Life Update...it's been tough 💔

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
  • Hey guys
    Just felt like sitting down and catching you up on life. I know a lot of you are going through so much yourself, and I want you to know that you are not alone.
    We're all trying to find our light and we will, someday...
    I love you
    Xx
    I see your support and it means so much to be and baby.

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  • @SUGARCosmetics
    @SUGARCosmetics ปีที่แล้ว +1831

    Sending you love, strength & best wishes.. Take care, Mals ❤️

    • @nessienaisty8362
      @nessienaisty8362 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow

    • @TheKatChat47
      @TheKatChat47 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💕💕💕

    • @ppositivity
      @ppositivity ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Wow...such nice gesture and empathy by brands,collabs

    • @gurpreetbhatt8208
      @gurpreetbhatt8208 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      what happen to her
      is she broke up with akhil
      ??????????

    • @sweta2u
      @sweta2u ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@gurpreetbhatt8208 yes

  • @shirleysetia
    @shirleysetia ปีที่แล้ว +422

    Malvika..
    Big biggggg tightt hug !!!
    Sending you all the strength and positivity 🤍

  • @mywayfernweh
    @mywayfernweh ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I’m not a regular subscriber to your content but just wanted to drop by and say that your handling this with dignity and grace is going to be exemplary and give strength to a lot of women. Healing isn’t linear, I don’t think people realise this.
    I wish you and your child the best.

  • @anitadsouza8982
    @anitadsouza8982 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    “Your light is coming , I promise you .” These were powerful words .
    I wish that for every person who needs this . And you Malz .

    • @nori9779
      @nori9779 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Back at You too❤

    • @shivangipandey9029
      @shivangipandey9029 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanxs for sharing 😊..needed that..

  • @mrinal_agarwal
    @mrinal_agarwal ปีที่แล้ว +223

    She looked so lost throughout the video, like I could tell her mind was deviating to everything that's happening. I wish you all the love Mals and I'm so proud of you. You'll be the best mom to your kid ❤

    • @indiabharat5005
      @indiabharat5005 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In camera people can act not sure

  • @leezadamodaran1095
    @leezadamodaran1095 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Oh my God...when you looked right into the camera and said "You watching me... I know you are going through something." For a micro-second, I felt that we are sitting together and discussing our problems!
    Heal baby. Heal. Stay strong. ❤️❤️🧿

  • @ruthvipanchal603
    @ruthvipanchal603 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I stopped the video midway to tell you that Mals you are literally one of the strongest people I've ever seen. I myself see so much of shit happen between my parents and it literally has traumatised me but seeing you speak about these issues and being a guiding light really gave me goosebumps like you're going through a hard time and still you decide to come up here and talk to us and tell us about your life when you would've not cared and just shut down yourself, you're such a brave human do you know that? It takes so much courage to talk to people when you're going through such difficult times as anything can be a trigger. I appreciate you so much my love, I really pray and hope that you and all the other people suffering from difficult times find peace and light. You're going to achieve a lot of new things and unlock a lot of new levels while you go through this process of life. You're gonna be an incredible mother my love :') 💗💗💗💗 I love you so much Mals, it's all gonna fall into its place soon. Just hold on. Take care of yourself and don't worry okay? You got all of us! 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 I hope nothing but peace, prosperity and healing comes your way 💗💗💗💗 Love you! 💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @katedeanworld
    @katedeanworld ปีที่แล้ว +90

    The way you said “everybody is going through something, you who’s watching.” I really felt it. You’re a very strong woman keep going the same. You’re truly an inspiration. I learned so much from you today. Thank you! ❤️ I will pray for you everything will be okay just stay this positive forever. Much love.

  • @anupriyaveda3550
    @anupriyaveda3550 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Even after going through so much, it was therapeutic to hear you Malvika. I have an exam tomorrow and listening to you made me feel so light and calm

  • @kaumadeemaneesha38
    @kaumadeemaneesha38 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    This comment section is the definition of " Whatever you give out, will come back to you" ❤
    You have created a genuine community for yourself.

    • @TheKatChat47
      @TheKatChat47 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Exactly .. I felt so happy to see a community of women with love, empathy, and motivation

    • @anishamahanty2034
      @anishamahanty2034 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes yes true!! Malvika is the first influencer I loved! God, she has come such a long way.

  • @harshitabhandari1186
    @harshitabhandari1186 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I can’t emphasize enough how much strength and power this video radiates. I can’t even imagine what your nights would look like. I always looked up to you, but my respect has reached limits. Being pregnant, and going through all this is so difficult.
    I know you will come out of this stronger, but just so you know, you’re an inspiration. I know every time i feel weak in life, this video and you will be my strength. Thank you for this mMals. You’re indeed one of the strongest women I know

  • @nidhideoli
    @nidhideoli ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Our Light is Coming!! Just needed to hear this...all the world's strength to you, Malvika! 💝

  • @ARS1508
    @ARS1508 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    I know you mean well when you said every breakup is the same but please don’t understate your pain. A decade long relationship and a marriage ending at the time when you’re heavily pregnant. This has to be one of the worst kind/timing for a breakup. My respect for you has increased dramatically M. Absolutely in awe of your strength. Sending you and your little one all the love and light in the world!!

