I was raised Chinese-American, fully westernized, and my wife is from the Midwest (central US). Even we had cultural differences. For the most part we each embraced the other's culture, especially FOOD 😋
I have similar experience as you, except my wife is from California. Cultural differences between my wife and I were rarely an issue through our 43-year marriage, but they did crop up from time to time as something different to deal with. Not problematic unless you make it so, and it helps when both families don't have hang ups with mix marriages.
I would like to see video of 1) Jiayi and Julie teaching each other's language. 2) Julie teaching Jiayi's mom how to cook Danish dishes. 3)Jiayi's mom teaching Julie how to cook Chinese dishes 4)Jiayi & Julie's exercise videos. Thanks! Keep up the great videos!
Great suggestions! I doubt well do 2 or 3 though. I'm not a huge fan of cooking but I do cook Chinese food pretty well already. Might make food or bake with Jiayi in the future though 😊
@@jiayiandjulieinchina Very cool! Thanks for info! Cooking and food vlogs are very popular among influencers and could add to increase viewers, sponsorship endorsement deals, and subscribers to monetize channel. I think viewers would enjoy seeing how Danish Scandinavian dishes can add to various Asian dishes. Eventually come up with new recipes and sell books and attend food events, festivals, etc. Keep up the great vlogs!
Amazing surprise to be recommended such great content video. Subscribe right away. Julie is impressively articulate, and thoughtful in whatever she’s putting her ideas on. The way you organize and put forward your thoughts and vocab range you have showcase your brilliant wisdom which is not at all secondary to your gorgeous appearance. You totally deserve such an excellent, athletic, best-possibly-educated and handsome husband that even the proudest Chinese parents would dream of cultivating their children into. Miracle put you miraculous couple together. Best wishes from Beijing. Enjoy your beautiful lifelong journey.
Isn't it nice to find someone who loves you as much as you love them. I am a Marriage Educator, a Certified Wedding Ceremony Officiant and an Ordained Minister in the US (Sarasota County, Florida). Wonderful video! Applause! Applause!
An amazingly comprehensive video for all couples. I love the extra examples you gave regarding intersectionality particularly in the "politics" section. Those are common and real scenarios in general but especially for Asian women. For someone who is not Asian, you're very well read and astute on the experiences/culture of identities outside of your own. Both of you are clearly quite intelligent and open minded. More people should be like you two. Much love!
my wife is from china, I'm american and we just had our first child. we're staying in the US for now but our long term plans is to move and retire in china for safety and more affordable cost of living.
I don't know how your vid appeared for me. Wishing you a lifetime filled with love, joy, and countless happy memories as you embark on your beautiful journey together! 👍🏼💞
Hello, Guys. I ran across your Channel because I LOVE China. I am an African-American Attorney and traveled to several locations within China and many times imagined myself living there, wondering what difficulties I might end up dealing with. But listening to your particular story is heartening. Maybe in all the videos I missed it, but what does Julie do for a living? Are her career possibilities there to pursue? Both people need to feel fulfilled in the country/culture they find themselves in.
Hey! We personally chose not to talk about our jobs online just for privacy reasons, but I can say career options for foreigners within China are somewhat limited, since you cannot take a job a native is better suited for (which is most), so you can't practice law here as a foreigner for example. Most foreigners work as teachers, models or in positions for foreign companies 😊
We are looking for more videos, Sometimes Quantity overcomes qualities. Don't pay much more attention to the edition work. Truly. We just want to meet you and listen to you guys
Jiayi has beautiful mind ,He deserve it. Judie is not only beautiful but also brave, Today's narrative is controversial . I wish you guys can manage it well, My advice is just to avoid any political issues and all the issues related to the politics, Put it in the ice bank. People from the east and west have different knowledge and point of view on many politics issues. We nearly can't solve it by ourselves. It's a issue more tricky than religion.
Thank you very much. Both of us are quite political people and most things in society are political, so I'm sure it'll be a thing in some of our future videos as well. I think as a society, we should all strive to allow differences. In my personal experience, I learned most from those I disagreed with 🌸
I am married for 30 years...and it is an int'l marriage. There are many merits but some difference and difficulties ahead. Hope you guys will stick around forever!
