This is why I love Kyutie. She isn't biased based on gender. 2 days ago she posted "Men who had the audacity" and today she posts "Women who had the audacity" Shes done this before as well. Thanks Kyutie!
I agree with you, I know it's like the bare minimum to hold everyone regardless of their gender however there's so many gender wars that people create on the internet i'm personally tired of it.
I feel awful for the stepdaughter, how can a father let their own kid be treated like that. The stepmother needs to seriously get a change in personality. As for the first story, I also feel bad for her. I hope in the end the boyfriend decides to support her and let's the family know their actions are wrong
See; My problem with that last story is like... why is the father letting his wife treat his daughter like that? ESPECIALLY since that's not her child. He married that woman and is now just letting her walk all over his daughter??? What sense does that make 💀 Anyways- Hope everyone's either havin a great day or is going to have a great day !!!
I get that maybe she should have done a favor but the fact that I’m sure if she did make dinner she would still be unwelcome is what’s annoying. Like, I bet the step mom wouldn’t even care and would complain nonetheless. And the fact that now she’s paying for her own money. I would text back ‘are you paying me back?’
That is so true..what a careless person! How can a father have such mindset, it's so immature considering he's a frickin adult. 😐 Out of topic, but it's been three months since I came into college after high school, really stressful actually,, although no one knows about it. I cried recently in my parent teacher meeting, i don't even know why, the teachers weren't even scolding, no one was. I was just so ashamed i guess? Considering the marks I am getting (10/60, 20/300. Wtf??? How did i end up like this?? I used to be an amazing scorer in school. Most of the times a 3rd ranker. A lot happened since lockdown. I can't blame lockdown ig but it's still a crazy story. I was blamed for things i didn't mean. Even now.) Okay I don't want my comment to be tooo deep lol, just wanted to say, no I didn't have a great day, but when you said if I would be having a great day, you gave me hope lmao. Because it's vacation time now due to the Hindu festival, Navratri. I hope I can clear off all topics and study, relax and distress myself althooo honestly speaking idk what I'll be doing today. Sleep for 10 hours or watch youtube, but i can't do that, no!! Haveeee a great day @TheRaptorPaddock!!! annddd everyonee! who's reading this 💜💙💗🧡💛💛💛❤️💚💚 (this is a long one xD)
The first one made my blood boil, who cares about Op’s skin colour? It’s not like she can control what skin colour she has. So no, in my opinion, Op is not a jerk.
0:05: It's abundantly clear her BF's family is prejudiced, as confirmed by her friends. Hope she kicked her BF to the curb and has no association with his family. 8:11: Shame on the father for not sticking up for his daughter. Unfortunately, she's only sixteen years old, so, between her father and her mother, she's stuck between a rock and a hard place. Doesn't sound like either parent is on her side. Hopefully she can bide her time until her eighteenth birthday, when she can find somplace else to stay.
Wow... I feel so sad for the girl in the last story. She lives with a dad that allows his wife to treat his child like that. The saddest part is that she won't go live with her mom because it's probably even worse there.
I still don’t get why people marry someone who has kids, and then hates the kids because they aren’t their children? How about NOT marrying someone with kids already? I know it’s gets harder to avoid this when you get older, but seriously, the kids didn’t ask to be born before you started dating their dad/mum. I’ve seen this first hand and it’s just a horrible attitude to have. It shows massive insecurity red flags to me from the step parent.
It’s why I just stay away from getting into relationships with people with kids. I personally don’t want them so I don’t look for a partner that has them, it’s that simple.
My ex's family was like that. They're all black and I'm Asian. I'm mixed so I'm blond with fair skin and stretched eyes. I wanted to meet them but they clearly showed me they didn't want to have me or have anything to do with me. I did meet them and it was terrible. One of the little sisters wanted to braid my hair so I let her and the mom kind of grunted at me but didn't say anything. My ex thought it was cute and took a picture. That was the worse because my then mil blew up at me saying I was trying to turn her children against and that a white washed half breed like me would never be good enough for her son. The dad tried to hit my ex to make him delete the photo but he fought back and we left. I had never felt this bad with a family before especially since this happened in front of my ex's 10 siblings who were all kids and 2 of them were teens. There were 3 babies and they were crying. I couldn't believe the scene that had unfolded before my eyes and it took me several days to be normal around him again
Oh my god I'm so sorry. That's honestly embarrassing. I'm embarrassed for your ex. Like that's the most olden days, racist thing I've ever heard. "Half breed"?? What are you a dog? You deserve so much better, and good on him for leaving with you. I don't know what happened or why he's your ex now, but at least he was still descent enough to know that his family is racist and disappointing. I'm black, and it's the most disappointing thing for me to hear other black people be racist against other people. Like you know what that feels like and what it dose to a person. And you know how senseless it is. Why would you do it, or let yourself feel and think those things? And the fact that they did it in front of the kids? Like those kids are gonna be traumatized and see their parents differently. I hope you're doing better now. Have a good life. I wish you the best 💕
@@thereal47bullets I know, my dad kinda was. It's still disappointing. I'm not saying it can't happen. I'm just saying it's sad to see people who know what racism feels like to go on and be racist towards someone else. I don't get how people can do that. I know the world sucks but why do we still let it suck that badly?
Story 1: Worse than you told. The bf did not say anything to his family, he advised his family to not let OP know. Either he cuts contact with his racist family or OP needs to cut contact towards him. The latter is a painful decision because otherwise he appears to be a good person, but when OP gets the racist family as well it likely is a big bullet dodged. Story 2: Some parents that either had a messy divorce or are single parents for a long time "would do anything for love" including letting the new partner treat the own children like unwanted trash. Pseudo-justification "It's not so bad!" and "S/He wants his/her own legacy to continue".
