3 Signs They're NOT Your Friends
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Do you have a power circle or fake friends?
This video will expose fake friendships and help you make real friends
Nothing is worse than betrayal. You need loyalty and loyal brothers
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Do you have REAL friends?
Be honest.
No
no
no sir
No
I don’t trust these people these days
The saddest part of betrayal, is it never comes from your enemies
Fax
No shit sherlock 😂
Technically, betrayal comes from someone u trust. U can never trust ur enemies bt...ur frnds.
@@thenoobgamer2522 but the thing is your enemies already hate you from the start so obviously they're not going to want you to succeed, but fake friends only pretend they're on your side, and when the moment you're about to succeed that's when they're going to they're going to do their best to take it all from you, that's when they're going to reveal their true colors. and you don't got to worry about your enemies, cuz you already know they have it out for you. But the fake friends, there's snakes in the Grass the rats it hurts more when you realize that person was not your friend from the very start.
@@FantasmaOlvidado1 what is there a laugh about? It's a literally a self-reflection asking yourself if you have fake friends or if that person is actually your friend.
1. choose based on value and priciples
2. Exchange of Value
3. Fake Friends
Finally the summary guy!
@@CA_786 Of course.
If no summary, we all gonna forget valuable things of this video.
1.memilih berdasarkan prinsip nilai
2.pertukaran nilai
3.teman palsu
So, tf is a friend?
@@AdoroBiscoff well, this is probably the part of "3 signs you're an extreme introvert and antisocial guy" lol
A friendship can’t only consist of hanging out and “having fun”, it has to be built on strong moral and values and working towards a higher purpose together
agree
“Fake friends are like secret haters and once you stop talking to them they start talking about you.”
-Rich Cooper💯
Dayuum that's so true. Any idea on how to not let it bother you? Anyone???
@@Testchannel_3 if they no longer have the value to you for you to make the effort to speak with them, then the words they say are no longer of any meaning to you
Facts
I like that saying!
@@isaiahjohnson9905 i kno
There was 1 person in my life that I considered a brother and he's dead but I'm happy to have experienced the true meaning of authentic unbreakable friendship.
Very few people will ever know how it feels and that is unfortunate.
Sorry to hear that brother how did he die?
@@tatespeed8704 tf
@@tatespeed8704 tf
@@tatespeed8704 wtf man
@@tatespeed8704 why are people doing tf to u? Even if it's a joke it's unfunny and out of context. Well probably someone will nerd emoji me, i guarantee it or just make fun of me for ruining the chain.
In all fairness, I've learned to be alone for the past 8 years and don't miss having friends like I thought I had in the past. Most of the people that surrounded me were nothing more than drinking buddies, and I dont drink anymore like I used to. And once I stepped away from them, I was able to work on myself and my family.
I never had any real friends and many people that came in my life since I was a child, either used me, or even bullied me. Thats a tough pill to swallow at my age, but I don't really trust people anymore.
It's scary how evil and bad humans are.
@@od8163 I won't say all humans. I believe that most people are good. My experiences are just different. Do I want friends? Yes. I'm open to that idea. It's not good for man to be alone. However, I'm working on ME because if my experiences are the same, but with different people, then the problem isn't always them; but most of the problem can actually be me. So by doing that, i will be able to be ready to allow folks once more into my life and actually be more choosy who I give the title of "my friend" to. May you have an awesome day and an amazing life.
Rick
God love you
This comment hit home tor me, I've also been bullied. And used for my kindness, by many fake friends but. It doesn't mean I have, to give up on myself. I don't trust anyone, my friends. NEVER defended or, stuck up for me
Yeah, it's way better be alone then with fake friends
Never be dependent, be independent
Yes sir
uh, no shit sherlock?
@@हरेराम-ड6छ ohh JAI SHREE RAM 😌❤️
Not really
Tribal chief
Having 3 or 4 true friends is seriously rare and invaluable
I have 2. They prooved ot many times, same as i did to them. I dont even meet other people very often. I hate empy conversations and fkin small talks. :D
I just had this wonderful chance 2 years ago to met 3 people that I expected would become my true friends, I just entered high school at that time and beside just knowing someone who were in my middle school before I was already expecting to be alone, I started hanging in with some cool dudes of my class, they were cool but not enough to have a meaningful friendship with.
I talked time at time with a girl with Chinese origins , we get along well even if she were on her garde most of the time, most of the time she wouldn't understand my jokes which could offend her easily but with time, empathy, teamwork, we managed to be friends , and another girl one day joined us for a work group and we also did get along pretty well too and became friends with her too, and lastly this was a boy with a nerd looking joined us in another school work ( funny huh ?), he is super smart, serious but was very shy at first, I quickly realized that he was introvert since he was not talking to too much people at the beginning of the year, even though he had something in him that I really appreciated, he was humble and was ready to help if needed, him too showed us empathy, in fact this one boy lonely, quiet, serious, gave me motivation to become better at school, yes I was too lazy at home and at the end of the 1st trimester, I saw the gain of the meaningful relationship I had with those individuals not only in my school results but also in my humor of everyday!
