I bet this lady is far more worried about this situation than her husband is. She sounds very upset. She should’ve ditched him when this came to light.
She's stressed because they're broke and struggling. Her husband shouldn't have even considered dating or marriage until he was able to provide for the children he helped to create. He has no business involving anyone else in his life when he can't handle what he already has going on.
@LazygirlLA892 are you insane? She's literally calling in to figure out the long term finances. She isn't calling Dave to pay all her man's debt and then leave him!???
@@carolyngreen5458 I dont know how the law work because when you married depend on law, countries and mariage contract you may actually be responsable as well of your spouse deb and $35k seems been one income and probably hers so if he isn't solvent and she is responsable as well for his deb that actually may become her issue. That why its always good to know really good someone and not rush before getting married and recommend to do mariage contract.
Yes, she assumes his debt. No, he is not a bum. He may be beat so bad by the courts he can’t make the call himself. Are three kids with three Mamas excessive, probably.
@@1971MariaC that’s between him and God NOT me, you, Dave. and TH-cam lol. Does HE want to be redeemed? Are his actions showing that HE cares to be redeemed?
@@joshfuqua1147 if he was disabled in UK, he would only have to pay £7 a week child support. If there was 2 kids, they'd get £3.50 each, if he had 7 kids, they'd get £1 each! Also child support isn't followed up on much. I personally know 2 women that were meant to get child supoort but the men, despite owning their own business and having plenty money, never paid a penny. The kids turned 18 so case was closed.
@@Findbigfoot1just because there are 4 baby mamas doesn’t mean 4 women agreed to spend their life with him. Merely that 3 women had babies with him(intentionally or not) and ONE has agreed to spend her life with him.
@@DarkCrimson1999lol that’s not how child support debt works. If you’re not the mother or you’re not the father listed on the birth certificate then you can’t be obligated to pay child support.
Some states will take the spouses income tax if the other owes childsupport. If you wish to avoid that, you have to fill out paperwork annually to request an exception. (From my research on childsupport in Texas, where I live).
@@jemandjemand2362doesn’t mean she’s a bad women… “I don’t want one child to receive money while the other two don’t” she didn’t want to chose the easiest way bc she had the children in her heart most women would be bitching at this dude daily for the hell he’s brought into there lives and most women probably wouldn’t cares for the baby mamas children sounds like a decent women to me
He doesn't deserve her as a wife. She cares about his responsibilities to his kids more than he does. She needs to divorce him and find a man who will actually care for her and be able to support any future child they have. 😢
Honestly she's not the one who should be worried about this. It's up to him to figure it out. I hope she's not paying any of it. He should take responsibility for his own actions. It's also a huge red flag that he has three kids with three different women..
@@jeffreymapoon5935for normal household (4people) is enough. But for 4 babies from 4 diferent mamas will not enough. The kids will live in bare minimum support from the father and barely have a father figure.
Why would you marry someone like this. Bro made and abandoned 3 families. Instead of reflecting on himself and trying to save up money to support his kids he decides to marry again so his problems becomes hers. Stay away from people like this.
Run babe RUUUNNN!!!! Unfortunately, you've fallen in love with a pathetic man child. Hopefully, you dont have children with him yet and can move on. Stay positive you seem nice.😢🩷
@@MisterPuggles That his oldest child is getting the least amount of child support because that's how that works for some reason. And if he owes $58,000 - which sounds like that is back payment based on the phrasing, it WILL come out of HIS tax refund and wages. It will also come out of HER tax refund if the are filing jointly. If I was their account, I would recommend 'married filing separately', however, they might not qualify depending on their assets. They may need to talk to a tax lawyer as well.
It sounds like someone isn't working- 35k cannot be a two household income, so there must be kids in this family, as well, so there's a stay at home parent, or else one doesn't have a job. I think she got into this and looked past it because she loved him, just like the other girls, and maybe he changed, but now the reality is they have to take responsibility for it. Being responsible is tough, but it will serve them well, even though she sounds upset she is seeking guidance and help. I wish them the best.
I was raised with very little money. I promised myself I would not have children until I either had a million dollars in the bank or both my wife and I were making six figures and had master’s degrees. We had our first son on Christmas Eve 15 years ago, exactly 1 week after I finished my MBA. Every path is different, but nobody should be having random kids and not be able to support them. Be ready to support THEN have.
How does any woman make this choice? To marry someone with such a horrible past with respect to life choices? Ladies, you can't fix men like this. Be single.
Romance books and movies have ruined modern women. They watch and read them thinking they can live out their fantasy tale and marry the bad boy thinking they can "save him".
I feel like if it’s debt from before you were married then it’s his responsibility. She didn’t get those 3 baby mommas knocked up. I personally would’ve ran for the hills when I found out 😭
Girl run! ❤ He's going to try to convince you that you're responsible for paying for HIS kids. Contact a lawyer to discuss options. Marrying simeone with debt becomes your debt legally
@@true7870 there is a difference between marital and non-marital debts. Child support would not be one because they are not responsible for someone else's kid.
@@jshepard152interesting. The John Wayne Experience museum and store in the Fort Worth Stockyards sells a shirt and bumper stickers with this quote on it. The place is overseen by his family.
ABSOLUTELY…She should have NEVER married that guy….He should “ be snipped” and I CERTAINLY would have NEVER procreated with a guy like that!!!! NO WAY!!!!
