the real reason i quit nursing..
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ย. 2024
- i forgot to mention i was a CNA for 4 years before being a nurse. at any given time, you can restart your story.. thank you so much for all the continuous love & support ♡
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Your mindset about working and how they’ll “ replace you tomorrow “ is exactly me. Family time, memories, enjoying your life is what it’s all about . Not money not a career. Glad someone gets it ❤
Most definitely too many people take the small things, most important things in life for granted most times over materialism and careers same difference so I get you as well. The one thing you can’t never get back or no amount of money can buy is …. Your time! ❤❤
I agree with this 100%
I dropped out of dental school because of those reasons and mainly because my mental health matters and it was NOT making me happy. I gained weight and lost time with my family (mom of 2)
Gotta work tho
@@PriscillaSBlet me spend time talking to you beautiful
wow the fact that you worked as a nurse through the height of covid is crazy, huge respect to you girl. the nurses and doctors, medical staff etc working through that time were the most essential part of our society and how we handled it together. i dont blame you for choosing a different path. we need better for our healthcare workers.
I went to nursing school straight out of high school. I made it to clinicals and decided to change my major to social work. I’m 25 with no kids, and I also spend a lot of time with my family. I am a Deputy now at a jail. I am glad you made this video. I used to think that being a nurse, was the best route for me. I’m glad I changed my plan. I’m enjoying life with my mother and dog. You made the best decision for you!
What made you want to switch?
UNDER PAID AND UNDER STAFFED IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT!!!!!
In NY travel make at least $70 an hour
@@NewbirthHannah05 yeah but we shouldn’t have to travel to make this amount of money, ceo, cfo, cno and all the big dogs make so much money off of nurses, techs, doctors and want take more for themselves instead of giving nurses what they need. It doesn’t even make sense that they would pay outside nurses more to work than pay their staff it is so backwards. The healthcare system doesn’t even care about patients, the sicker they are the more money they make. It makes me sick sometimes but me personally this was what I was meant to do.
Girl I’ve been a nurse for 5 years and I am ready to leave I’m over it
3yrs In and ready to leave too. Any day now
If you are interested in beauty, there are a lot of cosmetic/dermatology office who are hiring registered nurses! Nursing isn't all at the bedside!!
I retired a year ago after 40 years in healthcare, completely burned-out by the constant stress, lack of support by leadership and abuse by patients.
If I knew then what I know now I would have gone into HR. No one ever died from a HR mistake.
As a military nurse I worked countless 32-40 hour duty days, no sleep, no meal break, only a couple brief bathroom breaks.
Decades of dozens of lifts per shift ruined my back, hips, shoulders. But now I retired and learning to live like a human being again.
The “why am I out here lifting heavy ass people” killed me 🤣🤣
And that lifting technique is only good to a point....at some point we're retiring with that jacked up walk old nurses have.
giving us back pain at the age of 30 🥲
@@dgeneeknapp3168 the retired nurse walk is so real-they been through the trenches
@@sk8ter975 They threw nurses to the wolves alright. It was always a tough job, but they made it a horror show.
Ummm that's the job good that I quit hope no one feels that way about your mother. When she gets sick
I have been a nurse for 25 years and I still love it! I'm glad you figured out what you don't like that's important.
At the end nursing has the job security and benefits for the family. There are people who got master degrees in IT have not found job for 14 months.
Girl you’re just so beautiful, inside & out. Beauty & Brains, definitely a strong honest independent woman. Keep up the amazing work you do & you touch a lot ppl. You hit over 100,000 subs in a short amount of time, that means you’re loved. Ppl can always move on if they’re not interested. Jealousy makes ppl haters. Sending Blessings & love to you💕💕
Sorry I meant 10,000 subs
Yikes! Subs do not equal love. It equals money.
I know me being a patient care tech showed why nursing wasn’t for me def saved me some time and extra debt😂 I advise a lot of people should do cna/pct before nursing !
