I thought the same. She’s gonna have so many issues as she gets older. I’m sad she isn’t able to have a normal childhood. Like jeez put your kids in dance or some sort of personal growth activity. Not this😭
That was so sad. The parents act so supportive for the cameras, but it's easy to see how they really are through the children. Take my girls for instance, 20 and 22 years old. I was always VERY supportive of them, and they are, to this day, the opposite of that little girl- NOTHING is their fault! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@NatalieHarrisonLim i know. I think she's gonna grew up with a lot of insecurities because all this peagent stuff. She probably was thinking what she do wrong :c
Judge: "her fabric was cheap, maybe for this particular pageant could've invested in something more expensive" The backdrop is literally cardboard cutouts and a black curtain what do you expect
I've never been able to look at beauty pageants for little girls ever since Jon benet died. I was only a year or so older than her when it happened. And I feel like IF it wasn't her family that killed her...then it was a psycho pedophile that killed her. It's just too much. I'm from the south and never got into beauty pageants...and not even many of my friends did it when we were kids. We were all into cheerleading, dance and gymnastics. Not pageants. I dont really get the point of them. Do you win a lot of money or something? Bc all the time effort and MONEY its costs...plus making those little girls practice and compete all the time. Smh. I just dont really understand the appeal.
@@holliss5 The mothers are using their daughters to fulfill their dreams...look at the mothers, then look at the judge...stark contrast between the mothers and judges regarding looks and staying in shape. The mothers are setting their daughters up for failure. When the daughters become women, they'll be broken. They'll believe they can get through life on their looks. I'm just saying...
Wow that’s super harsh my sister asked to be in pageants and really liked them she was never pressured into anything and my parents made sure she knew that pageants don’t define who she is as a person it’s just like a sport if that’s what they want to do let them dang are you ok
It's not right to talk trash on any of those girls. But I can see why there agitated I think Lily got cheated out of it all because the dress wasn't a Grand 😒 it's still pretty but besides that Lily looked beautiful, confident, showed some personality. The other girl just stood there confused. Both contestants were beautiful but it should have been based off of other things. It's the same as if they were at a dance competition. Who should win the one who present the dance and didn't mess up or the one that stands there?
I agree with you, but I also understand that they are in a very competitive situation, toxic as it may be. Of course that doesn’t justify their immature behaviour.
Exploitation at its finest. 4 year olds are not meant to be adults. They should be out playing and doing 4 year old stuff. Heads would roll if my grandchildren were used this way. CHILDHOOD is a very short time. ADULTHOOD IS FOREVER.
jay bomb Agreed. It’s sickening that they are sexualizing these little girls. Why would anyone put makeup and adult clothing on a child? Let them run and play like normal, healthy children. These mothers are delusional.
I feel like these pageants are wrong not only because of the kids missing out on childhood, but also the possibility of these pageants being watched by predatory men who are disgusting and this stuff fuels them into wanting to do worse stuff once their teens. I dislike these mothers for not realizing just how real that danger can be, that those girls could get followed until they are teens and violated. Might just be my paranoid mind though. But these mothers, oh my goodness chill they are little girls they need to be outside building sand castles and eating bugs and playing with dolls like dont make them grow up to 14 when their 4! Childhood is so limited and so precious... it should be protected and cherished and the kids in childhood should be valued by being given that amazing opportunity to just be a kid.
@@lessehead If you look at a child or a group of children and the terms "sexual" or "sexualized" come to mind, that's on you. Children certainly do not trigger sexual innuendo in my mind. But I can only speak for myself. What many people fail to realize is that a number of these kids are discovered by talent agencies and go on to have successful careers with companies like Disney and Nickelodeon. Many of these kids with musical talent are discovered and signed by major recording labels. Stars like Rihanna, Selena Gomez, Justin Timberlake, Britney Spears, Demi Lovato, and countless others got their start in beauty pageants. Please don't get me wrong here. I'm not glorifying all child beauty pageants. Some pageant systems are not legitimate. The directors care only about money and do not promote child talent. In fact, in 2020, there are far fewer legitimate national pageant systems than there were 15 to 20 years ago. Good pageant systems build self-confidence, improve self-esteem, values and morals for the kids who compete. Top contenders also earn a comfortable six figures a year in cash and prizes. I am referring to those contestants who compete in multiple pageant systems year round. I judge pageants on the national circuit, and only for accredited and legitimate systems. I should also note that I rarely judge for these Glitz pageant systems. Rather, I tend to stick to all natural systems, where hair pieces, flippers, heavy makeup and fake hair pieces are not permitted. We encourage a "soft" look, with minimal makeup and simple, soft hairstyles. I can certainly agree that it's the unaccredited, illegitimate pageant systems that create a negative stigma for all pageants.
@@m.shanebritton7830 YOU ARE MENTAL! They are kids. The development of the ego needs to be controlled very carefully. The idea psychologically of someone older than you observing you causes major developmental problems. You base your existence on what people perceive on your exterior. It is not healthy.
The judge didn’t like her because her dress was cheap wtf (but tbh it the dress she was wearing was kind of tacky but she’s a little girl the judge was rude lol)
I’m gonna havta agree that this one WAS rigged. That one was flawless execution and incredible personality. The other one messed up and it looked forced.
I thin they have other sections that they compete in too. Also some of the supreme titles are like "best photo" (usually touched up). I think the other little girl in blue looked like she was having fun and being herself, which I think works in your favour at that age.
She just wanted the toy at four years old she isn't thinking that deeply into it... But I do agree this is going to cause some long term emotional issues
I remember when I was very young, seeing a girl on stage in one of these pageants. She was carrying a golden trident so I guess she had won. Outside were two other girls crying because they didn't register on time. I told them these pageants were a load of bs and not to worry about it.
Why is the mom putting her through this? What if she doesnt turn into a beautiful adult? (Not all cute kids do). Shes going to think shes worthless or get a ton of plastic surgery.
Takes a real piece of work to judge a toddler on how “beautiful” they are, and on the price of a dress. Just gross. Chloe Brown, you should be embarrassed. Smh
Except she never will be, because for her, in order to win that part of the 'pageant', means out-spending the other mums, just to achieve 'that look', which equates to thousands being spent, for their child/ren to 'out-glamour' the other kids there ... In fact, I can go as far as saying that many of those mothers are living vicariously through their children, and if their child doesn't win the 'Ultimate Grand Supreme' title, they then take it as a direct, and personal, insult ...
