Japanese culture always has this so called “fear of bothering others”, i mean it’s good because they care for people but also in my opinion sometimes it’s too harsh for themselves to contain their emotions(maybe sometimes I just want to hug my boyfriend in the airport because of long time no see)
Actually in Japan they don't hold hands in public but they just kiss in the train lol. When i lived in Japan many young couples were kissing on the train and acting very touchy, i'm an european so i felt like home lol
I've lived in different cities of Japan for about a total of two years now. From my experience, I'd say couples kissing on a train is an extremely rare scene in Japan, and recently it's become even unlikelier to see people getting touchy in public due to coronavirus.
You talking about love motels made me smile. In the 70's I got a job working in France as a young naïve man. My company put me up in ta 4/5 star hotel for my first week. It was to expensive for me to stay in so I looked for a cheap hotel. I found one and moved in on a Friday night, When I registered they asked me "How many hours I wanted to stay?" My French was pretty bad and I thought I'd misheard them I just said "for three days". They looked at me a bit oddly but they said Ok. I moved in and then went out for a few beers. Came back late and fell asleep. But woke up almost immediately to a very noisy banging going on that sounded like about 20 people jumping up and down on a bed with metal springs. I thought what the hells that! Eventually the noise subsided and I got off to sleep. The following day I didn't have to go to work so I'm lying in bed when suddenly there's a lot of shouting in the street I thought what's going on now? So I opened my window and leaned out. Only to see about 8 women leaning out beckoning and shouting to their "Customers" who were lined up on the pavement opposite. It finally dawned on me that I'd booked into a Brothel!! I must say though the staff were very kind to me and the breakfasts were excellent.
I was waiting for Kotoha and the Love Hotels thing cuz Japan has a lot and with different themes, really mind opening about it. Thank you girls, it's really nice to know more from each culture
I enjoyed this interesting discussion, on a side a remember seeing a report pre-Covid19 saying that here in Australia, which at that time had a lot of tertiary level international students the health insurer for these international students, who mainly come from Asia had seen a significant rise in pregnancy related health insurance claims over the last couple of years.
Interesting. it shows a lack at sex education due to the conservative societies maybe? here in Brazil we have kind of a poor education system and even if our society is more on the liberal side, the teen pregnancy rate is really high 'cause we don't get enough effective sex ed.
I've always thought that Japan wasn't that conservative. If you look closer, it's kind of a different perspective of many things, it might be because they've got some references from our side. Indeed, it's pretty interesting anyways. Maybe we should try to get some of the asian culture, there are lots of useful and respectful things we can learn about them!
@@maegalroammis6020 About the sexuality in Japan, I've found it's quite a weird duality between the respect and that feeling of tiredness that they feel because of the conservative decisions they're supposed to take in this specific context, leading to some cases in which it's pretty close to our way of love. It seems it will change because their population is very old and the government is taking that in consideration. Nevertheless, as I see it, we've got to live that in Japan to judge. They must have their reasons and that doesn't mean our opinions worth much more than theirs. It's a different perspective and absolutely valid, as I said.
It seems the Chinese girl has not been living in China for a while. In major cities sex shops are often seen showing and advertising some of the items they sell ( sex toys, costume and so forth). I'd guess China might be a little more open than S-Korea, while the sex industry is much less (almost not at all?) developed than in Japan.
@@evelinafrancis882 I think a conservative society doesn't necessarily have to do with being liberal or not about selling sex. They have a really strict content control policy but it doesn't mean they think of sex as something wrong... Porn is a really complicated topic for me and I'm not a conservative person
Koreans are extremely (in my opinion) open about public displays of affection. Like hugging, and holding hands, holding each other, etc and just being all lovey dovey in public (but not kissing). Strangely it’s more so than I ever see in America.
@Karl with a K 62% ? You joken. So where are the Irish? English? Portuguese? Italians? Chineses? 62% become from German. It's German's words? I laugh so hard. Thanks. Half of US are Germans. 😂😂😂
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
Okay I’ve never heard a Korean woman talk to sweetly like that korean lady. Usually (especially idols) voices are quite low and purposely make their voice higher in front of the camera. However, her voice is naturally so adorable.
I think Korea is actually much more similar to America than to Japan in this regard. I think the Chinese girl knows very little about Japan based on the percentage she gave, but I hope it stays that way 💀
@Damacki Dragnis Japan is not more puritan than America or Europe. It has its own puritan views, but many are different from western countries. The Japanese girl said it would be weird to hold hands in public in Japan, so I assume Japan is very modest in displaying romantic affection relative to western countries such as US or Western European countries. Privately, I don't think there exists a concept of modesty. Most Japanese don't believe in an Abrahamic religion.
@Damacki Dragnis I don't really think of this as a concept of hypocrisy, but okay. Japan has always had a "keep it to yourself" culture yet without most of the influence from Christianity. -Trust me when I say it's easier to be shunned/considered an outcast by society in Japan than in the US or Europe.- Countries like Taiwan also seems to be pretty open when it comes to the sex industry, but Taiwanese people still have a lot more Confucian values than Japan due to Chinese culture. South Korea might seem like a good candidate but they're actually pretty hardcore about their Confucian values, plus they have the most Christians in East Asia. So basically no Asian country is comparable to Japan. Everything in Japan just seems to check out for the p0rn industry to thrive.
