Transgender ‘Power Couple’ Plan A Family | MY TRANS LIFE
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A HUSBAND and wife dubbed the UK’s transgender ‘power couple’ plan to start a family together. Despite getting married towards the beginning of 2018, Jake and Hannah Graf are only now moving into their first home together. The couple met three years ago, splitting their time between Jake’s west London flat and Hannah’s army barracks at Sandhurst. But now that Hannah has left the army, she can finally live permanently with her husband. The couple first connected over social media through mutual friends in the transgender community. Jake, an actor and director, transitioned 10 years ago, while Hannah, who joined the army as a man, serving in Royal Electrical Mechanical Engineers, began transitioning five years ago.
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I had to adjust to their voices it threw me off at first.
Nae West sameee
oof sorry bud that must've been hard for you
@@dontlookinyourcloset TRIGGEREDDDDDD
@@dontlookinyourcloset my comment didn't say it was.🙂. I just didn't realize who was talkin at first.
Hannah’s voice sounds like a full man
Voice coaching I think would be very beneficial for Hannah, it seems like it's something that she particularly doesn't like and I think that would be a good route to go if she wants to feminize her voice.
Ashly C Totally agree. Maybe she should look into it? It would definitely help with some of the insecurities she seems to have about her voice! But maybe she doesn't really want to, her choice after all 🤷🏽♀️
@@nataliesimbolon371 yep :)
Yeah, she looks 100% like a woman, that voice is the only problem.
Yes ❤
It's such a shame when the both have what the other wants or needs. Nature can be cruel!
Hannah inspired me too finally accept who I am. I had been aware of Hannah for a number of years as she had become 'famous' because of her transition while STILL serving as an officer in the British Army.
Then while serving on my last overseas posting in Kenya prior to retiring from the Army, the unit Hannah was attached to rotated through a training cycle. I ran into her a few times and I figured, 'If she can find the courage to do that, I can'.
I had always lived with a war inside myself (as well as the ones I had to fight as part of my job), now that war is over. I have lived as a woman since 2017 and while my previous life has left scars, which may never fully heal, and massive regrets that I was unable to come out earlier in my life, I am happy and my anger at the world has abated.
Thank you Hannah, go girl and I wish you all the happiness in the world
I'm so happy you're at peace with yourself :)
Ngaww. Im nit crying you are smh
he’s literally so sweet to her😭
Who ?
The Playmaker the one with the beard
@@theplaymaker9371 He to her!
Im more confused now
@@theplaymaker9371 Your mistake
"We can look at the dates my love"
*instantly melts😭*
I heard my voice!!!!!!
Regardless of anything, it’s so nice to see people in love.
And the way he talks about proposing and how beautiful it was, it really sounds like they are really in love.
Yes, it is. I am SO against transgenderism--I'm a nurse and I know what these people have to go through to "change" their sex. It's not healthy. But I am glad they're happy.
Ya if it was a real man and woman
It's lust not love
@@kalikalad8954 It's sad that a 14 year old can understand this better than a nurse can but let me break it down. They are transgender due to their brain structure not matching their sex, so they do everything in their power to make their body match their brain in order to relieve a feeling called dysphoria, which is more harmful itself than safely transitioning.
so basically they man and woman.
And straight
Well, yeah that's how it works? He's a trans man and she's a trans woman so... They're straight.
grrrindz yep
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
There’s nowt so strange as folk!
She has the purest smile I've seen in a while...
Nagendra Kumar which she?
@@robbiesomes3679 she
He you mean?
Absolutely Agree with you that she has the purest smile 👍🏻 . And her voice although deep , is absolutely Lovely 👍🏻 . Keep it up Jake & Hannah ! Keep On Going ! Stay Strong ! You Have My Support ! 👍🏻🌺
Which one?
They’re a cute couple. Everyone is deserving of love and happiness.
