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- Alex Lewis was living a happy life as a stay at home Dad. After catching what he initially dismissed as a case of the flu - he became so seriously ill that all of his limbs had to be amputated to save his life.
This is his extraordinary story of what happened to him, the people around him that pieced his life back together - and why losing his limbs was the best thing that ever happened to him.
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Listening to the part where his best friend quit his job to stay and help...wow absolutely incredible.
True ride or die
Yeah, that really got me thinking
yes.
A real friend like this is very rare
I couldn't imagine another human being that kind to me.
The most incredible part to me, is how his body has changed so much, but he approaches, sits, and look at the camera with complete confidence. What a badass
Amen
Absolutely!! Also he speaks incredibly clearly
Foreskin boy confidence. His genitals weren’t destroyed at birth like mine .
Amen
@@foreskinpolice wow 😭
I teared up when he mentioned that his friend quit his job to help take care of him, because to go through what he did and just listening to how he was so upset about not being able to do anything and just feeling down. I hope he remains in a good head space, the people you have around you really matters.
I watched a documentary a couple of years ago, broke my heart seeing him struggle to deal with this. Stayed in my mind and watching this makes me happy to see he's doing OK. Keep strong x
me, too. so glad he is well
Same. He is so brave and courageous, even after all of that, but he's still an average guy.
Same
Same!
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That'd be terribly heart breaking to see your own child hide from you like this! I really feel for this man. It's awesome to see even after all that, he's still positive and wanting to live for his family. I really hope this device he's talking about allow(s) him to hit a golf ball and get back to his favorite activity!
It is inside us all
The power
Looks like an iron maiden cover
I picked my son up once when he was 3 and lost my balance a little.. it really was no big deal and I wasn't close to falling over but didn't matter. From that point on my little boy was terrified of anyone picking him up. Not being able to pick him up and hold him was horrible but I can't imagine him not wanting to look at me.
I don't know how to expressed my feelings but I wished 😕 to 😇 God there will never more of all the uncertainties , discrepancies turmoils & All ,pls. Lord hear our prayers!! Hallelujah 3!! CHEERS c 🍻 👏 ✌️ 🥂 🍻
That part when they asked about what he does now. I almost burst into tears. He's a public speaker, Director of Alex lewis Trust, Director World Wheel Chairs Project. Alex you're really superhuman. I'm sitting here with 4 limbs trying to figure my own life out.
Stories like this really make you think about how our individual lives will develop. I'm 23 years old, and to think, like, this guy when he was 23 never in a million years thought that by his current age, he'd have lost all his limbs and have his life altered in such a way. Where will we all be in 10 years? Where will we all be TOMORROW? I could climb an extension ladder tomorrow, as I have every day for the passed decade, and this time slip and fall to my death. Maybe become paralyzed for the rest of my life or something life altering like that. It's a crazy life we live. Makes you thankful for every day you can still take a breath, or step out of bed in the morning. Bless this man and all he's done in spite of his condition. Amazing story.
'Where will we all be tomorrow?'- are you aware (i think you are from the rest of your post) of how profound that seemingly simple question is? The future is a foreign country, and none of us know the terrain or the language. Without a belief in God, which many of us do not have, all we have is hope that tomorrow contrives to keep safe.
I morbidly thought of serial killers the other day after watching Dahmer. Can you imagine ending up helpless in the lair of a serial killer who is about to torture you to death? That's a fate noone expects to happen to them too, and is probably the single worst fate that can befall anyone.
Or imagine merely being hit by a car or a bus a common occurence which could kill or maim you for life.
In fact there are an infinite number of ways to die or be injured, and it is a bloody surprise that we often reach our eighties. Growing old is a precious gift afforded to only the lucky, which is why it's so weird that people disparage and fight against it so often. There is nothing more powerful or beautiful than a contented elderly person. They've survived everything. We should all respect the old far more than we do.
Bruh idk
His story terrifies me.. I almost lost my hands and feet to septic shock I’m 2011.. my bowel perforated, but I wasn’t believed in a and e, so they refused to scan me, until I vomited faeces on day 5.. by that point I was dying, they ran me into theatre , gave me a colostomy, amd I ended up fighting for my life in a coma in icu.
My hands and feet turned black and they gave me zero chance of survival, amd my friends had to say their goodbyes.. it was a miracle and when they turned life support off, I survived.
I’ve been so traumatised by my experience, and left with life changing illnesses, since the sepsis, such as pancreatic failure, adrenal failure amd numerous auto immune diseases…
I can relate to him seeing his Labrador.. my cats were what pulled me through..I couldn’t leave my fur babies and of course my friends, so I fought like hell to survive… I remember fighting for every breath in icu.. it has left me with such severe ptsd and I’m so terrified of dying, because what I went through mentally and physically for the 2 and a half months in hospital was prolonged unimaginable pain and suffering.