We started talking everyday together, exchanged our phone numbers, sit close to eachother in class, sharing memories, tastes, pains, fears, funny moments, and school, simply.
It's been two years now the dude and I started working out, the girls want better results at school, I seek for a serious discipline to become better , smarter and stronger And WE start planning hanging out even after school now !
Without them idk who I would be today, they mean everything to me and we shared the same thoughts, even the boy is less shy now and is becoming clearer with his emotions and his confidence.
WE EVOLVED together, PRAISED eachother, SUPPORTED eachother, and this is what gave US a meaningful reason to come at school everyday to not miss a single moment with eachother. Yes I was lucky and I am happy. now we will become even stronger together, no matter what the area.
Very very rare
The marauders (3 friends, Peter wasn't a true friend was he?)
very rare. im surrounded by fake people who use me all the time. i think its my fault
Nothing hurts more than when you thought you had one person in this world that you've known for +20 years and you thought you had a genuine spiritual connection with them and in the end they just used you.
Wasn't a wife but was a supposed brother/best friend. It's crazy how many red flags you will ignore if you known someone for so long.
"It's better to have Real Enemy than Fake Friend"
-Master Oogway
Fr
It's better to have a smart enemy than a foolish friend
no way u say this shit
shut up with that loser
Better to have a purpose and leave the drama to women.
A fake friend will always agree with you, a true friend will hurt your feelings and tell you exactly how it is. Success comes from pure honesty, failure comes from lies. Never forget that.
Truth is usually more sad than happy.
"For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow."
This is why elders are more likely to be sad, while little kids are more likely to be smiling.
The less you know, the happier you can be... because you don't know how bad thigns really are.
In Yu Yu Hakusho there's an episode where the protagonist can read minds, and he goes mad from how evil the thoughts are around him in just a city park in Japan.
@@scintillam_dei Straight up facts!!!
Remember there's a saying "You will know your friend in times of need." A real friend will help you when you need help.
📝
So no one, pretty much.
@@Zelly2001 LOL.... I would help you. Excpet I'm broke. Seriously. My computer charger doesn't work anymore, so I'm on a lifeline.
There is the English proverb which says......A friend in need is a friend indeed.
"Having a worst enemy is better than having fake friends"
-Someone wise
No it isn't, your worst enemy wants to see you dead, a bad friend is just dishonest and untrustworthy
@@spicymeatballs2thespicening at least you know what your worst enemy is. But you don't know who's a fake friend
@@Monkeh516 fax
00:03 Many people don't have real friends
01:02 Choose friends based on values and principles, not just shared habits.
01:59 Be sure to align values and principles with friends.
02:50 True friendship requires honesty and loyalty.
03:49 Value exchange in friendships is essential
04:46 Value exchange in friendship
05:44 Be cautious of people who gain your trust with favours.
06:40 Be aware of fake friends and cherish genuine people
I lost many friends when i decided to stop drinking and smoking weed, i stopped partying, focused on training and working. Only 1 friend stayed, your real friend is the one you can just talk to sober, you can tell him good news and he'll be happy for you, you can tell him bad news and he will be there for you. He challenges you, listens, calls you out on your bs, knows when to back off and isn't constantly judging you or trying to one up you. I have had many many ''friends'' but only 1 real friend
I pray every one watching this level up financially , physically, mentally and spiritually this year ! Let’s get to work 💪🏿💰💪🏿
I am ready !!
Good encouragement. I need discipline in my lilfe. It hurts but lack of discipline hurts more in the end.
Thanks for your positive encouragement to all viewers of this channel. We need more of such positive comments.
That's what I taught my children, it's better to have no friends than bad friends.
Excellent video excellent message !
"Discipline is your best friend. It will take care of you like nothing else can."
This man is just going about the comment section and speaking facts to all of us
True retention and staying away from procest food helps me to stay focust
Does that mean talking bad words is not very disciplined?
Discipline means to PAY ATTENTION EVERYTIME TO EVERYTHING!
But choose wisely on what ur focus is!
If we are aware of our surroundings, emotions, thoughts and body in a non focussed way, i call that Discipline...nothing is left aside then.
Have a nice Journey then!