    • @taniyaguhathakurata7674
      @taniyaguhathakurata7674 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Most men cheats during when their partner is pregnant..

    • @hnhnhn797
      @hnhnhn797 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@taniyaguhathakurata7674He cheated on her?

    • @gurpreetbhatt8208
      @gurpreetbhatt8208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@taniyaguhathakurata7674 what are u saying yrr ???????????????

    • @taniyaguhathakurata7674
      @taniyaguhathakurata7674 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gurpreetbhatt8208 yes they do

    • @taniyaguhathakurata7674
      @taniyaguhathakurata7674 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hnhnhn797 i never comment on him ..i said in general I dnt kno them personally

  • @VintageLatte
    @VintageLatte ปีที่แล้ว +41

    She's so strong. She is breaking inside but still smiling for us . Love you💖

  • @js170886
    @js170886 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Its very brave to be talking about healing while healing. Loved the talk and the eyes ! sending lots of good vibes.

  • @fouziafathima192
    @fouziafathima192 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    This is a therapy session for every broken heart.. u r awesome & that baby is gifted to have such a strong mum ❤️ 💙 💖 ♥️ thank u for this mals..

  • @aanchaljaiswal2823
    @aanchaljaiswal2823 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Girl you have some real strength. I had gone through a bad divorce and i know how pathetic it feels. No words can describe that feeling. However its been 3.5 years since the separation and now i am at better place mentally and emotionally. Everything happens for a right reason. You will come to know once you have healed. More power and prosperity to you Malvika. You are stronger than you think. Wish you all the success and happiness. You deserve the best!!!

  • @anumhussain5103
    @anumhussain5103 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    As someone who went through a separation with someone I thought was end all be all, it takes such a huge toll on your emotional and mental wellbeing. It gets better but I think we ourselves have to make it better. Lots of love to you. YOU’VE GOT THIS TOO! ❤

  • @shreyakhannadoodles451
    @shreyakhannadoodles451 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Honestly to come up here and speak about this without breaking down tells how strong you are. It’s your life- take all the time you need- feel all the feelings. Life is a roller coaster for everyone. You do you ❤ wishing you grace always 🌻 it’s all going to make sense someday!

  • @saipriyakiranshet
    @saipriyakiranshet ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I never expected that your smile on face has been covering so much of emotional suffering from inside. Mals, I have been your subscriber on and off since 6 years. And I just love you the way you are!! But today, you raised your worth in my eyes by boldly sharing all that you are going through...!! It really takes a lot for any public figure to give all such information with so much courage!! We all love you and we all support you!! Let's create more content of makeup, self-care, motivation and real life stuff.. I love you alot more now!!

  • @chandreyeemukherjee381
    @chandreyeemukherjee381 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This video have me so much strength, I cannot even. Women are strong. They are extremely strong-headed and can literally go through anything without showing it externally. It is heartbreaking and beautiful at the same time. Your wonderful baby is going to have the best momma in the entire world. I just wish you all the happiness and health. Love and hugs. I have saved up this video so that I can come back to it once in a while, to save myself!! :)✨️❤️

  • @subhalaxmi111
    @subhalaxmi111 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    I am in my 30 still unmarried.Trying to settle my career.I am still not completely independent but you have inspired me in alot of ways.I have started working digitally.Your every word gave me wings.❤️

    • @said5824
      @said5824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here , living in the present!

    • @ekrasayyed2455
      @ekrasayyed2455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sameee

    • @Lakshmipriya-hc1wm
      @Lakshmipriya-hc1wm ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I m 32 this yr..m single. I am financially settled but I am very careful when it comes to marriage specially in this Era where ppl are all about showoff .. big wedding without focusing on the basics of marriage .

    • @kabitakashyap709
      @kabitakashyap709 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Lakshmipriya-hc1wm same here

    • @christinal4158
      @christinal4158 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending you love and strength

  • @amulyaguduri6277
    @amulyaguduri6277 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Never commented on a video like this but WOMAN !!! You are one of the strongest women I’ve seen. The pain is tremendous but your strength is 1000x more than that. The storm shall pass. We're all praying for you and the bebe❤️

  • @shrabanamajumdar5774
    @shrabanamajumdar5774 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Just watched this video... Not a regular follower of Malvika but still I watch her content every now and then. She is really good at what she does. It's great to see that she is so self aware and graciously accepting of times when life gives you lemons. All I want to tell her is 'this too shall pass'. Stay strong dear.

  • @hamnahjujara3035
    @hamnahjujara3035 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    This was the elder sister talk you didn't know you needed
    Thank you, Malz. Lots of love. You're carrying the pain very bravely. I'm proud❤

  • @sharmisthadey1307
    @sharmisthadey1307 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Well I am just 20. I lost my dad recently it's been 6 months. Well it's tough I recently moved to Delhi with my mom. Most days my mom stays in the hospital because recently we found out she has kidney failures. I am not writing this for any kind of attention. But just to make you feel that I understand what you are going through the heartbreak, the trauma and everything in between. But i hope and pray that it gets better for you mals. Most days I don't even remember my dad but on ther days it gets tough mostly the night when you have no one to talk to and I am an only child doesn't have any siblings of that sort 😍. But anyway it's going to be fine Mals 💜

    • @SuperRiya16
      @SuperRiya16 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You too stay strong dear!

