The Best Way to Handle Betrayal: Walk Away with Dignity

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  • @BreakupBounce
    @BreakupBounce  หลายเดือนก่อน +427

    What would you have done in this situation?

    • @Mgtowirishking
      @Mgtowirishking หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      That would have been the end for her and the dude she was cheating with if that was me

    • @josesandoval7952
      @josesandoval7952 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      To be fair, silence and removing access to yourself is the best thing you can do. You really don’t need the details, as nothing changes. You were still two timed, and she didn’t like you enough. That’s all you need to move on without another word.

    • @Roddy_Zeh
      @Roddy_Zeh หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      ​@@josesandoval7952 Totally agreed. No words, explanations, justifications would make any difference in the outcome.
      Give 'em the freedom to be with whoever they want, it ain't worth trying to convince someone to be with you, but walk away and don't look back, because someone who _truly_ loves you will choose you without you having to resort to stupid games.
      And, above all else...gotta love yourself first...so you know you deserve better than just being someone's option, instead of priority.

    • @josesandoval7952
      @josesandoval7952 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @ absolutely, it’s just not worth fixing or trying to find a “truth” from a liar. Better off showing her you were the one that she fumbled, happy new years bro.

    • @Roddy_Zeh
      @Roddy_Zeh หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@josesandoval7952 Yep!
      There may be a mourning period in which you still feel the pain of the break-up...but respect that, give yourself time to feel and process this, it'll pass, and you'll move on...wiser, stronger...towards something better, for sure!
      And likewise, lad! 👋🏻😁

  • @PenholdLP
    @PenholdLP หลายเดือนก่อน +6365

    "He's got a anger management problem" - no that guy has full control. Actually he should be respected for walking away without doing anything

    • @ROCKSTAR123620
      @ROCKSTAR123620 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

      He turned into ghost from the series Power

    • @charlesjohnson1602
      @charlesjohnson1602 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      If he had anger management dude would have got clocked there on the street

    • @russelturner5771
      @russelturner5771 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      Oh! He's the one with the problem. Dude! Read the room, that's some world is flat logic.

    • @MM-em6ly
      @MM-em6ly หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly

    • @adedamolaadeyemi6591
      @adedamolaadeyemi6591 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      The writers were NOT in their bag. That’s the opposite of anger. Anger would be lacerating you with the thorns on the roses, but he didn’t.

  • @kendalmoraes4018
    @kendalmoraes4018 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2598

    “And that’s supposed to make me wanna be with you? That ain’t enough.” Oh he ate with that.

    • @jenoluis
      @jenoluis 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

      Man I never seen this movie... I told this to my ex ... Similar situation... Bought tickets to a Maxwell concert her birthday... Told her to go with her with her friend... Just cause I love you I don't need to be with you...

    • @PamelaSimankwala
      @PamelaSimankwala 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Is it a movie or series if it's a movie may you please send me a title

    • @kendalmoraes4018
      @kendalmoraes4018 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@jenoluis that sucks. I’m so sorry.

    • @kendalmoraes4018
      @kendalmoraes4018 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@PamelaSimankwala it’s a movie. I can’t quite remember the name though…

    • @PamelaSimankwala
      @PamelaSimankwala 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @kendalmoraes4018 alright thank you

  • @noranradmusic
    @noranradmusic หลายเดือนก่อน +3270

    “Don’t cry, Frank! Cause if you start crying, imma--”
    “TANYA! 😭👀”

    • @Doppoganga
      @Doppoganga หลายเดือนก่อน +134

      I just like, “Tanya, you’re not helping 😂.”

    • @bobbyologun1517
      @bobbyologun1517 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

      TANYA!

    • @wesleyjean8641
      @wesleyjean8641 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      😂😂😂😂

    • @kennygreen4393
      @kennygreen4393 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

      Now that's what you call "comic relief"😅

    • @CrimsonEdits-m2h
      @CrimsonEdits-m2h 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂😂😂

  • @raymondjames2590
    @raymondjames2590 หลายเดือนก่อน +2612

    Takes more than love to have a relationship

    • @chromchill12
      @chromchill12 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

      Relationships are builded on LOVE and RESPECT
      If any of those pillars aren't strong enough, then you should get out and find someone better for you

    • @hiephiep12
      @hiephiep12 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      I respectfully disagree, my concept of love including devotion and self-sacrifice.
      "True love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own."
      It's just most people mistaken love with attraction or lust.

    • @MegaKnight2012
      @MegaKnight2012 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Love isn't just a feeling, that's attraction. Actual love is a work in progress.

