HOW TO KEEP GOD AT THE CENTER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP | L'amour In Christ

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  • @ItsNearMellowL
    @ItsNearMellowL 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I honestly feel like crying. Thank you for being a sister to us in Christ. I'm so happy I found this channel. May God continue bless you and your family. 😊

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shaana Comments like these are why I do what I do!!!! Thank you for your beautiful encouragement.

  • @TriciaLynn
    @TriciaLynn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This video was so helpful! It's so hard to date in this generation because I'm like 'hey I'm waiting' and I'm #teamJesus and guys are like 'oh that's dope...but you trying to chill or nah -_-' It's incredibly frustrating

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tricia Lynn This is exactly why I don't believe in the world's way of dating. My mom used to joke and say "No dating until AFTER you're married." It seemed like such a funny concept, but honestly you can get to know someone as friends and The Lord will let you know if that's your future husband and then you can begin the courting process that leads to marriage. Dating just to date really complicates things. And dating to see if they're "the one" puts so much on the line if you were to break up.

    • @soso9045-d9y
      @soso9045-d9y 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be frustrated because like it is said in Jeremiah 29:11 He knows the projects just trust Him. I was in the same situation

    • @lifewnad1494
      @lifewnad1494 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao

  • @NontumekeleloMagwa
    @NontumekeleloMagwa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I keep saying this. I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you end the episode w/ prayer.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nontumekelelo Magwa Thank you, sweetheart!!! That means a lot to me.

    • @shaysworlduk1781
      @shaysworlduk1781 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn't have said it better

    • @EvinNazya
      @EvinNazya 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nontumekelelo Magwa girl SAME

  • @IDOObeDIEnceMinistries
    @IDOObeDIEnceMinistries 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am excited to see your level of transparency and accountability! Continue trusting in the Lord and being accountable to the body of Christ. I look forward to seeing more of you and your husband. Watch God work!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I DO...ObeDIEnce Ministries Thank you. God is so awesome to use us as His vessels. 🙌🏼

    • @EvinNazya
      @EvinNazya 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I DO...ObeDIEnce Ministries RIGHT

  • @JerrellConner
    @JerrellConner 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kytia, honestly, one of your best (if not THE best) videos that you've ever produced! Truly great and inspiring work!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jerrell Conner That's saying a LOT. Wow, thank you so much.

  • @Estiexo
    @Estiexo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was great! I read Project Inspired periodically so I got pretty excited when I heard you wrote an article for them! I also really appreciate the advice, as a single girl I've never really understood the difficulty of temptation in a relationship until I saw my friends go through it lol

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Estie P It's so true. The struggle is real, but God is so good to help us. So nice to meet another PI girl!

  • @khyradillard5777
    @khyradillard5777 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you, Tia, for all your advice and wisdom and breaking it down in step by step format. I love that you're honest about your dating experience. I had to save this video to my watch later playlist, the advice will surely come in handy. You did an excellent job on this video, love the outtakes, the prayer at the end, and I love how intimate the video is (I feel like we're just sitting outside talking together). That prayer at the end is going to cover so many people, I already know it. Your videos are so helpful.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Khyra Dillard Awwww, sis. You're so sweet. Thank you for your encouragement. I know your future relationship is going to be a blessing to so many as well.

  • @soso9045-d9y
    @soso9045-d9y 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just discovered this channel and already feel blessed thank you very much. May Our GOD keep blessing you. And I do love the fact that we pray Together to Glorify the Name above every other name.❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jasmineglover8916
    @jasmineglover8916 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This might be one of the most powerful videos I have ever watched and one of the most influential prayers that restored my faith . Thank you for making this and I thank God for granting you a heart of gold that encourages others to come worship God in fellowship. Being young, it is hard for me to find others to talk to about God or have people my age to relate to. However , after watching this I have restored faith leading into my future endeavors and I am optimistic about the people i am going to meet. Thank you for the amazing prayer. I am going to work on my self discipline and confidence.thank you so much truly .

  • @michaeldillard3473
    @michaeldillard3473 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Tia,
    Great video with much-needed content. You're such an effective spokesperson. And you can never have enough silliness. Lol

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael Dillard Lol. I know the outtakes are your favorite. And thank you for your positive feedback.

  • @truefairytales77
    @truefairytales77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so helpful! I'm in a season of preparing myself and these are some points I really want to focus on in my future relationship/marriage. Thank you so much Kytia, your account is a blessing. 😍❤

  • @brownnyko977
    @brownnyko977 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i have been looking for this... Thank you so much

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brownny Ko So glad you found it!! God is good.

  • @elei417
    @elei417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me too! God is good and faithful

  • @dominicdantonio8966
    @dominicdantonio8966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please pray for me and my gf, God hasn't been first in our relationship so she thought we needed a break so she could focus on him more but didn't want to do it together which is sad. Please pray for us

  • @majesticqueenj5725
    @majesticqueenj5725 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! For all your help your consistency and support I pray that God continues to bless you and your family! I left a comment on your video with long distance dating. And this video actually share some tips and pointers of things that I can suggest for the both of us thank you so much! ❤️

  • @Prayamond
    @Prayamond 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this video. And praying with you. Thank you!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Prayamond - Rapperin mit Herz Thank you! I appreciate that.

