Wow, this is so uplifting, it’s important to stay inspired. I feel a deep sense of emptiness, it’s been 2months since jack left and everyday feels like an eternity without him. My mind’s been flooded with memories of our time together. It’s so painful that I’d never get to experience the little things with him again. zI’ve texted him several times telling him how much I miss and want him sadly he replied none. Guess all I can do is just hold unto the memories.
It’s ok to grieve dear It’s clear that you’re not just missing jack but a part of yourself that you shared with him. Your message to him is a testament to the love you still have for him. It’s takes courage to be that vulnerable. It’s ok to feel the pain of heartbreak but don’t loose hope. My own heart break story is one of devastation . It was sudden and brutal leaving me lost. Desperate for solace and guidance, I reached out to a spiritual counselor who was recommended by a friend for help.
As soon as i stopped getting angry and hurt and started praying for him, even though we’re long distance.. Once my heart changed and i started praying for him and i furiously with love.. He began pursuing me again ❤
Why do you need to feel pursued? Pursuing others is exhausting and only done in the beginning, when he's proving himself to you. If he has to constantly prove himself to prove his love to you, you have no trust or confidence in him. Or did you have a different definition of "pursuing"?
FATHER change the heart of my husband from all vanity, rebellion, and from the strange woman. Drive her away as smoke. Turn the heart of my husband to me and our children 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
Praise God!!! I was just asking God to please encourage me yet again and here you are!!! Perfect timing!!! I have been praying a road to damascus encounter for 5 years!
I come in complete agreement with this! I declare, decree and claim this! God is working and moving in me and in my spouse! The changes I’ve seen already could only come from God! My marriage is not restored, yet, but God can and will restore and renew my marriage! He is faithful and just! Trust in Him completely, in total submission and complete surrender! I’m still working on this, but as I continue to work on myself, I see how God is working and moving in my spouse! We serve an all powerful and faithful God who keeps his promises! Let us all pray and encourage each other in this season, in this journey!
Hallelujah! Praise God! That is wonderful praise report you shared. In Jesus name our marriages will be restored and better than ever to the glory and praise of God the Father! \O/ I haven’t listened to this yet but looking forward to it! God bless you as you continue to allow God to work and change you and your spouse and as you wait upon HIM to bring you two back together! How long have you been apart? Divorced?
We’ve only been physically separated 2 months, but as I go through this journey I realized that we have been separated in home for a while. We were living as roommates and there was no love, but my sins and evil ways had me blinded to all the warning signs. I believe that God hardened my heart so that he could allow this situation to bring me to the place I needed to be at to turn away from doing things my way but rely and lean on him and get right with God first, and learn to trust in Him! I also believe that God then allowed my spouse to harden their heart to fix things in my spouse too! If my spouse hadn’t hardened their heart I wouldn’t have seen things through God’s ways, but I would have changed in my flesh to save my marriage but the change needs to come through a change in my walk with Christ and in my heart!
God always fulfills His promises! He WILL restore and redeem my husband and our marriage! He already is healing and restoring me! We are both broken and needed His love and grace. Praise Jesus for His sacrifice on the cross ~this will bring about a miraculous return back to Him and for us to turn back to each other. He is good all the time!🙌🏻🔥
I received this and I am in agreement I’m leaving God to restore my marriage still right now. I trust him. Prayers for helping anytime unbelief tries to come up and prayers for my heart posture being right and me being impatient and my wife’s heart changing and her coming home and her accepting me back as her husband. But these things I’m about to do to try to bless my wife may they be done unto the Lord and not for her to come home and be done out of love because we are to love our wives as Christ of the church which is unconditionally
Great material and so so biblical. If both spouses are trusting and obeying in the Lord it will thrive. Quit blaming your spouse and get the Holy Spirit working in your own life! Pray for, love, and be gentle with your spouse!
This is exactly what I am talking about. This comment means that your teachings are flawed. Youre teaching everyone to cater to sin. We should/are going to blame the spouse because we #1 call evil for what it is, evil. #2 these are UNREPENTANT SINNERS we are dealing with who believe that WE (truth following Holy Spirit filled believers in Christ) are the problem and you are ALIGNING WITH THEIR DISTORTED THINKING!!!! The sinners toxic mindset has corrupted the believing spouses!!! This comment I am replying to is proof!! #3 We could have the perfect heart posture (and we ALREADY DO if we are followers of Christ), we could be perfect in every way and they could still treat us like garbage and want to crawl out of their skin!!!! They said Jesus was possessed by demons and he had the perfect heart posture!! I doesn't matter what we DO!!! These UNREPENTANT sinners will always become offended when they are in the presence of the Holy Spirit. I am angry at your false teachings!!!