I wasn't a nurse, I was in Operations, work 4 12hour shifts, night shift, for a year and a half. My mental health AND physical health went DOWN. I let it go too! I cried too, and also got paid the same lol. Wow- Shout out to you!
Those 12 shifts hurt me so bad 😂
Yes girl night shift made me lose weight, groggy, anxious & depressed.
Girl when you were talking about night shifts.. YES I agree! I put in my two weeks because I was mentally drained and my job was so damn toxic. Body pains, tiredness, sleeping all damn day, I dealt with dehydration plus much more! Thank you for this video and for informing everybody about what occurred in your nursing job!
I just became a nurse last year and work on a med surg floor… It’s so hard to have a healthy work life balance because it takes me almost a full 24 hours for my brain and body to recover from my shifts: they are EXHAUSTING!! I’m 21 and I too get so much anxiety on shifts. I too like traveling, food (especially pho), and am debating on switching my career but I am not familiar with posting on TH-cam. But I just came across your channel through this video today. It’s inspiring and insightful. Thank you for being you and sharing your experience❤
I totally know how you feel and relate to you so much about the anxiety before going in to work a shift and feeling so burnt out from everything. If you haven't already checked it out I high.y recommend you look into procedural nursing. I worked in GI Endoscopy and it was a dream!!! No weekends, no nights, no holidays. You won't have the same patient for the whole day, you have the opportunity to rotate between being in the pre/post area or in the procedure rooms. My quality of life was so significantly better when I switched from bedside to outpatient procedures.
You could even check out Cath lab, interventional radiology, those areas tend to take call and you would work the normal nursing schedule but without the stress of what you had to go through doing bedside!
Not me strugggggling in nursing school as I’m watching this. But fr boo, I love your energy! You’re such a baddie!!! IM ROOTING FOR YOU!!! You got this! Keep going! Ps, more story time videos plsssss 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘✨🤍
Nursing can be a beautiful field to work in. You just need to find an environment that works for you. I'm only 8 years in and still enjoy what I do. Best of luck! ❤️
Thank you! I appreciate your enouraging words. And I know you are a bomb ass nurse! HUGS!@@ZiMakeUp
I have been a nurse for 33 years, all of the things you are saying are very true. I once recorded a meeting where I was told my performance was not up to par and that someone complained. It was to tell me the assistant head nurse was going to come along with me on my home care nurse visits.All of the other nurses were working for free and doing 12 plus hours for an 8 hour day. I could only bring myself to do 10 hours daily and so I put down 10 hours and worked begrudgingly for free for 2 hours. This is common practice in the field. They wanted employees to be available 24/7 and they had recently implemented a deal where you could no longer bring a supply tote and had to visit the patient with no supplies and if you needed them you had to drive all the way to the supply warehouse which was 20 city miles or more and then they could bill the patient for 2 visits somehow by twisting the words ...I transferred back to the inpatient within 1 week of that episode.. I recorded that conversation and they demanded the tape.. I refused. I left quietly and resumed my nursing.. this is just one example of the maltreatment nurses experience. As far as times, can never plan anything because you do not know if the next shift will arrive on time or at all and your time to be off is when your done and not a set time but they want you to clock out at the correct time due to the pressures on them from Corporate. Grrr. I stopped this career when I became physically sick and was having chronic pain..I could not do it any longer..Peace my friend. Im now on disability as are many of my nurse friends. I do some gig work for a little bit of extra money when I feel up to it...back is thrashed,Nerves thrashed, Blood Pressure crazy...
I’m going to school now. Applying to the RN program for the fall. I’m working as a CNA right now in the hospital part time but now I’m really second guessing my career choice. CNA is not fun for me at all and it makes me so incredibly anxious. I see the nurses who seem just so burned out and I’m now really not liking my choice
lol, welcome to the hurt business. You’ll get through it, get your one year on the floor and go towards the administration route or explore different specialties. I won’t lie to you, it’ll suck for the first few years unless you fall I love with it - I pray that you do….it has its pros and cons, but the politics in the hospitals is horrible.