That's insane. What is life like for you now? So your colon is removed?!
@@tomymelon6293 I had the bag reversed but my bowel still isn’t working so I might have to get it back again, which is one of my worst fears.My health was destroyed by the sepsis.. I have severe autoimmune disease, chronic pancreatitis, pancreatic failure, adrenal failure.. my tummy is sugih a mess due to all the internal scar tissue and multiple hernias that cause more obstructions ..my life is really hard these days x
@@CannabisIsMedicineUK you are an incredible and strong person. Thinking about you and sending love your direction.
@Foxglove wow. I never realized life could get so bad. That is a whole new level of existence.
Is there anything you have learned? Any new insight on life? Anything you wish people knew?
Thank you.
dont fear death, use it as a reminder to use Every single waking moment of your life for things that you enjoy and give your life meaning.
Fellow alcoholic: it's not seriously within the scope of discussion here but it's interesting how briefly he touched on his alcohol use before the amputation. He seems to begrudgingly admit it but that's most likely why the illness almost killed him. It lowers your body's immune response and makes you not care for yourself. Another risk of heavy drinking nobody really talks about...
Thank you. The only child of a lifelong alcoholic here, he refused to admit it his entire life. Even when I ran away at 16 because of his drinking, but I returned two years later. The stress of my leaving brought his M.S. out of remission, and I had to go back and care for him.
He was never abusive. He drank away his trauma.
He still never talked about it when he was dying of cancer at 52 years old when I was 26. One nurse in the oncology suite said, "Wow-those M.S. drugs did a number on your dad's brain all these years. His scan just now was worse than swiss cheese." For the first time in my life, I broke OUR invisible Father/daughter's secret of shame and replied, "No, he never took M.S. meds. He's just a drunk. And gin, if you have it."
I see it like yesterday, every second, and I am almost his age then.
I felt that too. Hot and cold sweats are the worst. Calling dial bottle for medicinal mickies, having to take baby aspirin to slow my heart and stop seizures. Drinking cases of water in a day. I was in my early twenties lol. To think this could have happened to me is insane. Glad I quit
@@OfficialMyxomatosis Oh my God. That must've been horrible.
My grandpa was a drunk, but be admitted himself to the clinic saying he has a problem, and quit it...
I'm currently 26 and I use every opportunity to get drunk and consume weed, also to escape from trauma. Also a heavy smoker. I used to take antidepresants and whatnot, been to multiple therapists and psychiatrists, and none of the meds or therapies ever helped.
It makes me want to quit, honestly, thinking about my future children, which I'll probably never have, because I'm an asshole of a person whom nobody cares about and there's not a woman out there that would bear me children... at least, not a woman that I would want. Then again, I have nothing going on for me, nothing to show for, nothing worthwhile.
I'll probably die alone, and the sooner it happens the better for everyone, even my non-yet-existent children.
@@ragingsaviorkami9862 no one can help you if you don't want to help yourself.
@@ragingsaviorkami9862 start the self therapy, probably Karen Horny's "Self-analysis" ist the best to start
And something out of Irvin Yalom on your consideration
"I contracted something called Strep-A, it's not well known in the UK."
I assume this popped up in my recommended this week because Strep A is doing a number in the UK right now. I'm glad to see Alex is doing better than last time he was on film.
Give his friend an award while you receive one sir. What an absolute gem to give up his life for his brother. Your life was a double edged sword at that point and your buddy was the sharpener to bring it back to its former glory. Salute to you both.
Participation awards for everyone?
@@Tre16 oh shut up
I remember watching a documentary about this man. Not ashamed to say that I cried while watching/listening to his story.....a lot. Man is incredibly inspirational.
Me too ! That documentary is a few years old, it was heartbreaking. Glad to see he's doing better now.
His Best Friend is a friend you’d kill for what a guy man
No arms or legs, but more of a man than most. Inspiring story, and someone people should admire.
The friend who moved in with him for 6 months just to help out is the kind of friend we all need ❤ Amazing story of a beautiful person getting though the impossible and becoming even stronger and more wonderful.
Wonderful kind spirited comment. He's strong to be out there telling his story and staying positive.
and what we all should strive to be
Agree His friend is a true friend, nevertheless We do have a friend much greater than than his friend..... His name is Jesus..... God humbled HIMSELF took on FLESH Live a PERFECT SINLESS LIFE to be handed over By Ponchos Pilot to be Slapped, spit on, to be flogged to the degree all HIS bones were showing, forced to Carry HIS cross only to be crucified on it.... Buried in a rich man's tomb... 3 days later rose from the dead defeating death so that we too Can have everlasting life with HIM If we repent and believe the Gospel
Acts 17:30.