It’s so cute how he calls her “my love” and the way he says it
10 BugR she *
@@AlbertoHernandez-pc7gd *he
@@AlbertoHernandez-pc7gd *he
@@AlbertoHernandez-pc7gd *he
It’s seriously the cutest thing!
idk what it is about hearing a man call his girlfriend “my love” that i just love it
They're both so beautiful! I wish them all the happiness in the world!
beautiful except for the part where it makes you want to throw up
*reads comments and sips tea*
Me too😉
Lol it's a mix of people being uplifting and people who are transphobic but still come here to watch and comment🤷🏾♀️
sry but this is not my cup of tea
i'm drinking coffee now, greeting from singapore
Greetings, not greeting.
Greetings from Hell.
Hannah, I love your voice ...sultry. one of my granddaughter's is transgender. Came out this last year & I am trying to educate myself. Thanku both for this documentary. Wishing for happiness & peace all ur days.
What did you do to your granddaughter to make her a confused, damaged, and lost individual?
Hannah's voice sounds just like a man, no mistake. There's no 'sultry' about it, sounds like a man period.
@Lucy Thibodaux Would never expect that kind of talk from someone with a Confederate flag icon. You're changing the game. 😆
What a wonderful grandmama... to care enough to try to understand & know her. Luv & hugs
Ignore the ignorance from the haters above 😉
My heart goes out to you and your granddaughter. Your support is amazing! Love and open mindedness will conquer all.
50% of comments about how cute of a couple they are
50% of comments about how Hannah’s voice sounds so different than how she looks
And 100% should not have children or raise them.
@@clipsedrag13 That's kind of fked up to say. They can make good parents too.
@@clipsedrag13 theyd be great parents
They looked 100% like a woman then I heard the voice
it's a man.
Fabrizio what
@@fabrizio483 facts!!
It is always obvious from the adam's apple, shoulder span, jaw line, and waist. They can hide the neck and jaw with surgery, but not major skeletal.
Fria Gram you’ve never seen a female born person with broader shoulders and a less defined waist line? People come in all shapes an sizes, honestly most women i know have the same figure as hannah
I thought his voice was her voice before they showed them talking
sasha but you saw them from the start
Lechiffresix six yeah they showed their faces but no mouths moving so we couldn’t know who’s voice is whose lol
😆 lol
My thought too.. 😂😂
I also thought that lollll😂
They are such a cute couple!!! And I died inside how he called her by saying "my love" that was so cute😭😭
No, they are not.
@@ph4ntomsoldier no, you are not
@@Bobo-yz4tk I'm real and cute lol
@@ph4ntomsoldier Insulting people you don't know just bc they are trans ain't cute, it's a bit sad. Why do you say they aren't?
@@ph4ntomsoldier well, it's like saying that just because some mexican male sexually harrased you, you asume all mexican men are bad.
I've had the honour and pleasure of getting to know Jake for the past year. They're a fantastic example of love.
I love their love! Hannah is absolutely stunning and Jake is incredibly handsome! I am so happy they found each other. I wish them many years if love and happiness ❤
Jake's transition is impressive
I don't know if it was him at 2:36 but she was a stunning beauty.
Agreed, he looks like a good looking dude
Seems like a sweet couple, I hope they get they family they're wanting. I wish them the best in 2019.
@@lilsweeeeet u don't have a come back u are sad
@Sydney Piper Bristow think you need to learn to read love, facts are more important than peoples feelings. Deluded people like the ones in the video think that facts dont matter, they can cut off a million pieces of their bodies and call themselves camels doesnt mean they are.
@Sydney Piper Bristow lol yes fact if you are born a male you will die a male. Fact in you are born a female you will die a female no matter how much you mutilate yourself.
@Sydney Piper Bristow I get the feeling you are the one who doesnt know the difference between facts and feelings.
Same
But why they focus the camera at 8:17
@@coldogno7 there flat😂
To make it seem like he has boobies 😂
Innovative Interests she has breasts, they aren’t fake or implants, estrogen allows the body to create breast tissue.