    • @vaishali_21
      @vaishali_21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know wat to right but I just pray to God 🙏 for your mommy to be healthy and have a very good life a head 🤲😇😇stay strong ❤❤ everything will be good😊

    • @khushimalhotra2127
      @khushimalhotra2127 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending good vibes and positivity 🤗🤗🤗

    • @shrutis6320
      @shrutis6320 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lots of strength and power to you, I'm proud of you love 🤍

    • @baileytales7207
      @baileytales7207 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be strong honey..watever happens happens for a reason..god be with you n ur mum

  • @tiinabbillimoria1937
    @tiinabbillimoria1937 ปีที่แล้ว +837

    A man who abandoned his kid and wife when they needed him the most for whatever reason needs to be dumped. Bravo Mals.

    • @fancyvogue3179
      @fancyvogue3179 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah Bravo ...tu b hogi koi divorcee....so keep it up

    • @SS-er9gw
      @SS-er9gw ปีที่แล้ว +104

      ​@@fancyvogue3179 it's nothing wrong to be a divorcee rather than staying in bad marriage and playing victim... Which I think you are??? Like you are judging others....

    • @fancyvogue3179
      @fancyvogue3179 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SS-er9gw You think I am in bad marriage 😂😂😂...n who do you think you are to think abt me...Am judging others?! N you are judging me 😂😂😂..divorces are so trending n hyped as if it is something to be proud of..you are going to be divorced soon I knw.. that's y your butt's hurt ovr my comment..

    • @mahakmonkey
      @mahakmonkey ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@fancyvogue3179 baat karne ki tameez hi nahi hai tujhe toh bilkul

    • @fancyvogue3179
      @fancyvogue3179 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mahakmonkey tameez konsi teri ma ki gaand li h ?Aai tameez sikhane...apne bap ko sikha jake

  • @nikitasharma9880
    @nikitasharma9880 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    You saved me at a point in my life where I was battling whether to live or not. You introduced me to makeup, you turned my life into something I'm proud of today without even knowing it. And today I just feel like if I could just give you a hug, if I could just bring you to my house and take care of you, spoil you, love you the same way I felt love from you through a phone's screen but I'm so relieved that you have support. I love you mals ❤️

  • @sheezakhan6729
    @sheezakhan6729 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I never usually comment on videos but I really want to give you the biggest virtual hug ever. I have watched your videos since I was 12 and watch you grow and explore your womanhood at different stages has given me so much strength and inspiration. I am also dealing with a heartbreak right now. I understand and relate to everything you said. And each time, you described how you felt. I was like me too!!! This felt like I was at home having a deep conversation with my big sister. Loads of love and healing energy to you. And kissies for the baby ❤

  • @zenblessed
    @zenblessed ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Mann she's the epitome of strength and bravery for me rn. So much going on and still getting the best of her out.
    Even i go through seasonal depression and I'd love to consume her content more coz just look at her... her mentality, her energy, her makeup, everything is bang on ✨✨✨
    I'd pray to God to send her loads of love and light💖😘

  • @houseofnails5847
    @houseofnails5847 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I recently gave birth 2 months back and I went through the same feeling of fear, uncertainty, not knowing what to do. You have also been going through a breakup and I can’t even imagine what it must have done to your mental health. I am so happy to see this video, seeing you come out and talk about it. All the love and support to you. Also I love your makeup videos. Keep spreading positivity. We love you ❤

  • @rheeaarai7915
    @rheeaarai7915 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It takes courage to be vulnerable & your real self after being in the public eye for so long. Honestly, this is the first time I am watching a life update video of yours & idk if you’d ever read this comment but for all it takes, I want to offer my respect & only respect to you for voicing your heart out. You’re truly an epitome of beauty if I may say. Sending trucks of love & kisses to the coming little toes & his/her nurturer. :’) ♥️

  • @antarajds
    @antarajds ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am not going to say, I am so sorry for you. I just am so excited for your fresh start, and I hope life gives you the best things you truly deserve. All the very best, Malvika!

  • @vibhutibatra9523
    @vibhutibatra9523 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Even through all the hardships, you're literally the most uplifting person!

  • @ayushimathur4334
    @ayushimathur4334 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You’re incredible Malvika. Incredible. The way you talked about your hardships, so graceful and kind. Thank you for this. Even the tone of your voice is so calm, I can’t even imagine what it must feel like.

  • @randombitts286
    @randombitts286 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You mentioned on your first kiss video that ... Akhil used to say " every relationship has an expiry date". That date for him happened when you were pregnant and needed him the most. I cant help judge him Mals! What ever the reason was.. he shouldn't have left you during this time even if you wanted him to leave he should have stayed until you delivered your baby. Srsly! You will survive this alone and we are proud of you! Sending all the love!!! ❤❤❤

  • @pujatripathi81
    @pujatripathi81 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Watching this for the third time because this motivation is what I needed I got married got pregnant with certain complications took medications throughout the pregnancy was on bedrest and caught up into a single bedroom ,faced domestic violence while I was 9 months pregnant got over all of it and delivered a baby boy on 13th Feb past month that is when I knew my baby is my world which shattered again on 22nd Feb as I lost my baby who was a ray of hope in my life and now I'm on same track as you are in my married life , first time I spoke about all of this felt better. Strength to everyone who is suffering!

