DNA SCAM,Their 3 Sons belonging to PASTOR TOBI!Footballer KAYODE OLARENWAJU & WIFE.The Whole Story!
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Ethnic bigotry is a strong factor in Nigeria. I can tell you that for sure. I am also Yoruba married to an Igbo lady. We struggled with acceptance from my elder sister, my parents are late. On the side of my wife , we struggled with acceptance from her elder sister, my wife's mother is late. My sister in law blames any problem in the marriage on the fact that my wife rejected marrying an Ogbo man. But troubles don't know ethnicity. I have resorted to prayers. I don't involve my family in my marital issues. Whether you are married to your tribe or not , if you want your marriage to endure as much as possible avoid involving your family members in your marital issues.
Good bless you sir.
One of my friends from Anambra state married a Yoruba lady. His family fought him vehemently over his decision, on his wife's part, her family fought her more severely.
Even at a point the guy business problem and even went to jail, but the lady never gave up. I remember always encouraging her, telling her to ignore inlaws abuse, etc.
The guy came out, bounced back and today they're doing wonderfully well. He treats her like a queen.
Tribal sentiment is a very big problem in Nigeria.
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The only solutions to all these problems is prayers my brother do that can God open their eyes to see that you are married to your soulmate. Avoid Inlaw’s in your marriage is very important too
Next time, consider marrying within your tribe. In a nation where tribalism is rampant and intertribal marriages, especially between Yoruba, Igbo, and Hausa/Fulani, are often discouraged, you've placed yourself and your family in a challenging position. Such unions are rare, comprising only 0.03% of the population, and may face difficulties, especially if Nigeria fractures along ethnolinguistic lines in the future. It's your choice but be prepared for the potential consequences.
I don't tow your line, sir. There is nothing wrong with marrying outside one's tribe. Every marriage has its peculiar challenge, whether intra or inter tribal . Aside from the issue of acceptance from elder sisters on both sides, my marriage is heaven of on earth. We are doing great. My father inlaw is alive and very hospitable.
Never build a man, be supportive but never build him, he will hate you for it
In Zimbabwe we don't refund the bride's price. You make someone's daughter have 3 children for you and after divorce there is no such a thing as refund. You don't mess my daughter or my sister and expect to get a refund of the bride's price.
U know!
Thank you! Makes no sense refunding bride price, after 3 children.
Refunding bride price is a traditional way of divorce. It symbolises breaking ties so both can freely get into another relationship.
My country Sierra Leone too. There's no question or refund of bride price after the marriage is resolved.
Wow
Purple looks beautiful on you Neze, God has been kind to me, blessed me with a white mother in law who never gives me any problems, may God grant her peace and rest her soul, may God eases the problems for women with troublesome in-laws.
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Amen
A lot of men forget the value of the woman who stood by them on the journey to stardom because they suddenly realise they have become big enough to buy any woman with a price tag.
When you have 3 small children, the woman’s mother living with them can be priceless.
Unlike the sons mother.
@@joanoloyede1062 except if the son is Neze’s husband. Have you seen videos of Neze and her MIL?
@@miss4b4c
I am certain everyone has sweet memories/ pictures be it for whatever reasons.
The point is being mother in-laws are sweeter when there are boundaries. But when your sweet mother starts living with you permanently, that is when you will understand that khaki no be leather.
Even wicked mother in-laws will show you kindness and their sweet side when there are boundaries. But without boundaries, the wife will experience 'shege promax'.😅
What about the man's mother?
I am not from Nigeria I don’t know any of the people you talk about but I love watching your videos because of the way you tell your stories. It is so professional and educational. Good job keep up the good work
It’s wrong for mother in law to permanently stay with her child , except she has medical issues that needs attention. The couple needs their privacy always
U say my mind completely. Well done
Mother inlaw is not the problem. The husband is just a bad man.
If this is a true story, Kayode will pay for this. He is a user.
Nothing wrong with one accommodating their parents in need❤❤❤
Full respect to her getting her FIFA license. I think all African women married to footballers should follow suit and ensure they fully understand their husbands trade. Ezinne is a beautiful woman 😍 I weep internally at marriages which disintegrate.