I guess guy in the first story is trying to handle things both way.. Like he wants his family and wife both to be on good terms.. Even though that's not really possible.. If you think like that poor guy is pretty much stuck between his girl and family.. He should take a firm decision all at once
Honestly what (in the first story) the OP said was true. If you make the world see you as someone who's careless about the things people say, it somehow makes them think of you differently. I am and I know people who are snappy and replies to every comment about them. They don't make it seem like it matters. I do that personally because I feel like people would think less of me if I do care. I'm sensitive, but people act as if being sensitive is like having a disease. It's not weird. It's fine to cry. So some people care more, but when they do talk about it they get dismissed, "It's not a big deal" "You're dramatic" "Stop being a baby", honestly most people don't know you, so when they say things like this it really makes you reflect on everything. You aren't in the wrong.
And OP should think seriously about what marrying into that crap family would entail. I believe her BF is kowtowing to their racism because of the family wealth. I love how strong and direct OP is being! Her BF needs to think long and hard if he wants to continue this path for not only the sake of the relationship but for the sake of being the person he wants to be. And SIL totally deserved to have her honeymoon wrecked because her true character was revealed.
Thank you for the first story. I am impressed that you have addressed racism in depth. Everyone should read this and examine in their own soul the issues involved. This can be a learning experience for everyone
1st story: sister in law's being racist honestly she doesn't want OP to be in the pictures because she's "too dark and will ruin the colour palette" how low is she?🙄 2nd story: the step mum is such a hypocrite. She doesn't let her step daughter eat anything she cooks yet she expects her daughter to cook something for her. I'm also upset that the dad didn't stand up for her, like he obviously cares about his new wife instead of his child.
I love how Kyutie gives such insightful reactions and advice even if it is just common sense! At least in my opinion she always takes the side of the person who was wrongly offended or had no right to be shamed, discriminated against, etc. based on logic, and often unbiased judgements of character and personalities, especially with a large regard to basic human decency and fair treatment and equality in society. I also love how deep and understanding her responses are, like how she sometimes even offers a solution or different method of approach to diffuse tension or resolve conflict in heated situations and arguments.
1st Story: The family of OP's boyfriend is racist. OP has been edited out of photos by multiple family members of her boyfriend (his sister & his uncle). OP exposed her boyfriend's sister for being a racist. The sister in law needs to apologize to OP. OP should dump her boyfriend if she hasn't already. 2nd Story: Both the dad and step mom are terrible people/in the wrong. The dad should've defended/sided with his daughter. The step mom told the girl that she had to buy and cook her own food (including all ingredients) because she (the girl) isn't her (the step mom's) "problem to deal with." The girl isn't in the wrong. It's not her responsibility to cook for anyone. The step mom has no right to tell the girl to cook and/or buy food for multiple people or just one person. The reason is that she makes the girl buy and cook her own food.
I hope that girl who's boyfriends family is racist left him! those people are scumbags I know false racism is claimed everyday now but kicking a person out of pictures because their skins too dark is the definition of racist!!! An that dad & his new loser wife are trash you don't treat your child like that let alone have a stranger do it if I buy the food my kids going to eat I don't care how you feel you can leave my child is forever you can be replaced with somebody better (sorry for the rhyming) this world is going down the drain too fast it's sad & scary 😨
I agree with the dad saying that this was an emergency and she should have done something to help out, but considering what the stepmother did there, he should be siding with the daughter.
If Dad and step-mom can't treat OP with respect under normal circumstances, why expect that she will go out of her way to help them on call? The situation was sad and scary for step-mom's family, but feeding her niblings was as easy a fix as ordering a pizza. In fact, knowing kids, pizza would likely be their comfort food.
I had a step mom a few years ago just like the poor girl in the second story. Me and my older sister would overhear my dad and step mom arguing because my step mom would say how we're both spoiled teens, mooching off him, lazy slobs, etc. She didn't want anything to do with us but would pretend to like us for my dad. My older sister even told me one time while they all went out (I stayed home doing homework) that when my dad was away she overheard my step mom, under her breath, call my disabled younger sister ugly insults. It still makes my blood boil thinking about it. I absolutely would've told that b***h off and 100% would've caused a scene. My dad had to kick her out of the house several times but man I hated how he'd go crawling back to her the next day everytime, telling us how "you're too young to understand relationships, when you're old like me you have to keep anyone you can find, theres no one else". For a long time our house was such a toxic environment until she finally left for good after the divorce. Parents, please better defend your kids. Step Parents will always be that, Step. Even if they were your real parents it wouldn't make it any better to treat any kid with such disrespect. I struggle with finding/keeping love too but best believe I'd drop the person on the spot if they disrespected my kids. Being single is so much better than a toxic relationship any day no matter how lonely it gets. But god I wish I would've told her off...
Oh my gosh the girl in the second story needs to run. She needs to find the nearest friend that will let her stay with them for a little while, pack as much as she can and get the frick out. That poor poor girl.
I honestly felt so bad for her. She got her heart broken and it will happen again if she doesn't dump him. It's 8 years of relationship and he doesn't care that his family is treating her like that.
Story 1: inform your friend of the situation and distance yourself from your bf, you like spend more time with people without him during major events. you say why go when im just gonna photoshopped out.
RECIPROCITY, people! If I'm not YOUR problem, then in what world would YOUR sister's KIDS be MINE? You get what you give, even in blended families. And if dad didn't want to get involved when it was his OWN child being affected, then he should have butted OUT when it was someone else's kids.
In the 1st story the boyfriend is just as racist as his trashy family is, he’s just passive about it while his uncle and sister are active, so OP should just dump them all into the trash where they belong. As for the 2nd story that poor OP needs a secret bank account that non of the so called “parents” can know about or get into so she has that money when the evil stepmother decides to kick her out, because as has already been shown her “dad” won’t stand up for her or protect her from his new wife.