Another great video👍 On the religion part, it reminds me of my growing up years. I kind of became a Christian (not officially baptized) when I was a teenager due to influence of some foreigner (mostly American) friends. They came to China for both cultural exchange and missionary purposes. From them I had some friendship that I cherish the most in my life and after getting to know them more and more I decided to follow him too. We hangout and go to church/fellowships regularly for a while. But as I grew older and lost day-to-day/face-to-face contact with those Christian friends, I kind of grew out of it too. I lost the feeling of connection I once had. From my personal experience, I agree with your point that most likely the relationship between a super religious ppl and not so religious ppl won’t work out too well.
I know Nordic people can speak English well, actually people with Germanic language background speak good English in general, but Julie your English is exceptional, not only no foreign accent whatsoever, also the phrases you use, your choice of words are no different from native speakers from US or Canada (obviously you don't have any British accent). Did you live/study in the US or Canada?
I think Scandinavians speak English well (better at English than Germans). I've lived in Germany for almost 1 year and had a Norwegian friend. Europeans are cool people in general. I like European ladies.
@@lm-pw9ul Thanks for your message. For Germanic language I was referring to a type of language, German, English, Dutch and many Scandinavian languages are all subtypes of Germanic language, vs Latin (French, Spanish, Italian ....). Germanic language people can speak English well with no or light accents, compare to Latin languages background people all with very strong accents. Anyway Julie's English is almost US native level, and JiaY'si English is even more impressive for a guy is pretty much all local China grown.
Very interesting video. The first serious relationship I ever had with someone of a different nationality was when I started dating my wife. I grew up in the southern US and she grew up in China before coming to the US for graduate school. We addressed many of the issues you brought up very early in the relationship. I was nervous when we went to China to meet her family. They welcomed me with open arms from day 1.
It is a serious suggestion from a double aged guy. We need a lot of talented people for human as a whole. I can tell that you guys CAN MAKE a successful family.
It doesn't always work that way though! I have seen quite a few couples who are exceptionally intelligent yet have kids who are intellectually impaired. There's a conversation between Anna Pavlova and Albert Einstein. Pavlova said,"We should get married and have kids. They will have my beauty and your brain" which Einstein replied, “What if they have my look and your brain?"😅
Yes but that doesn't mean it doesn't affect you or your partner. Many of us still have traditions with a religious root or values, because our society was constructed around it ❤️
They are changing a little bit about the authentic religous or extrem action for other influences instead of non-religious. In fact, some religious communities use that to strengthen own identify in multi-religions area
The world is changing but I don’t believe that there is less people believing in a Spiritual higher power perhaps you are referring to organized religions
Gender roles vary from culture to culture and individual to individual. Are you raising your kids Christian or Atheist? Religion is not a barrier to love however if they don’t agree on a lot things I wouldn’t marry or be in a relationship with them . Politics views on gender equality abortion ect is very important to me. Compatibility is very important in a relationship. If you understand and respect each other that’s what matters.
@@BeatniKkersThis will always be the silliest argument to me. What even is a "serious Christian"? Do you celebrate holidays with a pegan origin like Valentine's day, mother's & father's day, easter, Halloween or Christmas? Must not be a proper Christian then. Do you wear mixed fabric? Get haircuts or shave? Believe men and women should be put to death when they cheat? Believe disabled people shouldn't be allowed to go to the alter of God? Do you believe we should stone those who curse at God? Do you keep the sabbath holy? If you don't follow all the rules, who are you to decide who is a "serious Christian" or not? People like you make others distance themselves from the Lord, because you feel entitled to judge them. There are plenty of Christians who would say Jiayi and I shouldn't be together due to our ethnic backgrounds not matching. I don't agree with them, nor do I agree with you. Have a nice day.
@@jiayiandjulieinchina so....are we equating celebrating once a year or some METAPHORICAL passages to one's future kids being led astray due to their atheist father?
@@BeatniKkers The reason why many Christians are so annoying is right here in this comment. Their one-sided narrow interpretation of the book just push people away.
