I have been a viewer of you guys since 2011 and I have always admired you and Judy's relationship for your realness! Thank you for showing that everyday isn't perfect and that it's possible to get through it and have a healthy long lasting relationship! Hoping for a better rest of the week for you both! ❤️
My man is the one who can fall asleep no matter what, and I, on the other hand, cannot fall asleep until our disagreement is resolved 😅 Much love from NC!
I haven't had healthy relationships displayed around me so growing up it's been hard to understand what even constitutes as healthy. But being a viewer and just watching you & Judy since the condo days has taught me so much about what a healthy partnership should be. Would you and Judy ever do a fun relationship Q&A while having snacks you guys love? Thank you for the video Benji! we all appreciate the realness you give us.
No, that’s not an all men trait! lol My husband doesn’t like to talk things through like Judy. He rather be left alone and more I want to discuss it the worse the situations becomes. I am the one who wants to discuss a topic and figure it out. It’s a person & relationship trait and definitely not a man or woman only trait. 😂
Benji, if you like spicy you NEED to start buying some Thai chilis, slice them up and put into your ramen and other dishes 🌶️ it just adds a little something and extra kick
I prefer Judy's style, because it is sometimes good to sleep on something before speaking if you're in a bad spot. But at the same time I hate going to bed angry.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Arguments are a normal couple thing. I've seen those Tonkotsu ramen noodles at Costco and curious in trying them.
I have been a long time viewer of you both, and I really appreciate you both sharing the highs and lows of marriage. And that a worthy relationship is built on mutual trust and understanding. My partner and I have been together now for almost 15 years, getting married in 2025, and I can confidently say that learning how to communicate/ problem solve together has allowed us to have a blissful relationship now. It is so comforting to know that even when we have an argument, we are usually pretty quick to resolve it. I only hope more couples are able to achieve this type of “bliss” in their relationships. It isn’t easy in the beginning, but as a fellow hopeless romantic, true and genuine love will always prevail
I understand her, if it’s been a very difficult conversations. I make sure in time we talk it out. It gives us both time to calm down and think about the topic. Words spoken too fast can be the wrong time. I’ve been married to my husband for 24 yrs. We practice this a lot and definitely forgive each other.
I don’t think its a specific gender thing. I think it's more of a individual person thing. Some people like to work it out right away and some people need time to process it/ calm down. Also I love that brand of Ramen and your way of making it looks good. Thank you for the food tips.
I’ve been watching you and Judy since the condo days. I’ve always enjoyed watching them for fun but really appreciate when you share your relationship. It shows me the rawness of being a human with real emotions and how we can continue building good foundations for long lasting relationships, whether that’s friendships, intimate relationships, family relationships etc. Thank you, thank you! Also I will now need to buy this from Costco along with cabbage 😂
Very interesting, I’m more like you in this situation whereas my bf is more like Judy. Being together for 9 years, avoiding these situations are impossible, but through communication towards resolution we grow closer, as I’m sure do you and Judy. Lots of love for your videos🫶🏼
My husband and I are opposite of you guys… he wants to walk away while I want to fix right away. It’s hard being the one that wants to fix! It’s definitely not a man or woman thing but a personality thing for sure. Disagreements are healthy… ♥️
Oh no, my husband would sleep on it and sometimes thinks he can push it under the rug unless I initiate the elephant in the room. I’m the type that wants to resolve it right away and when I don’t it’s mentally exhausting for me.
I'm also the same... I like to resolve it on the spot. If it doesn't resolve, I am anxious until it is. But I noticed meditation helps me clear my mind after any anxiety spiking conversations :) Deep breaths and watching my thoughts go by instead of dwelling on them.
Oh Benji, I'm so sorry that you have to fend for yourself while Judy is in dreamland. She doesn't realise how lucky she is to have a husband like you, cooking the daily meals, looking after 5 girls & taking care of the finances besides running your own business. Wish my husband did half as much as you. Truly hope she'll make up to you when she awakes.
@@lauram4124 hahahha!!! UNFORTUNATELY YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT BENJI THEN… HE ISN’T A FILIPINO,HE IS HALF AMERICAN HALF JAPANESE SO THE SLURPING MAKES SENSE!? THINK BEFORE COMMENTING MY DEAR….
