People Who Are UNBELIEVABLE
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- People Who Are UNBELIEVABLE
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I don’t care what favors you’ve done for someone. Don’t touch someone without permission. Don’t try to hijack a pregnancy. Don’t act like a total creep.
You can’t convince me that the sister and BIL weren’t going to eventually “babysit” for Op and then just straight up disappear with the baby.
That's what it sounded like to me too that they were trying to either steal her baby, or possibly when she had the baby that they was going to try to convince her to give it up for adoption to them.
Now they are guiltripping smh
Yeah they will probably say he IS the father and she'll have to get a paternity test to prove he isn't, they're delusional.
@@Park-Kim_VMin I think they would try to do 1 of those things or try to get custody/become guardians of the baby. I believe/think that they want to raise her baby as their own.
1st story- I would definitely NEVER have that baby around the sister and brother in law without the mother and multiple trusted family members around because...yikes. They are either going to try to steal that child or mentally and emotionally manipulate that child.
Some women lie and say their baby is less than 40 weeks old in the womb because there are multiple stories of pregnant women who are close to going into labor (meaning they could give birth in like a week or so) getting cut open and having their babies stolen right from their womb (an instance is a woman i think 40 weeks pregnant had her stomach cut open in the middle of a target and got her baby stolen by a crazy lady)
Exactly. I feel like they might harm her for that child
I wouldn’t have that baby around them PERIOD. It’s so hard to comprehend someone actually doing that to a person ESPECIALLY someone that close, it’s just awful that they’re are people out there that who are self centred enough to think doing that and acting that way is “reasonable” or okay in any way shape or from. It sickens me to my core to see so many people face the same abuse I have but this, this is a whole new level of not okay.
That's what I feel too
I think they would try to do 1 of those things or try to convince OP to give the baby up for adoption to them. I agree that she should only allow the sister and BIL (brother in law) to be around the baby if she herself and/or multiple trusted family members can supervise/keep watch. Another thing the sister and BIL could possibly try to do is get custody/become guardians of the baby.
First story - anyone else get the feeling that the OP would have an "unfortunate incident" after the baby was born? And sis and BIL just take over the baby......🙀
The BIL and sister can just adopt a kid if they want to be parents so much
Yeah as soon as the story started I knew it.. the sister and BIL seem really suspicious
Or just do something to try to cause her to lose custody of her baby. Really creepy
9:20 Agreed. That's super suspicious the fact that the HOUSEKEEPER told her instead of her own husband.
if u mean that as in the housekeeper was up to smth creepy i dont really agree but otherwise i do, like what if the husband and friend's wife werent really just greeting each other
@@lynxii3234 yeah, I meant it as in the husband was being suspicious
that's not the main problem for me. The husband could just really consider it unimportant. But maybe the housekeeper thought something was off and "snitched".
The problem is the other woman's husband didn't know. If it was something innocent for the woman then her husband would know. Not because she would need to tell him but because she wouldn't need to hide it so it would come out in normal conversations.
@@wisteria3032 yeah, if it was something that was happening daily and they lived together, it’d make sense that she’d bring up where she was.
I grew up in a well-off family, and we always got our clothes from yard sales and thrift stores. Honestly if the mom cared that much about how her daughter dressed, then she could go thrift shopping with her to help pick out the best stuff. You can find some really great clothes at thrift stores. But if the issue with her is that she is buying used clothes, then that is messed up. I mean, it's messed up anyway. That mom is being ridiculous.
That's what I thought too
I got toenail fungus from salvation army socks, once. I keep getting rid of it, and then put on boots out of the back of the closet to shovel snow or something, and it comes back. I don't shop those places , anymore...
I mean just my opinion
But if you're rich and you have all the money so just buy normal clothes
And leave the cheaper ones for those who are in need
@@paradisegirl6610 that's a great idea too. In this story, if the girl chose to wear simple clothes over clothes that looked "rich" that's completely understandable and the mom was not right to exclude her. But we don't know what actually happened so we cannot judge
The mom is being ridiculous. The only exception to the restaurant incident would be if the restaurant had a particular dress code and it doesn't sound like it...poor kid, being punished for being charitable and kind
First story, it sounds like the sister and brother in law expect to raise the child for some reason. Touching someone when they don't want you to is a form of abuse. This is never acceptable and she was right to speak up.