I mean i just don't understand... My sister in law has a a child with a men who already has two other children with two different women. No job, no driver licence, smoking every day... She isn't with him today but one time i told her: girl this wasn't a red flag, it is an operating procedure
My bio dad milks women for all they're worth and is in a very similar situation to this. He has access to benefits right now because he's married, and she's trapped for good because she depends on him for citizenship. She literally immigrated FOR him. It baffles the mind that he keeps finding women willing to have kids with him after the first 3 children didn't work out
So I’m guessing she’s the only one working because his excuse is, “I can’t get a job because friend of court will garnish my whole check.” Rightfully so! Now all the financial pressure is on her shoulders and he probably could care less.
Responsibility for his Kids? Cause what I heard from the boys and men, all men know how to talk themselves up, lie, and act. If she just found out she shouldn't take any responsibilities@@Blazedreptile
When she said, "I didn't know..." I thought it would go, "I didn't know this before I married him and married his debts with mine..." I guess I'm wondering what she expected when she chose to marry a man who doesn't understand the definition of responsibility on any fronts... like seriously, all around - financial responsibility, emotional responsibility, the ethical responsibility of bringing humans into this world who didn’t ask be here, the responsibility you pile onto future partners.... Like... what??????🤷🏽♀️
Well thats unfortunate. It sounds like he hasnt been paying child support. This leads me to think if things get hard he will duck out.. and for 38k I assume only one of them is working, and I suspect its her... Good luck to her, hope that things work for her, but that is not a situation Id want anyone I care about in...
she's probably the only one working. people who are irresponsible in one area (fathering kids he cant support) are usually the same in all areas of life. work ect. probably too irresponsible to maintain steady and consistent employment.
@rachaelgrande3097 not even that. He's probably working, but he's checks are getting probably entirely garnished to pay off his child support. They're living off of her income. Whatever he's bringing home is literally peanuts. He would be in jail if he wasn't working to pay his child support.
They probably also live in a small/ rural town. The pay is way lower in those areas. Many businesses in rural towns don’t fall under the federal minimum wage requirement and can legally pay less. Some parts of America people are making $5.15 an hour.
She thinks she can fix him hahahahahaha dude makes no money and has 3 kids with 3 women soon to be 4 kids with 4 women. Yall cant say men aint shit when you chase dudes like that.
… I didn’t hear the full episode, but I noticed… no where in this does it say she doesn’t have any already 😮😔 She’s only talking about child support here.
Things did not work out with me and my now 3-year-old daughter's mother. I feel like my obligation is now to my offspring before any other woman, or any other children. This may mean I die single, but my daughter will know that she never stopped being the most important thing in my life. Just my personal sentiment.
@@maitemardomingo272 It seems I struck a nerve. I wasn’t trying to make you feel poorly about your life. Not sure if it was the low income or the poor relationship connection that made you personalize it but I do apologize. Hope you are able to work through your struggles and find happiness and stability! Good luck!
@@mackenziekraus4857 I am TOTALLY HAPPY and have absolutely NO STRUGGLES but I have a strong spiritaul practice, because I am shure it is the reason we are on earth. And every time I judge I ask to Holy Spirit to help me see the situation or person in another way and have compassion. I wish you the same ;-)
He's the tall good looking guy, with a flat brain. Whamen love that. And he is proven by 3 other whamen, 3 x 5 stars for him. Let's get pregnant! (And work your a$$ off for this guy!)
@musume7723 He probably 6'4" and a smooth talker. Bonus points if he's a convicted felon. He has what American women crave. She will end up pointing at him as proof that all men are terrible. But there's a huge pool of guys who make good money and don't already have kids that she ignored.
I can't judge her, but I can tell her to get out. I married a guy with 3 kids and a legitimately psycho ex, who was drowning in debt and doing very little to be involved in their lives. I got him involved and spent 17 years helping to raise them, paying off his debt, and making sure the kids were provided for. It was a waste of my life. Once they were all out of the house, I divorced him and I'm so much happier now.
As a woman I will never understand why ANY woman would marry this man. His past activities speak more about himself than he could ever say. This woman seems to just beginning to understand the emotional and monetary baggage -but then again, she said I do.
Step 1: your man needs to get a new job paying more. $35k? He’s not even trying. If you can get 3 women pregnant AND convince a 4th to stay with you, then you can convince an employer to hire you and pay more than $35k
She sounds older and probably settled. I feel bad because she might have felt that she didn't have options. But man what a headache. Better to stay single than to take on all this baggage.
My mother married her 3rd husband without knowing he had 2 young children. She knew he had 2 adult children as he was in his late 50’s, but he hid the youngest from her because of the child support. She came home to his severely garnished check one day. My mother made more money than he from the start and had to foot the bills for the remainder of their marriage. Background checks please, first, foremost and always.
@@ILOVESRVjust depends. But if you intent to, you have to have pretty clear communication and verify everything. Verify they do have steady employment and if they are paying child support verify they have consistently. Make sure they are a responsible human being before even getting into a relationship let alone marrying someone with a kid or more than 1. How is that not common sense. I’d go so far as to make sure they actually care about their child before getting into a relationship with them. If they treat their own flesh and blood like crap they’ll have no problem treating you like crap and dumping you like trash or treating you like trash.