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I have been a viewer of you guys since 2011 and I have always admired you and Judy's relationship for your realness! Thank you for showing that everyday isn't perfect and that it's possible to get through it and have a healthy long lasting relationship! Hoping for a better rest of the week for you both! ❤️
Awwe, u can see Benji is missing his bbf for late-night munchies and he's a bit sad for the argument and needs a hug.
Gets comfort from ramen 😅
My man is the one who can fall asleep no matter what, and I, on the other hand, cannot fall asleep until our disagreement is resolved 😅 Much love from NC!
I haven't had healthy relationships displayed around me so growing up it's been hard to understand what even constitutes as healthy. But being a viewer and just watching you & Judy since the condo days has taught me so much about what a healthy partnership should be. Would you and Judy ever do a fun relationship Q&A while having snacks you guys love?
Thank you for the video Benji! we all appreciate the realness you give us.
This is one of my favorite videos. The vulnerability and how you still think about her even when you both are upset 😢
No, that’s not an all men trait! lol My husband doesn’t like to talk things through like Judy. He rather be left alone and more I want to discuss it the worse the situations becomes. I am the one who wants to discuss a topic and figure it out. It’s a person & relationship trait and definitely not a man or woman only trait. 😂
You are both very lucky to have each other. ❤ you're a good husband.
Lol Benji my husband and I are the opposite. I like to fix things right away and my husband likes to “sleep on it”. Gives me bad anxiety, lol.
Same here. Look up anxious vs avoidant attachment.
The conversation about you and Judys argument just melted my heart. May god protect you both
Benji, if you like spicy you NEED to start buying some Thai chilis, slice them up and put into your ramen and other dishes 🌶️ it just adds a little something and extra kick
I prefer Judy's style, because it is sometimes good to sleep on something before speaking if you're in a bad spot. But at the same time I hate going to bed angry.
I agree. And sometimes I forget why there was even an argument the next day lol
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Arguments are a normal couple thing. I've seen those Tonkotsu ramen noodles at Costco and curious in trying them.
Sorry to hear that, your such a good man benji!! Wanting to resolve it right away!❤🎉 can't wait to try cabbage in my ramen!
these are my fav cup noodles from Costco, but reading those sodium levels on the back hurts 🥲
I love these too. To cut the sodium intake, I usually just use a little bit from the seasoning packet instead of the whole packet.
My husband is the type when he's mad he can be mad for weeks and I'm the other type who likes to fix it right away.
I have been a long time viewer of you both, and I really appreciate you both sharing the highs and lows of marriage. And that a worthy relationship is built on mutual trust and understanding. My partner and I have been together now for almost 15 years, getting married in 2025, and I can confidently say that learning how to communicate/ problem solve together has allowed us to have a blissful relationship now. It is so comforting to know that even when we have an argument, we are usually pretty quick to resolve it. I only hope more couples are able to achieve this type of “bliss” in their relationships. It isn’t easy in the beginning, but as a fellow hopeless romantic, true and genuine love will always prevail
I think more women are like you, Benji and more men are like Judy when it comes to handling conflict.
Love your family! So genuine so true to everything! No pretensions!
Shoot my husband goes to sleep when we argue to avoid any further conflict. Which is okay for me. You’re a good husband Benji.
Sorry to say, but that ramen you ate had a super high amount of sodium at 1,550 mg. Not that healthy.
I understand her, if it’s been a very difficult conversations. I make sure in time we talk it out. It gives us both time to calm down and think about the topic. Words spoken too fast can be the wrong time. I’ve been married to my husband for 24 yrs. We practice this a lot and definitely forgive each other.
Thank you for sharing, Benji! Both how you make your ramen and your thoughts and feelings :)
Your such a understanding , loving caring husband, father, no matter what, you always come thru....winning.
I don’t think its a specific gender thing. I think it's more of a individual person thing. Some people like to work it out right away and some people need time to process it/ calm down. Also I love that brand of Ramen and your way of making it looks good. Thank you for the food tips.
I’ve been watching you and Judy since the condo days. I’ve always enjoyed watching them for fun but really appreciate when you share your relationship. It shows me the rawness of being a human with real emotions and how we can continue building good foundations for long lasting relationships, whether that’s friendships, intimate relationships, family relationships etc. Thank you, thank you!