There are politics in every field. Try to stick to your passion. It will carry you through when you get those burn out phases.
I really enjoyed this video and honestly being a nurse is very difficult because sometimes you don't know what to expect on the job when people are feeling good, working night shifts, and not making good money especially if your body can't take it anymore.
New nurse here....only one experience....I was quiet too and because of that the other nurses were so mean to me and yell to me like I was stupid or something. After two months my mentor do me a bad evaluation and I had to leave......I felt really bad. After that I had to work at dentistrary were the wages are do bad...They ruin my life. Also in my country is very hard ti be hired in a hospital. Many jobs are already done but we fools keep give exams for the spots.....
a "cgi" sesh, story time & a mukbang?! 💅👏 thank you for sharing your nurse story. speaks volume to your character 💙
Phew! So glad I switch my major. I was a gonna be a traveling nurse and phew I couldn’t do it anymore. I appreciate your video and your experience, it is so similar to mine experience with the nursing industry! I am so glad I ain’t alone
I'm anxious asf now 😭😭
Yess. All of this! This is exactly why I went into corporate nursing & never looked back. ✌️
Most Filipinos like being a RN
huh?
@@myimperfectdiary890They really do....the ladies from India too, in my 30+ years experience. 😂
Every Filipino mom wants their child to be a nurse. My mom did. And then I dropped out ✌🏽
"Thank you for sharing this. As a nurse with 5 years of experience, I love my job but I hate the toxic work environment and bullying that takes place. It's tough out here. You are lucky that you can quit. I have a house and student loans that I am trying to pay off, so I am looking for other ways to make money." Follow you dreams you can always come back to hell/ I mean nursing...
As a caregiver and med tech I can definitely relate to all this
U smoke inside your house . That told me all I needed to know
Congratulations girl!! 🎉 Happy for you! This video has really pushed me to follow my passion 📷 Continue to be YOU!! ❤
Been a nurse for 7 years. You’re inspiring me to take on something new. I want that happiness you got.
wow Kelsey i got hooked with your eating content last year and subbed but NEVAH in a M years i thought you used to be a nurse . i chose computer science last year but now i really wanna get into nursing . "at any given time you can restart your story" this vid def caught me off guard. Kelsey doing too good of a job as a YTer. im so happy Kelsey figured things out for her career and is rele happy doing what she loves now.
thank you ! i appreciate the support🩵
Kelsey liked my comment AHH
you healing my mental through your content and i think thats something special.
Supporting your decision! It must’ve been very mentally and emotionally and physically draining for you to quit!
You shared a beautiful message, Kelsey! Congratulations on going for your dreams & living the life you want to live 🤩✨ keep going!!
Not me just gradated, about to take my NCLEX and then i see this 😂😂 nursing is not for the weak!!! I was already burnt out during nursing school 🥴
Real shit tho, thank you so much for sharing. I didn’t even know this about you and it felt like I was on FaceTime with a sister. ❤❤ love you and support you always!
I appreciate the honesty, God has a path for you! ❤️
I completely understand you. I was in the same boat while in dental school. I quit when I realized how much it took from me. My mental and physical health. I was in night school so I lost time from my family (mom of 2), I wasn’t home to cook dinner, no down time with my family etc. thankfully my husband took care of that while I was gone but that also took a toll on my relationship. The instructors were not helpful or professional. They wasted my time. Most days we’d have a bullshit day when I could’ve been home with my family. Overall, I tried my best and I’m so much happier now. I travel more and most importantly physically and mentally better.
Good for you girl ❤ do what truly makes you happy. We never know when our last day is
Girllll this resonates so much with me. I feel like this video was my last sign to get out! Thank youu
The blunt is sending me, yasss girl lmao
You honestly should never get in deep in a thankless career that beats you down, only one life in this body and I applaud you
Girrlll I’m in school now I only have 4 months left in this program…made it this far and now I’m like do I really want to do this?? I’m already considering the best schedule for me so I don’t have to deal with with all the drama!!! I do CNA work now and I was also a pharmacy tech and for me I love working with the patients/ customers the Nurses and Pharmacists don’t have that same vibe or they have so much documenting to do that they don’t get the chance to spend that extra time if I could focus on the patient and not have to do clerical work it would be really nice!