@ILOVESRV absolutely. My husband aged 57 has a 16 yr old. He got divorced after 20yrs and met someone new. He said from the get go he wanted no more kids. Gave his reasons. Conversation was supposedly understood. I'm not sure where you are from but here in the uk we have a thing called 'working tax credit' . I'll explain incase your not British. If on low income, single parent can only work 16hrs due to school times/childcare you get a government top up . Sometimes up to £500 a month. Soo back to his new girlfriend. She already had a daughter aged 16. Well the tax credit runs out at either 16 or 18 depending if said child goes to college. (UK college aged 16 to 18. UK university age 18 to 21. We call it different thsn usa). So her child was 16 she was going to be losing her tax credits soon plus child went to uni she'd be on her own soon. So she wanted another baby. She was temporary working in my husband work place. All his works mates at the time said she looked round to see who was available and the gene pool!!!! She landed on my now husband. I wouldn't say she is pretty but she had a fabulous figure. Talked the talk. Had the sports car. Looked like her life was in order. They dated. She got pregnant. She knew my husband stance on abortion (against) so when she miscarried she knew she could get pregnant again without fear of him. Yes I did say well why trust her not to get pregnant. He said she was on the contraception implant after miscarried but still got pregnant. But she miraculously never got pregnant again over the next 4 yrs once she had what she wanted. It turns out she was also pregnant by someone else when my hubby met her but that bloke wanted nothing to do with it. So she told my hubby she was going on a girls shopping trip but had an abortion. But my hubby obviously didn't know this at the time. As he got to know her it turned out her life wasn't as sorted as she portray but a train wreck!!! It was an horrendous relationship. My hubby sold his house, moved to her town to try to make one last go of it for the baby but they just couldn't work it out!! To this day she is still a nightmare and causes some problems. But when he moans about her I have no sympathy!!!!! After getting pregnant 3 months in and miscarriage he such not of trusted her. He should of used his own protection!!!!!!! Simple. But I have a beautiful 16 yr old step daughter who is smart and loving. And a lovely young lady. Unfortunately her mother isn't. Calling me a pedophile for bathing her aged 5 was hard to swallow. And I wasn't even allowed to brush step daughters hair when she was younger. My husband loved his daughter so much that at the beginning,,well even 2 yrs in to our relationship he would jump to yhe child's mothers demand about me been there . That hurt. But hubby wanted to see his kid so he played to her fiddle. It was hard. In fact horrendous at times but we are now 13 yrs down the line. My step daughter is now of an age where she tells her mother 'no' herself. So after my world and peace lol. Yes I agree don't get with someone who has kids. And that's not just mums. It's dads too. Because if they are involved dad's then the ex is not going to making it easy when the dad gets a new wife!!!
@@kizzyisdead5545ah the ole you don’t understand (with no attempt at explanation)and you’re an incel/beta argument brought to you by women who’ve made horrible life decisions but still think they’re better than you. I adore the classics 😍
It's not on her. It sounds like she wants taking it on voluntarily. I suspect she is one of those women who wants to fix everyone else's life, which might explain how she got mixed up with the guy she's mixed up with.
Blows my mind that people give any man or woman that has that many kids with that many partners a chance. Is your life that blissful that you can handle all of that baggage?
When you have three different orders and you don't pay for years, it adds up to $58k easily. The guy can't afford to support himself, nevermind any children so obviously the children go without.
Oh, she's a good wife. She wants to handle kids that came with her husband and she wants to ensure everyone is covered. God bless this woman. I pray she gets her debts removed and her family needs met IJN
@@janet3895, she is not trying to get out of paying child support. Listen again. She was worried about paying child support to one of the children and not the others. She is trying to figure out how to pay support for all three children so that no child feels slighted or left out. This isn't her responsibility to figure out. It's her husband's problem.
How the 3 different baby mamas was not a red flag is beyond me
I would wager my life savings that he is like a horse… if you know what I mean.
Exactly. It doesn’t make any sense.
😂😂😂@@yws4645
4th baby mama in the making ...
Some women like guys like that
The issue aren't the finances, the issue is him. She's calling in to find out how to deal with HIS responsibilities.
shouldn't he be calling in for advice?
Once married, the responsibility belongs to the couple. Know your potential spouse's finances before you get married.
Why would u even marry someone like that 😮that’s a big risk u took
You mean the same way a stay at wife lives. All the problems fall on the man. What's the difference
@@fabianespinoza5610 how many men are paying their wives child support for the partner's child/ex-partner?
I bet this lady is far more worried about this situation than her husband is. She sounds very upset. She should’ve ditched him when this came to light.
Facts because if he can’t be responsible for the three children he created he will not be responsible for anything else
She's stressed because they're broke and struggling. Her husband shouldn't have even considered dating or marriage until he was able to provide for the children he helped to create. He has no business involving anyone else in his life when he can't handle what he already has going on.
Tht lite is burnt OUT
He needs another job .
She probably just found out…after the ink dried on the marriage certificate. Sad.
Soon this lady will be with a child and not receiving support like his other three ex’s.
Lmao. Seriously
@ayokay6404 yeah really. That's his track record.
I don’t think so. She seems smart enough to eventually remove herself from the situation. At least that what I got from her
@LazygirlLA892 are you insane? She's literally calling in to figure out the long term finances. She isn't calling Dave to pay all her man's debt and then leave him!???
How long before she is in the same boat? This would have been a no on marrying him for me. It also sounds like the money coming in is hers.
Anyone catch that his wife is the one seeking a resolution and NOT him?
He’s a bum.
She doesn’t need to assume his debt…
58k in debt making 32k a year he gave up on child support years ago
@@carolyngreen5458 I dont know how the law work because when you married depend on law, countries and mariage contract you may actually be responsable as well of your spouse deb and $35k seems been one income and probably hers so if he isn't solvent and she is responsable as well for his deb that actually may become her issue. That why its always good to know really good someone and not rush before getting married and recommend to do mariage contract.
