When Rachel Lindsay Said This I Knew It Was The Beginning of the End…
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First place, don't ever discuss your $ex life with others. It's no one else's business and it's very degrading to your spouse.
You'd think that's common sense but no
Depends on the couple, some ppl are fine with it but sometimes others are more private and don't appreciate that.
I am a Latina from Miami. It is hard for us to leave that city. It is the city where a Latino like Bryan , who is Colombian-American and I, Cuban-Ecuadorian-American can speak Spanish all day . Be close to our roots. I married a German and I moved to Texas, California, Switzerland. I placed his career first. Now, he is supporting my career. I took time off to raise a child. Marriage is a give and take. My husband learned Spanish. I learned German. I understand why Bryan would be tired. I was really rooting for this couple. Beautiful, well educated, charismatic, but you can’t just leave your husband without his needs while he has made such a change in his life. Sad though.
We love Rachel and Bryan, but we must consider her background. Rachel comes from an upper class background. She appears to be spoiled and selfish. I saw her make that comment, and I thought "wow." Even how she behaves while they live in the same house going through a divorce shows she is rather selfish. Bryan seemingly came from a working class background. He probably has a different attitude about interacting with others. The fact that he closed his business twice to move with Rachel for her career speaks volumes about him having a desirable character, to the point that he was willing to sacrifice his livelihood for the sake of showing her how much he loved and trusted her. I would like to see them get back together too. At least they would not have to live with a lifetime of pain dye to their publicly bashing each other during their rough patch. Kudos to both of them.
@@sandraatkins2539 She should get a dog.
@@sandraatkins2539 Hmmmm... So if she was upper class why would she marry a lower class man from a lower class. Didn't she have the option to choose someone on her level?
@@mrt445she probably did, but maybe the one on her level didn’t choose her.
He sacrificed over and over. Fame ruined another couple. Bryan really loved her, and I believe he's pretty mad.
I saw that interview as well, and suspected that they were having a rough time navigating everything. I too was hopeful about the marriage between Rachel and Brian. He seemed to be the one making the sacrifices in the marriage. Maybe she had another life lesson to learn about herself, and about how to make compromises in a marriage. I’m aware that everyone is coming for Brian seeking spousal support. We are not privy to the inner workings of that marriage. He may need it, until he can re establish his practice elsewhere back in Miami. I’m sure his finances took a big hit, when he relocated to California so they could be together. Let’s just wait and see. Wish them both the best moving forward.
I Don't think I hate Rachel but I Don't like infact I detested thr selfishness in her,she is too self centered and self righteous
You are spot on he made the sacrifice. California is very expensive to rent a space . My sister is an optimist it too her a long time to get establish .
@rsingh9900 yeah,the thing is, it's got to be a two way street, when Bryan made sacrifices,Rachel kept on requiring more sacrifices,can you begin to imagine the fact that last year,she still resigned from the job that made Bryan uproot his entire life 😳 at extra,she quit extra!!makes you wonder why they left miami in the first place, like when does she stop requiring him to sacrifice, its on and on
@@annetnabuyondo7607 You see, I suspect that she quit the job at Extra because she was doing too much, and that may have been part of the reason that she couldn’t conceive, and it also involved too much travel. She may have quit that job under duress. He uprooted his practice to join her in California. Something went so sideways in their lives, that it seems to have soured him especially on the relationship. I did not expect him to be requesting spousal support etc. I think Rachel is a very intelligent woman, however she may have looked a gift horse in the mouth. We don’t really know anything, but from their social media posts, we can read a bit between the lines.
@valeriejohnson8771 oh so she needed to make babies now,I see but before this,she had changed her mind to not wanting kids at all,I guess it was just too late for this marriage, I just wish she didn't quit her job then, so sad
Man Rachael got married mid 30s. You don't think she knew she need to focus on her man and marriage at damn near 39?!
Obviously not.
She is a Narcissist and thing she is cute and can bully everyone.@@TheTameraNealyShow
That's a B-dub... c'mon now.
Agreed Tommy . And how she treated Chris Harrison is really gross. Show was never the same again. Casting every production value . It was must see TV until Peter's season.