@Damacki Dragnis I think if they are open to the sex industry, then they technically are also open to sex affairs. Love hotels are popular spots for one night stands. Those are technically sex affairs. Funny that you bring up the robotic culture. I do feel a sense of societal conformity from Asian cultures in general which I don't feel as much from western countries. But that doesn't necessarily negate/conflict with the interest of sex, I don't think.
@Damacki Dragnis Yea, but birthrate is barely a part of the sex culture. That's mostly just settling down and starting a family, which many people feel like they're not ready for the commitment due to their lifestyle. Maybe the cause is something related to this "robotic culture" as you say. I do think Japan/Tokyo has more of this kind of thing going on with them than any other countries (second place is likely South Korea/Seoul, but I feel Koreans are generally more optimistic, fast-paced oriented, less non-confrontational, and less adverse to change). A mundane city life of non-stop work can drain a person from inside out.
Come to Europe and you will know what's open sex culture. LOL. It's just a comment, not a real invitation for the girls (just in case somebody get offended).
Yes Europe and USA are really open about these things , maybe even too open about it , it sometimes makes me uncomfortable, I can't be the only one right?
@@Fizzing-Amperage I think in Europe we have more countries which are rather the opposite of conservative than the actual real conservatives... I mean of course, there are countries like hungary who became more conservative due to recent politics, but that is of course no reflection of the general public's attitude rather than of one person, but Germany, France, Spain, Italy etc are suuuper open about literally everything 😂
Wow, really? Here in Philippines, hugging, kissing, holding hands outside is sooo normal for us, we're all very high touch because of our hispanic roots (beso, mano) yet we cannot "live in" outside marriage because other people will think our parents "failed in raising us" or we are "rebellious against the Catholic church" 🤣🤣 so now I'm 26 and as long as I am not married I cannot escape lol. A lot of couples are modern yet it's still frowned upon. It is custom that man should always court the woman with her parents so to show respect and you are not "playing with our daughter's feelings" Oh and you must stay a virgin before marriage 🤣🤣 even if a lot are having premarital sex anyway 🤷♀️
Is this any coincidence cus i don't see anything different here in india as well 😂 Also if you haven't written "here in philippines " i would've naturally guessed you're an indian from northeast region judging by the repeatability of you're experience lol
@@ellaofficiel lol... I'm from a orthodox christian family and losing virginity before marriage is the last think my family wants to hear from me let alone love marriage 🤪😂 But now things are getting loosen up ie love marriage is now acceptable to my family.... but one one condition, have a white collar job with high end salary and they'll grant permission 😂💀
Are you saying you stayed at one with your significant other or that you used one as a substitute for a regular hotel? Because it would be kind of hard, if not impossible, to use a love hotel in Japan as a place to stay as a traveler. This is because, although you can rent them for a whole night, you are not allowed to stay more than one night. In fact, I stayed a night at one in Shibuya once with my Japanese girlfriend at the time and they would not even let us leave to go get something to eat in the middle of the night. Love hotel rooms in Japan are larger and nicer and much less expensive than regular hotel rooms so everyone would use them to stay in while traveling to Japan if they could, but you can’t. I suppose if you were traveling with a companion you could just move to a new love hotel every night and just keep the bulk of your luggage in a locker at the train station. That seems like more trouble than its worth though
@@SLOBeachboy Nope, I stayed by myself. It was only for 3 nights, but I was allowed to stay there all three nights. I believe love motels in Korea are paid for by the hour, but I could be wrong on that. Honestly, though, it's not a fun place to stay. People aren't normally coming to sleep, so they're located in relatively noisy areas. I was right next to a noraebang (Karaoke rooms) and I had the pleasure of listening to people sing very loudly and off key into the early morning hours. At least they blocked out the sounds of the couples on the other side of my walls...
@@NsTheName Yeah, it sounds like your stay was not all that pleasant. As for me I actually stayed at these places in Japan on more than a few occasion before finally getting my own apartment and luckily they were all in pretty nice areas that were clean and quiet. And we never heard any noise from other rooms - singing or otherwise. But the thing I really liked about these rooms was the large bathrooms and large bathtubs. I stayed in one with a tub made out of river rocks and because it was also surrounded by tropical plants it kind of felt like bathing in the woods. It really boggles the mind how many different unique and varied styles of rooms there are in these places.
@@SLOBeachboy That sounds like such an amazing bathroom! I want my bathroom covered in plants, haha. I think some love motels have themes, but the one I stayed in was simple. Nothing special at all, haha.
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
I see so many people commenting on the Japanese girl or the korean girl and their cultures. From the comment section alone, you can really see that China is not as popular as the other 2; which is too bad, since China is so interesting as a country.
Thank you for your perspectives!! It is a lot of fun to listen to you talk about these three very close, very different cultures! (I lived in China for half of 1996, and follow Kpop pretty closely, Japan... I am learning about!) I think I have to subscribe.... ok, you win!!
Would be great to have a video about sexual education in Korea, Japan and China ! This is a matter that is very important and I feel that there is less awareness there about it.
@@lerigoureux6474what? It's incredibly important. That's the most effective measure to prevent a spread from STDs and unwanted pregnancies. How is that not important
@@siali8683 Is there an STD epidemic over there ? Why not, could it be because people over there aren’t clueless about the topic ? Do you think it’s important to teach about sex when the people being taught have already been doing well ? It’s not very important and one might even accidentally just spread western considerations of sex, which are simply not the culture of Asian countries.
