ASMR| been single for 19 years🫣 an honest rant/discussion about relationships

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  • @voidouts
    @voidouts ปีที่แล้ว +21

    this comment is gonna be so long omg sorry in advance. BUT. valentine’s day always used to make me so sad when i was a teenager bc i would be like. the only one out of all my friends who was single. but now that i’m 21 i think i’ve sort of realised that hey valentine’s day is about love right? so i use it as an opportunity to tell my friends how much i adore them and how much they mean to me. another thing this made me think of is i think being single for my whole life has kind of taught me to see the beauty in everyone and everything. like i just think everyone is so inherently beautiful. i also think im a huge romantic, too. so like i get really sad that i don’t have someone to just pour all this adoration into. but like you said we all find our person at the right time!!! i don’t know if this made any sense i am just rambling lmfao,, love u btw happy valentine’s day

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally understand what you mean, when you feel like you’re the only person you know who is single it feels really isolating!! I’m so sorry you also had to go through this. THIS!!! It is so true that Valentine’s Day shouldn’t just be for couples, it’s for people who love love and the true romantics 💌❤️ I think I’ve found that pouring all of that love that you have into yourself and the people you love around you is an amazing way to start :))) love you so much, sending billions of hugs xxx

  • @cendon1244
    @cendon1244 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm 24 and still single. There will always be people you can date or hook up with, but it's all superficial and a waste of time. The more time you spend with yourself, the better because you learn so much about yourself and you eventually don't care what people think.

  • @livvilooasmr3699
    @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Here we go again🚶🏼‍♀️🚶🏼‍♀️ hope you guys enjoy another video of me over sharing and being a bit too vulnerable🫣💀 please be gentle and kind with this video, I love to have these discussions with you guys so feel free to comment about your experiences with this topic🫶🏻 so many hugs xxxx love liv

    • @AdrianSilva-wv6bn
      @AdrianSilva-wv6bn ปีที่แล้ว

      As always enjoying these videos and thank you again for this video i really appreciate watching and commenting on your channel 😊

    • @avines17
      @avines17 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      everyone has a different story with love. just because some people are inexperienced, doesn't make them any less than those who have experienced it. just be yourself, focus on what makes you happy and safe. Sometimes it takes time for the right person, sometimes it's immediate. You can't force love, and you definitely cannot fake it. Stay well xx

    • @AdrianSilva-wv6bn
      @AdrianSilva-wv6bn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Got that right no one can be forced to love and thank you again for your reply we really appreciate it 👍 😊

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@avines17 YESSSSS it’s so nice to hear that!! It’s so true, everyone is on different paths and I know it’s easy to compare myself to others but truly love happens when it happens and it’s best to wait for someone who you actually love 💕 thanks you so much for commenting xxx

  • @ajruiz6137
    @ajruiz6137 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey, nothing wrong with being single. Tbh it’s admirable :) it shows you can be your own person, you learn to go through things on your own thus making you a stronger person !!!
    You will find someone, you’re a beautiful girl, please keep smiling ❤️

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I really appreciate your kind words!! It feels a little lonely seeing other people fall into love so easily, but it just takes time to meet the right person!! Sending so many hugs xxx

    • @ajruiz6137
      @ajruiz6137 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@livvilooasmr3699 yes I know the feeling of seeing other and let alone seeing the one you love/like fall for someone else
      It’s brutal, but hey you’ve got this!
      Never stop smiling please don’t stop 😌 sending hugs right back to you!

  • @topsecret5110
    @topsecret5110 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You've only been alive for 19 years. This is completely normal. Focus on yourself. Self-esteem is built by you, not anyone else. This is always true

    • @moethemoon
      @moethemoon ปีที่แล้ว +3

      honestly thoo. it’s kind of alarming seeing 19 year olds being so down about being single their whole life. I’d argue they shouldn’t even remotely be in a relationship for 95% of those years! I mean I get it, I’m 19 as well and it’s an age where we crave to be well surrounded and come into ourselves. but seeing someone as young as me express this makes me further realize that everything will happen on its own time…

  • @babybeck8789
    @babybeck8789 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Don’t be like the rest of them darling” you are so beautiful♥️ you are worthy & loved! time will come Xxxx

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much, the time will come 🫶🏻🫶🏻 hopefully👀

  • @PolymorphicPenguin
    @PolymorphicPenguin ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It seems we have a lot in common, LivviLoo. I too have been single my whole life. If you want to have a romantic partner, I hope you find him/her. At 19, you still have lots of time ahead of you. I'm 36 years old, so definitely a different stage in life. For me, I'm not sure that the married life would suit me, I've grown so used to doing things on my own. Moreover, if my hypothetical wife wanted to raise children that would be very scary for me. I hope whatever is best for you happens to you. You deserve to have a fulfilled life.