Yes yes yes
"Cowardice is unacceptable"
True
I not dying for any friend and don't want any of them to die for me
@@Blue-mv3fk fake friend
@@karp7747 You'll soon learn what being real will get you in this life
@@Blue-mv3fkfinally, someone with rational, and people acting like they’ll actually be in a situation where their lives are at stake 😂
The people you care the most will hurt you the most
~Thomas Shelby
Friendships used to be brotherhood. There was a test to be a part of a community.
Now, everyone is a friend. And be careful who is friends with everyone.
A friend to all is a friend to none
As a guy who used to have hundreds of friends in the past, I can confirm that everything this man has said is absolutely true.. now I have only 5 guys who I can trust and call my true friends
Only 5 out of HUNDREDS of friends... Damn.
Too many don't trust them either 👀
50 years old now. Only had 2 friends in my lifetime.
In the same boat as you pal and i'm much better for it
i use to believe that i had more friend's than what i actually had. Here's the thing, if my joy brings you misery and my misery brings you joy what kind of friendship are we suppose to have to began with, should i even associate with such a person? well these are the people i use to call my friends, (WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING)? now i keep my circle small.
Sign 1: They walk using their both legs
Getting a real friend is very hard, I can confirm it to be true myself.
Even then, you don't really know.
There are people who really were true friends, and you and them really would die for each other, and did it too. It was real.
But then things change, you tried, they tried, all failed... and now... it's best that you never see each other ever again.
@@gendoruwo6322 in my third world country i saw news about two friends stabbed over money and they have 20+ years friendship
Not just hard, finding real friends is very rare.
friendship is work and will required of both parts, like in relationships.
People are to easy on backing off to fast, there are things worth fighting for,
That channel is way to extreme on the pessimistic loner side
I had one true friend. We never argued and never had a fight. We only had lots of fun. We were practically brothers. He passed away september last year and I doubt if I ever get over this loss. I'm very thankful he was on my wedding and I'll never forget that he said that he really loved both me and my wife and was very grateful for our friendship.
He'll be in your heart.
💛
@@MrParkerman6 😢
For ten years I thought I had friends. This video describes it perfectly. The past ten years of my life I’ve surrounded myself with real friendships and my life is so much better.
When value is exchanged the friendship becomes stronger 💯📌
females are faker
@@hamzamansoor4013 A BUGATTI
@@aflat00n 💀💀💀
@Hamza Mansoor i guess helping in need is one way to put it
@Hamza Mansoor having same mindset.habits rules
Im 30. And I just learned this lesson a couple years ago. As I look back, all the "friends" I've had throughout my 20s were just associates due to work and location. Once they move or get a new job, it's over. You never talk to them again 🤣
Yeah true friend is very rare
So true man
True
Everyone is your friend until your rent is due...
I Stopped being on social media, and end up seeing that I don't have any friend.
Just do it and see.
"Those who knew you will hurt you the most".
People you trust the most can hurt the most.
Real friends are like diamonds, most precious and very rare. Fake friends are like autumn leaves, they can be found anywhere.
Just turned 59 this year, your videos are a valuable tool for men of any age.
Respect
@@gigachad548 Big fan I wanna become giga chad too 🙂
"Be careful who you trust, Sergeant. People you know can hurt you the most." -Simon "Ghost" Riley
"Sometimes good deeds can hide in a evil heart" realist quote in the whole video
As Charles Bronson once said, ''I don't have friends. I have a thousand acquaintances. No friends. I figured I had a wife and children.''
Great message. Thank you. My advice: Don't worry so much about who your "real" friends are. At the end of the day, you stand alone. So BE a good friend, a good man, a good husband, father, etc. You will fail, and you will fail often. But just be a good friend anyway. Other people will qualify and disqualify themselves (and so will you, by the way). You won't even have to sniff out the bad ones. They will reveal themselves. That being said, pay attention and trust your gut. Be honest, be brave, be loyal to principles of righteousness, be merciful whenever possible, and always respect everyone (even if you hate them- respect them. Yes, this is possible). God bless you all.
This is very relevant for me especially since high school. I had a friend who I shared common interests with until one day she posted screenshots of our private conversation online to try to embarrass me. I grew trust issues but eventually I found new friends in college who I am much closer towards. When you're young, you want to be liked by people so naturally you gravitate towards people with common interests, attractiveness, etc. When you get older you realize how much less those things matter.
Absolutely, I'm glad to hear that you've improved yourself since then. Spend time around positive people who don't complain and support you - they will be your biggest cheerleaders, your motivators, your community.
@@ProfessorxFitness Yep, I recently spent New Years and Memorial weekend last year with two of my friends in Dallas. They are very supporting of my endeavors and accepting of me as a person.
@@cosmothecreator I'm happy for you, keep them close brother!
Stay away from them. They are rat.
@@cosmothecreator how did you find positive people ?