    • @whisperwaves9930
      @whisperwaves9930 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      More strength to you. God bless and may you come out of this pain soon❤

    • @shilpisinghal5534
      @shilpisinghal5534 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      More strength to you. Follow your heart and you will get your light.

    • @ruchikasehgal6836
      @ruchikasehgal6836 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sending you love and strength

    • @TheKatChat47
      @TheKatChat47 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can overcome this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @snehlatasingh7303
      @snehlatasingh7303 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      More power to you. You are bravest my dear

  • @anujaanusikha3541
    @anujaanusikha3541 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am watching my own relationship break each day and it’s been 6 years and watching it crumble hurts. And to not have support is a lot. So this felt like there is someone out there. So THANK YOU 🫂♥️

  • @richagupta4666
    @richagupta4666 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Grieving is a process, remember it comes in waves! More love and power to you ❤

  • @shwetashreevlogs6408
    @shwetashreevlogs6408 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    hey... i started crying while watching you.... i could feel that pain.... the most beautiful thing you said was... "feel your feelings".... i used to follow your husband... saw his latest story , he is in Mysore and was talking about a soothing calming song.... well sis first of all I wanna say is ... WE ALL ARE WITH YOU.....regarding your husband.... I think whatever you both are going through is a part of your spiritual upliftment,... i am a tarot reader and a spiritual being as well... in fact we all are.... so take this period as a gateway to become the strongest version of yourself.... forgive him for is behaviour, whatever happened between both of you...the moment you forgive him and yourself for everything, the universe starts relocating everything on is actual place.... now i pray THAT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER MAY REALIZE EACH OTHER'S WORTH AND MAY RECONCILE AFTER BURNING AND RELEASING OUT ALL THE PAST BAGGAGES... MAY YOUR DIVINE BABY, RECONNECTS YOU AND HIM.... TRUST DIVINE... HE IS WITH ALL 3 OF YOU.... OM SAI RAM ❤ DIVINE MAGIC BEGINS NOW❤

  • @juhiramaiya2412
    @juhiramaiya2412 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Virtual hug to you, Malvika. You are going through tough times but things will get better, whatever you are going through, you will heal. It's time for new positive beginnings

  • @gaurisharma2478
    @gaurisharma2478 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    It's 3:23 am
    And I'm coming out of a 6 year relationship 🙂
    I can feel the pain in your eyes Mal
    But you'll feel ease. Hope it comes soon ❤️

    • @shrutisingh2303
      @shrutisingh2303 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Power to u ❤️

    • @aiman.k
      @aiman.k ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤🕊️

    • @Spgcustom
      @Spgcustom ปีที่แล้ว

      Well used

    • @hitanshibehl9459
      @hitanshibehl9459 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dear Gauri, I know it might feel the worst time possible, getting used to the fact you don't have anyone to wake up with a morning text but trust me it's one of the MOST LIFE CHANGING process. It's a new journey and Alot of smiles and laughter holds your way. Sending you lots of loves n kisses. Take care bud🤍

    • @gaurisharma2478
      @gaurisharma2478 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hitanshibehl9459 Thankyou for your kind words!😇

  • @thatsmooothskin
    @thatsmooothskin ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Everybody is going through pain when she said this I literally cried!! This is sooo real and the courage it takes to talk about all this..I could see at every sec it felt like she's gonna break but still holding herself ❤️❤️ May you heal day by day. Stay strong

  • @somyabisaria3274
    @somyabisaria3274 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Stay graceful & strong 🖤☀
    I have lost my husband last july, it is love marriage. I can understand how tough it is. Raise yourself and baby together ☀ I am a leo too ❤🐾🦁

  • @DebanjaniBhattacherjee
    @DebanjaniBhattacherjee ปีที่แล้ว +303

    I am just 30. I didn't buy a house. Thank you so much for this. I am 30 too and my family and everyone around me wants me to settle down with a house and husband don't know why. Buy a house, get married blah blah. Noone should judge like that seriously. Your video is inspiring. You are a strong lady and this shall too pass.

    • @sayanimatilal2848
      @sayanimatilal2848 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Same here giirlll.... Don't know why getting married is the only destination 🙄🙄

    • @montykodwate8669
      @montykodwate8669 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. 🙄

    • @aniketabiswas5783
      @aniketabiswas5783 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here yaar....😌😌😌

    • @miranda3
      @miranda3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here.

    • @Sandeep_kaur007
      @Sandeep_kaur007 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ya my parents are also pressurising me to get married because i m turning 31 this months.

  • @raccoon3357
    @raccoon3357 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ohmygod Malz the pain in your voice.
    I am teary as I say this but for the strength that you have, you will reach greater heights! Your baby is gonna be so proud of you and thank you one day for this Malzzz you got thissss
    I love you!!! All of us doooooo!!!!!

