Dear Future Wifey S3, E303: Sexpectations (Kanika & Jonathan Evans)
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- Why do most couples struggle in the area of intimacy? This transformative episode unveils the “why” as Jonathan and Kanika Evans transparently tackle this subject. Let’s affectionately call this episode, “Sexpectations.”
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“Don’t try to change him. Let him be changed by the word of God through your example.” 🔥
This deep
This is so awesome. I love this episode. Plenty nuggets
We live once so we gonna live once together. Deep
That's the word.
Wow. Eating all this up.
“You can’t do ministry outside the home while the home is falling apart”. I like this quote!
I just wanted to cry through this whole thing. I actually paused, cried, and talked to God. I pray my husband is open to have these kinds of conversations one day.
I feel you, even when mine listens to me have this discussion he doesn't hear.
Please don't levy unfair expectations on your future husband. I can assure you, most guys don't like to have these convos on a regular - christian or not- unless it's their job🤑. Don't complicate your life with narrow ideas of a good partner. *Not saying that you are.* But, vision, dependability, grit and introspection go far beyond the warm and fuzzies. 💛
He will absolutely love to have these sort of conversations with you. He will love you just like this and more!
@@keishapuryear8180 I feel u. Just like I haven't said a thing. God told me to change me not him, and by God' grace I am growing in love and happiness within myself.
@@alvinjackson9685 not all fellas.
Its a blessing to witness a healed, healthy, and whole black man.
That part 👏🏾🖤👑❤️🩹
Talk about it. It's a lot of getting offended if a man is not healed and functioning form a place of ego. Help us Jesus. It's the same for women too. We gotta take time to heal so we can understand all this wholly
Hallelujah!!
“People get married at the church to bring God into their marriage....but leave Him at the altar”
🤯 that’s an eye opener!! This is some good teaching, & I’m single & soaking it up. Thank y’all for pouring Godly wisdom!
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SOME people.
Whew!
Daaaang!!! 🎤🎤💣💣💥💥
More examples of foreplay: cooking breakfast for your wife, tossing the clothes in the dryer without being asked to do it, anticipating a need without your wife asking you. Yes, foreplay starts waayyy before you touch.
Yes but Don forget the words women need to hear too. If you do all the actions yet don't speak the words it feels transactional and like an entitlement
Makes me think about learning each others love language is!! Soo key. Sounds like yours might be acts of service. Mine is words of affirmation. Makes a huge difference to receive my love language.
For women. 😌
That’s more of a love language thing what you saying doesn’t really apply for people early in marriage opposed to 10+years
@@coolvibesonly2914 i think learning the love language, its better late than none. You're in yr 10, look up your spouse love language n start speaking it, its healing, n it starts from somewhere!
"You can't do ministry outside the home when your home is falling apart." Sadly, the family gets angry with God because one is busy ministering outside yet failing at home. Your family is your 1st ministry.
Yes!!!!
Amen
I noticed how he always looks to and lovingly touches his wife, and how she fills in her husband’s words right on point. Yes, this is a kingdom marriage.
Yes.
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Yes. Seeing him gently touch her and lovingly share. Jonathan is a wise young man. He gives her every reason to love Him. Her spirit beautifully compliments him. They are a precious and sweet couple. I pray they are continuously blessed to share their marriage wisdom with the masses. ❤
"When you marry a person, you don't only marry the person, but you marry their history!" Oftentimes we wonder why people behave the way they do but never bother to learn about their history. My past informs my present.
Speaks my pass inform my present my my that’s good @lele
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Facts
Soooooooooooo true! So true!!!! Their history, family, relationship, financial, etc, etc.….all thattt…says and means a lot!
Kanika is a class act. I met her once at a kid’s basketball game and she was absolutely delightful! No pretenses, or airs. So warm and classy. Such a pleasure!
“You can’t have righteous sex from a sinful context.” 🔥
Say that!!
I've said this (in different words) about pornography & someone looked at me like I was talking backwards.