Yes, she assumes his debt. No, he is not a bum. He may be beat so bad by the courts he can’t make the call himself. Are three kids with three Mamas excessive, probably.
He was not husband material to begin with.
He is now according to her standards.
Yes he was… to one of his baby mama’s!!!!!
He’s baby daddy material. This culture of that nonsense is beyond me. I can’t even comprehend the lack of accountability!
Is there no redemption in Christ Jesus? Can God not restore this man?
@@1971MariaC that’s between him and God NOT me, you, Dave. and TH-cam lol. Does HE want to be redeemed? Are his actions showing that HE cares to be redeemed?
He makes more babies than money.
😂😂
Maybe he should be a gigolo.
😂
😂😂😂😂
Isn’t that normal?
The best she can do for herself is divorcing this guy.
Totally agree
💯 agree
Well said
$35000 household income, sounds like someone isn't working. My guess is the husband.
He's "disabled"
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@@joshfuqua1147 if he was disabled in UK, he would only have to pay £7 a week child support. If there was 2 kids, they'd get £3.50 each, if he had 7 kids, they'd get £1 each! Also child support isn't followed up on much. I personally know 2 women that were meant to get child supoort but the men, despite owning their own business and having plenty money, never paid a penny. The kids turned 18 so case was closed.
Statistically unlikely it's the husband
@@loganwilliams7635 but it is the husband based on this video.
$35K?! And the husband has 3 kids with 3 different moms?!
Yeah get to work
Shows that u can be a dead beat and still get girls if ur attractive enough 😂
So 4 women picked the same man to share their life with? WTH
@@Findbigfoot1just because there are 4 baby mamas doesn’t mean 4 women agreed to spend their life with him. Merely that 3 women had babies with him(intentionally or not) and ONE has agreed to spend her life with him.
@@caitlyn_rene are you for real?!?!?
Married the wrong man. Call the divorce lawyer immediately. Run far. Run fast..
@@DarkCrimson1999why? If she didn’t birth those kids
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@@DarkCrimson1999 why? I really don't understand that.
@@DarkCrimson1999lol that’s not how child support debt works. If you’re not the mother or you’re not the father listed on the birth certificate then you can’t be obligated to pay child support.
Some states will take the spouses income tax if the other owes childsupport. If you wish to avoid that, you have to fill out paperwork annually to request an exception. (From my research on childsupport in Texas, where I live).
Run! Love ain’t enough
Sis you beat me too this comment lol love ain’t enough at all 🤦🏽♀️
And the debt is so high… like why are you with a man who is 58k in the hole? That’s a felony level
This the comment I wanted to type but didn’t know how in a respectful way😂
You can hear the sadness in her voice, so sad 😢
Yeah probably she didn't have confidence too. Hope Daves advice helps her
Big dummy!!!!
Who gives a shit
she chosed to be poor by marrying him
@@jemandjemand2362doesn’t mean she’s a bad women… “I don’t want one child to receive money while the other two don’t” she didn’t want to chose the easiest way bc she had the children in her heart most women would be bitching at this dude daily for the hell he’s brought into there lives and most women probably wouldn’t cares for the baby mamas children sounds like a decent women to me
He doesn't deserve her as a wife. She cares about his responsibilities to his kids more than he does. She needs to divorce him and find a man who will actually care for her and be able to support any future child they have. 😢
Divorce him, and let him clean up his own mess
I agree, she will never enjoy her marriage.
Unfortunately, by marrying him she took on half of his debt.
@@barbthegreat586 she won't be obligated to his child support debt
Why? She married a poor loser. He is still a poor loser. What has changed?
i was thinking,notice how she’s the one calling about his debt
Honestly she's not the one who should be worried about this. It's up to him to figure it out. I hope she's not paying any of it. He should take responsibility for his own actions. It's also a huge red flag that he has three kids with three different women..
They’re married. It’s her debt now too.
This is a relationship/ marriage counseling type of question.
Girl, just run.
A little late for that. She made an oath, she has to lie in the bed she's made.
Ya blame the man but not the last 3 women who made the choice
@@McGyverGuy2Fly what are you even saying, bro?...
@@McGyverGuy2Fly Listen man, I'm with you... but when its three different women the guy is for sure the problem.
@@BabyBenz96sounds like he made 3 oaths and did not lie in them sooo
3 different moms... you should have RUN 🏃♀️ RUN FAR AWAY
Bet she didn't know about them.
Hes a hustller. Dont even think about paying their debts, get away from him asap.
Yep, ive been in her shoes, run!
@@Kim-yy8kl run immediately! Good on you for gtfo!
Don’t!! Just don’t!!😢He’s not worth it I promise you!! Just don’t!!❤❤
Exactly. I would never be with someone that owed child support. My income will never go to someone else like that.
sounds like Trump
Leave him, the best financial advice
What a golden bloke this is? 3 kids with 3 separate gals and cannot afford even one? Very responsible man.
He plays basketball
how about the other half of the equation, Einstein.
@@ShrimpCracka even Einstein married his cousin
Oh yes. Women have zero control of their own 😺
Right. Husband material for sure smh
I speak from experience. Do Not Pay Any Of His Debt. He’s probably already lying about how much it really is.
What if he was getting the checks and didn’t say anything
Dave’s face at $35k😂
ok... 😂
Is it an average income?
Yep. I felt that "Oh sh*t"
@@jeffreymapoon5935yes but 3 kids with 3 different moms is really too tight for this
@@jeffreymapoon5935for normal household (4people) is enough. But for 4 babies from 4 diferent mamas will not enough. The kids will live in bare minimum support from the father and barely have a father figure.
