Girl MJ, you knew it deep in your heart that Tom wasn't deeply and madly in love with you but you still believed that he probably will eventually. The lack of loving in his body language with you throws the biggest clue. I myself had delusions with a wrong guy, he said to me 'I thought we were just killing time' and that was when I ran away! Fast! I felt ashamed of myself for not listening intently to my gut and my heart. I took on a solo backpacking to heal and focused in my career, put solid bricks to protect my wall (my heart) then a man came. He followed me abroad and did every possible way to make me feel loved and wanted. Married with him now for 10 years and loving him more and more each year. The heartaches were so worth it because it led me to my husband. I hope you find your full healing MJ.
100% agree. Tom never really looked too bothered about MJ. Best to let people like that go, not waste either persons time or their emotional energy, and move on.
You deserved a good man…a much better one.Tom is not a family oriented like you, Tom dont want commitment. you are a very responsible loving woman that deserved more better. Were always here to supporr you. Stay happy, blessed & safe.
Breakups are hard to deal with. Things will get better over time for both you and Tom. I'm sad to hear that you both went your separate ways. I will suggest to the both of you to take all of the time you need to heal. there is no need to rush things and both of you are still young. Enjoying life. I wish the best for you and Tom both.
You're not alone Meljean. I, myself are on the same process of healing and self-love. First, I've thought that this could be really hard as I'm not even know how to start to love myself. Not until I realize that self love is choosing myself more than anyone else. All the things that I thought I can't do such as eating alone, travel alone, sleep alone in a hotel room, do things alone, I finally did it and never been so happy. During this process, I learn things about myself like what do I want, what do I need, and what's the best for me. I was never been in love with myself until today. So this time, we should choose ourselves, fill our inner child desires, make time for ourselves, be kind to our selves so we could be complete and whole again. We got this! Laban ra jud ta diring dapita!
A little woman with the biggest heart!! You have a much wonderful life ahead M J... you really do. May the creator continue to guide and protect you always and forever. Much love MJ.
Although it isn’t our business. But this is good news. You deserve so much better. You’re an amazing and beautiful person. Take time for yourself. God has a plan for you.
Napresure si Tom noon kasi sa tuwing may upload sila both sa bahay ni Mj, commentors are saying "WHY DON'T YOU PROPOSE TO MJ" and other phrases na mag asawa na sana sila ..blablablabla..which is , hindi pa ready yung isa sa ganun plan.. nasense ko na yon last year pa na baka nga kumalas ung boy dahil sa mga comments lagi na ganun.then ayun na nga😅. dedma nalang, kasi ung tipuhan ni Tom , ayaw pa talaga magsettle. Sana ate Mj, makahanap ka na ng truelove po pero don't rush.. just enjoy life lang.Silent viewer mopo ako.Ngayon lang ako nagcomment po..hehehe
You will find a better or just the right man for you MJ in the end. As Filipinas we are very religious, you just need to pray for the right one and you will find the right one. Give time to heal and continue praying for the right man. The Rosary prayer is a very good prayer, just an FYI.
Interesting that I didn't see this until May 2024. I always thought you deserved better. You are a kind extrovert and a loving romantic type. He obviously was not.
I'm sorry you and Tom didn't work out.. but it is what it is, will continue to watch both of you guys because you guys are both amazing people.. Wish you nothing but the best 😊💖
Meljean I become your fan for sometime. I became distraught when I saw Tom distancing from you. But when you changed your face and had gone on plastic surgery, dear o dear, ang Filipina beauty na wala na. Being a tisay or to aspire to be a tisay with a perk up nose, that's not beauty. You were so beautiful as Filipina, gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous, you look like a Pinay doll, who' face is unique, para kang pinay manyika. Representing how beautiful ang pure Filipina. i was saddened na pina retoke mo and ilong mo. Please don't be angry, honest lang ako. You are more gorgeous goddess sa Pinay looks pa kayu, ang ganda mo, ang sexy mo . Sino ba kaya ang nag influence mo na mag ganyan ka. It looks na mature agad ang hitsura mo pag tisay ka na at common naman ang tisay look pag nag tatatrabaho o nag work ka abroad, common lang yan. Ssa pina pinagtata-as nila ang Tisay looks, pero mga histura ng artista ordinario lang dito sa labas. Not all tisay looking girls are appealing. But anyway, whatever beautiful ka pa rin, but I prefer ang tunay na pinay beauty mo noon. I'm thinking yoon ang na apekto kay Tom, na iba na ang hitsura mo. We need self confidence talaga, to all girls out there na gustu mag pa retoke, hwag sirain nyu ang real beauty nyu.
