it gives me an odd sense of comfort knowing that I'm not the only one dealing with this, of course i know there are and always have but seeing all the individual comments and feedback is, it's a comforting despair
This is too real 😭 I lost contact with so many friends when I went through a long case of really bad anxiety and now we’re in totally different places of our lives that we don’t really connect anymore. I’m 22 and I still only have one friend 💀
Trust me You’re not alone.I’m 19 and I have no friends at the moment either (trying to manifest some) 😂. My mom is my only friend..if that sometimes. And I try to drag my 8 year old sister w/ me everywhere cause it’s so weird seeing everyone in groups having the time of there lives. Hopefully when the time comes we’ll make long lasting, genuine connections that’ll be worth the wait! 🤞🏽
It’s so lovely that you hang out with you’re sister!! At least you can go out with her and have a good time :) I believe that in time we will meet out right people! Thank so so much for commenting, sending so many hugs xxx
Hey :)) I don’t know enough about friendship making but I’m sure you could probably find some good friends through volunteering in places or book clubs, walking groups etc. I hope you and the creator of the video can find some good long lasting friends!!
@@banana3156 omg I forgot I commented on this lol. But Thankyouu! And yea I’ve met a few ppl through work, and I have a bf now. So things have gotten kinda better!
i’m the same age and resonate so much😭 it’s just a constant feeling of fomo, and trying to catch up to everyone around you. i feel like i’m running out of time to do everything i’m “supposed” to, even though i know everyone has a different path
YOU FEEL ME🙏🏼🙏🏼 I always catch myself comparing me and people my age and feeling so bad about myself as if I should be doing so much more and I’m far behind, thank you for you’re comment, it’s so nice to feel heard ❤️❤️ also I’m so sorry you are going through the same thing but we are still so young!! We will get there… hopefully xx
Sooooo I ended up posting the video 🫣🫣 honestly I am tired of only showing the positive of things and further adding to the narrative that people on social media are so much happier than other people. This is a totally unedited video so please be kind 💓💓 I in no way am posting this to gain any kind of pity I just thought if this can help even just 1 person and make them feel seen or understood then I’m doing something right… anyway I’m rambling now so I hope you enjoy xx much love
my teenage years were by far the toughest years of my life. here’s your reminder that it does get better, and that you’re heard and understood as well! thanks for sharing. ps: a song that has really helped me move past that feeling was “(un)lost” by the maine, in case you’d want to give it a go.
@@midnightsofia I will 100% check it out thank you so much, music gets me through so much❤️❤️ I’m definitely holding onto hope and the idea that I will find good friendship in the future! I appreciate you so much. So many hugs xx
I’m 19 too and I barely talk to anyone aside from my parents. Look the fact of the matter is we have plenty of time left to meet people and you can’t tell what the future has in store. I cope by focusing on goals and improving myself. Don’t let this get the best of you things will change. Stay strong!
This is great advice!! I do this too, mainly by focusing on this channel honestly and just things that make me happy ❤️ its always a good idea to have a healthy distraction. We are both very young and I do truly believe we will meet our people in the future!! We just have to enjoy the journey 🥰 stay positive xx
Got my first friend when I was in my mid-20’s. Life did get much better for me as I continued through my adult years and learned better how to navigate life and better understand myself and my real needs. Hang in there!
This video popped up on my suggested, and it surprised me. You're a small channel, talking about something very real, and you should be proud of yourself for doing so. Now as much as I want to rant, I won't, many other people have already, and all their views, experiences, lives, say so much already. I want to be able to do something that could help not only yourself, but everyone who's put a comment here. I'm happy to chat with anyone, about anything
Tysm for your honesty, trust me you're not the only one that feels like this friendship is difficult,your content is soo comforting this was definitely needed im soo glad I found your channel you're amazing love youu thanks for making the day better
Friendship is definitely difficult but thank you so much for your comment I’m so glad to see a response honestly ☺️ and I’m glad it was a positive one xx I’m so happy I can at least help people with something so my TH-cam channel is honestly my fav thing because it helps me as well. So much love to you ❤️❤️
honestly this is exactly how i feel as well at 20. not to mention i watched your chronic illness video and i’m right there with you too 😭 looking at social media and seeing people out with their friends all the time undeniably hurts, and it really does seem like we’re missing out. it feels incredibly lonely for now, but it’s important to remember that people move at different paces in life. the same people who have a close group of friends right now could be in our place next year, and vice versa. i really think that eventually we’ll find the people we click with and things will fall into place. the waiting game sucks and it sucks even more when trying our best doesn’t seem to be working, but i think that as we go through life and try new things, move to new places, etc, it will happen. we’re still very young, so we just have to get through the now. (also if you ever wanna talk i can give ya my insta, no pressure at all though) :)
No way! That’s so cool, not that I’m happy you’re going through a similar thing but it’s nice to know I’m not alone !😂 you’re so right I’ve tried to tell myself the same thing that people only show the good sides of life and that not every friendship is as good as it looks online. I’ve been the same in hoping that it will happen when it happens and if it’s meant to be then it will be. We can go through this together and we will get there!! I definitely would love your insta I might need to make a new account first though because I don’t even have a proper name/profile right now because my social life is so dry 💀🥰🥰
Im pretty lonely person and almost 21 yo, i dont watch asmr normally but youtube keep recommend it to me a lot. I dont have any social media and i dont feel a need of it mostly... but i had one or two close friends in a fiction-writing app and they became so important to me i kinda wish i never let anyone became important to me this much time to time but im not regretting it. I dont feel lack of communication but i understand it might be really hard when you have a desire for it but you are still lonely. Mine is a prefference. As long as i dont break hearts with my weird rationaloty im good with the state....
I've been having a really hard time making friends lately and I'm literally a junior in high school LOL it feels so isolating, I'm so sorry you're going through the same thing, it's not easy. Hopefully things turn around for us soon :)
I feel like many people are going through a phase of having no friends. I have 1 good friend, but they live really far away. It can be kind of lonely because I have no friends to hang out with. I hope you're doing better 💙
Thank you so much for making this video. You discussing it and seeing so many people in the comments talk about similar situations is so oddly comforting to me. Its like I feel seen, when I never do, having no friends and all.
it’s so hard to meet anyone and when i do they get bored of me so fast. i think i’m the problem, idk if i should even try anymore the outcome is always the same. hope things are going better for you.
You are most definitely not the problem and you should always keep trying!! The right people are out there for you, you just have to find them :) keep the hope, I know you will meet amazing people soon 💕💕
I hope everything is going better for you and don’t worry even if it’s one person as long as you get joy out of it that’s all that matters. Going out by yourself may seem weird but it actually gives you a better chance to enjoy the little moments and meet new people.