I grew up thinking Japanese, Chinese and Koreans hated each other but its SO INCREDIBLY COOL to see them just happy e a casually talking to each other, no hate at all, just enjoying a nice conversation
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
i know chinese , korean, and japanese characters are similar and sometimes derived from some form of chinese. is it the same for the spoken language? for example, im central american, and i can communicate with mexicans, hondurans, guatemalans, spaniards, and i can somewhat understand portuguese and italian etc. because the languages are latin based. some of the words are different though, like my people say pajilla (drinking straw) but mexicans say popote, i say sorbete (ice cream) where as mexicans say nieve (nieve to me is snow). so were these women speaking their native language and were easily able to communicate in that same sense? btw the korean woman is extremely gorgeous, all of them are very pretty but she stood out imo. so many culures in the word, so many differences!
Japanese and Korean both have some words that are derived from Chinese pronunciation. But other than that, they're not mutually intelligible like latin-origin language.
Por si a alguien le interesa saber como somos en Argentina con respecto a este tema, los besos, abrazos, agarrarse de las manos es lo más normal del mundo, donde sea que vayas vas a ver a alguien haciendo estas cosas sin arrepentimientos y a la gente de alrededor no le molesta en su mayoría (a mi me da mucha pena ver porque soy muy vergonzosa, puede pasarle a otros también). El tema del sexo no es un tabú tampoco y siempre estamos jodiendo y haciendo chistes con doble sentido. Los hoteles y moteles podría decirse que son cosas 'distintas' porque el motel normalmente lo usamos para ya saben que (aunque puede haber alguien que realmente lo use de parada y para descansar únicamente). Con el tema de la convivencia tampoco hay mucho drama, si te querés casar lo haces, si querés vivir y/o tener hijos sin casarte o pensar en ello está bien también (obvio no van a faltar quienes te pregunten, usualmente personas muy mayores con ese pensamiento antiguo de que el matrimonio lo es todo). En fin, somos bastaaaaaante liberales en este tema y es algo que me re gusta porque si bien no vas a andar gritando a los cuatro vientos lo que haces con tu vida, tenés la libertad de elegir lo que querés para vos, sin nadie que te esté mirando mal.
I remember here in Australia we had a tv channel that used to show Vs Arashi, which I used to really like watching, plus they also showed the original Japanese version of Ninja Warrior and Iron Chef....PS...I believe the Japanese refer to them as 'Pink' videos not P..n videos...Whereas in Australia in the past they referred to this sort thing as a 'Blue' movie.
@Honey That’s mostly folklore. People only hear about the weird shows because they’re more interesting to prurient interests. But Japanese TV shows are mostly just like everywhere else. Also, Takeshi’s Castle ended about 32 years ago and people still use that as an example of Japanese television.
Japan: kinky with a lot of strange and rigid social rules. Korean: sanctimony and boring China: pragmatic. Chinese girl seems to me most open minded like the rest. She doesn't showed any shame talink about sex; korean girl was like "ned flanders sister"
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no westerners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
8:30, In my country from philippines. To answer your question: there are few themed room in motel here in the philippines. We have ever seen many premium hotels 7:58 like what Kotoha said recently.
From my impression in the US, you're allowed to do it publicly only in certain places, otherwise you're not even allowed to discuss it around both M/F in public unless it's strictly theoretical.
Living in Bangkok, when a sex-related conversation comes up in an international group - among the 4 nationalities, some Korean girls (not guys) tend to leave or become offended at the mention of the word sex, as the Thai, Japanese, and Chinese people continue the conversation~
I remember about 12 years ago in Korea, you can see lots of nudity on cable TV. Now, things are getting more and more censored. Krusty on the Simpsons has to even have his cigarette blurred out.
open-minded because you show your feelings and love towards your gf/bf even in public. there is nothing wrong about it. and a kiss, hugging or holding hands is not really considered a "intime thing". it´s just showing affection. so yes, younger generations are more open about the idea to show this kind of things and feelings in public too.
I know Japanese TV shows.. I never thougt that a country with shows like this is more conservative about kissing in public etc than the average European country. In most European countries it is normal to live together with someone without wanting to marry (even children without marriage aren't an uncommon thing. Thanks for the video
@@imogen07 that's a good point. China is such a BIG country. Brazil is continental too and we have literally 20+ regions with different cultures but people tend to only look at the Southeast (Rio de Janeiro, São Paulo) one as the whole brazillian culture. China probably has different ones too depending on the provice
Japan is definitely correct when it comes to love hotels. Not saying it is for the non mature group, but it also teaches people about sex and where to go. They teach freedom and independence towards it. In sexual activities the more you try to keep it in, the more silly thoughts and actions in public places come about.
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
Koreans have many known places for "hook-ups" - motels, DVD rooms, singing rooms. What shocked me was the amount of conspicuous "happy" massage parlors and brothels. As I'm typing right now, there are a half dozen brothels around my neighborhood, in the vicinity of elementary schools and families with kids just walking about. They have their doors open in the evening to lure customers, and you can catch a glimpse passing by. Yikes. I don't know how they operate in times of COVID.
As an American it seems like almost all Asian cultures are a lot more conservative in their traditional culture, but they are learning bad things from America. I'm a bit on the conservative side for America and am a little ashamed at the bad lessons we are teaching other nations. From what I've heard many American films have to be severely edited in order to to seen in many Asian countries.