A friendship without the same common goals are bound to break.
I'd say goals that align. if your goal is to become the best artist of a certain niche in the world, then you likely aren't going to be best friends with the person who has the same aim in the same area.
I wouldn't say break, maybe more like drift apart slowly
@@darudesandstorm072I think a better example would be let's say you are an MMA fighter and your friend is a kickboxer
@lightnong the principle is the same 😁
This was a great video. I got rid of toxic, jealous friends and family in the last few years, so my battles are behind me now. However, there are lonely nights when doubt and depression make me wonder if things could have been different.
It was good to hear some hard advice to reinforce my choices - I knew they were bad for me, and it took a lot of courage for me to walk away. I want to find someone who will help me become the person I want to be, and I can do the same for them.
I can identify with the situation you are in and can share with you a comfort that I have found in such hard times. I am not trying to be religious or trying to convert you in anyway but the best friend that anyone can ever have in his life is Jesus Christ and God. In my life, I have experienced all kinds of problems and all kinds of friends from the fair weather ones to traitors who are the fake friends. And the only true friend I have found in life is God and Jesus Christ who said in the bible....I will never leave you nor forsake you.....and throughout my life, through thick and thin, through the good and bad times, God and Jesus Christ have kept their promise to me.
@@jchock7503 great! And no! It's not about conversion. It is just a gentle reminder of continuous rememberance of your creator, as per your faith. Thanks.
This is very very true. I've known a person who I've known since middle school. When I started to improve on my mindset and have self-respect, he chose to not speak to me, so I blocked him. Then he tried getting a mob of other fake friends of my past to frame me, beat me up, etc. luckily, they didn't get the chance. BE CAREFUL EVERYONE surround yourself with like-minded people and show some self-respect!
I'm 44 and this is the first time I've been shown how to vet for friends.
All my life it was the common activities that were used instead of core principals. All my life I've been let down by my friends and I was angry at them, but it's my own fault. I know now. Thanks for this video!
Dude, are you seriously 44? Not to sound hateful, but if you truly are, then I'm not sure how I will keep treat my other 'friends' whom are fake
@@Testchannel_3 Wtf r u on about? U have never met a person who's 44 in your entire life? And u r just suggesting he should keep them all because he's older. Buddy, this sounds like a definition of a snake. Wow.
@HONKEY Do you think been the snake has helped you in life ? I'm genuinely curious
False dichotoy. It's their fault, and if you were careless with letting in snakes into your life, your fault like it was mine when I did the same.
I excommunicated my entire family to follow Jesus. They're all fake. My mom tried to seduce me. Had to leave that house ASAP. Now I live alone in Asia, because my wife betrayed me, since she weas a gold digger. I was so stupid. I hate myself, but I have some potential left, to live right, after being wrong all of my life (but not in every way wrong).
@@zamihassan4434 There's the short run, and then there's eternity. "What we do in life, echoes in eternity."
I find that your friendship is tested when you’re at your worst. I was there for them at their worst, but not in return. I learned it the hard way when my dad died. I received condolences from them, but none of them came to his wake. I never forgave them for that.
The Same happen to me i will never forgive them ever..Thank You For Your message!
Love Your Self First !Trust nobody!
If you cant get real friends,sometimes its better to have fake friends.
I think we all know who our real friends are.
You,r right but the teeneager,s and introverted must now this truth
Never ever. You only need 1 real friend and this is u.
@@dannyd1987 You need people to point out your mistakes. It is incredibly hard to find all of them yourself. But if you have no friends, being alone is usually best.
Gonna be honnest, I always chose to be alone instead of being with bad/fake friends thats why I always spent most of my time alone or with my family, I used to do stuff with "friends" (just people with same interest not friends) once in a while but always chose to do most alone cuz I never saw yet someone that deserve 100% of my trust and that will always have my back. This video is 100% true and in today's world its going to take a while before finding people like this. Looking Further if I find good friends. Thank you for the video man
I myself am mostly alone now, a lone wolf without friends after highschool. The reason for that is mostly cause I was going at bars drinking and causes some problems that ended up with me getting stabbed in my elbow. 2nd problem was getting into a random fight with romes. Basic black people on the streets without education, and after that fight I was mostly targeted at my work place since the job wasn't that far from their houses, also they were always coming to that shop so yeah, I chose to quit that job(one of the many reasons why I did) to keep the peace and my balls intact cause I knew some day they wouldn't allow cameras and other civilians keep them from giving me what I gave them that day
Fake friends feel like they need to be above you in order to help or pay you back for the things they owe you. Fake friends always like to sweet talk to you, and always have to remind you what a good friend you are. Fake friends always leech off your ideas and knowledge; make you feel like you're talking nonsense and don't really take you seriously. When they take these ideas and knowledge to others and it is verified by them, they come back to you and act like they are ones who came up with all these ideas and knowledge, then try to teach you what you already know. The act like you haven't brought up the crap coming out their mouths, and try to use you for more ideas and knowledge to benefit themselves.