Seeing this late, I pray you're in a better head space now. I'm 23, I literally have like 2 friends. As soon as I left school, I stopped meeting the people I went to school with, they wanted to go out and do dru*s and drink. I knew it wasn't me, I just did my own thing, met what now is my best friend who lives in the US. We talk every day etc, the only thing you can do is see if there's any social groups near you, go along and see what happens. Again, I pray you're in a better mindset now.
I've been experiencing this as well. I'm 24 and moved from my homestate 3 years ago... ive been on apps to meet new people and I have successfully met a few people, but most I never got around to meeting. I have been talking to one person where things have gotten to where we can talk about things we are going through and that is nice. I hope you can find someone like that, as well. I wish you the best of luck in meeting some people you can talk to and spend time with ❤
I’m so happy the apps ended up turning out for you!! One good friend is so much better than lots of bad ones ☺️ I feel a similar thing when I have tried to hang out with people and it just falls through… it hurts! Thank you so much for commenting you’re experience it helps me and I’m sure others xxx
Hi! New subscriber here 😄 This topic hit home for me. I just turned 25 and have had this issue ever since I graduated high school. My friendships drifted away after no longer having school as the main tie between them and I. As an adult, I don’t have the energy to keep people in my life who seem fake or constantly dwell in drama. I’ve learned to enjoy my time alone, but I do hope that I will eventually make some sweet friends that I can hang with!
Hi!! Thank you for subscribing it means so much:)) and this was basically my exact experience as well, I think this is the case for lots of people, school was such an easy way to have and make friends but once you get older you grow apart and/or don’t want drama and negativity in your life anymore and I think that mindset change is great (even if it is a little lonely for a while) I just have hope that we will meet people who share the same values as us and we can make amazing memories with x
I've always had a lot of friends and especially since I'm very talkative and meet people at the gym which helps, but I understand it can be hard for people especially if you're more shy and don't put yourself in an environment where you can relate with someone and get to know each other. I used to reallyyy shy and barely ever talk and over the years worked on my confidence skills which helped loads too :)
So sorry to hear you're going through this love, you seem like such a lovely person and I'm sure this lonely phase will not last so don't worry!! I have gone through the exact same thing and it does get better in time I promise. sending hugs!! 💜💜💜
Thank you so much for you’re comment, it is very hard when going through it but I’m so happy to read comments like yours which give that much needed reminder that things will get better and that I’m not alone!! 💓 it’s so nice to have a community and to talk to people about these things!! So many hugs xxx
It’s good to have these talks. I think we all get lonely in different ways! I’m very comfortable and happy with my friends and social life but I also was interested in someone last year and that didn’t work out and even tho I had friends I totally felt alone because there was a big emptiness even when I was with people and specifically when I hung out with couples. Yours is a lot different to that but I’m sure it’s just as hard if not harder. Support networks are so important and if you need to vent the peeps on this channel are here for ya if you need a rant or a chat, don’t feel like you always need to stay strong either, time and place to be strong and time and place to cry your eyes out over life.
I’m so glad you mentioned the relationship aspect of loneliness as well because I feel you!! Sometimes I feel like I would feel less alone if I was in a relationship and seeing people get into them so easily can be discouraging 🫶🏻 you’re not alone in that. I’m definitely trying to be more vulnerable on this account and have conversations I want to have without feeling like I’m being ‘negative’ or ‘complaining’. So THANK YOU
Wow thank you for this! Im currently also 19 and not really having anyone i can physically meet. Living alone w my dad in the woods trying to figure out what to do with my life. I recebtly started texting people on an app where u find friends but so far i haven had that much luck, mostly guys, but im hopefull! We all will find someone soon, i pray for it❤️
Girl so random but you have one of the most beautiful noses I’ve ever seen omg showing this to my surgeon 😂 jkjk but you’re gorg and I appreciate how open and vulnerable you were in this❤️ thank you and know you’re not alone at all! We’re all on our own paths and you won’t always feel like this🫶🏻 everything is temporary
No way! I really appreciate the compliment because I use to actually be very insecure about my nose 🫣🥰 I’m so happy to have these talks even if it’s terrifying to film and upload and I wanted to delete it immediately!! But it helps me connect with amazing people and have these lovely conversations 🫶🏻🫶🏻 cannot express my gratitude enough, I’m looking forward to putting myself out there more and meeting new people xx
Its rough at your age, so many changes. And its hard to find the right ones to trust. In my 50s now, and my family pretty much got blind sided and kind of betrayed by friends and have had to withdraw and just be with family. When i was young and single, i used to hangout with coworkers from time to time and made a few friends that way. That was before social media.
Good that you talk about this because there are so many people that feel the way you do !speaking from experience although it sucks right now you are so Young and have so Much time to make friends good luck❤
It’s quite comforting to hear that other people feel the same😊even if it feels like they don’t sometimes! Thank you so much for the kind words i will definitely keep trying💕💕 I appreciate your support so much truly xx
Thank you so much for this video. It's an extremely honest and vulnerable thing to talk about. I myself never been able to actually be honest with myself to admit i'm a lonely person. I only have 1 best friend and 2 other friends, that's it. I'm really really close w my best friend and im grateful i at least have them but other than them, i'm just lonely. Thinking about my birthday coming up is makes me feel ashamed of not having more than 3 people to even invite to do something. I don't text to anyone either other than those friends. NO ONE calls me ever on the phone. Seeing all of my call history full of my mom and dad is depressing as fuck. I only got a max number of people on my phone. I have a decent number of followers on insta but no one makes an effort to talk to me or actually be invested other than guys who just like the way i look maybe. I'm almost 20 and never been to a single party. Because no one invited me to anything or i've been too anxious. Idk, i don't even have any friends on uni I feel like no one has ever liked me enough. I have never been a that important to anyone. Even if i have been, in romantic relationships at lwast, it was only for a while. I've just been living on my head. Living on my thoughts. Only a few people to share my time. Sometimes i tell myself that maybe this just stuck on to me. Maybe i should just admit the sad truth and try to move along. And you know what? I rather be alone because i want good people who really understands me in my life, than to be someone who surrounds themselves with just about anyone just to feel something.
I feel you exactly and I’m sure so many others do too!! Some of the things you’ve wrote about I have dealt with as well but I know that it will get better:) loneliness doesnt last and I think maybe trying to connect with your current friends more might do you the world of good☺️ if not you will always meet soooo many new amazing people x keep the faith!! Much love xx
From the outside many people seem like they have a lot going on in their lives but it’s often not the case. Posting anonymously online I’m not afraid to admit it but many people think I have lots of friends but for many months now I realize I don’t really have any real friends I can truly talk with and not just mess around with. Not that this is likely much comfort I know but just know you are not alone and that there will be better days ahead !
