*EXTREME* KIDS ROOM DECLUTTER. EXTREMELY DISGUSTING ROOM! DECLUTTER AND ORGANIZE WITH ME 2022

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  • EXTREME KIDS ROOM DECLUTTER. KONMARI METHOD CLEAN & DECLUTTER. DECLUTTER AND ORGANIZE WITH ME 2022
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  • @mimiNana-yi4cy
    @mimiNana-yi4cy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    Impressive. A few observations. The stuffy nose could, very well, be from all the stuffed animals on her bed. They do collect dust. It may be time to limit how many she has on her bed. Have her pick a few, put the rest, neatly, in her closet, and then she can rotate them out when she wants to change them up. It looks like she is a "collector" (One of my daughter's was a collector at that age). It is not a bad thing to put a limit on it. We had to implement a rule, something comes in, something goes out, otherwise it ends up a hot mess of way too much stuff. Also, love the fact she is creative but have her do her creative stuff at the counter, not in her room. That way it is easier for her to do some cleanup and not just push it all under the furniture. Start slow but stay consistent, and set firm limits on her collecting. Great job on the clean up. It looks wonderful.

    • @angeliquemosley5072
      @angeliquemosley5072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thanks for this comment, my boys have stuffed characters from their favorite cartoons on their beds. I'm going to do what you suggested here with them.

    • @Sienna10Sunz
      @Sienna10Sunz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Work on those "Atomic Habits" for her as well :)

    • @Gouthami_k
      @Gouthami_k ปีที่แล้ว +14

      True, my 7 year old have a habit of sleeping with a load of stuffed toys and used to sneeze all the time, she also got dust allergy coz of that. My sister is a Doctor and when she saw this she asked me to at least limit the stuffed animals at night . My daughter got so much better now, she doesn't get dust allergy that frequently anymore!! Btw, we live in a tropical climate so we use cotton blankets which is plus

    • @katinkavanoursouw9
      @katinkavanoursouw9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Not only the stuffed animals, also the blankets, clothes and especially the carpet collect a lot of dust!

    • @Elcinqazye
      @Elcinqazye ปีที่แล้ว

      😔😔😔😔

  • @brigittegreenwood2970
    @brigittegreenwood2970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That's funny I used to go thru my girls stuff and declutter as well, but their floor had to be clean. Their room was downstairs towards the front of the house, and I didn't just close the door. But they learned at an early age you play with it, you pick it up, you throw it around it goes in the trash.

  • @RecaRose
    @RecaRose ปีที่แล้ว

    Its great to see you doing this for your child, and not only that, but showing her what you're doing for her.
    As a child, I was exactly the same, possibly even worse, and my mother simply cleaned while i was out of the house, and never gave me the tools nor motivation to help me clean on my own once i became a teenager. It took a frankly ridiculous amount to teach myself good ways to clean and declutter, and a lot of time and energy on top of battling my rather poor mental health.
    So thank you for the simple act of showing your daughter how to clean, rather than just shutting her out and doing it completely by yourself. You have no idea how much it means in a child's development, even as something so minor. ❤

  • @adafonseca2517
    @adafonseca2517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved it, its so satisfying when you see the results. Great video.

  • @wendystahlke
    @wendystahlke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Ashley love decluttering my home I like things in their place,No food upstairs or drinks only water we have carpet in the bedrooms so it’s hard to keep clean we don’t need food tramped in the carpets.
    We have set times for snacks too usually in the afternoon after school it’s easy for kids to snack out of boredom.One thing about kids they always bring their toys downstairs it’s ok if there going to play with them then they don’t want to take them back upstairs after they’re done out of pure laziness that drives me nuts lol 😂 I don’t like clutter it stresses me out so I like things tidy.I will say though weekends go too fast I wish it would slow down I like to go do things but it goes way too fast.Have a great week 😀

  • @joyceheaton2406
    @joyceheaton2406 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can remember those popper toys the ones that you push that were around and every time you would push it it popped those little balls inside they made such an annoying sound but my kids love them me not so much LOL

  • @susanunderwood7414
    @susanunderwood7414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video!!!

  • @cassandrabursich1301
    @cassandrabursich1301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    It’s so good to see this. So many of the cleaning videos show these perfect kids rooms and it makes me feel like I’m failing all the time. I have to do this to my kids rooms a few times a year. And they are exactly the same.

    • @jenniferdavaney6781
      @jenniferdavaney6781 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I second this comment. Thank you for the honest and real content.