  • @alizahdaniel2163
    @alizahdaniel2163 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh what a brave and courageous mother your baby is gonna have! ❤❤…… Congratulations on that.. and let there be light is my prayer for you… Lots of love and more strength to you!!

  • @Priya3
    @Priya3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Your child will be so proud of you one day when they see this video as a reminder of their mother's courage and strength. You are truely an inspiration to all. May god bless you.

    • @nirmalaprachande7567
      @nirmalaprachande7567 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yess , INDEED an INPIRATION SHE IS❤️

    • @hnhnhn797
      @hnhnhn797 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@nirmalaprachande7567 why did they breakup

  • @losthappy972
    @losthappy972 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You radiate so much power, strength and positivity in this video. Wish u and the lil one all the luck and love on this new journey.

  • @dearpriyanka
    @dearpriyanka ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I personally feel everything happened for a reason, a good reason. your baby 👼🏻 will bring lots of happiness in your and your family’s life. Praying best for you ❤

  • @priy8380
    @priy8380 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “Everyone’s going through pain.” This is so true. The world needs a little bit more kindness. ❤️

  • @uditirohilla5714
    @uditirohilla5714 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I just don’t know what to say. I am SHOCKED
    All I want to do is give you a Tight Hug Malvika
    I feel you girl and I wish to the God to give you all the strength in this world and all the love and support you and your baby deserve ❤

    • @uditirohilla5714
      @uditirohilla5714 ปีที่แล้ว

      You literally made me cry girl and I can not even imagine how you are coping up with all this
      I have seen you since so many years, admired you and loved your attitude towards life
      I am so proud that you are fighting for it and learning self love more
      More power to you Malvika ❤

  • @namithaanand-qh7uw
    @namithaanand-qh7uw ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh man, so sorry for this. But you’re handling this so well & setting a great example whilst growing a baby, you’ll make a great mummy!! I pray and hope for the best things for you and your fam❤

  • @sakhshepeer2818
    @sakhshepeer2818 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I don’t know how you got the courage to speak up about this. This is huge man. I’ve never seen someone so strong in my life. If I were you, it would have taken me years to face the world and actually speak about it without breaking.
    Hats off to you. You are a strong woman and a true inspiration for anyone who is struggling with a dark phase in their lives.
    More power to you❤

  • @priyankaravi4562
    @priyankaravi4562 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    Now I understand why all her pregnancy videos are filled with sadness. Used to wonder this girl has everything going for her yet she is always sad, now able to understand the pain behind the smile. More strength to you. Remember, this too shall pass!

    • @thaasinnoushad937
      @thaasinnoushad937 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So trueb😢

    • @chitsme
      @chitsme ปีที่แล้ว +28

      So true.. I felt that too.. Now I understand she was going through all alone... When she was to be pampered. She was left all alone..
      Mals u r very strong... 😘😘😘

    • @yukta6968
      @yukta6968 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes❤

    • @inayaakhatri5651
      @inayaakhatri5651 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What happened .। Please explain

    • @thaasinnoushad937
      @thaasinnoushad937 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She has parted ways with her husband

  • @khushisapkale5377
    @khushisapkale5377 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thankyou for making this video
    I personally was going through bad phase where I had constant self doubts, breakdowns in the middle of the day and so many sleepless nights. After hearing you out, it has given me the will and strength that it’s okay to feel this way and look on the brighter side💛
    I wish you all the best in life🌸💕

  • @sush0509
    @sush0509 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Just hold on Malvika. I can imagine how tough it must be for you. You are such a strong woman and I am so proud of you.
    I have been going through a similar situation in my life, married for 8 and a half years, having a 3 and a half year old baby and no support from my husband as he doesn't want to earn, lives with his parents. Its been tough for me since the last 4 yrs but I am still trying to navigate between work, baby and responsibilities. I am thankful to my parents who have been extremely supportive. Lots of love to you and baby ❤️

    • @meghadalvi8685
      @meghadalvi8685 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi... it's great to know story of women like you. I am in same situation. My baby just 10 days old and i had terribly painful pregnancy period. I maneged all alone without husband support. He abundant me as soon as i got pregnant. Its emotionally stressful to be cheated

    • @anitagond9522
      @anitagond9522 ปีที่แล้ว

      i cnt dare to wtch d whole vd cn pllzz ny1 tell me d reason bhnd der seprtn pllzzz

  • @sc1253
    @sc1253 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hi Malvika . First off you are a brave , honest woman who is bravely holding herself amidst this tough season of your life . Your courage & grace needs to be applauded . My best wishes to you & your little one 🫰❤️. Let there be light ✨

  • @dobhalrishika95
    @dobhalrishika95 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A Leo woman ♌ once again proving that she got it all. You're a god's child ❤️ All the love & happiness coming your way soonest ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ann-so9yp
    @Ann-so9yp ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Malvika, you spoke to me. You literally made me cry. I've been going through a lot of inner battles and conflicts too the last year or so. And been on the hunt for contentment, like you said. This felt like talking to a girlfriend that GETS IT. Thank you. Even though you might never read this, even though I don't know you personally, I felt seen and heard and validated and I appreciate it. I hope you find contentment and henceforth happiness very soon. I wish the same for everyone here. 🥺💜