Ok so this just got recommended to me and I'm glad it did because first off a huge THANK YOU, because you just validated my entire life. we're both on the same boat i recently turned 22 and my life is basically work, spending time with my mom, watching youtube and cricket.Honest that's it no text no social existence no nothing. I also did have friends and then i became poor 😂 but if i am to be honest i enjoy solitude a little lonely but for the most part solitude is better for me personally and that's ok my mom is worried she wants me to get married and i don't see that ever happening. I'm not built for that stuff. Also I'll be sticking around for future uploads hope you don't quit.
I’m so happy you resonated with it!! It helps to know there are MANY others going through the exact same thing! It’s good you are comfortable in solitude sometimes that’s the best way to be💕 hoping it will get better for you! Many hugs x
Yeah, I don't really have friends either. I'm 19, and I haven't had any true friends ever. I don't think I've ever actually had genuine friends who come over to my house or hang out with me outside of school. I've been alone for 19 years. I've dated people, so I guess having friends and being in relationships seem separate in life. However, after around six months, I lose them, either falling out of love or for various other reasons. I thought I had friends when I started college because we had a Discord server for the college. But then, they stopped seeing me for a while and asked my Ex-girlfriend where I was. I guess I stopped being around when college started, even though we hung out initially. But I only went to places I was supposed to be, so I don't understand why they wondered about me. It's nice that they thought about me, but I genuinely don't know how I could be "around" more. They were able to contact me with discord but contacted my ex.. WHY? IDK, but they never INVITED ME anywhere. What was I supposed to do? I have nowhere to go. The point is, I do enjoy being alone; I'm an introvert. However, I don't like feeling lonely. It's just that I don't leave strong impressions on people to make them want to stay, I guess.I've dealt with every one of my breakups alone; I've dealt with my mental struggles alone; I've dealt with genuinely everything alone. Maybe I'm just not the type of person who can naturally make friends, or maybe there's something wrong with me. I have a lot of other issues with this, and the fact that I couldn't get a job, so now I'm hoping that somehow this year, I might be able to get an internship. If not, at least I have some time, but it's a bit unfortunate. So even outside of that i have issues that just add on my oldest one being "no friends"
Thank you for sharing this interesting topic plus i as well felt lonely with no friends to talk to when i was in high school and and the worst is that i was surrounded by negative peers and also the worst is that my peers were bossing forcing me and other friends to drink alcohol and smoke as well ugh 😞🤢
I am but hopefully ill never ever come across these toxic peers ever again and thank you again for this video i really appreciate watching and commenting on your channel 😊❤️
im 17 and only have one real friend (who’s more invested in her new boyfriend than me) and i feel so lonely. recently i got a new job, went back to school, and got my license. things are looking up but i don’t know how to become “actual” friends with my classmates and coworkers. i wish socializing came easier to me.
Its a gift and a curse, being comfortable alone is a true gift, and its when you really can think about things, enjoying your own company, but from time to time it gets biring etc
I'm currently 27 and i feel like I'm wasting my life away being stuck at home not being able to make any friends or get in a relationship with a girl or just go out and have a good time i wish i could move forward in life
For people who are reading it. I'm 21, and I'm in the same situation since i was 13... ❤ (And in the end I just ended up getting used to it, just learned to enjoy being with me, but it doesn't apply to everyone I know it🙃), I spent my adolescence without friends and I'm fine, so they are not that important (maybe a bit overrated) don't feel sad for that, it's normal, don't blame yourself for not having friends or something, your not a "weirdo", You are not antisocial, find your reason to be happy, focus on things that make you happy, even without friends, (maybe you'll end up liking being with you, and maybe love yourself more). Don't think about stupid things (like Su1C1d3 or something) you'll be ok, trust me, it's going to be ok, don't fall into depression for that, your life is meaningful, you are perfect just the way you are, and who knows🤷🏻♀️ maybe one day you'll really find the right people that will make you feel happy, and that will never betray you.❤ Take care and never give up, stay strong❤ Ps: English is not my native, if i wrote something wrong I apologize 🙏
I relate to this sm. my only true friend rn is my bf of 3 yrs and I do want to marry him soon once I graduate college this month but part of me wishes I was out, doing more with friends my age. I'm 22 for reference and my last best friend I had was for 7 yrs all through middle and high school until we had a friend-breakup that was really hard (she broke my trust) especially since I feel like we were truly platonic soulmates and to this day I don't regret how things went but I do miss her sometimes in waves. life is weird but to put things in perspective, I would rather have it take 10 years for me to find a true, good friend than have 10 friends who all secretly want to stab me in the back. I was in a sorority for 2 yrs and in those years, I encountered the most hateful yet nice to your face, "friends". I would give anything to have more friends rn but at the same time, as I get older, have quality friendships over quantity will always win in my book. I know this video was posted a while ago but I genuinely hope you're doing well and have found some people you enjoy :)
19, got sober and i have no friends. i’ve gotten to the point where i don’t want them either. it feels like everyone my age just wants to fuck randos/ smoke weed/ entertain toxic relationships, drama, and negativity in general. and no hate for real, i think it’s a right of passage yk? i just got most of that out of my system when i was way too young unfortunately. but ppl older than my age have mortgages and careers and kids and it just feels ill-suited to be friends w them. anyways yeah i feel u.
I’m in grade 8 right now (13yrs) and I struggle to make friends too, I have one person I talk to in class but long story short it’s impossible for me to get close with them cause they don’t know English and I’m not the most fluent at my native language (Vietnamese)And there’s like only 9 girls in my class and all of them have there own friend group so I struggle really bad with having no friends especially when last year I was considered “popular?” I try to convince myself that things will get better once I start Highschool but I’m very nervous with starting Highschool especially as a freshmen with no friends😢 great to see someone talk so openly about this though 😊😋 (manifestating some friends to come into my life lolz)
Same im 19 too and I feel like I’m wasting my youth :( all I do is walk to work and go home, the only people I see are my coworkers who stress me out, I go to college but I’m super shy and haven’t made any friends in 2 years there lol, I don’t talk to anyone from hs and I’ve been single my whole life I haven’t even had a first kiss it feels like everyone else is doing so much more for their age, I don’t drive so I can’t really go anywhere, even by myself
Trust me I totally understand what you are going through, I have been through all of those things as well, and I’m sure so have many :( I’m so sorry you have to go through it, it’s very difficult, but I just want you to also know it doesn’t last 🫶🏻 and if reading all of these lovely comments have taught me anything it’s that lots of people have gone through the same and have ended up meeting amazing people and living life to the fullest!! So we can keep the hope together ❤️ I know it’s hard but we can do it too xxx sending lots and lots of hugs
I'm sorry to hear you're having trouble with finding pals. This can be an on-and-off problem for a lot of folks, of almost any age, so it happens to the best of us. It does pass. Some ideas: You mentioned some colleagues at work, is there anyone there you click with? What about hobbies/interests, do you have any of those - books, art, that kind of thing? Even TV? Have you considered finding local clubs associated with those interests? What about online forums for the things you like/enjoy? That kind of thing would be a gentler (and safer) way to ease into circles outside those you're dealing with now. Anyway, one way or another, I hope things improve for you soon.