    • @leidyperez5796
      @leidyperez5796 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Un fuerte abrazo desde Colombia ❤

  • @lynnhendley8910
    @lynnhendley8910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You are doing the best you can as a mom. But if your children are old enough. They should at least help you. Also maybe it's time for a toy rotation.

  • @claudiag.3036
    @claudiag.3036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Oh girl, I can so relate! My daughter’s room is currently a HOT mess. Thank you for sharing & motivating me to tackle it!

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hi Claudia! So happy I could help motivate && good luck tackling the mess 😅 ♥️

    • @amymnaglowsky4520
      @amymnaglowsky4520 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So I can relate with our bedroom

    • @amymnaglowsky4520
      @amymnaglowsky4520 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyforbes And also taking care of 3 kids and traveling to Disneyland and moving to the other side of town in Eugene , Oregon .

  • @jennyspence6870
    @jennyspence6870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Firstly when doing her room let her do it with you ! It's her mess, stuffed animals carry so much dust so see if you can donate some

  • @sheilabundren2037
    @sheilabundren2037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You are a good momma. That was a big job. When you opened the closet my heart sunk for you. It obviously doesn't bother her. It all looks amazing now. Go get some rest after that!! Thanks for sharing your motivation.

  • @donnasheehan8252
    @donnasheehan8252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    New house rules: NO EATING IN YOUR BEDROOM EVER!!!!
    TAKE IT OUT, PUT IN AWAY!!!
    TIME FOR INSPECTIONS!!! LOL!!!!!

  • @sheilarowan8664
    @sheilarowan8664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sometimes less is best

  • @dw5593
    @dw5593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I wonder if your daughter is seeking out pressure (so many blankets). Have you considered letting her try a weighted blanket? For some kids, it can be calming and improve sleep. Just a thought from one mama to another mama.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  ปีที่แล้ว

      She actually does have a weighted blanket but doesn’t use it too much anymore. I’m not sure why she loves the stuffed animals so much, maybe because she doesn’t feel like she’s sleeping alone 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @jos-1994
    @jos-1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wow Ashley. That room alone gave you a workout 💪🏼What an amazing difference. I'm exhausted just watching but as always you've given so much motivation 👍🏼

  • @patriciaduran5455
    @patriciaduran5455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's too big to have such a mess

  • @AlexandraJM2000
    @AlexandraJM2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My mother would have NEVER cleaned my room for me. I was taught chores and the importance of responsibilities at a young age.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good for you!

    • @deecasey6893
      @deecasey6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's the way it should be

    • @fantz724
      @fantz724 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I totally agree with you.We live by example.

    • @ashleyswshr
      @ashleyswshr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well everybody is different and nobody is perfect. Nothing wrong with mom going in for the occasional deep clean to the kids rooms. Its her home after all. I also think kids these days in general have a more abundance of stuff than when we were kids, that can be hard to manage in my experience.

    • @dawnyandandy
      @dawnyandandy ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m laughing at you clambering under the bed 😂 my boys are 25 32 & 34 my daughter is 30 this year !!! I cleaned there rooms when they were little and found all sorts 😂 do whatever you feel the need to do you have a beautiful home sweetheart xxxx

  • @beckiblack859
    @beckiblack859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Maybe you could ask your daughter to pick her 10 favorite stuffed animals and put the rest in storage bins. After a year, switch them out or see if she can let them go. Dawn from the Minimal Mom calls it a Time Will Tell bin.

  • @darniataylor7749
    @darniataylor7749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Oh boyee do I remember those days. I started having my kids stay in the room while I cleaned/organized (why should they get to have fun while I cleaned? LoL) and eventually, they figured out that the less mess that there was the less time they had to spend "not having fun" as they put it. By the time they were 7 and 8, all I had to do was a weekly tidy.😉

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That is a brilliant idea!! I am definitely doing that the next time I have to clean it off camera 😅 I bet that would be motivation to keep it clean!! Haha

    • @mamajessiej
      @mamajessiej 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love this idea!!

    • @loisleckie8329
      @loisleckie8329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same, I declutter their rooms all the time, and I got tired of hearing where's this, where's that!!!! So I make my 9 year old son declutter with me atleast twice a year, and honestly he declutters better than me!!! He's figured out less mess, less cleaning!!! Lol 😂

  • @saf281-o8x
    @saf281-o8x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ashley you're the Best Mama!!! But I just could't deal with her room like that all of the time. She loves to cook with you and go to the gym and love on her siblings, but she needs your help to teach her how to stay more organized, When I was young, I shared my bedroom with my older sister. She told my mom that she didn't want to share the room anymore because I made a mess. (she just did't want her little sister in there) So my mom moved me to another room and my sister's room only became worse. 😰She is 69 and is still lazy and messy etc. I have always been the organized clean sister. I watch your videos faithfully but I don't comment much at all, just watch and like! But this just hits me hard. Maybe because I'm old school and we had to appreciate what 5 of us children had and shared with our Loving single Mom. Just speaking from my heart.. Love you Ashley and your beautiful family 🥰

    • @saf281-o8x
      @saf281-o8x 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok so I will keep my comments to myself!