I already since that things did not work when you go home alone after your last trip together.Its really difficult to be in a relationship with other nationality when we are stiil younger.Ive been tbere too so i understand it.
Jean its a good thing that you surpass on things that you have been processed. I notice when the last time you left Tom in the hotel and return to Cebu. Just be happy am here for you to support on things you need to do. Take care always on your travel and endeavor your hard work. Focus on your moto and goal in life. 😇
You know, most of the time it happens for the better. Me being a male foreigner here in the Philippines went through the same and at first it hurts but you start to realize with time it's ok and move on right. The next one will be even more amazing. Obviously if it didn't work it wasn't meant to be. Keep on smiling and always be happy.
I understand. Something happened to me many moons ago like you were just going through. The good thing a few years later, I found the right person, and we have been married for 40 years. Things happen for a good reason. Trust in God he has a plan for u.
Thank you Meljean for sharing this but as far as I'm concerned, you never really needed to. It's your personal life and you oh no one an explanation. I'm glad you're traveling and enjoying yourself. You are always the star of the channel and I will continue to watch and support yours. 🙏 For your continued success and well-being
I have followed you off and on for a few years. I would think, what a lucky guy. I have enjoyed solo travel. There is so much future in front of you. You are just beginning to bloom. You have so many things going for you. I will only say, take your time. Be discerning in what you share about private matters. You owe your audience thanks for helping you to become successful. I am impressed with what you have accomplished. You break so many stereotypes people have about Filipinas and reinforce the most positive stereotypes. You will do well. Always remember that men have one main motive so be discerning. I would bet that in the future he will look back and wonder what if, with a heavy sigh. You are the winner. Best wishes to you from a wise old fox.
Feeling ko dahil na din yan sa mga comments na ang daming cnasabi about tom na wla nmn talaga tau alam sa totoong nangyayari. Hoping na maging okay din ang lahat. Hoping for the best for both of you
Its for the best for u to broke wt him he is not ready yet for any responsibilities n of course your still very young one day u will find a better guy in ur life....
I won't say anything bad about Tom but I knew from the beginning that he didn't value you as highly as you deserve. I know he had reasons for going home, but he couldn't have done that if he loved you as much as you deserve. I'm so happy that you are mature enough to realise that this is a huge step forward for you. Have faith, you will find the RIGHT person and so will our friend, Tom. I pray you both find happiness.
Heartbreaks are always tough! Everyone's had that one guy who doesn't know it's his loss, not yours. Just remember, your beautiful inside and out, and you're worth it! As the saying say, when one door closes, another opens! Expect that new door to reveal even greater wonders and glories and surprise. Take care and God Bless Always!
Hi MJ no explanation needed. You are a sweet loving person and it has shown right through this channel. Stay who you are and may God continue your Blessings 🙏 today and tomorrow. Take Care!
Sorry to hear that, I think social media has a lot to do with breakups, its gives people a false sense of security...I just hope things work out for the best.
Very nice explanation. I was sure it was over but it was not my place to ask. For quite some time I felt it would not last. I did not feel that Tom was up for Province life. After i saw the vid of you two going for a shower at the well, I knew it would not last. Haha Sorry it did not work out. If I was younger I would come to help you along. Haha Keep up the good vids. I always look forward to seeing your bubbly nature.
Breaking up as a couple is not always about hate, some relationships just are not ment to be. His goals and yours do not align, it's very simple to understand. I do hope you do not build those walls to high, after all life is short and living it alone is not what people are ment to do.
MJ Tom probably didn't like living in the Philippines anymore but I knew that breakup was a long time coming because too many family members were involved in your relationship. It seems like you and Tom never really had a lot of privacy because family members were always walking in and out of your house all the time. Tom as a foreigner I am sure was not used to that type of life and it seems to you are a family person. MJ that's a good thing and I can see you have a good heart and wants the best for your family but if ever you are in a relationship with a foreigner again please please don't have so many people always walking in and out all the time because the relationship won't last and you would be heartbroken again. MJ this is good advice I am giving you I am not coming from a bad place and I feel for you. With time you will heal and find love again. If it's God will that you and Tom be together again try and have more privacy in your relationship or even go live in Ireland or some foreign country if you want to. MJ May God heal your heart and bless you with true love again.