Jesus said MY sheep hear MY voice and I know Them and "they" follow ME.
The question is..... Do you know JESUS???
For on that day "many" will say to Jesus Lord, Lord and Jesus will say depart from ME, I never knew you......
Make sure He knows You.....
We speak to HIM through prayer, HE speaks to us through HIS WORD.🙏
It is more like he is the kind of friend you want to be yourself. You don't deserve one if you are not one of them. Sorry.
@@vivienm2037 That Made
N0 since at all. Please try again. 1st realize time counted backwards And switched at a certain time... In other words it went from BC to AD. All historical evidence not mine but historical, Christian and non Christian all confirmed The split was When Jesus Christ Who is....God in flesh Humbled HIMSELF and became a man.... Also did you know all languages flow in the direction of Israel?
No matter where their location.....
Why is it that Israel is hated so much?
It's because Evil cannot stand the light.
The reason why you hate God is the same reason a thief hates cops....Have You ever watch a high speed Chase on TV???
The helicopter is overhead and the persons in the car trying to outrun the cops.... The law breaker keeps breaking more and more laws.... THAT'S YOU!!!! Storing up God's wrath For the day of your judgment.... You would never say a painting painted itself or a bridge built itself but you're saying creation, created itself.
Not too smart when you think about it....🥴.... You're willing to believe that so that you can continue living a life in rebellion against God.... Our world drinks down sin like it was water... You tell somebody there a SINNER People will laugh and say I know...... But they don't know how Righteous God and loving God is..... And because HE is loving SIN cannot go unpunished. But God did not leave us helpless he said HE sent HIS SON. Jesus is the only way out. Hope this helps You to wake up from your deep sleep and stop walking on the wide road that leads to destruction...... Love you too much not to tell you the truth.😊🤗❤🙏
Such a brave and articulate guy. Stay positive my man!
Yes, very brave to never want to work and drink around his kids! Such a brave man, wow :o
@@majkeltm he’s admitting his errors!
I really hope this man gets to hit his golf ball. What a legend
@@majkeltm I guess you didn't watch the rest then, huh? Either that or redemption is meaningless to you. In which case, I would be very worried if I were in your shoes. Either way, it sounds to me like you should maybe take a look at yourself before judging other people.
@@majkeltm No one becomes an alcoholic by choice. No one WANTS to end up like this. People need to understand that alcoholism is an illness (for that you need to have a littje compassion and stop thinking you're the center of the universe). It's an illness that can hit ANYBODY. It doesn't have anything to do with how smart you are.
When people understand that, maybe we can go forward and start treating the horror this illness is.
I recently spilled a great deal of smoking hot oil on myself. Started a house fire in the process. Third degree, "full thickness" burns. Back of my right hand and around my wrist, left fingers, down my belly, my left shin, the tops of both feet, and the underside of my right foot. Melted the clothing right off me. I haven't really felt sorry for myself, per se, I attacked my physical therapy with persistence and vigor, and I'm getting better, despite my seemingly inevitable scars. However, I've had a severe case of "FML" for months now. I am certainly not becoming any happier by watching this, but it does put things in perspective. It shows me that while a lot is upsetting me about life right now, I still have cause to be thankful. I truly hate the "it could be worse!" argument, but it's infallible.
It does help and it's worth digging into. Ultimately, only you can look after your mind, and whether you find peace and live a happy life, or exist in turmoil, will come down to what you choose to do with your mind and how much effort you put in. There's a great book called The Art of Happiness written by the Dalai Lama that is full of methods on how to think in order to reduce suffering and increase happiness. Very simple and accessible, but very profound in its benefits. You have the power in your mind to gain so much benefit from this situation that one day you are glad it happened. That's quite a statement, aye? But that's my challenge to you. You can do it.
I’m sorry to hear that happened to you, it must be so painful. Hang on, your life is so important! Perspective is helpful. Thank you for sharing
Powerful story about a tragic disease, Alex is lucky to be alive. He actually survived 2 diseases that could have killed him; Toxic Shock and Alcoholism. I saw another story on line yesterday about a student who ate some left over food and got a rare form of Meningitis and Strep A also. It turned his blood into poison, he too lost all of his limbs. We don't want to be alarmist and rush to ER every time we are sick, but it could save your life.