How would an apology even sound like..?. "I'm so sorry i showed up with the wrong skin color to this SIL's wedding and ruined her colour palett" I don't even know lol, that was so frickin stupid smh
Story 1: Man, I could write a whole essay on this. "I'm not racist! My [relative by marriage] is [different race]!" 🙄🙄 Sweetie, your BF and his family have shown you who they are. You say you ignore most of the microaggressions, but you are also human and contrary to popular belief, you do NOT have to "just take it" because you are worth MORE than that. Also contrary to popular belief, having children by a lighter-skinned person doesn't automatically mean they'll be lighter-skinned. What would you do if you found out that your in-laws were favoring the lighter children over the darker ones? I could go on...but why? Girl, RUN. Story 2: Cinderella, anyone? The evil stepmother trope is one that's based in reality. I'd be curious to know if there's a significant difference in age/looks between Dad and his new wife. Beyond that...sweetie, you've got two years to save up as much as you can and get your affairs in order so that you can BOUNCE on your 18th birthday. It sucks that you have sucky parents, but there are plenty of folks out here who can relate...
I think my aunt (my late uncle's wife) has always reduced my familys' pics in my cousins' wedding movies in the past. Maybe she just wanted her own brothers etc to get more screentime, it's annoying but my parents ignored it, we just went for my uncle's sake who had been ill and bedridden most of his life. This was before we all had our own cellphones and cameras and had to ask them for photos. It's one thing to tell the cameraman whom to focus on more, but I can't even imagine the hurt and insult of actually being photoshopped out of family photos because of one's colour. I'm sure they will keep doing it and they will 100% photoshop the children too!
And by the way, if dad's daughter isn't wife's 'problem', then she's not a stepdaughter, and dad's wife isn't a stepmom. She's JUST...dad's wife. And she is dad's daughter. Just two people who happen to live in the same house...for NOW. You get what you give.
In the first story tho I also kinda feel for the bf because even me I've been scared to speak up even though I find it wrong ik it's bad but i kinda feel bad for him 😢
Holy crap, the person in the second story needs to go to someone else, she is literally being abused by her dad and stepmother. Parentification still happens if it's yourself your looking after. She needs to find a family member who loves her and move in with them because her dad and stepmother both clearly despise her.
#1: You can't say you're kind and see all people as equals when you don't stand up for people that look different from you when it counts. Just because you can appear nice to people for a short period of time doesn't mean you're actually nice. The boyfriend's family is racist. Period. He's in denial and is someone that doesn't like confrontation. He'd rather keep the peace instead of protecting his girlfriend. Just because their family doesn't mean it's fine to ignore their ignorant and toxic behavior. I don't believe him when he says he'd stand up for their kids when he had the chance on multiple occasions to do so for the girlfriend but didn't. Is he only standing up for them because they'll be blood-related? Smh. Honestly, if he can't answer all those honestly to her face and actively make changes, they should lean towards breaking up. #2: The dad is in his own world to not notice the bad relationship between his daughter and new wife. When someone is making it obvious they don't like you and also makes no effort to improve the relationship as time goes on, you don't need to be the bigger person and try to get on their good side. It's a wasted effort. It's less stressful to just accept nothing will change as the OP did.
People just don’t understand that You never ask people you openly dislike for favors And if you openly dislike them, they sure as hell won’t do ANYTHING you ask :)
The stepdaughter should have responded to the text: I will cook the entire last ten meals you cooked for me, love included. So you will know what to expect. Love, Neglected Stepdaughter..
My ex’s mum hated me. I get good grades, I’m tee total and I genuinely loved her son. I asked why she hated me and got told bc I’m a white cripple. I told her ex husband she was racist and ableist and he agreed but said that she thought racism was strictly white perpetrators. She harassed me every time she got her hands on my ex’s phone and now wants me to help him with money problems.
Another Wicked Stepmother. Those fairytales had a point. The bio parent in these terrible situations are horrible people for putting their child/ren through such awfulness. They are fundamentally selfish, self centred horrors. It's one of the signs of narcissistic behaviour allowing someone to abuse your kids. I hope this girl finds a way to leave home soon.
for the last story I would cook for the kids as they have done absolutely nothing but as they eat if the stepmom decides to get some food id tell her she can't and it's not my problem she did not cook for herself. op did nothing wrong , her dad and stepmom are the demons here
Why should the first OP apologize when she was the one insulted? And why isn't her gutless boyfriend standing up for her? Is she really thinking of having children with this man? I urge her not to, and start packing her things to go. The mother's remark about ruining her daughter's wedding was out of line too, as well as the snooty uncle who had her photoshopped out of his pictures. Sounds like his niece takes after him. Please, honey, find a new boyfriend who respects you enough to defend you when you're insulted, even by his own family.
After them two years girl you can leave cause that is the most stupid crap I’ve heard. Not a grown woman competing with a 16 year old. It’s giving just leave cause who is she to say this crap? To do things like this?
First story: Sister-in-law is a real “female dog”. Cut contact. The rest of the family sounds like a bunch of winners, too. This lady needs to think very carefully about her future with this man and his family. Second story: Father needs to step up for his daughter. Sounds like stepmother wants the daughter to be a servant.
Story 1: Def NOT the a-hole, wholly crap... that's just... wow... the bf better think hard about this. Story 2: NTA, especially since the stepmom was being a hypocrite and asking OP to cook her something when she doesn't cook anything for her. The dad... oml, def the a-hole for not defending his daughter.
For the first story, tbh, I think that the girl should just leave her bf and move on from the racist family. For what has been happening to her, it is unforgiveable to stay with her bf who can't even stand up for her. A milion red flags.