I don't understand well how Japan is an open-minded country (which I think it is) but couples don't kiss in public OR EVEN hold hands, but on the other hand they can have sex in "public"/shared spaces like public bathrooms or under the bridge like what? It's difficult to understand
i wish the west was more conservative lol. they add censored sex scenes to alot of movies. the kissing is a bit much if they don’t just kiss and get to sex hahahah
I think the Japanese girl hasn't see many recent Japanese dramas because I saw one R-15 one and there was sexual scenes in it just like any Western drama. Japanese has many dramas with sexual themes and sex scenes,they are not conservative about it.
Japanese culture always has this so called “fear of bothering others”, i mean it’s good because they care for people but also in my opinion sometimes it’s too harsh for themselves to contain their emotions(maybe sometimes I just want to hug my boyfriend in the airport because of long time no see)
@Damacki Dragnis ないす
@Damacki Dragnis they said “Naisu”
@@ADeeSHUPA 「ないす」じゃあないです。「ナイス」です
@@cassiadsouza709 for aesthetics
@@ADeeSHUPA hm understandable😂
I died when Kotoha said Japan's sex culture is known all over the world, talk about hentai anyway. Lol.
Nah Japan has a pretty horny culture. Ironically.
@@bluBlaq33 lmfao right, the irony. It kills me😭
Love hotels are pretty popular in Japan but no pikachu’s aloud with is bullshit lol
@Waldel Martell lol I know:)
@Waldel Martell U mean Japanese Joins Valorant?
Actually in Japan they don't hold hands in public but they just kiss in the train lol. When i lived in Japan many young couples were kissing on the train and acting very touchy, i'm an european so i felt like home lol
They kiss in train station as well 🤣🤣
I've lived in different cities of Japan for about a total of two years now. From my experience, I'd say couples kissing on a train is an extremely rare scene in Japan, and recently it's become even unlikelier to see people getting touchy in public due to coronavirus.
5 years in japan (Osaka) and I have never seen a couple kissing... anywhere haha.
@@cezinfante4928 maybe you should be the one to do that for them to see. 😂😂😂
i've never seen japanese kisssing in train in last 25 years
適当なこと言うなよ笑 ２５年住んでるけえど全然見たことないわ！！
You talking about love motels made me smile. In the 70's I got a job working in France as a young naïve man. My company put me up in ta 4/5 star hotel for my first week.
It was to expensive for me to stay in so I looked for a cheap hotel.
I found one and moved in on a Friday night, When I registered they asked me "How many hours I wanted to stay?" My French was pretty bad and I thought I'd misheard them I just said "for three days". They looked at me a bit oddly but they said Ok.
I moved in and then went out for a few beers. Came back late and fell asleep. But woke up almost immediately to a very noisy banging going on that sounded like about 20 people jumping up and down on a bed with metal springs. I thought what the hells that! Eventually the noise subsided and I got off to sleep.
The following day I didn't have to go to work so I'm lying in bed when suddenly there's a lot of shouting in the street I thought what's going on now? So I opened my window and leaned out. Only to see about 8 women leaning out beckoning and shouting to their "Customers" who were lined up on the pavement opposite.
It finally dawned on me that I'd booked into a Brothel!!
I must say though the staff were very kind to me and the breakfasts were excellent.
ty for sharing 😂
That is hilarious 😂
🤣 thank you. I needed a good laugh
That was a interesting read, thanks for the story
what a story that is
Kotoha’s introduction is so adorable. 🥺
she looks superficial
she doesn't lmook genuine at all.
i love how these three girls kinda became good friends from doing this it looks like 😂 i love the chemistry between the 3
no they're just polite
that friendship looks fake, not genuine.
I live in China and there’s nothing conservative here couple kiss every where they hug and they don’t feel shy at all crowded places or not
U are from China or u are just living there?
Live in China, and have access to TH-cam? When I was there, you couldn't get it
@@tenfeetwanderers774 gotta have a VPN
I live in China too and I think the PDA here is more serious than anywhere else I’ve ever been
Dude same.When she said China is conservative,I was like which country am I living in😅
From what I see they are pretty open minded
I was waiting for Kotoha and the Love Hotels thing cuz Japan has a lot and with different themes, really mind opening about it. Thank you girls, it's really nice to know more from each culture
I enjoyed this interesting discussion, on a side a remember seeing a report pre-Covid19 saying that here in Australia, which at that time had a lot of tertiary level international students the health insurer for these international students, who mainly come from Asia had seen a significant rise in pregnancy related health insurance claims over the last couple of years.
Interesting. it shows a lack at sex education due to the conservative societies maybe? here in Brazil we have kind of a poor education system and even if our society is more on the liberal side, the teen pregnancy rate is really high 'cause we don't get enough effective sex ed.
jane's cuuute, everyone is so lovely🙈love u guys
I think in terms of PDA openness it should be China>Korea>Japan...the younger generation kiss/hold hands/hug in public
I just love hearing Kotoha speak Korean with a Japanese accent ❤️
In India the most PDA is just holding hands and some people don't even hold hands in public
Holding hands is quite common in cities no? Maybe not as much in smaller towns. Definitely not in rural areas lol.
As well srilanka
Parks in Delhi be like : 😏
I've always thought that Japan wasn't that conservative. If you look closer, it's kind of a different perspective of many things, it might be because they've got some references from our side. Indeed, it's pretty interesting anyways.
Maybe we should try to get some of the asian culture, there are lots of useful and respectful things we can learn about them!
They can be quite conservative depending on what the situation is.
True too much PDA is bothersome
@@zuhasajid900 I agree. And iam American.
it depends, many japnese prefer the sexual things in their universe than for real
@@maegalroammis6020 About the sexuality in Japan, I've found it's quite a weird duality between the respect and that feeling of tiredness that they feel because of the conservative decisions they're supposed to take in this specific context, leading to some cases in which it's pretty close to our way of love. It seems it will change because their population is very old and the government is taking that in consideration.