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe thank you! ♥️
      But like you mentioned your sister was in the same house hold and taught the things you were taught… and yet still lazy. It just goes to show that some things are just personal habits and traits. Not everyone likes to be organized & clean. To each their own! I mean of course I love my stuff clean & tidy but I’ve met many woman who don’t care & their houses are a disaster but they are amazing in other areas in life. Just because they lack in one area does not make them any less. We should just appreciate each other for what we are 😊

    • @jensygalvez6403
      @jensygalvez6403 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyforbes you are stupid and you don't tell her what to do son of a bitch

  • @brendahowell5946
    @brendahowell5946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks so much. So much motivation. We do scheduled snacks if you don't they do eat out of boredom. But you know their are days they could eat an elphant lol. If my kids put (hide) anything under bed or closet. The more I pick up more electronic time they loose.

  • @sunflower7766
    @sunflower7766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just a suggestion but for her stuffed animal collection you can buy empty bean bags on amazon so it can double up as a bean bag chair and helps contain them.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We used to have it but she kept pulling everything back out of it. She says she needs all of the animals 😅 she swears she has names for all of them and everything haha she loves them things

    • @sevdjanahmed7793
      @sevdjanahmed7793 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyforbes s3xr
      Можете да плъзгате изрезки, за да ги изтриете

  • @maryfreese280
    @maryfreese280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My parents would grounded us for a year if our rooms looked like that we didn't have much but we definitely took care of what we had but we were taught to deep clean as young ages.

  • @brandipoage1
    @brandipoage1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for your transparency!!! Now I can exhale bc I know I'm not alone. I use to think I'd gone wrong somewhere with my 3 little people. They just seem to enjoy being able to see all their belongings in the floor all at the same time....and I do mean EVERYTHING they own! Lol

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha I feel your pain!! 😆😅

  • @sophialeal16
    @sophialeal16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I was looking for a motivational video and found you! I loved how realistic this was! I sometimes feel like my kid’s rooms never stay clean, I don’t even know how they accumulate so much trash out of paper. Lol. This was really motivating!! 🙌🏼 your daughter reminds me of my 9 yr old daughter, she has a bunch of stuffed animals & loves Pokémon too. Lol. & yes I always recommend Atomic Habits to everyone! It really helped me change my habits! I’m reading it for the second time, it’s such an easy read too!

  • @lindahaines3875
    @lindahaines3875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl I love you but your daughters are old enough to clean up after themselves. I use to go in my daughters room that they shared and it never looked that bad, dust maybe and a vacuum needed to be ran. They never ate in their bedrooms.

  • @djpop6202
    @djpop6202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello love your videos but you need to get this out of her system fast.

  • @The_clean_mama
    @The_clean_mama 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s so interesting to see how many mama’s actually struggle with keeping a clean house. I really don’t get it, it’s not that hard. This has truly taught me that I need to start a TH-cam channel for tips and tricks of keeping a clean house with kids. I have a few short videos that I created lately but this is something that I really need to do. How old is your daughter?

    • @bethanyhaynes1123
      @bethanyhaynes1123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same. Especially with kids older and capable to clean and tidy. Habits start from a young age.

  • @sierra2256
    @sierra2256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this video! My kid's rooms currently look like this and I'll be tackling them tomorrow! I like "real" cleaning videos of a good before and after! Thankyou for sharing ❤️ I love all the stuffed babies on the bed! My kids have tons and it makes their beds look so snuggly lol

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!! 🥰
      Yesss!! That’s what my daughter says, he bed is just so comfy with all of them ☺️

  • @lyndabrown3402
    @lyndabrown3402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your kid has too much stuff! It's dismay ING all the toys and junk parents buy their kid. I'd be embarrassed to show all this junk. Why do you need so many blankets, stuffed toys?