@@TheTameraNealyShowI agree with you
It was a combination of things. She prioritized her career over her relationship. Long distance. She lived in LA and he lived in Miami. Fertility issues. Sexless marriage. She wouldn't have sex with him
Thats still a dumb reason to divorce. People just dont honor their marriage vows! All of those things were fixable. Bryon is a deuche bag. He never loved her deeply anyway. That show is 🗑🗑
@@abc78920Didn't take marriage seriously?! Ppl usually stay together longer bc of marriage and not wanting to get divorced. Also weren't they married for like 7yrs?
@@jclyntoledo nah more like 3 or 4.
@@abc78920sexless marriage anybody would leave fym???
@@abc78920stop the bs many women divorce men for far less. Several women describe their reasons for divorce as “we lost the spark” or the “magic is no longer there.” In reality she just over romanticized the honey moon phase and didn’t want the responsibility of marriage so then she filed under irreconcilable differences.
Rachel recently had quit her job at Extra, likely to correct course. She probably really was too exhausted, when it became a problem with intimacy- she eventually made changes to focus on starting a family by quitting. Whether it was too little too late or not, there’s likely various causes of their relationship breakdown.
I thought she was let go.
She told her husband to watch some porn, cause she was too tired to be intimate.
@@skylarkblue4853according to her she quit bcs she just didn't fit in with the new management....but others say she was let go, her contract wasn't renewed.
Rachel had no intention in having a baby for Bryan.She would not take out that IUD, when she have to lay on her back to get those jobs.She start laying on her back, when she got her job with ESPN.No one get on with ESPN, that easy , without any ,experience ,as a reporter.I have heard about what those ladies, and male sports casters, have to do to get on that show.Do you see how fast they kick her butt out, as soon as the audience responded of her being on the show.was Someone probably shake Bryan up and whisper in his ears, about her sleeping on her back.She was always a loose candidate, from when she were in college.She was trying to Claim Kevin Durant.When Kevin mom was interviewed They asked her about her, and Kevin Mom roll her eyes.I know Bryan mom had to shake him up. Bryan said he froze his sperm.Lol! Spanish culture fees, that you are not a man, if you can not get a woman pregnant ,and have kids.Kids was not the main factor in this relationship. She was trying to play this BS, and think anyone will have pity for her.I know people are going to think that I am showing hatred for her. I am not it is the truth.What I am saying comes directly from her mouth.
@@skylarkblue4853 Too little too late. On the Bachelorette she was desperate to get married and have 4 children. That's what she claimed she wanted...to be a wife and mother.
I’m glad Bryan is getting his life back, he’ll be a great husband and father one day…and wiser too!
on Rachel's dime.
Rachel Lindsay has always had a attitude that she comes first no matter what.
NNNOOOO- AMERICA is killing everything -- it is a terrible country....DO YOU KNOW THE COSTS OF LIVING AND UNCERTAINTIES
Isn’t that the average black woman?
.. That’s an American woman thing regardless of color, sir. Dudes like you are quick to vilify a black woman. Meanwhile, you fall head over heels for some other brand of chick and she dogs you too. all women could be a headache, sir..
Narcs says that
I understand her- but work , no it is NOT about narcissistic-- it is something else, I understand her- I understand you, I understand the world, 🌎 , I understand Europe, I understand different parts of the world, I understand him. So, I know , see ........
You are spot on. I saw that episode and also thought there was trouble.
Listen, Rachel is very charismatic but if you listen to her for long enough it becomes obvious that she is very self centered. It sounded like she wanted her relationship to take a backseat to her career. You rarely hear her talk about the sacrifices she makes for her relationship.
Listen! Rachel is a Narcissist and crazy. He should have gotten out of this mess with her a long time ago. Peter could have seen straight through her. She is a troublemaker and a liar. I am so happy this idiot wake up out of his dream and put this woman out of his life. She has no respect for him, and he can not handle her with all of her craziness. i love the way how he caught her off God with the divorce. He need to take her to the cleaners for all the time he spent with her and her foolishness.