From the various mix-marriages on TH-cam, it seems China's dealing/acceptance of foreign spouses need to be improved, a lot. What's your experience with that?
In my experience people are more accepting of it than the west. Most people we encounter on the street just seem curious or seem like they think we're being cute
China men are not as romantic as western men, but they love their families, care for their wives and take care of their children. The divorce rate in China is very low, and once you choose it, you will stay with it for life, so China men are ideal partners, and I believe your eyes are good. Twenty years ago, many women in China married abroad. After decades of development, China's national strength has been significantly improved, and life in China is more comfortable than that in foreign countries. Therefore, there are very few women in China who married abroad. Instead, many foreign daughters-in-law have been married to China. Life in China is very safe. There are no vagrants, thieves, drugs and guns, and LGBQ+. I wish you a happy life!
I think it's wrong to generalize too much when we talk about people. Jiayi is extremely romantic, and not all Western men are. Everyone is different, but I have heard that some say their Chinese partner won't say, "I love you." Luckily, I can't relate. Also, divorce in China is actually very high (we just talked about it on B), but there's nothing wrong with that. If you aren't happy, it's better to leave each other. Lastly, there's definitely LGBTQ+ here. From what I've seen it's a huge community and I think that's awesome. I embrace all the shapes and expressions we have humanity. It makes us beautiful as a society 😊
This is so funny considering one of my best friends in nonbinary and that I usually would assume that you interact with people based on their gender rather than their assigned sex at birth. Obviously, with this, I'm assuming you don't check people's genitalia when you first meet them 😅 However, let's be clear that the majority of the population in English would use the word gender in this type of conversation regardless of where they stand on the debate about gender vs sex, because the world sex is primarily used in a medical context 😊
You seemed all neutral talking about all these topics and issues until you slid your political view under your speech posing being against immigration and abortion is evil. Since you did, I personally oppose the immigration-friendly political stances, because of its relation to the crime rate, cultural colision and the expansion of the lower class. It seems like you forgot that your thought is an opinion, not the ultimate truth. So it’s better to be more careful about this if you don’t wanna offend a lot of people like me. I really related to you in regard of the drug issues in europe you talked about in one of your last videos. also, I support healthy, mature international relationships, meaning, IR takes a lot more efforts and self-sacrifice from both sides or a lot more from one than the other. therefore, when done right, it deserves the respects more than any, whereas a lot of people seem to take it lightly and go for it out of an excitement and don’t realize themselves.
No one is neutral in life. I'm an immigrant, so of course we both support immigration. Anything else would be utterly hypocritical. We also live in a country established by communists, which means abortion is considered a protected right. You're entitled to disagree with us, that is your personal right, but we are also allowed to express our opinions ❤😊
@@jiayiandjulieinchina ‘being neutral’ isn’t something that’s required as to your belief. It’s what’s asked in terms of your attitude and choice words to be moderate and unreflecting when you’re interacting with others. meaning, you should choose neutral words or ways to speak around to the real point you want to make without full-on projecting your individual political view to address, which, I believe, was about ‘knowing who you’re dating’, not the “filter out those who disgree with the immigration policy, guys!” such as making frowny face when you say something about those who have different views, unless you wanna turn your youtube channel or any general human interaction into a dogtable of political rants. This is what’s called being respectful.
@user-cm2ky4uh9y Sorry to tell you, but our channel will be coloured by our experiences and our views. We both are pro immigration, which should not be shocking as we aren't from the same nation and pro womens rights. If that bothers you, you're welcome to stop watching ❤ Hope you have a wonderful day
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Julie, I am just amazed by your beauty and wisdom. Can't wait to seeing your children any more.
Thank you so much!
I was raised Chinese-American, fully westernized, and my wife is from the Midwest (central US). Even we had cultural differences. For the most part we each embraced the other's culture, especially FOOD 😋
That's awesome 😊 Yeah I experience cultural differences between me and other Danes as well. How we are raised has a huge impact
I have similar experience as you, except my wife is from California. Cultural differences between my wife and I were rarely an issue through our 43-year marriage, but they did crop up from time to time as something different to deal with. Not problematic unless you make it so, and it helps when both families don't have hang ups with mix marriages.