Makes so much sense. I wished I had learned this a long time ago. I have learned the hard way of who my real friends were when my wife got sick with cancer and passed away 10 months later. I I thought I had lots of great friends (about 100) but it trickled down incredibly fast. All have fled, all have left when my life was crashing until 2 remained.
Sorry For your Loss 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Damn.
I stopped trying to make friends with people. Took me until after graduating from university to figure out it's futile.
But I'm still friendly with friendly acquaintances, but that is all they are. Nothing deep. Just the most superficial of relatinoships. Hi. Cute baby. It's gonna rain.
Me to I learned the hard way
@@scintillam_dei having friends is not a bad thing when it comes being younger like teenager or a kid but once you get older as an adult friends not matter as much that’s my experience I don’t know
Sorry about the situation you are in. From my own experience, I found true the saying.....Blood is thicker than water. During my hard times, it is my family members who were there to support me in every way and not my "friends". But for me, it doesn't stop me from being friendly towards others; just that I am very aware of the fact that true friends are very rare.
No "friends" mean:
No worry of betrayal.
No worry of wasting resources, time, and loyalty on someone who won't reciprocate.
No worry of pissing people off.
No life also, its so sad seeing people being so frustrated and closehearted. Humans are social animals, we need others for our full potential and there is nothing wrong with it.
Do they even exist?
@@seetsamolapo5600 that’s what im asking myself after realizing what i thought were “ true friends “ to me betrayed me 😂
Lonely life
@@doncarleone334 it's a figment of your imagination
The types of friends I hate the most are the ones that always seem to go after the girls you go after, block your momentum when you're talking to a girl or just humiliate you to get an "edge" over you with a girl.
The most cancerous of its kind.
I'm 25 and was fighting my anxiety and depression from years due to various reasons but After exploring your channel my perspective and mentality has shifted drastically. I'm hitting the gym daily , working on my mental health and mission focused . Thank you for everything man ....I'm FAR FROM WEAK 🔥
Nice, i should do the same
No hate but were u medically diagnosed or just self claim?
@@idklol4708 who the hell cares.. You need a doctor to tell you to take care of yourself? You need a doctor to tell you when you feeling like shit or feeling happy? You need a doctor to tell you to eat? Your question is invalid.. Anxiety and depression comes from within, no doctor can even tell you how one is feeling mentally to even diagnose you in the first place. You people... smh LMAO
I remember when I was 15, I was having a conversation with my girlfriend at the time about friendship, telling her how friends are supposed to be proven and not everyone can be called friend. She told me I had way too high standards for people, denouncing my points and facilitating that this is the very reason or my loneliness...
man, the smile on my face when all of her friends either left her or betrayed her..
This video is good because the meaning of friendship has been lost upon our years, and a meaningful friendship is all but gone in this "fake" generation. I hope all who view this video better their choices in who they call "friend"
@racist guy You are completely right. I didn't have very high standards back then anyway because I just wanted to be "free" and feel "control". The relationship was long because we forced it to be, but it did not prosper. Every experience is a learning experience though and I'm not repeating that.
My guy had a gf when he was 15 meanwhile im still single in my 20's 😭
@@randomserbianguy5677 be thankful. I have an ex wife. Sex is not worth your soul.
I call a lot of people "friends", but it's just a facade to be nice, I wouldn't trust any of them with asking them what time it is.
@@Hussemo I'm less about the sex and more about the relationship aspect
"If you were to stop engaging in the activity or habit that made you friends, would you still be friends?" I think that this is the best summary of this video.
Man your videos always come at the right time. I spoke up for the Tates last week and lost a lot of „friends“. Im kind of proud of that. They were non achievers anyway. I felt like I was doing the right thing and you proved me right
People who hate on tater are often always losers in life who rather hate on anyone achieving better than them. It happened for a reason, they would likely have turned on you at some point and hate from a distance.
@@JohnDoe-pd4jo Absolutely bro. Happy there are people who think of the reality..we are very few in the system
@@JohnDoe-pd4jo it aint Tate that is being hated on, it is some of the things he says.
Like women not wanting men who use coupons. Wack shit like that. And the dude seems to be a total dick.
He has good points like strive to be better, but any dip can say that.
Right on the point. That's why friends leave you when you're no longer rich or doing what they like, it's all about with benefits
You are not a true friend if you got someones back when they are struggling or when something has gone wrong with them. you are a true friend, a true brother if you are by their side Every single milisecond of every year. If you never switched sides atleast for 0.1 miliseconds. Then you are a true friend. A true brother.