Nevertheless, as I see it, we've got to live that in Japan to judge. They must have their reasons and that doesn't mean our opinions worth much more than theirs. It's a different perspective and absolutely valid, as I said.
It seems the Chinese girl has not been living in China for a while. In major cities sex shops are often seen showing and advertising some of the items they sell ( sex toys, costume and so forth). I'd guess China might be a little more open than S-Korea, while the sex industry is much less (almost not at all?) developed than in Japan.
I have a feeling that people tend to think China is more conservative than it actually is... Maybe because of political reasons.
China is conservative like all the porn sites are banned there actually
@@evelinafrancis882 I think a conservative society doesn't necessarily have to do with being liberal or not about selling sex. They have a really strict content control policy but it doesn't mean they think of sex as something wrong... Porn is a really complicated topic for me and I'm not a conservative person
@@evelinafrancis882 porn is illegal in S-Korea and China. But people still watch and produce amateur porn in both country.
@Jenete j i think she said before that she grew up in the rural regions of china, which is far more conservative than the cities
Koreans are extremely (in my opinion) open about public displays of affection. Like hugging, and holding hands, holding each other, etc and just being all lovey dovey in public (but not kissing). Strangely it’s more so than I ever see in America.
In the US everything is always in extremes, nothing is in the middle, they either don't show any affection or they outright have sex in public
@@ridgefrost Uh, I have to strongly disagree.
@Karl with a K 62% ? You joken. So where are the Irish? English? Portuguese? Italians? Chineses? 62% become from German. It's German's words?
I laugh so hard. Thanks. Half of US are Germans. 😂😂😂
koreans>>>>americans & japanese
Kotoha's Intro's are always so cute I can't
she's not
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
@@maegalroammis6020 same comment
Okay I’ve never heard a Korean woman talk to sweetly like that korean lady. Usually (especially idols) voices are quite low and purposely make their voice higher in front of the camera. However, her voice is naturally so adorable.
All three girls are so lovely, adorable and charmin, interesting video, greetings.
I live in Japan but the sex culture in Japan is really extreme lol I sometimes think it’s as open as in the US and I’m not kidding
I think Korea is actually much more similar to America than to Japan in this regard.
I think the Chinese girl knows very little about Japan based on the percentage she gave, but I hope it stays that way 💀
@Damacki Dragnis Japan is not more puritan than America or Europe. It has its own puritan views, but many are different from western countries.
The Japanese girl said it would be weird to hold hands in public in Japan, so I assume Japan is very modest in displaying romantic affection relative to western countries such as US or Western European countries.
Privately, I don't think there exists a concept of modesty. Most Japanese don't believe in an Abrahamic religion.
@Damacki Dragnis I don't really think of this as a concept of hypocrisy, but okay.
Japan has always had a "keep it to yourself" culture yet without most of the influence from Christianity.
-Trust me when I say it's easier to be shunned/considered an outcast by society in Japan than in the US or Europe.-
Countries like Taiwan also seems to be pretty open when it comes to the sex industry, but Taiwanese people still have a lot more Confucian values than Japan due to Chinese culture. South Korea might seem like a good candidate but they're actually pretty hardcore about their Confucian values, plus they have the most Christians in East Asia. So basically no Asian country is comparable to Japan. Everything in Japan just seems to check out for the p0rn industry to thrive.
@Damacki Dragnis
I think if they are open to the sex industry, then they technically are also open to sex affairs. Love hotels are popular spots for one night stands. Those are technically sex affairs.
Funny that you bring up the robotic culture. I do feel a sense of societal conformity from Asian cultures in general which I don't feel as much from western countries. But that doesn't necessarily negate/conflict with the interest of sex, I don't think.
@Damacki Dragnis Yea, but birthrate is barely a part of the sex culture. That's mostly just settling down and starting a family, which many people feel like they're not ready for the commitment due to their lifestyle. Maybe the cause is something related to this "robotic culture" as you say. I do think Japan/Tokyo has more of this kind of thing going on with them than any other countries (second place is likely South Korea/Seoul, but I feel Koreans are generally more optimistic, fast-paced oriented, less non-confrontational, and less adverse to change). A mundane city life of non-stop work can drain a person from inside out.
Come to Europe and you will know what's open sex culture. LOL. It's just a comment, not a real invitation for the girls (just in case somebody get offended).
Yes Europe and USA are really open about these things , maybe even too open about it , it sometimes makes me uncomfortable, I can't be the only one right?
@@atousamas7232 yeah there's a lot of animals if you get it
@@Fizzing-Amperage I think in Europe we have more countries which are rather the opposite of conservative than the actual real conservatives... I mean of course, there are countries like hungary who became more conservative due to recent politics, but that is of course no reflection of the general public's attitude rather than of one person, but Germany, France, Spain, Italy etc are suuuper open about literally everything 😂
@@janefoster8707 I'm pretty sure Scandinavian countries are way more open about sex than any other place on the planet.