Story1 - This is colour-discrimination n racism, sister-in-law is clearly in the wrong. The girl did her a favour recommended the photographer n this the thanks she gets. S-I-L, all of the sister-in-law side of the family r racist n now their lil secret is out n the world is judgin em they can't handle it. If SIL had a problem w/ the way she looked she could have just honest n told her or just nt invite her or just sorted it out in private. The fact SIL friends ratted her out just proves she a bad person. We live in multiple national society nw, people of different races n cultures have n r mixin in family n it is unexcusable 2 behave like th@ anymore. Prejudice n Bigotry r the biggest cause of war, conflict n death both in the past n present. The Bf knows this n knew all about w@ his family was doin n still would nt stand up 2 em 2 defence his gf, just shows his a coward n a pushover. Girl I think u should break up w/ him if he is willin 2 tolerate this n nt stand by u when they in the wrong then his nt the right man 4 u. U have more then enough evidence 2 report SIL n her family 2 the police or file a lawsuit against em if it ruin ur relationships w/ so b it. U deserve better than this, no-one should put up w/ this treatment. Story2- is the dad blind or completely in the dark about this whole situation? His new wife is practically bullyin his daughter n he either doesn't no or doesn't care. I thought when u get remarried u ensure th@ ur new spouse gets along w/ ur children from another marriage or @ least u should. The daughter is bein treated like dirt, while it was terrible w@ happened 2 her sister, but it really is her responsibility 2 cook n look after some1 else children especially if she gets no thanks or gratitude 4 it, the daughter has got enough 2 worry about bein 16, bein treated unfairly by her family n havin 2 buy n cook her own. The step-mum could easily have organised something, don't dish out w@ u can't take bk. N the dad needs 2 realizes th@ n get his priorities straight b4 he destroys his relationship w/ his daughter, she choose 2 live w/ him a reason. Don't do something ur regret later.
I mean age doesn't have to do with cooking, you can when you know , Cus kyutie kept saying how is she cooking while she's 16 Well me and my sisters cooked in that age😀
I bet the thumbnail is secretly implying that the sister-in-law is jealous of her beauty. She claimed that she's not racist nor is her family, so I'm starting to theorize that she's jealous of someone with Middle Eastern genetics out shining her on her wedding day.
That's because the people who share these stories are asking for advice on whether or not what they did was wrong. But yeah, I'd love to know the outcome of stories like these.
The video would just be called "People who had the audacity" wouldn't it? It's gender neutral and most of the time there isn't many stories about non-binary people because they're either not out to the family or the person telling the story doesn't care.
Can't keep watching because of the lip smacking 😭 I'm soooo sorry because your videos literally are ✨amazing✨. Personally I just get really annoyed when sb smacks their lips. But keep up the good work! You are so cute and you deserve all the love ☺️❤️ (most wholesome comment section)
For the first story… I mean I can sort of see why the SIL would be embarrassed by the instagram post because anyone you both know can see what you put on your account and either stand with or go against her (the SIL). OP slightly crossed the line here but SIL was 2000% in the wrong for talking bullcrap behind her back
Nah, bigotry deserves to be exposed. She was racist, and was exposed as one. Simple as that and anyone is free to ditch her or continue talking to her knowing that fact- We'll just know what kind of person you are based on which one you'll pick.
@@sadhourstwentyfourseven9578 I’m definitely on OP’s side, that’s for sure. I’m only saying OP crossed the line a tad bit by posting the conversation online, as it’s a personal issue. But SIL should not have interfered and just allowed her brother to love whoever he’s with, and if she really wants to cut contact with OP and her family then that’s on her, she’s welcome to do so if she wants, or just live with it and keep her thoughts to herself (though that would probably be hard because she’s so vocal about it). If OP’s boyfriend doesn’t say anything supporting her, then they should break up because several people in BF and SIL’s family don’t seem to care about OP’s feelings
Sorry, but how is this a "women who had the audacity" story, if 1/3 is about a shitty boyfriend and his even worse family and 1/3 is about a shitty dad and the equally shitty stepmom? I know the stories started with a woman but heck, this pretty much reflects worse on men then women. So much for the perceived fairness of making a video each. Smh
Maybe it's just harder to find "Women who had the audacity" stories that aren't already used 🤷♀ (I think that might actually be the case due to how society views women vs men)
Teenagers feel the brunt of "Act like an Adult" and "You're just a kid"
Literally!!!
This is why I love Kyutie. She isn't biased based on gender. 2 days ago she posted "Men who had the audacity" and today she posts "Women who had the audacity"
Shes done this before as well. Thanks Kyutie!
I actually never realized that! Thanks for pointing that out because that is a really good point and compliment!
I don't see how that is important O.o
@@leaflet1686 they are pointing out how Kyutie is a nice person, not really aiming at a specific topic
I agree with you, I know it's like the bare minimum to hold everyone regardless of their gender however there's so many gender wars that people create on the internet i'm personally tired of it.
who cares
I feel awful for the stepdaughter, how can a father let their own kid be treated like that. The stepmother needs to seriously get a change in personality. As for the first story, I also feel bad for her. I hope in the end the boyfriend decides to support her and let's the family know their actions are wrong
yes i cant believe he didnt defend his daugther and that sister in law for erasing her out of family pictures
Easy, he's whipped. When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.
See; My problem with that last story is like... why is the father letting his wife treat his daughter like that? ESPECIALLY since that's not her child. He married that woman and is now just letting her walk all over his daughter??? What sense does that make 💀
Anyways- Hope everyone's either havin a great day or is going to have a great day !!!
I get that maybe she should have done a favor but the fact that I’m sure if she did make dinner she would still be unwelcome is what’s annoying. Like, I bet the step mom wouldn’t even care and would complain nonetheless. And the fact that now she’s paying for her own money. I would text back ‘are you paying me back?’
That is so true..what a careless person! How can a father have such mindset, it's so immature considering he's a frickin adult. 😐
Out of topic, but it's been three months since I came into college after high school, really stressful actually,, although no one knows about it. I cried recently in my parent teacher meeting, i don't even know why, the teachers weren't even scolding, no one was. I was just so ashamed i guess? Considering the marks I am getting (10/60, 20/300. Wtf??? How did i end up like this?? I used to be an amazing scorer in school. Most of the times a 3rd ranker. A lot happened since lockdown. I can't blame lockdown ig but it's still a crazy story. I was blamed for things i didn't mean. Even now.)
Okay I don't want my comment to be tooo deep lol, just wanted to say, no I didn't have a great day, but when you said if I would be having a great day, you gave me hope lmao. Because it's vacation time now due to the Hindu festival, Navratri. I hope I can clear off all topics and study, relax and distress myself althooo honestly speaking idk what I'll be doing today. Sleep for 10 hours or watch youtube, but i can't do that, no!! Haveeee a great day @TheRaptorPaddock!!! annddd everyonee! who's reading this 💜💙💗🧡💛💛💛❤️💚💚
(this is a long one xD)
The first one made my blood boil, who cares about Op’s skin colour? It’s not like she can control what skin colour she has.