Forget about friends, don't betray yourself! Work on keeping your promises and hold yourself accountable when you don't follow through. If people can't respect that they were never your friend to begin with!
"People are often shocked to discover that their closest friends or their nearest relatives really did not support the emergence of Knowledge or their entertaining deeper questions about their lives and about the world. They were such good friends on a personal level, but beyond that level, they had so little in common. It is as if they didn't really know each other at all. They only shared interests and hobbies and simple innocuous dialogue, but beyond that there was not a deeper connection between them."
A quote from the most important book about preparing our inner and outer lives for the difficult times coming over the horizon. It's titled - _The Great Waves of Change_ by Marshall Vian Summers, and along all his other work, it's free online for everyone to read.
Thank you for this.
Thank you!
2 friends is better than a thousand contacts. I took The Steps to Knowledge and A course in Miracles. I like the Steps better, Less abstract.
My best friend backstabbed me for a guy who didn't even like her
That's one of the worse pains I'm sorry she did that to you bro
@@agingwarrior5296 yup this would make the 2nd chick who burned me for a dude. It's fresh and it sucks to start off the new year with my bf cheating on me and loosing my best friend on top of the guy i was good friends with.
Yes, I have 1 true friend. We can not see each other for months and our relationship will stay the same. No dipping down.
He tells me when I'm lacking in my self-improvement journey. He's the type of person that doesn't tolerate disrespect and would back me up in a fight.
We've been friends for 5 years and a half and he's more trustworthy than any of my previous friends combined.
This is why I say: "Keep your enemies close, but your friends closer" having taken people in on their lowest and being stabbed in the back taught me to keep more tabs on them than an enemy.
I respect the raw blunt truth you're spitting.
when i heard "someone you only play games with ISNT your friend" my whole reality shattered and i started crying
Black Beard is literally the textbook definition of a snake.
I wouldn't be surprised if he was the main person through this video.
He buttered up Whitebread's crew and even called bro his dad, only to do the worst crime imaginable when it comes to pirates, killing their crewmates, not only that.
He also stole the Dark Dark Fruit from Thatch and then dashed.
It's one thing to lie to people (Blackbeard kept this lie up for years, he told Ace he didn't want anything but in reality he wanted much more)
But he murdered someone, which is unforgivable because Marco (Thatch's brother I believe) not only lost him but the entirety of the Whitebread Pirates.
So Marco basically lost his family.
“He lied announcing he wanted nothing, yet in reality, he wanted much more” profound explanation, and deeply disturbing as it is profound
this is so deep play despacito
2:00 so true...i chose a friend based on his ability, & ignored his faults.
--i was backstabbed due to our values disagreeing...in the end i loss financialy & mentally.
(REALITY IS BRUTAL!!!)
3:30:ACTIVITY OF REAL FRIENDS...
5:18 MY FAKE FRIEND
7:00 Good people= Good friends...
Man this just happened on new year's eve. My good friend smoked weed for the first time and started saying nasty stuff and making fun of me. I didn't smoke. He said he's under influence and this is not the real him. I didn't buy that excuse. I didn't expect him to become so rude after smoking. I think I'm done hanging out with him.
Sometimes I feel like the realest friends are either far away or waiting to be found.
I had the same tight knit group of homies from age 14 to age 31. In the matter of 2 years, after I turned 32, I lost them all. Either due to death or betrayal, all 5 of my closest friends of the last 16 yrs were gone, permanently, from my life. I am now 35, and have entirely friendless for 3 years, I had a daughter, am raising her right, and she filled that void for me. It will always leave me feeling empty though, so many memories shared with ghosts. This video is *Incredibly Well Done* and I applaud its creator while standing to attention. Thank you for this. "There is no Snake in the grass, only a *Fool."* honestly, I needed to hear that. My friendships were all based around drugs an alcohol, this video makes too much sense to me personally. Never take a day for granted, been sober 3 years 💪.fuck Friends, ONLY Family.
Immediate family perhaps. Even my relatives have stuck the proverbial knife in my back.
@@mastersequence5838 agreed 👍
Definitely needed to watch this I can literally feel everyone’s intentions before they even say anything can’t get comfortable with no one !
I don't have friends. Never had any since childhood. Growing up my momma always reminded that I don't have friends. Everytime she asked where I'm going and I'd reply with "Just going with friends" she'd say you have no friends. I used to hate hearing that but deep inside I knew they're not my friends. All I ever wanted was friends but now that im more mature and went through many hardships all on my own I'm so happy with my own company.