    • @Jaystylez561
      @Jaystylez561 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@hiephiep12 You can’t make another person happy. They must deal with that internally.

    • @mechREV
      @mechREV หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@chromchill12Before love and respect is trust.

  • @86lanzo
    @86lanzo หลายเดือนก่อน +1649

    She knew he didn't sleep with her sister...she wanted the other dude..so to make herself feel better..she created BS in her own mind..

    • @cjjohnson4061
      @cjjohnson4061 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +93

      That’s what women do but asking her to be accountable is asking too much

    • @TheAccountant001
      @TheAccountant001 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@cjjohnson4061I swear , they hate accountability ! I swear it has to be genetic. Same thing I saw growing up around my family ..
      Spas of spade

    • @mrz7219
      @mrz7219 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@cjjohnson4061 accountable, a woman? Don't make me laugh 😂😂😂
      Agreed 👍🏾

    • @nnamdiegwabor7838
      @nnamdiegwabor7838 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      You got it hundred percent

    • @BodyByGaming
      @BodyByGaming 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I think she was offering her sister up as some kind of hall pass get even situation

  • @HeyhoBrando
    @HeyhoBrando 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1391

    This reminded me so much of a girlfriend I had years ago and I found her sleeping with some guy at school, her reason her sister said I slept with her. “I’m always going to believe family over some guy that might not be with me in the new few years.”
    6 weeks later she came to my work saying her sister admitted she lied because she was jealous that her sister was happy. I stood there listened and when done I said “thank you for admitting your wrong, bye,” and just went back to work

    • @Tytus_Albas
      @Tytus_Albas 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +176

      Not gonna lie, kind of a badass way to end it. I applaud.

    • @JakeBor
      @JakeBor 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      you're

    • @knives5964
      @knives5964 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

      ​@@Tytus_Albasalways is, that's why silence works too when someone has pissed you off. Find your partner cheating, just walk off say nothing, it'll drive them more insane than you throwing words of anger.

    • @sonicjamal230
      @sonicjamal230 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What happens if you’re on the receiving end of the silent treatment? What then?

    • @knives5964
      @knives5964 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@sonicjamal230 well what did you do to deserve it???

  • @Ndasuunye
    @Ndasuunye หลายเดือนก่อน +3342

    so instead of confirming whether he cheated or not, she just jumps ship and skidaddled. then has the nerve to question why he's just leaving.

    • @DeMarcusFountain-sv6fi
      @DeMarcusFountain-sv6fi หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Women who stray look for any little thing to give themselves the green light to cheat. She assumed he was sleeping with her sister so in her mind, she allowed herself to screw her "List Dude". Now she feels stupid and tries to crawl back when she realized she was wrong. Typical

    • @ghostghost266
      @ghostghost266 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women are allergic to accountability

    • @johnsonwithat2322
      @johnsonwithat2322 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

      A lot of women aren't communicators. They'd rather believe the story they invented in their head than to confirm with him knowing that he might lie about it.
      If he isn't a mind reader than she don't want him 😂

    • @ricardolopezjr8602
      @ricardolopezjr8602 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Don't turn the tables to a man this short video is on a woman who f up the man's life, I hope you understand that keep your bs and toxic in your behind

    • @sougotokiwa8439
      @sougotokiwa8439 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      No accountability.

  • @cmwest0
    @cmwest0 หลายเดือนก่อน +1732

    Tanya a whole fool!!!😂😂😂

    • @ellencarter2668
      @ellencarter2668 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      and a half

    • @peasy-s7r
      @peasy-s7r หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      She my type

    • @jimmyadams6083
      @jimmyadams6083 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @filipe.estima
      @filipe.estima 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Hate that way of speaking, waving head.

    • @EPHZAM
      @EPHZAM 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      And that man handled it like a king

  • @Wargray621
    @Wargray621 หลายเดือนก่อน +942

    so instead of confirming whether he cheated or not, she trusted her assumption and jumped on a new ship. it is no joke when it says: your worst enemy is yourself! this is exactly the behavior that a cheated person should adopt, not give the cheaters a second chance. because cheating was and always will be "a choice" not "a mistake". walk away, know your worth, it's an unforgivable sin to be with the wrong one. stay healthy kings, and keep moving forward.

    • @ibraringi8072
      @ibraringi8072 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      So imagine you call someone and didn't pick up call because he have another man and fortunate say someone I know 🤣🤣🤣 no full at all.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ibraringi8072 Had an aneurysm trying to read that

    • @PERSONA__NON__GRATA
      @PERSONA__NON__GRATA 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯

  • @BigBoyJay_69
    @BigBoyJay_69 หลายเดือนก่อน +938

    That sister is so real. Dude should go for her.