I can not believe that Lilly did not win. She did great and remembered all her steps and looked like she really enjoyed herself. The other girl forgot every move and she wins? That judge making that comment about Lilly's dress being "cheap" was uncalled for. Wrong decision and that judge should have been dismissed.
@@hope2338 Lol my sis plays roblox at 3 but she doesn't know how to type or work the controls She just loves the piggy games even tho she's 1st to die..
right and for her to sit there and cry and say that her daughter just wanted the car, how about you not exploit & take your child through this mental and emotional fucking abuse and just buy the damn toy car from Walmart... It's like $250😒🙄
*”As long as we beat them, I’m good with it.”* That mom is so ridiculous. She has such a competitive attitude towards the other 3-year-old girls which is pathetic. Her priority is to make sure her daughter is always #1 instead of making sure she has fun. These mothers take it way too far and they’re out of touch with reality.
Lily was probably the best child I’ve seen on these video. She looked like she was having fun and was very entertaining to watch. Idk what the judge was saying about a “cheap dress”
It's editing. Do you also believe it took the announcer 15 seconds to announce the winner so the cameras could get shots of people looking bored? No one knows what the audience was laughing at, for all we know that footage was taken before anyone crossed the stage.
Just terrible judging little girls looks, figure, dress and movement. It’s going to be hard enough when she gets older constantly having people judge her as society does.
1:12 I’m sorry? Are you seriously trash talking a four year old because of how expensive her hair and outfit looked? Miss, you look like you just stood in front of a fan for an hour.
This “judge” complains about a “cheap” dress she didn’t pay for with her hard working money. Mind you the girl after her, (blue dress sorry I forgot the name), addressed her mother WHILE on stage, but yet that same judge goes and says “lots of potential” and stuff like that. Don’t get me wrong these children are all fabulous but that little loosing over a “cheap” looking dress is just ridiculous, in my opinion all the dresses looked like it came from the same designer due to how flashy they all are, hard to explain.
I used to do pageants when I was young, but only natural pageants that focused more on personality and talent rather than what you wear. There are good pageants out there that really help build little girls self esteem, unfortunately most glitz pageants don’t.
tuffsmurfen96 I believe glitz pageants shouldn’t be a thing for children. Natural ones actually help build up confidence and it’s more fun to participate in as a child and it’s not a lot of fake makeup and hair like glitz
As far as I'm concerned this is child abuse. If you want a contest for little ones don't dress them up like 25 year olds, let them be themselves as kids!
Truth is if the kids dressed as disney princesses or fairy anything childlike it would be sweet but minus the makeup.i still dont like idea of saying one child is better or prettier than another tho
The most competitive thing a kid should ever witness is freesbi, snail racing, kick ball, maybe checkers, and some fishing. Sports, kids love sports and it's a low competitive level.
“Her ambition is to be a big star one day” If that poor girl doesn’t turn out to be pretty or famous one day she’s going to be depressed. Her mom is teaching her to base her self-worth on the admiration of others
The parents crying is CRAZYYY!! "She wanted the car" these parents pay so much for these pageants why not get her the little 100 dollar car yourself instead of making them feel bad .
I don't think the Judges should judge the girls based on how expensive their dresses are. Pageant Titles shouldn't be won based on how much money you have to spend on a dress for a toddler that will probably grow-out the clothes in a few months.
Little kids go through clothes so fast and they grow like weeds. You can't drop money on expensive clothing that'll they maybe wear at max 10 times. I wonder how much debt these parents are in, and I wish they would put how much the parents spent and how prize money they won, if any. Surely this has to be a expensive hobby/lifestyle. I feel sorry for these kids.
See the problem with this is. This precious little girl had a melt down when she did not win because her mom has put so much pressure on her to win. When she did not win, just notice the mom's reaction, she is defeated, angry and pissed. This is projected onto the little girl who now thinks it's her fault and she is the reason for her mom's unhappiness. You see the mom says that it is 'her' dream but it's infact, the mom's dream which she has groomed her daughter into. This is just very stressful for the child and a recipe for emotional and self esteem issues later on. Pageants involving anyone below 18 should be banned
There are a lot of pageants that involve community service, talent, etc. You have to consent to do them though. Glitz is a whole different world, and they have no problem with using babies (those should be banned.) It's getting better, but not enough.
I saw this episode. She should’ve won. The little girl who beat her was a hot mess. She was better. The girl in the blue dress shouldn’t have gotten a title at all. She messed up all her routines.
@netsirenful 👏 I completely agree. That Pink Panther routine was adorable and Lilly did an amazing job even when the wrong music was used during her jungle wear performance.
no offence but it wasn't the girl's fault that she forgotten the moves, she has anxiety issues and the parents agreed points to be let off for stage guiding
Wow. You guys are really getting mad at a child for messing up. She’s a child. Children make mistakes. She recovered from it pretty well. You people are why the other little girl is crying. Her crying and saying “It’s my fault” is an example of the negative mindset she has weighing her down. This mindset is caused by you people. So many people watching her, getting mad that she didn’t win. She knows that her winning makes her mom happy. That’s why she cried.These pageants for literal toddlers are a bad thing to make them do. It causes them to grow up with this same mindset. “I need to win or my mom will cry” These pageants are clearly not for fun. They are for the parent’s own enjoyment. It is not a good thing for a kid to grow up doing. The parents are bad people for doing this to their children.
If the mom has all that money to by fabric, make up, fake tans, flippers, and travel fees, there is no reason why the mom can't just buy her daughter the toy car without a pageant 😂
Yea, she could have bought the little girl the car, tied a big pink bow on it and had a pretty, big rhinestone crown ready to put on her head. Voila, Princess for a Day!
They can but she wants to compete for it she wants to earn it.I think the problem is she doesn’t just want her mom to buy it for her.She wants to fight for it
@@Mpompadour Especially on her birthday ... I'm not sure who said this, but I seem to recall an old adage that goes something like "It's better to spend a few dimes, and make your kid feel loved for life, than it is to spend thousands, yet make them feel utterly alienated ..."