Wow! Finally someone talking about some of the reasons that may have led Tom to break up. Everyone seems to be taking sides with MJ. It takes two to tango so...
That is a VERY important factor that would annoy 90%+ of westerners. Close family relationships is one thing. Which is something that most westerners sadly do not have much of anymore. So even that takes some effort to get used to (but great when eventually adapt). But having family and friends coming and going into your home constantly... THAT is a factor that almost no foreign men would be ok with in the long run. Especially new couples... want privacy. Not constantly visits.
When one door closes another one opens up Mel… I think once our head is out of the clouds, we realize that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. I’m happy to see that there’s been no negativity about each other. That speaks volumes about you both!
Greetings from Laguna Beach , California. When the right person enters into your life you’ll know. You seem to be a very nice person. Enjoy life , family , friends life is way too short.
That is the reason I always be telling every woman and girl to watch out for the man you pick because when they are through getting what they want then they move on to the next one
Stay strong. As one door closes another one opens. You will go onto bigger and better adventures. Do not rush into another relationship until you feel ready. I wish you and Tom the very best for your future 💖💖💖
Jean exactly healing process is slowly but surely my wish both are like butterfly fly high Prayers most Powerful tool to recover remembered you set him free you too makes your life opened wide soon or to soon God will send you up a right man for you Good luck ❤
You have such a beautiful accent that does not sound Filipino. My wife is from Manila and we have been married for 5 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old son together. We pray for you always! Be blessed in Jesus’ name. Amen!😊
Mj every thing has a reason your in pain now it's natural and you are hurting but as time goes by it's going to be the best thing that ever happened to you God's protecting you good luck in life
Wishing you all of the best, dear. You will bounce back and find something even greater, a true love match. You are such a high quality filipina with so much intelligence and kindness. 🙏🙏
Hi Mel. I knew it all along. If the love is not there from him then it's time to move on. Ive watch you both and not once he didn't kiss you infront of the camera. You will find someone that will adore you. What's not to love about you. May you find your soul mate. God bless.❤❤❤🙏
Oh my god mj I'm sorry it didn't work out you 2 were good together enjoyed your travels together and food sarap hehe you're young NJ enjoy life and travel ok keep doing videos ok take care 💕💕💕😘
I already knew, I didn’t like him anyway I was supporting because of you. I can tell from previous videos he seemed annoyed by you. There is other fish in the sea girl glad you healed now you can move on and find the right man for you.
I'm glad to see you do this video as sometimes you do the laundry and hang it out to dry and air it out! Meljean we all wish you the best your a really good vlogger with professionalism we all wish you success!
Sometimes God's blessings are not what he gives but what He takes away, meaning God has better plans for you, God bless you more take care 🙏😇♥️ xoxoxo 😘
Bless your heart ~ I'm sure there are no less than 1 Million Guys who would love to be in your life. You're "One In A Million", and I'm sure the next "chapter" in your life will be even more awesome 🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing! That's life. You gave it a shot. It didn't work out in the end. Now you're free to progress your relationship with yourself. It's so interesting how your able to share your life online. Do you have any videos about that? ... about how you came to share your life online and what it is like? I'm afraid to do that.
Such is life, you too hope remind friend Mj, personal I don't believe you need to explain your relationship relationship fall out with Tom. I wish you, like Tom the best in life. Take care Mj.
I have only just found you on TH-cam. So I'm getting your blogs all out of order. So far I have to say you've blown mind. It's so wonderful to see such a young person sharing so authenticly from the heart. I know a blog only shows facets of a person. However, what comes across in your blogs is that you are a very thoughtful, caring, generous and strong young woman. With a heart the size of Everest. I can look around the world and find many things to cry about,, but to see that there is a young woman in the Philippines that opens her heart and shares a flood of goodness,, Well that just warms my heart. And the world is no longer a sad place
Thanks MJ for being transparent and explaining everything so clearly. I liked that you took the time for your healing ❤️🩹 first! Happy days and smiling again 🌼🌸 I wish you all the best - also for your next chapter when the timing is right!
I wish you the best in Life MJ. I was told once that, "not everyone that comes into your life is supposed to stay. They are only there to teach us things we need to learn." This was one of those times. 🥰
I use this line of thought too to heal from a broken heart. It's the most grounding way to get rid of any delusions that hurt the soul. It's okay to lose a relationship because you gain lessons through the whole experience.
