Dean Tells Caelynn He's Not Ready to Settle Down - Bachelor in Paradise
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- Caelynn wants to know where Dean's head is at when it comes to their relationship. He says he's enjoying their time together, but he also says that he's likely to hop back in his van and just travel the country when this is all over. If Dean's not ready for a relationship once Paradise is over, will Caelynn stick around if there's no chance for a future? From Week 4, Part 1 of Bachelor in Paradise 2019. Watch Bachelor in Paradise MONDAYS & TUESDAYS 8|7c on ABC, streaming and on demand.
Dean is using paradise as a vacation.He is not really there for a relationship.
You wouldnt take a free vacation?
And Caelynns dumb ass is falling for it. Lol
His van bed wasn’t cutting it
He needed a real shower for at least a month or two
LovedBy You she’s not a dumbass dude she’s trying to find love and give the dude a chance. The whole point of paradise is to fall in love and get engaged. So it’d make sense for them to cast people who want that right? So persecute her for thinking he’d be cast to be there for the what the whole point of the show is 🙄 it’s his fault for wasting her time and not letting her know he’s just there for fun at the very beginning
And now they are married and very happy. She accepted him just as he is and that was what he needed.
I’m glad they took their time instead of rushing into an engagement/marriage
And I also love how their wedding themes was half Caelynn and half Deanie babies 😍
Seriously just leave this boy 🙄🙄
He had gone on an interview saying he didn’t want to date within bachelor nation ever again, right afterwards he went on Paradise. So the producers must have had him on for drama and him for money. He should at least let Caelynn know where he stands with that.
Bianca Michelle ya but he came back if u saw what’s coming up
Next week I think he really knew he loves her
He needed a proper shower and 3 meals a day... essentially Paradise is a heavenly prison for Dean.
😂😂
If he's not ready, whyyyy is he here??????
I know right, he’s wasting people’s time
Srilakshmi R free vacation
For a vaca!
@@IBEtripz this is ridiculous!!!!
@@maureenw.m2677 proves this show is all about the drama.. and hence about ratings.. 🙄🙄🤦🤦
Why did they let him on for a free vacay? He’s also so not ready for a real relationship especially with these girls that are all about home and Instagram and like blogger lifestyle... this is the wrong place to find a girl that wants to live in a van and do his life style. This show needs to get people that would actually make an effort.
So many times, time waster, smh
It’s done so what can you do 🤷♀️ it’s about have drama for them so 😂
His is so wrong. He is running away from his feelings. His going to leave but boy o boy his going to regret what he told her. He's going to miss her that is when his going to realise that he has more feelings for her than what he acknowledge.
He doesn’t want to talk about his feelings and emotions? Red flag.
She would be married yesterday if she went with Cam.
I’m sorry I just can’t with that mustache 😂😩
Dean is the real Joanne The Scammer, scammed and tricked his way into Rachel’s season and he hasn’t had a job since. No, being on the show isn’t a career.
Caelynn has matured so much, she deserves what she's looking for.
Matured? Give me a break. Compared to a 13 yr. Old...maybe...
So what is he doing in there?
How he looks at her❤❤ 1:39 So sweet!! You can tell he really cares for her deep down❤
LOOOOL, these people... Go on a dating show which is meant to end in engagement , but are afraid to settle down. Although, I agree with everyone who wants to take it slow and not get engaged, because that's just common sense. But maybe it's just me. Getting engaged to me is something huge, but not to these people since they get engaged like 5 times...
He lives in a VAN!!!!! What's not clicking????
Mia Cross she’s so desperate which is why she continue to get into the same scenario but with different men
And then she plays the victim when she’s the one that choose the situation
@@christinaudodi571 like I get where your coming from with your comment a year ago, but 5 months ago? Do you realize Dean and Caelynn have been a couple for a full year now?? Lol
Caelynn you could do better.. 😩
Mike was interested in her and she went to Dean. Smh
She picked him, so......... baby girl will like anyone who likes her back.
@@LovedByYou lol. She young n stupid. Mustache Dean caught her attention
Jasmin Bautista Not gonna lie, the two have amazing chemistry. It’s a shame that Dean just isn’t able to provide anything sustainable
I dont even think Dean came on this show again to have fun like ppl are saying in the comments. I think he came to redeem his reputation bc last time he left with a really bad reputation as one of the worst ppl of the franchise. I think his plan was to clean his name by sticking to one person in paradise to look good and then leave so his real life is easier in terms of day to day interactions with ppl.