This isn't about the children having fun. It's about the moms being able to say "My kid is better than yours!" and living vicariously through their kids
It's also a competition between the mums about who's child is the prettiest which is disgusting, these pageant things are toxic. I feel so bad for the children.
Have you seen the special needs kid that went on here? They actually liked and wanted to do it ! Her mom was amazing and played by the rules but another person yelled at her because she was getting special treatment when she really wasnt
@@howdoinamemychannel6767 oh that breaks my heart. i don't like children being put in pageants, even if they want to do it, but that mother cared more about her daughter winning than another child just having fun? jesus
"it's all my fault" that broke my heart. These people shouldn't be parents. And the other moms are CHEERING and belittling another toddler. God, this is just so sick
this makes me so angry bc the parents are teaching their kids that you have to win, but actually you don’t have to win you just need to have fun and know that you might not win all the time.
First girl: Shows tone of personality, smiles, waves, does routine perfectly. Judge: I don't like her because her dress is cheap. Second girl: *Literally forgets the routine and says what on stage* Judge: ANGEL! Me: Wtf.
That judge didnt like her dress because the fabric looked really cheap and suggested they couldve invested something more expensive for THAT pageant. I mean, look at the stage decorations, nothing but awful crap.
Alicia Australian1833 i agree. What a disgusting message this sends to young girls, dressing them up like hookers. No educated mother would subject her daughter to such nonsense. They should be ashamed of themselves.
Her outfit looked cheap? R u kidding me? Not everyone can afford $1,000 dress. It’s about kids having fun not having a ton of $ . I’d never put my kid in a pageant.
I can never understand why....invest all this money to win a ride on car when you can jist buy the car and save yourself a hell of a lot of money. And too boot these poor babies are way to young to deal with this bs
When you tell one child that they are the best, you’re telling all the others that they are not. What a way to start life, people who think it is their job to dismiss you for what their own ego. Make no mistake about it, those children hear and absorb all the comments made about them at these shows. Most are not nice or confidence building.
I lost a big painting competition when i was in elementary school. I still remember vividly how my mom looked disappointed. That memory last to this day. Can't imagine if i were these girls :(
They need to do a follow-up show where the girls get to go to a summer camp and play with barbies, ride horses, care for dogs and have counselors there to help these girls without these awful adults around.
This whole kiddy pageant thing is wrong on so many levels. These little girls should be playing with their dolls or riding their bicycles or climbing trees - not prancing around on stage with full make up and hair.
I cannot believe the judge said "The fabric was cheap" Lilly looked beautiful and worked so hard. While the other girl got supreme and messed up didn't know where to go and the judged LIKED their dress? So I guess it's all about the dresses now. Don't get me wrong I'm so proud of them but that judge had it all wrong.
Children's pageants where minors of any age ranging from 1 to 18 prance around stage and get judged is almost child abuse. Forcing children who cant make decisions for themselves to get up on stage with a hideous dress and fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake teeth and prance around for a few low lives to judge them and criticise them based on their appearances just so their parents can live vicariously through them is just wrong on so many levels. They have to spend all their spare time around bitchy adults who pressure them to the moon and back to look perfect and learning how to walk on a stage looking fake as hell. The pressure of it, the judging and the need to look like other peoples ideas of perfect is what will give all those children not only self esteem issues and body image issues but also a life they lead with the bitchy, petty and self centred attitudes that everyone they grew up around forced on them. That child didn't care that she wasn't the prettiest because she didn't even understand exactly what she was getting judged on. She just understood she had to get up and look good to make her mother happy She cared that she didn't get the toy car and she cried because her mother and grandmother were crying at the fact that she lost the competition to see whos child is the prettiest
I hate child beauty pageants. Just look at the audience, nothing but the parents and family. Such a waste of money 💰 in my estimation. Just my opinion. It truly looks like mothers living their lives through their children. Sad, silly, and isn’t teaching children the real lessons of life. Let children be children.
I mean it would probably be a bit worse if a lot of people who weren't their parents and family were in the audience, same as a ballet club performance. But I think everyone who watches this show we all agree this is the weirdest hobby to give your daughter and gives them the worst message of what they're valued for as little girls and later as women.
Only parents are allowed to things like this thats why you dont see other people...but yeah its so weird and these moms and judges take things way to far and turn something that maybe could just be fun for these girl into a nightmare
The fact that the mom was so supportive of her daughter and was telling her she was beautiful and amazing no matter what is the best gift anyone can have!
How dare that judge penalize that poor little girl that clearly worked so hard and put her heart and soul into her routine, over her dress material being, “Cheap”. Seriously BROKE MY HEART. First off, I’d bet my life that her parents have already invested every last dime of their money into all of this.Second of all, they shouldn’t have been able to deduct points over the material of the dress. If she didn’t like it, comment that on her form but don’t let that deduct from her overall score.
This is all about the parents trying to fill some void in their own lives. This cant be healthy for the little girls being judged on their appearance at such a young age. Shame on the parents for putting them through this. Not good.
If I had a daughter she wouldn't need a beauty pageant for me to let her know she is beautiful. These mothers need to raise their daughters to feel loved, feel worthy, to be self-confident and not to be judged and objectified by others.
I know!! Grown women belittling a 4 year old. That is totally messed up!! These mothers need to teach their daughters that having fun is more important than winning a stupid toy car. Just buy her the damn car ffs 🤦🏼♀️
Apparently the Mom's are living their lives vicariously through their daughters - and that is a horrific truth. This is a form of child abuse. The Mom's need to act their age and allow the 4yr old daughters to do the sam2e.
That is just sick. These are kids dressed as adults and having breakdowns because theis mothers are trying to live through theis lives. It makes me ill.
No one is asking you too. You do realise the kids want to do it though. So if your child WANTS to do it then you're just going to say no because of your feelings of pageants. Great parenting hahaha
@@shanniileah if your kid wanted to shoot p*rn,youd say yes just cuz he wants to? Thats fxked up. Kids that age dont understand much.thats why theyve parents to lead the way
Are these adults for real they're crying that she didn't win, how about teaching your child that they went out there and did their best and there can only be one big winner.