BEHIND THAT BRAVE BEAUTIFUL SMILE, THERE IS AN ELEMENT OF HURT, BUT YOUR LIFE WILL BLOSSOM LIKE NO BODY'S BUSINESS, WISH U ABUNDANCE HAPPINESS N LOVE, GOD BLESS U MOMENT TO MOMENT, TAKE CARE, STAY BLISSFUL ❤️🙌
Mj I'm so sorry to hear about your brake up but there will be some that will make you happy again some day along way . Your so gorgeous hunny so don't stop believing ok .. hugs and kisses andy from uk
Humble person like yourself MJ God will bless you with a caring and loving person, You have a strong belief in God so he will bring a right Guy for you dear. Trust in the Lord dear. Right Guy will come at the right time. Bless you dear. Sending love from Auckland Nz. Take care 💖💖💖💖
Hi Mel Jean. I felt that something happend. No need to explain somthing. I am happy for your healing. I really enjoyed wathing you and sharing your life. You go your way and i could feel you be in balance. Whatching your chanel help me to feel closer to Cebu. Salamat kaayo. My body is in germany but my mind and heart is with my family in Cebu. Allway take care and god bless you and your family
I absolutely knew it was just a matter of time and I called around 4 to 6 months ago when he came back to visit and was helping you put the tablecloth on the table at your house he seemed very distant a lot of us said he seemed very disinterested something just didn't seem right about him so unfortunately I knew it was just a matter of time but it's nice to hear you're doing well and you still say good things about him shows your quite a good person.
Misleading title. You're back home cozy in bed. You've moved on a bit or a lot since you're able to talk about the past with smiles. And with a friend's support who somewhat gave you the will to talk about this topic.
Sorry for the delayed reaction here. I always enjoyed watching and listening to you Meljean. You are a very sweet and dynamic woman. Good things are going to come your way.
Girl MJ, you knew it deep in your heart that Tom wasn't deeply and madly in love with you but you still believed that he probably will eventually. The lack of loving in his body language with you throws the biggest clue. I myself had delusions with a wrong guy, he said to me 'I thought we were just killing time' and that was when I ran away! Fast! I felt ashamed of myself for not listening intently to my gut and my heart. I took on a solo backpacking to heal and focused in my career, put solid bricks to protect my wall (my heart) then a man came. He followed me abroad and did every possible way to make me feel loved and wanted. Married with him now for 10 years and loving him more and more each year. The heartaches were so worth it because it led me to my husband. I hope you find your full healing MJ.
100% agree. Tom never really looked too bothered about MJ. Best to let people like that go, not waste either persons time or their emotional energy, and move on.
True, because if the man interested to his girlfriend, of course He will propose marriage.
He's A Damn Idiot, Next Time, Meljean, Come On Over To The Dark Side of The Force, We Black Men Love Hard, No Matter,
I total agree, Tom was not the right man for you. You deserve much more than he could give you.
Don’t settle for that again and you will find a man that truly loves you in time. Best wishes
You deserved a good man…a much better one.Tom is not a family oriented like you, Tom dont want commitment.
you are a very responsible loving woman that deserved more better. Were always here to supporr you. Stay happy, blessed & safe.
Tom upgraded - BiG-Time...
Breakups are hard to deal with. Things will get better over time for both you and Tom. I'm sad to hear that you both went your separate ways. I will suggest to the both of you to take all of the time you need to heal. there is no need to rush things and both of you are still young. Enjoying life. I wish the best for you and Tom both.
You're not alone Meljean. I, myself are on the same process of healing and self-love. First, I've thought that this could be really hard as I'm not even know how to start to love myself. Not until I realize that self love is choosing myself more than anyone else. All the things that I thought I can't do such as eating alone, travel alone, sleep alone in a hotel room, do things alone, I finally did it and never been so happy. During this process, I learn things about myself like what do I want, what do I need, and what's the best for me. I was never been in love with myself until today. So this time, we should choose ourselves, fill our inner child desires, make time for ourselves, be kind to our selves so we could be complete and whole again. We got this! Laban ra jud ta diring dapita!
A little woman with the biggest heart!!
You have a much wonderful life ahead M J...
you really do.
May the creator continue to guide and protect you always and forever.
Much love MJ.
Although it isn’t our business. But this is good news. You deserve so much better. You’re an amazing and beautiful person. Take time for yourself. God has a plan for you.
absolutely agree 100%!