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why do you feel the need to voice your negative opinion???
      Is it your money? Your house? Your child?
      If you have nothing nice to say then don’t say anything at all 👌🏼

  • @brookephelps2162
    @brookephelps2162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is probably my first TH-cam comment tbh, but I absolutely CANNOT believe all the nasty comments you’re receiving. Wow.
    Everybody is an expert! You seem like a loving mother giving your all! Your kids appear to have wonderful bedrooms full of clean clothing, a warm bed, things surrounding them that bring them joy and comfort.
    Why all the criticism?! How about some gratitude for your willingness to be authentic about your content ? I certainly appreciate it!
    I never comment on TH-cam videos, but for yours I had to! Why on earth are you receiving so much negativity?

    • @TheOfficialKayy
      @TheOfficialKayy ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not saying I necessarily agree with the comments left, however the reason is due to the state of the room. It’s not messy, it’s dirty. There’s a big difference. I think a lot of commenters forget that people live differently and leaving a comment won’t change that. HOWEVER, some people *may* think this is normal when posting and receiving comments stating otherwise may open their eyes to change something. I didn’t listen to the talking, I watch these on silent. I had a best friend growing up and her room looked like this all the time. She now has a filthy house 24/7. I get where people are coming from as this isn’t a habit you want to create for your children. Also, if you put something on the internet and allow comments, you’re going to get negative ones. either way, the interaction in the comments (positive or negative) actually help her channel so I doubt she minds. I personally wouldn’t ever have a house with this mess but I truly enjoy watching people clean their disasters.

  • @sheilarowan8664
    @sheilarowan8664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I bet if you took away half she would not miss them

  • @sheilarowan8664
    @sheilarowan8664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always say if it has been under the bed they won't miss it if you toss it

  • @debbiebliss1523
    @debbiebliss1523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi Ashley, my now 42 years old son used to be just like your daughter when he was 8 or 9 only worse! Problems with Hygiene, school work and very creative too. I tried everything! Nothing worked till I discovered the “NOTHING”. That finally did the trick. It's a group job and it's not easy but he's better for it.
    “NOTHING” is: just what it says, nothing. I had to work things out with his teachers first. He got no recess, no lunchtime, and no field trips till all his school work was completely caught up. I got a weekly report from his teachers on this, plus desk/locker inspection weekly.
    At home, I emptied his room. No toys, books, crafts, TV, games, dressers, bins, or boxes of anything in his room just his bed which he had to make every day. Showers tooth brushing, hair brushing, and clean clothes every day. He was smell tested daily. (he had no friends at school because he stunk. I thought he would grow out of it but he only got worse). He had to stay in his room doing nothing but homework. He got no TV time, no game time, and no family outings till he completed and got all his school work caught up, kept his room, and self-clean for 2 weeks in a row.
    When we started the “NOTHING” I ask him what did he think I should do about all of his behavior problems and he said “NOTHING”. He thought everything was just fine. I told him you want nothing he said yes. I said be careful what you ask for and it took me a while but once nothing was ready it didn't take him long to move his butt and change everything. In 2 weeks he had everything done daily and when he would slip I would tell him that nothing can come back and he would jump into gear again.
    I know you think this is cruel and a lot of work but it sure showed him responsibility and respect for himself and others. I made him do the work not me. After this, He made friends, got good grades, and grew to be a good loving son and man with a great job and a clean apartment I'm happy to go to. Plus he went to college and got the highest honors through 2 degrees. So it was worth it and he tells me that often.
    Your husband is a military man he understands what duty, respect, and doing things the right way means. You need to be a united front and example of what you expect from your children that's how they learn to be the same in adulthood.
    It worked in my house is all I'm saying. My oldest saw this and changed too. He's served 21 years in the AF and they tell me I was the best mom ever. In fact, their friends say the same thing.

    • @annparsons2112
      @annparsons2112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a great example of what can be accomplished with DISCIPLINE AND RULES! This must be done with this child or her life as she grows up with be complete chaos at home and at school.

  • @emss55
    @emss55 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a great job of cleaning I’m sure she really appreciates it! Just one thing though, the no food upstairs 100% get it but be careful with having really strict food rules/ times once they get a bit older like 10/11 as it could lead to disordered eating habits of course it’s not a definite just a very prevalent problem that you might want to consider x

    • @amandawalsh8321
      @amandawalsh8321 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely agree. I was looking for this comment and hoping it was mentioned. Even at birth we know our bodies and how much we need and when to eat. No one besides us can tell us that we are eating because we’re “bored”. Unfortunately that really rubbed me wrong as being an adult who has fought with an ED my entire life starting at a very very young age, and raising a daughter who has never had her food restricted and she isn’t “overweight” she is in control of when she eats.