First story- I hate how society treats pregnant people as objects. Just touching them, judging their choices. Like when my mother was preg. With me, she said so many people would just touch the bump?! What’s wrong with people
i swear, if i ever have my own children, anybody who treats me as an object is getting a ride to the hospital.
@@keringtoncondron7273 Go for it! I'll turn off their ventilators if they try to sue you or something (for sending them to the hospital)
I mean, the touching is gross and an invasion, but people are allowed to judge one's choices, they just can't make you do anything. That's just free speech. If a woman drinks while pregnant for a more extreme example, screw her I'm gonna call her what she is and say it's wrong.
@@keringtoncondron7273ooh damn, I would totally be that friend for you that'll help you kick them in the face for treating you like an object.
for the first story, if I were the sister, I'd be mad at my husband for acting like he's my sister's baby father...
That woman caring more about appearance that her daughter being so sweet and helpful with others is awful. You don't NEED to show off if you are rich or no. If she cares about the kind of parent she'll be in other people's eyes, maybe she needs to actually become a GOOD parent.
0:05: Brother-in-law has exposed himself as the creepy uncle.
3:45: Sandy's mom is very vain and narcissistic. Obviously she values her image more than her own daughter.
7:37: Her husband's friend's wife constantly going to check up on this woman's husband certainly raises suspicions. I can't blame the wife for getting worked up over this. Who knows what's going on there.
Yeah
I don't think the wife in story 2 is the mom, she's just his wife.
Otherwise i feel like "her family" would have issues with how she treats their grandchild, or there would atleast be a discussion.
Like I step in for my sisters kids if I see shit being wrong, they are my flesh and blood.
1st Story: I feel like her sister and brother in law were angling to convince her she can't be a 'single' parent - even though the father is still in the picture even if they're not together anymore - and that they'll take the kid. Seems like they skipped a bunch of steps though.
The steps will be coming if op isn't aware
2nd story
For someone so obsessed with class, that wife sure doesn't have any. Imagine having such a sweet, selfless daughter and shaming and excluding her for it.
Taking all the things your parents bought for you and selling it for charity? That's like robbing her parents off the money. Everytime they buy her clothes she's going to sell it and give it away. Would she give away all the money when she worked for it?
@@rashidaabdurahman6992 it's her old stuff it's not like she is receiving birthday gifts then pawning them off the next day. If she doesn't want to live an expensive life that is her choice. No one should be shamed for that. You can't tell me you've kept everything your parents ever gave you that you outgrew wether size wise or because you changed your style changed. Plus if they are as rich as they claimed then it shouldn't matter.
@@rashidaabdurahman6992 dude just what exactly do you think "charity" is? are you serious? everyone is like that. some people who are alone and do charity is their own money but people who has family, it happens and it's normal because that's how it is. plus it's old and not useful anymore. geez.
@@rashidaabdurahman6992 not every single damn thing you own is your own.
@@ghostofthemoon I think she gave away her current expensive clothes too. That's why she didn't have any to wear for her mom's bday. If you are going to sell everything your parents bought you, isn't it a disrespect to her parents? Also she could have just worn a good dress for one day to make her mom happy, it's not that hard. She can give it away after the party anyway.
And not wanting an expensive life is not shameful or bad, it's actually good. But that doesn't mean being so inconsiderate about her mom's request is good either.
My daughter went to a Christian school and the principal and I had a discussion about my daughter that made me angry. That night he called my husband and said he needs to talk to me about how I acted and let me know that I was inappropriate and needed guidance from my husband. I was so angry. But I also laughed at him.
What went down at the school that caused you and the principal to have such a heated argument?