🌴🌴< < < TOM SEEMS SO MUCH HAPPIER NOW. HE HATED IT THERE. > > > 🌴🌴
Napresure si Tom noon kasi sa tuwing may upload sila both sa bahay ni Mj, commentors are saying "WHY DON'T YOU PROPOSE TO MJ" and other phrases na mag asawa na sana sila ..blablablabla..which is , hindi pa ready yung isa sa ganun plan.. nasense ko na yon last year pa na baka nga kumalas ung boy dahil sa mga comments lagi na ganun.then ayun na nga😅. dedma nalang, kasi ung tipuhan ni Tom , ayaw pa talaga magsettle. Sana ate Mj, makahanap ka na ng truelove po pero don't rush.. just enjoy life lang.Silent viewer mopo ako.Ngayon lang ako nagcomment po..hehehe
You will find a better or just the right man for you MJ in the end. As Filipinas we are very religious, you just need to pray for the right one and you will find the right one. Give time to heal and continue praying for the right man. The Rosary prayer is a very good prayer, just an FYI.
Interesting that I didn't see this until May 2024. I always thought you deserved better. You are a kind extrovert and a loving romantic type. He obviously was not.
I'm sorry you and Tom didn't work out.. but it is what it is, will continue to watch both of you guys because you guys are both amazing people.. Wish you nothing but the best 😊💖
I absolutely hate that stupid expression it is what it is. What a poor excuse for selfish and bad choices and behavior.
@Daniel Drawe go tell someone who cares! All you comment is hate and negative things, why are you still here watching her vlogs if you don't like her
U2 will be backkk. 😉
Meljean I become your fan for sometime. I became distraught when I saw Tom distancing from you. But when you changed your face and had gone on plastic surgery, dear o dear, ang Filipina beauty na wala na. Being a tisay or to aspire to be a tisay with a perk up nose, that's not beauty. You were so beautiful as Filipina, gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous, you look like a Pinay doll, who' face is unique, para kang pinay manyika. Representing how beautiful ang pure Filipina. i was saddened na pina retoke mo and ilong mo. Please don't be angry, honest lang ako. You are more gorgeous goddess sa Pinay looks pa kayu, ang ganda mo, ang sexy mo . Sino ba kaya ang nag influence mo na mag ganyan ka. It looks na mature agad ang hitsura mo pag tisay ka na at common naman ang tisay look pag nag tatatrabaho o nag work ka abroad, common lang yan. Ssa pina pinagtata-as nila ang Tisay looks, pero mga histura ng artista ordinario lang dito sa labas. Not all tisay looking girls are appealing. But anyway, whatever beautiful ka pa rin, but I prefer ang tunay na pinay beauty mo noon. I'm thinking yoon ang na apekto kay Tom, na iba na ang hitsura mo. We need self confidence talaga, to all girls out there na gustu mag pa retoke, hwag sirain nyu ang real beauty nyu.
His loss in All honnesty, you Are a beautiful individual and an amazing woman ❤️....if I was in toms shoes I'd never let you go 💕
I already since that things did not work when you go home alone after your last trip together.Its really difficult to be in a relationship with other nationality when we are stiil younger.Ive been tbere too so i understand it.
M.J. You are the most positive person you need someone who will take care of you. Someone who not so young. Anyhow, take care 🙂
Someone out there is for you MJ & you deserve the best because you’re the BEST🌼💜🌸
Life is the same in every country with relationships, some make it some don’t, you’re a survivor. ❤ great content
Hello Meljean, enjoy your family, enjoy your life. You are a beautiful young successful woman.❤❤
Jean its a good thing that you surpass on things that you have been processed. I notice when the last time you left Tom in the hotel and return to Cebu. Just be happy am here for you to support on things you need to do. Take care always on your travel and endeavor your hard work. Focus on your moto and goal in life. 😇
Hate to say it, but I saw it coming. You will be fine/Keep your head up.
You know, most of the time it happens for the better. Me being a male foreigner here in the Philippines went through the same and at first it hurts but you start to realize with time it's ok and move on right. The next one will be even more amazing. Obviously if it didn't work it wasn't meant to be. Keep on smiling and always be happy.
Who cares, you are one of billions of people. Not that important.
I understand. Something happened to me many moons ago like you were just going through. The good thing a few years later, I found the right person, and we have been married for 40 years. Things happen for a good reason. Trust in God he has a plan for u.