Why would you marry someone like this. Bro made and abandoned 3 families. Instead of reflecting on himself and trying to save up money to support his kids he decides to marry again so his problems becomes hers. Stay away from people like this.
I divorced my ex once I ended up paying his child support for two kids. That made him my third kid. Too much.
3rd kid is 🔥 😆 🤣
So you stayed with him until he was down? Classy.
Shows your complete lack of character and your gold digging tendencies
@@danw918She didn’t want a parasite. Obviously.
Equality is tough, huh?
Run babe RUUUNNN!!!! Unfortunately, you've fallen in love with a pathetic man child. Hopefully, you dont have children with him yet and can move on. Stay positive you seem nice.😢🩷
Can you tell me what you know about the husband besides what was said in this video?
@@MisterPugglesthe mfk got 3 babymamas u can make an inference🤣🤣
@@MisterPuggles That his oldest child is getting the least amount of child support because that's how that works for some reason. And if he owes $58,000 - which sounds like that is back payment based on the phrasing, it WILL come out of HIS tax refund and wages. It will also come out of HER tax refund if the are filing jointly. If I was their account, I would recommend 'married filing separately', however, they might not qualify depending on their assets. They may need to talk to a tax lawyer as well.
@@MisterPuggles Worse part is he’s unemployed but “trying to be a entrepreneur” as he’s out all day marketing the business
It sounds like someone isn't working- 35k cannot be a two household income, so there must be kids in this family, as well, so there's a stay at home parent, or else one doesn't have a job. I think she got into this and looked past it because she loved him, just like the other girls, and maybe he changed, but now the reality is they have to take responsibility for it. Being responsible is tough, but it will serve them well, even though she sounds upset she is seeking guidance and help. I wish them the best.
I was raised with very little money. I promised myself I would not have children until I either had a million dollars in the bank or both my wife and I were making six figures and had master’s degrees.
We had our first son on Christmas Eve 15 years ago, exactly 1 week after I finished my MBA.
Every path is different, but nobody should be having random kids and not be able to support them. Be ready to support THEN have.
That was a very wise life choice and one I’m sure you will imprint in your children.
And that’s how it should be!!!!
Ain’t that much love in the world! Run!
How does any woman make this choice? To marry someone with such a horrible past with respect to life choices? Ladies, you can't fix men like this. Be single.
Women would rather be in a terrible relationship than be with someone that’ll be good for them 99% of the time.
Romance books and movies have ruined modern women. They watch and read them thinking they can live out their fantasy tale and marry the bad boy thinking they can "save him".
@@darknessr6 "I can fix him" ...
2 years later.... "where are all the good men at?"
It's possible she didn't know until AFTER they got married. Men have a track record of hiding important information.
@darknessr6 I have friends, both men and women, who would rather have ANYONE instead of no one. They ignore the red flags.
I feel like if it’s debt from before you were married then it’s his responsibility. She didn’t get those 3 baby mommas knocked up. I personally would’ve ran for the hills when I found out 😭
When you're married, everything is teamwork including debt unfortunately
I would of ran away from her if she stays home and calls it a job it’s her responsibility for getting kids tho thanks for proving my point
Honestly…
@@texanzombie45 just my opinion begin home and taking care of your kids isn’t a job it’s your responsibilities as a woman
@@Peegirl101 i wasn’t talking to you but nice try projecting
Girl run! ❤ He's going to try to convince you that you're responsible for paying for HIS kids. Contact a lawyer to discuss options. Marrying simeone with debt becomes your debt legally
No his debt is not hers.
No it doesn't. She is not legally responsible for this debt.
Not all debt. She is not obligated for his kids. That's his responsibility in the eyes of the law.
In a lot of countries u marry without prenup u are fucked because u become responsible for half the debts.
@@true7870 there is a difference between marital and non-marital debts. Child support would not be one because they are not responsible for someone else's kid.
3 baby mommas before you..... this guy must be amazing, stand up citizen and all around hero
Probably very good looking too😅😅😅
A cautionary tale about how making one wrong choice will ruin your life!
Exactly.
Life’s hard; it’s harder if you’re stupid.
John Wayne
John Wayne never said this. But here's one for ya:
"Life's hard. It's harder when you're gullible". - me.
Amen
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@@jshepard152interesting. The John Wayne Experience museum and store in the Fort Worth Stockyards sells a shirt and bumper stickers with this quote on it. The place is overseen by his family.
😂 exactly!!!
Poor lady has taken on the burden of someone else's poor decisions. ☹️Hope she gets out of the marriage like now!
She made poor decisions herself
ABSOLUTELY…She should have NEVER married that guy….He should “ be snipped” and I CERTAINLY would have NEVER procreated with a guy like that!!!!
NO WAY!!!!
She literally could have kept her legs closed.
Never have children because you would hold them to Impossible standards that you couldn't possibly hold yourself too.
Men like that marry women that will help them pay for their kids. And, what else can I say! 😂😂😂😂😂
Here’s a really smart lady that knows how to pick him. Good luck.
I mean i just don't understand... My sister in law has a a child with a men who already has two other children with two different women. No job, no driver licence, smoking every day... She isn't with him today but one time i told her: girl this wasn't a red flag, it is an operating procedure
Naomi babe. She likes losers. And Naomi babe. She picked your (probably) brother. Naomi babe. Bad news.