Is that the guy who ate left over Chinese and lost both legs?
i'm pretty sure you cannot get these diseases from food. it's spread from person to person
@@mattyboydabest97 yea but the student didn't have e. coli
from what i could find online
@@reinao5208 I stand corrected, Neisseria meningitidis is what the student had. Apparently 1 in 10 people are a carrier and it's spread through saliva
"I'm not a down kind of guy, but she could she I was clearly upset". Holy understatement shit. That is some balls from somebody who has gone through something which would fuck up pretty much everyone. Hats off Alex, and good luck mate.
For everything he went through, he still honestly looks great.
Just missing all his limbs...
His mouth looks like if someone has pasted it over his real one using CGI lmao
Go bionic
Are you kidding me? If that happened to me I'd be better off dead, not even a doubt in my mind. Give me a steak, a bottle of Jack, and a hot dose and let's get this over with. A life with no limbs is not a life I'd be interested in living
@@NameSpaceVoid Okay, but you're not him. This is completely unrelated to my comment.
My auntie developed Sepsis from a papercut a few years ago and she lost her limbs too. Alex's best friend told me all about Alex and how he'd gotten through it, which really inspired me and people like Alex provide so much hope for other sepsis victims. Thank you for sharing your story.
Ahh this has got me a little worried now.. I cut my finger open on a can of bean dip pretty deep the other day.. probably got the dip in the wound. I washed it really well and put triple antibiotic cream on it though. Crazy how a tiny little wound can literally kill you
Yo this comment is too scary for the internet.
@@derpnerpwerp we think she must have touched a handrail with bacteria on it which infected the wound before it healed. So if you clean cuts properly you're probably fine as long as you're careful to protect it whilst it heals. Sorry to be scary - but better to know and stay safe!
@Sarah Michie oh yeah, I mean even without touching anything there is bacteria all over your skin. There is about 2 to 6 lbs of microorganisms in or on the human body
what?? just from a papercut? omg.
I had reoccurring strep throat as a child into teen years, I never imagined the same bacteria could have this profound an effect on someone... crazy.
Yeah... I literally am just getting over it too. This was a mistake to watch after smoking 😅 no humour at all intended.. This guy is an absolute inspiration I feel for him heavily
As soon as it gets in the blood it's trouble.
I wonder if you can develope immunity to it? I've had strep throat every other year growing up and was always, always picking my scabs and getting cut up from just being on a farm.
@@skdjirrrdjdm3926 Strep throat is non invasive.
@@bremCZ can you dumb that down for me?
I love that he sees himself as lucky. That is the key to resilience. Not looking at what you’ve lost but looking at what you have
A young girl called Jemma-Louise Roberts was just 13 when she died of Tss at my old high school. It broke the towns heart and her amazing mother has done beyond fantastic at raising crucial awareness in her daughters name
I’m a 51 year young man, who balled his eyes out, when he told the story of his dog coming into the room. Then, if that wasn’t enough the story of how much of a true Guardian Angel his friend who gave up his own life,(in essence) to take care of him-Wow, Anyway, it turned out to be soo positive, what an absolute bad ass!!!
"Limb loss is the best thing that ever happened to me".... WOW!!
It takes a special type of person to have that kind of vision and clarity after experiencing something so horrifying. Amazing person, i wish him and his family all the very best.
I had this same issue in 2015! I lucked out and went to the hospital a bit quicker than this poor guy. Still lost about 50lbs of flesh from my right side and spent 12 days in the hospital. I've never been the same mentally or physically since. Scary to see what could have happened to me.
What made you decide to visit the hospital? What was your experience like?
@@tomymelon6293 I woke up one morning and might right arm couldn't move at all and I couldn't get off my couch. So my mother came to take my kids to school and made me go. Took 5 days before they figured out what was wrong and I got out of quarantine and they did surgery on my right side. Took about 50 lbs of flesh out of me from my chest and under my arm and down my side. It had started migrating across my chest that morning and I couldn't breathe which is why they decided on surgery. I didn't lose any limbs and only had to spend 2 weeks in the hospital thankfully. I haven't been the same mentally since as every time I get the slightest cold I'm scared as hell. Single dad and was damn scared I'd be leaving my kids all alone.
@@duanemcneill6237 That sounds very scary. I can see why it would impact how you experience illness. I hope you find some relief from that trauma, wishing you the best.
@@duanemcneill6237 Are you doing Ok now? Stay healthy!
How long were you sick before you went to the hospital?
this guy is the poster child of human resilience... 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
Poster child for the right to die.
Gives me chills hearing this, I had meningitis and sepsis when I was 21. Initially my family had been told I was going to die that night, then both my legs would be amputated…. I ended up just losing a few toes. I’m one of the lucky ones ❤️
Jesus i can’t imagine hearing that. Glad you were ok
How did you catch it?