    • @kudraabdulaziz3096
      @kudraabdulaziz3096 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      👊😊

    • @GobiSubramaniam
      @GobiSubramaniam หลายเดือนก่อน +131

      Not recommended. The dude needs to be as far away from the one that cheated and being around her sister ain't gonna do crap to fix his heart.

    • @kelvincalloway5968
      @kelvincalloway5968 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

      @@GobiSubramaniam And as much as some, if not most, wanted her sister, its still not recommended nor a smart move, despite Tanya's good intentions. It will, in fact, worsen the situation with the cheating partner.

    • @MG007.
      @MG007. 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You don't Fish in the same pond where you once got stung.
      Sister is of the same gene pool.
      Walk away and never look back

    • @moses9426
      @moses9426 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

      She's loud and obnoxious. Nah

  • @jreyes122
    @jreyes122 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +334

    "He's got an anger management problem"
    My brother in the Emperor's light... If he REALLY had a problem, You'd be saying that through what was left of your teeth.

    • @brendathompson2288
      @brendathompson2288 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Exactly

    • @elizabethjackson3176
      @elizabethjackson3176 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      There is no need to ever get physical, just walk the hell away!

    • @uriellando1104
      @uriellando1104 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      **Warhammer reference**

    • @shripguy9658
      @shripguy9658 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      FOR THE EMPEROR!!!

  • @BreakupBounce
    @BreakupBounce  หลายเดือนก่อน +465

    Walking away with dignity when someone betrays your trust shows strength and self-respect. You can’t build a relationship on broken foundations, and love alone isn't enough if trust and loyalty are missing. Know your worth, and never settle for less.

    • @brunopadula7136
      @brunopadula7136 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shouldn't love and trust and loyalty be all strictly connected ? I get confused anytime I read someone speaking about these three things like they have nothing to do with each other. The bitch cheated on him, hence no respect, hence no loyalty, hence no love

    • @smokingbuddha2771
      @smokingbuddha2771 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Considering they still ended up together, he could have just spared himself the waste of time of walking away

    • @flawlesslw3797
      @flawlesslw3797 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@smokingbuddha2771 at the time it was necessary

    • @PERSONA__NON__GRATA
      @PERSONA__NON__GRATA 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯

    • @Tchibazz-TV
      @Tchibazz-TV 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yesaa

  • @iceonthesun8880
    @iceonthesun8880 หลายเดือนก่อน +539

    No matter how much I might love her; she slept with another man. It’s over after that. I could never be with her again. The ultimate betrayal.

    • @shaibullard1260
      @shaibullard1260 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      Facts 😢 this world has a lot of simps that that cheaters back and if they have a baby by another man they help them take care of the baby..........SIMP!

    • @hammertyme8392
      @hammertyme8392 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      The worst thing a woman can do is let another man think he has a shot

    • @DirtySouth56
      @DirtySouth56 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He took her back in this movie.....

    • @shamfagrey
      @shamfagrey 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Truth

    • @troytruong8246
      @troytruong8246 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Good women dont care about money. She will stick with you through adversaries. You cant blame her when she cheats or leaves if you are broke, lazy, let yourself go, cant perform in bed, stupid, and sick. Blame yourself!
      Bet yall didnt think about that.

  • @SonicXD001
    @SonicXD001 หลายเดือนก่อน +464

    In short: I've wasted part of my life for you. So what, to give you to the next guy and leave me drowning?

  • @sougotokiwa8439
    @sougotokiwa8439 หลายเดือนก่อน +243

    Just say "Bye, Felicia."
    And then NEVER look back.

    • @Rick_the_mogul
      @Rick_the_mogul 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thats kind of bottling up emotions it will still make you come back.Just let it all out and move on.

    • @MrOmgaduck
      @MrOmgaduck 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dont ever say "bye,felicia". That shit sounds gay af. Just bye.

  • @Usmain-u7q
    @Usmain-u7q 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +377

    It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable.

    • @Terry-i4r1y
      @Terry-i4r1y 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I’m struggling with significant issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her so much, and I’m prepared to do anything to bring her back into my life. I’d be very thankful for any help or advice you could offer.

    • @Usmain-u7q
      @Usmain-u7q 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Releasing the grip on someone dear is always tough, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual guide who preserved my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @Terry-i4r1y
      @Terry-i4r1y 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.