Take your daughter out of that school ASAP, if that's how they treat grown adults I shudder at the thought of how they treat children.
that mom was a real evil person to treat her own flesh and blood like that the dad is 100% correct in defending their daughter honestly as a dad myself he's dad of the year:) the husband in Italy was wrong if someone is showing you unwanted affection by regularly coming over while your wife is gone in a different country no less very disrespectful no matter how long you've been friends it's unnecessary for a friends wife to show up everyday uninvited and unannounced she's up too no good 1,000,000% & the wife from the UK has every right to be angry an say something about it! luv'ed the vid Ellen you are awesome 💚💙
Sister and BIL want to take OP's baby. She needs to *GET OUT OF DODGE!*
There are sick people, even relatives, who would kill a pregnant woman so they could steal her baby
And those friends? Definitely also friends, and even minions, of the sister!
The husbands comment tells me a lot, he is interested and or already having a relationship with this person.
1 - Creepy... Just creepy...
2 - I hope that man leaves his wife for what she did to her own daughter, she should be proud of the fact her daughter is selfless and wanting to actually help others. Money comes and goes, images change, everything changes. It could be for the better or for the worst. The mom needs a serious wake up call.
3 - I would hire a PI on the husband and the wife of his friend... Perhaps they're more then friends. Plus it makes it more suspicious that they're both upset over this incident or that just me?
If they get upset then their doing something their not suppose to do, and don't like getting somewhat caught.
First story
I would've moved out the moment they started trying to control me (eating habit part). Would've cut communication off with them after 8 months I've had the baby
And where would you live lmaooo on the street lol
@@cruxal216 not with some creepy ass people that act creepy and suspicious like they're going to steal my baby and say they're "daddy" when they're the uncle sorry but they just sound creepy AF
@@cruxal216 the story said that the sis and the BIL begged her to stay with them she probably has her own place or she can go to her parents house or her brother's house plus living in the street will be better than living with them
@@charu3205 fam we don’t know if she has her own place Op never said if she did or not. We don’t know if Op has brother or not.
@@cruxal216 idk about her own place but the story said she went with her brother to her sister and BIL house to pick up her clothes
That BIL is so creepy how is the sister even okay with her husband pretending to be the father of her SISTER'S kid??? That's creepy af. And the more embarrassing thing is him pretending to be the father of the kid of someone who isn't his own wife, and doing that in front of others. How did no one call him out, what a creep. Someone please protect the girl and her baby from that perv 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Story 1:
Just because they are doing you a favor doesn't give them the right to touch you however they want.
Everything else was negotiable. She moved in under the assumption that they would get to experience pregnancy through her. She hasn't told them to back off yet so the other actions are boundary pushing but OP didn't state is was a boundary so they have plausible deniability.
BUT
The minute BIL put hands on her, without asking, let alone in public while referring to the kid as his, that was clearly a point where he was in the wrong.
Putting hands on someone is a universal boundry that everyone knows about, so they clearly were stepping all over it.
He realized he was wrong, he doesn't want to admit he is wrong, that is why he is embarrassed.
People are probably going to talk more about the fact that sandy wasn't at her own mom's birthday than what sandy was wearing to her mom's birthday. That's sus and if your friend group is the sort that gossips about the sort of clothes someone is wearing, they're probably more likely to gossip about how your daughter didn't come to your birthday\you didn't want her to come to your birthday.
NO BECAUSE THAT FIRST STORY IS SO CREEPY! HE’S NOT THE FUCKING FATHER
bruh its so creepy theres no other way to say it
not even an uncle or godfather, he straight up claimed he's the father. gross
I wonder if they would've tried to guilt-trip her into giving the child up for adoption to them, and or straight up trying to kidnap the baby...
@@sleeperscreepers7289 bruh i bet
Sandy sounds like an amazing kid.
Absolutely!! If I were Sandy’s parent, I’d be tripping over myself bragging about how kind, generous, and humble she is.
Yeah
Sounds like it’s on the dad’s behalf
I feel horrible for that poor girl. Hell, I wear thrift stuff cause it’s a little cheaper and you do get interesting stuff there that you normally can’t afford anywhere else. What that bitch of a “mom” did was horrible. I hope in the future, her precious appearance bites her hard in the ass.
The first one: I already see that this couple is going to pressure OP on giving up her parental rights for her baby and letting them adopting the baby.
First story: I get the feeling sister and bil would kidnap that baby after he/she is born. Second story: the wife is a snob! She needs to get her act together, or lose everything.