My mother always told me, when you cry over nothing God will give you something to really cry about. These little girls are going to grow up with some major issues and they can thank their mother’s and grandmothers for that.
she’s proud of her itty bitty child for training her to walk across a stage and flaunt her stuff. that’s not something to be proud of. she should be teaching her daughter how to love herself for her natural beauty and not caring about superficial things like pageants and artificial beauty.
"It's all my fault" that actually breaks my heart. All the pressure on this poor girls. This is what the mothers want, not this little girls.
I thought the same. She’s gonna have so many issues as she gets older. I’m sad she isn’t able to have a normal childhood. Like jeez put your kids in dance or some sort of personal growth activity. Not this😭
That was so sad. The parents act so supportive for the cameras, but it's easy to see how they really are through the children.
Take my girls for instance, 20 and 22 years old. I was always VERY supportive of them, and they are, to this day, the opposite of that little girl- NOTHING is their fault! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That’s what I said earlier
@@NatalieHarrisonLim i know. I think she's gonna grew up with a lot of insecurities because all this peagent stuff. She probably was thinking what she do wrong :c
Child abuse
Judge: "her fabric was cheap, maybe for this particular pageant could've invested in something more expensive"
The backdrop is literally cardboard cutouts and a black curtain
what do you expect
And I found out its at least $250 to enter !
And the venue literally looks like something you’d host a family gathering at lmao
yeah really strange. it's a beauty competition right, not a who-spends-most-money-on-a-dress competition
Her dress didn’t look cheap at all
All of the dresses looked cheap.
The fabric was a little cheap? Are you freaking kidding me!? These pageants are so damn expensive.
Yes. How ridiculous!
Maybe it IS rigged if that's all she could come up with... Who knows?
An excuse.
I'm sure there is FAVORITISM - for whatever reason
The judge complains about the dress fabric but she can't afford a hairbrush apparently
Cost of the pageant has nothing to do with the cost of the dress. If the dress appeared cheap on stage, it appeared cheap.
“The fabric was a little cheap”
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THIS IS GOLD
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living dead final girl I hate the judge
That was beautiful 🤣
To be honest, she’s the only I have seen so far execute her performance perfectly and her outfit is beautiful. And I feel like this is so rigged
I totally agree!!!
All children competitions are rigged
Whst a sick stupid show with all those big fat mamas and over made up baby girls! Good grief
Her outfit was cheap for that level and her talent wasn’t as good watch the whole episode.
I feel like the judges are the worst type of people
The judges and the parents for sure
Judges desirve to get fired
Cheap fabric......wtf
She pissed me right off. I didnt know these were straight up wealth competitions
ik like you’re really judging 4 year olds on how they look...... like wtf
The judge sounded like such a jerk saying dress wasn’t expensive enough when her hair looked like she just went on a roller coaster twice
coco.so.curly twice? My hair looked better when i went on a roller coaster 6 times owo
coco.so.curly she’s soo cheap by her looks still she judges that dress is cheap like wtf
How about the man anouning the girls. I hope this is just a side gig for him.
That dress was probably 500 dollars or more too like money doesnt matter in a pageant, what if you are poor but you have amazing talent? Thats unfair.
TWICEcoaster
She looks kinda scary with all that make up on. She is a CHILD
No seriously, let her be a child & play with some chalk & her friends outside...
I've never been able to look at beauty pageants for little girls ever since Jon benet died. I was only a year or so older than her when it happened. And I feel like IF it wasn't her family that killed her...then it was a psycho pedophile that killed her. It's just too much. I'm from the south and never got into beauty pageants...and not even many of my friends did it when we were kids. We were all into cheerleading, dance and gymnastics. Not pageants. I dont really get the point of them. Do you win a lot of money or something? Bc all the time effort and MONEY its costs...plus making those little girls practice and compete all the time. Smh. I just dont really understand the appeal.
Yeah I don’t get why they can’t compete with just their outfits and maybe lipgloss.. :/
Right this always creeps me out when I see these little kids wearing tons of makeup and fake hair. Just let them be kids
Steve Rogers right!
Why are grown women laughing and whispering at a 4year old, how immature
I agree!
When you consider the WHOLE thing wrong it's just useless to pick and choose some things.
@@almadavis8274 yeah its all bad but this is a new level
This is reality TV, they edited the video to make it appear as though the women were laughing and whispering about the little girl.
@@elizabethtrainer9732 yeah it might be true too...
Children are not hobbies. These parents are embarrassing and pathetic.
I agree the mothers suck
@@holliss5 The mothers are using their daughters to fulfill their dreams...look at the mothers, then look at the judge...stark contrast between the mothers and judges regarding looks and staying in shape. The mothers are setting their daughters up for failure. When the daughters become women, they'll be broken. They'll believe they can get through life on their looks. I'm just saying...
Wow that’s super harsh my sister asked to be in pageants and really liked them she was never pressured into anything and my parents made sure she knew that pageants don’t define who she is as a person it’s just like a sport if that’s what they want to do let them dang are you ok
@@chloejones1555 how old was she?
It’s nothing like a sport……..😂
i’m sorry.. but adults trash talking a four year old?! seriously?!
It's not right to talk trash on any of those girls. But I can see why there agitated I think Lily got cheated out of it all because the dress wasn't a Grand 😒 it's still pretty but besides that Lily looked beautiful, confident, showed some personality. The other girl just stood there confused. Both contestants were beautiful but it should have been based off of other things. It's the same as if they were at a dance competition. Who should win the one who present the dance and didn't mess up or the one that stands there?
Yeah they take it all way too serious
It’s pretty upsetting but I get it.
It’s a contest based on beauty so their outfit does have a big influence 😩
I agree with you, but I also understand that they are in a very competitive situation, toxic as it may be. Of course that doesn’t justify their immature behaviour.
Karens
Exploitation at its finest. 4 year olds are not meant to be adults. They should be out playing and doing 4 year old stuff. Heads would roll if my grandchildren were used this way. CHILDHOOD is a very short time. ADULTHOOD IS FOREVER.
Nah
jay bomb Agreed. It’s sickening that they are sexualizing these little girls. Why would anyone put makeup and adult clothing on a child? Let them run and play like normal, healthy children. These mothers are delusional.