My bio dad milks women for all they're worth and is in a very similar situation to this. He has access to benefits right now because he's married, and she's trapped for good because she depends on him for citizenship. She literally immigrated FOR him. It baffles the mind that he keeps finding women willing to have kids with him after the first 3 children didn't work out
The look on Dave's face after she said 35k
$58,000.00
@@jessicabrown7274owes 58k, but his income is 35k.
@@jessicabrown727458,000 is the debt he owes. 35,000 is their income. My guess is that HE is unemployed.
@@jessicabrown7274the household income is 35k and debt of 55k.
@jessicabrown7274 nah 35,000
Sounds like she picked a real winner.
*weiner
@@RoyArrowood😂😂😂😂😂😂 “ask me about my…….”
Guys that don't have money win women with other skills
@BruceLee-xn3nn in this case clearly. The evidence has them over 50k in debt!
Yes, an real f boy!
Poor girl. You are a kind person making sure all the children are taken care of
Woman is a great person actually caring about all 3 kids getting the resources they need from him without neglecting any of them
So I’m guessing she’s the only one working because his excuse is, “I can’t get a job because friend of court will garnish my whole check.” Rightfully so! Now all the financial pressure is on her shoulders and he probably could care less.
Is that why he married her?
@@barbfrank917 probably I would assume
Why does she think this is her problem. She got love bombed.
Obviously she’s taking responsibility by calling Dave, and she’s not the one who didn’t wear a condom. He’s the irresponsible one.
Responsibility for his Kids? Cause what I heard from the boys and men, all men know how to talk themselves up, lie, and act. If she just found out she shouldn't take any responsibilities@@Blazedreptile
@@kyliesclark1990 but she's the one who decided to marry a deadbeat who screwed around
@@Blazedreptile why can't men take responsibility these days?
@@Blazedreptileshe’s taking on the responsibility of the husband’s poor choices
When she said, "I didn't know..." I thought it would go, "I didn't know this before I married him and married his debts with mine..." I guess I'm wondering what she expected when she chose to marry a man who doesn't understand the definition of responsibility on any fronts... like seriously, all around - financial responsibility, emotional responsibility, the ethical responsibility of bringing humans into this world who didn’t ask be here, the responsibility you pile onto future partners.... Like... what??????🤷🏽♀️
Well thats unfortunate. It sounds like he hasnt been paying child support. This leads me to think if things get hard he will duck out.. and for 38k I assume only one of them is working, and I suspect its her...
Good luck to her, hope that things work for her, but that is not a situation Id want anyone I care about in...
Of course she's the only one working for Tyron the homeboy. These women lack common sense.
How? How do you only make $35k between the two of you? And how did you not RUN at the thought of 3 baby mamas? Oh hun.
she's probably the only one working. people who are irresponsible in one area (fathering kids he cant support) are usually the same in all areas of life. work ect. probably too irresponsible to maintain steady and consistent employment.
@rachaelgrande3097 not even that. He's probably working, but he's checks are getting probably entirely garnished to pay off his child support. They're living off of her income. Whatever he's bringing home is literally peanuts. He would be in jail if he wasn't working to pay his child support.
He ain't working
They probably also live in a small/ rural town. The pay is way lower in those areas. Many businesses in rural towns don’t fall under the federal minimum wage requirement and can legally pay less. Some parts of America people are making $5.15 an hour.
@@jezeannwilliams1145 he's a bum and a deadbeat if not. He should be making sure those kids get that money, not the wife! Smh!
Girl, run!
When she said she didnt want 2 of the 3 babies who are NOT hers to not receive any money. I cried. She is far above rubies.
And you still married him? 🧐
What do you mean? He was a poor loser before they got married.
@@jamessloven2204 Yes, so why marry a poor loser?
He probably is very good looking guy, they all fall for these guys even if they are psychopaths
She thinks she can fix him hahahahahaha dude makes no money and has 3 kids with 3 women soon to be 4 kids with 4 women. Yall cant say men aint shit when you chase dudes like that.
not chase if love
Maybe he lied… men do that you know. They like to impress, so they lie 🥴🥴
@@Sa_m-samyea but they are literally married lol, she was definitely aware of all this.
men can still not be shit while stupid women follow suit
@notinuse12348 yes still chasing.
Soon he’ll have 4 and be working on the 5th.
sad
Without intention to insult you:
There are not many brain cells necessary to recognize this! 😂
Kudos to you, bro! Very funny!
… I didn’t hear the full episode, but I noticed… no where in this does it say she doesn’t have any already 😮😔 She’s only talking about child support here.
With different women each time.
@@Faith4vincera Any from other men?
Things did not work out with me and my now 3-year-old daughter's mother. I feel like my obligation is now to my offspring before any other woman, or any other children. This may mean I die single, but my daughter will know that she never stopped being the most important thing in my life. Just my personal sentiment.
So he didn’t take care of his 3 children and you said yeah… I HAVE to marry this guy, he seems legit
She got impressed by his pipe.
It was his money, for sure
@@heathergray9195he has no money duh
@@gwadkarukeraMust be a good size pipe
@@heathergray9195 What money? Shush man XD
I feel bad for her, but WTF was she thinking?
she was in love with
AND he doesn't work?!?! 😅 NAH.
She really thought she was going to be the exception 😂😂
😅he is very good looking for sure 😅
First step to solved this mess:
Don't go in it
Wrong choice of husband, lady! Try again!
love?
@@notinuse12348 Theres about a million other factors that go into having a healthy relationship, not just love.
Who would even marry someone with 3 kids from separate partners and a mountain of debt/no income? Absolutely ridiculous
Stupid, desperate people, that’s who
Someone who is blinded by lust
are you perfect? never judge.