Thank you for you’re lovely comment!! I have a few people at work I’m friendly with but it just feels like a struggle to make the transition from coworkers to friends, such as asking them to hang out and it never really happens :/ I do have lots of hobbies, you mentioned all of them actually!! 😂 but I find meeting people/joining groups online so scary which is why this TH-cam channel was a massive step for me🫣 but you are so right it would be easier to meet people in an online space relating to something we mutually enjoy so I might have to go for it ❤️❤️ thanks once again for commenting I appreciate it sooo much, all the love xxx
I can definitely empathize because I don't have a lot of friends either. I'm sort of an anti-social recluse. You know how there are dating apps to help people find a girlfriend or boyfriend, I think there should be apps to find platonic friends too. I really hope that you are able to make some high-quality friends. I will pray for you to find some amazing friends.
I think there might be! I mean I’m not too sure if they’re a scam or not but they could be useful 🫶🏻 thank you so much for you’re lovely words I hope (and know) you will find some amazing friends soon!!💜💜
I'm 17 and have friends, but i moved to the area less than 2 years ago and they have all been friends since childhood. I feel like an extra and recent events show they dont care about me nearly as much as I do to them. It hurts
That sounds really hard I’m so sorry!! I would just say that 17 is so young and you have so much time to meet so many people (as annoying as that is to hear :)))
Im a 29 year old female with major social anxiety. I have no friends. I've never dated anybody or even kissed anybody. Every now and then, I break down crying because I feel like I did something wrong to end up alone. I mean I have my parents who love me. But like if I have a concert or something that I want to go do; the only people I feel that I have to ask is my parents. How do you gain friends and make new connections as an adult? Please let me know. I feel like I missed out on a lot and hopefully I can somehow figure it out but idk.
Livii i hope my comment finds you at your best 💗 I have been there when i was your age and actually i was kind of weird and come off as snob just to look self sufficient and indipendent and maybe not to get hurt by fake friends again.But you should pick a hobby..spend a lot of time out in the same places till a conversation strikes and get to know people but be careful not to see every red flag as a green because of fomo and fear of being lonely💗💗
I have no friends either and when I say that I mean I have no one In this world full of people and everyone online that I talk to I mostly lie about my life to try and seem more interesting but rlly I have no life and nothing so yh ur not alone bru ty for this video tho it feels better to know I’m not alone in this
I’m sure you will meet the right people in time and they will find you amazingly interesting without you even having to try!! Just keep pushing and trying to meet new people and I’m sure it will work out for us 💓 reading everyone’s lovely comments is a great way to feel less alone in this xxx sending hugs
when i was homeschooled and extremely depressed the only think that truly helped me was getting a job. even though my old coworkers and i don’t talk anymore i’ve learned how to be more open and social. wishing you the best ❤
Same, back then when I had IRL friends I thought that if I didn't I would probably go insane, apparently internet friends are enough to keep yourself more or less sane
I have friends but like everytime i hangout with them its like im not even there. and now most of them have girlfriends or jobs so they just dont talk to me often. Im just stuck in this form of isolation almost. like all in the span of a few months this happened to me.
Or maybe if you are close to maybe cousins or anything you can go to a party or something with them cause i am sure that you will need new people there! I hope you will feel better soon xx
I've always hated when people say that my age is the 'best time of your life' or that it only gets worse form here like wtf am I supposed to say to that
hi omg i don’t comment on videos like. ever. but i just wanted to let you know i’ve been through this exact thing for most of my life tbh. i don’t know if you want reassurance or if i could even give any but know you’re not alone!! i think what made the biggest difference for me is making some friends on twitter SO if you ever want to talk or anything i don’t mind talking on there!! it might feel awful rn but i know you’ll find your people eventually :)
I got no friends too😅. I feeling like I'm jus existing, taking up oxygen and giving CO2 is my only reason to exist. Used to be the popular kid at school ever since then I'm jus a being.
Maybe you feel more resolved on this issue by now. It's hard to give meaningful advice or consolation of other means - here, take this BIG RED HEART ❤ instead, may make you feel a bit better
Thank you for commenting!! Reading the other comments on this video makes me feel better/seen hopefully it can offer you some comfort as well :) much loce
Maybe you should just step out of your comfort zone and go to a club alone i am sure you will meet people, i know it is hard but maybe it would be realy fun! Cause i am sure you are a realy nice and fun person.
take this time as an opportunity to grow closer to GOD🤎 ik it’s hard because there’s a constant feeling of loneliness but i can tell you from experience that the closer we grow to GOD the more we will experience HIS peace and comfort and love and those things fulfill us!
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it gives me an odd sense of comfort knowing that I'm not the only one dealing with this, of course i know there are and always have but seeing all the individual comments and feedback is, it's a comforting despair
This is too real 😭 I lost contact with so many friends when I went through a long case of really bad anxiety and now we’re in totally different places of our lives that we don’t really connect anymore. I’m 22 and I still only have one friend 💀
Trust me You’re not alone.I’m 19 and I have no friends at the moment either (trying to manifest some) 😂. My mom is my only friend..if that sometimes. And I try to drag my 8 year old sister w/ me everywhere cause it’s so weird seeing everyone in groups having the time of there lives. Hopefully when the time comes we’ll make long lasting, genuine connections that’ll be worth the wait! 🤞🏽
It’s so lovely that you hang out with you’re sister!! At least you can go out with her and have a good time :) I believe that in time we will meet out right people! Thank so so much for commenting, sending so many hugs xxx
@savagetingz6959 i can be your friend 😊😊 do you have discord?
Hey :)) I don’t know enough about friendship making but I’m sure you could probably find some good friends through volunteering in places or book clubs, walking groups etc. I hope you and the creator of the video can find some good long lasting friends!!