  • @jasminekalsi1169
    @jasminekalsi1169 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Can’t really believe what you just told, it’s sad but you are very strong just like your mom. I am proud of you!! Strong mothers raise stronger kids and yours is going to be strongest ❤sending you love and blessings

  • @sk06007
    @sk06007 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Malvika I am sooo shocked with all the strentgh and positivity you are filled with despie what you've been through idk how you have the strength to show in front of the camera and be there for whoever is facing this problem. Seperation can be terrible and to hear that you and your mother both are going through the same is what is the saddest part for the family but you are here talking with us having a baby in you stomach you are soo brave your baby is soo lucky and blessed to have you. YOU MAMA HAVE STRENGTH

  • @monisha6592
    @monisha6592 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I firstly just want to say thank you for sharing all of this cause it will help everyone struggling currently! Just know we as a community are here for you and God will definitely help you. He has a plan for your life he is in control ✨

  • @abbyg8360
    @abbyg8360 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You know, you’re literally like a sister I never had. You’re such a personable and a genuine influencer. No naatak nothing. Simply genuine. There’s no one like you Mals, literally no one. But something tells me, your best is yet to come. You have no idea how much I’ve learned from you. It’s only onwards and upwards from here. I’ll always think about you. I love you BBG ❤

  • @vaishalisrivastava_
    @vaishalisrivastava_ ปีที่แล้ว +176

    I remember myself just sleeping for hours to escape the reality. It was really tough for me. My parents knew something was wrong but my father did not handle it very well on the other hand my mother always supported me. If she wasn’t there I don’t know if I would have come out that pain I was feeling. It really turned my life upside down. And one most important thing that I realised during that period that your mental peace is above anyone any relationship and anything for that matter. Your inner peace is the most important thing.

    • @yourstrulybooks
      @yourstrulybooks ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dealing with the same thing, no one understands my pain. Everyone be like u will heal , have patience. But its hard, its hurts a lot..😢😢😢😢

    • @yourstrulybooks
      @yourstrulybooks ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vaishalisrivastava_ fake promises, fake love, fake care, everything fake...whenever i think of it, i cry, i cry like a mad woman. I don't understand this why would anyone lie sooooo much. And then leave you and insult you like you never existed. Sometimes i want to cut open my chest and want to throw away heart. This heart has given me more pain than love. 😞😞😞

    • @yourstrulybooks
      @yourstrulybooks ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vaishalisrivastava_ more power and healing to you love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @vaishalisrivastava_
      @vaishalisrivastava_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yourstrulybooks Just remember All you have now is you. You can’t let yourself get lost. It take years to find yourself again and sometimes no matter how much you want to be that old person again you can’t be that, and sometimes you have to accept that “NEW YOU”. I tried so hard to find myself and be that old person I was before then I realised I have to make peace with NEW ME. That’s what it is. That’s who I am now.

    • @vaishalisrivastava_
      @vaishalisrivastava_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yourstrulybooks to you too girl . Sending you hugs 🫂

  • @trendingnow126
    @trendingnow126 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    she said all this in soft voice , that itself feels like hope, its just nice to be kind to everyone , you just dont know what they are going/growing through.

  • @withlovejb
    @withlovejb ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I needed this today. Thank you malz🤍 how I was isolating myself because of my mental health from last year and seeing this video I realized how some people have it all so much more bad than me but still they are working and getting themselves out with battling inside. Thanks for inspiring me to get out of my comfort or rather say escape zone and work hard irrespective of everything. Put myself out there and stop running away from my feelings and thoughts. Lots of love to you and your baby😘 you are one strong girl becoming a stronger mother. 💜

  • @Nand_Snowwhite
    @Nand_Snowwhite ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have been watching you for more than 3 years. Your personality is incredible and I always saw you like a super women and you are. Talking about myself, my childhood was with my mother alone looking 3 kids in rented house. It was tough. Now we enjoy our little moments and praise how strong we were when we were at that time. I saw you grown up alone with your mother and siblings. They are gems. I pray for your feelings your baby your mother and a fresh start🥰Long way to go✌

  • @bhumishah7345
    @bhumishah7345 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    There is so much pain I can feel in your voice when something so dear to you just falls apart & you cannot control it but you know what, feel it, embrace it, be broken because broken is also beautiful when it's real! Just do everything that keeps you sane & keeps you going! So proud of you ❤️ Mamma malz has a long way to go 🌟

  • @anokhasalson2396
    @anokhasalson2396 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are so strong! I just saw your video in my recommendation and played it randomly, and its my first time in this channel, but instantly this randomly played video hit so hard!!! LITERALLY YOU ARE SO STRONG!!
    Your words have made me too believe that very soon life is going to get lighter. I pray God keep you and your baby the happiest in the world. Your kid is going to be sooo proud of you!!!♥♥♥

