I honestly feel like my generation was experimented on. They told us porn was actually healthy… Just like that a whole generation of men destroyed.🤦♂️
@@TheReligiousHippie yoe amber my friend, .... i know this is not a appropriate question for this vid..but can i ask whats the issue between you and the Catholichippie lady....? .... its ok if you will not answer it anyway its not a big deal..... may God bless you and your family amber...
@@PeteV80 very well. RCIA doesn't officially start until mid September but I've been speaking with my priest weekly and I know the rosary by heart now. God has given me the gift to forgive people who have caused me horrific pain and that is the biggest blessing I've ever received. I feel so lucky to have found Him and a welcoming parish. I've befriended an elderly lady who I see at almost every mass I attend!
I have been addicted to pornography since 12 years old. I'm 23 now. Since coming back to the faith, that was in January, I have been able to temper myself. For the past three months I have fallen away two times, but that is with a great interval. I went to confession immediately for that. Now, it's been a month and the residue of my addiction is attacking me again. It pops up into my head whenever I try to meditate on the Rosary, but I am tempering myself strongly. I want to take the vow of Chastity forever. I cannot do this alone, I need you guys. Pray for me.
None of us can do it alone. I’m forty four and it doesn’t get any easier. Prayers. Every day you do not succumb to that temptation is a victory. Keep fighting the good fight.
I wear crocs alot. I realized how as a society we collectively all said crocs and flip flops are nice to wear outside yet they are so unflatoring to the person, but they are so comfy and conveinent.
As a man I've always wore a sun shirt at the beach or never go in. There were few times where exceptional situations were made but ultimately the principle has been kept absolute by me. It's very self motivating.
Please pray for my liberal Catholic mom who encouraged my sister to be on birth control and please pray for said sister. Pray for them to personally encounter Jesus Christ in a way that they can understand and for a full conversion of heart, intellect and will. Pray that they will return to the sacrament of reconciliation!
Let us pray for all mothers All fathers who are leading their children until life of sin and may they open their eyes and see the Heart of Jesus and encourage their children to be strong in the faith in Jesus name
One of your best videos and something I honestly struggle with myself daily. Doing everything on the computer makes it worse as well. But I just need to fight against temptation, with the help of God.
One of the struggles I've had with modesty is the concern over what people would think and the fear of making myself look wealthy. It's like a barrier and I've struggled with not knowing how to dress to feel comftable and workaholicism for years. The biggest blessing I've had in Monroe is a community closet of free donated clothing for the community which has been great in experimenting with modesty and returning what doesn't work for me.
I was addicted to pornography 20 years ago and no doubt the devil still messes with me as far as bringing these things to my memory. I still struggle with seeing women as complete person's. This video is very helpful in so many areas and has helped me.... And no doubt believe me I 100% agree we should date someone of our faith.
Sex is inextricably linked to violence like birth and death. It is a obsession and is killing off friendship which can develop compassion and humility. It requires trust which is a bug bear for trust. I like honour and loyalty which begins with a commitment and chilvery. I find those very romantic and honourable. Sexualization has done so much damage to young people and together with drug and alcohol use amplifies last and failure jump starts violence. Obsession can limit your freedom and destroy your confidence which we all lack to some extent. Glad some younger people are aware of pitfalls and dangers of sexualization of yourself and others. Be safe and protect the vulnerable.
Thank you for this video! It was very reconfirming for me, I am a new Catholic who has struggled very much in my past and currently. I'm only 24 but have 2 kids and have been living with their dad since we were 20. I'm really trying to do the Lord's will and separate to no longer live a life of sin. Although I get drawn in and believe I shouldn't just throw everything away. Although he refuses to be married in the church and thinks I am apart of a cult because I want God and the church as the center of my life. Please pray that I would persevere in separating for the state of my soul and hopefully his through prayer and conviction.
i am not big into god but when i see over sexualized culture i make me judge myself and my own body so i really don't like it . Even the music that is made to make you feel good about your body , just make me over think about my looks . im thinking about coming into a more godly life style.