Pls include me in your prayers. My faith is wavering. At the start of my journey in standing for my marriage I was full of hope that my marriage will be restored. A year later and now that my husband is processing the divorce I honestly lost all the hope and even has doubts now that my marriage is going to be restored. ☹ When I watch marriage restoration videos all I could say to myself is that "restoration of my marriage is way too blurry and far off from me". 😭 Help me Lord Jesus.
will he go to a weekend for marriage restoration or do one online? like as a last ditch effort and yall come and go to it separately so he doesnt have fear
I pray that my marriage is restored. My husband left I am heartbroken. I know I need to trust the Lord and believe( my struggle). I pray that it’s restored better than it was before and make it Holy. In Jesus name. Please pray for us.
Amen! Sister, please pray for us. Lord, please bring my family back together so I can raise my boys in a Godly home. As for me & my house, we will serve the Lord.
I thank God for Jesus Christ, Who hung bled and died on Calvary for our sins and rose again Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah, not listen to negativity but by His power God power.
Jamie, as you continue to encourage others may God always encourage you and may He bless you soon with a miraculous breakthrough in your stand, restoring your marriage and your family. Psalm 77:14 New International Version 14 You are the God who performs miracles; you display your power among the peoples.
I agree Jesus Christ can change your husband heart in am instant,,,,, but wives are you changing are you healing so when God returns your espouse you are transform through Christ…. Often I hear people stating my marriage got restore but he or she left again because I was not heal. I encourage everyone that is working for restoration make sure you are working on your self.
She wants me to grab the rest of my things from our home and is putting it up for sale. Our divorce is final in a few weeks. We need every prayer we can get please. I believe God is the only one who can soften her hardened heart. This has been a mental, physical and most of all spiritual battle but I believe God will heal us and help us overcome.
@@ryanr6607 Yes he will heal you and help you overcome. Don’t let a divorce or the sale of a house discourage you from what god can do!! It’s a process and will be difficult and painful but god will use it for your good (and your wife’s good) and his glory!!
@@roadtorestoration5371thank you for the response Jamie. The divorce was finalized, the house was sold and there has been no communication. She didn't even wish me a happy birthday. I still pray for her on and off, I'm not as hurt as I used to be but I still do feel some bitterness. I have a feeling she is with someone else and it breaks my heart to think about. Just been spending a lot of time with family and by myself. Going to continue praying for my situation as well as yours and everyone else's in the comments
I watch this powerful prayers daily and praying that God is changing my husband's heart to leave the strange woman for good and come back home to me and my children.
I believe God can turn my husband’s heart toward home. The thing I wonder is how will my husband know my heart, that I’m now a changed person due to God since he went completely no contact. It’s been 8 months now. He refuses to reply to anything. He lives with the counterfeit still.
God will reveal your new heart and the changes to your husband. You don’t need to prove anything. Allow the Lord to do that for you. It’s supernatural!
Beautiful! Yes and Amen to God turning our spouses hearts to us and is to them. I have been praying this same thing for several months now and often because of that exact scripture! Also been praying for Him to prepare me and my spouse for our coming together. Thank the LORD that He is the God of second chances! \O/ Thank-you dear sister!
Heavenly father please restore my marriage. Please restore my wife’s heart from all the damage I’ve done. Please restore me. Leave it all to you. I took emoji Jesus Christ to my heart by life. I pray you rest rest rest my marriage.
Amen! Father God keep working on. Show me what I need to learn in this season. Help me keep focused on your promises. The storm is strong, but I have faith that you are working all this for my good. I trust you. Thank you for the victory Mighty Father.
This really hit home. I’d like to ask you something, what happens when you’ve done what you mentioned about not all husbands come home…? our marriage was restored after 3 years but sadly I wasn’t healed and pretty much did what you mention about manipulation and sadly after just 1 year restored my husband left again, it’s been a little over a year now. We are in minimal contact, my heart is so heavy knowing how deep I’ve hurt God and my husband. I will keep praying and standing and believing God that even though I messed up, God still wants to restore us and our 28 year marriage.
Your hard work, dedication, and spiritual endurance are truly appreciated, and I am incredibly grateful for them. Your efforts have made a significant impact. Thank you for all that you do!
Amen. Thank you for your encouragement. My prayer has been, and is, that God would change me, deal with anything that is dishonouring to Him in me, and prepare me for our marriage restoration. "Change me, Lord, and make me the person you desire me to be." I have often pleaded the confidence that the heart of the king is in The Lord Hands. So, thank you for your encouragement and may God heal, restore and bless your own marriage restoration. I am looking forward to my 'new marriage' to my spouse, with God in the centre. 'I believe, Lord, help Thou my unbelief. In Jesus Name, Amen.'