Red flag on the BIL who talks as if the baby is his. While I am surprised his wife did not put an end to that fantasy, if get the feeling there is more to this arrangement than the couple wanting to experience what it is like to be pregnant. I can see the couple going to a lawyer about getting custody of the baby once it is born. The best thing this mother to be could do would be to get away from them as quickly as possible.
In the story, OP mentioned that she had her brother take her to their (sister's and BIL's) house so she could get her clothes and other stuff. She said that she did this after BIL touched her. Based on that, I'm guessing she went to her brother's place or her parent's place or the house of another family member/relative/friend. The only friends she should keep are the ones who said she isn't in the wrong. I think that the sister and BIL trying to get custody of the baby is a possibility. Another couple of possibilities are that they could try to steal the baby or try to convince her to give the baby up to them for adoption.
@@booklover1298 When I listened to the rest of the story, I was happy to find that my thoughts were correct. Unfortunately, I am something of an empath and when I get a thought, I share it. Sometimes it is right and sometimes slightly off the mark, but generally in the ballpark. I remember commenting when she mentioned that the BIL started talking as if it was his kid, and was still early in the story.
1st story, wow what fake frrinds op has! They literally said him harrasing and assaulting them was okay because he gave them free stuff!
OP mentioned/said that some friends said she was in the wrong and some said she wasn't in the wrong. I think that she should only keep the friends that said she wasn't in the wrong.
8:56 dude that husband has no respect for his wife, he should of told the girl to leave and agreed with his wife.
The first story, op u should've run when they asked u to move in with them but said they wanted to baby test with u. U shouldn't agree on moving with them after hearing what they said. And op, since u have good terms with ur ex. I really suggested op need to contact her ex and warn him because her sister and her husband are one of those people and highly likely to steal op's kid. Op, u really need ro move out, dump those so-called friends and protect ur kid from them.
the third story reminds me of the country song about if you don't stay away from my man we're going to fist city. guarentee that a good old country gal would have put a whoopin on the floozy
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Well, he DID say if she didn't bring Sandy he would cancel the party so...
Exactly!! It’s her fault for testing this man’s love for his kid. Her picture perfect image is not more important than a child’s emotional stability, and if she didn’t want consequences for her actions, she shouldn’t have committed them in the first place.
Love the hard work you put into your videos, Ellen!
These “am I wrong stories” are ADDICTIVE.
If I had a married male guy friend I would just make sure that he told his wife we were hanging out, and if she asked me to back off I would tell her I'm not interested but would respect her wishes as long as I still get to be his friend and hang out sometimes even if it's just as a group, that being said I'm not gonna come over every day
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Second story, as the dad should. Good on the dad for siding with his daughter who just wanted to be kind and help those who are in need
The Dress the Class story is crazy!! I find expensive brands at thrift stores all the time and I have a few really cute dresses.
Hi Ellen, I’m on a road trip but we encounter a accident. Seeing this video really bring my mood up.
I hope everyone’s alright
@@tikkilover4890 Everyone is alright, just the car got broken. There was a broken tire piece on the road, my mom couldn’t dodge it and it broke the front and back bumper. My dad had to drive 6 hours to get to us.
@@theclowningegg Ahh thank goodness your dad was able to get y'all and you're all safe. 💞
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also you always make such a difference when you post by making my day (and everyone else’s) just a little bit better
In 2nd story I think they all need to have a proper talk. It's extremely good doing charity and I support the girl in this case. But giving everything you've is not a great idea. It was her mom's birthday and many people were going to be there. So she should have at least agreed to wear nice clothes. Don't get me wrong, people are judgemental so when they see the daughter not wearing something nice but her parents wearing something expensive they will think the parents don't treat the daughter well. But also the mother be more understanding about it.
Exactly, the mom didnt even protest about her daughter doing the charity, but its quite true about the clothes/appearance thingy, people do talk a lot behind someone's back
Yea, not enough information was given to make a decision on it. Like, what was the dress code of the restaurant vs what Sandy was wanting to wear? How was the conversation that the mom and Sandy had? There could have been multiple attempts to get Sandy to dress the dress code of the restaurant before an ultimatum was given. Also, it was her mother's birthday. Surely, Sandy could have put aside her preferences for one night and worn something that would have made her mother happy on her mother's birthday.