@@xBeast04x they don’t know how I caught it. I had been working on a cruise ship though so was around lots of different people from all over the world
@@cornellkirk8946 scary, glad you were ultimately okay.
@@xBeast04x thanks mate, I was kinda ok… 3 weeks ago I ended up in hospital with stage 4 heart failure! Stage 5 is being in a box in the ground 😂 they have it down to between 2 and 3 now. Everything’s much harder to do like keep working as hard as I do but no one lives forever and this is all extra time after the sepsis. I have no children I’ve had a good life so whatever I have left is what it is!
Just goes to show how fragile life is!
What a story and what a brave guy. The parts with the Labrador and the best friend really hit me. Also huge respect for the nurse that noticed he was going downhill & did her best to fix it. Legend.
My son got strep in his bloodstream from being vulnerable due to a broken leg hematoma and almost died. He wasn't even 2 years old. He's gonna be 13 in two weeks now. If it had stayed strep throat it wouldn't have been so bad. Strep and Staff are no joke!
So happy things worked out. Blessings to you and your family
The son is the saddest thing.. what a man. Honestly, he’s more of a legend than all of us. I have major stomach issues that have made me debate suicide a few times but things like this make you keep soldiering
You keep on soldiering on now, ya hear. Good man.
Please remember suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Even when it feels like it will never get better, someday it will. Look to God for comfort, I will pray His angels hold you ♥️
@@robovac3557 my guy 👊
@@halo218813 thank you. I really hope so
How is he a legend?
What a man…Makes you realise that sometimes we have minor problems we believe are major problems that mean the end of the world, when in reality there are people who have to go through horrors like this and still find a reason to go on. Respect
I've been worried about him since I saw a documentary so I'm glad to see he's out here making it.
Hi what was documentary name?
@@surfsessions100 storey of Alex Lewis
@@beth6288 thank you very much
Been watching the full documentary on the dude at least once a year up until now. His willpower is just something else.
Worst part of his sickness was not losing his limbs but the fact that his kids didn't want to kiss him goodbye anymore. That thought breaks my heart every time, but I hope his kids are fine with this now and learned to live with it
Wathh the video and you will find out. Yes. His relationship with his son is perfectly fine.
What an absolutely incredible man, couldn't even imagine going through half of what he has gone through, nothing but respect.
Incredible man? He’s a selfish drunk
@@SpiritDonkey Show some respect... You have no idea what could have led the guy to fall down a path of alcoholism.
The power of seeing your dog is by far the best medicine.
The fact this man feels lucky whilst being a quadruple amputee is amazing always staying positive
Some parents could learn a lot from this man. Going through everything he has just to make it easier for his son
Any good parent would. My dad has gone through 3 years of kidney failure and dialysis 3 times a week never behind able to travel said he wanted to give up so many times but didn’t because of us just yesterday he got a kidney transplant from a Donor.
I'm amazed at how well they did his mouth.. he speaks and pronounces words perfectly with the facial prosthetic.
Beautiful story of how they allowed his dog in to see him. I love that the nurse understood the importance mental state and motivation. You can have the best care in the world and the best circumstances, but if you become depressed and give up, you will still die. Glad the hospital was willing to do what was necessary to give him the strength to carry on.
I know Lucy, his wife, since the time she used to come to the restaurant I used to manage in Winchester. What a positive person, what a fighter!
I'm amazed how well he can talk again. I've seen a video of him after surgery and it's worlds apart
His surgeons did amazing
Im usually a relatively eloquent person but im absolutely unable to express my respect for this man.
A true, true legend, that's for sure.
I can't imagine losing my limbs, I would lose my mind and probably just end it somehow , but props to this man for pushing through it.
Yet the Bible says it's profitable for a man to lose one of his eyes, one of his hands, or his feet, then that both hands and feet be cast into hell.
We value this life so much, but this life becomes a distraction from God, and so we do not make preparations for eternity and do not call on Jesus Christ. If we care so much about our limbs, then we should care about our own souls. Whoever is reading this, please, get right with God. Call on Jesus name...
@@Bi0Dr01d No need for religious fruitcakery
@@me1299 Everyone is religious in their own way, including your very comment.
@@Bi0Dr01d delusional.
Now that is a true friend. A gift to humanity. Amazing interview.
Have never forgotten this guy since watching the film years ago, documenting his illness and early recovery, and I’ve continued to be amazed by his strength, his determination, the progress he’s made and his many achievements since then. A braver man than many, with a gem of a wife and son who I expect were a huge factor in his phenomenal recovery.