@@maitemardomingo272 It seems I struck a nerve. I wasn’t trying to make you feel poorly about your life. Not sure if it was the low income or the poor relationship connection that made you personalize it but I do apologize. Hope you are able to work through your struggles and find happiness and stability! Good luck!
@@mackenziekraus4857 I am TOTALLY HAPPY and have absolutely NO STRUGGLES but I have a strong spiritaul practice, because I am shure it is the reason we are on earth. And every time I judge I ask to Holy Spirit to help me see the situation or person in another way and have compassion. I wish you the same ;-)
if you play in human life you pay with your human life proceeds no matter if you find another duped baby mana. Always in love light and truth.❤
And you married him because...?
He’s such a great provider?
Nah, that wasn’t it.
Well, at least she knew he was fertile
bc he got her stupidly drunk in love w his well-manicured personality 😂
He's the tall good looking guy, with a flat brain. Whamen love that.
And he is proven by 3 other whamen, 3 x 5 stars for him.
Let's get pregnant!
(And work your a$$ off for this guy!)
@musume7723 He probably 6'4" and a smooth talker. Bonus points if he's a convicted felon. He has what American women crave.
She will end up pointing at him as proof that all men are terrible. But there's a huge pool of guys who make good money and don't already have kids that she ignored.
She married him because of love. Isn't it perfect wife?!😅
Would like to hear what Dave Ramsey said on this. Wow!
I can't judge her, but I can tell her to get out. I married a guy with 3 kids and a legitimately psycho ex, who was drowning in debt and doing very little to be involved in their lives. I got him involved and spent 17 years helping to raise them, paying off his debt, and making sure the kids were provided for. It was a waste of my life. Once they were all out of the house, I divorced him and I'm so much happier now.
As a woman I will never understand why ANY woman would marry this man. His past activities speak more about himself than he could ever say. This woman seems to just beginning to understand the emotional and monetary baggage -but then again, she said I do.
Most of the time good women get bad men,and bad women get good men, probably a law of this Universe😅😅😅
Step 1: your man needs to get a new job paying more. $35k? He’s not even trying. If you can get 3 women pregnant AND convince a 4th to stay with you, then you can convince an employer to hire you and pay more than $35k
I bet she's the one with the job.
She sounds older and probably settled. I feel bad because she might have felt that she didn't have options. But man what a headache. Better to stay single than to take on all this baggage.
I hope she comes to realize this. It seems she was desperate and he found someone to help clean up his mess
@@Latte-dq1tbHis mess (and the mess of the 3 bm's) is cleaned up by big daddy government -> the taxpayer.
or be in love
Desperation is a hellva drug! 😐
Say it louder girl
Low very low self esteem 🤦🏻♀️
@@doracampos2088This!
Here i am, single and no kids and this lady MARRIED a guy with 3 baby mama’s!!! His 🥖 game gotta be magnificent. 😂😂
😅😅😅
Why is she even considering this, it is his duty not hers,
love?
She married Nick Cannon's less successful little brother. I bet the wife is making the 35k.
Basically 😂
You have to call Dr. Phil. You called the wrong show.😂😂😂
Or even better go to rip-Jerry Springer show by Steve😂😂😂
They are still playing reruns of that awful show
I wouldn't be paying any child support from my wages. NEXT....
Keep it in your pants then. If you don't then be ready to pay your part for YOUR kid. It takes 2
Idiocracy is real. She chose wrong huh.
Might be a definition of Love is blind.
Nah... Just that love is blind
@@northeastevApparently its no good at math either 😂
He swept her off her feet like he did the other 3 women
He might have a big one
Choose carefully when you marry.
or choose love
@@notinuse12348or use your brain as well
@@notinuse12348I'm sure she did.
You need to run as fast as you can. Save yourself.
or maybe she is in love with
My mother married her 3rd husband without knowing he had 2 young children. She knew he had 2 adult children as he was in his late 50’s, but he hid the youngest from her because of the child support. She came home to his severely garnished check one day. My mother made more money than he from the start and had to foot the bills for the remainder of their marriage. Background checks please, first, foremost and always.
3 different baby mommy's and you still married him. You get what comes your way
Never marry anyone with kids, it's just a bunch of problems, I guess she wants to be baby mama #4 lol
@victoriastrelnikova
@@ILOVESRVjust depends. But if you intent to, you have to have pretty clear communication and verify everything. Verify they do have steady employment and if they are paying child support verify they have consistently.
Make sure they are a responsible human being before even getting into a relationship let alone marrying someone with a kid or more than 1.
How is that not common sense. I’d go so far as to make sure they actually care about their child before getting into a relationship with them. If they treat their own flesh and blood like crap they’ll have no problem treating you like crap and dumping you like trash or treating you like trash.
@ILOVESRV absolutely. My husband aged 57 has a 16 yr old. He got divorced after 20yrs and met someone new. He said from the get go he wanted no more kids. Gave his reasons. Conversation was supposedly understood. I'm not sure where you are from but here in the uk we have a thing called 'working tax credit' . I'll explain incase your not British. If on low income, single parent can only work 16hrs due to school times/childcare you get a government top up . Sometimes up to £500 a month.
Soo back to his new girlfriend. She already had a daughter aged 16. Well the tax credit runs out at either 16 or 18 depending if said child goes to college. (UK college aged 16 to 18. UK university age 18 to 21. We call it different thsn usa). So her child was 16 she was going to be losing her tax credits soon plus child went to uni she'd be on her own soon. So she wanted another baby.