So no, in my opinion, Op is not a jerk.
0:05: It's abundantly clear her BF's family is prejudiced, as confirmed by her friends. Hope she kicked her BF to the curb and has no association with his family.
8:11: Shame on the father for not sticking up for his daughter. Unfortunately, she's only sixteen years old, so, between her father and her mother, she's stuck between a rock and a hard place. Doesn't sound like either parent is on her side. Hopefully she can bide her time until her eighteenth birthday, when she can find somplace else to stay.
Who votes that a great idea for a video “ worst wedding” or “bad birthdays?”
Yes!!!
bad birthdays!
Worst wedding
Bad bdays
Worst weddings
Wow... I feel so sad for the girl in the last story. She lives with a dad that allows his wife to treat his child like that. The saddest part is that she won't go live with her mom because it's probably even worse there.
Yeah, I noticed that, too. I hope that she gets out the moment she can, goes NC with both her sorry parents and lives a good life.
I still don’t get why people marry someone who has kids, and then hates the kids because they aren’t their children? How about NOT marrying someone with kids already? I know it’s gets harder to avoid this when you get older, but seriously, the kids didn’t ask to be born before you started dating their dad/mum. I’ve seen this first hand and it’s just a horrible attitude to have. It shows massive insecurity red flags to me from the step parent.
It’s why I just stay away from getting into relationships with people with kids. I personally don’t want them so I don’t look for a partner that has them, it’s that simple.
My ex's family was like that. They're all black and I'm Asian. I'm mixed so I'm blond with fair skin and stretched eyes. I wanted to meet them but they clearly showed me they didn't want to have me or have anything to do with me. I did meet them and it was terrible. One of the little sisters wanted to braid my hair so I let her and the mom kind of grunted at me but didn't say anything. My ex thought it was cute and took a picture. That was the worse because my then mil blew up at me saying I was trying to turn her children against and that a white washed half breed like me would never be good enough for her son. The dad tried to hit my ex to make him delete the photo but he fought back and we left. I had never felt this bad with a family before especially since this happened in front of my ex's 10 siblings who were all kids and 2 of them were teens. There were 3 babies and they were crying. I couldn't believe the scene that had unfolded before my eyes and it took me several days to be normal around him again
Oh my god I'm so sorry. That's honestly embarrassing. I'm embarrassed for your ex. Like that's the most olden days, racist thing I've ever heard. "Half breed"?? What are you a dog? You deserve so much better, and good on him for leaving with you. I don't know what happened or why he's your ex now, but at least he was still descent enough to know that his family is racist and disappointing. I'm black, and it's the most disappointing thing for me to hear other black people be racist against other people. Like you know what that feels like and what it dose to a person. And you know how senseless it is. Why would you do it, or let yourself feel and think those things? And the fact that they did it in front of the kids? Like those kids are gonna be traumatized and see their parents differently. I hope you're doing better now. Have a good life. I wish you the best 💕
Yea that seems racist to me even black people can be racist not just white people
@@thereal47bullets I know, my dad kinda was. It's still disappointing. I'm not saying it can't happen. I'm just saying it's sad to see people who know what racism feels like to go on and be racist towards someone else. I don't get how people can do that. I know the world sucks but why do we still let it suck that badly?
Story 1:
Worse than you told.
The bf did not say anything to his family, he advised his family to not let OP know.
Either he cuts contact with his racist family or OP needs to cut contact towards him. The latter is a painful decision because otherwise he appears to be a good person, but when OP gets the racist family as well it likely is a big bullet dodged.
Story 2:
Some parents that either had a messy divorce or are single parents for a long time "would do anything for love" including letting the new partner treat the own children like unwanted trash. Pseudo-justification "It's not so bad!" and "S/He wants his/her own legacy to continue".
I guess guy in the first story is trying to handle things both way.. Like he wants his family and wife both to be on good terms.. Even though that's not really possible.. If you think like that poor guy is pretty much stuck between his girl and family.. He should take a firm decision all at once
That first story is wild. Disrespectful and claiming to be the victim
Honestly what (in the first story) the OP said was true. If you make the world see you as someone who's careless about the things people say, it somehow makes them think of you differently. I am and I know people who are snappy and replies to every comment about them. They don't make it seem like it matters. I do that personally because I feel like people would think less of me if I do care. I'm sensitive, but people act as if being sensitive is like having a disease. It's not weird. It's fine to cry. So some people care more, but when they do talk about it they get dismissed, "It's not a big deal" "You're dramatic" "Stop being a baby", honestly most people don't know you, so when they say things like this it really makes you reflect on everything. You aren't in the wrong.
Oh my lord the first story... The person writing it was definitely NOT in the wrong. SIL is a trashy person. End of story
And OP should think seriously about what marrying into that crap family would entail. I believe her BF is kowtowing to their racism because of the family wealth. I love how strong and direct OP is being! Her BF needs to think long and hard if he wants to continue this path for not only the sake of the relationship but for the sake of being the person he wants to be. And SIL totally deserved to have her honeymoon wrecked because her true character was revealed.
Thank you for the first story. I am impressed that you have addressed racism in depth. Everyone should read this and examine in their own soul the issues involved. This can be a learning experience for everyone
Those kind of people are really Disgusting. I would have lost my sh*t if I were in their place. 🙄😒
1st story: sister in law's being racist honestly she doesn't want OP to be in the pictures because she's "too dark and will ruin the colour palette" how low is she?🙄
2nd story: the step mum is such a hypocrite. She doesn't let her step daughter eat anything she cooks yet she expects her daughter to cook something for her. I'm also upset that the dad didn't stand up for her, like he obviously cares about his new wife instead of his child.