Thank you Meljean for sharing this but as far as I'm concerned, you never really needed to. It's your personal life and you oh no one an explanation. I'm glad you're traveling and enjoying yourself. You are always the star of the channel and I will continue to watch and support yours.
🙏 For your continued success and well-being
A very brave young women, the journey continues....new dreams begin♥️♥️
The only thing I ask of you MJ is always keep smiling and never ever lose that beautiful spirit you have🙂 Stay Blessed 🙂
Thank you MJ. You have a wonderful life ahead of you and are truly blessed with a great family.
May be Lord God have good plan for you MJ .God bless you always Amen 💖🙏🙏🙏
I have followed you off and on for a few years. I would think, what a lucky guy. I have enjoyed solo travel. There is so much future in front of you. You are just beginning to bloom. You have so many things going for you. I will only say, take your time. Be discerning in what you share about private matters. You owe your audience thanks for helping you to become successful. I am impressed with what you have accomplished. You break so many stereotypes people have about Filipinas and reinforce the most positive stereotypes. You will do well. Always remember that men have one main motive so be discerning. I would bet that in the future he will look back and wonder what if, with a heavy sigh. You are the winner. Best wishes to you from a wise old fox.
What a load of sexist crap ,,,,
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Feeling ko dahil na din yan sa mga comments na ang daming cnasabi about tom na wla nmn talaga tau alam sa totoong nangyayari. Hoping na maging okay din ang lahat. Hoping for the best for both of you
Its for the best for u to broke wt him he is not ready yet for any responsibilities n of course your still very young one day u will find a better guy in ur life....
Hugs dear lady. You are loved and admired. Be well!
I won't say anything bad about Tom but I knew from the beginning that he didn't value you as highly as you deserve. I know he had reasons for going home, but he couldn't have done that if he loved you as much as you deserve. I'm so happy that you are mature enough to realise that this is a huge step forward for you. Have faith, you will find the RIGHT person and so will our friend, Tom. I pray you both find happiness.
Thanks for sharing your personal life story ms.jean. everything well be better more in the future.
Jean I wish you all the best in your future travels 😊 It’s exciting! And I know you’ll shine even brighter in this new chapter. Love lots -Ayn
Heartbreaks are always tough! Everyone's had that one guy who doesn't know it's his loss, not yours. Just remember, your beautiful inside and out, and you're worth it! As the saying say, when one door closes, another opens! Expect that new door to reveal even greater wonders and glories and surprise.
Take care and God Bless Always!
Hi MJ no explanation needed. You are a sweet loving person and it has shown right through this channel. Stay who you are and may God continue your Blessings 🙏 today and tomorrow. Take Care!
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MJ, sorry to hear that. Stay strong, live goes on. Wish you all the best.
Sorry to hear that, I think social media has a lot to do with breakups, its gives people a false sense of security...I just hope things work out for the best.
CONGRATS, MJ - another milestone! 135K!
Very nice explanation. I was sure it was over but it was not my place to ask. For quite some time I felt it would not last. I did not feel that Tom was up for Province life. After i saw the vid of you two going for a shower at the well, I knew it would not last. Haha
Sorry it did not work out. If I was younger I would come to help you along. Haha
Keep up the good vids. I always look forward to seeing your bubbly nature.
Breaking up as a couple is not always about hate, some relationships just are not ment to be. His goals and yours do not align, it's very simple to understand. I do hope you do not build those walls to high, after all life is short and living it alone is not what people are ment to do.
I think you and Tom just caught each other at the wrong time. He's still young and wants to travel and quite frankly he isn't done playing the field 🤨
MJ Tom probably didn't like living in the Philippines anymore but I knew that breakup was a long time coming because too many family members were involved in your relationship. It seems like you and Tom never really had a lot of privacy because family members were always walking in and out of your house all the time. Tom as a foreigner I am sure was not used to that type of life and it seems to you are a family person. MJ that's a good thing and I can see you have a good heart and wants the best for your family but if ever you are in a relationship with a foreigner again please please don't have so many people always walking in and out all the time because the relationship won't last and you would be heartbroken again. MJ this is good advice I am giving you I am not coming from a bad place and I feel for you. With time you will heal and find love again. If it's God will that you and Tom be together again try and have more privacy in your relationship or even go live in Ireland or some foreign country if you want to. MJ May God heal your heart and bless you with true love again.
Wow! Finally someone talking about some of the reasons that may have led Tom to break up. Everyone seems to be taking sides with MJ. It takes two to tango so...
