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Surviving a Narcissist | Chins & Giggles Ep. 70
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ส.ค. 2023
- Welcome back, y'all! On this week's episode we welcome another member of the Skinny Squad, Krystal, along with Eliza Peach to the studio. Join our favorite duo as they introduce their bestie and share how they all met. *TRIGGER WARNING* Krystal opens up and shares her terrifying and heartbreaking experience with a Narcissist relationship & Shaken Baby Syndrome. We thank her for sharing her story and spreading awareness- the Chins and Giggles family is here to support!
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This must have been triggering for Mayra to listen to as she lost her baby, and she’s such a queen for not even bringing up her own story and giving her friend the platform ❤
I think that’s why she actually didn’t interrupt
Meeting Crystal for the first time at the beginning of the episode, you would never think she has gone through all that.. you can feel her heart through the screen!
Thank God for friends like you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤🫶🏻
I think Elizabeth talking over crystal was because as her friend she felt her pain and she was there for here while she was going through it all ❤. This was such an amazing episode I love you all 😭
When the baby came out I was bawling 😭 GOD IS GOOD! She’s here for a purpose 🤍
That case worker told her brother to run before cristal saw the results. She needs to be investigated for contributing to the criminal!!
The sister needs to be investigated as well she shouldn’t have been able to access this case since family members are involved HIPAA violations
Exactly! Makes my blood boil this poor baby 😢
Exactly what I said, I’ve worked in the field and there’s no way this should have been allowed.
Did they say she was forsure in the case or just speculation bc thats something that wouldn’t even be allowed
@@daisy31393they think she looked because she works in the field and is a high upper person. They don’t know. I mean, how could they know?
As a professional in healthcare she should have not even went in the room knowing the name of the baby. The sister knew it was her niece before going in the room. She should have said no conflict of interest but she didn't.
Thank you Mayra and Karina for being guests on Eliza peach’s podcast today 😂
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Lmao frrrr😂
When she took over I was like uhhhh 👀😂💀
This 😂😂😂😂😂
Omg yes spot on 🤣
Girl literally
Why does Krystal look like an older version of y’all’s younger sister, Yasmin! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
omg frrr I thought I was the only one who thought that
Right! When I saw the thumbnail I thought it was jasmine for a second
right! she’s beautiful
I literally thought it was Jasmin
yes
THANK YOU Elizabeth for guiding Krystal in her story as you already know her story and it seems like she would forget some parts... which is understandable considering there is alot to the story and trauma.
I agree!!! Elizabeth really helped.
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Loved that Mayra kept her comments to herself and actually let Crystal tell her story without interrupting.
Omg yes! I kept trying to hear crystal side of the story with no interruptions!
The way Crystal’s face lights up when the baby comes out 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Proof that mothers will do anything for their children 🙏🏻
We need Elizabeth as a permanent guest ❤❤she’s such a natural I love her
I Think Elizabeth needs her own podcast and it needs to be like RISKy PEACH lol.
CPS is so broken. Children are suffering. I love how Elizabeth talked about how we have to have faith in JESUS. This episode increased my faith. In now evaluating my marriage. Thank you Krystal for you testimony. Blessings to all of you
Elizabeth really has a way of words! She can make you feel so emotions just with words
I seriously love and adore Elizabeth so much
Crystal and Myra…. God chose you to go through what you did because of this platform …. People need to hear these stories, for his Glory, for awareness, to save lives. Thank you girls for being so open with us❤
Elizabeth is really me when it comes to comforting my friends. I speak to give them comfort and assure them that I truly am listening to them. She’s not being disruptive at all.
This !! 👏🏼👏🏼
Okay but can we give Mayra some credit for respecting Crystal & keeping her comments to herself trying to let her talk ❤
The only one that actually listens
Yessss!!!
Almost got a headache from all the interrupting and talking over 🥴
Omg yessss!