Very helpful! I think communication is the key in every relationship - but even more in intercultural ones. ❤
Very good advice. Sometimes people are so 'madly" in love they overlook what their realities are until issues arise later.
I would like to see video of 1) Jiayi and Julie teaching each other's language. 2) Julie teaching Jiayi's mom how to cook Danish dishes. 3)Jiayi's mom teaching Julie how to cook Chinese dishes 4)Jiayi & Julie's exercise videos. Thanks! Keep up the great videos!
Great suggestions! I doubt well do 2 or 3 though. I'm not a huge fan of cooking but I do cook Chinese food pretty well already. Might make food or bake with Jiayi in the future though 😊
@@jiayiandjulieinchina Very cool! Thanks for info! Cooking and food vlogs are very popular among influencers and could add to increase viewers, sponsorship endorsement deals, and subscribers to monetize channel. I think viewers would enjoy seeing how Danish Scandinavian dishes can add to various Asian dishes. Eventually come up with new recipes and sell books and attend food events, festivals, etc. Keep up the great vlogs!
Amazing surprise to be recommended such great content video. Subscribe right away. Julie is impressively articulate, and thoughtful in whatever she’s putting her ideas on. The way you organize and put forward your thoughts and vocab range you have showcase your brilliant wisdom which is not at all secondary to your gorgeous appearance. You totally deserve such an excellent, athletic, best-possibly-educated and handsome husband that even the proudest Chinese parents would dream of cultivating their children into. Miracle put you miraculous couple together. Best wishes from Beijing. Enjoy your beautiful lifelong journey.
Awww thank you so much! This comment really put a smile on my face, thanks!!!
Isn't it nice to find someone who loves you as much as you love them. I am a Marriage Educator, a Certified Wedding Ceremony Officiant and an Ordained Minister in the US (Sarasota County, Florida). Wonderful video! Applause! Applause!
Very good advice! Food for thought! Keep it up, love your videos! 🙏💓💟♥️👍
Thank you so much!🌸
An amazingly comprehensive video for all couples. I love the extra examples you gave regarding intersectionality particularly in the "politics" section. Those are common and real scenarios in general but especially for Asian women. For someone who is not Asian, you're very well read and astute on the experiences/culture of identities outside of your own. Both of you are clearly quite intelligent and open minded. More people should be like you two. Much love!
my wife is from china, I'm american and we just had our first child. we're staying in the US for now but our long term plans is to move and retire in china for safety and more affordable cost of living.
Great talk! Really important advice on international couples.
Thank you!
So true, Dudes, so very true about what you two discussed...
And very important not only for mixed marriages but also even for same ethnicity ones...
I like the way he looks st you when you speak. He is very respectful...
Yeah, he loves me a lot
Mature and pragmatic conversation. Good on you.
I applaud the amount of effort that you 2 have put into sorting out your relationship.
Thank you ❤
I don't know how your vid appeared for me. Wishing you a lifetime filled with love, joy, and countless happy memories as you embark on your beautiful journey together! 👍🏼💞
these are good conversation topics. you both seem very reasonable, open-minded, and communicative. Personal opinion - these are good signs.
Thank you very much 😊
Such a great and practical one, thank you!❤
Hello, Guys. I ran across your Channel because I LOVE China. I am an African-American Attorney and traveled to several locations within China and many times imagined myself living there, wondering what difficulties I might end up dealing with. But listening to your particular story is heartening. Maybe in all the videos I missed it, but what does Julie do for a living? Are her career possibilities there to pursue? Both people need to feel fulfilled in the country/culture they find themselves in.
Hey! We personally chose not to talk about our jobs online just for privacy reasons, but I can say career options for foreigners within China are somewhat limited, since you cannot take a job a native is better suited for (which is most), so you can't practice law here as a foreigner for example. Most foreigners work as teachers, models or in positions for foreign companies 😊
@@jiayiandjulieinchina I understand. Just keep us posted on how everything develops for you (both of you).