1. Ask for grace of purity 2.Everymorning perform exorcism(prayer of rebuke) on demons of immodesty. This is how I get through. If not your thoughts will be flooded with lust. 3.daily communion with the eucharist
Amber, we share the same birthday, just many years apart. Our sun sign is Aries, the most aroused sign in the zodiac. You will be blessed with many children.
I am a 22 year old Hebrew Israelite Christian and I believe you are speaking very wise words. I completely agree with you about the problem of the modern sexualized culture (I also find modesty way more attractive in women). I’ve been struggling with lust for a while and I really like the advice you gave about penances so Im going to practice some of those. Very well said sis🙏
Wonderful video, thank you for your channel:) I love your content!! Also, do you mind going into more detail about the porn stats of “73% is women, 98% is men”? Do you mean that 73% OF women and 98% OF men view porn regularly? Just confused bc it doesn’t add to 100 - ty:)
I have to say, I really enjoy your videos. Your approach on these touchy topics is wonderful. I am not sure if you are familiar with "Pints with Aquinas"...Matt Fradd is the host, and he has done a lot of work with pornagraphy and the youth. I promise you that you will enjoy his shows.
A greeeeat video! ❤️ Thank you so much! Do you have any advice how to find out, if your vocation is marriage? If I was a close friend/or family member of yours, dear Amber, and was expecting a child, I wouldn't wait any second to ask you, if you would like to become its Godmother 🥰 I wish you and everyone here a blessed day! ❤️ Keeping you in my prayers 🥰 hopefully we will once meet in heaven 😇
Chastity ... the succesful integration of the sexuality within the person ... This does not mean suppression. It is important to let Jesus Christ heal our sexuality. Let Jesus Christ touch our hearts. ^^
I won't get tired of repeating that comment: 'Theology of the Body' by Saint John Paul II (lectures between 1979 and 1984) Maybe: 'Theology of the Body explained' by Christopher West is a good starting point. Easy introduction is: 'Good News about Sex and Marriage' by Christopher West.
I don’t necessarily think it is ok to avoid or stay away from those who can lead us into temptation. Yea that might sound weird, but in my opinion, To me it feels as though when we do that we are indirectly judging those people and I think the only one who can judge at the end of the day is God himself, we are not god so we should not avoid fellow human beings even if they are/seem lost in a world of temptation. Rather we should bring them closer to us and at least show compassion towards them, keep on a smile, show them that we still see them as fellow human beings, No matter how much they sin. We will never be perfect no matter how hard we try. God forgives, he can forgive them as he forgave those who tortured and killed his son on the cross. Those are just my 2 cents. I love being catholic and we all have opinions on things.
St. Paul definitely tells us to judge. Jesus even says if people do not repent, treat them as pagans and tax collectors. The difference is repentance. God only forgave those who killed Christ if they repented.
I never herd of the term dating before.But porn addiction is everywhere.It is very strange that porn influenced most advanced to least advanced societies.
I have ADD that caused CSBD (hypersexuality/satyriasis) but I'm very catholic and almost became a priest (I was on the seminary). Whatever I try, it seems my CSBD is just not going away. So here I am, I've a sexual disorder and I'm catholic. I need help. Satan is grabbing my by my scruff.
When I was a teen many, many, many moons ago, I started to sense Americans were getting overly sexualized, especially on tv programs and movies. I thought even way back then that it wasn't right. Now it's just outright sexual indecency. Really? Is that how women want to place a value on themselves?
great video 💙 do you think the "burning with a passion" that Paul speaks of, which if I'm not mistaken is libido aka horniness, is a practical problem like hunger? Just as food is needed to solve hunger, sexual release is needed to solve libido. Or is libido 100% a spiritual problem, solvable by prayer alone?
If it answers your question at all I'd say the desire is like hunger, but unlike hunger it is not necessary to fulfill that desire. If we didn't need to eat food but still felt hunger, the problem would not be hunger but the desire to act on it. Or at least that's my perspective
@@mattbaron14 Thanks. I think it is necessary to fulfill that desire *if* you want to remove the pain of it, which of course everyone wants. The sexual suppression route entails enduring that pain.