And Latin america
Wow, really? Here in Philippines, hugging, kissing, holding hands outside is sooo normal for us, we're all very high touch because of our hispanic roots (beso, mano) yet we cannot "live in" outside marriage because other people will think our parents "failed in raising us" or we are "rebellious against the Catholic church" 🤣🤣 so now I'm 26 and as long as I am not married I cannot escape lol. A lot of couples are modern yet it's still frowned upon. It is custom that man should always court the woman with her parents so to show respect and you are not "playing with our daughter's feelings"
Oh and you must stay a virgin before marriage 🤣🤣 even if a lot are having premarital sex anyway 🤷♀️
Is this any coincidence cus i don't see anything different here in india as well 😂
Also if you haven't written "here in philippines " i would've naturally guessed you're an indian from northeast region judging by the repeatability of you're experience lol
@@jinujoju8183 awww we both live in such religious, hypocrite society then 🤣🤷♀️🤦♀️
@@ellaofficiel lol... I'm from a orthodox christian family and losing virginity before marriage is the last think my family wants to hear from me let alone love marriage 🤪😂
But now things are getting loosen up ie love marriage is now acceptable to my family.... but one one condition, have a white collar job with high end salary and they'll grant permission 😂💀
@@jinujoju8183 oh my god!! 🤣🤣🤣
@@jinujoju8183 true the last line is perfect accurate I am not a Christian but I can agree with you
I stayed in a love motel when I first moved to Korea, lol. I knew what it was, but didn't care. My job was paying for it. Haha
Are you saying you stayed at one with your significant other or that you used one as a substitute for a regular hotel? Because it would be kind of hard, if not impossible, to use a love hotel in Japan as a place to stay as a traveler. This is because, although you can rent them for a whole night, you are not allowed to stay more than one night. In fact, I stayed a night at one in Shibuya once with my Japanese girlfriend at the time and they would not even let us leave to go get something to eat in the middle of the night. Love hotel rooms in Japan are larger and nicer and much less expensive than regular hotel rooms so everyone would use them to stay in while traveling to Japan if they could, but you can’t. I suppose if you were traveling with a companion you could just move to a new love hotel every night and just keep the bulk of your luggage in a locker at the train station. That seems like more trouble than its worth though
@@SLOBeachboy Nope, I stayed by myself. It was only for 3 nights, but I was allowed to stay there all three nights. I believe love motels in Korea are paid for by the hour, but I could be wrong on that. Honestly, though, it's not a fun place to stay. People aren't normally coming to sleep, so they're located in relatively noisy areas. I was right next to a noraebang (Karaoke rooms) and I had the pleasure of listening to people sing very loudly and off key into the early morning hours. At least they blocked out the sounds of the couples on the other side of my walls...
@@NsTheName Yeah, it sounds like your stay was not all that pleasant. As for me I actually stayed at these places in Japan on more than a few occasion before finally getting my own apartment and luckily they were all in pretty nice areas that were clean and quiet. And we never heard any noise from other rooms - singing or otherwise. But the thing I really liked about these rooms was the large bathrooms and large bathtubs. I stayed in one with a tub made out of river rocks and because it was also surrounded by tropical plants it kind of felt like bathing in the woods. It really boggles the mind how many different unique and varied styles of rooms there are in these places.
@@SLOBeachboy That sounds like such an amazing bathroom! I want my bathroom covered in plants, haha. I think some love motels have themes, but the one I stayed in was simple. Nothing special at all, haha.
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
If you guys haven't already, could you do a video about how periods are perceived in your countries? 😊
~:~
Yess pleasee
Yesss
Haha nasty!
@@mountainous_port is not nasty. It’s natural…
@@mountainous_port stupid comment
I see so many people commenting on the Japanese girl or the korean girl and their cultures. From the comment section alone, you can really see that China is not as popular as the other 2; which is too bad, since China is so interesting as a country.
Japanese girl is so cute
@Honey idk man her hairstyle seems normal to me
@Honey Its pretty much like Sia (Singer)
@Honey xxxtentacian style
@Honey eh, let them be. that's just how fashion and style is nowadays
@@ashy1687 At last she's not dressed like a grandma like a lot of girls in Tokyo nowadays
Thank you for your perspectives!!
It is a lot of fun to listen to you talk about these three very close, very different cultures!
(I lived in China for half of 1996, and follow Kpop pretty closely, Japan... I am learning about!)
I think I have to subscribe.... ok, you win!!
jane很可爱啊 我是你的粉丝✨
我也觉得简很可爱，喜欢她
哈哈 谢谢 小可爱们😉
@@_janeking6884 啊啊啊啊简，是你，我很喜欢你哦
@@NM-gg3hs 哈哈 谢谢亲~😊
I love this combination of lovely ladies, and I learn a lot just watching them talking about something interesting ✌✌✌
Please do more videos like this. It's an interesting topic.
Yes! : )
Would be great to have a video about sexual education in Korea, Japan and China ! This is a matter that is very important and I feel that there is less awareness there about it.
It’s not very important.
@@lerigoureux6474what? It's incredibly important. That's the most effective measure to prevent a spread from STDs and unwanted pregnancies. How is that not important
@@siali8683
Is there an STD epidemic over there ?
Why not, could it be because people over there aren’t clueless about the topic ?
Do you think it’s important to teach about sex when the people being taught have already been doing well ?
It’s not very important and one might even accidentally just spread western considerations of sex, which are simply not the culture of Asian countries.
Aaaah finally a new videeeo. I cant wait more !
I grew up thinking Japanese, Chinese and Koreans hated each other but its SO INCREDIBLY COOL to see them just happy e a casually talking to each other, no hate at all, just enjoying a nice conversation
I mean, it would be kind of absurd for people to hate each other based on lines drawn on maps, wouldn't it?