That is a VERY important factor that would annoy 90%+ of westerners.
Close family relationships is one thing. Which is something that most westerners sadly do not have much of anymore.
So even that takes some effort to get used to (but great when eventually adapt).
But having family and friends coming and going into your home constantly... THAT is a factor that almost no foreign men would be ok with in the long run.
Especially new couples... want privacy. Not constantly visits.
Sorry to hear wishing you both best in future
When one door closes another one opens up Mel… I think once our head is out of the clouds, we realize that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.
I’m happy to see that there’s been no negativity about each other. That speaks volumes about you both!
You can tell with his body language if the man madly inlove with you
Greetings from Laguna Beach , California. When the right person enters into your life you’ll know. You seem to be a very nice person. Enjoy life , family , friends life is way too short.
That is the reason I always be telling every woman and girl to watch out for the man you pick because when they are through getting what they want then they move on to the next one
Stay strong. As one door closes another one opens. You will go onto bigger and better adventures. Do not rush into another relationship until you feel ready. I wish you and Tom the very best for your future 💖💖💖
@@bonniemoreno7872 feeling was correct!
@@bonniemoreno7872 you could not have said it any better.....
Everything's happen for a reason. God bless
God will provide you the right man for you in Gods time OK take it easy Meljean.
Jean exactly healing process is slowly but surely my wish both are like butterfly fly high Prayers most Powerful tool to recover remembered you set him free you too makes your life opened wide soon or to soon God will send you up a right man for you Good luck ❤
Yeah, I’ve always enjoyed your blog. I’m sorry things didn’t work out but I hope that things will be better for both of you things go on.
MJ time to focus on yourself and do what you love.
I think you deserve someone better. God bless
Look at it as part of self growth and experience of love.
You are young and beautiful
May god bless you and keep you safe 💞🇮🇪
He’s not for you.. that’s ok. Just DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!! 💋💖🌷👠🥰
You have such a beautiful accent that does not sound Filipino. My wife is from Manila and we have been married for 5 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old son together. We pray for you always! Be blessed in Jesus’ name. Amen!😊
Move on MJ good for you. Enjoy your travelling by seeing different places and wish you best of luck dear.
Mj every thing has a reason your in pain now it's natural and you are hurting but as time goes by it's going to be the best thing that ever happened to you God's protecting you good luck in life
i am a person that believes what happens is ment to be, when one door closes anouther opens hang in there it all works out for the best
Wishing you all of the best, dear. You will bounce back and find something even greater, a true love match. You are such a high quality filipina with so much intelligence and kindness. 🙏🙏
Hi Mel. I knew it all along. If the love is not there from him then it's time to move on. Ive watch you both and not once he didn't kiss you infront of the camera. You will find someone that will adore you. What's not to love about you. May you find your soul mate. God bless.❤❤❤🙏
Thanks MJ for being open and sharing. I hope your healing comes in time.
No worries MJ...the world is belong to us...more blessing ahead of you! Stay safe and stay blessed!
I was ready to cry 😢 with u ..but u didn't .. better things come for u.🙏 ..
Stay strong!! You will find love when the time is right
God bless u MJ.. U are a good person and surely u will find the right one for u.. 😍
We wish you andTom both, the best. I hope things get better for you MJ.
Oh my god mj I'm sorry it didn't work out you 2 were good together enjoyed your travels together and food sarap hehe you're young NJ enjoy life and travel ok keep doing videos ok take care 💕💕💕😘
I already knew, I didn’t like him anyway I was supporting because of you. I can tell from previous videos he seemed annoyed by you. There is other fish in the sea girl glad you healed now you can move on and find the right man for you.
I'm glad to see you do this video as sometimes you do the laundry and hang it out to dry and air it out! Meljean we all wish you the best your a really good vlogger with professionalism we all wish you success!
Sometimes God's blessings are not what he gives but what He takes away, meaning God has better plans for you, God bless you more take care 🙏😇♥️ xoxoxo 😘
Bless your heart ~ I'm sure there are no less than 1 Million Guys who would love to be in your life. You're "One In A Million", and I'm sure the next "chapter" in your life will be even more awesome 🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing! That's life. You gave it a shot. It didn't work out in the end. Now you're free to progress your relationship with yourself. It's so interesting how your able to share your life online. Do you have any videos about that? ... about how you came to share your life online and what it is like? I'm afraid to do that.
tks god MJ, got rid of that crook who never loved you from beginning, only used you....MJ you are our star, we all love you ....❤ stay strong.