Read this comment exactly when he said it on the video lolll 😂 God, I hear you. ☺️✨✨
Listen!!!!!
They need to dig deeper into this part to bring total truth. A lot of husbands come into marriage as sex addicted teens in a man's body.
He is saving my marrige that’s not even yet started ! These are pure GEMS !!
That's dope!!!
Say it Again!!!!!! 🖐🏾 I'm taking notes as a single hoping for marriage.
@@DearFutureWifey this is great
Legit
This is soo good
Omg WOW the way he keeps relating back to Christ .. I love it !! Because it shows it starts with God first
Isn't that so wonderful! Christ is his point of reference! Amen!
That’s what made it so impactful!!! The Way, The Truth & The Life!
This was 🔥 DOPE - I LEARNED so MUCH; many, many aha and Hallelujah's!
Me too yesss
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Johnathan is definitely his father's son, full of wisdom🙏🏾❤
Seeing this immediately made me think - please do a Kingdom Men episode! There’s so much out there to uplift women, but our men need just as much encouragement
Amen, you're absolutely right Queen.
His father and pastor Tony Evans talks about that.
I definitely agree with you❣️
@@jenniferjackson7054 I know & it’s a great series but i think hearing dialogue between men that reflect a younger demographic will def make an impact. So many guys struggle to establish their manhood until their 30s+
Dr. Tony Evans has much help just for men. OCBF church it's on TH-cam also
This is like free pre-marital counselling. Lol. Love the candid conversation about issues we really need to stop shying away from. Real Talk.
Yes, yes, yes...Most definitely
This is reeaal gooood
Amen, Lisa
Yes it is Lord!! It’s so good
Man, He dropped some serious gems, especially concerning his feelings after his mom passed. I like this couple. This should be mandatory viewing, especially in pre-marital counseling 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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Kejuan- Amen!
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Thank you
Jonathan's point about the woman is to always be under the protection of a Father was so profound and true, transferring from father to husband... problem is, so many of us women don't even know how the protection of a father feels so the husband being such is foreign... divorce is therefore inevitable
I was married 13yrs now divorced for the past 7yrs, waiting for another chance to be a wife again. I am here for the teaching as I am a student of life for LIFE!
Prayers for you Sis 🙏🏽
Don't commit adultery...Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
I hope that you are just not sitting and waiting. Prayer without works is just a dream. Many times as women we are so afraid to take a chance. God doesn’t want us to just wait around for life to happen to us. He wants us to live a holy life with the emphasis on “live’. While you are living your holy life He will then bless you with a soul mate,but you want me that soul mate without living life. It comes full circle. Believe me I have been a widowed and divorced but through all of those painful experiences God has been with me to left me see how wonderful life is and that I should never give up living it. With Him by my side I am a force to be reckoned with. My God continue to bless you.
@@daughterofzion8452 amen
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I love that he brings a child with him. What a beautiful way to bond. Thank you for representing a GOOD MARRIAGE that is a TEAM.
'A woman will not Lean in, until she experiences the consistency that let her know she can' ❤ I really felt that,ive previously never experienced that Rest always had to be a strong independent woman thank you I am learning.
That hit me too sis. I pray I experience this kind of rest.
GM Sinayo! I feel you! I think a lot of us have HAD TO be independent women. There was never the opportunity to rest! I love what is being said here too!
@@deardragrace4619- GM Deardra! I pray,and agree with you regarding receiving that desire in your heart! Grace and Peace girl!
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Yes this is the truth
This is so true because my father never was there for me he was there but he wasn’t present, so when I I started dating now /husband I actually found a father figure in him, my husband showed me how to drive, how to save money, and help me get my first apartment, things my dad would not do, and communicating. This is so good 😊
That's really so sweet. 💕
It’s him quoting them scriptures off the top of the dome for me! 💕💞
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Yes!! He said, "it all ties in with scripture." Love that!