It’s great to see how you’re doing, Alex - love that you continue to amaze and continue to beat the odds. You are a real powerhouse of a person, such a positive influence for so many others, making a massive difference to those who need it most. 100% respect, and wishing all the love, happiness and success in the world for you and yours!! 💖😁🙏🏼✨
Stories like this one really gives you the "live everyday like it's your last" feeling. Unreal how a seemingly small illness like the man flu could eventually lead to this. Keep your head up sir!
Cannot imagine how much pain he was in. So glad he's doing better.
I'm also a patient at Salisbury (Odstock) hospital.
The staff in the Burns Unit / Plastic Surgery Unit are beyond excellent.
I have nothing but the up most respect for every single one of them.
Long live the NHS, we are so, so lucky to have it.
What a great guy the friend was, that gave up his job and 6 months of his life to come and live with you to help you. I bet not many people have friends like that. Maybe family members but not friends.
The part when he described his first interaction with his son broke my heart.. what a strong and inspiring man.. great interview..
Thats not a friend he got.. thats a brother ❤️
"The Exraordinary Case of Alex Lewis." I saw the documentary about him on Real Stories years ago and it touched me profoundly.
Thanks for watching! It's a great watch, would definitely recommend everyone watching it if you haven't already.
I hope this spreads the thought that anything can happen, even when you least expect it. Don’t take a moment for granted and stay with the ones that you love ❤️ have a great day 👍🏻.
Your best friend is the definition of a Hero
what a bloke he's taken all what has happen to him on the chin and made him self stronger. you are amazing mate I take my hat off to you
My mum had strep necrotising fasciitis (can't remember which sub type) and died in a matter of hours, before she could even get to hospital and have surgery to amputate. It was extremely traumatic for those of us around her, so I can only imagine how difficult it was for those around Alex, who I would imagine fet very helpless. I hope Alex is doing well and wish him all the best for the future.
I'm so sorry that happened.
Sending you healing love😞❤
I remember watching a special about Alex Lewis a number of years ago, shoutout to Lucy his partner who was particularly Amazing and left an impression through commitment and determination, and both to Alex himself , what an incredible man
For most/all of this vid it seems he didn't like/mention Lucy at all - good to hear she was at least there for him.
@@BUG25985 he mentioned her at the beginning
What a man! Hearing about his son cowering away from him broke my heart as I've got 3 children myself. I went through a marriage breakdown and custody battle that honestly had me pondering suicide. It was the thought of my children that stopped me, so (for considerably less reasons) I fully understand his words. He overcame major tribulations and came out the other side a truly better man. What an inspiration.
Your son will look at you with so much admiration. You are a wonderful, strong man. Glad you’re here 🫶🏻
Even after all he's been through his eyes still bare a striking youthfulness.
such a strong soul with a good people around him my heart goes out to him
Omg I remember seeing the documentary on this man ! Glad to see he’s still going strong.
Thank you for sharing your story. I was stabbed in the neck and had the bottom half of my chin almost completely cut off by my ex-husband. I went through a few reconstructive surgeries to make my chin look normal and decrease the size of the scar that runs from the right side of my neck to the middle of my chest. It hurts to be looked at as different and to feel people staring at you. I wish you well on your continued journey to healing.
What an inspirational dude. Definitely teared up at him talking about his dog and his friend quitting his job for 6 months to help with the transition. Just incredible
Wow. This is enlightening, especially for me. I had toxic shock when I was a teen. I was flown to Kansas City hospital and admitted to ICU where I stayed for 3 weeks. I never imagined that it could have gotten this bad. I feel lucky to have made it out unscathed.
I’m very drunk watching this and holy shit it really hit me that I’m not only mortal, I’m vulnerable as well
Life can be over in 2 seconds, be aware of your surroundings and enjoy every moment as if it'll be your last. Cheers
seize the day, the only thing that matters is here and now. make the most of it.
Wow 🤯🤯
I didn’t realize how vulnerable we are as a species until about a year back. I’ve never had a single health issue in my entire life but I suddenly started having seizures and would have no warning signs in some cases. Once I saw it on video for the first time it really changed my perspective of the vulnerability we have but don’t pay attention to as young people.
@@gray73 I can relate to this somewhat, I was very healthy and worked out/ran every day and I came down with a flu that ended up affecting my heart and almost killing me. Completely changed my life, and it came 100% out of nowhere
This was one of the craziest stories I’ve ever seen back in the day. From being the man of the family to completely helpless almost overnight is heartbreaking! His wife however didn’t abandon him sure enough, kudos to her! Some women will leave you if you lose your job, let alone your legs.. Prayers for Alex & his family🙏
He could have ended up a divorced alcoholic and a failed dad, but because of his unfortunate illness his life found new meaning and his efforts became a blessing for so many around the world, including his son. It’s fascinating to think something so tragic could be a crucible that forges a man into the best he could be. Wish all the happiness in the world for him and his family.