Crook? 😮
WOW I AM SO HAPPY SPECIAL
FOR U SMART LADY
GOD KEEP BLESSING AND UR
NEW CARRIER ,AMEN
It was obvious that it would not work out. Tom loves to travel and you are both very young.
It is a good idea to stay friends and let things proceed on in life for yourselves as i still feel like your both my friends also
Such is life, you too hope remind friend Mj, personal I don't believe you need to explain your relationship relationship fall out with Tom.
I wish you, like Tom the best in life.
Take care Mj.
I have only just found you on TH-cam.
So I'm getting your blogs all out of order.
So far I have to say you've blown mind.
It's so wonderful to see such a young person sharing so authenticly from the heart.
I know a blog only shows facets of a person.
However, what comes across in your blogs is that you are a very thoughtful, caring, generous and strong young woman.
With a heart the size of Everest.
I can look around the world and find many things to cry about,, but to see that there is a young woman in the Philippines that opens her heart and shares a flood of goodness,,
Well that just warms my heart.
And the world is no longer a sad place
Thank you ❤️✨
MJ, smile sweetie smile!!!!! Well gorgeous, where are ya taking us now?? Going to love it wherever it is!!!
A painful experience will bless you with a beautiful new beginning. Be excited, safe & happy going forward. 🌻💛
Live gos on, great memories with Tom. Enjoy life is too short.❤
Thanks MJ for being transparent and explaining everything so clearly. I liked that you took the time for your healing ❤️🩹 first! Happy days and smiling again 🌼🌸 I wish you all the best - also for your next chapter when the timing is right!
I wish you the best in Life MJ. I was told once that, "not everyone that comes into your life is supposed to stay. They are only there to teach us things we need to learn." This was one of those times. 🥰
I use this line of thought too to heal from a broken heart. It's the most grounding way to get rid of any delusions that hurt the soul.
It's okay to lose a relationship because you gain lessons through the whole experience.
Your a very sensible girl wish u all the very best in life
Nakakalungkot pag may relationship na na broke. At kawawa yong babae lalo na pag nag live together na. God bless
BEHIND THAT BRAVE BEAUTIFUL SMILE, THERE IS AN ELEMENT OF HURT, BUT YOUR LIFE WILL BLOSSOM LIKE NO BODY'S BUSINESS, WISH U ABUNDANCE HAPPINESS N LOVE, GOD BLESS U MOMENT TO MOMENT, TAKE CARE, STAY BLISSFUL ❤️🙌
Mj I'm so sorry to hear about your brake up but there will be some that will make you happy again some day along way . Your so gorgeous hunny so don't stop believing ok .. hugs and kisses andy from uk
You go. Stepping forward . You have family support . I am praying for your future❤
Congrats MJ I'm happy that your happy now thank yo ou so much lord God Amen 💖🙏🙏🙏
Wishing you both the best in life dear MJ, you are beautiful smart sweet ladies ..God bless and stay safe always hugs 🙏🤗❤️🌹🌹🌹
Humble person like yourself MJ God will bless you with a caring and loving person, You have a strong belief in God so he will bring a right Guy for you dear. Trust in the Lord dear.
Right Guy will come at the right time.
Bless you dear.
Sending love from Auckland Nz. Take care 💖💖💖💖
Hi Mel Jean. I felt that something happend. No need to explain somthing. I am happy for your healing. I really enjoyed wathing you and sharing your life. You go your way and i could feel you be in balance. Whatching your chanel help me to feel closer to Cebu. Salamat kaayo. My body is in germany but my mind and heart is with my family in Cebu. Allway take care and god bless you and your family
I absolutely knew it was just a matter of time and I called around 4 to 6 months ago when he came back to visit and was helping you put the tablecloth on the table at your house he seemed very distant a lot of us said he seemed very disinterested something just didn't seem right about him so unfortunately I knew it was just a matter of time but it's nice to hear you're doing well and you still say good things about him shows your quite a good person.
Misleading title. You're back home cozy in bed. You've moved on a bit or a lot since you're able to talk about the past with smiles. And with a friend's support who somewhat gave you the will to talk about this topic.
Sorry for the delayed reaction here.
I always enjoyed watching and listening to you Meljean. You are a very sweet and dynamic woman. Good things are going to come your way.