    • @Usmain-u7q
      @Usmain-u7q 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I promise you will not regret it

    • @user-vv5ju3fj1p
      @user-vv5ju3fj1p 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      Bot conversation over here

  • @davekisman2763
    @davekisman2763 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    I wanna hug this black man, Frank, for being in full control.

    • @MiamiCyclone
      @MiamiCyclone 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He’s acting 😂

    • @eliebembide3534
      @eliebembide3534 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@MiamiCyclone😂😂

  • @PimpythePurple
    @PimpythePurple หลายเดือนก่อน +376

    The fact that they ended together despite this is what I hate about fiction with such passion...
    Realistically what starts wrong, ends wrong.
    This right here is the healthy thing to do... Move on and find someone that rocks with you, who trusts you and who you can trust... That's real life, instead of lazy fairy tales that mislead people into terrible relationships.

    • @juxtapositionark9671
      @juxtapositionark9671 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

      Thank you for saving me precious time in this life
      I was already rooting for this character to find his potential less toxic life partner, now I know I’ll just end up mad if I watch this. Will definitely be sharing the movie though

    • @newson1177
      @newson1177 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      Wait ..what? They ended up together?! Wow..

    • @GamingxKnight
      @GamingxKnight 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@newson1177 Yup. After trying to talk him into taking her back through the front door of his cabin, calls him the N word saying 'N you really not gonna open this door?', then she sings in the rain for a minute or 2 before he goes out, kisses her in the rain, and lets her in. It would have been much better if he just let her stay out there.

    • @kingbrown09
      @kingbrown09 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Wait! What?
      Ended up together?
      Thank you for saving my time ❤

    • @moboutmen
      @moboutmen 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      They did WHAT?!? Give us Barrabas!

  • @omrcz
    @omrcz 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    "... And that's supposed to make me wanna be with you? That ain't enough."
    That shit right there is pure gold.
    Respect and love yourselves, brothers.

  • @thecollectivegamer3600
    @thecollectivegamer3600 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +148

    2:29 Tanya there for emotional support 😂

    • @siphopitso7928
      @siphopitso7928 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      🤌👌 Amen Brother! 🤣🤣🤣 Amen!!!

    • @jslack8973
      @jslack8973 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      When he yelled Tanya I fell out 😂😂😂😂

  • @VAswang
    @VAswang หลายเดือนก่อน +479

    Movie is called “Nobody’s Fool”

    • @titoserrano7077
      @titoserrano7077 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Men, the sister when she start saying what she would do if the men look in her direction was hilarious

    • @younglegend5375
      @younglegend5375 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      THANK YOU

    • @explore8539
      @explore8539 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      The sister was annoying AF

    • @MG007.
      @MG007. 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@explore8539
      Exactly

    • @AktarusGoldrake-zb8fs
      @AktarusGoldrake-zb8fs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      She was the star of the show

  • @jackpapa3767
    @jackpapa3767 หลายเดือนก่อน +232

    Common excuses that cheater always says
    1. You are a good person and I am not worth being with you.
    2. Accuse by saying that you cheat on me first
    3. That man/woman are my dreamt person but you are not
    4. You said you love me, so you should understand and let me go.

    • @rRagnaBR
      @rRagnaBR หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Well, the first sounds more like an direct, accurate statement.

    • @Lilpapersthe1
      @Lilpapersthe1 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Trust and believe and you would not believe this but there’s an actual whole book about what a cheater will say do in the menu rhythm that come along with it along with every single red flag that you might think is going on so we’re literally in the homefront where literal relationships are basically slowly becoming like dinosaurs obsolete and nonexistent

    • @CyclingMartialartswithMusic
      @CyclingMartialartswithMusic 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You forgot the "Its 2024/2025 everybody cheats" btw this statement comes mostly from women. Especially those who listen to Cardi B, Jada Smith and so on.

    • @luciusnguyen2449
      @luciusnguyen2449 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I think you forgot: I wasn't happy/You didn't give me enough attention

    • @atiachowdhury3734
      @atiachowdhury3734 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​ what is that book called? Please give me the name. This will be a act of Charity from you to me. And everyone who might read.

  • @Rejaro50
    @Rejaro50 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Been there. Done that. Once the trust is gone you have nothing left. Move on with your life and when they try to come back ignore them like they don't exist.

  • @petersmithyy4556
    @petersmithyy4556 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    Omg that friend is the very definition of the loud black female friend

    • @James-May
      @James-May หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      And I love her lmao

    • @Jdabomb93
      @Jdabomb93 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@James-May and we don’t

    • @672sara
      @672sara 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@Jdabomb93 speak for yourself

    • @MisterUnknown707
      @MisterUnknown707 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Jdabomb93Okay, troll.