I love how Kyutie gives such insightful reactions and advice even if it is just common sense! At least in my opinion she always takes the side of the person who was wrongly offended or had no right to be shamed, discriminated against, etc. based on logic, and often unbiased judgements of character and personalities, especially with a large regard to basic human decency and fair treatment and equality in society. I also love how deep and understanding her responses are, like how she sometimes even offers a solution or different method of approach to diffuse tension or resolve conflict in heated situations and arguments.
1st Story: The family of OP's boyfriend is racist. OP has been edited out of photos by multiple family members of her boyfriend (his sister & his uncle). OP exposed her boyfriend's sister for being a racist. The sister in law needs to apologize to OP. OP should dump her boyfriend if she hasn't already.
2nd Story: Both the dad and step mom are terrible people/in the wrong. The dad should've defended/sided with his daughter. The step mom told the girl that she had to buy and cook her own food (including all ingredients) because she (the girl) isn't her (the step mom's) "problem to deal with." The girl isn't in the wrong. It's not her responsibility to cook for anyone. The step mom has no right to tell the girl to cook and/or buy food for multiple people or just one person. The reason is that she makes the girl buy and cook her own food.
I hope that girl who's boyfriends family is racist left him! those people are scumbags I know false racism is claimed everyday now but kicking a person out of pictures because their skins too dark is the definition of racist!!! An that dad & his new loser wife are trash you don't treat your child like that let alone have a stranger do it if I buy the food my kids going to eat I don't care how you feel you can leave my child is forever you can be replaced with somebody better (sorry for the rhyming) this world is going down the drain too fast it's sad & scary 😨
Kyutie towards horrible men:Wow they’re real trash
Kyutie towards horrible woman: wow they’re real trash
at least she holds people accountable regardless
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conclusion everryoen is trash
I agree with the dad saying that this was an emergency and she should have done something to help out, but considering what the stepmother did there, he should be siding with the daughter.
If Dad and step-mom can't treat OP with respect under normal circumstances, why expect that she will go out of her way to help them on call? The situation was sad and scary for step-mom's family, but feeding her niblings was as easy a fix as ordering a pizza. In fact, knowing kids, pizza would likely be their comfort food.
I feel extremely awful for you, women. you shouldn't have to go through something like what I'm hearing in this video.
I had a step mom a few years ago just like the poor girl in the second story. Me and my older sister would overhear my dad and step mom arguing because my step mom would say how we're both spoiled teens, mooching off him, lazy slobs, etc. She didn't want anything to do with us but would pretend to like us for my dad. My older sister even told me one time while they all went out (I stayed home doing homework) that when my dad was away she overheard my step mom, under her breath, call my disabled younger sister ugly insults. It still makes my blood boil thinking about it. I absolutely would've told that b***h off and 100% would've caused a scene. My dad had to kick her out of the house several times but man I hated how he'd go crawling back to her the next day everytime, telling us how "you're too young to understand relationships, when you're old like me you have to keep anyone you can find, theres no one else". For a long time our house was such a toxic environment until she finally left for good after the divorce. Parents, please better defend your kids. Step Parents will always be that, Step. Even if they were your real parents it wouldn't make it any better to treat any kid with such disrespect. I struggle with finding/keeping love too but best believe I'd drop the person on the spot if they disrespected my kids. Being single is so much better than a toxic relationship any day no matter how lonely it gets. But god I wish I would've told her off...
In that last story, just think how bad her mother and step-father must be for the situation with the father as described to be better.
Oh my gosh the girl in the second story needs to run. She needs to find the nearest friend that will let her stay with them for a little while, pack as much as she can and get the frick out. That poor poor girl.
I feel bad for second girl!! I hope she is doing well.
OP 1's boyfriend is a flaming dumpster fire 🔥! Just dump him. NO SALVAGING that one.
I honestly felt so bad for her. She got her heart broken and it will happen again if she doesn't dump him. It's 8 years of relationship and he doesn't care that his family is treating her like that.
Story 1: inform your friend of the situation and distance yourself from your bf, you like spend more time with people without him during major events. you say why go when im just gonna photoshopped out.
I NEED AN UPDATE ON THE FIRST STORY😩😩
RECIPROCITY, people! If I'm not YOUR problem, then in what world would YOUR sister's KIDS be MINE? You get what you give, even in blended families. And if dad didn't want to get involved when it was his OWN child being affected, then he should have butted OUT when it was someone else's kids.
In the 1st story the boyfriend is just as racist as his trashy family is, he’s just passive about it while his uncle and sister are active, so OP should just dump them all into the trash where they belong. As for the 2nd story that poor OP needs a secret bank account that non of the so called “parents” can know about or get into so she has that money when the evil stepmother decides to kick her out, because as has already been shown her “dad” won’t stand up for her or protect her from his new wife.
The last story reminds me of a modern day take on Cinderella.the story about the Daughter, step mum and father.
I hope these people get away from these toxic ladies
How would an apology even sound like..?. "I'm so sorry i showed up with the wrong skin color to this SIL's wedding and ruined her colour palett" I don't even know lol, that was so frickin stupid smh
yayy, a kyutie upload! it always makes my days better and makes me feel humbled every time i see stories like these (0v0)
Story 1: Man, I could write a whole essay on this. "I'm not racist! My [relative by marriage] is [different race]!" 🙄🙄
Sweetie, your BF and his family have shown you who they are. You say you ignore most of the microaggressions, but you are also human and contrary to popular belief, you do NOT have to "just take it" because you are worth MORE than that. Also contrary to popular belief, having children by a lighter-skinned person doesn't automatically mean they'll be lighter-skinned. What would you do if you found out that your in-laws were favoring the lighter children over the darker ones? I could go on...but why? Girl, RUN.
Story 2: Cinderella, anyone? The evil stepmother trope is one that's based in reality. I'd be curious to know if there's a significant difference in age/looks between Dad and his new wife. Beyond that...sweetie, you've got two years to save up as much as you can and get your affairs in order so that you can BOUNCE on your 18th birthday. It sucks that you have sucky parents, but there are plenty of folks out here who can relate...