It would have been nice to hear more about his relationship with Lucy. In the documentary years ago Lucy had been quite honest and said he originally had no real interest in getting married, even though she kept asking him.
In this video he puts his success and survival down to his son, his best friend and his dog, but no real recognition towards the missus. I didn't feel him radiate a great deal of warmth towards her in the conversation. He doesn't discuss the hardship of not being able to properly touch or hug her. I wonder if they have split up. I thought they had eventually gotten married but I'm not sure.
It was interesting to hear him discuss his previous issues with alcohol. I don't think that was mentioned in the longer documentary. But he seems to be in a better place and his face has healed considerably well considering all the surgeries.
Funny how he described the plastic surgeon as a 'beautiful woman' ... Odd.
@@Kim-Does-Things I think he meant it like amazing or kind, etc. Maybe she was really helpful in the whole crappy situation? Who knows. I didn't get a creepy vibe.
agreed. he never talks of her much. in later videos/articles she is referred to as his wife, and also partner, but i'm not convinced that they ever actually married. i've never heard him say it. they are still together though, and joke about it. who knows, maybe its their thing, something personal to them that they don't want the public to know.
I didn’t think about it until you mentioned it but now I’ve noticed this it does bug me and is kind of sad.
@@Kim-Does-Things ya that kinda ticked me off
It might sound weird but the bit that got me the most was the power of this mans dog! Brought a tear to my eye.
Some people might ask how could a world with a god allow this to happen to such a lovely man. If there is an answer to such a question then I’m yet to hear it.
However, what I do feel and witness in this video is the power of love. Love and conciousness wrapped in a 4 legged creature bringing unbridled joy to his best mate!
Bless this man, his family and his dog! X
We choose to do good or evil. If we choose to do evil, then evil happens to somebody. If we choose to be drunk all the time, for example, we can take risks that we would not take if we were sober, and make mistakes that we would not make if sober, and that will have natural consequences for us, for other people, and even for generations to come, in ways that might even be invisible to us (you and I are probably suffering from crap our long-dead ancestors did that created negative patterns in our health or family dynamic, for example). Plus, the world has certain laws to it: there are germs in the world, viruses, etc. And suffering can come when we get sick. The problem with your reasoning is two-fold. First, you seem to want human beings to be something like dolls that God plays with, so that any time a human being wants to do something wrong or stupid, God should just step in, cancel the person's free will, and make that person unable to make a choice or do what they want to do. But free will means free will: make your choices; take the consequences. Most of the evil that happens in the world happens because someone makes a bad decision somewhere along the line, and others are hurt. God doesn't stop us doing stupid or bad things because being God - making us, and having total freedom himself NOT to have made us in the first place - God gives people the breath-taking freedom to choose the good (i.e., choose to live the way God made us to live, according to the 'operating manual' for human happiness), or choose the evil. But if we choose the evil, we get the evil: he's not going to step in and take away the consequences of our actions because that would be to take away our freedom, and without freedom to choose against our own good, we would be dogs or cats or trees. But of course, we already have animals and plants. No need to make more of them. The second flaw in your logic is the assumption that suffering is meaningless. It is not meaningless if you know how to turn it into good. Someone like this man might have drunk himself to death and lived a useless, wasted life, harming himself, his son, his wife, his business and everyone related to him, his son's future children and marriage dynamic, etc.. Instead, he is turning suffering - which happened because of the laws of nature - into inspiration for other people. The topic is a LOT more deep and rich than that, but you'd have to read something like Thomas Aquinas to grasp the depth of it, not just talk about it in comment boxes with the chattering class.
Your friend quitting his job to come and help you. That’s such amazing love and compassionate. A true brother. You’re so incredibly lucky to have him, and you must be a truly beautiful person to be loved so much by those around you.
Your story is so harsh. The reality of life is shockingly unforgiving. The way you’ve overcome is so inspiring to me. That you were able to overcome this and still live a great life full of love. I think I would have crumbled. I’m glad you’re doing well and I wish you many more years of amazing life.
I remember watching the documentary of him in hospital and how hard it was for him to keep positive and I’m so happy to see this so many years later and that he’s pulled through!