@@banana3156 omg I forgot I commented on this lol. But Thankyouu! And yea I’ve met a few ppl through work, and I have a bf now. So things have gotten kinda better!
i’m the same age and resonate so much😭 it’s just a constant feeling of fomo, and trying to catch up to everyone around you. i feel like i’m running out of time to do everything i’m “supposed” to, even though i know everyone has a different path
YOU FEEL ME🙏🏼🙏🏼 I always catch myself comparing me and people my age and feeling so bad about myself as if I should be doing so much more and I’m far behind, thank you for you’re comment, it’s so nice to feel heard ❤️❤️ also I’m so sorry you are going through the same thing but we are still so young!! We will get there… hopefully xx
@@livvilooasmr3699i feel that
Sooooo I ended up posting the video 🫣🫣 honestly I am tired of only showing the positive of things and further adding to the narrative that people on social media are so much happier than other people. This is a totally unedited video so please be kind 💓💓 I in no way am posting this to gain any kind of pity I just thought if this can help even just 1 person and make them feel seen or understood then I’m doing something right… anyway I’m rambling now so I hope you enjoy xx much love
my teenage years were by far the toughest years of my life. here’s your reminder that it does get better, and that you’re heard and understood as well! thanks for sharing. ps: a song that has really helped me move past that feeling was “(un)lost” by the maine, in case you’d want to give it a go.
Thank you again for this interesting topic i really appreciate watching and commenting on your channel 😊
@@midnightsofia I will 100% check it out thank you so much, music gets me through so much❤️❤️ I’m definitely holding onto hope and the idea that I will find good friendship in the future! I appreciate you so much. So many hugs xx
@@AdrianSilva-wv6bn of course!!
Yay 😊❤️
I’m 19 too and I barely talk to anyone aside from my parents. Look the fact of the matter is we have plenty of time left to meet people and you can’t tell what the future has in store. I cope by focusing on goals and improving myself. Don’t let this get the best of you things will change. Stay strong!
This is great advice!! I do this too, mainly by focusing on this channel honestly and just things that make me happy ❤️ its always a good idea to have a healthy distraction. We are both very young and I do truly believe we will meet our people in the future!! We just have to enjoy the journey 🥰 stay positive xx
Got my first friend when I was in my mid-20’s. Life did get much better for me as I continued through my adult years and learned better how to navigate life and better understand myself and my real needs. Hang in there!
This video popped up on my suggested, and it surprised me. You're a small channel, talking about something very real, and you should be proud of yourself for doing so. Now as much as I want to rant, I won't, many other people have already, and all their views, experiences, lives, say so much already. I want to be able to do something that could help not only yourself, but everyone who's put a comment here. I'm happy to chat with anyone, about anything
Thank you so much!! I will definitely take you up on you’re offer and rant here whenever I feel lonely
Tysm for your honesty, trust me you're not the only one that feels like this friendship is difficult,your content is soo comforting this was definitely needed im soo glad I found your channel you're amazing love youu thanks for making the day better
Friendship is definitely difficult but thank you so much for your comment I’m so glad to see a response honestly ☺️ and I’m glad it was a positive one xx I’m so happy I can at least help people with something so my TH-cam channel is honestly my fav thing because it helps me as well. So much love to you ❤️❤️
honestly this is exactly how i feel as well at 20. not to mention i watched your chronic illness video and i’m right there with you too 😭 looking at social media and seeing people out with their friends all the time undeniably hurts, and it really does seem like we’re missing out. it feels incredibly lonely for now, but it’s important to remember that people move at different paces in life. the same people who have a close group of friends right now could be in our place next year, and vice versa. i really think that eventually we’ll find the people we click with and things will fall into place. the waiting game sucks and it sucks even more when trying our best doesn’t seem to be working, but i think that as we go through life and try new things, move to new places, etc, it will happen. we’re still very young, so we just have to get through the now. (also if you ever wanna talk i can give ya my insta, no pressure at all though) :)
No way! That’s so cool, not that I’m happy you’re going through a similar thing but it’s nice to know I’m not alone !😂 you’re so right I’ve tried to tell myself the same thing that people only show the good sides of life and that not every friendship is as good as it looks online. I’ve been the same in hoping that it will happen when it happens and if it’s meant to be then it will be. We can go through this together and we will get there!! I definitely would love your insta I might need to make a new account first though because I don’t even have a proper name/profile right now because my social life is so dry 💀🥰🥰
Im pretty lonely person and almost 21 yo, i dont watch asmr normally but youtube keep recommend it to me a lot. I dont have any social media and i dont feel a need of it mostly... but i had one or two close friends in a fiction-writing app and they became so important to me i kinda wish i never let anyone became important to me this much time to time but im not regretting it. I dont feel lack of communication but i understand it might be really hard when you have a desire for it but you are still lonely. Mine is a prefference. As long as i dont break hearts with my weird rationaloty im good with the state....
I've been having a really hard time making friends lately and I'm literally a junior in high school LOL it feels so isolating, I'm so sorry you're going through the same thing, it's not easy. Hopefully things turn around for us soon :)
THIS!! Making friends in school sounds soooo easy but it’s really not, so I’m very sorry you are also going through it
I feel like many people are going through a phase of having no friends. I have 1 good friend, but they live really far away. It can be kind of lonely because I have no friends to hang out with. I hope you're doing better 💙
Thank you so much for making this video. You discussing it and seeing so many people in the comments talk about similar situations is so oddly comforting to me. Its like I feel seen, when I never do, having no friends and all.
it’s so hard to meet anyone and when i do they get bored of me so fast. i think i’m the problem, idk if i should even try anymore the outcome is always the same. hope things are going better for you.
You are most definitely not the problem and you should always keep trying!! The right people are out there for you, you just have to find them :) keep the hope, I know you will meet amazing people soon 💕💕
I hope everything is going better for you and don’t worry even if it’s one person as long as you get joy out of it that’s all that matters. Going out by yourself may seem weird but it actually gives you a better chance to enjoy the little moments and meet new people.
Seeing this late, I pray you're in a better head space now. I'm 23, I literally have like 2 friends. As soon as I left school, I stopped meeting the people I went to school with, they wanted to go out and do dru*s and drink. I knew it wasn't me, I just did my own thing, met what now is my best friend who lives in the US. We talk every day etc, the only thing you can do is see if there's any social groups near you, go along and see what happens. Again, I pray you're in a better mindset now.