  • @wendyinegbenedo1307
    @wendyinegbenedo1307 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another tip for stuffed animals, vacuum them once a month, put in the dryer on low for 10 min to kill dust mites, then use your spray to disinfect or freshen. It will help with asthma and allergies.❤

    • @sarahsmith5045
      @sarahsmith5045 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or bin them.. clutter and something else to clean.. baseboards behind bed and around bedroom need cleaned.

  • @Hey_its_Dre
    @Hey_its_Dre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your words of wisdom in this video. Completely agree with “you have to take action”. I write down goals every single day and I wake up at 4:15 every morning to work out. If I don’t do it in the morning I find too many excuses not to do it. You are such a super mama! I have started having Azelynn help me with the declutter. It honestly is easier if I just do it but I figure she made the mess and can help clean it. Such great motivation as usual!

  • @lynnettewood355
    @lynnettewood355 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We had 4 kids but their rooms never looked like that!! A bit messy but they were made to keep it tidy!!

  • @aubrieramsdell520
    @aubrieramsdell520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video actually got me to clean my book shelf/closet! I’ve been neglecting it so long! Actually didn’t take that long to clean up..

  • @aliviaadams9930
    @aliviaadams9930 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where's the best cleaner in the world 🤩🤩🤩😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰😁😁😁

  • @deborahdrum3596
    @deborahdrum3596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this child needs to help clean..and learn to not be such a mess..

  • @xxloveydovey620xx
    @xxloveydovey620xx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do they not know how to pick up after themselves?? I understand mess to a certain extent but that was absolutely horrible and they should have helped out. Mama isn’t always gonna be there to clean up after them. And if this mess is considered normal then lord please help this world😂

  • @mommingonthedaily8984
    @mommingonthedaily8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey girl ! I definitely needed this motivation to tackle my kids rooms , you did great !

  • @carolkoehn6225
    @carolkoehn6225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I never had this problem with our 5 sons but our niece oh my word yep did the same thing as u did & so glad to have you along side me. Thank you so very much for all the motivating videos.

  • @takayafisher8710
    @takayafisher8710 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not an adult but an older sibling. My younger sister Kelly is like this! Her room is FULL of stuffed animals and I thought she was the only one who had... questionable... food under the bed. This has inspires me to help my little sister with her room because her room is SCARY messy. Thank you for motivating me hahah
    Oh and by the way sorry if anything is incorrect my language is portugese :)

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha I feel like we all know that one person whose room looks like that 😆 That would be really sweet of you to help her 💖

  • @furchildmom
    @furchildmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    With the stuffed animals,would she be open to putting them in a rotation and only keeping two or three on her bed and the rest in a storage bin? Perhaps it'a worth a thoughtful comversation on exploring why she feels the need to aquire and surround herself with objects.

  • @astraviil3043
    @astraviil3043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear parents!
    When Your kids are very good behaviour all the time and always taking good care of their things, keeping their rooms very clean, loving their favorite things and want to make nice childhood collections of their things: books, clothes, toys, video games, clothes, DVDs and etc, then donataing is very wrong thing to do. If You have few space then storage boxes and shelves will help You out and Your kids will be very happy and thankful then, if they can keep their favourite things. Childhood things are very valuable and it is very sad, if they won’t see them anymore in their life. Every child should have the right to keep their things, if they can take good care of them all the time!!!
    Respectfully,
    Astra Viil 🥰🙏

  • @asmaa_vlog_85
    @asmaa_vlog_85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I watch your videos I feel comfortable and happy 🥳🎊♥️ I wish to see you always and wish you a happy life my best friend🫂🍡❤️🥰😍😘🍭🌸💖💕🧁. 💖🥰

  • @Fizzarolli777
    @Fizzarolli777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think im the only kid watching this
    Or maybe im not

  • @youyou9198
    @youyou9198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    take the toys from bed so she will have more space❤

  • @carolhensley3857
    @carolhensley3857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad you are putting your health first! Even if you have to stop what you are in the middle of to do it!!

  • @pamelagantt8377
    @pamelagantt8377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Declutter those stuffed animals! Dust collectors!🙁

  • @Raysmoonmelody
    @Raysmoonmelody ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If u think that is bad wait till u see my room

  • @paulinehildebrandt3151
    @paulinehildebrandt3151 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How many Hair Ties do you have?
    Yes

  • @Annacadmium
    @Annacadmium ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your daughter would probably find it easier to keep everything organized if you went together with her again and sorted like things together. All her toiletries, her art supplies, etc to have their own drawers instead of some in one drawer and some in another.

  • @mendy838
    @mendy838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love your videos. I'm sorry but she would be upstairs helping clean up that room . You are a very patient mom.