@@bds8715 Very true, although I would say fulfilling and suppressing are 2 sides of the same coin. When prayer or willpower fail, just like you said, it becomes a pain to endure that can make one feel like a failure or unworthy of God's love. I'm nowhere near perfect, but I try to accept my feelings and desires without judgment or action. Same approach as learning to effectively deal with OCD or compulsive behavior.
Many American girls will definitely be on the beach wearing bikinis this summer both in the East Coast & West Coast. In this modern world, the social girls will show some skin at display at the beach (or pool). America has really lost its ethical and moral behavior especially conservative modesty. I'm just thinking back in the old days like the Middle Ages where you can never find a single lady wearing bikini at the beach because they wore whole dress all the time. Just go to Miami beach and you shall definitely see bikini girls. What the heck?
@@catherinefranks3072 What you say is true. Self modesty of the body is to be respected by both parties on both sides of the Human spectrum. As for why it is much more stressed regarding women. This is because men are HYPER visual creatures and are primarily instinctively influenced by what they see with their eyes. Science says same with woman regarding what is heard in the ears. Another base Human reason why it's so stressed is, in addition to hyper vision driving male membranes etc. Men also have roughly 14 times the testosterone levels as their counterparts on a consistent basis. That is not to say women can't experience libido as strongly, but that for men it is infinitely more irritable. Lots to unpack, but hope this helps. You're point is absolutely correct all the same. The real issue is how to tap into the Modern Human consciences and shake the commoners out of apathy towards Rational Human virtues like Modesty AND chastity/celibacy....
I am French, and I consider it is because of American liberalism the society is sexualized (now in Netflix, you bring pornographic scene in serie, even a catholic country like Poland create sexual serie). At the time of my grand parent, meeting a wife was simple : you were living in village, you met a single women at the village party and 6 month after mariage at the church. Since the 60's, liberalism has infected my country : now everyone go to city to have a job, nobody know each other, you feel alone and unfortunaltey you feel in debauchery. I became atheist, because even Europen catholic girl fall into new moder life style : they just want to have "fun" instead of finding a nice husband. At 38 years old, God never sent me a spouse > conclusion for me, he doesnt exist, or doesnt care about us.
The TH-cam algorithms can be very strange at times, I'm a 65 years old atheist male!!!! I do have a suggestion for you however. If you are going to ask people who "have something mean to say" to click away, don't be "mean" yourself as you simply come across as yet another intellectually dishonest Christian that has a utter contempt for 1 Peter 3: 15 and Matthew 7: 1- 5.
I honestly feel like my generation was experimented on. They told us porn was actually healthy… Just like that a whole generation of men destroyed.🤦♂️
👏👏👏 exactly this
Just like in the past where doctors said in the newspapers that nicotine was good for the body, what a twisted society God help us all.
Yes! Check out E. Michael Jones if you haven’t already.
damn it !!! and they say mustrbation is normal...
@@Clokes_ He's the man!
I've been "spiritually" Christian for a few years but was raised atheist. I've finally moved out, and I have my first RCIA class soon!!! :)
Amazing!!
@@TheReligiousHippie yoe amber my friend, .... i know this is not a appropriate question for this vid..but can i ask whats the issue between you and the Catholichippie lady....? .... its ok if you will not answer it anyway its not a big deal..... may God bless you and your family amber...
How's it going? Been two months since your post.
@@PeteV80 very well. RCIA doesn't officially start until mid September but I've been speaking with my priest weekly and I know the rosary by heart now. God has given me the gift to forgive people who have caused me horrific pain and that is the biggest blessing I've ever received. I feel so lucky to have found Him and a welcoming parish. I've befriended an elderly lady who I see at almost every mass I attend!
@@LucyWatchesYou beautiful to hear. God bless your journey and exploration of the Church.
I have been addicted to pornography since 12 years old. I'm 23 now. Since coming back to the faith, that was in January, I have been able to temper myself. For the past three months I have fallen away two times, but that is with a great interval. I went to confession immediately for that. Now, it's been a month and the residue of my addiction is attacking me again. It pops up into my head whenever I try to meditate on the Rosary, but I am tempering myself strongly. I want to take the vow of Chastity forever. I cannot do this alone, I need you guys. Pray for me.