I think my aunt (my late uncle's wife) has always reduced my familys' pics in my cousins' wedding movies in the past. Maybe she just wanted her own brothers etc to get more screentime, it's annoying but my parents ignored it, we just went for my uncle's sake who had been ill and bedridden most of his life. This was before we all had our own cellphones and cameras and had to ask them for photos. It's one thing to tell the cameraman whom to focus on more, but I can't even imagine the hurt and insult of actually being photoshopped out of family photos because of one's colour. I'm sure they will keep doing it and they will 100% photoshop the children too!
And by the way, if dad's daughter isn't wife's 'problem', then she's not a stepdaughter, and dad's wife isn't a stepmom. She's JUST...dad's wife. And she is dad's daughter. Just two people who happen to live in the same house...for NOW. You get what you give.
Hii ellen absolutely loved the video hope that you and coco have had a great day 💜💜💜
literally, THE FUCKING AUDACITY.
In the first story tho I also kinda feel for the bf because even me I've been scared to speak up even though I find it wrong ik it's bad but i kinda feel bad for him 😢
I’m eating ice cream while I’m watching this. This is gonna be an amazing video
honestly, why do people like this exist istgggggg
Holy crap, the person in the second story needs to go to someone else, she is literally being abused by her dad and stepmother. Parentification still happens if it's yourself your looking after. She needs to find a family member who loves her and move in with them because her dad and stepmother both clearly despise her.
It is not parentification. It is neglect. NEGLECT!
Parentification is a form of neglect.
I hope that poor OP in story one dumps the boyfriend and his racist family.
no one:
Kyutie: *Audacity gasp*
#1: You can't say you're kind and see all people as equals when you don't stand up for people that look different from you when it counts. Just because you can appear nice to people for a short period of time doesn't mean you're actually nice. The boyfriend's family is racist. Period. He's in denial and is someone that doesn't like confrontation. He'd rather keep the peace instead of protecting his girlfriend. Just because their family doesn't mean it's fine to ignore their ignorant and toxic behavior. I don't believe him when he says he'd stand up for their kids when he had the chance on multiple occasions to do so for the girlfriend but didn't. Is he only standing up for them because they'll be blood-related? Smh. Honestly, if he can't answer all those honestly to her face and actively make changes, they should lean towards breaking up.
#2: The dad is in his own world to not notice the bad relationship between his daughter and new wife. When someone is making it obvious they don't like you and also makes no effort to improve the relationship as time goes on, you don't need to be the bigger person and try to get on their good side. It's a wasted effort. It's less stressful to just accept nothing will change as the OP did.
So excited to watch this!! I love am I wrong
People just don’t understand that
You never ask people you openly dislike for favors
And if you openly dislike them, they sure as hell won’t do ANYTHING you ask :)
The stepdaughter should have responded to the text: I will cook the entire last ten meals you cooked for me, love included. So you will know what to expect. Love, Neglected Stepdaughter..
Woah ur hair is changing a lot these days! It looks great! As ALWAYS
Or maybe it's because of the lighting...
It is bc she said last video that she tried to dye her hair blue but bc of the bleach it came out greenish and now it has these light highlights
@@lunarialoonatic ohhh, thanks for telling me what happened~
Ah. Good ol' classic racism.
TH-cam has the audacity to make the screen completely black when I clicked the video and I ain't happy about it.
Hello! I hope everyone’s day was great :)
It was okay I'm tired of dealing with mean and rude people
Hii!! Congrats you are first :)
@@solargomez2490 I’m sorry you have to deal with mean people. Remember you are loved, special, and important
anxiety levels are growing bc I have to get some teeth pulled out for braces soon :,)
@@js8303 Thank you :)
Hello Ellen! Despite what you've said about your hair yesterday, I absolutely love it! You look stunning. Hope you have a great day ♥️
My ex’s mum hated me. I get good grades, I’m tee total and I genuinely loved her son. I asked why she hated me and got told bc I’m a white cripple. I told her ex husband she was racist and ableist and he agreed but said that she thought racism was strictly white perpetrators. She harassed me every time she got her hands on my ex’s phone and now wants me to help him with money problems.
Another Wicked Stepmother.
Those fairytales had a point.
The bio parent in these terrible situations are horrible people for putting their child/ren through such awfulness.
They are fundamentally selfish, self centred horrors.
It's one of the signs of narcissistic behaviour allowing someone to abuse your kids.
I hope this girl finds a way to leave home soon.
I used to watch you years ago! I’m shocked your still doing this type of content.
I'm glad you're back!! Even if it's only for one video :D
@@Kyutie. woah this awesome!! I didn’t think you would have replied to me ^^
Hi Kyutie! Just had a quick question; where do you get/find the stories? Your content is amazing! 😁
Not sure the exact platform, but I’ve seen some of these on reddit. I think there’s some certain subreddits for the ones she does.
I think it would have been less backlash if she waited to post till a later date, though, when I'm angry, I don't do stuff like that.
for the last story I would cook for the kids as they have done absolutely nothing but as they eat if the stepmom decides to get some food id tell her she can't and it's not my problem she did not cook for herself. op did nothing wrong , her dad and stepmom are the demons here
Why should the first OP apologize when she was the one insulted? And why isn't her gutless boyfriend standing up for her? Is she really thinking of having children with this man? I urge her not to, and start packing her things to go. The mother's remark about ruining her daughter's wedding was out of line too, as well as the snooty uncle who had her photoshopped out of his pictures. Sounds like his niece takes after him. Please, honey, find a new boyfriend who respects you enough to defend you when you're insulted, even by his own family.
After them two years girl you can leave cause that is the most stupid crap I’ve heard. Not a grown woman competing with a 16 year old. It’s giving just leave cause who is she to say this crap? To do things like this?
First story: Sister-in-law is a real “female dog”. Cut contact. The rest of the family sounds like a bunch of winners, too. This lady needs to think very carefully about her future with this man and his family. Second story: Father needs to step up for his daughter. Sounds like stepmother wants the daughter to be a servant.