I am sorry I hate to burst your bubble but you may not know women as well as you think there's a reason women Chase Bad Boys because her unattainable if he wants to have a lot of women and philander he needs to be seen as a bad boy the second he rehabs has image about two out of three women will become disinterested
Samara Why did he need to redeem himself? Like, what did he do?
Dean: “convince me otherwise “ it happened to be the other way around when he returns to paradise after he left caelyn on her birthday 🥰
All these comments aged badly lol. In the best way ever
I once heard a quote.."always speek kind words, because you might have to swallow them!" In 2020 now... and months later...Dean sure made a lot of negative people swallow their words!! He'd proved you all wrong!! Good for you Dean!! I have always believed in you!
You said to Caelynn when she was scared making a decision..."best decision you'll ever make!!" ...and wow Dean, how you made those words come true!! Your lovestory lights up my world!! I'll álways love you and Caelynn 💝👸🤴💝
Go on...be happy you two! You've found your soulemate in each other!!🙌👫❤❤
Guys- ever heard of AVOIDANT Attachment Style? He is the text book definition. And yes im aware theyre married now.
And they’re married ❤
Runnnnnn....go as fast as you can. He's not into you.
Adriana Pena you’re exactly right
That comment Didnt aged well
I heard somewhere that Dean doing BIP allows him to afford his "lifestyle" longer, (he said it himself on the Almost Famous Podcast)
Woooowww
He’s obviously telling her to prove him otherwise.. or he wants someone to be so down for him that she’ll travel in the van with him
Could she tho? Can someone change someone’s mindset and not be miserable? I don’t think so. Not when you’re in completely different arenas
Manuelita nah he wants someone to travel with him in the van. I feel caelynn is either gonna say fuck it and be with him for the ride or she’s gonna get fucked over
I can finally see WHY rachel send him home. He definitely wasnt ready, he still isnt ready and will never be ready.
Dean has issues he needs to work through because he's going to be old and lonely one day.
Yassss!!
I feel like Caelynn is the one that has suffered the most on this show :(
Yeah absolutely
to late, that girl put a lasso and aint letting go, he is tied now!
His behavior stems from his relationship with his father, and the fact his mother passed when he was 15..I wonder if he’s gotten therapy. It’s more of nuanced situation than “oh he’s a fuck boy” deep wounds have created this fear of being attached to anything.
Someone told Demi that she is not a bartender and gives lousy relationship advice
girl runnnn
He came for the money to fuel his van life. No shame in that.
Now they’re basically married lol
With what he said there, truly who could have guessed!! But they do seem super cute
He doesn’t want to settle down with Caelynn. That’s what he meant
He’ll regret it later 🙃
He came back for her and they are still together..so...
Pepper1188 that’s why I said 11 months ago that he will regret it and he came back ! Love them together!
He is a player
Dean is not stable any where he sleeps in his van,take showers at other places,he doesn't have a job, he told Chris Harrison this when he came to the island, he's just there for fun and no serious relationship
Damn he is hot but it would end there for me after he said no dinner parties and live in a trailer .
Dean, the 70's called, they want their moustache back.
Lol
Whose shocked??. NOT I. 😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
As much as I feel sorry for him, because he's obviously being in denial with regards of his emotions. It's evident ever since Rachel's season that he's been shut down emotionally and felt rejected long before that by his father. So I quite understand why he doesn't feel like "talking about feelings or emotion" anymore. That sense of emotional shut down has developed in him and only the right girl will restore his faith in relationships and emotional connections. But why come to the show if your mind was set on not wanting to develop real connection with someone? We know the answer .. free food, shelter and bath. But why did you have to drag someone down with you and waste their time? I think he played it really well, he stayed long enough and revealed his real intentions before things got heated with Caelynn.
Theyre married now. 😍
Dean came to get a paycheck to pay for his van living lifestyle
Girl stop living in denial he's there for the fun free vacation. Why would you want to waste your time with someone that's not in the same page??!!
Me: *pretends to be shocked.gif*
Caelynn: I thought Dean was my forever.
Bitch, what? You trippin?
Dean is just enjoying all the frees stuff, free housing, free food, free showers, free women to mess with etc! He’s not ready for any commitment
But you guys look cute together. I understand that people like dean are not ready to settle down yet and love freedom. Hmmmmm....I wish you guys all the best and hope seeing you guys together even after the show
Well......lets see what manipulation Caelynn's gonna use here😂😂as much as i have misgivings about her, it'll be a waste of manipulation cuz he aint worth it, walk away. And why is Dean even here if he's not ready to settle down. Does no one get the premises of the show?