The security discussion. Men have learned to keep women insecure to get what he wants. Man is to protect and provide security in marriage. So if that man is doing anything to upset the security in the home that woman will not be secure and open to his needs.
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I’m not married yet but he’s coming in the mighty name of Jesus. I’m feeding the beast with in with this blessed word. Lord, I’m learning. Am I ready yet?
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Kaneeka is naturally a BEAUTY. She looks like a teen
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Wow I've never heard a man speak in such way that he does about his wife 😩🙏🏾💕
This podcast was EVERYTHING!! I have been married for 20 years, my husband and I watched this one together and it has tremendously helped both of us!! Continued blessings to you all! ❤
Kudos to your husband for watching it with you. ❤ blessings
Cant do ministry outside the home when home is not in order. Glory Glory Glory.
Yesss!!! 🤗🙏🏽
The best eulogy I had ever seen.
This was so good. So many good nuggets
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He is absolutely correct.
This is free therapy PERIOD. I have been so blessed, lesson get out of my way...and of course out of God's way. I am grateful and sharing this episode hoping it blesses someone somewhere be it couple or single AMEN
This is so true. Women receive and are internal, similar to the womb. Men are external and need to physically feel intimacy, similar to the male genitals, which are outside the body. We are just built differently. Great conversation 💖
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That's Good!
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You are saving someone’s marriage right now! I’m single and I know you’re helping me 😊
I understand now that men are not dogs! They are made in the image of GOD! Wowwwww
This is the way they are made!!!
Remember that ladies!!! Replay this podcast married people!!! This is Good!!👏👏👏👏
The quote of the entire interview, "My gift to me was to give to HER".
Yes! Whew!!!!
I enjoy Johnathan’s teachings! Like father like son. ❤️🙏🏾 His wife is knowledgeable also with a meek spirit.
“When you fall in love with the work, the euphoria is just the cherry on top!” 🔥🔥🔥
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" a woman will lean in after experiencing consistancy from a man "😥 omg. Lord heal my brokenness
"We live once, we gonna live once together"💥
This couple was amazing! I love his outlook on marriage and intimacy. I was totally impressed how he brought the Bible to life so graphically for us to understand. I pray this blesses marriages!
Powerful. As a single woman, I hope the rest of us understand using your body as a weapon or carrot is pure witchcraft... Love this episode!!
This is real.
It's easy to say that when you're single. When you have to deal with it everyday and you're not even getting your emotional needs met, it's a different ball game.
This man is talking sensibly like a man of God however there are mad men out there who have no qualms using your body till you're spent while not caring about your wellbeing.
If you meet a man who's wife doesn't want to sleep with him, truth is, he's frustrating her...
He just took my "Husband-Hood" to a whole-nutha level. Great teaching
Get it, Bruce.
Yessss, GO BE GREAT!!!
Oooooh….my next marriage is going to be da bomb!!! This is sooo good! God is showing out on this channel. Each season it just goes higher and higher 🙌🏾. I thank God for your obedience! MANY are being blessed by this channel ❤️! I’m about to take another run around my house 💃🏽
Amen Sister!!!! I am touching and agreeing with you about my next marriage too, you spoke it, it shall be!!!!!
My My My!! I have been schooled!! And I was married 26yrs!! This needs to be listened to MULTIPLE times.
Thats a kingdom marriage that Kanika and Jon are discussing right there. Oh how I pray for such a marriage, God knows am ready for it.
I’m watching this TWICE because the first time it was something I put on so I could work and listen. Nawwwww I’m listening AGAIN and paying attention ENTIRELY. Geezussssss! Good teaching.
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He shouldn't have none, she shouldn't either if they're single....no wonder folks are crazy they're dealing with too many soul ties..
I love that.. giving her a break..I love the way he does that..a friend came over and took her out we need that ladies!!
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I have watched like all the episodes but this particular one carries it all...like literally every statement is tweetable.