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much! ♥️ She usually cleans it herself but this is my deep cleaning of her room! 😅She was at school … otherwise she would of wanted to keep all the trash too 😆😆

  • @bridgetwallace9892
    @bridgetwallace9892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haha my son Eastons room! I call it the black hole where everything goes but never comes out. He is like Adrian. But once it's cleaned it's so nice and I get back so much I thought was lost. I loved your motivational message. It truly resonated with me, it's so very true! Learning to prioritize yourself and needs is something we all fail to do at times. But, if we're not living our best lives neither is our family. When we're at our best, so are they. You and I are so similar in so many things/ways. Again, I don't comment much but every time I watch your videos I laugh and think that's just like me lol. It's nice to relate. Thank you ❤️ .

  • @bethanypetersen7005
    @bethanypetersen7005 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My 8yo son struggles to keep his room tidy. It looks like a tornado hit it quite literally and every time we get it clean, it's back to trashed super fast. It's so hard to maintain. We limited toys and he did the same thing with his clothes etc. Thanks for showing a REAL kids room

  • @teewatson8168
    @teewatson8168 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy to see this! I’m in Aus, my boys 11 and 8 share a room half this size and they’re exactly the same, they can’t seem to put anything away - to the point where you can’t see the carpet. And they don’t put their dirty clothes in the basket so they never know what’s clean or dirty- their clean stuff ends up on the floor too. It’s such a battle and I’m hitting my head against a brick wall with them. We’ve done complete declutters multiple times a year and it just breaks me that it’s back to mess within a week, like they don’t care about my hard work.

  • @joyceheaton2406
    @joyceheaton2406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the same way I have scheduled eating my son has of course breakfast then he has a midday snack lunch mid-afternoon snack but most snacks are small cuz I don't want it interfere with their regular meals and then I have dinner so yes I am very scheduled on meals. And I don't allow the eating in the living room or the bedrooms the one thing I have the most trouble with with my son's room is water bottles he will throw them in the trash can but the bottle caps remain on the floor that drives me insane for some reason he will not screw them back on the bottle they get thrown on the floor so it drives me insane. But I do have a reward system in place for him on Fridays which is very small it's a milkshake or he loves these certain cheese sticks that I order from a pizza place and if he does well by keeping his room picked up which takes a lot off of me then he gets that reward and you would be surprised at how well they will do so putting a reward system in place really does help it doesn't have to be anything expensive because I'm not going to do that but it just gives them more responsibility and you'd be surprised at how much they will do just to get that reward no matter how big or small and it sure helps take a lot off of us mom's. Now again I have to go in there and do the nitty gritty stuff because I like to do that but it just cuts my job in half and keeps me off the floor so much

  • @karenbarbaccia4026
    @karenbarbaccia4026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When my kids were younger would have a declutter every 3 months took clothes and toys to charity shops they didn’t even realise so it showed how much excess items they had 😂

  • @Jettsmom98
    @Jettsmom98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So many stuffed animals. I'm glad you don't get rid of any. My granddaughter has a lot and she has cries when her mom gets rid of something. I've spent lots of money rebuying them for her because she was devastated. You had me laughing crawling under the bed. No way I could do that. My son was also a messy child. I never knew what was in there until we had a mouse. Yep it was in his dresser. He did a better job keeping it clean after that. He kept everything. I still have tubs of his stuff in the basement. I know I could get rid of most of it, but we don't just in case. Need to figure out a way to get to him.

  • @jsblake199
    @jsblake199 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You just reminded me of my life 30 years ago. My kids rooms looked exactly like this. Good job!

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha 😅 fun times! Thank you!! ♥️

  • @ellenwarner1156
    @ellenwarner1156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video! Favorite part was you crawling under the bed!😂

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😆😅 I am so claustrophobic too! I hate doing that haha

  • @marcyk3271
    @marcyk3271 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your video is very motivating. No food in bedrooms is one thing I forbid with my kids. Another thing, I go into my kids rooms daily to clean up junk therefore I don’t have a huge cleanup. With 3 kids I must be on top of cleaning. It works

  • @karenhoward8542
    @karenhoward8542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can she do "pick 3"? Everything else can be traded out each week.

  • @dbw825
    @dbw825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe you could have her pick out a couple of stuffed animals to donate every so often. She has so many I know that won' t make much of a dent. Also you could get a net and attach it from one corner of the ceiling to the other and fill it with half her stuffed friends. She could still see them and they could be rotated from time to time.