Same I’m like ok I know you guys are heated but just let her tell her story without interrupting. Not being rude to karina or Elizabeth but they did keep interrupting and trying to tell her story
As a mother this episode just got me, I can't believe the audacity of that person to hurt or harm your own child is INSANE to me! Any child for that fact but this is truly such a beautiful testimony to share and thank you for sharing with us viewers GOD is just amazing and he will always show it! So glad that the baby is healthy and healing now! Hallelujah ❤
Elizabeth was just really trying to be a supportive friend that she would tell details before Krystal could even get into it we love you Elizabeth but definitely should’ve let her speak her story first!
omg yes that was annoying !!
It’s so nice to keep meeting the “skinny squad”, Krystal is beautiful and has a unique shine; radiating through the screen. Wow, what a strong woman she is for enduring all of that. Glad her miracle baby is thriving and will continue to with the grace of god. Awesome podcast per usual. 🤍
Crystal needs protection asap, security systems chaperones, everything cause this dude sounds crazy when he comes back.
Dead ass! Maybe she shouldn’t have spoken on here. I was like fuckkk he’s going to k*ll her 😢
Yes I agree. I hope she moved to a different place and blocked him and his family on social media/phone.
She has God 🤍🙏🏼✨
@@Xtina4444do NOTTT say that!!! omg! so scary
He’s a f*** coward!! He comes back he gets arrested.. he’s a sick man
Elizabeth said, this is MY podcast 😆
😂 she did awesome!
My favorite episodes always include Elizabeth ❤
Right 😂
Lol!! Thinking the same thing! 🤣
Lol I loved it !!!!!
On behalf of us all I want to thank you all for talking about topics that need to be talked about. It not always pretty but it’s much needed. Love the podcast always a pick me up no matter the topic ❤
Not me sobbing when she came out 😭🤍 thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing such a impactful story. I personally haven’t gone through anything like this but from another mommy you are so strong & you guys deserve all the blessings and justice. Trust me you will get it completely & he’ll be where he should with God on your side. 🫶🏽🤍 blessings to your beautiful baby girl & your lives .
Am I the only one who loves when they interrupt each other 😅 I think it’s cute how they like to finish each others thoughts. My friends and I are similar cause we think alike
I cried all the episode! She's a miracle baby and God was by your side this whole time momma ❤
Ok that's it we need to see those barbie pictures of Mayra😭😂 love this podcast 💗💗 and love crystal already 🥲
Make Elizabeth a permanent member of chins and giggles! We love her ✨♥️
No
I have an almost 4 month old and her story hit me right in the heart. To think that her own father did that to her. Her testimony is beautiful and I’m so glad that she has a living miracle with her. She is so strong and lucky to have great friends like y’all ❤
What a testimony! There’s nothing that my God cannot do, your faith and praying heart is what got you here today.God bless you Krystal and baby girl 💕
I learned a lot from this podcast episode 😢 Krystal thank you so much for not giving up on yourself and your daughter, Mayra karina and Elizabeth thank you for being a strong shield of faith for her this is truly an eye opening and amazing episode ❤️🙏🏻🧎♀️
I am a single mama & I cannot imagine what you went through, this broke my heart but I’m so happy you & your baby now have eachother 💗 god bless you & your baby crystal! 🙏🏽
Agree same here 🥹🥹
I just want to say thank you to Crystal. You are so brave and so admirable to share your story. I’m so sorry to know this happened to you. May good bless you…sending you love and light.
We need a full Skinny squad reunion, with throw back pictures!! Love y’all!! 🩵
I have my 6months old and I cried multiple time with you because I couldn’t imagine what you went through! You’re so strong and I’m so sorry you had to go through that! ❤
Damn how many of us can relate to a "Narcissist Bby daddy and the Mother in law"!Prayers for Crystal and her lil Girl❤❤May God bless 🙌 them both..
Wow Krystal is a true testimony of how God answers prayers and give you victory at the end. Loved this episode.
Words can not express how strong she is to not only get through what she has but to FORGIVE and continue to have forgiveness for others. I’m speechless. ❤️
I just want crystal to know many of us have gone thru what she went through and all of her feelings are valid.