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I wish men would understand they are not the only ones who need sex women need it too! I’m speaking for the women with high sex drives & whose love language is physical touch, who don’t even think about withholding nothing from their husband Lol or future husband even if they’ve had a disagreement! Great word overall though I really like when he spoke about how a woman should ALWAYS be covered as she goes from being protected and covered by her father to then being protected and covered by her husband. & when he spoke for those whose fathers weren’t in their life. So many great things they said I also love when his wife said during a disagreement she told her husband “remember we are a team” what a beautiful and gentle reminder during a moment of frustration to keep that at the forefront of our minds! Great word👏🏽
whewww okkk! I'm watching like chile, the men the 1 need to hear this. soon as they hit 30 they 1 rounders 🤕
I am not married YET but this was knowledge that I will put in my purse for when I am.
Hey buddy!
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I was sure I’d bypass this episode since it didn’t apply to me, so I thought, but now I am 100% certain that it was meant for me to listen to. The #fatherlessdaughter segment is very relatable and it runs deep in our community. There were so many gems here!
I LOVE this couple!!!The "Evans Family" total definition of integrity. Thank you bro L another job well executed.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is so good. You guys have given me the advice I need. In order to get my husband to see what I'm needing I just need to DO what I'm asking him to do instead of speaking what I need him to do. We have been married 31 years and I'm going to do this and will be consistent. Better late than never. God has blessed you both to be able to have a spouse who is willing to do the work.
Kanika is so pretty! A lot of good takeaways, keep the strong content coming!
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I became a strong woman because of the absence of a father figure in my life. Dad wasn’t around much, mom married 4 times. Grandfather passed when I was 13 and the other grandfather passed before I was born. I was married 23 years and I still have never felt the protective male influence in my life. I can’t wait for that day that a man is willing to hold me so I can let down. I’m tired. I’ve done the work and healing, and have become my own source of what I need and want. I still would like a healthy partnership to pour into each other and experience the healthy dynamic of love, support, acceptance, and integrity.
This podcast has truly changed my life. Jonathan and Kanika are one of my favorite married couples to listen to and grow from in marriage, ministry, and parenting. This episode really put a lot into perspective for me as I prepare for marriage.
Laterras, you may not know it, but you have sat with Dr. Lois Evans every time you talked to her husband, children (biological and spiritual), and grandchildren. Her influence is so evident in how you are so careful to affirm your future wifey in your letters as well as your intentionality with your guests. In fact, Kanika reminds me of her gentle and quiet spirit as she speaks in few words but so profound. Please don't regret not spending more time with her in those moments, instead, rejoice that the evidence of her impact on the earth still resonates in you. Think on these things and let your heart praise the Lord all the more. Thank you for another excellent episode. 👏🏽
I'm about 30 minutes in and I notice that he constantly refers back to the word ❤
He learned from the best.His father is a beast with the Word!!💯
This is certainly THE BEST I've ever heard about marriage and relationships teachings WOW!!
Thank you so much.
Wow, thank you!
This is the first time I've ever heard a Christian husband say if you don't walk a certain way you're not entitled to intimacy. Continual intimacy is required for physical intimacy!!! Yaaaas that's what I've been telling my husband for years. He sees it as an entitlement almost transactional. Ugh
Pray for change continually until you see a change.
Thank you we agree on this!
So many husbands do. Unfortunately because of it and a few other things, mine ended in divorce. I would play this podcast while he’s in the house and let him get some nuggets. Or be intentional say I have something for us to watch. prayers and blessings. 💝💖💝
Maybe he’s just not into you anymore🤷🏿♂️.
Well said. However, don’t weaponize you body too. He will learn if you are exemplary.
I'm married and this episode was absolutely amazing! This has opened my eyes tremendously! God bless you always
“In order to get intimacy you have to work”...not just be ready all the time without putting in the work. Make sure you take care of your garden.