@@jannepeltonen2036 i see what you did there.. 😂🤦🏼♀️ YES, VERY ABSURD! But somehow people do and I bet even the God is confused at the ABSURDNESS
To be honest it's true that we hate each other The older generation in korea hates japan, and the younger generation in korea tend to hate china
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
very interesting. i liked the whole point of view of every country.
Attitudes have changed so much in the last 20 years. I knew some asian international students in college and they were ultra conservative.
Chinese girl is very beautiful.
I see a lot of comments wondering why they understand each other: Every foreigner on this channel is/was an international student in Korea.
This helps us understand that people are the same everywhere. Always good content on World Friends...
i know chinese , korean, and japanese characters are similar and sometimes derived from some form of chinese. is it the same for the spoken language? for example, im central american, and i can communicate with mexicans, hondurans, guatemalans, spaniards, and i can somewhat understand portuguese and italian etc. because the languages are latin based. some of the words are different though, like my people say pajilla (drinking straw) but mexicans say popote, i say sorbete (ice cream) where as mexicans say nieve (nieve to me is snow). so were these women speaking their native language and were easily able to communicate in that same sense? btw the korean woman is extremely gorgeous, all of them are very pretty but she stood out imo. so many culures in the word, so many differences!
Japanese and Korean both have some words that are derived from Chinese pronunciation. But other than that, they're not mutually intelligible like latin-origin language.
Por si a alguien le interesa saber como somos en Argentina con respecto a este tema, los besos, abrazos, agarrarse de las manos es lo más normal del mundo, donde sea que vayas vas a ver a alguien haciendo estas cosas sin arrepentimientos y a la gente de alrededor no le molesta en su mayoría (a mi me da mucha pena ver porque soy muy vergonzosa, puede pasarle a otros también).
El tema del sexo no es un tabú tampoco y siempre estamos jodiendo y haciendo chistes con doble sentido. Los hoteles y moteles podría decirse que son cosas 'distintas' porque el motel normalmente lo usamos para ya saben que (aunque puede haber alguien que realmente lo use de parada y para descansar únicamente). Con el tema de la convivencia tampoco hay mucho drama, si te querés casar lo haces, si querés vivir y/o tener hijos sin casarte o pensar en ello está bien también (obvio no van a faltar quienes te pregunten, usualmente personas muy mayores con ese pensamiento antiguo de que el matrimonio lo es todo).
En fin, somos bastaaaaaante liberales en este tema y es algo que me re gusta porque si bien no vas a andar gritando a los cuatro vientos lo que haces con tu vida, tenés la libertad de elegir lo que querés para vos, sin nadie que te esté mirando mal.
What language Are they speaking ? Because they seem to understand each other but those 3 countries has different languages.
You guys need to start asking the hard hitting questions.
The Japanese girl exactly like, momo from twice, even the voice is same,quirky cute.
Japanese p.... videos are well-known. 😅
hahahah
I remember here in Australia we had a tv channel that used to show Vs Arashi, which I used to really like watching, plus they also showed the original Japanese version of Ninja Warrior and Iron Chef....PS...I believe the Japanese refer to them as 'Pink' videos not P..n videos...Whereas in Australia in the past they referred to this sort thing as a 'Blue' movie.
@Honey
That’s mostly folklore. People only hear about the weird shows because they’re more interesting to prurient interests.
But Japanese TV shows are mostly just like everywhere else.
Also, Takeshi’s Castle ended about 32 years ago and people still use that as an example of Japanese television.
It's called AV
Japan: kinky with a lot of strange and rigid social rules.
Korean: sanctimony and boring
China: pragmatic.
Chinese girl seems to me most open minded like the rest. She doesn't showed any shame talink about sex; korean girl was like "ned flanders sister"
☝️ true
so the chinese are the best in bed?
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no westerners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
I think japan is more open in this topic considering they have a porn industry
I'm thinking that too.
Japan better for thjis case
Great video ladies.
Next time please invite Indonesia, Malaysia, and Brunei
8:30, In my country from philippines. To answer your question: there are few themed room in motel here in the philippines. We have ever seen many premium hotels 7:58 like what Kotoha said recently.
but comparing to japan, ur country is poor AF
@@Abelion_Jayakerto wtf
In america after midnight you hear "due to the sexual nature of the broadcast viewer discretion is advised" or something along those lines.
From my impression in the US, you're allowed to do it publicly only in certain places, otherwise you're not even allowed to discuss it around both M/F in public unless it's strictly theoretical.
They’re allowed to do it publicly? Literally ridiculous and if anyone says “they want their freedom” argue with the wall
Living in Bangkok, when a sex-related conversation comes up in an international group - among the 4 nationalities, some Korean girls (not guys) tend to leave or become offended at the mention of the word sex, as the Thai, Japanese, and Chinese people continue the conversation~
Girls? What about boys? Support gender equality
Korea, in my opinion, it’s a taboo due to the men known to be a bit freaky or weird. In China and japan it’s less so but exists
Japanese girl explains everything so well
India is also conservative and I think that is cool 😎
I remember about 12 years ago in Korea, you can see lots of nudity on cable TV. Now, things are getting more and more censored. Krusty on the Simpsons has to even have his cigarette blurred out.
Moon jae in - worst president,government
I think new generations in Japan are more open about being affective in public, however socially old generations are still influencers.
You guys are like our friends and brothers.
Grand risings ladies coming from Fort Worth Texas
In what language do they speak ? Please answer me quickly .
Korean!
Oh... Thank you very much lindsay. I'm french, and you ?