Elizabeth is a great addition as a guest for the podcast. She really does well with active listening yet she is so entertaining. Love her & her on the podcast!
Please don’t take this as nothing more than constructive criticism. I have been an avid listener of the podcast since the start and have enjoyed every bit of it. Normally I don’t care about you guys talking over each other at all, however, this episode was the only one where I wanted to jump through my screen and ask you all to let Krystal speak her complete thoughts instead of interjecting every time she was in the middle of her testimony. At first, i was able to tune you guys out and just focus on her, but as the episode progressed it got worse. I understand that you all are friends and she probably saw nothing wrong with this, but as a listener it really rubbed me the wrong way. It almost felt like you all wanted to get your opinions out no matter what. everyone was progressively getting louder to talk over each other and be heard, even over her. Not to mention Krystal was interrupted by one of you asking a question that she had literally just answered/talked about. It comes across like everyone wanted to talk more than listen.
I’m sure you all get a pass on this one because she’s your best friend, however any other guest would have probably been annoyed at all the unnecessary interruptions. I’m a firm believer that when talking about heavy trauma with people who aren’t your friends requires a bit more self awareness and intrapersonal skills to know when to talk, when to hush, and how to say things. This was not it, sorry. I hope to truly listen to Krystal’s story without the background noise in the futures because her testimony resonated with me.
They always do this & it’s so annoying. Probably why they don’t have other guests
@@aleorozco1994they really do. Normally I don’t care because they talk about more light topics. But this episode they should have been more intentional about refraining from interrupting her.
You guys need to realize that yeah this is a podcast but for them it’s like a chill day with friends. If you don’t cut off into conversations are you guys even friends?? 🤣
@@yvg_98 right! I didn’t even notice them interrupting because it felt like I was hearing a casual conversation between friends
To add to your comment as just constructive criticism because I love this podcast!, I am halfway through her story and I agree that I wish some of them wouldn’t interrupt or try to fill in the story because it puts it out of order or she has to answer questions she would eventually get to, and it’s now like trying to put the puzzle pieces together. Like you said they’re friends so it’s okay and like a conversation (which I usually love) but with a difficult and traumatic story, where the purpose is to resonate or present a testimony with listeners who don’t know what happened, it doesn’t work well.
Im crying listening to this. Holding my babies extra tight tonight 🥺 i loved this episode just because its spreading awareness to any mothers that are going through something similar.
I wanted to put a face to her voice and I did. I was so scared that these girls were in Vegas and they were gonna forget to post today and leave us without the cheese man, but they never disappoint.
cheese man LOL
Elizabeth was interrupting too many times I literally wanted to her the woman’s story and she kept trying to talk for her.
Yessss!! It’s so annoying!
I paused it several times cuz I was mad, I was gonna give up listening cut Elizabeth kept on
No she was trying to create content on the moments that were hurtful n going somewhere else
@@guadalupedelgado2436 well that’s not cool
Same I was all yelling let her talk!!!! Lol
I’m so sad and sorry that your baby girl who is the innocent victim hasn’t gotten justice over what he did.
This episode was very good. But I could not with karina and Elizabeth interrupting the wholeeee video. Let her speak her story 🥺 Thank you mayra for being so respectful 👏
Wow i cant believe how strong krystal is to go through all of that and still find it in her heart to forgive these sick fuc**s . I would not act the same honestly i would be filled with hatred so i really admire her for that , im so glad her baby survived and shes perfect and so beautiful ❤
Omg. I was in tears watching this. Crystal I am so astonished by your strength. I am over the Moon your daughter is well! Your angels protected you and God definitely won this battle for you and your daughter. God bless you❤
i had to pause the video and just stare out into the distance for a while i cannot even imagine going through any of this with my baby and then the FATHER being the one who caused all of this is just unbelievable..this woman is inspiring to me she really fought for her baby 💗 respect to her
And to not even have the satisfaction to see him rot in prison Ughhhhhhhhh she’s so strong
@@jackelnwherever he is he knows what he did and his conscience is probably killing him, there’s no way to live peacefully after doing something like that
Loved this episode! Krystals story was so hard for me to listen to but I’m glad she has to strength to tell it & everything worked out for her & her daughter in the end! ❤
So nice to meet Krystal officially on the Podcast. I don't know you personally, but you are an Amazing, Strong and Resilient woman! As a mother myself I can't imagine going through what you had to endure. I wish you nothing but the best from here on out and many many Blessings💙🙏 Thank you for sharing your story!