🔥We live once... We are going to live once *TOGETHER* 🔥 This is soooo full of #Gems 💎. A wise friend of mine says: "Emotions don't have eyes... Why are we letting them lead us ?" #DeceitfullyWicked
This blesses me in my singleness. This is the first time being on here and it blessed me beyond measure and has allowed me to look at myself differently. Thank you for allowing your platform to be a blessing to others.
You are so welcome
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This was absolutely incredible. As SOON as I got the notification about this video, I clicked on it because I knew the Evanses would bring it...And they did not disappoint! (The way Pastor Jonathan spewed out those gems?????) I received so much from this conversation-so many nuggets that I can digest NOW as a single woman preparing for marriage. I wanna be ready! 🙌🏽💃🏽
Thank you to Kanika, Jonathan and Laterras for letting God use you in this way. We have truly been blessed!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Although I’m a single woman, this understanding union is my relationship goal.
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🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥This fam is dropping bars......m even tired of writing them dow but I ain't stopping😂😂😂😂Thank you for this episode so educating
Don’t Give Your Feelings Your Faith! That’s Powerful 💥 Pastor Jonathan Evans and His Wife Kanika Is So Humble! 💞
I am divorced and totally am blessed by the podcast immensely!
He said, if God haven’t changed him, what makes you think you can? That part!!🔥🔥
WoW!! This was a mic drop, incredible episode just like the Pastor Conway one.Loved his reverence for his wife. So many greats gems dropped. If only the world could adopt this consistent theme of giving, that's showering throughout this episode.
Accountability is huge! “If your man has a problem with accountability there’s a problem” say it LOUDER!!!! That’s a REDDDD FLAGGGGGG
This is great !!!! Your parents definitely pass that great knowledge on. Your wife is a great fit for you. Wish the both of you more blessings. Continue to teach . Great podcsst !!!❤
Nothing but love for the entire Evans family, they’re changing lives out here.👏🏽
Only 30 mins in and I'm in awe about the amount of wisdom and revelation I'm receiving!
I’m 23 years in my marriage and this is helping me 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 marriage is constantly growing
What a blessing that channel has been to me! I watch some shows twice.
Thanks Kanika & Jonathan! Y’all are so soaked in Gods love.
"Men marry women hoping they won't change, women marry men hoping they will change" 🤯
So true.
Only half way through this interview…. Lord, I repent!!!
Side note: this woman is BLESSED!!!! I love their love
What a blessing
What a man! Well raised, God fearing 💖
So often people say there isn’t a handbook for the way we are to be in life as individuals, as husbands and wives, and as parents, but this couple here just proved us wrong! They broke down the Bible, like the handbook it is, and always has been! We weren’t looking deep enough at the meaning, and the messages. I sure am looking at it so differently! Thank you! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
First of all, I love your facial expressions, they're quite entertaining. 😂 But going deeper into the discussion, I really hit home when Jonathan stated," If God hasn't changed him, why do we think we can." Honestly, I believe a lot of our desire to change men, stems from not waiting and trusting God to send us what we need. Sometimes we (the flesh) want, what we want! Before watching your podcasts, I didn't even believe that a man like you STILL existed (single, saved and serious about marriage). It gives me hope. 🙏🏾 Also, I believe that consistency is a love language. I learned a great deal about the different aspects of intimacy - giving and receiving. Thanks for sharing. 💜
Funny 😁 I was thinking about how you might consider restoration with your first wife...and then you shared about how Tony Evans questioned the same thing. What a testimony to have this journey and the potential of truly healing from your Pride and truly repair with your first wife...honor the covenant!
Thank you for your podcast!
I closed my eyes and literally absorbed every Word.57:01 until the end literally took me out!! I was in tears of His Testimony.I am so familiar and can relate when God shows himself within Man his Own Heart and his Emotions of offering his Son as A Sacrificial Gift to Mankind
This episode was beyond priceless. Listening to Jonathon & Kanika ignited a desire to know Jesus on a deeper level. Jesus drew me to Himself through worship in Dec '95 (salvation). I've been a Worshipper ever since. Our relationship went to a higher level in March 2001 after attending a women's retreat. I have been quite smitten ever since. Now I realize studying His word will deepen my love creating greater intimacy.