To show her nails...because she said no nail polish in the army lol
@@ashleyazizinatashacardenas5572 he had boobies there....
It blows my mind that anyone would have a problem with this relationship or them as individuals. They are such a great couple and so happy!
Briana Kiser sane well said
Hannah seems like she would benefit greatly from voice coaching and/or voice feminization. I say that, not as an outsider who thinks she should/needs to change, but as someone who genuinely cares about how she feels about herself. She's a lovely woman, and I hate that she feels self concious about her voice.
The sad thing is though, is that voice feminization can be a very risky surgery, if something goes wrong, one could lose their ability to speak at all. That's why most people go the route of voice coaching, but even that can only do so much. Medical advancements are unstoppable though, so hopefully one day vocal feminization surgery will be a lot safer, and an easier route to take. I think she may see good results with coaching though, just because her voice isn't necessarily that deep compared to others in her position.
BoogieMonster Mom There’s training for voice feminization without surgery. It’s a much less expensive way to vocally transition.
I got the feeling she was insecure about it too, it just sounds like such an awful surgery :/
Dee zee There’s an amateur transgender racecar driver named Charlie Martin. She started transition at age 19, but her voice passes super well. There are resources to train your voice that are much cheaper than surgery.
@@GalaxyGal- that's interesting.
3:23 "we can look at the dates, my love" ugh, they're so cute
other then maybe her voice I wouldn't be able to tell either one if them are trans. seem like nice people. glad they are happy together and love one another cause in the end that's all that really matters.
They seem happy and in love. The world always needs more happiness and love. Good luck to them.
Oh calm your tits. It’s not like them being married and happy impacts your life in any way.
Her voice is more manly then her mans
right........
Well she's a guy so...
😂😂
LMAOOOOOOOOOO
Because she is the true man
As a trans person, I would be so happy dating a trans person. Wish you guys all the happiness in the world
She's so pretty and he's pretty handsome.
That voice don't sound right coming from her 😂😂😂 almost sound like some bad lip reading 💀
Because she is a he!
your pic looks like a bad genetic genetic reading but no one's saying anything
Kristen Holloway even the way she carries herself it seems awkward and unnatural
We watch the same things you have a Instagram I see your comments all the time
@@dontlookinyourcloset TRIGGERED
Hannah, thank you so much for not 'faking' your voice. It's very empowering for all of us who struggle with the same issue. Using your real voice for me makes you even more beautiful.
I fell in love with her voice. Yes, it sounds like a man's voice and I understand why she feels uncomfortable about it but I still love it.
I couldn't help but notice how the F to M parent took the lead with pushing/holding the baby. There was some definite maternal bond there.
Biology is the driving force. The natural instinct kicks in regardless of how someone identifies.
She's an absolute beauty. They both look so so good together.
This is literally a straight couple...
No matter how you look at it.
It's got nothing to do with sexuality though, so your comment is irrelevant.
and
@Malaysian仏教徒 what are u even trying to say ??
Yeah, hannah and jake. A lovely straight couple, love them :)
It's so sweet that they found love 💖
ikr
it's not love, it's perversion.
@Reed Zemlak stop
@@fabrizio483 the perversion is in your little pervert self IMAGINATION. LOVE IS NOT PERVERSION. YOU Saint?
I am happy that they are happy. But I am torn.
I don't believe one can change one's sex. Biology is destiny. You can FEEL whatever you like, but if you are born male or female, that's the end of the story. Be homosexual if you must, but don't try to change your sex. You can't, because sex is genetic. Be whatever gender-fluid individual you want to be, but don't tell me you're a man when your genotype is XX. That's a lie. Call yourself what you are: A woman who wants to pretend to be a man. No shame in that. Own it, don't try to cover it up with surgery and hormones. Women who get plastic surgery because they're old are scorned by much of society. Bodybuilders and athletes who take steroids are also scorned. Why are "transgender" people given a pass for cheating? Be who you are, in every way. Peace.