His best friend is amazing for helping him get through it
My brother was in the ICU for sepsis right after he was born and I'll never forget the fear I had for that whole month. This man went through it personally while being completely aware of the problems he had and still fought to survive. I've got a lot of respect for that. I couldn't even cope with it happening to my brother I can't imagine having the strength for pull through it myself. I screamed at any god I could think of out of anger they would let something like that happen and I don't even believe in a god. My brother ended up pulling through and despite some organ issues he's now just a normal kid who happens to need regular doctors appointments. One of his kidneys is dead and the other is slowly but surely failing but luckily I'm a pretty good match and both of mine are still kicking so when it comes to it he'll have what he needs. The NHS is life changing in a way most people could never understand until they TRULY need it. I didn't understand until I was told he was healthy enough to go home with us and when I found out about private healthcare in places like America I couldn't believe it. If he had those problems there we would still be paying off the initial surgeries and ICU stays. That's not even mentioning all the necessary follow up appointments and medications he's needed since. It's terrifying to think people out there have to go through that. Please people support free healthcare wherever you are from. It saves lives. IT SAVES LIVES.
I remember watching a short documentary about you a long while ago.
I'm so glad to see you're still going on strong, giving these interviews and not letting anything knock you down.
I can't even start to comprehend your struggle so I won't disrespect you by trying to, but know everyone who watched this video certainly wishes you the best future. :)
Dogs are such good support, they don't care what you did or what you look like. They just love you and appreciate your love for them. 🐕 ❤️
Animals do so much for us.
This man is full of strength even if he feels he doesn’t have it sometimes.
You are amazing mate.
This just has me thinking about how important it is to have people close to you, family and friends. Without it, who knows how his life would have turned out
I got no 1 loll
This reminds me of how, back in 2015, I came really close to losing my lower right leg after I got a massive infection from the bite of an infected flea, which I had in my apartment at the time. It caused me so much pain and misery for that year while doctors worked to try to figure out what to do about my leg, feeding me antibiotics and then eventually diagnosing me with pyoderma gangrenosum, which was basically eating my right lower leg. So a surgeon took good chunks of skin off the leg, but managed to save it. I still have full use of the leg, miraculously enough, but the memories of the intense pain of that infection will stay with me forever. I tell you all this because that was NOTHING compared to what this poor guy went through, and I can't imagine being in his position and knowing he either has all his limbs cut off, or he'll lose his life. It must have felt like fate screwed him over something fierce. I know it felt like that with me. But he's incredibly tough and strong to keep on going for his son.
After two weeks of the flu I wonder why he didnt go to the doctors or as soon as he pissed blood went straight to hospital. This guy is very very lucky he survived. He has am amazing best friend, what a hero. This mans story is inspiring, no matter what happens you can keep on living.
Can't even imagine how strong their friendship was to stop everything and help a friend.
Beautiful hearing about your friend. What a guy!!!
My friends can’t even res me when playing call of duty
hahahaha FFS classic
What does res mean?
@@SoulDelSol in game when downed (shot) by another player. Res means to revive him or resuscitate him from near death 💀
God what a strong human being, I’m sure his wife is big part of the happiness and the will to never give up , hope his family gets to see the him achieve his goal
I’ve never heard of a more courageous human being than this man, my goodness. This was one of the only times in 36 years on planet earth that I teared up, god bless 🙏🏼
Thank you so much Alex for this inspirational interview.
Nothing but respect for this man
What an amazing friend he has. Such a blessing x
There is little better than a beautiful, true friend, a devoted spouse, and an unconditionally loving doggie, among the greatest animals there ever were. We could learn so much from Nature...if we weren't such a selfish species. Dogs see the perfection in each being. Hats off to a beautiful man to his beautiful, enduring wife, to his excellent friend, and to his beloved Labrador. ❤
How many times have I heard stories about people who have come through extreme adversity and said it was the best thing that has happened to them as a person to grow! I as one, have not such courage, and how many others have fallen by the wayside? These people are inspirational, but I regret that not all of us have his inner strength. Wish I had!!!!!
Is so amazing to see an update about this case, i remember when the documentary came out, it was heartbreaking, this gentleman is such a fighter, and his wife too, his mouth has blended pretty well by now. God bless him and his family and pet dog.
Best interview yet, awe inspiring!
What an absolute legend. Thank you for sharing your story!
Truly humbling to listen to his story, and what an amazing best friend!
What an amazing man and outlook he has on life, I hope your doing well and read all these amazing comments! Keep strong and pushing forward 💪🏻
He has an amazingly positive outlook. I love that
I've watched and follow this absolutely legend for awhile, so so glad you're hear to tell us your story, much love dude!!
Your story has been inspiration for so many, bless you!