
Yesss I experienced the same thing when I dyed my hair red. It was fine for a minute and then it was just dry no matter how much I deep conditioned. But what helped me was a protein treatment! I would say clarify your hair first to make sure it’s not product build up and do a protein treatment. The curl junkie repair me conditioner id amazing and isn’t super harsh. Either that or aphogee 2 min reconstructor and trust me your hair will thank you! Whichever one you choose be sure to follow up with a deep conditioner. Although we still have our natural curl pattern, hair dye is a process that strips our hair of protein and it has to be replenished. Oh yea and also try deep conditioning with heat. It makes a HUGE difference. Hope this helps!
Cut out that color! Every time you say “my hair feels so dry”, you’re running your fingers over the colored part. I am so here for another big chop! I’d love to see your content with short hair again.
...And it's very clear that the new growth is gorgeously healthy...
i'm cryyyying, the laugh after "give or take 3 months" 😭😭😭
Try an Oleplex treatment.
Sissss i can totally relate, you spoke to my soul, this is the exact condition of my hair.
Do a protein treatment, the aphogee 2 step treatment
D P your right
She has low porosity and since her hair is already damaged from the bleaching the protein treatment will only temporarily treat her hair until she get a big chop 🤷🏽♀️
Her hair is not breaking
This video gave me the strength to go and moisturize my ends. I’ve been keeping my hair in two strand twists for weeks at a time. I FINALLY took them out and rocked a twist out for a day. Instead of twisting it back up I threw a bonnet on and called it a day knowing damn well I need to seal my ends.
Jess dont chop! Lol
I coloured my ends red, well now it looks kinda brown, but I've had to trim my ends like twice within 6 months. I just keep the ends moisturized and so far so good.
As we know,or at least should know bleached hair especially
requires much more scrutiny,and tender loving care,than unprocessed hair
which in of itself, is an added annoyance,to the daily maintenance of our dry kinky/natural hair
while just adding dark colored dyes
to our naturally dark hair,is made out to be much safer.
I'm so scared of blonde shades,on my natural hair
so I've opted to add color,to my hair via,other methods,
which are obviously braids/wigs ect ect 😊.