I feel like these pageants are wrong not only because of the kids missing out on childhood, but also the possibility of these pageants being watched by predatory men who are disgusting and this stuff fuels them into wanting to do worse stuff once their teens.
I dislike these mothers for not realizing just how real that danger can be, that those girls could get followed until they are teens and violated. Might just be my paranoid mind though.
But these mothers, oh my goodness chill they are little girls they need to be outside building sand castles and eating bugs and playing with dolls like dont make them grow up to 14 when their 4! Childhood is so limited and so precious... it should be protected and cherished and the kids in childhood should be valued by being given that amazing opportunity to just be a kid.
@@lessehead If you look at a child or a group of children and the terms "sexual" or "sexualized" come to mind, that's on you. Children certainly do not trigger sexual innuendo in my mind. But I can only speak for myself. What many people fail to realize is that a number of these kids are discovered by talent agencies and go on to have successful careers with companies like Disney and Nickelodeon. Many of these kids with musical talent are discovered and signed by major recording labels. Stars like Rihanna, Selena Gomez, Justin Timberlake, Britney Spears, Demi Lovato, and countless others got their start in beauty pageants. Please don't get me wrong here. I'm not glorifying all child beauty pageants. Some pageant systems are not legitimate. The directors care only about money and do not promote child talent. In fact, in 2020, there are far fewer legitimate national pageant systems than there were 15 to 20 years ago. Good pageant systems build self-confidence, improve self-esteem, values and morals for the kids who compete. Top contenders also earn a comfortable six figures a year in cash and prizes. I am referring to those contestants who compete in multiple pageant systems year round. I judge pageants on the national circuit, and only for accredited and legitimate systems. I should also note that I rarely judge for these Glitz pageant systems. Rather, I tend to stick to all natural systems, where hair pieces, flippers, heavy makeup and fake hair pieces are not permitted. We encourage a "soft" look, with minimal makeup and simple, soft hairstyles. I can certainly agree that it's the unaccredited, illegitimate pageant systems that create a negative stigma for all pageants.
@@m.shanebritton7830 YOU ARE MENTAL! They are kids. The development of the ego needs to be controlled very carefully. The idea psychologically of someone older than you observing you causes major developmental problems. You base your existence on what people perceive on your exterior. It is not healthy.
The judge didn’t like her because her dress was cheap wtf (but tbh it the dress she was wearing was kind of tacky but she’s a little girl the judge was rude lol)
Right?
Like that might have been all they could’ve afforded
And then she thought callyn did great because of her dress
That judge made my skin crawl...
Money dont grow from trees
The judge is bias to expensive stuff
And I hate it
Cheap things can look better than expensive things k
"She could have invested in something a little more expensive" sis you could have invested more time in doing your hair and blending your eyeshadow 🙈
“She wants to be somebody. She is somebody. She’s gonna be somebody.”
Yes, but for now just let her be a kid.
This is the most honest and sincere comment I’ve read so far. Very well said. Kudos to you!
A four year old child should never ever say the words “ that was my fault.” This is an example of how wrong this gets!
Unless they are confessing to drawing on the walls or something
I’m gonna havta agree that this one WAS rigged. That one was flawless execution and incredible personality. The other one messed up and it looked forced.
I don’t care for these pageant things.. but I totally agree.
yeah IMO it's because that jerk judge thought Lily's dress should be more expensive. Crazy
the one lady’s mom owns the pageant 🙄
I thin they have other sections that they compete in too. Also some of the supreme titles are like "best photo" (usually touched up). I think the other little girl in blue looked like she was having fun and being herself, which I think works in your favour at that age.
@@MsJubjubbird yeah I agree
“It’s all my fault” -a four year old in tears because she thinks she’s not beautiful enough. That’s heartbreaking.
She just wanted the toy at four years old she isn't thinking that deeply into it... But I do agree this is going to cause some long term emotional issues
It's not heartbreaking it's angering to see someone crying because they were never taught how to loose
I remember when I was very young, seeing a girl on stage in one of these pageants. She was carrying a golden trident so I guess she had won. Outside were two other girls crying because they didn't register on time. I told them these pageants were a load of bs and not to worry about it.
Why is the mom putting her through this? What if she doesnt turn into a beautiful adult? (Not all cute kids do). Shes going to think shes worthless or get a ton of plastic surgery.
This is a 4 year old for heaven sakes.
Takes a real piece of work to judge a toddler on how “beautiful” they are, and on the price of a dress. Just gross.
Chloe Brown, you should be embarrassed. Smh
Except she never will be, because for her, in order to win that part of the 'pageant', means out-spending the other mums, just to achieve 'that look', which equates to thousands being spent, for their child/ren to 'out-glamour' the other kids there ...
In fact, I can go as far as saying that many of those mothers are living vicariously through their children, and if their child doesn't win the 'Ultimate Grand Supreme' title, they then take it as a direct, and personal, insult ...
@@nigelft case in point. Disgusting.
I can not believe that Lilly did not win. She did great and remembered all her steps and looked like she really enjoyed herself. The other girl forgot every move and she wins? That judge making that comment about Lilly's dress being "cheap" was uncalled for. Wrong decision and that judge should have been dismissed.
"She works hard. She's the full package."
Lady, she's 3 years old.
It’s so ridiculous
@Artika uh, 3 year olds shouldn't be on roblox. or have the motor skills to play roblox, how tf does she know how to type also
bethany I was wondering about that too, I mean I played animal jam when I was like 8 maybe? But my typing was shit
@@hope2338
Lol my sis plays roblox at 3 but she doesn't know how to type or work the controls She just loves the piggy games even tho she's 1st to die..
ur probaly one of those ppl who hates kids that are prettier than u
"She wants to be somebody." No, shes 4, and wanted that toy car.
Basically
right and for her to sit there and cry and say that her daughter just wanted the car, how about you not exploit & take your child through this mental and emotional fucking abuse and just buy the damn toy car from Walmart... It's like $250😒🙄
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@@currensy_caribbean2 omg yesss i can't brleive that parents are putting their children trough this like whattt
Luckii Lady ikr! Just go the kid a dang car, spending 1000+ bucks on a pageant when u could run to the store and get it for like a hundred bucks
“Her favorite food is chicken nuggets and sauce. Lots of sauce.”😂🧡😂
lol😂😂
#saucelover 😂
I think they mean Sascuan Sauce
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@@FemboyCommie now it's on 132!