I think the pregnant girls sister and BIL are wanting her to give them her baby.
I love your videos.
First story. Good for you moving out of your sister's house when things got too creepy. First of all the sister & brother-in-law were acting very creepy. Just because the sister isn't capable of having a child doesn't mean she has to act as if the child the person who posted this story is hers. The brother-in-law was super creepy when he said that he was the baby's daddy... Do you know that sounds as if the real mother was cheating on her sister. Those friends who sided with the creepy couple... what were you drinking? or smoking? Thank God that you do have some sane friends who stuck by your side.
Second story. Good job dad sticking up for your daughter Sandy. You shouldn't have to apologized to your wife for hurting your daughter. The mom isn't even a good mom.
Third story. The wife was in the right to inform the friend of her husband who had no idea the his wife kept seeing someone else's husband when the wife was in the UK. The husband of the one who posted the story should have cared more about what his wife thought when another women kept showing up at his place when the wife was not around... instead of maintaining that kind of friendship with the other woman.
1st story: sister and husband were totally trying to get the baby… nothing else.
2nd story: I grew up well off and we literally dressed like we were. I grew up being told that ppl with actual class don’t show off…
3rd story: is it possible that the two were having an affair? Or the friends wife was trying to smuggle herself into an affair and the husband was just oblivious like how most men are? There’s so many questions
7:23 this pretty true right?
I mean they would have eyes on the birthday girl unless they want to take a family photo
But she should be proud of Sandy cause she helps people in need
But then again if her mom is like this, then no wonder she doesn't like Sandy
Both are different
The mother cares about appearance and herself while Sandy cares about other people
Man didn't go too far
He's not in the wrong 👍
first story: yeah it's really hard to choose who is right here. One is a pregnant (hormones) teenager (hormones) who has been pressured if not blackmailed into letting her BIL have a part in her baby's life. The other one is a creepy man who uses his house as leverage to control his wife's sister who's almost half his age. Yeah I suppose it's her fault after all. I mean... correcting him when he implied being the child's father... how dare she.
second story: the situation could have been handled a lot better. The girl was being stubborn, she needs to learn that in some occasions and places you dress a certain way. It's called class, it's taught and she will probably accept it when she is a bit older. That said the wife's behaviour was obscene: even if someone doesn't follow your dress code you show off your wealth mainly through your education and grace. She should have asked nicely to dress appropriately but then should have just accepted the fact that she's a teenager. It's called class, it's taught and she will probably never learn it.
Third story. As an Italian myself I can confirm that the woman has ulterior motives. I have lots of male friends and with my best friend I would probably have no problems using his home as if it was my own. The problem is her husband not knowing anything: if it was something innocent she would have told him. Also if it was something innocent no one would be gossiping (no one gossips about me and my best friend. They stopped doing that half way through high school when it became clear there would never be anything between us)
First story sounds like the sister and BIL were going to kidnap the baby 😬 creepy...
There are many stories and news about mothers who are abused, or even killed by those who can’t have children. I bet that once her child is born, both the selfish assholes, and basically the whole family will pressure OP into letting them adopt it. And those “friends” who say she’s in the wrong and not allow the creeper BIL to continue to call the child “his” and “daddy”, are just pitiful. Just because they gave her a room and board, doesn’t mean they practically own her and her baby.
The person who wrote the 1st story needs to get a dang restraining order against both her BIL and her sister :/
Besides if they text, call, or come near her they could get arrested 👹
I love these kind of videos. When you're often misunderstood you often feel pretty lonely too and then you hear these stories and think to yourself.. wow it's not just happening to me and some are really a lot worse.
So thank you for these videos and not feeling so alone anymore!
PS. I love your hairstyle
Lol my cat was so sassy. He woke up my mom and her boyfriend 4 times. Before 4 am lol to demand to be brushed lol 😆 😂
To be brushed?? Lol why is this kind of precious.
@@reneenevermore2771 lol my mom was getting pissed at him.