They are a match made in heaven. It must be so comforting to be with another person who's in the same boat and truly understands what the other is going through.
Beautiful, happy, healthy, stable, normal couple! I wish them well ❤️
Technically a straight couple, best of luck to these two. They look like the sweetest couple
Theyre straight and white, no protection
Good to see they are happy together living life the way they want. Happy new year everyone!!
Is there a solution to the deep voice?
They just have to voice train. Its a lot of work. Kind of like fake it until you make it
Helium.
There is a surgery but it's not very helpful. Eden The Doll made a video about it. Some people have a more or less feminine or masculine voice. There is not a lot that you can do about it.
I heard that sucking on the Adam's apple helps.
Miss Cindy yes! People take hormones and take voice therapy!
What an attractive couple :) i wish them nothing but the best ... amazing to see 2 cool people find each other
This was great, I wish the best for you. I started to transition about three years ago,i'm 62 you give me hope. Tiffany
lots of love to you xx
I was dying at 10:00 with the vibrating part 😂😂😂😂 and then they started the nerf gun war omg I love them 😍 wish them the best, they’re a beautiful couple.
So basically a straight couple!
Well yeah, a (trans) man and a (trans) woman would make a straight couple unless the definition of straight has changed since I last checked.
@@tradgothmiku even without the trans he's a she and she's a he is what they mean.
King Midas that sentence is confusing
more like a extreamly confused pair
Every trans guy and girls are straight. That is the thing which makes them trans in first place.
They do vocal cords surgery to adjust voice. It can help you feel better. My friend had it.
Man playing God, im so happy that this is about to be all over soon!
rachel amber elaborate?
@@YoYoItsHaylee Probably a crazy religious "end times" person.
Regardless of their situation, I love how they’re in love!
They look like a regular straight couple. I hope they have a great family life.
No, you are NOT just like everyone else.... you are courageous, open and loving. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse in to your lives. I smiled the whole way through. I think you are very special people .... and I love what she said, “.... it’s about what you bring to the party not who you bring....” so happy to see the sparkle in your eyes. Thanks again!!!! And all the best with starting your family.
I think it's great that they have one another. Love is a beautiful thing and they deserve love and compassion, and to be treated just like any other couple. They seem to be happy and content with themselves and that's all that matters ♥️
Exactly. Love is love.
What happened to your hair?
Besides the love why does the guy think he's a girl he's disgusting
Tony Stewart why does it matter
I think he describes how its okay to not understand something or someone but how to be accepting of the situation or person, so so well!!! Its really lovely to hear that. He is a really sweet guy and I hope they have a happy life together. She also looked beautiful in that wedding dress!
Tq~now i know the difference between being understanding vs accepting
Man, he’s gorgeous. They’re both incredibly good looking, but the guy is so so attractive..
I think voice coaching would help her accustomise herself more as a lady. Good luck to them both because he’s be spotted with her
The love in their eyes is so apparent when they look at each other and there's such a friendship and understanding there. That's all you could ever want in a partner- and they make each other laugh. I'd take even a fraction of that kind of love in a heartbeat.
Oh my gosh!! You are both SO DAMN GORGEOUS!
So glad you found each other.....
I hate hearing about cruel remarks....love is love.
Wish you both a happy life and kids to put icing on the top !
😊
This is a straight couple. I'm still trying to figure out the power part.
Hannah’s smile is truly beautiful.....
9:45 I literally thought it was a sex toy, I'm toxic🙃
me too
So did they for a second lol
The part with the razor buzzing was so cute! Haha! "Stop shooting! Stop shooting!"
Hannah us so beautiful!!! Literally couldn't stop looking at her.
They are one of the sweetest couples I've seen
You are the "perfect couple". Thank you for showing us what great love means !!