I was married for 14 years, my wife simply left saying she was unhappy for a while, she blocked me on all platforms for 2 months no contact,she lives far away in another city,I'm a Christ loving prayer worrier but not seeing anything change...I believe God will restore this marriage and I battle to sit around and wait when I don't see any change
God can definitely change their heart. My wife heart was seemed to change and she wanted to work on our marriage but few weeks later she gave up again and done. She divorced me last year July and actually remarried. But few weeks after coming to me wanting to work on us and restore our family but now she’s back to not wanting to. I’ll take blame for it as I still have work to do but she also showed she’s not fully submitted to God will and any thing “difficult” she runs. But I know too God still has to work on me. I rather she stays away then say I’m committed then next day she’s not. I’m good on that
I didn’t exhibit a kind spirit or gentle so she ran again. Tough when being blamed for everything even for their issues. Idk if I’ll ever be where I should be for her to feel she can be committed as she once vowed.
@@roadtorestoration5371 trying to, hope I didn’t mess things up even more. I’ve said some tough things out of love that she not receiving. She’s playing with fire marrying a foreigner who never been to the US and did it 4 months after our divorce. I’ve tried warning her she’s being used for a green card but she doesn’t want to listen. She went to get baptized this past Sunday and followed it with not listening to God or seeking Him just decided to go right back to the foreigner. I pray for covering and protection over my young children. I pray that this other person never set a foot in the same home as my children
I first heard the term “prodigal spouse” yesterday. I’ve been praying for two and a half months that God helps bring my woman back to me. She left me right before I was going to ask her to marry me. I need prayer please.
and I have been praying for 6 years that God would turn my husband's heart to himself and restore our marriage. But things are going from bad to worse. I now have until 10.11 to sign the divorce papers. Please pray with me for ours and other marriages in danger
This is very easy to talk about. I often feel that it is "shared by people who have not been through it". Married people tell me "don't put the wife/husband first". If I remove his/her spouse out of their life? Right now? Would they still be so smart? You have been waiting. Monday.... Friday... January... March... June.... Nothing. I keep hearing that God can, will, knows.... But nothing. No communication. Divorce. Bad things... Because of me, my heart, my behavior? Your husband/wife meanwhile is having a good time, cheating well because he's/she's free. But I will be kind, forgiving. If she gets tired of cheating, I should take it back kindly, not arrogantly. Don't speak about the past, because it can be uncomfortable for him. So he/she did what he did with virtual impunity. Yes, I'm in this situation. I pray every day. And YES, I'm guilty.
We can’t go off what we see. God can’t lie and won’t be mocked. He can’t bless sin. Keep declaring the word over your spouse and stand firm on gods promises.
I've watched/listened to a lot of your videos, and I'm starting to realize there is a theme of humbling ourselves to sin. What I mean is there is this common theme that we are to love and "accept" whatever our spouses do and let God draw/heal/fix them. This is a weird passive/accepting stance that I don't believe is biblical. Yes, love covers a multitude of sins, but we do not allow sinners to corrupt us. We need to stay far away from people who are being evil towards us. Bad company corrupts good character. It changes us in a bad way to allow UNREPENTANT sinners to be in our presence. It grieves the Holy Spirit to love a person to the point that it ruins our own souls. Living in denial just to love a person unconditionally is not healthy. When you make statements saying "these are things we do that made our (my insert UNREPENTANT SINFUL) spouses to want to leave us in the first place. I'm sorry but HEALTHY HEALED LOVING CHRISTIANS WHO FOLLOW JESUS are "pushing" away our spouses? No, no, no!!! It has NOTHING to do with us!!!! We could be the most perfect wife/husband and they will still treat us badly and leave, etc. Because it is the demons in them rebelling against the Jesus/God/Holy Spirit in us!!! Stop telling people to cater to sin!!! We are already made perfect in Christ the minute we believe. It is already finished. There is no "old you" we are already a new woman the minute we became believers in Jesus!!! You got it all wrong!!! If a woman is self righteous and contentious it is because her sinful spouse corrupted her good character. That is why the separation took place. It is not about HOW GOOD WE ARE. IT is about the UNREPENTANT SINNER aka our spouses. Stop catering to toxic sinners!!!!
@@lke4907 God is our defender and the perfect judge. He deals with sin. Our job is to trust him and to extend unconditional love and forgiveness. Standing isn’t for everyone. If that’s the way you feel then you probably won’t be restored.
I am battling with this, 2 years ago I prayed for restoration of my marriage before and after my wife left, she has since then slept with 2 different men and I'm not so sure I want her to come back anymore
We forgive 70 x 7….Just like we are forgiven. Ask the lord to help you see your wife through his eyes. Remember it’s a spiritual battle. Her sin is a reflection of her brokenness and wounds.
@@roadtorestoration5371 I'm not sure forgiveness will help me with my reconciliation with her. I know I need to forgive her but that doesn't mean I have to take her back
Please pray for my marriage. My wife of 18 years left and is with another man. We are still married. My wife and kids live with this other man. My daughter wants her mom and I back together.
I would like to testify, this didn't work for me. I prayed,cried, tried for 25 years and my situation grew worse. I was finally granted a spiritual divorce from God. I also experienced witnessing sincere heart change in others that did happen, Amen. This happened in a matter of months which confirmed to me God is always working in hearts, the best thing to do is walk away and allow Him.