@@solargomez2490 I mean I would too honestly but the reason is still kind of adorable haha
@@reneenevermore2771 trust me I laughed so hard when I heard the story this morning on the way to work
I personally definitely think it should be normalized for men and women to have exclusively platonic affection for one another but there is also a difference between that and showing up everyday at a married man's house without his wife there or her knowledge. I personally wouldn't stop hanging out with someone who is married I would just make sure the spouse knew and was comfortable with it and I wouldn't do it excessively. There really is no need to spend that much time with a married man.
I love the hair, Kyutie! 💕
3rd story sounds like the husband is cheating with the housekeeper. There are so many red flags in that story. The fact the housekeepers husband didn't know she was going over there. The fact she got angry that MC told her husband what she had been doing. The fact the husband is acting indifferent and also kind of blames the wife as well. If he was committed he'd stand up for his wife. Man is cheating with housekeeper. That's all I've got to say.
I hate it when people say “It’s not a big deal” as they make a big deal about something 🙄
Not only was the birthday Mom controlling and unreasonable with her daughter, but she lied to her husband about why Sandy wasn't at the party. Two strikes! Three, and you're out!!
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1st story is creepy im glad she got out safely
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Story #1, OP put herself into that situation. She demonstrated that she's NOT good at making decisions.
The first story is just disgusting. Especially that brother in law. Like bruh, wtf 😒
Omg early again love you kyutie 😄😄😄 Hope you’re doing good!☺️
10:02 if we were friends, and you stopped coming because of my wife, I'd go to you, because I don't want her to ruin our friendship. Point is, if you don't feel comfortable enough as my friend to come over until *she* invites you, then she is not the wife for me.
It’s been a while since I watched one of ur vids and u changed ur hair! It looks so good!
the story about dressing like your class is so funny to me because billionaires often dress like regular degular people
The husband that cancelled the event needs to rethink his marriage, I'm betting he's the well off one and she's using his money, hope he divorces her for his daughters sake ( sounds like wife never grown up from high-school era)
Maybe in first story..... sister and BIL want to adopt that baby
Hi Ellen! I'm normally not here early, but know that your hard work and deication is greatly appreciated!
With the 2nd story, the mother could've just been kind and ask for her to wear something nice at an event, or just let her be.
As for the husband and wife living in different countries, maybe the husband never said anything because there IS something for his wife to be worried about.
I love your videos!!
First story is sooooooooo freaking creepy like what the heck and what the hell is up with her sister and friends you would have to be insane to think she is in the wrong like hello!!!!
Love these videos!
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I AM SO HAPPY TO JUST SIT DOWN AND WATCH THIS WITH MY DOGS AND POPCORN, TODAY HAS BEEN SHIT
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Story 1: I have a feeling that BIL and sis may have told people that they were adopting the baby. Or at least they would have tried to talk the mom into it.
Off topic but you always look AMAZING. Please tell where you get your jewelry, they really look nice.❤️❤️
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Who makes moves on a friend's husband like that?
People are weird 😩🖤
The other womans husband had a right to know
1st Story: OP shouldn't have moved in with her sister and BIL (brother in - law) when they asked her to because they wanted to experience "being pregnant." OP should only allow the sister and BIL to be around the baby if she herself and/or multiple trusted family members can keep watch/supervise. Or she shouldn't allow them to be around the baby at all. I think that the sister and BIL would try to mentally and/or emotionally manipulate the baby or try to convince OP to give the baby up to them for adoption. Another thing I think the sister and BIL could try to do is steal the baby. Another thing the sister and BIL could try to do is get custody of/become guardians of the baby. OP needs to cut out/cut off the friends who say that she is in the wrong. Those people aren't her friends. She should keep the friends who said that she isn't in the wrong. OP mentions that she got her clothes and other stuff from the house, so I'm guessing that means she moved out.
2nd Story: The mom saying that the daughter dressing in thrift shop clothes was/is giving the impression that they're poor and paints a picture that they are negelctful parents is a lie. The mom cares more about images/appearances than she cares about Sandy (the daughter). The dad did the right thing when he stood up for Sandy, cancelled the event, and had everyone go home early.