Hannah has one of those unique voices for radio. Lots of companies would pay big money to have commercials done with that voice.
Love has no boundaries when you meet the right one much happiness to you both
I actually got used to Hannah's deep voice quite fast, like it didn't 'bother' me at all, didn't even notice it after a minute in the vid
I couldn't get used to it throughout the whole video ..
Same
I’m literally so in love with this couple! Oh my God would I love to be friends with them! They are so so beautiful inside and out and I wish them everything wonderful in the future❤️❤️❤️
Hannah is pretty, she seems a bit insecure though. They appear to be happy and contented with each other. I like them.
They’re a lovely couple. I’m glad they are happy together! If I hadn’t known the guy was born female, and the woman was born male, I never would’ve guessed (except for her voice, but even then that can be natural if something medical had happened to her throat/voice).
Both of them transitioned nicely! I honestly wouldn't have been able to tell whether they were trans or not if it weren't for this video
They look like an average, ordinary, happy couple!! Wouldn’t have know any different!!💕
I agree with you beautiful
It’s really nice to see people in love, I wish them the best.
What a charming couple!
The shaver moment was ICONIC ♥️♥️♥️♥️I truly wish the best for these two they're genuinely in love and that is such a beautiful story regardless of their trans identity.
Thanks for making this video you give parents of trans kids hope for a beautiful future.
9:48 lol i thought it's their 'plaything' at first 😂 thanks god, it's a shaver
Such a power couple, they look so cute together. And Hannah is so beautiful. Wishing them the best!
Hi
IKR
She’s a beautiful woman. I believe voice coaching would help too and make her happier. They’re a good looking couple.
Such a lovely, attractive, couple! I wish you both all manner of good fortune, good health and love for the rest of your days, lori (I got so tickled when Jake said, "As Spiderman says, with great power comes great responsibility." And Hannah, laughs and sort of rolls her eyes, like, "Yes, that's my man...back off women." lol so cute...)
I have a niece that is trans and sadly my dad makes me meanest comments about her. He also makes mean comments about other things and seemed floored when I told him I would not allow hate speech in my home regardless of whether or not you raised me! My husband is in the US Army and I have seen how the trans community is treated and it’s unnecessary! The fact that Hannah has been supported by the British Army for her activism is amazing. It’s difficult, I imagine, to be trans and to have found someone that not only identifies by another gender just as you do and understands what you’re going through is amazing. I can’t wait to see where their journey to surrogacy leads them. It really hurts my heart when a couple cannot have kids the “traditional” way but as long as they are able to realize their goal of becoming parents is good. I wish them so much happiness!!!! Those in the comments being rude should be ashamed of yourselves! You clicked on the video so what did you think you were gonna see? Despite your hateful comments, your views have only further propelled this video making more people aware of them so your hatred has backfired! May the rude people shove it!! This couple is so beautiful!!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜LOVE WINS
They are happy and doing no harm to anyone. I’m happy for them and hope their family will continue to grow💙
Blue Queen well said
They're brave sharing their love to the world because people are brutal on TH-cam. Thank you for sharing your stories. Love is a beautiful thing!
Bravery has nothing to do with it. More smug, self satisfied and attentions seeking.
Thanks for making this video. I have talked to some of my girlfriends about this and have met a few the same way, but this is so hard for me! Even if he does have sex with me he is so reluctant to the point that sometimes it almost negates the fact that we had sex, but he always seems like it was great afterword and even will be more likely to have sex if we recently had good sex. If I don't have the energy to come on to him for a few days it is like climbing a mountain to do it again, and it can take weeks! I feel confused because we are a young couple and having sex twice a month seems like ages! When I talk to him about it he says things like "I don't know I just don't want to" and when I asked him to go to the doctor he cried and said he was already doing everything he could to make me happy. He is a good partner but it can be hard not to stray when it is pulling teeth with him and every other man seems to want to. So i decided to find out what he is doing when i am not around but i did not know how spy, a friend who i told what i was going through suggested that he might be cheating on me with some other women, and that he get his satisfaction before coming to me. She suggested i contact a hacker called the spyhelp hackers team, which i did via Whatsapp : {+ 4 4 7 5 2 0 6 3 5 4 7 4} and through email : s p y h e .l p h a c k e r 0 0 7 @ G M A I L .COM. After i had told them my situation the accepted hacking into his phone to give me access to all his SMS messages, Whatsapp, Snapchat, instagram, Facebook and other social media app on his phone. To my surprise, in less than 3 hours i was shock to find out my worst fear, my partner was truly cheating on me. If you are reading this and you are passing through a similar situation, contact this hackers to find out where you stand in your relationship or marriage.
