Maybe if we knew a bit more about Betsy’s circumstances, I think OP mentioned that they all live in a very nice gated community, if she lives there too then deffo NTA. Otherwise if she was genuinely broke I wouldn’t mind letting it slide and even sending the leftovers. I always carry my own meal plus a couple of helpings extra to these things anyway if it’s food and if it’s booze I just bring my own and a couple mixers (soda or cola or some crisps or cocktail nuts/peanuts) for the table…
She's a free loader she doesn't deserve anything so nta
Maybe if we knew a bit more about Betsy’s circumstances, I think OP mentioned that they all live in a very nice gated community, if she lives there too then deffo NTA. Otherwise if she was genuinely broke I wouldn’t mind letting it slide and even sending the leftovers. I always carry my own meal plus a couple of helpings extra to these things anyway if it’s food and if it’s booze I just bring my own and a couple mixers (soda or cola or some crisps or cocktail nuts/peanuts) for the table…
That was rude.