I've been experiencing this as well. I'm 24 and moved from my homestate 3 years ago... ive been on apps to meet new people and I have successfully met a few people, but most I never got around to meeting. I have been talking to one person where things have gotten to where we can talk about things we are going through and that is nice. I hope you can find someone like that, as well. I wish you the best of luck in meeting some people you can talk to and spend time with ❤
I’m so happy the apps ended up turning out for you!! One good friend is so much better than lots of bad ones ☺️ I feel a similar thing when I have tried to hang out with people and it just falls through… it hurts! Thank you so much for commenting you’re experience it helps me and I’m sure others xxx
Hi! New subscriber here 😄 This topic hit home for me. I just turned 25 and have had this issue ever since I graduated high school. My friendships drifted away after no longer having school as the main tie between them and I. As an adult, I don’t have the energy to keep people in my life who seem fake or constantly dwell in drama. I’ve learned to enjoy my time alone, but I do hope that I will eventually make some sweet friends that I can hang with!
Hi!! Thank you for subscribing it means so much:)) and this was basically my exact experience as well, I think this is the case for lots of people, school was such an easy way to have and make friends but once you get older you grow apart and/or don’t want drama and negativity in your life anymore and I think that mindset change is great (even if it is a little lonely for a while) I just have hope that we will meet people who share the same values as us and we can make amazing memories with x
I've always had a lot of friends and especially since I'm very talkative and meet people at the gym which helps, but I understand it can be hard for people especially if you're more shy and don't put yourself in an environment where you can relate with someone and get to know each other. I used to reallyyy shy and barely ever talk and over the years worked on my confidence skills which helped loads too :)
So sorry to hear you're going through this love, you seem like such a lovely person and I'm sure this lonely phase will not last so don't worry!! I have gone through the exact same thing and it does get better in time I promise. sending hugs!! 💜💜💜
Thank you so much for you’re comment, it is very hard when going through it but I’m so happy to read comments like yours which give that much needed reminder that things will get better and that I’m not alone!! 💓 it’s so nice to have a community and to talk to people about these things!! So many hugs xxx
It’s good to have these talks. I think we all get lonely in different ways! I’m very comfortable and happy with my friends and social life but I also was interested in someone last year and that didn’t work out and even tho I had friends I totally felt alone because there was a big emptiness even when I was with people and specifically when I hung out with couples.
Yours is a lot different to that but I’m sure it’s just as hard if not harder. Support networks are so important and if you need to vent the peeps on this channel are here for ya if you need a rant or a chat, don’t feel like you always need to stay strong either, time and place to be strong and time and place to cry your eyes out over life.
I’m so glad you mentioned the relationship aspect of loneliness as well because I feel you!! Sometimes I feel like I would feel less alone if I was in a relationship and seeing people get into them so easily can be discouraging 🫶🏻 you’re not alone in that. I’m definitely trying to be more vulnerable on this account and have conversations I want to have without feeling like I’m being ‘negative’ or ‘complaining’. So THANK YOU
Wow thank you for this! Im currently also 19 and not really having anyone i can physically meet. Living alone w my dad in the woods trying to figure out what to do with my life. I recebtly started texting people on an app where u find friends but so far i haven had that much luck, mostly guys, but im hopefull! We all will find someone soon, i pray for it❤️
thank you SO much for talking about this omgg
Girl so random but you have one of the most beautiful noses I’ve ever seen omg showing this to my surgeon 😂 jkjk but you’re gorg and I appreciate how open and vulnerable you were in this❤️ thank you and know you’re not alone at all! We’re all on our own paths and you won’t always feel like this🫶🏻 everything is temporary
No way! I really appreciate the compliment because I use to actually be very insecure about my nose 🫣🥰 I’m so happy to have these talks even if it’s terrifying to film and upload and I wanted to delete it immediately!! But it helps me connect with amazing people and have these lovely conversations 🫶🏻🫶🏻 cannot express my gratitude enough, I’m looking forward to putting myself out there more and meeting new people xx
Girl same❤your not alone it’s comforting to know I’m not alone
100% we’re in this together xxx
Its rough at your age, so many changes. And its hard to find the right ones to trust. In my 50s now, and my family pretty much got blind sided and kind of betrayed by friends and have had to withdraw and just be with family. When i was young and single, i used to hangout with coworkers from time to time and made a few friends that way. That was before social media.
Good that you talk about this because there are so many people that feel the way you do !speaking from experience although it sucks right now you are so Young and have so Much time to make friends good luck❤
It’s quite comforting to hear that other people feel the same😊even if it feels like they don’t sometimes! Thank you so much for the kind words i will definitely keep trying💕💕 I appreciate your support so much truly xx
Thank you so much for this video. It's an extremely honest and vulnerable thing to talk about. I myself never been able to actually be honest with myself to admit i'm a lonely person. I only have 1 best friend and 2 other friends, that's it. I'm really really close w my best friend and im grateful i at least have them but other than them, i'm just lonely.
Thinking about my birthday coming up is makes me feel ashamed of not having more than 3 people to even invite to do something. I don't text to anyone either other than those friends. NO ONE calls me ever on the phone. Seeing all of my call history full of my mom and dad is depressing as fuck. I only got a max number of people on my phone. I have a decent number of followers on insta but no one makes an effort to talk to me or actually be invested other than guys who just like the way i look maybe. I'm almost 20 and never been to a single party. Because no one invited me to anything or i've been too anxious. Idk, i don't even have any friends on uni
I feel like no one has ever liked me enough. I have never been a that important to anyone. Even if i have been, in romantic relationships at lwast, it was only for a while. I've just been living on my head. Living on my thoughts. Only a few people to share my time. Sometimes i tell myself that maybe this just stuck on to me. Maybe i should just admit the sad truth and try to move along. And you know what? I rather be alone because i want good people who really understands me in my life, than to be someone who surrounds themselves with just about anyone just to feel something.
I feel you exactly and I’m sure so many others do too!! Some of the things you’ve wrote about I have dealt with as well but I know that it will get better:) loneliness doesnt last and I think maybe trying to connect with your current friends more might do you the world of good☺️ if not you will always meet soooo many new amazing people x keep the faith!! Much love xx
From the outside many people seem like they have a lot going on in their lives but it’s often not the case. Posting anonymously online I’m not afraid to admit it but many people think I have lots of friends but for many months now I realize I don’t really have any real friends I can truly talk with and not just mess around with. Not that this is likely much comfort I know but just know you are not alone and that there will be better days ahead !
Ok so this just got recommended to me and I'm glad it did because first off a huge THANK YOU, because you just validated my entire life. we're both on the same boat i recently turned 22 and my life is basically work, spending time with my mom, watching youtube and cricket.Honest that's it no text no social existence no nothing.
I also did have friends and then i became poor 😂 but if i am to be honest i enjoy solitude a little lonely but for the most part solitude is better for me personally and that's ok my mom is worried she wants me to get married and i don't see that ever happening. I'm not built for that stuff.
Also I'll be sticking around for future uploads hope you don't quit.