  • @eviedines3298
    @eviedines3298 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The stuffy nose it probably from allt he teddy's on her bed

  • @karencabrera1081
    @karencabrera1081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My grandbaby is Eight and she is very organized! Keeps all her stuff in caddy's..

  • @normataylor3124
    @normataylor3124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great feeling when u get finished. Looks good

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!! Yes best feeling ever!!

  • @patriciabarbosabandeira8768
    @patriciabarbosabandeira8768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😯😲😯😲 caramba e muitis bichinhos de pelúcia em cima da cama o quarto tava muito bagunçado mesmo que diferença Ashley a organização que tu fez mesmo assim a cama não ficou tão arrumada por conta da quantidade exagerada de bichinhos de pelúcia eu não tenho filhos Deus sabe de tudo como já falei eu não tenho saúde pra cuidar nem de mim como eu realmente preciso mas eu vejo algumas mães e pais que ensinam seus filhos já de pequenos a não fazerem tantas bagunça e sujeira e ajudar em algumas pequenas tarefas em casa isso não é exploração e nem querer que as crianças não tenham que deixar de ser criança brincar ter lazer estudar e muitas outras coisas acho muito bonito quem da essa educação sabe porque não vai se criando pessoas muito desorganizadas bagunceiras que gosta de sujeira de nogeira sabe Ashley parabéns pra você tu se desdobra em mil pra deixar tudo limpo e organizado essa é só uma opinião minha e de alguns exemplos que já vi em algumas famílias

  • @taffeniterrell4466
    @taffeniterrell4466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate.. I have 2 boys and their rooms are omg. Its clean now but give it a day and its back to messy 😂 but I love how this is so real life.

  • @lagjnl2010
    @lagjnl2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First time viewer here!!! I needed this particular cleaning motivation video!! I know this feeling all too well!!! Thank you for all you do on you tube!! Im definitely here for all of your content!!! Do you take any vitamins/supplements for extra energy??

  • @MaisieHutchinson-g2u
    @MaisieHutchinson-g2u ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My room was like her

  • @JenniferGFamily
    @JenniferGFamily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey hey! Here catching up with you while I eat some breakfast! We have a 1 snack between meals rule here! They get one snack before lunch and one before dinner but absolutely NO eating in the bedrooms! I love you watch band!! Her drawers looked SO good when you were done with them!

  • @angiegibson3092
    @angiegibson3092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ashley I’m changing my diet I’m definitely going to eat way better and start drinking water and STOP drinking soda I feel bad all the time and I know it’s because of my weight! I’m going to start walking 3 to 4 hopefully 5 miles a day love watching your videos they have always been my favorite

  • @meganmcbride3893
    @meganmcbride3893 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's also better to just wash stuffed animals on a gentle cycle and low dry instead different spraying them down. It could be whatever you're spraying that's causing her to have issues at night, especially if it's just at night by her stuffies breathing it all in.

  • @ElainahTru
    @ElainahTru ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have no Idea how much I love how real this video ! My child has a blanket hording problem too! This is what my girls room looks like 😂❤ thank you for this video

  • @creceyvarney6767
    @creceyvarney6767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I told my husband that your daughter’s room was the first kid’s room that I’ve ever been able to relate to on TH-cam. The drawer situation, craft scraps, and unexpected items are the same scenarios that I deal with. 😂

    • @ashleyforbes
      @ashleyforbes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay!! && that makes me so happy to hear I’m not alone too!! I’ve gotten a lot of hate on the state of her room 😅

    • @creceyvarney6767
      @creceyvarney6767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashleyforbes You are definitely not alone! And I’m sorry for all the hate. If I don’t like something in a video, I keep scrolling, or I don’t watch again. All those ‘keyboard warriors’ are trying to solve the world’s problems with just one click. Mercy.

    • @kaylaodom6149
      @kaylaodom6149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this is like my daughters room! and she's 11! she has asthma so we had to limit stuffy toys. the hanging stuffy basket is great but probably not over her bed. dust falls right into her nose when she's sleeping

    • @helenbekind8486
      @helenbekind8486 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! It takes so much effort to keep the living areas cleaned/0picked up (kitchen, countertops, living room, bathrooms) I never get to the bedrooms. I will do a quick pick up at night time when I tuck them in, but the clutter and random objects require a full “dig-in” kind of cleaning that I just don’t have the focus for. I can relate to this so much! Sorry for the rude comments. I am so grateful for you exposing a vulnerable area in your home that many of struggle with and relate to.

    • @ElainahTru
      @ElainahTru ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤😂😂 me too !!