None of us can do it alone. I’m forty four and it doesn’t get any easier. Prayers. Every day you do not succumb to that temptation is a victory. Keep fighting the good fight.
@@Clokes_ Thank you. I am praying for you 😊
poot prancia is this your real name, ? ... sure ill include you in my intention im going trough desame... yup not easy ..
@@pootprancia1956 what’s your name?
My name is Daniel Poot. 😊
As a 24 year old, you are a good influence to watch. I don’t fit in with most people in my age range.
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I'm 28 and I've gone 28 years without looking at porn.
What a blessing! Keep it going and pray for us ❤
Praying for the objectified is an understated means to manage lust. More people need to be aware of that.
I honestly wish that more people were like you. Someone with your values is really needed in today's world I think. You're a good influence
I wear crocs alot. I realized how as a society we collectively all said crocs and flip flops are nice to wear outside yet they are so unflatoring to the person, but they are so comfy and conveinent.
As a man I've always wore a sun shirt at the beach or never go in. There were few times where exceptional situations were made but ultimately the principle has been kept absolute by me. It's very self motivating.
Please pray for my liberal Catholic mom who encouraged my sister to be on birth control and please pray for said sister. Pray for them to personally encounter Jesus Christ in a way that they can understand and for a full conversion of heart, intellect and will. Pray that they will return to the sacrament of reconciliation!
Let us pray for all mothers All fathers who are leading their children until life of sin and may they open their eyes and see the Heart of Jesus and encourage their children to be strong in the faith in Jesus name
One of your best videos and something I honestly struggle with myself daily. Doing everything on the computer makes it worse as well. But I just need to fight against temptation, with the help of God.
Pray the Rosary! It's a really really big help, especially in overcoming repeated / deliberate sins.
it's a sick sick world
A great way to escape temptation
and play sports talk to family or trusted friends.
have a lot of willpower
congratulations for the video. God bless you. Greetings from Brazil
I'm only 14 but your videos are so refreshing and educative on our faith. I wish to see more of this on the male side
Yes. True.
(Grateful for Confession!)
New habits. Yes.
...
One of the struggles I've had with modesty is the concern over what people would think and the fear of making myself look wealthy. It's like a barrier and I've struggled with not knowing how to dress to feel comftable and workaholicism for years. The biggest blessing I've had in Monroe is a community closet of free donated clothing for the community which has been great in experimenting with modesty and returning what doesn't work for me.
I was addicted to pornography 20 years ago and no doubt the devil still messes with me as far as bringing these things to my memory. I still struggle with seeing women as complete person's. This video is very helpful in so many areas and has helped me.... And no doubt believe me I 100% agree we should date someone of our faith.
We should not have sex before we are married
One of my friends recently got into the porn industry 💔please pray for her
Sex is inextricably linked to violence like birth and death. It is a obsession and is killing off friendship which can develop compassion and humility. It requires trust which is a bug bear for trust. I like honour and loyalty which begins with a commitment and chilvery. I find those very romantic and honourable. Sexualization has done so much damage to young people and together with drug and alcohol use amplifies last and failure jump starts violence. Obsession can limit your freedom and destroy your confidence which we all lack to some extent. Glad some younger people are aware of pitfalls and dangers of sexualization of yourself and others. Be safe and protect the vulnerable.
Thank you for this video! It was very reconfirming for me, I am a new Catholic who has struggled very much in my past and currently. I'm only 24 but have 2 kids and have been living with their dad since we were 20. I'm really trying to do the Lord's will and separate to no longer live a life of sin. Although I get drawn in and believe I shouldn't just throw everything away. Although he refuses to be married in the church and thinks I am apart of a cult because I want God and the church as the center of my life. Please pray that I would persevere in separating for the state of my soul and hopefully his through prayer and conviction.
Great advice 🙌🏻
Thank you, Amber, it helps so much.
i am not big into god but when i see over sexualized culture i make me judge myself and my own body so i really don't like it . Even the music that is made to make you feel good about your body , just make me over think about my looks . im thinking about coming into a more godly life style.
1. Ask for grace of purity
2.Everymorning perform exorcism(prayer of rebuke) on demons of immodesty. This is how I get through. If not your thoughts will be flooded with lust.