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so glad you decided to comment! Thank you for sharing, it is hard to feel as though a relationship would suit you when being alone and independent has become the norm. I hope you too find what/who you are looking for and that your beliefs will align with theirs… I always believe these things will work out:) stay strong and keep trying 💓

  • @AdrianSilva-wv6bn
    @AdrianSilva-wv6bn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really interesting and relaxing as well and with hand movements and whispers for my tingles and sleep 😌 😴

  • @Blankslatefilms1
    @Blankslatefilms1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Young men and woman don’t know what they want yet anyways! All my high school relationships ended in heartbreak haha you’ll find the right one when the time is right 😅

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true!! Most young people don’t even have a grasp on themselves yet, so It’s nice to be able to find yourself first 💓💓

  • @rachellambropoulos3402
    @rachellambropoulos3402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it will happen when you least expect it, just enjoy being you. Buy yourself flowers, take yourself out for lunch or a fancy coffee or tea at Starbuck's. Take care of you and maybe join a class for Yoga or a crafts, or something you enjoy. It will happen honey. You are a lovely person, maybe come out of your comfort zone a bit to meet people and your Mr. Darcy or Ms. Darcy. Hope your health is ok at the moment.

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss I have been trying to incorporate self love into my life, and to be honest it does actually help, taking yourself on dates is just as fulfilling!! But you are definitely right it would probably move faster for me if I actually put myself out there to meet people👀🥰 you’re comment has brought a smile to my face so thank you so much :) my health is okay it’s just ups and downs really!! Sending hugs xxx

  • @Annadr3wmorrison4477
    @Annadr3wmorrison4477 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're amazing though, tysm for being honest your content Is just soo relatable ty for existing ilysm

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for commenting!! I’m trying to make my content more vulnerable and honest because what’s the point in pretending everything is good all of the time🥰🥰

  • @noahthepariah
    @noahthepariah ปีที่แล้ว

    i was in my first adult relationship for over a year and two months and it ended after this valentine’s day. i can tell you for sure, love is NEVER the answer.

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s rough I’m sorry you’re going through that!! It will get better though for sure xx

  • @nitro7943
    @nitro7943 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 15 and recently got out of a friendship which I realised was more toxic than I thought. Unfortunately this ‘friendship’ left me a lot worse than when it started as what I originally thought was just banter has left me with a lot of insecurities and making me feel like i’m being judged by everyone I meet, simply because I feel like I know so much which is wrong with me, even if it isn’t always seen in a negative way. I’ve been going through tough times recently given that all my other real friends still hang out with this person and means that I end up with no actual friends. They’re all going out meanwhile i’m sat at home by myself thinking about what they’re doing whilst trying to keep myself entertained. While i’m at school I hate it because I constantly feel judged especially when I end up sitting down by myself at lunch or not having anyone to get in a group with when doing activities. But in the holidays i’m constantly bored and low on self esteem due to being lonely and everything seems extremely hard, even just getting out of bed. Anyways, apologies for the long comment even though it didn’t have any real point to it, I just really needed to get it off my chest as I have no one else to tell it to. I love these videos as they make me feel seen. Thank you so much ❤

  • @Василий_Жирков
    @Василий_Жирков ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You don't have to be ashamed, it's normal, just like me, I'm looking for the right person, we are unique people!!! so hi from Spain 🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻😋
    ….. you’re beautiful, don't forget it

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so happy others are going through the same!! It is very normal even if it feels lonely sometimes 💕sending hugs from England xx

  • @PATRIOTA20
    @PATRIOTA20 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love

  • @_Sam_-zh7sw
    @_Sam_-zh7sw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    29 and never been kissed. No gf.....nothing.....

  • @TheJanster16
    @TheJanster16 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @shmeagol
    @shmeagol ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Try 39 years

  • @AsterSingh-zu7pc
    @AsterSingh-zu7pc ปีที่แล้ว

    Britishers, now how the hell I understand this accent

  • @AsterSingh-zu7pc
    @AsterSingh-zu7pc ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have you said you are 19 . You are young bro, just don't watch barbie Or this woke culture. Go for it. You will get someone. Me, 17 hell nah my life I know I will stay single for maybe till 30 . Sucks but if you get chance take it

    • @curiouskittenn
      @curiouskittenn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      at 17 you’re smart about woke crap, I’m impressed

  • @kaythedon2
    @kaythedon2 ปีที่แล้ว

    singlesss (although difficult) is such a gift and we shouldn’t take that time for granted… we have the opportunity to grow closer to GOD with no distractions and learn more about HIM and ourselves🤎

  • @midnightsofia
    @midnightsofia ปีที่แล้ว +1

    for what it’s worth, i think you’re pretty freaking amazing 🫶🏻

    • @livvilooasmr3699
      @livvilooasmr3699  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Made my day :))) I think you are also pretty spectacular 💕💕 sending love xx