WOW ELLEN IS SO PRETTY IN EVERY VIDEO
Get rid of all of them, including the bf!
Story 1: Def NOT the a-hole, wholly crap... that's just... wow... the bf better think hard about this.
Story 2: NTA, especially since the stepmom was being a hypocrite and asking OP to cook her something when she doesn't cook anything for her. The dad... oml, def the a-hole for not defending his daughter.
Dad in the second story shouldn't get to talk, he's such a trash.
Gotta love when racists get called out and then cry about it...
For the first story, tbh, I think that the girl should just leave her bf and move on from the racist family. For what has been happening to her, it is unforgiveable to stay with her bf who can't even stand up for her. A milion red flags.
I love kyutie's videos sm but it feel like a while since I've commented aha
Last story: move out. Both parents married trash
Story1 - This is colour-discrimination n racism, sister-in-law is clearly in the wrong. The girl did her a favour recommended the photographer n this the thanks she gets. S-I-L, all of the sister-in-law side of the family r racist n now their lil secret is out n the world is judgin em they can't handle it. If SIL had a problem w/ the way she looked she could have just honest n told her or just nt invite her or just sorted it out in private. The fact SIL friends ratted her out just proves she a bad person. We live in multiple national society nw, people of different races n cultures have n r mixin in family n it is unexcusable 2 behave like th@ anymore. Prejudice n Bigotry r the biggest cause of war, conflict n death both in the past n present. The Bf knows this n knew all about w@ his family was doin n still would nt stand up 2 em 2 defence his gf, just shows his a coward n a pushover. Girl I think u should break up w/ him if he is willin 2 tolerate this n nt stand by u when they in the wrong then his nt the right man 4 u. U have more then enough evidence 2 report SIL n her family 2 the police or file a lawsuit against em if it ruin ur relationships w/ so b it. U deserve better than this, no-one should put up w/ this treatment.
Story2- is the dad blind or completely in the dark about this whole situation? His new wife is practically bullyin his daughter n he either doesn't no or doesn't care. I thought when u get remarried u ensure th@ ur new spouse gets along w/ ur children from another marriage or @ least u should. The daughter is bein treated like dirt, while it was terrible w@ happened 2 her sister, but it really is her responsibility 2 cook n look after some1 else children especially if she gets no thanks or gratitude 4 it, the daughter has got enough 2 worry about bein 16, bein treated unfairly by her family n havin 2 buy n cook her own. The step-mum could easily have organised something, don't dish out w@ u can't take bk. N the dad needs 2 realizes th@ n get his priorities straight b4 he destroys his relationship w/ his daughter, she choose 2 live w/ him a reason. Don't do something ur regret later.
what that woman in the first did should have been charged with a hate crime cause am i the only one who thought that was racist?
How is your family erasing your spouse from all the photos "small petty things"
The first family is definitely racist, she should probably break off her relationship, cos otherwise these things will keep happening.
Oh yeah, you followed my advice 😼
I mean age doesn't have to do with cooking, you can when you know ,
Cus kyutie kept saying how is she cooking while she's 16
Well me and my sisters cooked in that age😀
I love your videos kyutie
Great vid! I’m the earliest I’ve ever been lol
I bet the thumbnail is secretly implying that the sister-in-law is jealous of her beauty. She claimed that she's not racist nor is her family, so I'm starting to theorize that she's jealous of someone with Middle Eastern genetics out shining her on her wedding day.
Always really happy when you post a video😊😊😊😊😊
Great video was always^^
You should dye your hair purple next time!!
Yay. More stories with no real resolution.
That's because the people who share these stories are asking for advice on whether or not what they did was wrong.
But yeah, I'd love to know the outcome of stories like these.
Next do “NON-BINARY who have the audacity”
I’m confused…?
@@lunarialoonatic She did men who have the audacity 2 days ago. Today was women who had audacity and the op wanted a non binary version too.
@@lunarialoonatic wdm?
The video would just be called "People who had the audacity" wouldn't it? It's gender neutral and most of the time there isn't many stories about non-binary people because they're either not out to the family or the person telling the story doesn't care.
@@blackcloversw.4302 true
Can't keep watching because of the lip smacking 😭 I'm soooo sorry because your videos literally are ✨amazing✨. Personally I just get really annoyed when sb smacks their lips. But keep up the good work! You are so cute and you deserve all the love ☺️❤️ (most wholesome comment section)
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Hiii!!! Just in time!
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Third!
Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉
For the first story…
I mean I can sort of see why the SIL would be embarrassed by the instagram post because anyone you both know can see what you put on your account and either stand with or go against her (the SIL). OP slightly crossed the line here but SIL was 2000% in the wrong for talking bullcrap behind her back
Nah, bigotry deserves to be exposed. She was racist, and was exposed as one. Simple as that and anyone is free to ditch her or continue talking to her knowing that fact- We'll just know what kind of person you are based on which one you'll pick.
@@sadhourstwentyfourseven9578 I’m definitely on OP’s side, that’s for sure. I’m only saying OP crossed the line a tad bit by posting the conversation online, as it’s a personal issue. But SIL should not have interfered and just allowed her brother to love whoever he’s with, and if she really wants to cut contact with OP and her family then that’s on her, she’s welcome to do so if she wants, or just live with it and keep her thoughts to herself (though that would probably be hard because she’s so vocal about it). If OP’s boyfriend doesn’t say anything supporting her, then they should break up because several people in BF and SIL’s family don’t seem to care about OP’s feelings
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Actually second.
But here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈
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Sorry, but how is this a "women who had the audacity" story, if 1/3 is about a shitty boyfriend and his even worse family and 1/3 is about a shitty dad and the equally shitty stepmom? I know the stories started with a woman but heck, this pretty much reflects worse on men then women. So much for the perceived fairness of making a video each. Smh
Maybe it's just harder to find "Women who had the audacity" stories that aren't already used 🤷♀ (I think that might actually be the case due to how society views women vs men)
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I was agreeing with everything you said about the stepmom. Because everything you said is exactly what I said before you said it LMAOO. 🤍