We are looking for more videos, Sometimes Quantity overcomes qualities. Don't pay much more attention to the edition work. Truly. We just want to meet you and listen to you guys
Very Interesting, from Singapore
Very open and frank discussions 👍💪
Thank you 😊
Hej smukke Julie ❤. Rigtigt dejligt at se i to i Hanhzhou. Godt gået👌👌👍
Hejsa ❤ mange tusind tak 😊
Jiayi has beautiful mind ,He deserve it. Judie is not only beautiful but also brave, Today's narrative is controversial . I wish you guys can manage it well, My advice is just to avoid any political issues and all the issues related to the politics, Put it in the ice bank. People from the east and west have different knowledge and point of view on many politics issues. We nearly can't solve it by ourselves. It's a issue more tricky than religion.
Thank you very much. Both of us are quite political people and most things in society are political, so I'm sure it'll be a thing in some of our future videos as well. I think as a society, we should all strive to allow differences. In my personal experience, I learned most from those I disagreed with 🌸
I am married for 30 years...and it is an int'l marriage. There are many merits but some difference and difficulties ahead. Hope you guys will stick around forever!
Great topic and very interesting video.
Glad you enjoyed it!
These are very important topics of conversation. Good video as always. Thanks.
Thank you!
Watching from Singapore ❤
great video guys!
This video is so attractive thanks ❤❤🎉🎉
Another great video👍 On the religion part, it reminds me of my growing up years. I kind of became a Christian (not officially baptized) when I was a teenager due to influence of some foreigner (mostly American) friends. They came to China for both cultural exchange and missionary purposes. From them I had some friendship that I cherish the most in my life and after getting to know them more and more I decided to follow him too. We hangout and go to church/fellowships regularly for a while. But as I grew older and lost day-to-day/face-to-face contact with those Christian friends, I kind of grew out of it too. I lost the feeling of connection I once had. From my personal experience, I agree with your point that most likely the relationship between a super religious ppl and not so religious ppl won’t work out too well.
I know Nordic people can speak English well, actually people with Germanic language background speak good English in general, but Julie your English is exceptional, not only no foreign accent whatsoever, also the phrases you use, your choice of words are no different from native speakers from US or Canada (obviously you don't have any British accent). Did you live/study in the US or Canada?
I think Scandinavians speak English well (better at English than Germans). I've lived in Germany for almost 1 year and had a Norwegian friend. Europeans are cool people in general. I like European ladies.
@@lm-pw9ul Thanks for your message. For Germanic language I was referring to a type of language, German, English, Dutch and many Scandinavian languages are all subtypes of Germanic language, vs Latin (French, Spanish, Italian ....). Germanic language people can speak English well with no or light accents, compare to Latin languages background people all with very strong accents. Anyway Julie's English is almost US native level, and JiaY'si English is even more impressive for a guy is pretty much all local China grown.
Thank you very much. No, I haven't. My mother's aunt moved to Canada with her family, so I do have family there 😊
Both of these two wonderful people speak English curiously superbly.
very good, sound advice!
a couple is to work together... yes work.... to empower themselves and the partner..... to make from 1+1=2 to 1+1=4
Wise minds,best wishes from Ethiopia
Thank you!
Very interesting video. The first serious relationship I ever had with someone of a different nationality was when I started dating my wife. I grew up in the southern US and she grew up in China before coming to the US for graduate school. We addressed many of the issues you brought up very early in the relationship. I was nervous when we went to China to meet her family. They welcomed me with open arms from day 1.
Your so pretty ❤
婚姻有两个东西，缺一个就不会幸福，一个是相互包容，一个是互惠就是价值利益交换，前者是道德，后者是能力，太完美的婚姻不存在，60-70per就可以了，现在家庭普遍不幸福是太注重第二个忽略第一个，一个是内在的心灵，一个是外在的物质
You guys both have a goodEQ and IQ， 10 children are not too many. 12 people can make a lot of positive contents.
Ahaha, thank you very much. I can, however, guarantee that we will not be having anywhere close to 10 children
It is a serious suggestion from a double aged guy. We need a lot of talented people for human as a whole. I can tell that you guys CAN MAKE a successful family.