*”As long as we beat them, I’m good with it.”* That mom is so ridiculous. She has such a competitive attitude towards the other 3-year-old girls which is pathetic. Her priority is to make sure her daughter is always #1 instead of making sure she has fun. These mothers take it way too far and they’re out of touch with reality.
That was actually a pageant coach which I think makes it worse because shes teaching and influencing these literal toddlers
Honestly there so stupid
Lily was probably the best child I’ve seen on these video. She looked like she was having fun and was very entertaining to watch. Idk what the judge was saying about a “cheap dress”
The adults snickering to themselves in the crowd when the toddler is on stage have very punchable faces
It's editing. Do you also believe it took the announcer 15 seconds to announce the winner so the cameras could get shots of people looking bored? No one knows what the audience was laughing at, for all we know that footage was taken before anyone crossed the stage.
argo12 doesn’t change the fact they have punchable faces
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Just terrible judging little girls looks, figure, dress and movement.
It’s going to be hard enough when she gets older constantly having people judge her as society does.
Exactly I was in pageants since I was 1 it. Lasted for 15 years and I'm still insecure from the judges
@@cheynogo87 omg How's your self confidence 😭
Wrong very wrong. Then the mother will complain when she's older and off the rails. They just aren't fit to be mothers in my opinion.
I believe that also.
True 👍
Agreed. Some ppl don't deserve babies... they forget they are raising ppl who will need to function in society as a human being.
They need to buy a dog and do dog shows
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I’m sorry? Are you seriously trash talking a four year old because of how expensive her hair and outfit looked? Miss, you look like you just stood in front of a fan for an hour.
Why would any mother wanna dress her little girl up like she’s an adult and put pressure on her to compete at such a young age
It’s called ‘living vicariously through your child’ and it’s incredibly sad and toxic.
This “judge” complains about a “cheap” dress she didn’t pay for with her hard working money. Mind you the girl after her, (blue dress sorry I forgot the name), addressed her mother WHILE on stage, but yet that same judge goes and says “lots of potential” and stuff like that. Don’t get me wrong these children are all fabulous but that little loosing over a “cheap” looking dress is just ridiculous, in my opinion all the dresses looked like it came from the same designer due to how flashy they all are, hard to explain.
these parents are terrible
The little girl who broke down had every right to, she kicked ass and didn't get any onstage coaching.
Straight up! And the kid that won should not have! I agree this was a rigged contest!
Period
PERIODT
And that’s on periodt!
no callie was cute+she had way more expression lilly looked like she was fakeing being happy
Well 4 year olds tend to cry, its not like shes like 12+ this isnt healthy
I cried HELLA when I was 12, I’m not sure there’s a right age for pageants at all!
IceBetweenEyeliner I personally think pageants should be for ppl that want to do that and not be forced into
Pageants should be for adults, 18+ only, kids don’t belong in this world.
I used to do pageants when I was young, but only natural pageants that focused more on personality and talent rather than what you wear. There are good pageants out there that really help build little girls self esteem, unfortunately most glitz pageants don’t.
tuffsmurfen96 I believe glitz pageants shouldn’t be a thing for children. Natural ones actually help build up confidence and it’s more fun to participate in as a child and it’s not a lot of fake makeup and hair like glitz
I loved Lily’s dress and she was adorable and spot on on stage.
mom 'Its hard to see her crying for that car"
me 'buy it instead of a pageant dress then!!"
judge: “she had bad fabric and it was cheap” me: they have to be rich too alright
Yikes she lost because of her dress? That's MESSED up.
The other girl did half of her choreography, but won because of her dress. Yeah, these padgents are very fair.
@@pinkglitter93 I didn't even like that dress as mush
That is so messed up
Kayla Dusseau she did lose because of her dress. That is messed up
@@pinkglitter93 Callyn was the other girl who did half of her choreography but won because of her dress. The pageants aren’t fair
As far as I'm concerned this is child abuse. If you want a contest for little ones don't dress them up like 25 year olds, let them be themselves as kids!
Nah
Yep
Truth is if the kids dressed as disney princesses or fairy anything childlike it would be sweet but minus the makeup.i still dont like idea of saying one child is better or prettier than another tho
The most competitive thing a kid should ever witness is freesbi, snail racing, kick ball, maybe checkers, and some fishing. Sports, kids love sports and it's a low competitive level.
It’s not child abuse unless they are being forced to do it when they don’t want to
“Her ambition is to be a big star one day”
If that poor girl doesn’t turn out to be pretty or famous one day she’s going to be depressed. Her mom is teaching her to base her self-worth on the admiration of others
The parents crying is CRAZYYY!! "She wanted the car" these parents pay so much for these pageants why not get her the little 100 dollar car yourself instead of making them feel bad .
I don't think the Judges should judge the girls based on how expensive their dresses are. Pageant Titles shouldn't be won based on how much money you have to spend on a dress for a toddler that will probably grow-out the clothes in a few months.
Little kids go through clothes so fast and they grow like weeds. You can't drop money on expensive clothing that'll they maybe wear at max 10 times. I wonder how much debt these parents are in, and I wish they would put how much the parents spent and how prize money they won, if any. Surely this has to be a expensive hobby/lifestyle.
I feel sorry for these kids.
See the problem with this is. This precious little girl had a melt down when she did not win because her mom has put so much pressure on her to win. When she did not win, just notice the mom's reaction, she is defeated, angry and pissed. This is projected onto the little girl who now thinks it's her fault and she is the reason for her mom's unhappiness. You see the mom says that it is 'her' dream but it's infact, the mom's dream which she has groomed her daughter into. This is just very stressful for the child and a recipe for emotional and self esteem issues later on. Pageants involving anyone below 18 should be banned
Regular pageants are good. Its these glitz ones that are bad
I actually like you used the word groomed. You are so completely right. That one word depicts exactly what is happening.
There are a lot of pageants that involve community service, talent, etc. You have to consent to do them though. Glitz is a whole different world, and they have no problem with using babies (those should be banned.) It's getting better, but not enough.