Why should African women married to footballers be the ones to abandon their careers to be football agents? Are we the epitome of abandon everything and follow a man? Pls leave us alone. These men are GROWN. Go and learn how to read a contract. Handle your business yourself like a man.
Dis is kind of u darling.
Exactly!!! I am happy she evolved and saw an opportunity to build a career!!! Not only helping him but helping herself in the process !!!
Barr Neze, you're probably right. The educational gap and exposure between the duo is just too wide. Secondly, money, and the ephemeral fame attached to these celebrity footballers is another problem. Unfortunately, no consideration was given by the couple to the wellbeing and mental wellness of the children who are caught up in this mess. That for me is the real tragedy. I hope the children heal from all the trauma.
Remain blessed dear. It's always about the parents 😢
Build a man at your own risk. Make sure you have helped yourself first. Fill your tank first. Men settle for women they can afford and will go for the woman or women they truly desire when they have the financial means.
This isn't 100 percent correct, we only know what happens in our life, nobody really knows much about what happens in other people's heart. Good or bad behavior knows no gender.
@davidlesinwa1383
Yen yen yen. That person is correct, you're just in detail. When men get money, the woman that stood by them is in trouble.
CORRECTLY SAID @@FoAl-h2b
@@FoAl-h2bin most cases,very few remain humans.
100% truth!
Lord have mercy on this young couple, show them your loving kindness, i understand the frustrations of this young woman, a number of us have done that, sold things to help, things they did not buy, made sacrifices it is well, i have learnt something, when God uses you as a channel to build someone, never take the glory or credit for it, leave it to God, pray for your peace n things will work out for your good. If u help let it be out of goodwill, dont do it thinking they see ur sacrifices n will support u through, no, they don't, just do it for the sake of kindness, God himself will reward you his own way❤
That is it @audrey
I usually don't watch all these story blogs, gist and stuff. But this is the second time I'm watching your video and all I just want to say is you do greatly well with your story telling type. You style makes the gist sweeter. Your voice is so relaxing, your laughters and gestures just makes it all interesting. Welldone
Because of his career, they are both travellers. Therefore, the mother-in-law is the greatest option rather than a nanny to watch the kids while the couple is abroad.
Sometimes all that glitters is not gold. Wealth can sometimes turn an happy marriage into sour marriage.
Hmm! I have always say this that success without a good character is a disaster waiting to happen. It has been rightly said that one cannot truly know the character of people until they have access to money. Hmmm!
Kayode wasn't prepared for fame and affluence. These got to his head and he started behaving like a real parvenue.
Must often, those who go that way end up crashing. That will surely be his fate.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I agree with you my dear. I agree.
My take:when there is no fear of God in a man's life, success can get into his head and he can become foolish in his dealings. Proverbs 1:32 For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them. The marriage can still be restored if both of them come to the CROSS.At the cross,Jesus determines every action. Genuine forgiveness and repentance can heal any broken relationship.
you just ended up typing rubbish. Go and offer this type of woman to your son to marry nah
God can help them solve there issues. Patience, understanding and empathy for one and another with the blood of Jesus for repentance and genuine apology to one another can solve all these in Jesus name.
She cheated on him with a PASTOR.
This marriage can be restored, if they allow it.
@@kayholn7522 oyin! if she actually cheated, she is not the first woman to cheat. He can forgive just like millions of women (and even men) do everyday. Besides, if she stepped out, she likely stepped out due to frustration from his cheating.
This is really so sad
It is said that a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing
While a man's loyalty is tested when he has so much ...
I really wish they could resolve this
A lot of marriages have failed due to mother inlaws who do not understand any boundaries.
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And inlaws too
All in-laws my foot!
She gave this man beautiful kids❤❤❤
Nezeville , You know what I like about you? You do not take your viewers for granted. You are always camera ready. Well prepared and the clarity of your messages makes it very interesting. No night dress or sleep cap in sight. Long may you continue.