I always thought that they didn’t have much chemistry but after seeing her on Shans podcast I’m like why is she revealing their business, I felt like she didn’t care how he would feel by her exposing their bedroom life 😢
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@@monicamatthews2960 I'm just now seeing this and feel embarrassed for Bryan. How humiliating -- it was a cut to even say this to him at all, but to publicize this on social media too? I thought Rachel was mature and intelligent enough to know better. smh
Brian is a good guy. He deserves better. He adored Rachel too bad the feeling wasn't mutual. Best Wishes to Brian
Then why is he trying to rob her?
@@geminienergyHe’s not trying to robbed her, he’s trying to be fair with himself…He sacrificed so much for his marriage and to make her happy but she didn’t care about him, his business took a toll because of all the demands of her career and he wanted to support her but she didn’t seem to care about him, his feelings, his business, his needs so I think it’s fair that he gets what he needs to start again… she can do whatever she wants with her life but don’t be playing with another person like that, you can tell he really loved her but she’s full of herself so at least let’s the court do their job in this one… Wishing both of them the best, time will tell…
@@elenashubert3656 I can support my man without losing my job and/or business. STOP IT!!
You literally just made all of that up 😂@@elenashubert3656
@@elenashubert3656 OH please. He's a white man in America, if he wanted to make money he would have. He was lazy and leached off her and got bitter when she started making wayyy more money than him and now she's going to be better off without the dead weight.
I felt concern for her relationship too after listening to her interview last year. It sounded like the marriage was not her priority.
I do not think it's ok for a woman to air out her husband's intimacy. It's better to do things God's way and bless your spouse, even if your having a challenging time.
Well said, especially the part where you emphasize letting GOD be our Guide! ❤️
@@tsimbistaijerry1381 amen..all glory to God
i agree. hopefully she does not do that to the next guy.
New subscriber Tamera. It's great to see someone around my age who is like-minded. I'm looking forward to your future videos!
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You are correct. Perhaps she was just using him to build her
Career . She admitted that she was too tired to be intimate with
Her husband . He sold his house and left his practice to move to
California. He did love her and he was serious. He seems like a good
Person. She may be sorry to let him go . Just so sad for their situation
Didn’t she leave Dallas to live with him..y’all just say shit …using HIM… how ..she was the bachelorette she already had more opportunities than him
When you take more interested in your career, your marriage is going to suffer.I’m sorry for her husband,who wanted a wife,and she wanted to be seen 5:02
he didn't want a wife. Clearly, he wanted his wife's salary.
Finally another black woman saying this! I loved Rachel but she has become insufferable over the years. She got married and all she does is focus on her career. He uprooted his life only for to start travelling for work smh .
You are not a good person for defaming another@@user-fu4xk6yn4q
@@user-fu4xk6yn4q😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 delusional
She had to. He was not making enough to support her lifestyle.
Gotta say the minute she said “give it to me” regarding the ring at the proposal I knew she was just about material things and leaving engaged very disingenuous
At some point, she did wanted the kids and the babies. I guess the glitch and glamour got the better of her. It is so sad because I was rooting for them. 😢 Wonderful insight, Tamera!
Rachel never wanted any babies for Bryan. She never made any effort to try. Bryan said he had his sperm frozen. Her friends went through IVF. She just wanted to be in everyone's business, and cause problems. The street is where she belongs, and that is where he needs to send her back. You can not want to make babies, when she said on TH-cam, that she do not want to have sex with him, so she told him to go and look at porn. O Nick Vail show she said they were living different lives. She talks a lot and does not realize what she is saying. She went away for 2 weeks with a friend, and left her husband.
She never wanted any kids. His sperm is frozen.
That was just an excuse.She wanted people to think that was the issue ,when it was not.
@@user-fu4xk6yn4q it's none of your business. Go live YOUR life.
I saw that interview and my exact sentiments regarding the divorce. She allowed Hollywood to suck her in. She’ll regret it when they’re done with her.
Omg my sympathy for Rachel went out the door.