  • @gshadeyshadow
    @gshadeyshadow ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So so proud of you. This half an hour had a message worth a lifetime. So thankyou for this. You helped so many of us to cope up with our baggage inspite of you being in this state. Hence you are a wonder woman. May God always guide you and protect you and heal you because of the wonderful soul that you are. I'm sure your baby will be as beautiful as you inside out

  • @zebanoor9370
    @zebanoor9370 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    I also got divorced when I was 3 months pregnant and life seemed to end. Those 6 months were too difficult but after the baby was born, I was a completely different person and a very strong person. I took my time to heal and prioritise me and my baby. People suggested finding another partner but I was in no rush. I worked on myself, my career. Today, I'm very independent financially. I'm working as a content writer. And I've got an amazing partner now! It's been a year to my second marriage. My little one is so happy and complete with his dad 🥺💖
    Whoever is reading this, please remember, life happens but leave it on God. Everything gets settled in the end. It takes time to heal but it happens. 💖 THIS TOO SHALL PASS!🙏🏻

    • @whisperwaves9930
      @whisperwaves9930 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hey so sorry you had to go through so much pain.. My mom too went through a separation with my dad when she was carrying me. I’m so glad you were strong enough and put all of that behind 😊

    • @saram2017
      @saram2017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi..if I may ask u zeba...wat was the reason for ur divorce

    • @ThatGirlInVogue
      @ThatGirlInVogue  ปีที่แล้ว +76

      ❤ thank you

    • @wildatheart15
      @wildatheart15 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      More power to you for prioritizing yourself and not giving into the pressure ✨️

    • @saram2017
      @saram2017 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have been through a very traumatic experience myself during my pregnancy... it was tough

  • @arundhatibhattacharya8960
    @arundhatibhattacharya8960 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I don't know whether you would be reading this or not, but trust me from the bottom of my heart a huge round of applaud for you! Going through what you are is really really brave! This is really something to learn from, how to let life go on. Sending a lot of love for both you and the baby💕

  • @GUNJANKAUR2020
    @GUNJANKAUR2020 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Being through divorce was tuff but going through pregnancy is unimaginable.... sending u positivity as u r doing it so well ...u r an inspiration

  • @shivangisen6186
    @shivangisen6186 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Mals I cried and cried after watching this . I always avoid listening to heartbreak stories and when I got to know about you . I avoided more .I broke up right after my birthday(2nd august) it has been months still I can’t accept it . When you are telling like there are some days you feel powerful and some days you can’t and it is Leo thing omg that I don’t need anybody ! Mals you are really strong and beautiful inside and out thank you for making me also understand.

    • @hellojaya123
      @hellojaya123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey everything will be alright..love your way 😊🫂

    • @PrakritiPandey0208
      @PrakritiPandey0208 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey bday sister (my bday falls on Aug 2 as well) you are brave. There’s nothing in the world that you can’t do & bear. You’re beautiful and life will be beautiful for you again

    • @Grace-ov6lv
      @Grace-ov6lv ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi! I hope you know how strong you are dear. As someone who has ended almost a decade long relationship, it feels like breaking from inside but the power & reassurance you gain back for yourself is rewarding. Sending you a virtual hug. It will be better ❤

  • @niharika1303
    @niharika1303 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Babe you've been through a lot🥺😭i can't imagine how tough it must have been for you, not being able to share so much with all of us and dealing with it all alone🥺💔but now that we know, we'll support you, and root for you more than ever🥺 you've got this babe💜it's a tough journey but you've got this 🥺and we all are there to love you and cheer for you 😩🥺take care okayyy💜

  • @mrittikadas1156
    @mrittikadas1156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is one of the best videos on the Internet right now, and for reasons more than one! A big tight hug to you. Lots of love! Hopefully life brings smiles to your way in ways you haven't even dreamt of.

  • @saltsugar1903
    @saltsugar1903 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm just halfway through the video and I'm watching your video after a long time and pain is quite evident and I honestly relate to so many things, all I have to say is- IT ACTUALLY TAKES A LOT. I don't know how you're doing it, filming and showing up amidst all of this. I admire you for this and always will. 🫂💗

  • @rpat9055
    @rpat9055 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You beautiful soul.. hang in there ! Life has thrown everything at you and yet you handle it with such grace and elan! You’re made for great things!! Yes you are!!! And your baby is going to be so proud to call you it’s mother!! Hang in there. Better things are coming your way!
    P.S you should do a TED talk

  • @zeal8434
    @zeal8434 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can never imagine how hard it is to be open and accepting about things on a public platform. I got teared up so many times while watching this and it's so commendable that you're dealing it with so much grace and dignity and also maintaining respect of the other person that shows how pure you are 🫶🏻 much more love to you and the bebe 😘

  • @supriya7123
    @supriya7123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am going through alot but comparing you it's nothing.....I can feel you... But girl you are so strong.. You are the person I love to look upto. You give me strength. Stay strong 💪, love and hugs.

  • @rakshikaaphale3824
    @rakshikaaphale3824 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It takes a lot to talk about such deeply personal issues that have caused you so much pain. People are so quick to judge public figures but Malvika, your courage has truly made you stand out. Thank you for being so honest and always spreading kindness. I've been a loyalist for many years and I am so so proud of you.