I’m so happy you resonated with it!! It helps to know there are MANY others going through the exact same thing! It’s good you are comfortable in solitude sometimes that’s the best way to be💕 hoping it will get better for you! Many hugs x
Thank you for sharing. You will find your way and feel better! Time settles everything in its right place
So true!! It’s all about looking forward to the future
@@livvilooasmr3699 Yes, but be also aware of the present and enjoy it as much as you can!
I've always had this problem in my twenties - I found that I was able to find friends once I entered my career
Yeah, I don't really have friends either. I'm 19, and I haven't had any true friends ever. I don't think I've ever actually had genuine friends who come over to my house or hang out with me outside of school. I've been alone for 19 years. I've dated people, so I guess having friends and being in relationships seem separate in life. However, after around six months, I lose them, either falling out of love or for various other reasons. I thought I had friends when I started college because we had a Discord server for the college. But then, they stopped seeing me for a while and asked my Ex-girlfriend where I was. I guess I stopped being around when college started, even though we hung out initially. But I only went to places I was supposed to be, so I don't understand why they wondered about me. It's nice that they thought about me, but I genuinely don't know how I could be "around" more. They were able to contact me with discord but contacted my ex.. WHY? IDK, but they never INVITED ME anywhere. What was I supposed to do? I have nowhere to go. The point is, I do enjoy being alone; I'm an introvert. However, I don't like feeling lonely. It's just that I don't leave strong impressions on people to make them want to stay, I guess.I've dealt with every one of my breakups alone; I've dealt with my mental struggles alone; I've dealt with genuinely everything alone. Maybe I'm just not the type of person who can naturally make friends, or maybe there's something wrong with me.
I have a lot of other issues with this, and the fact that I couldn't get a job, so now I'm hoping that somehow this year, I might be able to get an internship. If not, at least I have some time, but it's a bit unfortunate. So even outside of that i have issues that just add on my oldest one being "no friends"
Thank you for sharing this interesting topic plus i as well felt lonely with no friends to talk to when i was in high school and and the worst is that i was surrounded by negative peers and also the worst is that my peers were bossing forcing me and other friends to drink alcohol and smoke as well ugh 😞🤢
It can be very hard dealing with bad friends! Hope you’re in a better situation now ❤️ thank you for your lovely comments
I am but hopefully ill never ever come across these toxic peers ever again and thank you again for this video i really appreciate watching and commenting on your channel 😊❤️
im 17 and only have one real friend (who’s more invested in her new boyfriend than me) and i feel so lonely. recently i got a new job, went back to school, and got my license. things are looking up but i don’t know how to become “actual” friends with my classmates and coworkers. i wish socializing came easier to me.
Its a gift and a curse, being comfortable alone is a true gift, and its when you really can think about things, enjoying your own company, but from time to time it gets biring etc
I could honestly go on for days about this subject. But trust me being alone is not the end of the world unless you dwell on it.
Very true!!💕
I'm currently 27 and i feel like I'm wasting my life away being stuck at home not being able to make any friends or get in a relationship with a girl or just go out and have a good time i wish i could move forward in life
You’re not alone ❤
For people who are reading it.
I'm 21, and I'm in the same situation since i was 13... ❤ (And in the end I just ended up getting used to it, just learned to enjoy being with me, but it doesn't apply to everyone I know it🙃), I spent my adolescence without friends and I'm fine, so they are not that important (maybe a bit overrated) don't feel sad for that, it's normal, don't blame yourself for not having friends or something, your not a "weirdo", You are not antisocial, find your reason to be happy, focus on things that make you happy, even without friends, (maybe you'll end up liking being with you, and maybe love yourself more). Don't think about stupid things (like Su1C1d3 or something) you'll be ok, trust me, it's going to be ok, don't fall into depression for that, your life is meaningful, you are perfect just the way you are, and who knows🤷🏻♀️ maybe one day you'll really find the right people that will make you feel happy, and that will never betray you.❤
Take care and never give up, stay strong❤
Ps: English is not my native, if i wrote something wrong I apologize 🙏
23 (m) in the same boat :\ I am also estranged from all sides of my family since my mother passed
I relate to this sm. my only true friend rn is my bf of 3 yrs and I do want to marry him soon once I graduate college this month but part of me wishes I was out, doing more with friends my age. I'm 22 for reference and my last best friend I had was for 7 yrs all through middle and high school until we had a friend-breakup that was really hard (she broke my trust) especially since I feel like we were truly platonic soulmates and to this day I don't regret how things went but I do miss her sometimes in waves. life is weird but to put things in perspective, I would rather have it take 10 years for me to find a true, good friend than have 10 friends who all secretly want to stab me in the back. I was in a sorority for 2 yrs and in those years, I encountered the most hateful yet nice to your face, "friends". I would give anything to have more friends rn but at the same time, as I get older, have quality friendships over quantity will always win in my book. I know this video was posted a while ago but I genuinely hope you're doing well and have found some people you enjoy :)
19, got sober and i have no friends. i’ve gotten to the point where i don’t want them either. it feels like everyone my age just wants to fuck randos/ smoke weed/ entertain toxic relationships, drama, and negativity in general. and no hate for real, i think it’s a right of passage yk? i just got most of that out of my system when i was way too young unfortunately. but ppl older than my age have mortgages and careers and kids and it just feels ill-suited to be friends w them. anyways yeah i feel u.
I’m in grade 8 right now (13yrs) and I struggle to make friends too, I have one person I talk to in class but long story short it’s impossible for me to get close with them cause they don’t know English and I’m not the most fluent at my native language (Vietnamese)And there’s like only 9 girls in my class and all of them have there own friend group so I struggle really bad with having no friends especially when last year I was considered “popular?” I try to convince myself that things will get better once I start Highschool but I’m very nervous with starting Highschool especially as a freshmen with no friends😢 great to see someone talk so openly about this though 😊😋 (manifestating some friends to come into my life lolz)
Trust me your not alone ❤
Same im 19 too and I feel like I’m wasting my youth :( all I do is walk to work and go home, the only people I see are my coworkers who stress me out, I go to college but I’m super shy and haven’t made any friends in 2 years there lol, I don’t talk to anyone from hs and I’ve been single my whole life I haven’t even had a first kiss it feels like everyone else is doing so much more for their age, I don’t drive so I can’t really go anywhere, even by myself
Trust me I totally understand what you are going through, I have been through all of those things as well, and I’m sure so have many :( I’m so sorry you have to go through it, it’s very difficult, but I just want you to also know it doesn’t last 🫶🏻 and if reading all of these lovely comments have taught me anything it’s that lots of people have gone through the same and have ended up meeting amazing people and living life to the fullest!! So we can keep the hope together ❤️ I know it’s hard but we can do it too xxx sending lots and lots of hugs
wish this was longer cause i feel like this
I'm sorry to hear you're having trouble with finding pals. This can be an on-and-off problem for a lot of folks, of almost any age, so it happens to the best of us. It does pass.