She lost herself in the pursuit of fame.. sad
@@rsingh9900 HAHAHAHAAHAHHAAHHAHAHA!!!! Rachel is laughing all the way to the bank! She'll find another.
Rachel messed up. She went on TV to get a spouse and start a life to get married and have kids. But then ended up being dragged by the spot light, Hollywood life while Bryan kept his job at Chiro instead of becoming the next big superstar... It's never too late for them to get back together before or even after divorce
That's called the bait and switch. Men aren't going for that these days.
She was in love with Peter. . .NOT Bryan.
@@karenayers6793 well I guess he wasn't. But we never know... Are they going to get together ???
@@Judyssma Similar thing happened with Bella Poarch. She was married but became an overnight sensation on tiktok and it opened doors for other things like music and she said on podcast that they divorced cause he didn't want that celebrity lifestyle.
@@Judyssma it's not likely to happen. even if it did. too much publicity would be on them they may not want. plus, the intimate details she share between bryan and her should not be done with the next guy she with. it should be private. that should be off limits
Great video and great message to women...they need this message when they are YOUNG and not run through. Mothers used to show and TELL their daughters how to take care of a man (and fathers taught their sons to respect and care for women and the kids)...just not happening anymore...and our society is suffering
YOU can take care of a man! Not me! I had a different kind of mother. She said. . .go travel the world, educate yourself and don't get with some loser who wants you to cook and clean and be a porn star in the bedroom even though you have children. I'm so sad you ended up with your mother.
I'm being honest none of us know all the reasons why there marriage failed. I still think the biggest reason being she never loved Bryan!!!!!! She made the wrong choice on her bachelorette season! If she had married Peter perhaps things could have been different. If you really love someone you will make the time, she apparently did not feel Bryan was worth her time. And found more comfort in her career than in her marriage. This is no hate to either party just facts.
Peter didn't want to get married, remember😅
@@kamohelomichelle1758yep and she knew Bryan would propose… I’ll never forget that gut check when she said “give it to me” regarding the ring at the proposal!!! Who says that!? Yuck
@@kamohelomichelle1758 no he said he wanted to wait. He didn't sat never lol
@@charityjohnson6202 Ok, but still Rachel wanted someone who's ready to go as per the purpose of the bachelorette (engagement).
@@kamohelomichelle1758 yes and b/c of that she is now divorced 😅
I always thought Rachel always wanted to be with the other dude I can’t remember his name from Wisconsin. She’s was so into him and she was devastated that he didn’t want to propose so she picked Brian. Whereas Brian was all in on Rachel from the beginning. After the show she was into her career of being famous not as attorney but a celebrity. So I believe their marriage is done
You can pivot your career if you want. Rachel doesn't have to defend that career move to you!
The relationship was likely already over well before that interview even happened. We simply don’t know what’s happening in a marriage. Omg, the channels showing up in my feed are mind blowing. Wooooh child. 🤦🏽♀️
Great video! Thank you!
How can you be married to someone and not be in the same city. It wasn’t a serious relationship. It’s a reality show relationship. Stop being surprised when these celebrity relationships end
I clicked this video by accident. So glad i did. Subscribing now.
Well, I’m sure that book can be summarized in one sentence to be honest. Men want and need sex regularly. It’s the part that you have to deliver whether or not you and he are emotionally connected which goes in and out. Men don’t typically equate sex with emotion like women do so therefore they don’t always know how to keep the woman happy emotionally while they expect to be kept happy physically. With that said, you figure it out and work on it and you definitely don’t vocalize it publicly so that he and others can see that. I’m thinking she will regret this down the road because it is something that women can never change. And this part will be the same in her next relationship, regardless of anything. I watched Rachel's season but my favorite two are Trista and Charity. Trista's season is the best of everything Bachelor or Bachelorette and I could watch it another 10 times easily but it's hard to find😢
Gurl you are the only one that has listening skills, and comprehension skills. All of her followers on comprehend with their mouth, they forgot all about listening. Thank God this man woke up. Rachel is not sorry on bit. She worried about the spousal support she has to pay. He will get his spousal support whether she like it or not. They are a lot of evidence on how she used and abuse this marriage. He gave up three offices to ran behind of her, and she never tried to help him build his businesses. She running all over Hollywood with all of her losers circle. Little that she know. Several of her circle friends tried to make a pass at her husband. She is an unfit wife. She can not clean her home, cook, get pregnant, etc. Why waste his life with this loser. Who is he coming home to, nothing, but the dogs, because she never home. Anyone who wants to continue to praise, and defend her is an idiot. ALL GOOD THINGS MUST COME TO AN END. THIS IS A YEAR OF TIME AND CHANGE.