This hits home. Being with a person like this for 10 years I know what it is. I thank god for giving me the strength to take my child and leave. We are still healing but we are incredibly happy now.
This was the first episode where I wanted to tell y’all stfu & let ms Crystal talkkkk 😭😩
This!! Their little side comments were so irritating
@@Monicachnfucking Elizabeth! 😂 how girl BUGGED
I listened to this last night and I sobbed. I’m sorry you had to go through that. First thing I did was skip to the end to see that happy baby to be able to watch this video. As a mom, I hope and pray that God continues to give you both strength and love.
You guys need to expose both of these individuals the ex and the sister. They don’t deserve to live happily after what happened.
Heard it on Spotify before watching here, I wanted to cry many times just hearing her choke up! 🫶🏼 such a strong momma 💕
The best episode I’ve watched thus far. I cried watching this poor mama 😭 God is so good ❤🙏 Krystal is such a strong soul, for sure her mom & God helped her through this WHOLE process 💕 I currently have a 7 month old and could never imagine my heart literally broke for her 😭
Eliza peach🍑 needs her own podcast…
This was my favorite episode wish them the best👩👧
Valia will reach her milestones when she’s ready! My son is just started walking on his own at 19 months old! Went through physical therapy and did all the work. He walked on his own in my living where we had a rug. Because he felt safe and confident. She will get there before you know it!
Just listened to this on Spotify 😭🩷may God bless Cristal and her baby girl forever🙏🏻you are both so strong and you are warriors ❤️
I don’t like how Elizabeth didn’t let Krystal talk , I get it you’re uplifting her but let her speak.
Riiight she was irritating me😂
Seriously! I can’t deal with her trying to take over the podcast 😩
I love the podcast but Elizabeth should have not been on this episode
I actually like Elizabeth, I just didn’t like how she talked over Krystal, it’s a super traumatic topic for her.
@@iamericamarie_02 yes yes & yes. There was no reason for her to be have been on today’s episode.
Also, there’s not one episode where they don’t talk over each other. ANNOYING!!
I understand why people are upset that Karina and Eliza are interrupting but it’s out anger and frustration for their friend. This is how a raw rant would go between friends because they were there for it. It wasn’t out of disrespect
I agree 👍
I see a lot of negative comments about Eliza and Karina interrupting a lot but I don’t think it was anything out of the ordinary. You have to remember this is a group of friends who supported Krystal through this difficult time in her life.
Mayra was quiet per usual so nothing out of the ordinary there either.
Respectfully they could all work on not talking over each other but they recognize that. Great episode overall, thanks for sharing and spreading awareness ❤
CRYSTAL YOU ARE A WARRIOR. ADMIRATION.RESPECT,ALL THE LOVE AND HEALTH FOR YOU AND YOUR BABY QUEEN💘
Prayers your way Krystal 🙏🏼 narcissistic abuse is horrible. I’m glad you’re out of that relationship and thank God you have your baby now 🙌🏼
Ohh I’m so sorry that crystal had to go through all of that, but it goes to show how of a strong woman she is, and that is just so inspiring. I’m glad she won this battle, and I hope she continues to get the support she needs. God is good!!! 🙏🏻❤️
This episode hit home! I have two babies of my own and it’s hard to hear what happened to the baby. It broke my heart, I do EVERYTHING for my kids and I could not imagine. God is amazing and he was definitely with you crystal. You have a blessed and beautiful heart on purpose Crystal! I pray for blessings for you and your daughter for a lifetime!
She is the strongest person ever!!! It’s a very hard story to listen to. A big hug ! I’m happy your baby girl is doing great and diosito was on your side holding your hand.