3rd Story: I disagree with Kyutie's opinion/decision. The wife of the husband's friend shouldn't have kept visiting OP's husband unannounced. It didn't seem to bother OP's husband much. He just told her (his friend's wife) to arrange something because he doesn't like to be disturbed while working. OP shouldn't have contacted her husband's friend and asked him to tell his wife to stop. The wife of the husband's friend is her own person and can make her own decisions. She doesn't always have to tell her husband where she is going. People of the opposite sex/gender can be friends (close or not close) without being romantically involved. A person shouldn't stop having friends of the opposite sex/gender just because they (the person) have a significant other/partner. "Respect for/to the wife" doesn't mean that someone of the opposite sex/gender can/should only visit if the wife invites them over.
I think the point with the third story is that the Op Wife mentioned that she was uncomfortable with her showing up unannounced to their home specifically when she isn't in the country, usually when no one's even home. The husband didn't say anything on the issue. The Op Wife was just suggesting that she at least calls ahead of time so someone's actually there.
The Husband's Friend's Wife knew it was making her uncomfortable and didn't care and continued to push that boundary.
There wasn't any implication that the Op Wife thought the Husband's Friend's Wife needed permission from her husband to go places. She was trying to talk to another friend who she thought knew about it, since her husband clearly wasn't going to do anything about it even if it bothered her, so someone else could try and convince that she was making The Op's Wife uncomfortable and that she shouldn't be intentionally doing that. Respect the boundary that someone sets on their own home. It's basic curtesy.
No, a husband doesn't need to know where his wife is. And yes, men and woman can have platonic relationships. However, going over to a man's house, only when his wife is out of the country basically every single day and not once informing your spouse that you were doing so even though you are a part of the same friend group doesn't paint a pretty picture. Especially when you try and make yourself out to be the victim and everyone else as unreasonable when people attempted to talk to you beforehand about how it made them uncomfortable.
The perspective of the story wouldn't change if they were all women or if they were all men or if the gender roles were swapped. It wouldn't matter because it paints the same picture. Especially since the Op's Wife didn't even learn what was going on from her husband. And considering they are all from the same friend group, there is absolutely no reason to keep those visits a secret from their respective spouse's unless they were hiding something or there was something else going on.
Also, look at it from this perspective. If the Op's Husband's Friend's Wife constantly did this every single day, I think anyone would grow curious as to where their spouse was going. Not that said spouse would need permission to go anywhere or they have to tell their spouse where they are going every single time that they went out, but if my significant other went out every single day consistently, I would be curious as to where they went. And I would ask them simply out of curiosity. And if the Op's Husband's Friend didn't know about these met ups between his wife and his friend, she may have been potentially lying about where she was going since he knew absolutely nothing about it.
Not to say this is certain since it was never confirmed, but it's another thing to keep in mind. It has nothing to do with a man's permission and platonic friendships, no matter how you look at it it's suspicious. Anyone would think so, no matter the gender role anyone played in this scenario.
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i just wanted to talk about this: When i was younger i was talking to my oldest brother about something in a game? well my older brother by i think 2 years came in (lets call him Bill) Well bill said "You are a crybaby!" This embarrassed me and my oldest brother laughed. i went out the room a few minutes after and grew self conscious. I sometimes had sucidal thoughts like "Im a burden and i should attempt to kill myself with one of the kitchen knifes!" or "No one will know how i feel. Im just a cry baby and no one would care if i died." Some one at my school influenced this well not exactly a bully but she always looked at me with a bad look making me feel hated. one time i told her to stop but she didnt listen saying "Whats wrong with me looking" rolling her eyes. the next day i said again "If i die today it will be your fault" and left. Well she also didnt listen. This may not sound bad but it made me think more of "No one would care if i died. They would be fine / happy if i died" luckily i held back. i dont know why but i never sucided..maybe its because of my family, maybe i knew it was wrong but i held back. This is one story but i always felt like this when i was: Stressed, sad, mad, ect which is the reason i dont think its depression since its not constant. it probably was just like everyone but.. this is just one story of it... Edit: The girl at school also made me feel nervous.