Some ideas: You mentioned some colleagues at work, is there anyone there you click with? What about hobbies/interests, do you have any of those - books, art, that kind of thing? Even TV? Have you considered finding local clubs associated with those interests? What about online forums for the things you like/enjoy?
That kind of thing would be a gentler (and safer) way to ease into circles outside those you're dealing with now. Anyway, one way or another, I hope things improve for you soon.
Thank you for you’re lovely comment!! I have a few people at work I’m friendly with but it just feels like a struggle to make the transition from coworkers to friends, such as asking them to hang out and it never really happens :/ I do have lots of hobbies, you mentioned all of them actually!! 😂 but I find meeting people/joining groups online so scary which is why this TH-cam channel was a massive step for me🫣 but you are so right it would be easier to meet people in an online space relating to something we mutually enjoy so I might have to go for it ❤️❤️ thanks once again for commenting I appreciate it sooo much, all the love xxx
I can definitely empathize because I don't have a lot of friends either. I'm sort of an anti-social recluse. You know how there are dating apps to help people find a girlfriend or boyfriend, I think there should be apps to find platonic friends too. I really hope that you are able to make some high-quality friends. I will pray for you to find some amazing friends.
I think there might be! I mean I’m not too sure if they’re a scam or not but they could be useful 🫶🏻 thank you so much for you’re lovely words I hope (and know) you will find some amazing friends soon!!💜💜
I'm 17 and have friends, but i moved to the area less than 2 years ago and they have all been friends since childhood. I feel like an extra and recent events show they dont care about me nearly as much as I do to them. It hurts
That sounds really hard I’m so sorry!! I would just say that 17 is so young and you have so much time to meet so many people (as annoying as that is to hear :)))
i relate to this so much except i’m 21😃
Im a 29 year old female with major social anxiety. I have no friends. I've never dated anybody or even kissed anybody. Every now and then, I break down crying because I feel like I did something wrong to end up alone. I mean I have my parents who love me. But like if I have a concert or something that I want to go do; the only people I feel that I have to ask is my parents. How do you gain friends and make new connections as an adult? Please let me know. I feel like I missed out on a lot and hopefully I can somehow figure it out but idk.
Livii i hope my comment finds you at your best 💗 I have been there when i was your age and actually i was kind of weird and come off as snob just to look self sufficient and indipendent and maybe not to get hurt by fake friends again.But you should pick a hobby..spend a lot of time out in the same places till a conversation strikes and get to know people but be careful not to see every red flag as a green because of fomo and fear of being lonely💗💗
You’re so pretty like wow❤️
I have no friends either and when I say that I mean I have no one In this world full of people and everyone online that I talk to I mostly lie about my life to try and seem more interesting but rlly I have no life and nothing so yh ur not alone bru ty for this video tho it feels better to know I’m not alone in this
I’m sure you will meet the right people in time and they will find you amazingly interesting without you even having to try!! Just keep pushing and trying to meet new people and I’m sure it will work out for us 💓 reading everyone’s lovely comments is a great way to feel less alone in this xxx sending hugs
I don't understand English very well, but you are very beautiful and I am your fan.
Thank you for the relaxing video today!
Thank you so much I am so glad you enjoyed it ❤️❤️
I'm homeschooled and have no friends and no one to talk to at 16
when i was homeschooled and extremely depressed the only think that truly helped me was getting a job. even though my old coworkers and i don’t talk anymore i’ve learned how
to be more open and social. wishing you the best ❤
Same, back then when I had IRL friends I thought that if I didn't I would probably go insane, apparently internet friends are enough to keep yourself more or less sane
I have friends but like everytime i hangout with them its like im not even there. and now most of them have girlfriends or jobs so they just dont talk to me often. Im just stuck in this form of isolation almost. like all in the span of a few months this happened to me.
If you lived in California I would totally offer my friendship if you're into nature, hiking. Natural foods, farmers markets, animals
Mind making an update to this video? Of course if you’re comfortable with it.. we all believe in you and hope for the best
Or maybe if you are close to maybe cousins or anything you can go to a party or something with them cause i am sure that you will need new people there! I hope you will feel better soon xx
That is a great I idea, I need to step out of my comfort zone!! I appreciate you so much 💜💜
I wish you the best ❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏼 x
I've always hated when people say that my age is the 'best time of your life' or that it only gets worse form here like wtf am I supposed to say to that
EXACTLY!?! Like thank you for the hope 😂😂❤️
I feel you tbh, its hard if you twitter that would be cool to talk
It’s very hard but I would like to believe it will get better :) I was thinking of making an instagram!! I would love to talk to you all more xxx
@@livvilooasmr3699 i get that, but remember ever need to vent or someone to talk to come back to this comment if you want, no pressure tho!
hi omg i don’t comment on videos like. ever. but i just wanted to let you know i’ve been through this exact thing for most of my life tbh. i don’t know if you want reassurance or if i could even give any but know you’re not alone!! i think what made the biggest difference for me is making some friends on twitter SO if you ever want to talk or anything i don’t mind talking on there!! it might feel awful rn but i know you’ll find your people eventually :)
Wow I’m so happy you decided to comment then!!
@@livvilooasmr3699 insta/twitter is a good idea!!! even if it helps get rid of the loneliness a little bit i’d tell you to go for it !!
I got no friends too😅. I feeling like I'm jus existing, taking up oxygen and giving CO2 is my only reason to exist. Used to be the popular kid at school ever since then I'm jus a being.
Maybe you feel more resolved on this issue by now. It's hard to give meaningful advice or consolation of other means - here, take this BIG RED HEART ❤ instead, may make you feel a bit better
me.
❤ let's be friends
I’m 25 w no friends, I can understand
Thank you for commenting!! Reading the other comments on this video makes me feel better/seen hopefully it can offer you some comfort as well :) much loce
Maybe you should just step out of your comfort zone and go to a club alone i am sure you will meet people, i know it is hard but maybe it would be realy fun! Cause i am sure you are a realy nice and fun person.
I have thought about that but the anxiety of being alone totally stopped me! 😂 I might have to give it a go though and see what happens
You remind me of ginger from ginger snaps
It only get worse sweetheart
Don't be too desperate for a friend through, what you honestly need is a husband
take this time as an opportunity to grow closer to GOD🤎 ik it’s hard because there’s a constant feeling of loneliness but i can tell you from experience that the closer we grow to GOD the more we will experience HIS peace and comfort and love and those things fulfill us!