Think Caelynn should have stuck with Mike. Dean may be fun for hookups. But Think Caelynn seems to want to start a family soon. Caelynn might have fun with Dean for a couple months. But the care free life will get old too her fast. At least Dean was honest. But a guy like Mike would probably be one of the best catches in Paradise , and Caelynn should have known that!
Dean, what're you doing????? You were perfect, now you're running away????
At this point is obvious Caelynn knows where she stands... but he is the one that can give her a rose so... I don't blame her for playing the game until... someone else shows up. Dean is obviously just having a free vacation!
Oh yeah?
He will be ready when he falls in love, not before. He is not in love with Caelynn so he feels not ready, simple. Move on Caelynn
but there are guys out there who never want to get married even if they are in love.
@@violethill3745 yes true but I think real love would shake him up, right now he is a player
Actually Kaelyn has very little chance of finding true love we know this because of the one night stand Fiasco where is she threw her partner under the bus at the first of the show. Dean if he was smart would give Kristina another ago but it would be hard to talk Kristina into it I believe. If Christina would be patient and show that she would be there and not push it they would be the best couple to ever come out of this horrible television show that has no interest in producing true legitimate couples. But rather the illusion of love I've which nobody associated with this show knows anything about.
@@CARPETMAN6666 sorry you lost me, who are you talking about Kristina?
@@hillanne100 yeah Kristina will be a solid girl and she's mature which he needs they make a good couple because their weaknesses are the other strength. Caitlyn on either hand is a monkey. You saw what Dean has gone for a few hours and she swings over to Connor. And don't forget the Caelynn is the first person to throw someone under the bus if she needs to. Dean's a good guy you can see he may make some mistakes but he knows how to treat other people well and he handle social situations with grace even when things aren't going his way. Trust me Kristina and Dean are the two best suitors we've ever seen on the show. They're both real people that are looking for love they just marked it up a little bit last time. Haven't we all
i’m dean going on the show for a free vacation
why is Dean even there?
He comes knowing he doesnt want to settle down....then dont come. Waste of space
That moustache and the way he smiles with it blehhh😷ugly
He has a weird father... weird family. That's all he knows. So don't bother to be with him, Caelynn.
Good job Rachel sent him home when he was on the Bachelorette.
Me last night: “Girl he went to Paradise for more Fame” uggh
I feel that well, it’s ok and good to be honest, as Dean was here BUT hace some tact while telling her your truth. I felt so bad when he laughed while saying “I feel that you’ll be miserable as my gf” but u stupid guy, she was already getting the picture of that. He just was seeing paradise as a free vacation with friends and have some fun. Kaitlyn on the other hand was there to try and find a real conection that could actually work outside the show. It shows in her face after what Dean said that she was hurled and I felt that
They don't have enuf common interests
He was ready to settle down with Rachel wtf. Why is he wasting her time like that if it’s just for fun and it’s prob gonna end after it’s over? Ugh dude just don’t even be apart of the bachelor franchise if this is the shit they allow to happen on the show. Like the whole point is for people to find love and endgame. Why put someone there who wants the exact opposite?
They should have never let Dean come to paradise!!😤😠😡 I love Caelynn!! I pray GOD sends her her person!!
Wow, someone fancies himself 😂
Hasn't only been a week or two?
Laughing? Protect your heart? "Please run away from me" (I will agree to everything you say to end this as quickly as possible, let me add some more things in to turn you off while were still sitting here.) On top of the no eye contact. Clear indications that he's already removed in a far away land...this is not a good guy folks and there are tons more like him floating around, so beware! Someone in the comments said it well "leaving all the emotional labor on her". I was in this type of arrangement for 4 years. They stick with you but you continuously feel like shit as long as you date them because they're going to do what they want to do regardless because these types of people are selfish! And if you want to tag along for the ride be prepared to get tossed around and beat up, they don't care! Life is all about them and they can't see otherwise. Btw this has nothing to do with living in a van. It's him as a person. Don't chase men like this! They're feelingless! And as we heard "cheaters". They'll let you tag along but their intentions are putting themselves first and they're incapable of being normal! Everything is about THEM. You will not be happy! And he clearly stated this in the above video, as a warning ^^^. Sometimes it's hard for a person to understand the situation at hand but all I can say is RUNNNNNNNN!