  • @TheMillennialMuse
    @TheMillennialMuse ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You be such a wonderful mom ❤
    Your work is thriving, and you have a baby to look forward to. You got this!

  • @ayeshapasha7019
    @ayeshapasha7019 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is such a healthy way of coping from grief not saying anything bad or negative abt the man or life in general just spitting facts and talking about struggles you are such a mature person and this much strength comes with alot of pain but you are healing for yourself and baby may god helps you with every sec of your day sending lots and lots of love you will figure out everything I really hope u find happiness in coming days

  • @shubhranarsapur
    @shubhranarsapur ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Dearest Malvika, everyone that terrifies you is sixty percent water, and everyone you love is made of stardust, and I know sometimes you cannot even breathe deeply, and the night sky is no home, and you have cried yourself to sleep enough times that you are down to your last two percent, but nothing is infinite, not even loss. You are made of the sea and the stars, and one day, you are going to find yourself again

  • @salonibansal3990
    @salonibansal3990 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Really rooting for you and the baby! You’re videos have helped me a lot. They are candid, honest, entertaining. Going through such times must be hard, but hand in there. That little baby will bring you a lot of happiness. Take care :)

  • @hriyashankar9044
    @hriyashankar9044 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Every single word you said I felt it so much. A similar story. We all have our own struggles and we all deserve to bloom and here's another similarity, I'm a Leo as well. Sending you hugs and love :)

  • @srishtighoshful
    @srishtighoshful ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Never commented on a TH-cam video before, but this one, I had to. You're so strong woman, so strong. You didn't tear up even once, while talking about the most difficult phase of your life. Just sending you hugs and lots of love 🤗🤗 And yes, praying for you to heal ❤️

  • @senjuti3215
    @senjuti3215 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mals spoke everything we all went through/ going through and everything about life. This is why, I love her.

  • @nair8934
    @nair8934 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dear Mals, that’s how I have always seen you! As bubbly as you were to me then, you are a woman with fire! Fire that we all want it to glow more.. I’m just hearing you talk and I wish can give you a hug and say- we are here. Tons of best wishes to you and the journey you chose ahead. Be kind, grow and glow more!! Happy Woman’s Day Mals… ❤

  • @itsnoneofurbusiness
    @itsnoneofurbusiness ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "you are pain,im in pain too"..that touched me so much maalls....i have been facing a lot recently and this video, literally felt like a bestie whos channelising her thoughts and in the meantime ours too...thankyouu mals for this.

  • @shritis1307
    @shritis1307 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This too shall pass....
    It' s another step added in making you the biggest motivational speaker on the world stage.
    And when you would be addressing that crowd of millions looking upto you to uplift them, you will remember how THIS current phase in your life helped you reach there.
    Today you have motivated me like nobody else ever did.

  • @Dr.Sumedha
    @Dr.Sumedha ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m teary right in the beginning of the video. I feel your heavy heart.
    I have learnt so much from you since the beginning of your channel. I grew up with you.
    You have a special place in my heart. I guess, its my bestie going through this. I can’t imagine how overwhelming this situation is for you.
    Sending lots and lots of love. I hope you only get good things in life 😢❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kannika4789
    @kannika4789 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I grew up watching ur videos.. specially in the lockdown period.. me n my frd used to talk about u n ur videos.. it was motivating then.. it is still motivating now even tho I don’t do colors much in life but i guess it’s because u teach life.. u have no idea how much these kinds of videos help other ppl..Lots of love and support ❤

  • @raaji_
    @raaji_ ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Malvika. Ive never commented on a TH-cam video but this man. I cant imagine how much pain you were going through these past few months. When I saw your post i literally broke down. How can you manage so much baggage along with your job. You are an inspiration. I hope you will not let the negativity ruin your day. Stay strong Malvika🌷

  • @anisha.gosain
    @anisha.gosain ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are brave and you are resilient. Within that you have pain & fears and dealing with it all and that makes you a warrior. Sending you so much love & light. You have so much wisdom & within broken pieces we pick them up and figure it out with our support system we have ❤

  • @yogitaachary2851
    @yogitaachary2851 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It takes a lot to put this out here. What an inspiration of a woman you are. I’m literally in tears right now but so so so proud of you. I love you Malvika. You deserve the world. The baby you’re going to give birth to, is going to be so so proud of you.
    Everything’s gonna pay off. May god bless you with all the happiness in the world. You deserve that shit.
    Lots of love and hugs 💗✨

  • @tanyasharma9600
    @tanyasharma9600 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Malvika, I’ve never connected with any influencer like I do with you. It broke my heart when I heard the news. I only wish you and your baby all the happiness that you deserve. :)❤

  • @beverlydash220
    @beverlydash220 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He posted so much about kindness. Yet you're alone on this journey. More strength to you. It's not easy doing this alone, im sure you're well wishers are helping you along the way. But still you're doing this on your own which is empowering! Your journey will help a lot of single mothers out there .

  • @VaidehiVines
    @VaidehiVines ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh mals feels like hugging you. What a bold step you took at this point of time 7 months preg. Bro gutts. What a wonder Steal woman you are !! So so so much respect and immense love for you love u tons ❤