Fapping and watching p*rn is NOT okay...

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  • In this video I will tell you how you've lied to and convinced that f*pping, m*sturbating, and p*rn is okay and healthy, but in reality it's completely the opposite.
    And if you have that addiction then I'll teach you exactly how to quit. But it isn't nofap.
    #motivation #nofap

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  • @bejenarucodrin3031
    @bejenarucodrin3031 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing video bro, the second half is just pure knowledge

  • @boddah92108
    @boddah92108 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think it would be helpful to draw a clearer line here.
    Fapping to porn all the time can be unhealthy. Fapping without aides like porn hub (so i hear 🤫) can be healthy.
    I see your point in both cases. I agree on the first part pretty much 100%. On the second i think i understand your point of self control as an example. I dusagree that people can't indulge themselves in moderation sometimes. There is nothing wrong with choosing to live a life of abstinence. It's not the only way to live though. Life and it's many experiences are great! Until it's so overboard it's like addiction.

  • @maxgc6413
    @maxgc6413 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cool vid bro. I’ve struggled w porn most of my life. Took control this past summer. I’m 35. Unfortunately young guys get exposed to porn so easily
    For me it was old school VHS I found and I wish I didn’t see it. I remember doing it for the first time. And it was such an intense rush.
    Just became a universal habit. It crushed my young life. I realize looking back. So many broken friendships and missed opportunities for growth. All because I chose that over life. It didn’t help I had issues with food.
    Now after facing many demons and seeing how it was a coping mechanism. I’m taking care of myself bit by bit. And with positive mindset, not guilt. I dispose No fap as I feel it still has this air of superiority towards others and still uses guilt tactics to ensnare others who are emotionally vulnerable.
    On its own, healthy and great for the prostate. But w porn, it just leads to such damaging mental perceptions of life. We gotta face what we don’t want to see and feel what we don’t want to feel.
    Embrace being uncomfortable till you’re comfortable. Gonna turn the fap sessions into gym sessions. Beast mode time.

    • @hkoidu
      @hkoidu  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's awesome to hear that you've started taking care of yourself brother. The best strategy is to make your life 1% better every day, so you'll keep making progress and don't fall off. Keep going bro, wish you all the best💪

    • @Dagenspear
      @Dagenspear 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@hkoidu PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
      I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
      God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
      For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
      Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
      The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
      LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."

  • @saifjassim6067
    @saifjassim6067 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Man I just saw this I am a Muslim ITS NORMAL💀 what this generation ATLEAST most need help us few shall be successful and improve the world

    • @hkoidu
      @hkoidu  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah nowadays there is so much sexual content out there that it has literally ruined a generation

    • @chinmaybarje3915
      @chinmaybarje3915 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@hkoiduRight brother 👍

    • @saifjassim6067
      @saifjassim6067 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hkoidu it may even ruin gen alpha it gets that bad

  • @chinmaybarje3915
    @chinmaybarje3915 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have developed a tendency to believe that one shouldn’t share his self improvement ideas with others(friends,etc.). It’s mostly a waste of time and energy. Opinion ?

    • @hkoidu
      @hkoidu  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why not? If you teach others self development then their lives get better + you build a deeper connection/friendship with them.

    • @chinmaybarje3915
      @chinmaybarje3915 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hkoidu Umm- Agreed but if they're not into Self Improvement like you then, they'll try to stop/hamper your progress which will result in frustration and waste of energy which is futile in my opinion.
      Considering experiences, I believe that the path of self improvement is that of a lone wolf. If you don't come out of your toxic circle, you'll still be the average of the 5 friends around you, so-

    • @selincetin1627
      @selincetin1627 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree

    • @agaldoo
      @agaldoo 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You will lose a lot of people when you better yourself.​@@chinmaybarje3915

  • @EmpiresEGG
    @EmpiresEGG 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Levita tarkust edasi vana 🙏

    • @hkoidu
      @hkoidu  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@EmpiresEGG Tänud mees

  • @Beyonder_official_21
    @Beyonder_official_21 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bro if i go on nofap will i will have wet dreams ? if i leaked it in my sleep it would be shameful to tell parents about. so plz tell me and plz make a vid of stoicism plz ❤ great work 🙏

    • @hkoidu
      @hkoidu  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Beyonder_official_21 Thats natural, nothing to be shameful about. You can also do ur own laundry

  • @curry-mi1ob
    @curry-mi1ob หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ngl i beat once a week cause sunday is my rest day but word of advice to anyone in the comments dont beat every single day it doesnt feel as good and your testosterone will go lower and you will probably put off other stuff that u have to do just to beat anyway guys it aint that hard to do it in moderation, at least not as hard as me

    • @hkoidu
      @hkoidu  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think it's ok to do it a few times a month, the worst thing you can do is go on nofap because if you "relapse" you'll feel like shit.

    • @curry-mi1ob
      @curry-mi1ob หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@hkoidu yeah i know that feeling

  • @erichstudies
    @erichstudies 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    somethung humane to point out is that watching p?rngr!phy creates a demand and thus supports an industry that takes advantage of vulnerable people (usually poor women). what you bring up here is correct but to me feels like missing the big picture

    • @hkoidu
      @hkoidu  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree, the whole industry is simply fucked up