    • @user-hhf234fse
      @user-hhf234fse 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@672sara hes right though, they can be annoying af sometimes

  • @ethantyler4711
    @ethantyler4711 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    When he started to walk away and she said: "but you said you loved me"
    his reply should have been her own words: and all you have said, is that I'm someone you know.
    End it all right there.

    • @russelturner5771
      @russelturner5771 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Or he could have also said it 😎 I'll get over you.

    • @Passionatelyfruits
      @Passionatelyfruits 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      U can luv a person from a distance

    • @patrickh619
      @patrickh619 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      yeah I too think his replied kind of lame. Just say "that's right, lovED."

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@patrickh619 That would be me "Past tense, this is the present and you're just a bad memory I can't wait to forget about".

    • @OReily08080
      @OReily08080 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@patrickh619Idk, that seems cliche. This line gets people thinking, when realistically the "love" doesn't always just stop immediately. Love as an attraction and action isn't enough to stabilize their relationship especially when it's not respected both ways

  • @RenekaNelson
    @RenekaNelson หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    His face when he shouted tanya had me dying 😂😂😂😂

  • @kelvinnjoagwuani9699
    @kelvinnjoagwuani9699 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I respect this guy a lot. Always be brave enough to walk away.

  • @DragonGoddess18
    @DragonGoddess18 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    1:01 😒 No,he doesn't. Don't project

  • @MB-ko3mr
    @MB-ko3mr หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    The bald guy saying he has an anger management problem is seriously lacking intelligence if that's all he can think.

    • @adnanorochi3761
      @adnanorochi3761 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is trifling 😂
      How can you not see he is just a trashy dude

    • @Passionatelyfruits
      @Passionatelyfruits 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      He managed his anger by walking away.....no problem

    • @knives5964
      @knives5964 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm confused why he's saying that.

    • @jkphilosophy101
      @jkphilosophy101 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Bad script

    • @Harry-tb8yo
      @Harry-tb8yo 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Maybe this lack of intelligence and awareness was something on her list.

  • @sndr.
    @sndr. 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Honestly best thing to do in this situation is to say absolutely nothing. Confirm she cheated on you, and after that, she simply doesn’t deserve to know what you’re thinking anymore. Don’t explain yourself, just say absolutely nothing and walk away from her and the relationship. Women are great overthinkers, when she doesn’t know what you’re thinking, she’ll project her own worst thoughts onto you. Let her bask in her own mental corruption.

  • @K.Calvillo
    @K.Calvillo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Now that's a way to leave a woman and her list of her perfect man walk away with dignity RESPECT

  • @travyp.2430
    @travyp.2430 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    Fellas, before you go and try to take back a cheater, remember:
    When it slipped out, she put it back in and kept going 😂💀

    • @Nikolatsthefirst
      @Nikolatsthefirst หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      That's wild but also probably true 😂

    • @chantalalexander
      @chantalalexander 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      😂. Not to mention she didn't tell him, he had to find out. Even more reason to ditch her

    • @gabrielmukasa1799
      @gabrielmukasa1799 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Wow that's wild 😂😂

    • @OReily08080
      @OReily08080 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      That's why I can't stand when people downplay it as "a mistake"

    • @misselle1430
      @misselle1430 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Y'all think they ALL slip tho?????😅😅😅😅

  • @dodger1214
    @dodger1214 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    She's lucky she didn't get Ghost.

    • @Jdabomb93
      @Jdabomb93 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      People need to stop doing that

    • @Marcelinooo.o
      @Marcelinooo.o 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Man for real, it would have been GAME OVER❌🤣!!

    • @Negus1k
      @Negus1k วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤣🤣

  • @AktarusGoldrake-zb8fs
    @AktarusGoldrake-zb8fs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The actress is very good, that look on her face when she realised she been made is soooo "'Classic"!!

  • @MusicLoverJenny
    @MusicLoverJenny 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really like that he said that love isn’t enough to stay. This is very true. I myself have loved but still chose to leave. Love isn’t always enough to be happy unfortunately there’s more to it and people blindly follow LOVE and end up in really terrible situations you need to be able to respect yourself also. Recognize red flags and recognize that despite the fact that you may love someone they are not good for you.

  • @teskii9430
    @teskii9430 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    Tanya got me laughing lmao

  • @Daniellorde
    @Daniellorde 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "Anger management problem"?? He handled this way better than 99% of people would've. Damn. That is a man with integrity. Respect.