3.daily communion with the eucharist
Amber, we share the same birthday, just many years apart. Our sun sign is Aries, the most aroused sign in the zodiac. You will be blessed with many children.
I am a 22 year old Hebrew Israelite Christian and I believe you are speaking very wise words. I completely agree with you about the problem of the modern sexualized culture (I also find modesty way more attractive in women). I’ve been struggling with lust for a while and I really like the advice you gave about penances so Im going to practice some of those. Very well said sis🙏
Ethical and intriguing or should I say, quite ethical and quite intriguing. 🧐
Great video!
Hey Amber, may I ask why you call yourself the religious " Hippie " ? Love your videos....
You have a special talent. God bless you.
Wonderful video, thank you for your channel:) I love your content!!
Also, do you mind going into more detail about the porn stats of “73% is women, 98% is men”? Do you mean that 73% OF women and 98% OF men view porn regularly? Just confused bc it doesn’t add to 100 - ty:)
I´m not Amber (obviously) but it´s meant as in 73% of women and 98% of men watch porn regularly
73% of 100 and separately 98% of 100
I have to say, I really enjoy your videos.
Your approach on these touchy topics is wonderful.
I am not sure if you are familiar with "Pints with Aquinas"...Matt Fradd is the host, and he has done a lot of work with pornagraphy and the youth.
I promise you that you will enjoy his shows.
Thank you for sharing.
Thankyou Amber.🙏
A greeeeat video! ❤️ Thank you so much! Do you have any advice how to find out, if your vocation is marriage?
If I was a close friend/or family member of yours, dear Amber, and was expecting a child, I wouldn't wait any second to ask you, if you would like to become its Godmother 🥰
I wish you and everyone here a blessed day! ❤️ Keeping you in my prayers 🥰 hopefully we will once meet in heaven 😇
this would be so much fun! Great idea there. I found it hard to say yes to my own vocation but i did and I'm very much happy and feel at peace:)
Peace
God has blessed you with the.ability of discussing things of importance and making them easily comprehendable.
Literally this, she has a very specific talent for this, she talks in a way that’s understandable to everyone
I'm listing over the religious hippie right now. Is that a mortal sin???
I didn’t know you were Native American ✝️♥️
"Faith, Life and Iced Coffee"
God bless you 🙏🏼
Chastity ... the succesful integration of the sexuality within the person ...
This does not mean suppression. It is important to let Jesus Christ heal our sexuality.
Let Jesus Christ touch our hearts. ^^
Please make a video showing us your Noah’s Ark animal tier list.
I won't get tired of repeating that comment: 'Theology of the Body' by Saint John Paul II (lectures between 1979 and 1984)
Maybe: 'Theology of the Body explained' by Christopher West is a good starting point.
Easy introduction is: 'Good News about Sex and Marriage' by Christopher West.
I think that an underestimated Christian virtue is moderation to be able to escape from addictive excesses of all kinds
God bless you
I wore flip flops at my wedding, don't hate on the flip flops 😂
hehehe i love to see photos ..
I don’t necessarily think it is ok to avoid or stay away from those who can lead us into temptation. Yea that might sound weird, but in my opinion, To me it feels as though when we do that we are indirectly judging those people and I think the only one who can judge at the end of the day is God himself, we are not god so we should not avoid fellow human beings even if they are/seem lost in a world of temptation. Rather we should bring them closer to us and at least show compassion towards them, keep on a smile, show them that we still see them as fellow human beings, No matter how much they sin. We will never be perfect no matter how hard we try. God forgives, he can forgive them as he forgave those who tortured and killed his son on the cross. Those are just my 2 cents. I love being catholic and we all have opinions on things.
The Bible teaches us to judge strictly
St. Paul definitely tells us to judge. Jesus even says if people do not repent, treat them as pagans and tax collectors. The difference is repentance. God only forgave those who killed Christ if they repented.
💯
If we live in abnormal times, we should have have abnormal expectations.
true,
I never herd of the term dating before.But porn addiction is everywhere.It is very strange that porn influenced most advanced to least advanced societies.