She was temporary working in my husband work place. All his works mates at the time said she looked round to see who was available and the gene pool!!!! She landed on my now husband. I wouldn't say she is pretty but she had a fabulous figure. Talked the talk. Had the sports car. Looked like her life was in order. They dated. She got pregnant. She knew my husband stance on abortion (against) so when she miscarried she knew she could get pregnant again without fear of him. Yes I did say well why trust her not to get pregnant. He said she was on the contraception implant after miscarried but still got pregnant. But she miraculously never got pregnant again over the next 4 yrs once she had what she wanted. It turns out she was also pregnant by someone else when my hubby met her but that bloke wanted nothing to do with it. So she told my hubby she was going on a girls shopping trip but had an abortion. But my hubby obviously didn't know this at the time.
As he got to know her it turned out her life wasn't as sorted as she portray but a train wreck!!! It was an horrendous relationship. My hubby sold his house, moved to her town to try to make one last go of it for the baby but they just couldn't work it out!!
To this day she is still a nightmare and causes some problems. But when he moans about her I have no sympathy!!!!! After getting pregnant 3 months in and miscarriage he such not of trusted her. He should of used his own protection!!!!!!! Simple.
But I have a beautiful 16 yr old step daughter who is smart and loving. And a lovely young lady. Unfortunately her mother isn't. Calling me a pedophile for bathing her aged 5 was hard to swallow. And I wasn't even allowed to brush step daughters hair when she was younger. My husband loved his daughter so much that at the beginning,,well even 2 yrs in to our relationship he would jump to yhe child's mothers demand about me been there . That hurt. But hubby wanted to see his kid so he played to her fiddle. It was hard. In fact horrendous at times but we are now 13 yrs down the line. My step daughter is now of an age where she tells her mother 'no' herself.
So after my world and peace lol. Yes I agree don't get with someone who has kids. And that's not just mums. It's dads too. Because if they are involved dad's then the ex is not going to making it easy when the dad gets a new wife!!!
Step 1) get time machine
Step 2) don't get together with guy with 3 baby mommas
😂
It's crazy how women will have kids with a guy who already has three different baby mommas, but they see 80% of men as undatable.
Until you date men, you'll never understand
Oh and Mr Nice Guy, your bitterness is showing 🙄
@@kizzyisdead5545 smartest feminist, room temperature iq
@@kizzyisdead5545You're right, men could never understand lacking all logic and critical thinking like women 😂
@@kizzyisdead5545ah the ole you don’t understand (with no attempt at explanation)and you’re an incel/beta argument brought to you by women who’ve made horrible life decisions but still think they’re better than you. I adore the classics 😍
@@SohamMehta-bg3ds at best
Caller: Seperate child support on all of them!😭
Me: And this is exactly why he married you!😧
As if 1 woman with 3 kids wasn't bad enough.... Now you have a guy with 3 babies momma's 😂
He will soon be her ex-husband.
No doubt
It’s not fair for the debt to be on her. She is already so distraught. Move on love, it’s painful but free yourself
It's not on her. It sounds like she wants taking it on voluntarily. I suspect she is one of those women who wants to fix everyone else's life, which might explain how she got mixed up with the guy she's mixed up with.
RUN!
or stay cuz u in love
@@notinuse12348 nah not worth it ... RUN!
This goes both ways do not choose a partner that has multiple kids by multiple different partners they're trash
Red flag. And only 35k combined? Oh no baby.
It’s easy to see what someone else should do when you’re not involved, but hard to be rational when it’s your emotions.
God bless all with peace, love, health, safety, prosperity, and protection!
You need at least 45-50K a year just to make it and these days it’s more like 60K
3 baby mamas or baby daddies is crazy
If a man told me he had 3 kids with 3 different women...............Run Girl......RUN
Blows my mind that people give any man or woman that has that many kids with that many partners a chance. Is your life that blissful that you can handle all of that baggage?
He's the tall, good looking dude. Brings tingles. And baby mommas.
35k/yr but court ordered 58k? Somethings not adding up
It’s three different children. Three different court orders and that number is most likely accrued over the years.
That's arrears! 😑
He mostly likely hasn’t paid any payments for a while
When you have three different orders and you don't pay for years, it adds up to $58k easily. The guy can't afford to support himself, nevermind any children so obviously the children go without.
2 people flipping burgers bring home $50k minimum in todays market, how are they only making $35k?!?!
Oh, she's a good wife. She wants to handle kids that came with her husband and she wants to ensure everyone is covered. God bless this woman. I pray she gets her debts removed and her family needs met IJN
For starters, those debts are not her's. She should run from this man as fast as she can before she is baby mamma number 4
She's not a good wife, she's a stupid wife. He saw her coming
@Mikaelson I stand in agreement, amen!
Roles reversed people who tell the guy to run.
Click bait 😂
This poor lady 😢 she must be a really good person
She’s trying to get out of paying support 🤨NOT a good lady
@@janet3895, she is not trying to get out of paying child support. Listen again. She was worried about paying child support to one of the children and not the others. She is trying to figure out how to pay support for all three children so that no child feels slighted or left out. This isn't her responsibility to figure out. It's her husband's problem.
Or a complete fool.
I think she’s married to Homer Simpson. “I have 3 kids and no money. Why can’t I have no kids and 3 money?”
Homer would NEVER have a child with someone other than Marge.
All the women "Run"
Single Moms when they marry a man:
You better pay for my kids!
I hope she doesn't have any babies from him dear Lord!!!
Premarital counseling by a solid, honest pastor or counselor is so helpful.