@@viajandoconJ No it’s not easy to believe….But sin is pleasurable for only a season. We don’t always know what they are truly feeling when they lay their head on the pillow at night. We can trust that our prayers are powerful and that God is pursuing them. The most important thing is to trust God will get through in his way and time and to not focus on what you see or feel but only what God’s word says.
I love the truth that God is able to change our spouse’s heart- something that no person can do. But what do you do if your spouse has remarried someone else? If this is the case, is it still a valid prayer to ask God to change their heart so that they turn back to Him and to us as the standing spouse as well?
@@roadtorestoration5371 Thank you so much for your encouragement! 😊 I do realize that God wants to reconcile my wife to Himself before he restores our marriage. I just get confused regarding what my part of the restoration process looks like, if you take my meaning. Thank you again!
I don't like rebuke you. My opinion is in Christian marriage the forgiveness and restoration is unseperable things. I forgive you but never see you again, hm.
Let’s all pray as an ox knows his owner and the ass his master’s crib so do our husband’s and children! 🤲🏼. FATHER LIFTING UP YOU GRACE and deliver them from demonic influencers. Isaiah 1: THE WICKEDNESS OF JUDAH 2 Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth: for the LORD hath spoken, I have nourished and brought up children, and they have rebelled against me. 3 The ox knoweth his owner, and the ass his master's crib: but Israel doth not know, my people doth not consider. 4 Ah sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, a seed of evildoers, children that are corrupters: they have forsaken the LORD, they have provoked the Holy One of Israel unto anger, they are gone away backward. 5 Why should ye be stricken any more? ye will revolt more and more: the whole head is sick, and the whole heart faint. 6 From the sole of the foot even unto the head there is no soundness in it; but wounds, and bruises, and putrifying sores: they have not been closed, neither bound up, neither mollified with ointment.
Be strong in your faith and trust knowing that God’s timing is perfect. Psalm 27:14 "Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!" Lamentations 3:25-26 "The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord" Proverbs 16:9 (NIV) "In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD establishes his steps"
I come in complete agreement with this and decree, declare and claim this! I have already seen how God has moved in me and my circumstances! He is so faithful and so good! My marriage is not restored, yet, but he is working and moving! Have faith and completely trust in Him! I’m still working on complete Trust in Him but I know God can and will restore and renew my marriage!
Instead of asking when ask God what….Lord what do you want to change in me? Trust His timing is perfect and he will turn your spouses heart in due season!
@@roadtorestoration5371 Just not before I eat a bullet. Now the government are trying to take my kids. The more I trust in him the worse everything gets.
Wow, this is so uplifting, it’s important to stay inspired. I feel a deep sense of emptiness, it’s been 2months since jack left and everyday feels like an eternity without him. My mind’s been flooded with memories of our time together. It’s so painful that I’d never get to experience the little things with him again. zI’ve texted him several times telling him how much I miss and want him sadly he replied none. Guess all I can do is just hold unto the memories.
It’s ok to grieve dear It’s clear that you’re not just missing jack but a part of yourself that you shared with him. Your message to him is a testament to the love you still have for him. It’s takes courage to be that vulnerable. It’s ok to feel the pain of heartbreak but don’t loose hope. My own heart break story is one of devastation . It was sudden and brutal leaving me lost. Desperate for solace and guidance, I reached out to a spiritual counselor who was recommended by a friend for help.
That sounds intriguing, I’m curious what exactly does the spiritual counselor do?
His name is Father Tosin Ayodele and he's an amazing spiritual counselor who specialize in helping people reconnect with their ex
I’m grateful for your suggestion, you have no idea how much this means to me.
@@ValerieStaten-b9y trust god to be working in you both and to bring you back together in a new marriage glorifying Him!
As soon as i stopped getting angry and hurt and started praying for him, even though we’re long distance.. Once my heart changed and i started praying for him and i furiously with love.. He began pursuing me again ❤
Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤ sister
Why do you need to feel pursued? Pursuing others is exhausting and only done in the beginning, when he's proving himself to you. If he has to constantly prove himself to prove his love to you, you have no trust or confidence in him. Or did you have a different definition of "pursuing"?
How long should I wait if there is no contact?
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FATHER change the heart of my husband from all vanity, rebellion, and from the strange woman. Drive her away as smoke.
Turn the heart of my husband to me and our children 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
Praise God!!! I was just asking God to please encourage me yet again and here you are!!! Perfect timing!!! I have been praying a road to damascus encounter for 5 years!
Me too!
I come in complete agreement with this! I declare, decree and claim this! God is working and moving in me and in my spouse! The changes I’ve seen already could only come from God! My marriage is not restored, yet, but God can and will restore and renew my marriage! He is faithful and just! Trust in Him completely, in total submission and complete surrender! I’m still working on this, but as I continue to work on myself, I see how God is working and moving in my spouse! We serve an all powerful and faithful God who keeps his promises! Let us all pray and encourage each other in this season, in this journey!