    • @Daniellorde
      @Daniellorde 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For example, I handled it very poorly. I was so fucking hurt at that very moment that I couldn't handle the pain, the sudden black hole in my chest so I lashed out. I never ever had a bad word towards my ex, never even raised my voice at her. But in that moment I just broke into a million pieces. It was a great and painful lesson. I have grown since then.

  • @brainstew8922
    @brainstew8922 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    “He’s got anger management issues” is such a white knight line

    • @revparravager3184
      @revparravager3184 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      And doesnt seem concerned that HE is the "Other Man" and his fishing for a Soulmate response

    • @kandrs7445
      @kandrs7445 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@revparravager3184This is my issue. His first response was to simp.
      If a dude rolled up with all that and she confirmed it, I'd ask the dude if he wanted to split a cab because we both need to stop talking to her.

    • @wmassey683
      @wmassey683 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well, I mean he is ghost lol

    • @dorime3031
      @dorime3031 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      can't blame the dude, he is just trying to hit and run. He will feed her delusions

  • @WoodnetRonnie
    @WoodnetRonnie 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 4 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .

  • @ivervj2923
    @ivervj2923 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    "I was confused" I heard that one before 🤣

    • @socratessocratilis2846
      @socratessocratilis2846 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too😂😂..." i was confused, i didn't know what was real and was not" 😂

  • @Nitrozeus2005
    @Nitrozeus2005 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dude did the right thing in the most polite way......hats off 🙏

  • @shemuellegall4486
    @shemuellegall4486 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    "I'm sorry, I love you, I was confused, it was a mistake, it was only one time, I never do it again, try to understand..."
    Same excuses on repeat.

  • @WinterRosenberg-o1l
    @WinterRosenberg-o1l 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    👏 respect man! As a woman I say that you made the right choice. Sometimes love isn't enough to stay. 😘You can do better.

  • @jonbradley4044
    @jonbradley4044 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The gaslighting, blame deflection and total lack of accountability is so disturbingly accurate.
    This shit is triggering for most men who have dealt with this crap at least once.

  • @MegaMrJIN
    @MegaMrJIN หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    "F OFF!!" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @justinmartin1666
    @justinmartin1666 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    0:39 James Olsen from Supergirl

    • @itsyaboiherman
      @itsyaboiherman 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I knew it!!!!!

    • @B.A.B.G.
      @B.A.B.G. 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And "Punchy" from Adulterers.

    • @patrickkanas3874
      @patrickkanas3874 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I suddenly don't feel so bad about Sub Zero taking his arms off

    • @justinmartin1666
      @justinmartin1666 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ ???

  • @robertoautore9252
    @robertoautore9252 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The most important qualities in a relationship is loyalty and honesty.

  • @alfredthabiso
    @alfredthabiso 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    "You just said you love me- and that's supposed to make me what to be with you, that ain't enough"
    Bye Tanya
    That hit hard !

  • @DorisLLongll-db2gz
    @DorisLLongll-db2gz 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That was great the way he handled it! Walked with dignity!

  • @wlcsp
    @wlcsp 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    My man. A true gangsta.

    • @alanm03
      @alanm03 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Not really. He took the cheater back. More like a true simp.

    • @MichaelTheArchAngel444
      @MichaelTheArchAngel444 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@alanm03who hurt you man probably every woman out there lmao

  • @sashacarter8241
    @sashacarter8241 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It takes more than love to keep a relationship

  • @delisledoldren5383
    @delisledoldren5383 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    What did you expect from a Tyler Perry movie?
    Women ALWAYS win! Even when they're doing wrong!

    • @sibanesethusibanda6432
      @sibanesethusibanda6432 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's one of the biggest reasons why the A list black male actors refuse to tango with Perry... he's a snakeoil salesman & a douche!!

  • @JB-ll6mc
    @JB-ll6mc 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😊❤ Walk away with dignity yes! SIMPLE AS DAT!

  • @armeliodasdeamonking7743
    @armeliodasdeamonking7743 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Nah, her sister 😂 still has the best simple logic she basically said her sister is dumb. She looks dumb but not her sis. Don't look, but it is

  • @NatalieCWilliams
    @NatalieCWilliams 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He handled that so professionally 😃👏🏼❤️
    Tanya's hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @karengullickson7631
    @karengullickson7631 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Don’t go back to them. Move on love yourself first then you will find someone special to be in your life.

  • @rustyhowe3907
    @rustyhowe3907 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I went through this, gave me all the details about the rough patch he was going through, how he didn't mean it, why I was always more special than the other person, I got the sob story works, how he learned to be a better person after seeing the hurt I was in. Everything except an apology and of course it was my fault...somehow.
    "If you *truly* have learned anything, which I doubt, then save it for the next bit of fluff you fool around with. Goodbye, good luck and frankly good riddance" is what I gave him.