*THEY JUST NEED TO EXCHANGE THERE VOICE.*
Yes 😋😋
He has a Look of Women very prety Change would be perfect... But its a question of does She need that? ☺️
Teresa Fonseca it’s a guy
10,000 Subscribers Without any videos no she’s a girl don’t be transphobic
And the soul
Hihihihihi
They should disable the comments cause all there is gonna be is mostly transaphobes..
hannah’s voice is powerful and i love it
its wonderful that they found each other, I hope that they have many happy years together
I'm straight and just wanted you to know how heartwarming to hear your stories. Happy you two found each other and happiness. Wish you had your own channel so I could follow you. I love all the art work and curious about those charities. Haha loved the vibration noise! Let me know if you decide to start your own channel.
It doesn't matter what people think. As long as their happy and they do seem happy. God Bless you both!☺️☺️☺️☺️
I’m so glad there is someone speaking out for trans community like this, I work for a surgeon that helps with transgender transitioning and I have found that a lot of trans people have fought really hard to get to their transition and sadly it’s people and there opinions that they are fighting against it’s sad because everyone deserves to be who they are meant to be, weather that Is gender or sexual preference or religion, it’s sad that judgment is the main issue in stopping people from becoming their best selves. Thank you for this I really hope people see how happy they are and the life they have now that they have transitioned. honestly we all just want to be happy and how can that be wrong?
Great reply....Thanks. You're an awesome human.
Youre meant to be who you were born to be
What I find sad is those who had surgeries and they failed, they miss their penis, they detransition and no longer have their bits.
There seems to be more of them coming out now...
And no, this is not a transphobic comment. Look up the definition of phobia. This is just a factual comment.
I just see a lovely couple ❤ I wish them nothing but joy! 😊🙏
There's somebody out there for everybody and I'm happy they found their somebody.
Hannah's voice definitely changes the illusion.
You know what I don't understand? WHY do people hate any kind of people regardless of sexuality or lifestyle or anything. I look at both of them as two amazing, good hearted personalities and I'm not wondering about their genitalia or sex life or stuff like that. I like them because they are both kind and look cute together and that's it. I don't understand why would you hate a person cause they didn't feel comfortable in their skin and changed the sex (gender). It's non of your bussines. I really don't look at peoples gender anymore, either I like you or I don't. Your heart matters.
Our mental health system needs help
Such a beautiful couple! As a trans person myself, you all give me hope for my future :)
beard goals lol may the testosterone god's make me have one like his 😂
Sameeee
He legit looks like a guy
Why I'm keeping watching on transgender couples? I'm straight and I thought it's crazy at the beginning of educating myself on the topic. Thank you! Positivity and very inspiring to see two alike find each other! I wouldn't ever think he was a woman. I would definitely fell for her husband. Hannah is more lady that most ladies. She has an aura ... yes! Wishing you all the success! Where is the update video? Thanks you for being an amazing couple! Oh, Hannah doesn't dress to impress and she looks beautiful!
Same here!
I’m watching this video as I find Hannah and Jake’s story so beautiful and inspiring.
I am in love with this couple. They are beautiful to the core. I hope they have a lifetime of joy with each other. They would be excellent parents.