  • @youyou9198
    @youyou9198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    take the toys from bed so she will have more space❤

  • @kathyclarke5899
    @kathyclarke5899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was a lot of work. Well done momma. You might be able to put some stuffed animals in a bean bag chair with the beans taken out. I did that years ago.

  • @christinesmith8330
    @christinesmith8330 ปีที่แล้ว

    LoL not a blanket hoarder!!!! LoL..I'm guilty of thàt and I'm 54 lol I'm always buying new blankets for me or grandbabies the son the dogs lol and gifts!!!!!

  • @angiegibson3092
    @angiegibson3092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Sunday morning Ashley love watching your videos they are my favorite, I hope you have a wonderful blessed week

  • @MariaMunoz-yb4ez
    @MariaMunoz-yb4ez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Too much dirty. Poor childrens.

  • @guadalupeandaverde9650
    @guadalupeandaverde9650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice love it how it turn why you don't put stuff animals on inside the closet shelf I think it would look nice many blessings to you and your family

  • @christinekleingardner7102
    @christinekleingardner7102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would totally get a couple of the bean bag covers that hold all those animals !!!

    • @christinekleingardner7102
      @christinekleingardner7102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope this wasn't taken the wrong way , I just thought it would be a nice addition to her room for maybe a reading corner and a nice way to store some of them , I love stuffed animals as well so I know how that is LOL !!!!!

    • @margie7113
      @margie7113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My grandsons have their stuffed animals in the bean bags, they do use then to sit on and read😊

    • @christinekleingardner7102
      @christinekleingardner7102 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@margie7113 I think they are great and look nice and are functional and my grandkids really enjoy a good bean bag chair !!!!

  • @PolarBear-kb1fy
    @PolarBear-kb1fy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Perfect 😮

  • @TwentyThree-23
    @TwentyThree-23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You should finish one project before starting another. Like finish the room cleaning before doing excersizes. If the kids are napping then nap as well.

  • @simmonsoniqua
    @simmonsoniqua ปีที่แล้ว

    Am I really a better person for me the best anybody Jesus brings love and my brain joy because I’m a part of God and my love for everyone is that good love everyone not just you the whole entire state, the whole entire world, the whole entire community. The whole entire thing did Jesus Christ move because the goose across Darfur.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kamilareeder1493
    @kamilareeder1493 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think that your structure around food is pretty good. Like I cook for my family and there is 3 of us. I can imagine cooking for 7 every day 😭✋✋
    Like if you dont structure meals I think you'd go bankrupt 😂💀

  • @paulinehildebrandt3151
    @paulinehildebrandt3151 ปีที่แล้ว

    Look,so,I'd probably spend more time under the Bed than On the Bed
    I'm a Child, Probably all Children would do this

  • @mist4926
    @mist4926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Organized person will declutter rather than organize clutter. Don't get me wrong I have a hard time decluttering. I always just organize it all and keep instead of get rid of..

  • @LouiseFrey-fz9gx
    @LouiseFrey-fz9gx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Injust chuck them out now id they havent playedbeirh rhem for like eight year they only play on rhe nontendo switxhnipad eletronic drumw and netflix and you tube x

  • @simmonsoniqua
    @simmonsoniqua ปีที่แล้ว

    I also know Pokémon still my favorite all the kid girls always like them but I don’t know why the boys like this, so Pokémon of life this boy said he had more than me and I came to school with freaking Morgan him like stop saying stuff it was not true, but girl power always win If you are a team you will win if you’re not saying we don’t know.

  • @AnnasChannel605
    @AnnasChannel605 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kids are not fully developed yet. It isn't uncommon for them to make messes. Didn't realize society has come to the point of normalizing, shaming a toddler all over the internet.

  • @zoeyafton2054
    @zoeyafton2054 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't let go of this I'm sorry but you got rid of a bunch of random prices of paper and I myself keep random prices of paper cuz 1 I get attached to things 2 memo's and 3 I'm an artist and I like to keep things I find cute I heard Darien herself is one and I don't know her specific art style but I'd at least keep it and ask her- sorry it's just my opinion!

  • @theguzmanfamily5299
    @theguzmanfamily5299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg your daughter room reminds me of my sister room when we were little lol my sister use to throw her trash in the closet under the carpet and under the bed it was ridiculous 😅

  • @whispergemini3870
    @whispergemini3870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this video! You helped motivate me to doing little exercises everyday so I can be the healthy women I deserve to be. I think I should get the book you were talking about, it would probably help me in other areas of my life as well.... Thank you so much!

  • @brandysweet9590
    @brandysweet9590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No we could eat when ever and my kids to and grandkids but no food in room just water