My spiritual mom has shared "Intimacy is the Highest Worship". This podcast has given me the missing piece to my understanding of that phrase. I'm in tears. Thank you again Laterras for your obedience to interview them. Blessings upon Blessings to all of you. 🙂
Jonathan Evans is a powerful man of God! His wife is beautiful and intelligent. I thank God for them! I'm going to purchase his book.❤❤
I discovered your podcast 22-May-21 after watching your interview with Essence Atkins it took me a day and a half to soak in everything. I love and respect the transparency of your guests and pray that your podcast will be a vehicle for change for all.
Amazing couple. A wonderful blessing to each other. God is so amazing for wonderful examples like this. Yes, Lord Jesus that QUALITY TIME. 1 Peter 3, Jesus, a Gentle and Quiet Spirit…Hallelujah, I’m learning Lord Jesus. Why must we play games with each other? Why can’t we be honest with each other and use our words to communicate effectively, so we can have what God say we can have with each other and for each other? That intimacy with God is amazing and then it overflows to our partners, WoW Jesus. You are so amazing 🤩 Accountability partners is a wonderful thing to have.
This episode is GROUNDBREAKING! I’m so inspired! I pray these words save many marriages and gives council to so many preparing for marriage!! Wish I had this teaching before it came to divorce. Thank you Laterras! I love your energy! I love how you let the Holy Spirit lead the discussion! Your epiphanies and reactions are everything!
Not only couples but also singles are learning from this.
I receive that, "a woman cannot change a man, only God can"! I wish this video was around in my earlier dating life! But, not to worry, I got it now!!!! Praise God for wisdom!!!! ♥️♥️
WOOOOOOO WEEEEEE!!!! That was freaking AMAZING!!!! 🖤🖤🖤💪💪💪👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I just emailed about THIS VERY THING LAST NIGHT... this was powerful
This is my 2nd time watching this video this week at work. I sent it to my family and my Auntie. I’m so thankful for you Guys! This podcast! I’m going through a break-up and I do feel like I’m running myself crazy but this podcast gives me strength. I love his Wife who is so sweet and meek. Her presence is powerful! I will be watching this again and taking more notes. Thank you, Guys!
Dear Future Wifey, THANK YOU for obeying God by starting this channel!!! God bless you brother!
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I mainly enjoyed this talk, but I feel like at moments, it was suggested that wives are responsible if their husband turns to pornography. While I totally agree that a wife can "withhold wrongly" so to speak, but a man is responsible for his own sexual integrity and his own choices. And saying sex is a need completely discounts the journey of those of us who are not married. We are all called to live with sexual integrity, married or unmarried. But like I said, great talk.
I agree it give excuses to those that want sex before marriage. And he said multiple times that a man needing to eat will eat. "If the gas station ⛽ is closed just go to the next station". I get what you're saying
You “feel like at moments...” How? He simply admonished wives to be mindful of creating an atmosphere that makes “fast food” more appealing by keeping the “garden” closed. Do what you can to reduce temptation. Again, how does this even remotely hint at him not being responsible for his actions and choices?
@@damianholmes3049 Of course, I don't think he meant that men are not responsible for their own actions explicitly, but when you define sex as a need, it lays the groundwork for the mindset of "Well, I'm not getting it at home. I'll look elsewhere." Again, I am not excusing a wife withholding sex from her husband as way to manipulate in anyway. But we also can't say - well she wasn't giving him what he needed, so he it makes sense that he turned to porn, etc. Again, I know that the Pastor wasn't saying that outright. But again, defining sex as need plays into that logic. Best.
@@knicolecurtis I agree!!