Marry within your class!!! Age, education, finances, religion, etc
Exactly
Still doesn't guarantee long lasting marriage
Believe it or not this is the truth. If not possible it’s still fine but the later is better.
Believe it or not this is the truth. If not possible it’s still fine but the later is better.
It's called risk mitigation. @maryusar9430
Tribe is a non issue where focus is concerned. The man has no vision and cannot see beyond his nose despite everything his wife has done for him. Really sorry for the lady.
Why did she cheat?
Who did she cheat with?@@Iyke47
It's very painful to see a couple invest in each other, resulting in growth and later go separate ways. I really feel the pain of Ezinne. I pray God helps them both.
My thoughts exactly
I don't see what this man has invested in Ezinne, rather she has invested so much in him. May God bless her with a better man that would wipe all these years away and May Karma visit Kayode
Wat did she invest....was hse the one paying his rent or was she the agent that found a team for him?
Most men in Nigeria helped to grow by their wives unfortunately end up in a wicked way like this story. Thank God Kayode refuted allegation early enough.
Ezinne is so pretty. No wonder her sons are so handsome. I wish her marriage would live again.
Unless the Lord builds the house they labour in vain that build it.Not anyone is a help meet for another.
Tribalism is eveeywhere ooh. Here in Cameroon things are getting worst by the day due to the crisis. My prayer is for christain to understand the gift of God in thier respective lives and not to used tribalism and destroyed the beautiful life God has given them.
Their story is sad ..when they are supposed to be reaping the fruits of their labor, see drama everywhere. May they be restored . I don't believe it is wrong due to the nature of the job of the parents, Daddy and mummy are always away, only a family member can truly take care of the kids. If the MIL respects boundaries,it should not be a problem.
To me it is not the ideal thing for a mother-in-law to live with the married couples,but some mother -in laws know their place in their child marriage,they know their boundaries and stay there, these can be accommodated.
Nothing wrong with it. All about communication and understanding
Neze Nwa, why do you smile contagiously whenever you are making a video. I guess your husband must be opposite tingling you there. I like it sha. It makes me smile along side with you. I can't wait to be a good content creator like you.
Men always forget where they took off from. You can never know the true character of a man untill he touches money.
Anaghi eji ogiri atu oke ahia.
One of the worst marriage is the couple with wide different academic background.
I feel for the beautiful kids.
How did i get here within 15secs of the video being uploaded?
Let's go Neze
Neze please don't forget to use your platform to the glory of God. No amount of money can buy you eternal life.
Amen
As a safe Kenyan I rem seeing the news on blogs that he wasn't the father and to find out it was false🙆🙆🤦🤦🤦what is wrong with people 😱😱
This woman built this guys career,never build a man ladies its not ur duty,build yourself,men are not babies let them find their way,man no be by mouth
And I hop u will advise men to also stop building women and start marrying the rich ones too
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I still watch that movie to date. I so love that movie. Kenneth Okonkwo's character warmed my heart. Serious love nwa tin tin 😂
Yes, but Neze, everything was going fine until the wealth came in. Indeed power and money corrupts.
More like reveals true character?
Like they say " you live another person's character when you don't have wealth yet"
This Ezinne is a real gem 💎💎, so nah she brought this man into the real football ⚽ changing life, he is enjoying.
You dey play ▶️ with a lawyer.
@@peculiar_1937 Me ke, play with lawyer; wetin I chop bellefull? Neze, no mind am o.
I am so happy to hear the DNA thing was just rumors. As always Neze you nailed this again 🙏🏾✌️🏽❤️
Hmmm them saw her as omo Ibo, but when their son brought oyinbo even an old oyinbo dem go accept... GOD Have Mercy Upon our People... a mother in- law can go for omugwo but not to moved in to live with the couple...
I am a Yoruba man. If you want a failed marriage allow your mother to live in your home permanently. Holiday is fine. You need God to be the centre of your marriage.
My parents are living with me my marriage has not crashed. It depends on the boundaries you have set.
Who is taking care of the children?The mother, of course. That's why she was living with them .