I have no friends, AND I excommunicated my family. My mom treid to seduce me. My life is crazy. ... When I lived with my then-wife, I couldn't do what I wantedj sometiems to not upset her out of consideration for her, but now that I'm alone again, I listen to whatever I want as long as it's not too loud to be annoying for the neighbours to hear despite the thought not being mutual.
Solitude is so peaceful. I much prefer it to being around selfish monsters called people, which only the overwhelming majority are, not all.
@@scintillam_deiWAIT A MINUTE YOUR MOM TRY TO SEDUCE YOU HOLY CRAP!!!
I just realized, i have no real friends. This day has made it all too clear. You just opened my eyes man. Thank you
Mentally it helped me when I realized that the betrayal I experienced from "friends " was my fault. Gotta be wiser.
100%the thoughts i had with 14 and it's heartbreaking seeing so many not realizing that until their deaths. To many ppl don't think abt what their principles are and if they stand up for them and keep their inner code/rules and dont betray themselves. Only if you follow your own made up rules, you can be proud of yourself, and it's hard to find ppl with the same or similar thoughts and rules /principles
Nomatter where.. When it comes to moral things you should never expect more, that you can effort or do yourself
He said it all guys, we never have true friends once hard choice has to be made.
Its better to stay alone until you find someone who is real😊
I had a Yu-Gi-Oh "friend" that I've known since high-school. We pretty much stopped being friends after we stopped playing Yu-Gi-Oh together. He became homeless because he pissed his family off, he lost all his Yu-Gi-Oh cards and actually had the nerve to threaten my family by saying he would come over to my house and take my cards. I cut him off after he said that. I saw him today, still homeless, pushing around a shopping cart.
Unfortunately, I haven't really been able to make any friends in my life based on shared virtues. Most of my friendships are based around board games and tabletop RPGs. They are good friendships and I do enjoy their time, but realistically, if we stopped doing those things together, the friendship crumbles very quickly.
Mankind is shit.
I already got betrayed by those who I thought were going to stay with me forever.
Same ..
Ironic, he could save others from treason, but not himself.
So to my fellow human beings, always be careful with who you become friends with
I heard a quote from somewhere which said:
A friend to who tells you other peoples secrets is not a friend to trust.
Same as if someone talks nice about you in front of you but also says bad things about others in front of you.
If you want to see your fake friends, tell them about your goals and see their facial expressions. They'll try as hard as they can to act happy for you but nature will play it's cause
Lol lowly people always does this just laugh and brush it off
I love how accurately he uses the clips at the right moment... respect to the guy who makes these videos
Yessir & nobody’s even talking bout it, including how his toon, there’s always a scene to properly explain what he’s saying. 👏
I dont have any trust on friends now , people only use you for their benefits and once its done they will act weird .
here are we now you are the one who betrayed us
True
What happened?
This got recommended to me literally 2 Days after I got left and kicked out by a toxic friend group. This will help alot.
I don’t even have friends bro
same
Your better off without. It always ends in betrayal
I met some guy in school 5 years ago and he was very relatable and shared some of my traits. We quickly became close friends and considered each other brothers. Until i realized he didn't prioritize me like i did him. He left to another country but we kept up on discord. Until he met a girl online that ruled his mind. He was toxic unauthentic and a real asshole after that. He would ghost me for months and i would track him down from old school friends (i had left a year after we met). he would apologize and this went back and forth for about 8-10 times. Eventually i left him for good and don't trust anyone for friends anymore.
Character development eh?
Romantic relationships can affect teenager friendships very much. This problably being his first thing with a girl its very normal that he thought giving her all the attencion in the world would keep her. I've done this like many people did. Getting toxic on the other hand is something rude and shows that that person is immature. But this is life and I am sure he will understand his fault one day. This usually happens after seeing girls dump men that give all the attencion and make them the center of their world.
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He don't deserve you
Same. I have some of them as well, until they found a "good" job and started to avoid me. I be like "hey, I have my own business too. Am I that poor to you?". Tried to chat with them about any topics but no response so I called it off. And never look back, no matter what happened. Sometimes I met my former classmates, said hi and then just excuse myself.