Harsh but totally agreed 💯💯💯. She was an absentee wife and was rarely present for him
I think Bryan slowly by slowly detached. By the time she was ready to give some attention to her marriage, he was already checked out
Bryan should have checked out from the time she started to dissect him.He was holding on for the money.He never tried to correct her for all of her bad behaviors.No other man would have put up her sh****t for so long.Bryan, wanted to be accepted by her family, so badly that he make a fool out of himself.What tip him off when went on Nick Vail show, and said they were living a separate life.I am sure everyone get on him then. She had said so man things about her relationship with that was ugly as a married woman.Now she need to pay all the people that purchase her book “Real Love”. I really thing she likes woman.She trying to use that baby pity party.Rachel does not want a child.If she wanted one badly, she would have done like Astrid and all of her other friends with iVF.Bryan, said he have his sperm frozen.Good for both of them.All good thing must one to an end!@@sharleenmagetto5051
@@user-fu4xk6yn4q agreed!!! Bryan at the same time didn't lead his marriage. Even in interviews alone he rarely talked and always appeared timid. A man should be able to lead his marriage and he couldn't. Sometimes I thought Rachael was too "strong " for him
I commended him to know when to walk away . He really love her and was proud of her . She is selfish. Hollywood career is what she desire.
You don't have to do all those things if it is true love. True love is long suffering. It is kind and patient. It is Christ like. However , sadly those qualities were not there.
The Romance was over before it started !
She wanted Peter anyway
@@luv2467 Peter was "The One."
@@karenayers6793 yes he was but not likely to happen now
You are right on point
Great Video!
Plus they never established a Stable residence of their own, neither in his hometown or hers? Men need attention..it's not that your chasing them? They are yours already, but it take constant work and showing interest to keep them! I always kept in mind in all my serious relationship, that your partner could leave any day...In that aspect, you get to really appreciate them, and every moment you have with them too👌
I don't know why you even care, none of us know these people and their personal problems.
Exactly !!
You are so right, when she said that in that interview in I thought the same thing.
Why wasn't she attracted to him sexually though? Was something else happening ? Women withdraw with their body when something else is going on.
Always a supporter of Rachel.
Ps: I do not want Brian to get back with Rachel. The fact he's asking for spousal support hit me wrong with him. He's after her money now...and that's not coming from a genuine place. Maybe the guys on her season were right when they didn't trust him. He said all the right things to feed into her insecurities and win her over.
Now he's after her money...spousal support????
He had to uproot his business for her to be with her in L.A. You lose your clients and it is very expensive to ship your equipment across the country. He definitely lost a lot of money in that sacrifice and he’ll have to move back now. Marriage should include sacrifices on both sides.
Facts, I seen it too. Glad I am not the only one. Happy to hear you are working to improve yourself, we all should!
I Totally agree with you!!! Saw that long time ago, surprised he got fed up. Hope she learns, and Bryan heals.❤❤
You kind of look like her too.. So pretty💗 I'm sorry for their seperation.
What’s the name of the book. I am a wife in waiting as well. Thanks in advance.
Correction, it's 2 of the men.
Girl you don’t know what you’re taking about. She said the divorce was amicable. He just ran ahead and filed without her because he was being petty. Also if the divorce was what he wanted then how come he’s got no place to go, still has to live with her, and has no money? A person who’s ready to leave their marriage would’ve had their ducks in a row and wouldn’t want to share the same house together. I believe the divorce is what she wanted but he handled it childishly because he was bitter.
What rachel attractive to husband. It sound like she wasn't from the interview
NEWSFLASH: He listed all if his assets in divorce court and he is....