  • @johnjerrehian4642
    @johnjerrehian4642 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Loved the ending with what her sister said! However, once a cheater always a cheater, (as the saying goes).

  • @86lanzo
    @86lanzo หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Lesson number 1 fellows ..
    Love who love you..
    If she has a list and you don't fulfill it..she will keep looking until she finds someone who does...love the women who sees you as her dream guy.

  • @animating_sleeping
    @animating_sleeping 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    he did the right thing: he has haters at work , on streets , stressed out with work , friends and family who never help him and has to work even if he feels bad and the 1 person that's supposed help him get rid of his stress-filled day is now giving him more stress by seeing another man , that experience must be aweful

  • @arvindh13
    @arvindh13 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +98

    Why do you people make black people act like that?? why can't they just act like "Danica" & "frank", wtf is with Tanya 3:04??? it's annoying why these directors asking most of the black characters to act like that?? I'm not from your country, but I have watched a ton of shows and this one factor is annoying when it's repeated again and again.

    • @1duck34b
      @1duck34b 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I hate it

    • @JLEELEW
      @JLEELEW 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Directors don't write the script. The question is, why do black people take this role?

    • @JerryCarr-nj5dp
      @JerryCarr-nj5dp 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Unfortunately, stereotypes do exist for a reason. I've encountered them all, from inbred white trailer trash to a human-calculator Asian, and whatever you may find in-between. Characters like the sister aren't exactly rare.

    • @TheSemaJ
      @TheSemaJ 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      It's a romantic comedy relax it's not that deep

    • @jeffden1608
      @jeffden1608 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@JLEELEWare you dumb or stupid?

  • @LocWolf
    @LocWolf 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Went through this New Years Eve. I felt like the stupidest person on the planet at that moment. Every step I took walking away was agonizing. It still Hurt like hell all now. But I remember a quote that said” if it feels like your whole life is Burning Down, Remember you can only build a new life from the Ashes of the old one.

  • @HesTooOpinionated
    @HesTooOpinionated 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I went to the movies and saw this on the big screen and I always thought that this would have been the more realistic ending to the story. No way in hell I would ever take her back.

  • @aayushmanchaturvedi3706
    @aayushmanchaturvedi3706 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love is what starts a relationship
    Loyalty and trust are what maintains it
    You can still continue to be in a relationship without love
    But there's no relationship without Loyalty and Trust

  • @neo87011
    @neo87011 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    In this little video, you clearly know who the simp, for the streets and the sigma is . Be strong fellas

  • @Respec2.1
    @Respec2.1 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is the REAL MAN right here ladies and gentlemen!!!

  • @Francisco-mn7gt
    @Francisco-mn7gt หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    More or less what I wanted to say to the woman who dumped me for according to her: "Not looking for a relationship right now" which I translated for how she treated me after confessing my feelings like: "You're not good enough for me".
    Sadly I won't have the chance to say it to her cause she moved to another country and by text won't have the same effect.

    • @TheGrimmCommoner
      @TheGrimmCommoner หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Success is the best revenge and love for Jesus will give you success after death. So you actually have the ability to have success in this life and the next, and that woman won't even be on your radar even if she ended up in the same coffee shop in the distant future.

  • @user-vwTheCEO
    @user-vwTheCEO 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Forgive and move on..wish them luck to be together and move on

  • @bcause3353
    @bcause3353 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Casting Director:Quick we need somebody to play a ratchet girl.
    Tiffany Haddish's agent: Have I got the actress for you

  • @anthonyr7208
    @anthonyr7208 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Class act....walk away with your head held high....

  • @thobiem
    @thobiem หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Did she even ask the sister if they were cheating or did she just assume and decide to cheat too? Being willing to jump ship that quickly is a red flag for a level of impulsivity that cannot be dealt with. He shoulda just gone for Tanya. Tanya’s clearly a mess but at least, she’s also one of those people where “what you see is what you get”

  • @WellDamnGucci313
    @WellDamnGucci313 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Knowing this feeling is a heavy burden. It takes great strength to take the high roll. Believe me, it isn’t an easy road to travel.

  • @larrymanny-c5g
    @larrymanny-c5g 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other

    • @SophiaLeni
      @SophiaLeni 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not

    • @larrymanny-c5g
      @larrymanny-c5g 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I feel your pain, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.

    • @SophiaLeni
      @SophiaLeni 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

  • @vutran3758
    @vutran3758 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He handled that situation like a 👑

  • @miguellogistics984
    @miguellogistics984 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Sometimes things are broken.
    Sometimes people are broken.
    Neither ever can be fixed.