You’re such a kind and beautiful soul! I relate to you on so many levels like you don’t even understand!!! Especially with what you were saying about how you are in work environments omg that is me to the tea girl! Hopefully we can make content together in the future cause I’m on the West Coast as well from the Bay! I love your personality and character so much, it’s too likeminded!! ❤️❤️💕💕
Oh My God this was so on point. Love this video. I have been a bedside nurse for over 10 years and I am still anxious going into work. I am still dealing with rude patients and rude family. Oh My God your confrontation with your nurse manager I was laughing 😂
I work 12 hr night shifts right now as a nurse it is hard on the body no doubt. Nursing with kids I agree with u oofta for those that do. I do think pay is good though but it depends on the state some states have terrible pay it's not worth it at all I would agree.
Thanks for this video Kelsey! I wanted to go for nursing but you opened my eyes thank you! ❤
watching this got me ready to quit my job tomorrow lol. ive worked overnight for the past 6 years, and like kelsey said if i died today they would replace me tomorrow.
Thank you doing this video after I asked in one of ur other vids if you could talk about why you chose to not continue ur nursing job. I’m shocked when you said you got paid 32/ hr! I liked how you said things will happen the way they supposed to. At least you stopped early in ur career instead of continuously torching urself
Your energy and vibes are immaculate. Best wishes in whatever you wish to do !
Bruh can I be friends with you in real life 😂😂💯💯 I felt this in my soul and plus you are cracking me up.
I like you cause you make your own decisions and take a risk
Talking about lifting.. Your knees eventually give out, along with your back. Semi-retired RN here..
The one thing that I don't like about nursing is the bullying!
I’ve been STNA for 13 years 7/11 & I am trying so hard to get out. It’s soo bad on my mental health lately I have been working less and less trying to phase out. The coworkers were the worst & the residents think ur their personal slave. I’ve never cried cuz I’m use to being mistreated but yea this is the end of the nursing road for me.
congrats on your success! cant wait to see what 2024 has in store for you!
I went to Pima to move up from caregiving to medical assistant and I hated it the place I worked was so stuffy and full of rude people tried to apply many other places and they all tried to pay me 3-5 dollars less even though my background was pretty versatile as a caregiver working many different places and already had a lot of knowledge in ‘healthcare’. Im back to 1on1 caregiving and I love it and feel like I get to add more value to my patients lives while getting paid better.
You have such a positive outlook on so many things...and it's awesome 💛💛
You a sav doing corrections nursing. You look hella happier now and looking way better from those pics. Working in a toxic environment is not the business once you dread going to work that’s when you know it’s time to bounce.
i love your videos so much Kelsey they are hella relaxing and real af
you're trending girl. go all in.
This talk is so real. I appreciate you and your content. Keep doing you and the rest is history
I got laid off two weeks ago. I think it’s a blessing. I’ve had anxiety and numbness in my hands off and on for 25 yrs. To subject myself to emotional and physical harm daily by the patients alone is too much
i cant explain how much i love you ur videos are literary the best watching them just makes my day ❤
thank you for being here💕💕💕💕
Yessss girl 🎉🎉 been waiting on this ❤ congrats on all of your success and more!
tysm girl 🥹💕💕
Being a hospital nurse seems hectic, but my cousin is a nurse at the VA and she loves working with the veterans..she also makes close to 100k.
this video is so real, thanks for sharing
I went to school to become a CNA. I heard the pay is good but idk. 😭 I wanted to get the certifications as a back-up plan. The medical field is tough.