  • @lovelybrittney7718
    @lovelybrittney7718 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow!
    very informative knowing what I must do when in a Christian relationship
    May god protection be with you and your family#💕

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. xoxo

  • @mariadelagarza0928
    @mariadelagarza0928 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful prayer...thank you my sister in Christ

  • @DanyellBordeaux
    @DanyellBordeaux 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great , great info and suggestions! Thank you so much for sharing and may God continue to bless you and your family! Love love love the outtakes 😂

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      yanyell4 Thank you! That's so sweet. And I love the outtakes too. It's one of my favorite things to include. 😊

  • @tierrawoods5546
    @tierrawoods5546 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi I'm just now watching your videos they are helping me thank you. Your so pretty, God bless you!

  • @ricardobrown18
    @ricardobrown18 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome thanks so much for the assist

  • @austinofficial3528
    @austinofficial3528 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Extra amazing, thanks

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Austin Official Thank you for watching.

  • @somaliarenee
    @somaliarenee 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    love love loved this video. very sound and practical advice :)

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Somalia Ford Thank you so much! I'm glad it resonated with you.

  • @ruthnouboussi9069
    @ruthnouboussi9069 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you have a video of the proposal, please ?

  • @Evanjli
    @Evanjli 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen!!! ✝️💜🕊❤️

  • @matiesmiles59
    @matiesmiles59 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    💚 Thank you

  • @gwendolynellis9515
    @gwendolynellis9515 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thxs you 🙏🏼🕊💌amen yes am just waiting see who he is that God would show me his face & when father feel time is right we come face to face meet🙌🏼🌺🌸🕊💌💍👫

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gwendolyn Ellis Yes. God's timing is best! He'll provide you with all of the answers you need in the meantime.

  • @catelynnlouisa2907
    @catelynnlouisa2907 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is having intamacy before marriage bad? What do you do when your partner crosses your boundaries but also lives with you which makes it hader to fight against temptation and also him being the one who you see and supports you daily. How do you know your relationship or crush is based on love and not on lust? What if you notice he doesn't like you talking about God or says it isn't bad to be intimate before marriage? What if he is tempted by the internet too much and doesn't care to explain? And then once in a while talks about God in a positive way. What if you have been intimate with your partner and feel guilty now?

    • @nondumisosiithole1668
      @nondumisosiithole1668 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi CateLynn according to God's word Sex before marriage is wrong and even living with your partner before marriage is also not God's will. If you have already been intimate with him, you can repent and ask God for forgiveness and of course never do it again. If he is a man of God he will respect your decision without finding anyone on the side and then blaming you for not providing for his sexual needs. Pray to God to reveal if this is the person HE has prepared for you.

  • @bronzefire4999
    @bronzefire4999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know it's been awhile since you posted this...BUT, I wondered who in the relationship should be the first to bring up or lead in prayer?

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bronze Fire Hi there! I don’t think there is a right or wrong answer to this. I think whoever God prompts to bring it up first should say something. As far as leading in prayer, in my marriage my husband always prays first because that’s what we decided even during our dating period. We do take turns reading the Word every night, but we both pray every night and he prays first.

    • @bronzefire4999
      @bronzefire4999 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for answering and I REALLY enjoy your channel. I was always taught that the man should be the leader in the relationship. So I guess that's a problem if he's not comfortable praying with you, huh? 😕

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bronze Fire It’s important to know why. Some people don’t like to pray at all, but others are just really self-conscious and need some reassuring. It took me until I was about 20 years old to pray with someone outside of my family. But yes, if he has no intentions of ever praying with you or keeping God at the center, I would be very concerned.

  • @suzanneclaiborne3265
    @suzanneclaiborne3265 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cool videos - what are you and your husband cultural backgrounds?

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Suzanne Francois Thank you! We're mixed with a bunch of things, but mainly mine is Italian and African-American and his is Filipino and African-American.

    • @suzanneclaiborne3265
      @suzanneclaiborne3265 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cool - with that last name I thought it was French or Haitian background

  • @leahmsve
    @leahmsve 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so awesome

  • @ethandelong8953
    @ethandelong8953 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you think having God in our relationship and if we follow the steps you've givin us will make us a stronger couple? Stay together? Feel peaceful? Ect...

  • @gabyduarte8774
    @gabyduarte8774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Maybe it’s a flatiron”😂do you have an email we can reach you at?

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gabriela Duarte Lol. Thanks! The email you can use is lamourinchrist@gmail.com

  • @naydinelk3539
    @naydinelk3539 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your subscribers are not receiving notifications from your TH-cam hence why so much low views on your channel compared to when you've started. Please kindly ask them to click the notification button (the little bell next to the subscribe button) otherwise they won't know you've uploaded a new video. It's a new TH-cam change the made. Dunno why. Hopefully it helps you get more views. I fell in love with you channel, maybe because it's so calm and relaxing. But yeah tell your subscribers. Even top youtubers with thousands of subscribers are experiencing the same problem. God bless

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naydine LK Thank you for that advice. I'll keep it in mind as I'm creating content for season two of this channel coming next month. xoxo