Thank you very much.love from Uganda 🇺🇬
Why are Yoruba men so weak to set boundaries between their mother and their wives? Please don't corrupt other real men that can manage their homes well, oga I'm a Yoruba man.
You are wrong Mr man every body has different character. Only someone with bad character cannot live with people peacefully. My mum live with my younger sister in the U S and everyone loves her presence up to the extent that they don't want my mum leaving them a second to visit other kids in Nigeria.
As soon as I saw their names I knew tribe will definitely play a role….
MIL issues are very dependent on the couple, they must realise their relationship comes first at all times.
I pray they resolve this soon.
I just can't love you less, Neze. Wealth and social status played a fast one on this marriage, simple!
Trust ibo women,they help their husbands excel
I love the hair so beautiful it’s brings out your true natural beauty
I really pitied the children 😭😭😭. Couple fights and settled . With all they’ve been through 😢.
Tribalism is one enemy to their marriage, secondly the financial influence and lastly family influence. I am Igbo married to Yoruba, they don't like me because of my tribe, when my husband started making money, they went as far as arranging a wife for him and I was not aware but the marriage failed. Up till now, they're still fighting diabolical, but God has been seeing me through. So I know what I'm saying. That lady is humble to have married him for who he is, and go to that length
When the kids are small,its better that the mother- in- law comes in to take care of the children especially if the lady is working rather than employ a nanny or house girl who will come and bewitch the children. The woman will be comfortable with her mother/ or her husband's mum looking after those children.
Neze you look beautiful! purple is your color🤍
There is nothing wrong in a mother-in-law living with her son's/daughter's family, especially when she(mother-in-law) is assisting the family. I want to believe that Ezinne's mother was taking care of her grandsons when her daughter and son-in-law were busy with soccer assignments as football agent and footballer respectively. I think immaturity of heart caused the man to disrespect his marriage, as well as welcome third party involvement. As soon as he got the breakthrough in Europe, he started feeling and acting like he did not need his wife any more. He forgot where he was coming from, and how Ezinne met him. He definitely forgot that they came this far as a result of plans they had, and executed together...
They say money is the root of all evil,it really blinds people alot but i guess some men never know what they have until they loose it.
Money answereth all things but THE LOVE OF MONEY is the root of all evil.
LOVE of money...this quote is found in the Bible. Tnx
Never marry down because if you help build a man up and he has no character, he will disgrace you especially if he becomes rich. His true character will indeed come out in full force. Kayode did not realise he should have cherished his wife and his blessings would continue. He who finds a good wife finds a good thing, but if you mistreat her (the blessing God has given you) then you will surely regret it and be cursed for life. A man who fails at marriage has failed in life.🤷🏽♀️
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" Never Marry down '😂 you women are delusional,because more men marry down,when it comes to relationship..Do you know how many financial stable men,marry women from very poor families? 😂 but women with little money, always think they are " Marrying down " because they have more money than the man..Keep thinking like that,and by you are 60 years old,your eyes will open..So what do you call " A woman who fails in marriage "???
Except God did not give anyone a woman as a wife,man did.Your true wife is the mind of man(male and female)The good thing you find is your mind not a woman.The mind and body is what God joined together and becomes one flesh not a woman.lt is practically impossible for two people to become one flesh.We become one flesh with our mind by using our mind,intuition,the inner voice etc...
Tell Chioma to wait for Davido 😂
She is a blessing only if she is a virgin. just know that.
Thanks so much neze for your awesome presentation. First. I would like to say that a mother inlaw permanently living with a couple when they are not sick is very wrong. Secondly, their educational backgrounds been so different could be a problem. But what im really seeing here is the money. Some men tend to misbehave when they touch money.
Divorce is dirtier when properties are involved
Such a legal letter to the blogs should claim damages than accusing a spouse...
i wonder oo. imagine
My prayer is that God will change their mind and settle their lovely home I Jesus name Amen 🙏🙏
Aunt neze😊. Your storytelling skills is so good that i watch while munching my food😂.
I hope he has assets abroad and if he does, She is entitled to half of those assets. This is the reason young girls in Nigeria don’t want to suffer with a man anymore. Am glad the children are his.