Hallelujah! Praise God! That is wonderful praise report you shared. In Jesus name our marriages will be restored and better than ever to the glory and praise of God the Father! \O/
I haven’t listened to this yet but looking forward to it!
God bless you as you continue to allow God to work and change you and your spouse and as you wait upon HIM to bring you two back together!
How long have you been apart? Divorced?
We’ve only been physically separated 2 months, but as I go through this journey I realized that we have been separated in home for a while. We were living as roommates and there was no love, but my sins and evil ways had me blinded to all the warning signs. I believe that God hardened my heart so that he could allow this situation to bring me to the place I needed to be at to turn away from doing things my way but rely and lean on him and get right with God first, and learn to trust in Him! I also believe that God then allowed my spouse to harden their heart to fix things in my spouse too! If my spouse hadn’t hardened their heart I wouldn’t have seen things through God’s ways, but I would have changed in my flesh to save my marriage but the change needs to come through a change in my walk with Christ and in my heart!
Amen Amen I pray this prayer yess God will restore
@@imalreadytakin77 - Amen ! Yes LORD! Do it we pray !!
God always fulfills His promises! He WILL restore and redeem my husband and our marriage! He already is healing and restoring me! We are both broken and needed His love and grace. Praise Jesus for His sacrifice on the cross ~this will bring about a miraculous return back to Him and for us to turn back to each other. He is good all the time!🙌🏻🔥
Yes and amen!!!!!
I received this and I am in agreement
I’m leaving God to restore my marriage still right now. I trust him. Prayers for helping anytime unbelief tries to come up and prayers for my heart posture being right and me being impatient and my wife’s heart changing and her coming home and her accepting me back as her husband.
But these things I’m about to do to try to bless my wife may they be done unto the Lord and not for her to come home and be done out of love because we are to love our wives as Christ of the church which is unconditionally
That's the truth wow I received it in Jesus name amen 🙏🏾 confirmation
Please pray that God would soften and change the stubborn heart and nind of my wife and bring her back to me snd my children,
@@MB96991 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Praying for restoration my marriage,soften the heart of my husband towards me
Great material and so so biblical. If both spouses are trusting and obeying in the Lord it will thrive. Quit blaming your spouse and get the Holy Spirit working in your own life! Pray for, love, and be gentle with your spouse!
Yes and amen!! We can only change ourself.
This is exactly what I am talking about. This comment means that your teachings are flawed. Youre teaching everyone to cater to sin. We should/are going to blame the spouse because we #1 call evil for what it is, evil. #2 these are UNREPENTANT SINNERS we are dealing with who believe that WE (truth following Holy Spirit filled believers in Christ) are the problem and you are ALIGNING WITH THEIR DISTORTED THINKING!!!! The sinners toxic mindset has corrupted the believing spouses!!! This comment I am replying to is proof!!
#3 We could have the perfect heart posture (and we ALREADY DO if we are followers of Christ), we could be perfect in every way and they could still treat us like garbage and want to crawl out of their skin!!!! They said Jesus was possessed by demons and he had the perfect heart posture!! I doesn't matter what we DO!!! These UNREPENTANT sinners will always become offended when they are in the presence of the Holy Spirit. I am angry at your false teachings!!!
Pls include me in your prayers. My faith is wavering. At the start of my journey in standing for my marriage I was full of hope that my marriage will be restored. A year later and now that my husband is processing the divorce I honestly lost all the hope and even has doubts now that my marriage is going to be restored. ☹ When I watch marriage restoration videos all I could say to myself is that "restoration of my marriage is way too blurry and far off from me". 😭 Help me Lord Jesus.
I suggest you listed to testimonies of restored marriages. Most people will say it seemed impossible…but God! He is the god of the impossible!!
He Restores!!! He delights in Restoration!!!!❤
will he go to a weekend for marriage restoration or do one online? like as a last ditch effort and yall come and go
to it separately so
he doesnt have fear
Same herr
Right when I played this video my wife like my post about Corinthians 13 love never fails
I pray that my marriage is restored. My husband left I am heartbroken. I know I need to trust the Lord and believe( my struggle). I pray that it’s restored better than it was before and make it Holy. In Jesus name. Please pray for us.
I stand in agreement with you in Jesus name for God to restore, reconcile and bless you marriage. I also pray peace and comfort over you ❤
@@kceekiara I come into agreement with your prayer!!
@@BeautyForAshesJoyForMourning Thank you!♥
Thank you!! ♥
Amen! Sister, please pray for us. Lord, please bring my family back together so I can raise my boys in a Godly home. As for me & my house, we will serve the Lord.
thank you woman of God my marriage is restored hallelujah
I thank God for Jesus Christ, Who hung bled and died on Calvary for our sins and rose again Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah, not listen to negativity but by His power God power.
Jamie, as you continue to encourage others may God always encourage you and may He bless you soon with a miraculous breakthrough in your stand, restoring your marriage and your family.