Leah Camp do you mean he really is a classical narcissist, because i really think he might be one. It’s all about him, cheating, lies and so selfish...
Must be nice to have a JOB that is to show up on BIP. He needs to grow up and get a real job.
Dean is a man sized BOY. But Caelynn is what-24? SHE needs to grow up and strop trying to lock down love at her young age. Grow yourself up before you settle down.
That's not too early at 24 lol, not every needs to find love in their 30s
@@plantecsmiths1622 Seems like the millenial generation does need to grow up until 30ish. My genX most got married by 24-25. Ofcourse there are always exceptions to the rule. Dean is still trying to find himself. It takes some ppl longer than others. Plus losing his mom as a teen didn't help either.
@@eeg122 i agree and most people are not marrying these dsys umtil35yrz or even older.money and stability being the reason.unlike the geneations before people are wanting the good life.
biggest red flag 🚩
Dean is giving me a serial killer vibes wit this look😭😭😭🤣
He sounds like my seventeen years old boyfriend
Old and lonely van man - his future
Dean should have never gone to bachelor in paradise if you did not want something serious that’s the whole point to get married
But to be honest he never blindsided her he made his intentions clear from the start and she chose to stay with him regardless. Everyone kept telling her but she still wanted to stay. I just feel sorry for her she wanted it so bad she ignored every warning sign
And look at them now. Seems are not always what they seem
He's not legit, but it's hard to root for and be empathetic to Caelynn.
When Dean comes back to paradise he may find he has lost his girl to Connor
I really want them to be together! 🙁
If I was Kaitlin I would’ve felt not necessarily used but Dean was looking for some fun on the beach and just there and her trying to find a cinection that could word after the show p. I would feel like I waisted my time on a boy that wanted a days of fun with me period. And that’s not right, he blindsided her badly
Someone need to start a Gofundme to get Dean Unglert off of the Trailer park under one condition; that he fix things with Kristina Schulman since both are giving Bachelor in Paradise a second try this summer - but their first time around didn't exactly go as planned. In fact, it ended with Kristina leaving the show voluntarily in tears with Dean chasing after her. Unfortunately, Dean's indecisiveness didn't end after leaving the beach. It was revealed on the After Show special that Dean continued to talk to both Kristina and Danielle without the other knowing.
"Careful, Dean. Are you still flip-flopping us?" So, what happened between Dean and Kristina in Paradise back in 2017?
Dean please, u have a reputation for being running around with so many girls. You need to get a hold of yourself and stop showing up and wasting ppl time. Something is wrong with your head
I think losing his mom as a teenager has alot to do with it. Plus he seems to be a free-spirit type person and those kinds of ppl usually do not want to settle down. They see marriage as prison. It doesn't mean he's a bad person.
Dean has issues... he needs to grow up
I feel for Caelyn! But all I could see in this episode were her lip in injection.. she is so beautiful, why did she get those.. I wonder what she looks like all natural
la vita secondo dean, impossible dreams.
He must be a Sagittarius
Aquarius
oops - Aries apparently
Do they pay them?
WHY DO YOU COME TO A SHOW IF YOURE NOT READY? Boy bye
"It's a 'convince me otherwise' situation". Gawd. Typical cis dude, putting all the emotional labour on someone else. I have no love for Caelynn, but this is a really awful statement from Dean and she should run far if she doesn't want what he wants. Given the spoilers she won't, but it can't possibly last for too much longer in the outside world. I'm just waiting for them to start talking sh!t about each other whenever it ends...
Caelynn, I don't get why he came either. I think it's shitty the producers let him on there knowing there was a possibility he wasn't serious about finding a relationship.
Dean... ... boy is still not ready. Retire from the show maybe?
Why the funk is he on this show than!????? He needs to take his ugly stash and GO! Why is this season all about a free vacation!?
Why did he come on paradise?
they’re still together lol
The producers r getting sloppy. Bringing Demi’s lover, Dean breaking up on Caitlynn’s bday and coming back when she’s happy (minus the mustache), and excluding some from the reception - is a little much. No one believes all of this is real but ABC doesn’t have to program all of it.
He came to have some fun...why are people asking this question with that has the most blatantly obvious answer. A variety of hot girls on a tropical resort in Mexico all for free. golly gee whiz, why is he here??!
Shave the moustache
vashti Assumi period sis
They look alike
Too much crying in Paradise! Feelings get hurt too easy because their looking for something INSTANT! That's not how relationships work!
Hes a free spirit .doesnt want to be tied down....not marriage material.go home