Thank you Neze. Only wish we had more TH-camrs with such depth of analysis, attention to detail, and presentation finesse.
I am so pained on behalf of Barr Dora Ezinne and i hope she heals from all these negative press and the trauma that this has brought with it. She is a smart lady and will keep winning in life...
Barr Neze, i love your depth of insight.. You are my favorite TH-cam Lady❤
Neze you are one brilliant orator I will never cease to admire. You look exceptionally beautiful today. Big hugs and love from Cameroon.
Don't ever allow your mother-in-law to leave with you. Also, once the husband found money, that was it sister 😊
No matter what my mother inlaw may do to me...I will always forgive her and love her...if she wants to live with me , she is highly welcomed...
Pretender!!
Money 💰💵 is what changed everything.
Tribalism was the root of it all. Tribalism.
@@nkwojoseph2456 tribalism wasn't a problem before big money 💰💵 came now was it ?
My grandma said, if you marry a poor man, by the time he attains financial freedom, you would’ve gotten so many bad names that all your contributions and patience will be forgotten. I’m experiencing that firsthand now 😢
Same here
Same here
Same here dear
It doesn't always happen like that. Prayer is the key 🙌🏽
Very true, experienced it too. Divorced now
Thanks Barr. Na money scatter this union.
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Neze your hair style looks pretty on you. The purple shirt looks great on you.
All was going well before the "arrival" of wealth. Wealth should be spice in a marriage, not the cause of breakup. It's important to build character.
This is serious, what a lovely family? What a scam? Why allowed the devil to go this far in this marriage? I feel for the beautiful children, oh Jesus..
And I keep telling ladies/women to build themselves as they support their man. Its really sad to build all your life on anyone
A woman has Fifa licence as a football agent and a MAN says she shouldn't have any other client but himself alone, why oh why should she remain limited
Not just a "woman" but one with a Juris doctorate degree 😉.
She should have charged him market rates for being a manager
Selfishness at its best.
In the original design of God for marriage, God’s intention was for a woman to be a help to her man and that can be in a variety of ways. But the wickedness in the heart of many men has changed that natural order. It’s sad to see that this narrative of ‘Don’t build a man’ is now thriving, but I can’t say I blame women for beginning to take that stand.
I like before watching because I trust Nezeville story telling ❤
Thanks, Neze for another interesting episode. You look magnificent in Purple. I am so sad this Marriage did not survive. Marriage can be challenging even if your spouse is from the next village. The rules of engagement are different. The only common ingredient is love and trust. Managing Fame and Fortune is tough. Not everyone is equipped to handle this.
Your beautiful t-shirt and wristwatch 👌
This is so sad. He started making more money and got out of hand
As a footballer mother I understand what the wife is talking about football agents, the ignorance of some African players in Europe and girls falling at the feet of footballers. 👌🏾👌🏾
Thank you Neze, everybody has been dragging this story without bringing truth
Neze greeting from Guyana 🇬🇾 ❤️, you rocking my favorite color purple 💜.
The kids look like their father.
We only heard of the first news.
Its not easy to manage success(Money). Money has a spirit.
The problem with yoruba demons,once they have little money no one can talk to them,all they want to do is party like there is no tomorrow.Good thing she got him to invest some,a lot dont even think in that direction.. Hope they can go their separate ways amicably,there are children involved so they are truly not ever going to go their separate ways in the true sense of it but.....Your hair is beautiful queen Neze.Sending you love.❤💕
Sad all around. Yet thanks for bringing some clarity with your legal training. How you do it successfully while remaining melodramatic is bitter-sweet.
looking soo beautiful and naturally sweet
Let mothers- or fathers-in-law leave their children alone. Stay with your husband or wife.
What they are a widower and old in the village, that can not take care of themselves alone. For the men they can easily remarry and get a woman to take care of them. For the woman, they don't easily remarry, will it be wise to leave them alone in the village?