Broke 😂😂😂😂😂
She pays 95% of the bills. He is also asking for spousal support and will get it.
Get your/her money bro...
Black passport Bros for Trump 👍🏾🇺🇸
She was cat fished and now oh poor Ryan going all the way to the bank 🏦 boo 😒 hoo spending Rachel’s money 💴
She never wanted him in the first place. She wanted the guy from her season, I forgot his name. The one she cried over, that didn’t want anything serious.
She didn’t was him …she married him …y’all full of BS ..u just never liked her and hated her decision of picking Bryan over Peter
@@pepe340 Peter was the one she should've ended up with.
Yep, she really wanted Peter and settled for Bryan.
@@sq3004 We need a "Where Are They Now" with Peter.
Divorce is an option. Healing is possible. I published my journal to help women 40+ heal forward 🙏 it’s called THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH ☀️
Bryan is hottt
Where are your facts to back this up no video or audio to support your claim?
How can you claim to love someone and you out here spreading talking their personal business?
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Rachel is a highly educated but pampered lady. She is insufferable imo
Get that money that's all he wanted is the money
Rachel is probably sorry that she is losing him .
Why not? She use him all the way to make they money.
How she's a lawyer
@@user-fu4xk6yn4quse him how ??????
This was the fastest break up in Bachelorette history btw, great way to show the country that black bachelorette are a great investment
She’s a narcissist 🚩
Another divestor L
Fyi, several all black marriages ended last yr too; anthony anderson, damian lillard, iman shumpert, etc. race has nothing to do with it
@@MsDesiree39 Looks like I found the divestor, also race has a lot to do with it you 🛌wenches always claim the grass is greener on the other side.
@@MsDesiree39 Looks like I found the divestor, FYI race has a lot to do with it you deluded females make it seem like the grass is greener on the other side
He's Colombian, not fully White.
I can't stand Rachel. Brian will be better off without her.
Why u can’t stand her …u know her personally …..You should be ashamed of yourself and of your comment
Lady why is it her fault. Why do you shake so much. You know nothing about people relationships.
Listen to the full interview with Rachel and it makes. She implied she changed her mind about having children, and that her work is a priority in her life. But on the Bachelorette she said she wanted to be a wife and mother. So from Rachel's mouth us where this TH-camr got her opinion.
You be quiet. Rachel admitted that she was not a wife to her husband . As black women we can be very self absorbed. It is a good thing to put yourself first but then stay single.
She said she was too tired to be intimate with her husband, and go watch some porn...why would he stay?
Everyone knows about their relationship, because Rachel tell the public with her own mouth.The last thing she said was they were living separately lives, and she went to Europe with her friends for two weeks without him.Never once help her husband build his business, when he gave up three business for her.Fair is fair.Now she is free to continue run the street, where she belongs.She will never be wife material.Now she is going to use the race card, as part of her divorce.We know better, because she wrote a book about true love.lol!
@@wakanda6754 Half the guys on that show arnt even straight lol
That was a very bad video, Rachel have been open about so many things but that was bad. Not wanting sex with your man is the worst thing that will end your marriage. She exposes too much. She told before that she slept with the 3 last men on her show as bechelotte. All the details are not necessary. now people will call her a slet.
She actually confessed in an interview on a golfcart(which is still on TH-cam) shortly before she married Bryan back in 2019 that it was actually two people that she slept with, both Bryan and Peter. So if it was actually three then she's a pathological liar. She was so giddy to admit something like that around the time she was suppose to marry Bryan, which should've been kept private. It just goes on to show that she had no class or decency. She was basically being happy about being a "promiscuous whore"😭😭. Plus that's who Bryan wanted to marry? That was absolutely pathetic. Now look that sham marriage has basically dissolved and they are both back to square one. I was predicting back in 2017(after she cried her eyelashes out over Peter) that things were not going to work out for the both of them and my words came to pass. Like who didn't see that coming😂.
She was giving it up to other people, so he was not satisfying any more to her.Then maybe she gay!
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Why u saying that
she must have spoken to him about it to reveal so much.