I feel theres more to this story
As someone who has never had friends
I see this a absolute win
Me also complete introvert 💀
Since growing old (mid 50s) I don't expect full-blown friendship, even from nice people. It's something that can develop, but it's so rare that it's an unrealistic expectation, and if you are pushy about it - you're more likely to get fake-friended. Also others have a right to "watch you", for as long as they want, (introverts take the longest) without any type of pressure to friend past their comfort level. Pushiness in this area will breed contempt, so that you won't even get 'associate level acquaintance' (which is kinda the goal, with a wait n see approach)
I use to be the one everyone picked on I was the lowest "rank" in the friend group ( I know it sounds corny but that's the easiest way I can explain it) I never had anyone to turn to, at school when we got into trouble I was the only one who wouldn't rat them out I always tried my best to keep them safe but when it came to them, they had no problem sticking up for each other but would always snitch or even put all the blame on me, it hurts knowing I've never had someone to watch my back, but I've been watching these kind of videos and it has helped a lot I've been working out changing from my old ways, I've even been working for my father who makes somewhat great money I dont think I would still be alive if I never watched these kind of videos, thank you so much for helping me want to change my life, much love from Germany
Word of advice.. Don’t ever put yourself in a relationships with “Friends” them niggaz was never your friend. Game recognize game. For example a real friend won’t leave you at a bar/club by yourself if “Words” were exchanged. And a real 1 will never try to humiliate you around women ( That’s Law) & another 1 cause I personally dealt with this. If your so called “Friend” always tryna roast etc when it’s a crowd etc he don’t fwy. Someone who genuine, will not do that lame stuff to ridicule u for cheap laughs & 🧢🧢 saying they j/p but it’s always at your expense. Nobody else expense. God bless & stay on your purpose 💯💪🏾✌🏾
For Luck.......when you say you are of the lowest rank, in the field of psychology, it means you are at the lowest of the pecking order of your social group. Anyway be positive minded and be very observant to find out why it is so, and then try to correct the situation. I believe it starts with you first loving yourself and treating yourself very well. Then you will start to have self dignity and self respect which will emanate to others. Also be wise in your dealings with all relationships. Analyse and see how you can improve them.
Before I had fake friends, but because I have surrendered myself to God and have faith in Him, He gave me real friends, so I thank my Lord afterwards and continue to praise Him, amen
I went into this video expecting the narrative of "real friendships are impossible and you'll never have real friendships so don't trust anyone" but the real point of it is just: don't blindly accept any person as your friend and learn to critically think about the relationships you have with other people. I do actually have a close circle of 3-4 friends, who are more like family to me than anything. Everyone else I would consider "friends". We don't hang out outside of situations where we're kind of "forced together", whether it be work, classes, etc., and we don't really like, talk about deeply personal shit ever.
Watching this made me realize, that even that 3 friends of mine are real, hardcore friends, thank you!
I have one real friend, a brother
we share the same principles, we always fight for each other no matter if it's a teacher or the whole class if he gets hurt, i get hurt too and vice versa
we push each other to be more successful and we teach each other
i could trust him in the hardest time and he never turned his back on me
Enjoy that friendship, its something unique
@@samueltorres3271facts! 💯
I have a lot of real friends. I have been making connections with people who are a lot welcoming and they gave me the opportunity to get involved in volunteering works, they help me build as a person, and they are there for me when I am down. I do have friends who aren't right for me and I am still in the progress of cutting ties with them. It's all about pointing out green flags and red flags. People can't JUST be your friend.
I finally found true friends, after years of hanging out with people that were my so called "friends," but would talk behind my back, be condescending, and lie to me. Those aren't friends.
you can have a good group of friends that hang out with you even after highschool and it all just fades away. 5 'true friends' you can count on, still can fade away.
Don't be hesitant to also reach out to rekindle that friendship.
That's not easy to do. People are so complex. I'm an example. Every guy I know always simps for the girl and gets manipulated by them. Nobody likes having honest conversations about how friendships can be improved because everyone have ego that makes them stubborn.
I was lucky. I had two best friends nah brothers really. Face life or death many times and had each other back til our last breath. Also shared same values and moral beliefs. Unfortunately I lost one to gun violence in 2020 and lost the other to suicide the following year. It made 2022 really hard for me but after the sadness and anger, I smiled and laughed from all my good memories of them. Now I’m doing better than I ever have in life because I feel I owe it to them to live the life I was blessed to keep. To those who need to hear it, If you’re lucky to be alive and not have mental struggles you need to take advantage of your blessings in move forward❤ much love
I'm so sorry for your loss. Cherish them they were gifts. Not everyone gets to know it.
❤ thanks for your valuable comment.
I’m praying for you bloody. May Allah forgive them for they sins and yours as well. I know how that shit feel bro. I’m getting hot typing this out. Be safe gang
Realistically, I think the bad ones at the start can lead to a friendship, if they turn down, but the good ones at the start end up leading to the bad ones.
Want to avoid those?
Simple, just don't get into any relationships like dating and friendship this is the risk you might get in the end.... Betrayal...
So better walk path of life alone than with someone you don't know you can trust or not
Sometimes being a loner is better than having friends in this society
Unfortunately other people can drastically speed up your process of growth if they are good for you.
The Western world is a failed society! Andrew Tate!