Psalm 77:14
New International Version
14 You are the God who performs miracles; you display your power among the peoples.
Praying for restoration in my marriage I trust the lord
I agree Jesus Christ can change your husband heart in am instant,,,,, but wives are you changing are you healing so when God returns your espouse you are transform through Christ…. Often I hear people stating my marriage got restore but he or she left again because I was not heal. I encourage everyone that is working for restoration make sure you are working on your self.
@@mzsimplefinancialconcepts-3448 yes very true!!!
She wants me to grab the rest of my things from our home and is putting it up for sale. Our divorce is final in a few weeks. We need every prayer we can get please. I believe God is the only one who can soften her hardened heart. This has been a mental, physical and most of all spiritual battle but I believe God will heal us and help us overcome.
@@ryanr6607 Yes he will heal you and help you overcome. Don’t let a divorce or the sale of a house discourage you from what god can do!! It’s a process and will be difficult and painful but god will use it for your good (and your wife’s good) and his glory!!
@@roadtorestoration5371thank you for the response Jamie. The divorce was finalized, the house was sold and there has been no communication. She didn't even wish me a happy birthday. I still pray for her on and off, I'm not as hurt as I used to be but I still do feel some bitterness. I have a feeling she is with someone else and it breaks my heart to think about. Just been spending a lot of time with family and by myself. Going to continue praying for my situation as well as yours and everyone else's in the comments
I watch this powerful prayers daily and praying that God is changing my husband's heart to leave the strange woman for good and come back home to me and my children.
I believe God can turn my husband’s heart toward home. The thing I wonder is how will my husband know my heart, that I’m now a changed person due to God since he went completely no contact. It’s been 8 months now. He refuses to reply to anything. He lives with the counterfeit still.
I’m in the same situation… we have been seperated for 6 months and he lives with the counterfeit..
God will reveal your new heart and the changes to your husband. You don’t need to prove anything. Allow the Lord to do that for you. It’s supernatural!
Fully agree. Do not call text or email him. Let God get the glory
Wow this was so good. Such a needed word from the Lord ❤
AMEN 🙏🏾
Lord Jesus work on ME!!!
Beautiful! Yes and Amen to God turning our spouses hearts to us and is to them. I have been praying this same thing for several months now and often because of that exact scripture! Also been praying for Him to prepare me and my spouse for our coming together.
Thank the LORD that He is the God of second chances! \O/
Thank-you dear sister!
Heavenly father please restore my marriage. Please restore my wife’s heart from all the damage I’ve done. Please restore me. Leave it all to you. I took emoji Jesus Christ to my heart by life. I pray you rest rest rest my marriage.
I have hope in Gods timing and realize now that its not just about my husbands heart.
Amen! Father God keep working on. Show me what I need to learn in this season. Help me keep focused on your promises. The storm is strong, but I have faith that you are working all this for my good. I trust you. Thank you for the victory Mighty Father.
This really hit home. I’d like to ask you something, what happens when you’ve done what you mentioned about not all husbands come home…? our marriage was restored after 3 years but sadly I wasn’t healed and pretty much did what you mention about manipulation and sadly after just 1 year restored my husband left again, it’s been a little over a year now. We are in minimal contact, my heart is so heavy knowing how deep I’ve hurt God and my husband. I will keep praying and standing and believing God that even though I messed up, God still wants to restore us and our 28 year marriage.
@@teresareveles8973 Yes don’t give up! God is still working in both of you. It’s not over!
Amen 🙏 in Jesus name 🙌 God has already restored 🤲 marriage 💍👰🏻♀️ I receive it by Faith
Your hard work, dedication, and spiritual endurance are truly appreciated, and I am incredibly grateful for them. Your efforts have made a significant impact. Thank you for all that you do!
Thank you! It’s been a journey for certain!!
Amen.
Thank you for your encouragement.
My prayer has been, and is, that God would change me, deal with anything that is dishonouring to Him in me, and prepare me for our marriage restoration. "Change me, Lord, and make me the person you desire me to be."
I have often pleaded the confidence that the heart of the king is in The Lord Hands.
So, thank you for your encouragement and may God heal, restore and bless your own marriage restoration.
I am looking forward to my 'new marriage' to my spouse, with God in the centre. 'I believe, Lord, help Thou my unbelief. In Jesus Name, Amen.'
I receive in Jesus name! 🙏🏽💜
In my situation it was me that came to the Lord and The closer and deeper I got with Jesus the further my husband pushed us away.
Remember the sanctified wife sanctifies the husband. Keep
Pursuing the Lord and allow Him to draw your husband towards the Lord.
Good word!
. My Lord change my and heart posture in Jesus name , Amen
Beautiful
I decree in the name of Jesus No weapon formed against our marriage shall prosper Amen.
Just subscribed. This is so helpful and confirms with my spirit. Thank you
@@champ626Welcome!!