This is the real life shit that we can relate to or learn from! If you’re not a mom yet and you wish to become one keep in mind that once you have a baby you will exceed your own limitation ! You will be pushed to do the unimaginable and you will learn more about yourself than you ever thought possible. Moms have this supernatural strength when it comes down to the babies.
Crystal, if your sister in law really did get your case. If she's the supervisor signing off on these cases she first shouldn't have gotten your case, that's bias you cannot under any circumstance be involved in cases as a family member. I've worked for a county that did absolutely amazing work and this is something that should not have occurred. Called your county and report her. Speak to the director not the supervisor. Collect your evidence and fill out a report. That is definitely a reason for her to get a case open under her and for her to be reviewed.
Unfortunately, I understand them still opening a case and wanting to take custody of her. There's no solid evidence of you not being involved. Although, I trust your word in the eyes of the court system it's "your word against his," there's no way they would have not been able to leave her with you and not have gotten backlash. I feel for your situation as as a social work student who had interned with CPS I would have 100% worked hard to have your case closed because this clearly was neglect on his end not yours. I'm glad you stood tall and confident in your case, I can assure you that helped built credibility. Someone who cares that much and shows up emotion and confidence would not have been able do this to their baby. The system attempts to keep children within the family and if grandma has no cases against her and was not involved in the case not present in the home then yes she would be next of kin, however, the sticky part with that is "grandmas don't always view the wrong," meaning they could be allowing the perpetrators to see baby behind CPS knowledge. If the case is still undergoing and no one has found wrong then grandma is able to have custody. If she's letting him have contact with her then That's wrong. Send in that evidence that grandma was letting him see your baby, this way it'll be in the system if they ever try to clap back. The system unfortunately cares for the child's safety not if grandma is teasing you, not if grandma is arguing with you only is she is safely caring for baby which sounds like she did . Were your family members able to petition for custody? Anyone involved in the immediate home cannot have custody. I would even go as far as having a no contact order against him, not sure how that works since he isn't present in the country. As far as issues with grandmas, CPS won't get involved with that, that's straight to a family court. However, unfortunately every county works differently. Give your caseworker all of this information, girl I would have recorded convos, saved texts all of this. It sounds like grandma beat you to it a lot of it at times and told SW before you were able to which is unfortunate. I think it actually works in your favor that you have supervised visits, you can show them how you can interact with baby and not have grandma intervene.
It sounds like the new one you got is going great! I hope she continues to hold your case. I'm glad your case is moving forward, keep working with your case worker.
Take cara of Maya had private CPS, money comes in when cases are taken. That's a whole other conversation that I don't agree with.
Ugh Crystal I’m so sorry you went through this… CPS is a joke. Him and his family will get their Karma
Thank you for sharing Crystal ❤❤❤❤
My father was an alcoholic and now listening to you how you felt. Now i am wondering everything my mother had to go through and scared that CPS wouldn't take us. So she had to suck everything up my father put her up too. 😢
Fridays are so much better with Chins & Giggles Podcast! 🎉❤
Having a 20 month old daughter I cannot imagine the ends of earth I would go though to have my baby back in my arms. I cannot imagine what you went though. May God bless your family! All you need is your baby girl. You can tell she’s your bff ❤️❤️❤️
Omg her story is so scary and heartbreaking 🥺😣😔. I’m so sorry Christal had to go though that part of life and all the pain that happened before all that 💔. Sending love 💗
This had me in my feelings. I have 3 girls and i couldn't imagine going through something like this. This breaks my heart but her support system is strong. Love seeing her surrounded with so much love ❤
Wow thank you for sharing your testimony ❤ I was in tears at the end when her baby showed up 😭 she looks so healthy and happy. May she continue to thrive 🙏🏼💖
This episode had me in tears… God bless you Crystal! You’re so strong! God is Great ❤
A Monther's unconditional love! WOW! Such a strong woman and her baby a little fighter! Thank you for bringing so much awareness. I appreciate it. I was in tears.