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Go head bro preacher. Oh my goodness this is so educational
Absolutely
So much wisdom🙏🙏🙏👍
This is the kind I biblical teaching I LOVE. Practical application of the Word. We know what it says, the world, especially the church, needs real time examples of what that looks like lived out. ❤️
Attention! TH-cam Family & Friends!!!!! It's Getting Ready to be a Holy Ghost Fiery moment in time on this free conference call!!!! Jacob Ladder Ministries Presents a "One Hour of Power Revival" on April 16, 2022. Time: 12pm CST. and 1pm EST. This event is for 1hour and 30min. If you need a Miracle or to be Revived, Healing, Deliverance, Salvation, the Holy Ghost, whatever that need is Make the Call with the expectation of Jesus showing up in the midst of us to meet you at your needs. We are also taking the time to Celebrate Bishop/Prophet James Norris's Birthday as he is also our Special and Honorable Guest Speaker. Tell a Family Member, a Friend, Someone you love, Anybody-Everybody is invited... . If you are in the US use the free conference call number shown below. I will post numbers for other countries as well stay tuned. Blessings! Your Host: Ralanda Richard 🎤 Please remember to mute your phones to eliminate background noises Thank you. 1602-580-9431 Access Code 4088149# Also you can go to my Facebook page RalandaKaye Richard to look for other numbers for other countries posted.
This was sooo powerful. I’m single praying for marriage now. I’m learning so much from your podcast. God Bless You and your ministry!
This couple is amazing....but this woman is AMAZING! This is probably one of the best episodes! God bless you all!
Never use your body as a weapon , you are one flesh and a house divided will not stand 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Aren't weapons used purposely to injure? Why do people assume if a spouse doesn't want sex it's being used as a weapon instead of a defense? If 2 are to be united as one then wouldn't it make sense that if one is feeling less valued the act of sex can feel abusive for that person. Really?? expecting enjoyment without emotional synchronization makes no sense to me. But maybe that's because I'm the one who doesn't enjoy it without feeling emotionally safe.
@Keisha Puryear . I have heard many women say this and it is a legitimate question , there is also a lot of truth in it to be sure . The problem comes when one or the other people in the relationship only wants sex one way . Men view sex and intimacy as separate things even more so depending on the relationship . Women see this as as one complete package . Men are not women , we have a chemical Testosterone that has been called toxic because it makes a man a man 💪🏼. We have to be ready to protect our family and sometimes violence is needed to ensure peace . To put it bluntly , we have to be ready to Kill . Some men struggle with controlling that savagery while others struggle with the ability of unleashing it . Keisha. If your man is the more savage type ( caveman ) follow these simple steps . When he’s home , fill his belly with proteins ( food ) until he falls asleep . Avoid caffeine , alcohol , anything that makes him more intense ! Find someway to have a quickie to lower his testosterone ! Later when the day is over you will find the lover you desire has been their with you the whole time . This works on all men ! I pray the Lord bless you and yours and keep you safe from all harm in Jesus mighty name Amen 🕊
@@coreyhaga2623 hasn't worked for 19 years. He sees sex as an entitlement. He's always fed and quickies are the norm. Now what?? When and how do I get what I need?
@Keisha Puryear . This may take a councilor for marriage , sometimes the man needs to have a one on one and talk with another man who he trusts . Do you know of such a person in his life and if so set up a meeting , please be discreet about it. , never openly disrespect your spouse or it’s game over .
@@coreyhaga2623 we've tried counseling before prior to separation for 2yrs. UT wasn't until we were on our way to divorce that he sought counseling on his own. I've been suggesting it all the time since he's reverted. Don't know how much longer I can wait for change. Thanks for the advice that should have worked.
My favorite episode YET!!!!!!
Preaching, teaching, etc. I shouted a few times and nearly cried a few times too 🤣🤷🏽♀️ Yeah they DOPE
Hear me when I say that I can’t settle for a man who doesn’t love God and who doesn’t put Him first. I’ve tried and for me it’s not possible. I am absolutely ok with being alone if that’s not Gods will for my life because I can’t know what’s possible, know that it does exist, and still settle for less. Nope!