Amen
Believing for my marriage for restoration and for my husband to come home
I praise God. Marriage failed. I trust the way of God. However it will be. Gods ways are not to understand. Stay faithfully. 🙏♾️ Amen
I received it in the name of Jesus Christ 🙌
I was married for 14 years, my wife simply left saying she was unhappy for a while, she blocked me on all platforms for 2 months no contact,she lives far away in another city,I'm a Christ loving prayer worrier but not seeing anything change...I believe God will restore this marriage and I battle to sit around and wait when I don't see any change
@@MyKingNation7 you don’t need to sit around and wait. Believe He’s got it all taken care of and live your best life believing it’s already done!!
@@roadtorestoration5371 amen God bless
God change my husband heart toward me
This is Great message! Wow
God can definitely change their heart. My wife heart was seemed to change and she wanted to work on our marriage but few weeks later she gave up again and done. She divorced me last year July and actually remarried. But few weeks after coming to me wanting to work on us and restore our family but now she’s back to not wanting to. I’ll take blame for it as I still have work to do but she also showed she’s not fully submitted to God will and any thing “difficult” she runs. But I know too God still has to work on me. I rather she stays away then say I’m committed then next day she’s not. I’m good on that
I didn’t exhibit a kind spirit or gentle so she ran again. Tough when being blamed for everything even for their issues. Idk if I’ll ever be where I should be for her to feel she can be committed as she once vowed.
Yes allow god to complete the work he’s doing. Trust the process!
@@roadtorestoration5371 trying to, hope I didn’t mess things up even more. I’ve said some tough things out of love that she not receiving. She’s playing with fire marrying a foreigner who never been to the US and did it 4 months after our divorce. I’ve tried warning her she’s being used for a green card but she doesn’t want to listen. She went to get baptized this past Sunday and followed it with not listening to God or seeking Him just decided to go right back to the foreigner. I pray for covering and protection over my young children. I pray that this other person never set a foot in the same home as my children
Thank you ❤
This is so good, thank you. New sub!
Love your timely videos Jamie! Thanks for the encouragement and agreement ❤
Thank you beloved sis kerp praying for my heart
This helped me. Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you Jesus!!🙏🏽😇😇❤️❤️
AMEN 🙌🙏🙌
My marriage is in ruin. I'm asking for any and all prayers to save my marriage and my family. For my children, for my wife, and for God.
@@LeonParrish-q6w 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I first heard the term “prodigal spouse” yesterday. I’ve been praying for two and a half months that God helps bring my woman back to me. She left me right before I was going to ask her to marry me. I need prayer please.
@@94gtvert 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Pls pray that God to change my husband ,s haert
Amen 🙏
This was a good messages blessing to you 🙏🏿
and I have been praying for 6 years that God would turn my husband's heart to himself and restore our marriage. But things are going from bad to worse. I now have until 10.11 to sign the divorce papers. Please pray with me for ours and other marriages in danger
@@galyadavidova4192 🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is very easy to talk about. I often feel that it is "shared by people who have not been through it". Married people tell me "don't put the wife/husband first". If I remove his/her spouse out of their life? Right now? Would they still be so smart?
You have been waiting. Monday.... Friday... January... March... June.... Nothing. I keep hearing that God can, will, knows.... But nothing. No communication. Divorce. Bad things... Because of me, my heart, my behavior?
Your husband/wife meanwhile is having a good time, cheating well because he's/she's free. But I will be kind, forgiving. If she gets tired of cheating, I should take it back kindly, not arrogantly. Don't speak about the past, because it can be uncomfortable for him. So he/she did what he did with virtual impunity.
Yes, I'm in this situation. I pray every day. And YES, I'm guilty.
We can’t go off what we see. God can’t lie and won’t be mocked. He can’t bless sin. Keep declaring the word over your spouse and stand firm on gods promises.
Amen amen amen 🙏🏽
Yes amen
In Jesus’ name, amen! 🙏🏾
Please pray for my husband Roy c Willis wife Bessie Willis I wo🙏🙌🙏n't my husband
@@bessiehutson444 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I've watched/listened to a lot of your videos, and I'm starting to realize there is a theme of humbling ourselves to sin. What I mean is there is this common theme that we are to love and "accept" whatever our spouses do and let God draw/heal/fix them. This is a weird passive/accepting stance that I don't believe is biblical. Yes, love covers a multitude of sins, but we do not allow sinners to corrupt us. We need to stay far away from people who are being evil towards us. Bad company corrupts good character. It changes us in a bad way to allow UNREPENTANT sinners to be in our presence. It grieves the Holy Spirit to love a person to the point that it ruins our own souls. Living in denial just to love a person unconditionally is not healthy. When you make statements saying "these are things we do that made our (my insert UNREPENTANT SINFUL) spouses to want to leave us in the first place. I'm sorry but HEALTHY HEALED LOVING CHRISTIANS WHO FOLLOW JESUS are "pushing" away our spouses? No, no, no!!! It has NOTHING to do with us!!!! We could be the most perfect wife/husband and they will still treat us badly and leave, etc. Because it is the demons in them rebelling against the Jesus/God/Holy Spirit in us!!! Stop telling people to cater to sin!!! We are already made perfect in Christ the minute we believe. It is already finished. There is no "old you" we are already a new woman the minute we became believers in Jesus!!! You got it all wrong!!! If a woman is self righteous and contentious it is because her sinful spouse corrupted her good character. That is why the separation took place. It is not about HOW GOOD WE ARE. IT is about the UNREPENTANT SINNER aka our spouses. Stop catering to toxic sinners!!!!