Last Story: The Housekeeper ratted her out to the wife because even she can see how inappropriate the friends wife is acting. If that's just her personality then why doesn't she do it when the guy's wife is in town and only when she's gone and can't enforce boundaries. Also the husband has probably become desensitized because this woman has probably been doing this behavior for years. Also the suspicious friends wife is only mad at getting called out because she knows her husband doesn't know her whereabouts and what she gets up to and he and anyone else can see she's acting like a snake in the grass. If she thought her behavior was normal and perfectly pleasant she wouldn't care who knew. People only hide things when they're inconvenient or wrong.
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if it was enough to cause gossip between the friends clearly she wasn't in the right :/
Could you read some of the comments for the articles that is asking for opinions or link to the articles in your videos. I’m curious of how other respond.
1st story- Honestly I see the brother in law acting pretty weird, the story doesn’t say that the sister was trying to say the baby was her’s or anything. The brother in law really did act creepy tho I’m surprised the sister was ok with this because the way the person wrote the story made it seem as if the brother in law actually liked her and it’s just weird. Hearing someone who isn’t romantically involved with the person going up to them and touching their belly and saying “Hi, it’s me your daddy”, like what? Your making people think your cheating on your wife with her and got her pregnant like bro. Some people are so stupid. If you want a kid then adopt Jesus.
If you treat your own blood like that for just clothes, I am gonna hand you divorce right there and then
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I don't 100% agree with the verdict of the 3rd story.
I agree that she shouldn't have kept going over unannounced, but at the same time, OP's husband wasn't bothered by it, which is probably why he didn't say anything.
Men and women can be close friends without it being romantic. People seem to always forget that.
If OP's husband was bothered with the other wife's behavior, he would have mentioned it.
Also, the Wife's Husband really doesn't have to know every little thing she does. She's her own person that can make her own decisions. She doesn't have to tell her Husband where she's going if she doesn't want to.
Also, a bit of advice: Don't listen to Kyutie about not going to your friends house if they are romantically involved. As long as your friend invites you, you're free to go over. Your friend's partner shouldn't have a say in who your friend hangs out with. It's their decision.
In all honesty, if your friend's romantic partner is getting upset with you for spending time with your friend, that probably isn't a relationship that your friend should keep unless they're willing to talk through their issue's together.
Was looking for this comment - I think OP was right to call this woman out just because it sounded like she was being a bother. But the whole 'as soon as you are romantically involved with someone (of the other gender) don't hang out with your friends (of the other gender) anymore' is ridiculous and toxic. "respect for the wife" is not suddenly unfriending your friend! Wtf. If I was the wife, I'd be horrified.
OP READ EDIT ...But the housekeeper told the OP and just OP that's why it got suspicious of 'the friend'. Also going anywhere you want is liberty but if someone is coming to your house, you would at least (many prefers) want be notified and know who is coming to your house ,so I think that's where things turn over.You expect you friends whether male or female (if you are an adult and have a family you want boundaries, privacy reasons) to atleast announce their visitation. I disagree with kyutie's advice though.
Edit: It's not about bothering.I mean wife and husband share the house so I think it's important for both to know what's going on around the house as they both 'together' are the sole 'owner ' and 'keeper' of the house. The fact she only got to know that 'someone is coming over her house for days that too unannounced' without her having any idea about it, is what took the situation and perception of it upside down.She only got to know from the housekeeper, if it weren't from the housekeeper it wouldn't have been known to her.Boundaries must have disrespected in her views.Not to mention the exaggerated reaction of the friend.Husband is sounds fine though the friend sounds like having some bad intentions towards op, husband and their house.
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First story: she was right to get out of there. Brother in law and sister are out of line. Sounds like they might try to take custody of the baby. Second story: Sandy is a much more caring and charitable person than her mother, who sounds as fake as they come. Do not apologize. Third story: The other wife shouldn’t be dropping over uninvited on a near daily basis. It might be innocent or it might not.
I know it isn’t the focus of the second story, but it really rubbed me the wrong way when the wife straight up denied leaving Sandy out when initially confronted before the birthday party. Maybe it’s a bit extreme to call it gaslighting, but I can’t think of a better word for it.
No reason Sandy cannot dress to please herself and her mother. She knows how the mother expects her to look. Buy one or two acceptable outfits and save your mother and father undue stress.
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