I have ADD that caused CSBD (hypersexuality/satyriasis) but I'm very catholic and almost became a priest (I was on the seminary). Whatever I try, it seems my CSBD is just not going away. So here I am, I've a sexual disorder and I'm catholic. I need help. Satan is grabbing my by my scruff.
Hey did I miss the Ripperger link? Something about demons and porn? also modest bathing suits are more
Completely agree.
However you should always dress like its the met gala 💃🕺🏼😂
When I was a teen many, many, many moons ago, I started to sense Americans were getting overly sexualized, especially on tv programs and movies. I thought even way back then that it wasn't right. Now it's just outright sexual indecency. Really? Is that how women want to place a value on themselves?
❤️
great video 💙 do you think the "burning with a passion" that Paul speaks of, which if I'm not mistaken is libido aka horniness, is a practical problem like hunger? Just as food is needed to solve hunger, sexual release is needed to solve libido. Or is libido 100% a spiritual problem, solvable by prayer alone?
If it answers your question at all I'd say the desire is like hunger, but unlike hunger it is not necessary to fulfill that desire. If we didn't need to eat food but still felt hunger, the problem would not be hunger but the desire to act on it. Or at least that's my perspective
@@mattbaron14 Thanks. I think it is necessary to fulfill that desire *if* you want to remove the pain of it, which of course everyone wants. The sexual suppression route entails enduring that pain.
@@bds8715 Very true, although I would say fulfilling and suppressing are 2 sides of the same coin. When prayer or willpower fail, just like you said, it becomes a pain to endure that can make one feel like a failure or unworthy of God's love. I'm nowhere near perfect, but I try to accept my feelings and desires without judgment or action. Same approach as learning to effectively deal with OCD or compulsive behavior.
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🙏🙏🙏🙏
Many American girls will definitely be on the beach wearing bikinis this summer both in the East Coast & West Coast. In this modern world, the social girls will show some skin at display at the beach (or pool). America has really lost its ethical and moral behavior especially conservative modesty. I'm just thinking back in the old days like the Middle Ages where you can never find a single lady wearing bikini at the beach because they wore whole dress all the time. Just go to Miami beach and you shall definitely see bikini girls. What the heck?
Why didn’t you bring up men going shirtless?
@@catherinefranks3072 What you say is true. Self modesty of the body is to be respected by both parties on both sides of the Human spectrum. As for why it is much more stressed regarding women. This is because men are HYPER visual creatures and are primarily instinctively influenced by what they see with their eyes. Science says same with woman regarding what is heard in the ears. Another base Human reason why it's so stressed is, in addition to hyper vision driving male membranes etc. Men also have roughly 14 times the testosterone levels as their counterparts on a consistent basis. That is not to say women can't experience libido as strongly, but that for men it is infinitely more irritable. Lots to unpack, but hope this helps. You're point is absolutely correct all the same. The real issue is how to tap into the Modern Human consciences and shake the commoners out of apathy towards Rational Human virtues like Modesty AND chastity/celibacy....
Do you talk about demons how they were real, BASED.
I am French, and I consider it is because of American liberalism the society is sexualized (now in Netflix, you bring pornographic scene in serie, even a catholic country like Poland create sexual serie).
At the time of my grand parent, meeting a wife was simple : you were living in village, you met a single women at the village party and 6 month after mariage at the church.
Since the 60's, liberalism has infected my country : now everyone go to city to have a job, nobody know each other, you feel alone and unfortunaltey you feel in debauchery.
I became atheist, because even Europen catholic girl fall into new moder life style : they just want to have "fun" instead of finding a nice husband. At 38 years old, God never sent me a spouse > conclusion for me, he doesnt exist, or doesnt care about us.
the problem, dear, was created by French enlightenment intellectuals, God loves tou
The TH-cam algorithms can be very strange at times, I'm a 65 years old atheist male!!!!
I do have a suggestion for you however. If you are going to ask people who "have something mean to say" to click away, don't be "mean" yourself as you simply come across as yet another intellectually dishonest Christian that has a utter contempt for 1 Peter 3: 15 and Matthew 7: 1- 5.
Lol😂
@@TheReligiousHippie QED.
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