Also I will now need to buy this from Costco along with cabbage 😂
Very interesting, I’m more like you in this situation whereas my bf is more like Judy. Being together for 9 years, avoiding these situations are impossible, but through communication towards resolution we grow closer, as I’m sure do you and Judy. Lots of love for your videos🫶🏼
My husband and I are opposite of you guys… he wants to walk away while I want to fix right away. It’s hard being the one that wants to fix! It’s definitely not a man or woman thing but a personality thing for sure. Disagreements are healthy… ♥️
Nooo it isnt cook!😅lol instruction on those type of cupnoodles are needed to be cook in microwave or if you got none then cook it on a stovetop!
You’re a good husband to want to fix things with your wife, before you go to bed….. 🙏🏾 y’all come to one conclusion & forgive 🙏🏾
If you had to choose 1 Japanese restaurant in the Seattle area, which would it be?
I feel for you, Benji. Hope things are resolved by now (which I'm sure they are).
I wanna learn how to use chop sticks.
This title LOL
My husband sleeps it off. Im the opposite.
My favorite struggle meal from costco lol
Im gonna try this out next time!! Thanks Benji
You're a good husband ❤❤❤
Ramen comfort food, makeup time will be soon!🥺🥰
I don’t agree that ramen is healthy. It’s especially not healthy eating it late at night.
So much sodium.
"Husband's sorrow", make your marriage stronger...kiss and make her an extra special coffee in the morning❤
Oh no, my husband would sleep on it and sometimes thinks he can push it under the rug unless I initiate the elephant in the room. I’m the type that wants to resolve it right away and when I don’t it’s mentally exhausting for me.
Lmao that title is pettttty
Why do you make the same foods? Do you ever try other recipes?
Does anyone know if we can buy the chili oil online ?
The title 😂 love you guys ❤️
We all go disagreements, but will always work it out in the end, just make her coffee in the morning!
We get the same brand and add similar toppings. Do like it little thicker so I microwave it for minute after it sits out.
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Omg how funny! I just got this a day ago and never tried it and so glad you made a video about it !
Ty sir! Enjoy. God bless ❤
Is this made out of pork cause I can’t eat but if it not not yay then can eat thanks Benji
No it's not.
@@kimmira6560thank!❤
Putting cilantro is a typical thing in Dominican style soups
Try adding miso instead of salt, works really well with instant ramen for that extra water!
I love adding sour kimchee in my ramen
Have you tried the ichiran instant ramen?
I like to add spinach in ramen too.
I’ve been watching both you and Judy ever since I was young ❤️❤️
I'm also the same... I like to resolve it on the spot. If it doesn't resolve, I am anxious until it is. But I noticed meditation helps me clear my mind after any anxiety spiking conversations :) Deep breaths and watching my thoughts go by instead of dwelling on them.
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thanks.
I always get slight weirdo vibes from Benji after he fights with Judy 😂. He's a good dude overall, but also sometimes a bit of an odd duck 🦆😵💫
You are a normal couple who go above & beyond to share love of each other and your family. I admire you both. ❤
To many carbs
thanks for keeping it real. I appreciate you sharing the up's, downs, and in-betweens.
Oh Benji, I'm so sorry that you have to fend for yourself while Judy is in dreamland. She doesn't realise how lucky she is to have a husband like you, cooking the daily meals, looking after 5 girls & taking care of the finances besides running your own business. Wish my husband did half as much as you. Truly hope she'll make up to you when she awakes.
Looked nice but the slurping is disguising!!!
it’s common in Japan for people to slurp their noodles as a sign of real enjoyment
that’s how you know it’s gooood
So don’t watch Ms perfect.…. Japanese and Koreans do that.
Then why did you watch him 😂
Ok Philippina Judy! My husband is Plilipino and he doesn’t eat like that!
@@lauram4124 hahahha!!! UNFORTUNATELY YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT BENJI THEN… HE ISN’T A FILIPINO,HE IS HALF AMERICAN HALF JAPANESE SO THE SLURPING MAKES SENSE!? THINK BEFORE COMMENTING MY DEAR….