NO IVWAMNA TRY THEM they should have good pimits thoblike no makeup or 2 peisces
Exactly. Very well stated shivalishankersharma.
I saw this episode. She should’ve won. The little girl who beat her was a hot mess. She was better. The girl in the blue dress shouldn’t have gotten a title at all. She messed up all her routines.
PERIODT
Innit
@netsirenful 👏 I completely agree. That Pink Panther routine was adorable and Lilly did an amazing job even when the wrong music was used during her jungle wear performance.
no offence but it wasn't the girl's fault that she forgotten the moves, she has anxiety issues and the parents agreed points to be let off for stage guiding
Wow. You guys are really getting mad at a child for messing up. She’s a child. Children make mistakes. She recovered from it pretty well. You people are why the other little girl is crying. Her crying and saying “It’s my fault” is an example of the negative mindset she has weighing her down. This mindset is caused by you people. So many people watching her, getting mad that she didn’t win. She knows that her winning makes her mom happy. That’s why she cried.These pageants for literal toddlers are a bad thing to make them do. It causes them to grow up with this same mindset. “I need to win or my mom will cry” These pageants are clearly not for fun. They are for the parent’s own enjoyment. It is not a good thing for a kid to grow up doing. The parents are bad people for doing this to their children.
Judge: "The fabric was cheap"
Also her: Dresses like she shops at a thrift store and can't afford a hairbrush.
When she said "its all my fault" I nearly started crying too. She's so sweet! I love her
“As long as we beat them” lmfao it isn’t even about your daughters having fun or anything... just some petty, sad drama
If the mom has all that money to by fabric, make up, fake tans, flippers, and travel fees, there is no reason why the mom can't just buy her daughter the toy car without a pageant 😂
flippers?!
@@melaniescott8204 the fake teeth. So you don't realize that these are just kids
Yea, she could have bought the little girl the car, tied a big pink bow on it and had a pretty, big rhinestone crown ready to put on her head. Voila, Princess for a Day!
They can but she wants to compete for it she wants to earn it.I think the problem is she doesn’t just want her mom to buy it for her.She wants to fight for it
@@Mpompadour
Especially on her birthday ...
I'm not sure who said this, but I seem to recall an old adage that goes something like "It's better to spend a few dimes, and make your kid feel loved for life, than it is to spend thousands, yet make them feel utterly alienated ..."
Just to creepy, it’s like the perfect catalogue for child traffickers to look at...
Oh my! I didn't think of that but you're right!
Angry Bird, you are absolutely correct. These people should be arrested. This is child abuse.
Very true. These should be banned
"Thats all my fault" I felt that. But also, no 4 year old should ever be having the feelings she's having. So messed up
I cant believe people put these children through this torture. Blows my mind away. So SICK
This isn't about the children having fun. It's about the moms being able to say "My kid is better than yours!" and living vicariously through their kids
@Karina Peters My thoughts, also. Every momma and grandma in there was just tuu tuu BIG.
That's what it was all about. The Momma's acting out a fantasy of their own, but using their 4 year old daughters.
It's also a competition between the mums about who's child is the prettiest which is disgusting, these pageant things are toxic. I feel so bad for the children.
Have you seen the special needs kid that went on here? They actually liked and wanted to do it ! Her mom was amazing and played by the rules but another person yelled at her because she was getting special treatment when she really wasnt
@@howdoinamemychannel6767 oh that breaks my heart. i don't like children being put in pageants, even if they want to do it, but that mother cared more about her daughter winning than another child just having fun? jesus
"it's all my fault" that broke my heart. These people shouldn't be parents. And the other moms are CHEERING and belittling another toddler. God, this is just so sick
I can’t believe people actually judge how pretty a toddlers choreography is, makeup and dress is. It’s pathetic 🤦♀️
Mom, go Buy her the Car, she DESERVED to Win. And the Dress was Beautiful !!! Gorgeous
Mom can’t afford to buy her the car because she just spent $5000 on a damn dress
this makes me so angry bc the parents are teaching their kids that you have to win, but actually you don’t have to win you just need to have fun and know that you might not win all the time.
First girl: Shows tone of personality, smiles, waves, does routine perfectly.
Judge: I don't like her because her dress is cheap.
Second girl: *Literally forgets the routine and says what on stage*
Judge: ANGEL!
Me: Wtf.
And second girl wins
That judge didnt like her dress because the fabric looked really cheap and suggested they couldve invested something more expensive for THAT pageant. I mean, look at the stage decorations, nothing but awful crap.
Child abuse. Telling a young girl that her worth is based on her looks. Imagine it was a boy with all those expectations.
They're not even supposed to worry about their looks at that age
Alicia Australian1833 i agree. What a disgusting message this sends to young girls, dressing them up like hookers. No educated mother would subject her daughter to such nonsense. They should be ashamed of themselves.
There are no words strong enough to express how utterly distasteful and wrong these events are.
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Her outfit looked cheap? R u kidding me? Not everyone can afford $1,000 dress. It’s about kids having fun not having a ton of $ . I’d never put my kid in a pageant.
There is something very sick about this
Yeah literally a pédocon gounlimited.to/embed-u54nshwyibr7.html
Does anyone else feel uncomfortable watching this??
Feeding Pedafiles
Everything?
Andrea M I do
I can never understand why....invest all this money to win a ride on car when you can jist buy the car and save yourself a hell of a lot of money. And too boot these poor babies are way to young to deal with this bs
Exactly go to Disney land or some else. With that kind of money you can do such amazing things with kids
“Ambitions is to graduate PRE SCHOOL with a 4.0 GPA” 🤣🤣
When you tell one child that they are the best, you’re telling all the others that they are not. What a way to start life, people who think it is their job to dismiss you for what their own ego. Make no mistake about it, those children hear and absorb all the comments made about them at these shows. Most are not nice or confidence building.
I'll make it easy for you. You should've just bought her the car yourself for 1/10th of what it cost you to put her in that pageant. That is all.