  • @bitze865
    @bitze865 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    he said loved...no love...past tense...she really put a stop to that.

  • @remak.g1034
    @remak.g1034 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Just walk AWAY no Drama
    No Nothing

  • @enahayes1
    @enahayes1 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice to see Ghost being vulnerable & showing emotion. . . I like that look 😏

  • @volsdeep9395
    @volsdeep9395 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Remember fellas, once a cheater always a cheater. What makes you thinks she’s gonna be any different with the next guy? He’s gonna get the same treatment you did.

  • @abolfazlpashapoor4744
    @abolfazlpashapoor4744 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    One thing someone doesn't want the other one begs for having it

  • @oluebubeike1496
    @oluebubeike1496 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    And brooo...
    This girl has some guts to say that "a dude is everything on my list and your you!!!in front of a man and then say i thoight you love me😂😂🤲"

  • @Livingghost358
    @Livingghost358 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love needs trust, respect, and communication. Love on its own dont float well. It makes for some bad times sadly.

  • @MarthaBush-j1e
    @MarthaBush-j1e 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +168

    *I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him🎉👏,* $230k every 4weeks! | now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.

    • @MarthaBush-j1e
      @MarthaBush-j1e 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!

    • @ElijahLucas-cc5fg
      @ElijahLucas-cc5fg 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?.. I have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @MarthaBush-j1e
      @MarthaBush-j1e 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's Ms. Evelyn Vera doing, she's changed my life.

    • @MarthaBush-j1e
      @MarthaBush-j1e 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I started pretty low, though, $5000 thereabouts. The return came massive. Joey is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Evelyn Vera, you're a miracle.

    • @Karaventer-r3n
      @Karaventer-r3n 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in
      US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.

  • @jokerbatman3516
    @jokerbatman3516 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Always say nothing or less. It hurts them more when you show them you don't "care." In reality you do, but your peace is worth more

  • @EzraLaRon
    @EzraLaRon 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Buddy talking about anger problems he was bout to meet Ghost

    • @Marcelinooo.o
      @Marcelinooo.o 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m telling you🤣‼️

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Same goes for abandonment. Even if she leaves without any adultery, never ever look back

  • @th-mo8fq
    @th-mo8fq หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i went through and did this same thing. she texted me after xmas looking for validation. left on read

  • @ojblaq
    @ojblaq 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like the way he handled the whole issue

  • @neo87011
    @neo87011 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    In this short clip, you clearly know who the simp, for the streets and sigma is. Be strong fellas

  • @reconsoldier135
    @reconsoldier135 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Walking away isn't the best way to deal with cheaters, it's the ONLY way. Once someone cheats it's over no matter how much you think you love them

  • @AustinSaysSo
    @AustinSaysSo 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Single life has been way more happier than any relationship I've been in.
    Before I get the tired old you haven't found the right 1. This isn't applicable to everyone I've been with 3 amazing women in the past but I always get bored of the same rigmarole everyday.

  • @blueshores9968
    @blueshores9968 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the sister! She is so goofy!

  • @waquarqureshi4018
    @waquarqureshi4018 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The sister 😂😂😂 cool though

  • @petruskink8971
    @petruskink8971 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She is gonna regret it on the long turn for cheating

  • @virgovixen22
    @virgovixen22 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Ooohh how I love this movie❤❤

  • @jamescaffey8
    @jamescaffey8 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Always Love yourself more...One!!!

  • @adhs.store.
    @adhs.store. 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    We're not talking murder here, but the guy has every reason and right to behave as he does. He knows his value, she doesn't - so somebody has a chance to learn.

  • @Dontevenknowfam
    @Dontevenknowfam 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Frank displayed great self control here. That block could’ve turned into the OK Corral real quick. 👍🏿👍🏿

  • @samcalderas870
    @samcalderas870 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    Except they got back together. So this means nothing.

    • @thewiserobserver
      @thewiserobserver หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Dammit!

    • @BreakupBounce
      @BreakupBounce  หลายเดือนก่อน +95

      The ending in this clip is the ending that movie deserved.

    • @johnsonwithat2322
      @johnsonwithat2322 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Damn they did? Terrible and unrealistic writing.

    • @joshie6213
      @joshie6213 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Devalues all this, it’s pathetic. The trust is gone, move on. Anything less and you’re a cuck

    • @abdelsalim8205
      @abdelsalim8205 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Exactly. She went back for him only because her dream dude was a speedster😂😂😂