This story is mind boggling, all my love and strength to Kyrstal. The fact that his sister is a CPS worker is horrible, the first rule is to protect children and see what's best for that child. And the fact that she and his entire family are behind him??! Honestly couldn't even expect much from a mexican mother always babying thier sons. Honestly Krystal is god sent because the patience she had could not be me.
When she came out omg I couldn’t take it! Tearsssss. I’m happy you have your baby girl back 💜 so much strength!
Am I the I only one who thinks crystal kinda looks like jasmine? But I love crystal she’s so sweet and so
Pretty 🫶🏼
I totally thought it was Jasmine in the thumbnail!
@@clr4271sameee!!!!
We love Crystal! God gave you guys eachother for a reason ❤
Them all talking over each other is just what best friends do yall!! 😂😂
When Krystal said that she told herself "your baby is fighting, get up" ... I lost it
After watching this, i learnt my "online boyfriend" is a narcissist. And all the red flags that Crystal said is accurate with my bf. Thanks, Crystal. Now i know what to do ❤
😢😢😢Opened up my eyes truly thank you so much for this sign… and I’m so sorry crystal I wish I could give you a hug and tell your you are NOT alone.. 💖🩷💓💞 this one touched my heart thanksss ladiesss
I love how Elizabeth led the discussion! Also, Crystal, share your story with “Something Was Wrong” podcast!!!
Elizabeth is seriously amazing with words. I love her so much
Krystal needs too be back forsureeee!!! These are topics that can help anyone out here!! She’s soo strong and her baby girl as well 🤍
AMEN ELIZABETH 🙏🏻 Elizabeth’s words are everything!!
When I saw her little face I literally started crying 😭 how can someone do such a monstrous thing to an innocent baby !?💔 you and Aliyah are warriors! And I have so much respect for you for seeking forgiveness.🙌🏾
I WENT THRU THIS FOR 20 YEARS! I was 17 when i got together with the father of my four daughters. He beat me, lied to me, cheated on me, put a knife to my throat twice, the last straw was him pushing me against the wall when i was two weeks away from giving birth to my youngest daughter. My chord snapped i bled he dropped me off at ER and left. I went into emergency CSection he walked in after i was put under anesthesia. I had my baby then three years later left. This is a very hard life to live. Speaking up is hard. Thank you for this episode!
Omg I’m so sorry you went through this! Your baby doesn’t deserve that, and you either! The fact that you can still thank the grandma after all she did to you makes you a saint! I hope your baby continues to hit her milestones and can flourish in therapy, es una hermosa! Seeing her made me 😢 and made me think of my baby, and I’m so thankful she has a good father. I wish you the best Krystal. This conversation was good, and I love the support the girls give Krystal by being mad for her. Keep it up girls, I love the chat between friends, and I don’t mind you all talking over each other 🤓.
definitely can relate to crystal! the parts where she said she never felt so much hate and her trying not to bash him but just tell her truth 👏🏼👏🏼 also very real a baby will definitely open your eyes 🥹 the fantasy of a person will die once the love for your baby hits bc you want so much more for them and protect them!
This has been so emotional 😢 I am so glad you have your daughter back and that she is doing better ❤ God is good. Por encima de Dios no va nadie ni nada‼️
Your daughter is so beautiful, Que Dios la bendiga ❤
She is so brave😭🩷my heart goes out to her she’s a soldier
Chrystal’s story is beautiful! Her mom and god were forsure by her side and her daughters side throughout this whole situation! May god bless Chrystal and her baby girl!
Crystal thank you for opening up and sharing this experience to make more people aware of this 🙏
I just couldn’t finish the story when she was about to talk about her baby girl … I’m a mom of 3 boys and I just can’t imagine what you went through crystal ❤ you are so strong ! May God and your mom always lead you to be the best mom you can be .
Thank you Mayra & Karina (Chins & Giggles) for using your platform to bring awareness! Thank you Crystal for sharing your testimony for being brave your story makes a difference and I know it will help and inspire others! All the glory to our lord Jesus Christ!