Exactly ! 😅
Omg I literally just said the same thing
This is child abuse, plain and simple
I lost a big painting competition when i was in elementary school. I still remember vividly how my mom looked disappointed. That memory last to this day. Can't imagine if i were these girls :(
They need to do a follow-up show where the girls get to go to a summer camp and play with barbies, ride horses, care for dogs and have counselors there to help these girls without these awful adults around.
Man why are the parents in every child reality show so fecking toxic
This whole kiddy pageant thing is wrong on so many levels. These little girls should be playing with their dolls or riding their bicycles or climbing trees - not prancing around on stage with full make up and hair.
I cannot believe the judge said "The fabric was cheap" Lilly looked beautiful and worked so hard. While the other girl got supreme and messed up didn't know where to go and the judged LIKED their dress? So I guess it's all about the dresses now. Don't get me wrong I'm so proud of them but that judge had it all wrong.
She could just buy her the damn car without putting her through this crazy messed-up competition that would only cause her stress and poor self image.
Bruh why do most of these girls look like they don’t wanna do this
Also why the heck are they laughing at the children
I am so thankful that I was never raised this way. Poor children.
Children's pageants where minors of any age ranging from 1 to 18 prance around stage and get judged is almost child abuse. Forcing children who cant make decisions for themselves to get up on stage with a hideous dress and fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake teeth and prance around for a few low lives to judge them and criticise them based on their appearances just so their parents can live vicariously through them is just wrong on so many levels. They have to spend all their spare time around bitchy adults who pressure them to the moon and back to look perfect and learning how to walk on a stage looking fake as hell. The pressure of it, the judging and the need to look like other peoples ideas of perfect is what will give all those children not only self esteem issues and body image issues but also a life they lead with the bitchy, petty and self centred attitudes that everyone they grew up around forced on them. That child didn't care that she wasn't the prettiest because she didn't even understand exactly what she was getting judged on. She just understood she had to get up and look good to make her mother happy She cared that she didn't get the toy car and she cried because her mother and grandmother were crying at the fact that she lost the competition to see whos child is the prettiest
these moms are just karens forcing there childs to do this for money....
It isn’t even matter if it’s expensive
Here's a crazy idea... Take some of the cash spent on expensive outfits & makeup & *buy* her a car! This is so wrong on - so many levels.
Too much pressure is put on these little girls. Makes me sad. They are all beautiful.
Mothers are literally doing this to their children. They are projecting onto toddlers everything they can't be. This should be illegal, honestly.
I hate child beauty pageants. Just look at the audience, nothing but the parents and family. Such a waste of money 💰 in my estimation. Just my opinion. It truly looks like mothers living their lives through their children. Sad, silly, and isn’t teaching children the real lessons of life. Let children be children.
I mean it would probably be a bit worse if a lot of people who weren't their parents and family were in the audience, same as a ballet club performance. But I think everyone who watches this show we all agree this is the weirdest hobby to give your daughter and gives them the worst message of what they're valued for as little girls and later as women.
Its a money racquet. . 🤑
Only parents are allowed to things like this thats why you dont see other people...but yeah its so weird and these moms and judges take things way to far and turn something that maybe could just be fun for these girl into a nightmare
The fact that the mom was so supportive of her daughter and was telling her she was beautiful and amazing no matter what is the best gift anyone can have!
Cheap? OMG ! How unintelligent can that judge be?
How dare that judge penalize that poor little girl that clearly worked so hard and put her heart and soul into her routine, over her dress material being, “Cheap”. Seriously BROKE MY HEART.
First off, I’d bet my life that her parents have already invested every last dime of their money into all of this.Second of all, they shouldn’t have been able to deduct points over the material of the dress. If she didn’t like it, comment that on her form but don’t let that deduct from her overall score.
it made me so sad that lily said it was her fault but i loved when the producers told her repeatedly it wasn’t 🥺🥺🥺💞
This is all about the parents trying to fill some void in their own lives. This cant be healthy for the little girls being judged on their appearance at such a young age. Shame on the parents for putting them through this. Not good.
Parents doing this to their daughters is just mean to me, LET THEM HAVE A DAMN CHILDHOOD
If I had a daughter she wouldn't need a beauty pageant for me to let her know she is beautiful. These mothers need to raise their daughters to feel loved, feel worthy, to be self-confident and not to be judged and objectified by others.
"The fabrics a little cheap."
Eww. So only rich lods can win, obviously.
Honestly it was a little odd that, that little girl won the supreme title considering she mucked up. Just saying you know 🤷♀️
This is so weird.
What had me was when the little girl in blue dressed messed up grown women was laughing while she was messing up
I know I felt horrible and how she saw and heard at that moment. She did way better after that and more
I know!! Grown women belittling a 4 year old. That is totally messed up!! These mothers need to teach their daughters that having fun is more important than winning a stupid toy car. Just buy her the damn car ffs 🤦🏼♀️
Apparently the Mom's are living their lives vicariously through their daughters - and that is a horrific truth. This is a form of child abuse. The Mom's need to act their age and allow the 4yr old daughters to do the sam2e.
Stop it mom. You need to be strong for her.
That is just sick. These are kids dressed as adults and having breakdowns because theis mothers are trying to live through theis lives. It makes me ill.
Those mums are just crying because they wasted money on a pageant and didn’t get to earn it back
Ill never do this to my kid
Yeah a literal pëdocon gounlimited.to/embed-u54nshwyibr7.html
No one is asking you too. You do realise the kids want to do it though. So if your child WANTS to do it then you're just going to say no because of your feelings of pageants. Great parenting hahaha
@@shanniileah hahaha😂😂😂😂😂
@@shanniileah if your kid wanted to shoot p*rn,youd say yes just cuz he wants to? Thats fxked up. Kids that age dont understand much.thats why theyve parents to lead the way
@@shanniileah you seriously think these kids want to do this instead of doing things kids should really be doing!? You are delusional.
Are these adults for real they're crying that she didn't win, how about teaching your child that they went out there and did their best and there can only be one big winner.
My mother always told me, when you cry over nothing God will give you something to really cry about. These little girls are going to grow up with some major issues and they can thank their mother’s and grandmothers for that.
she’s proud of her itty bitty child for training her to walk across a stage and flaunt her stuff. that’s not something to be proud of. she should be teaching her daughter how to love herself for her natural beauty and not caring about superficial things like pageants and artificial beauty.