I use to work at warehouse too, working 12 hours. Even on the days off, there is errands to be done. Bills gotta be paid. Ugh. 🥲
Im proud of you for choosing what your heart desires,freedom and peace ❤️
I had no idea you were a nurse!!! Omg i love you
i’m so happy that you found your passion in social media. You should do a TH-cam video on why you wanted to start Mukbang and how you started!
I just love your honesty .. wishing you all the best in life ❤🥰😍
i really needed to hear this, thanks so much for sharing kelsey ❤️❤️❤️
Maybe this is a sign for me, I’ve been contemplating for a long time even if I should continue with nursing even though I love what I think this path could be for me. But the lack of motivation and the mental strain pushes me back. Also smoking helps with my stress and it’s enjoyable. It’s too much pressure for being young and not doing the things I want to enjoy. Maybe one day I’ll cross that path again but I’m taking this as my sign ❤
aye yo i felt this..i used to work for an equipment company and i used to have to be on call at night to deal with hospice patients and RNs to deliver and set up specially equipment bariatric equipment and Oxygen and all types of ish I can’t imagine being a RN during all that..i got out of that ish too 😂
Omg…. Why is it that you are super relatable right now? You have no idea how deeply I feel about all that stated in this video right now… Idk how or why but GOD had me stumble across your video for a reason. ❤
I loooveee cgi mondaze 😍 Love that you are who you are!! It’s a real struggle out here and we’re all just trying to get by.!
I literally just started watching you i love your whole life literally i love your vibe your personality you're so beautiful and i see you being so successful in life i wish you the best love definitely got a new subscriber ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Girl, I love you and your videos so much. Honestly, there is not a day that goes by that I do not watch your videos. I also always watch your videos while eating. But girl, you should stop smoking because it's bad for your health. Not hating on you, I just care about you. Sending Love ❤
love your mindset!! keep doing you boo q&a next pls!
Girl... i just got my license in March of this year and to be honest.... 5 years max. I heard how brutal it was but I learn the hard way. Im thinking of either doing another medical specialty or going into IT. Let me know if any of you girlies went it dental hygiene, X-ray tech, ultrasound techs,
LMAO the power of weed. Makes you forget but also remember
Being in the medical field can be stressful. It makes the job not fun at all, especially if you're dealing with so much negative energy. Nurses should get more time with family and friends, not working 12 hours every day and they should increase the pay as well. There are many jobs out there and many things you could do.
If u do not enjoy your job it’s no good. That’s good that u quit, no good being miserable.
Hospitals give me anxiety like whenever I had to work I felt my stomach drop 😂
I recently just found your page and I love your personality! Great video.
As a former government I agree 100 percent! I worked at a government hospital literally the worse job I’ve ever had! To add insult to injury when snow storms happened we had to use our PTO! I lasted 10 months life is too short. ❤ Be happy!
Youre amazing I love your videos def one of my new favorite TH-camrs🩷
How long did you study to become a nurse? What kind of nurse were you?
I worked in aged care. (Weekend Overnights by choice.) I got injured on the job one shift due to having an AIN flat out refuse to help with manual handling. (Resulted in bursitis.) I was denied work cover and I was abused by other workers when I had come in for a light duty shift. (All because I couldn't manually handle or I couldn't operate the hoists etc.) Nights were fine for me. (I picked a night shift to avoid all the bullying in the toxic workplace culture.... Mostly... There were people who in the early mornings that excused me of being lazy.. (because they didn't like morning shifts... Which is not my problem. Don't pick morning shifts if you don't like them etc... and don't accuse people who work nights of doing nothing...
I've had to ring the paramedics because I've had two residents who were very sick and I knew that if anything were to go very wrong? I would be blamed legally... No.. I wasn't going to risk it. I would have managers, co workers, etc who would try to get me to give medications. No way.... I told them to get stuffed. It was out of my scope of practice and I did not sign up for extra responsibility for fuck nothing extra pay/security etc. I was not going to go to jail for accidentally giving the wrong medication or the wrong medication dosage when I was already under stress.