Que hermoso video, acá en Chile también hay motel y hotel son diferentes pero cumplen los mismos objetivos descanso amor estadia y s3xo
Who would you say are the most introverted people in East Asia? Japanese or korean people?
7:54 In any other country they would call this a room for nerds. In Japan, this is a room created for people to have sex in. I love Japan. ❤️
there is Bajrang daal in India even you can't hold hand 🤣🤣
Unfortunately, my country is underdeveloped in this area and don't have themed motels, like in Japan.
are you from India?
@@comradeleppi2000 nope.
Philippines ?
@@emimh6060 nope. Just Google it and you will understand. Why?
@@theofilos4202 there are many countries, how would I know which one you live in
In the states everybody bangs everywhere so we dont have that concept of love hotels/motels really....XD
What the hell is this , people think being intimate in public is open mindedness.....
I don't understand why ⁉️⁉️
open-minded because you show your feelings and love towards your gf/bf even in public. there is nothing wrong about it. and a kiss, hugging or holding hands is not really considered a "intime thing". it´s just showing affection. so yes, younger generations are more open about the idea to show this kind of things and feelings in public too.
Do they speak each other’s language? Or one? How do they manage to understand each other?
they're all speaking korean here
I like how they're just throwing shade at each other
I went to Love Motel once in Korea, i didn't know it could be rented hourly so i pay for overnight just to used it for couple of hours haha experience
Why is Micheal Mjd's music playing? A Tech TH-camr Micheal Mjd should've subscribed to World Friends!
I’m gonna visit another website now
Kotoha living in korea say : When I visit Japan 😳 (but she realize she is a Japanese) Her mind:🤣
I love the japenese and chinese girls so much
성에 대해선 한국이 가장 보수적인건 사실입니다 하지만 스킨쉽보다는 애정 표현은 한국인이 월등하다고 보면 됩니다
Really 🤔
I know Japanese TV shows.. I never thougt that a country with shows like this is more conservative about kissing in public etc than the average European country. In most European countries it is normal to live together with someone without wanting to marry (even children without marriage aren't an uncommon thing. Thanks for the video
I love Jian🇨🇳 so cute
I used to think China is really open about sex and these stuff until I saw this video lol
Was I the only one?
Nah no not at all It's not true the video doesn't tells the whole China
@@imogen07 that's a good point. China is such a BIG country. Brazil is continental too and we have literally 20+ regions with different cultures but people tend to only look at the Southeast (Rio de Janeiro, São Paulo) one as the whole brazillian culture. China probably has different ones too depending on the provice
I think it depends on the city and province.
I think china people more open ,i see lot off them soo intimate in public
Japan is definitely correct when it comes to love hotels. Not saying it is for the non mature group, but it also teaches people about sex and where to go. They teach freedom and independence towards it. In sexual activities the more you try to keep it in, the more silly thoughts and actions in public places come about.
the stupid thing about the cultural relations in japan and rest of asia is that before doing it, women take shower during two-three-four hours! of course no wasterners want to waste time! so moral of story , don't make any sexual relationship with an asian. just go elsewhere.
I think i just got yellow fever haha! Very educational!
🙋🏽♀️Are you three speaking one language?!?💕🙏🏽
Thailand and Vietnam should be included in the panel always.
Yeah kissing, smooching, cuddling, snuggling, and hugging could sometimes be more discreet
why? whats wrong about hugging, cuddling,..?
yeah agree
すごい。かわい。
Koreans have many known places for "hook-ups" - motels, DVD rooms, singing rooms. What shocked me was the amount of conspicuous "happy" massage parlors and brothels. As I'm typing right now, there are a half dozen brothels around my neighborhood, in the vicinity of elementary schools and families with kids just walking about. They have their doors open in the evening to lure customers, and you can catch a glimpse passing by. Yikes.
I don't know how they operate in times of COVID.
Some businesses operate by bribing police to ignore them.
As an American it seems like almost all Asian cultures are a lot more conservative in their traditional culture, but they are learning bad things from America. I'm a bit on the conservative side for America and am a little ashamed at the bad lessons we are teaching other nations. From what I've heard many American films have to be severely edited in order to to seen in many Asian countries.
Are they all speaking their native tongue and someone is translating, or are they using one language to communicate?
they are all speaking korean
Im,in,love with this 3 beautiful girls
korean girl is sweating or is it her makeup??
it is the makeup. they like this glow in korea.
I don't understand well how Japan is an open-minded country (which I think it is) but couples don't kiss in public OR EVEN hold hands, but on the other hand they can have sex in "public"/shared spaces like public bathrooms or under the bridge like what? It's difficult to understand
Koreans being called out 😂 😂 😂
In which language are they speaking Korean,Chinese or Japanese?🤔
Korean
Those love hotels look exactly like the ones in The Wolverine movie.
I like Japan woman😀😀
i wish the west was more conservative lol. they add censored sex scenes to alot of movies. the kissing is a bit much if they don’t just kiss and get to sex hahahah
look at the conservative countries, you wanna be like them?
@default You're from the United States aren't you because I'm live there and we literally have a motto called "sex sells".
I think the Japanese girl hasn't see many recent Japanese dramas because I saw one R-15 one and there was sexual scenes in it just like any Western drama. Japanese has many dramas with sexual themes and sex scenes,they are not conservative about it.
What language was they speaking
Asian ladies 🥰
Japanese girl is super cute
In Brazil motels are literally for sex, they are even charged by hours, has themes too and busier hours is in lunch time