@@lke4907 God is our defender and the perfect judge. He deals with sin. Our job is to trust him and to extend unconditional love and forgiveness. Standing isn’t for everyone. If that’s the way you feel then you probably won’t be restored.
@roadtorestoration5371 You said I probably wont be restored?? HA!! Judge not, lest ye be judged!!!!!!!!
I am battling with this, 2 years ago I prayed for restoration of my marriage before and after my wife left, she has since then slept with 2 different men and I'm not so sure I want her to come back anymore
We forgive 70 x 7….Just like we are forgiven. Ask the lord to help you see your wife through his eyes. Remember it’s a spiritual battle. Her sin is a reflection of her brokenness and wounds.
@@roadtorestoration5371 I'm not sure forgiveness will help me with my reconciliation with her. I know I need to forgive her but that doesn't mean I have to take her back
Please pray for my marriage. My wife of 18 years left and is with another man. We are still married. My wife and kids live with this other man. My daughter wants her mom and I back together.
@@steverodgers2054 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I would like to testify, this didn't work for me. I prayed,cried, tried for 25 years and my situation grew worse. I was finally granted a spiritual divorce from God. I also experienced witnessing sincere heart change in others that did happen, Amen. This happened in a matter of months which confirmed to me God is always working in hearts, the best thing to do is walk away and allow Him.
But it’s not easy to believe, how am I going to change when he is with someone else and seems content, happy 😢
@@viajandoconJ No it’s not easy to believe….But sin is pleasurable for only a season. We don’t always know what they are truly feeling when they lay their head on the pillow at night. We can trust that our prayers are powerful and that God is pursuing them. The most important thing is to trust God will get through in his way and time and to not focus on what you see or feel but only what God’s word says.
I love the truth that God is able to change our spouse’s heart- something that no person can do. But what do you do if your spouse has remarried someone else? If this is the case, is it still a valid prayer to ask God to change their heart so that they turn back to Him and to us as the standing spouse as well?
Yes absolutely keep praying! If they divorced you and are remarried the word says they are in adultery.
@@roadtorestoration5371
Thank you so much for your encouragement! 😊 I do realize that God wants to reconcile my wife to Himself before he restores our marriage. I just get confused regarding what my part of the restoration process looks like, if you take my meaning.
Thank you again!
You just rebuked me right there.. I don’t even want to see him.. I have forgiven him but I want my space and he keeps asking to come see the kids 🤔
Ask the lord to give you his heart for your spouse.
I don't like rebuke you. My opinion is in Christian marriage the forgiveness and restoration is unseperable things. I forgive you but never see you again, hm.
Let’s all pray as an ox knows his owner and the ass his master’s crib so do our husband’s and children!
🤲🏼. FATHER LIFTING UP YOU GRACE and deliver them from demonic influencers.
Isaiah 1:
THE WICKEDNESS OF JUDAH
2 Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth: for the LORD hath spoken, I have nourished and brought up children, and they have rebelled against me. 3 The ox knoweth his owner, and the ass his master's crib: but Israel doth not know, my people doth not consider.
4 Ah sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, a seed of evildoers, children that are corrupters: they have forsaken the LORD, they have provoked the Holy One of Israel unto anger, they are gone away backward.
5 Why should ye be stricken any more? ye will revolt more and more: the whole head is sick, and the whole heart faint. 6 From the sole of the foot even unto the head there is no soundness in it; but wounds, and bruises, and putrifying sores: they have not been closed, neither bound up, neither mollified with ointment.
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But when though?
Be strong in your faith and trust knowing that God’s timing is perfect.
Psalm 27:14
"Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!"
Lamentations 3:25-26
"The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord"
Proverbs 16:9 (NIV)
"In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD establishes his steps"
I come in complete agreement with this and decree, declare and claim this! I have already seen how God has moved in me and my circumstances! He is so faithful and so good! My marriage is not restored, yet, but he is working and moving! Have faith and completely trust in Him! I’m still working on complete Trust in Him but I know God can and will restore and renew my marriage!
Instead of asking when ask God what….Lord what do you want to change in me? Trust His timing is perfect and he will turn your spouses heart in due season!
@@roadtorestoration5371 Just not before I eat a bullet. Now the government are trying to take my kids. The more I trust in him the worse everything gets.