I went on placement when I was doing my ens... I refuse to give medication because we hadn't done such in our training.... And then? The RN in charge reported to the facilitator of the aged care facility and accused me of not performing vital observations and BGLs.... I had previous aged care experience of course so I was not at all afraid to stand up for myself and stayed the legal facts of what students was able to do... And more importantly? What we weren't legally able to do. Then the facilitator had the nerve to say to me that I have to be put on a behaviour plan 3 days out from finishing my placement that said facility!!! (when my education company found out what was going on? they were appalled.) they also were using the CCTV cameras to spy on us students.... They accused me of being on my phone too much yet half the time? I was gravitating towards my phone because I didn't have supervision...! The enrolled nurses and the registered nurses were all seemingly too busy to help us EN students...! There was hardly any sense of direction from them.. you would have to be on to them over and over and over again if there was anything that you could do or what you were supposed to do etc. I never ever ever refused to do BGL's or vital Observations.. I had my logbook to prove it. (Which would go back to the educational institution where I was training to become an EN.)
Quitting nursing for me was very very sad. I basically said I didn't fail. the system failed me. I tried in 3 or 4 separate aged care facilities .. I gave it my best shot... And realised pretty early that no one would care for the carer.. and we were again expendable... And I deserve better than that... I am now planning to start my own art business and take commissions for people for some form of income... But more importantly? Art is therapeutic.. and who knows? Maybe I can combine my love of art into art therapy for aged care residents..
I look at nursing now as an occupation I will never go back into until it comes time to look after my parents. (I am an only child and so I want to be able to look after my parents for as long as possible within their own home and well into when they are put in aged care etc.)
I was the same as you. I felt that helping people was going to give me a sense of positive purpose.. even though nursing and medicine & general is emotionally charged. I was prepared for that.. I was prepared for deaths and emergencies , behaviours of concern and everything in between.... But to have residents actually have to defend me from toxic nurses?? That was what convinced me that this job was not suitable for me anymore... And there was no reason why I should keep suffering because of it.
I am the happiest I've ever been making art and making cosplay costumes.. I'm learning how to 3D print which is no easy task! I have also said that healthcare is a whole will flatline..... And at least if that ever happens? I can then have the skills to look after my own parents and know what I need to do for them.. 😔
I wish you all the best in your journey.
Yeah the way that job made you feel, you definitely didn’t belong there. So glad you put yourself first!
thank you so much for sharing this, i relate with everything you’ve sayin
girl how do you air it. out since you smoke in your room? thats always an issue for us
Hi! Did you do the LVN or RN? And what do you do now for a living?
I am really tired of people being mistreated so much in a work environment. Not being given proper time off for a minimum of 2 days in a row! Why is that so much to ask for!? This is a major reason why employees become irtitable and quit. A person should not just work all the time like a mule being under-paid without being able to recharge and enjoy their lives. And yeah people need to stop bringing their bitchiness to work! This is the reason I am self-employed or do independent contractor work. A bunch of weirdos in these work places and what makes it worse is these people know your legal name, phone number, residential address--nerve racking to me. People do not realize what they are subjected to dealing with the general public often. I went through men being aggressive toward me in the work-place for not responding to their advances like they are entitled to it! People just freak me out.
2024 will be a great year for you Kel. Congrats for doing what you feel is right for you!
Eating pho while watching this 20 min video I’m so happy I love the long ones & dude this is very inspiring to follow a dream and just go for it proud of u ❤
My name is kelsy. I am 2 mos into my PN and I can't. I can't do it. I fail tests not the hw. I cannot handle more fialed tests. And you can't redo 1 class you have tor apply.
"omg like my physical health was deteriorating!" while you keep puffing smoke LOL
agreed, respectfully someone that smokes should not be a HEALTH care provider
Yall are ignorant, smoking anything isn't good for you but there's chemicals that cause cancer in the water you drink/bathe in. Are you about to say anyone who drinks water shouldn't be a HEALTH care provider?
Been watching yr vids gurl..thanks for sharin