A mother inlaw from the woman's side is never the the problem (in most cases)
Is mother inlaw from the man's side that is always a big problem. A woman's mother will always want the marriage to work because this mummies have the believe that if anything goes wrong their daughter will be at the loosing side (especially the Igbo culture), a woman's mother will always advise her to be taking rubbish from her husband just for the marriage to work but in the man's side, their mothers knows that if eventually anything goes wrong their son is in the better side, he is a man after all so most times self they instigate the divorce.
So I don't think the mother inlaw living with them caused any harm to the marriage
This is not a factual statement. Out there are many mother-in-laws from wives who ferment trouble in marriages.
@@oluwakemitoluwanimi7203 yeah, nothing is hundred percent correct in life. Am talking about majority, in majority of such cases
Na lie. The mother of my wife wrecked my marriage
This is not correct at all. Any mother inlaw, either from the man or woman's side should not stay with the couple permanently
I was wondering what went wrong until the story got the part of the Mother in law........therein lies the dove that fell among the cats......
The way you tell stories is extremely charming and lively, I can listen to you all day if I am not careful 😂❤
Thank you dear for this narration ❤
I don't believe in living permanently with a mother in-law rather, she can visit, stay for two to three months and go and allow the couple live their lives.
Kayode is bound to regret because the wife was his backbone. He should have gone back to school to get on the same level with his wife. It is wrong for a mother in law living with them. Money turned the man’s head its a shame
So sad because these beautiful children suffer when a home is torn apart
The Mother-in-law should only visit and return home to her husband. Omugwo should not go beyond 40 days, enough for the woman to recuperate. The mindset or feeling of entitlement to stay in perpetuity, is an invasion of privacy. These are two strangers getting to know each other. It is not a place where you bring all your extended family to disrupt a peaceful home. It should not be a case of marry my daughter, payback by accommodating and training all others including mum and dad. This should stop
The standard time period for Omugwo is 3months if the mother can stay that long with her daughter considering the woman has left her old husband to take care of their daughter. Omugwo is NOT 40days.
Oh Lawd!! It’s a very sad situation for those young children involved. It’s never a good thing especially when the divorce is out in public. Poor children. They will grow up to see this on social media. I wish them well.
Neze I love your blouse. It's very beautiful.
I stand with the MONEY reasons. It might be a major cause of the marriage clash
Building a man always backfires
But there are still men out there that knows what worth of a woman that helped builded them to riches. But some are senseless
A lot of times
Always!
My life story...😢
Amen o
Ma'am this ur laughter at the beginning of this video is so infectious,it got me laughing too.
Marriage between these two tribes are always difficult
But why is it so. Why won't two people in love love themselves in peace. Why is tribe raised above love.
@@moreniwura7805it's the family that brings issues
All correct. God help us o@@modupeakanbi6735
And this Ladies and Gentlemen, is why you should never build a man.
And what makes you think you deserve an already -built man?
@@solomonobihan9465 is it not obvious sir? Only a man that hasn’t established himself in life would reply to my comment asking the nonsense you asked.
@@user-yz1lb3cm7z 😂😂😂😂😂
And to a man never u build any woman let her build herself and make sure she is rich
@@ezechukwu06 then you will become inferior and jealous of your rich wives 🤣
Thanks goodness i watched this video, i was among those that critized her not knowing she is innocent
Well done, Madam, for telling the story so effectively. 👏👏👏🙄
You did a very great job.
You maintained NEUTRALITY throughout your entire speech, which is why many homes are thriving today. 😳
I too was very curious why the situation became so bad that it couldn’t be resolved or rectified.
Every opinion expressed by Dora against her husband seemed non-negotiable, while any opinion that might reflect poorly on Dora, such as her mother living with her, was up for debate. That’s quite clever.
Thank you for guiding the answers you want from people.
Thank you for painting the Husband as a Devil while the Wife as an ANGEL.
For an event you never witnessed, your narrative made it clear where the blame lies.
Once again, well-done!👏👏
I love the way you deal with issues,you usually bring clarity to issues,I love you,I love your fiction and everything about you,you are blessed in Jesus name.💕😁🙏👍
Neze, atimes family (mothers) especially when their children live abroad come to stay with them to help them take care of their kids so that the couple can have time for their normal business.