It doesn't always work that way though! I have seen quite a few couples who are exceptionally intelligent yet have kids who are intellectually impaired. There's a conversation between Anna Pavlova and Albert Einstein. Pavlova said,"We should get married and have kids. They will have my beauty and your brain" which Einstein replied, “What if they have my look and your brain?"😅
@@davidwei788 I know Liang Qichao have nine children, Three of them are academicians, The rest of them are success too.
Luckily how many kids we do or do not have is completely up to us and us alone ❤
New subscriber here, lovely couples
Thank you! 🤗
The world is changing, more people are non-
religious. ❤
Yes but that doesn't mean it doesn't affect you or your partner. Many of us still have traditions with a religious root or values, because our society was constructed around it ❤️
They are changing a little bit about the authentic religous or extrem action for other influences instead of non-religious. In fact, some religious communities use that to strengthen own identify in multi-religions area
The world is changing but I don’t believe that there is less people believing in a Spiritual higher power perhaps you are referring to organized religions
That’s a good-looking couple
Thank you 😊
Solid👌..
Thanks 🌸
When do you plan to get married ？
Some Scandinavians never get married in spite of having raised children together.
Support
Thanks 😊
Gender roles vary from culture to culture and individual to individual. Are you raising your kids Christian or Atheist? Religion is not a barrier to love however if they don’t agree on a lot things I wouldn’t marry or be in a relationship with them . Politics views on gender equality abortion ect is very important to me. Compatibility is very important in a relationship. If you understand and respect each other that’s what matters.
i’m a bit surprised that Julie is religious since Scandinavians have a bit of a reputation for not being very religious
Yeah, religion isn't that popular in Denmark for sure
@@BeatniKkersThis will always be the silliest argument to me. What even is a "serious Christian"? Do you celebrate holidays with a pegan origin like Valentine's day, mother's & father's day, easter, Halloween or Christmas? Must not be a proper Christian then. Do you wear mixed fabric? Get haircuts or shave? Believe men and women should be put to death when they cheat? Believe disabled people shouldn't be allowed to go to the alter of God? Do you believe we should stone those who curse at God? Do you keep the sabbath holy?
If you don't follow all the rules, who are you to decide who is a "serious Christian" or not? People like you make others distance themselves from the Lord, because you feel entitled to judge them. There are plenty of Christians who would say Jiayi and I shouldn't be together due to our ethnic backgrounds not matching. I don't agree with them, nor do I agree with you. Have a nice day.
@@jiayiandjulieinchina so....are we equating celebrating once a year or some METAPHORICAL passages to one's future kids being led astray due to their atheist father?
@@BeatniKkers The reason why many Christians are so annoying is right here in this comment. Their one-sided narrow interpretation of the book just push people away.
From the various mix-marriages on TH-cam, it seems China's dealing/acceptance of foreign spouses need to be improved, a lot. What's your experience with that?
In my experience people are more accepting of it than the west. Most people we encounter on the street just seem curious or seem like they think we're being cute
First!
you guys should talk about China Collapsing and where to move Next!!!!
According to Western news, China has been collapsing for more than a decade. It's crazy copium
40多年来我们一直在崩溃，并且未来的一百年，我们将坚持崩溃的基本原则不动摇，您不妨买个棺材躺进去，耐心等待。
th-cam.com/video/ZQIHxnFK_xI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Q9awhXKcQyQPSyww
@@jiayiandjulieinchina According to Gordon Chang China should have collapsed every year for the past 20 years.
U could see it in VOA,CNN,BBC, but never in reality, keep it in your dream, dude
I dont get it? Why do we have to have a conversation about corn? If my partner likes corn go for it. I find that corn tastes funny so i avoid it
Asap😂
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China men are not as romantic as western men, but they love their families, care for their wives and take care of their children. The divorce rate in China is very low, and once you choose it, you will stay with it for life, so China men are ideal partners, and I believe your eyes are good. Twenty years ago, many women in China married abroad. After decades of development, China's national strength has been significantly improved, and life in China is more comfortable than that in foreign countries. Therefore, there are very few women in China who married abroad. Instead, many foreign daughters-in-law have been married to China. Life in China is very safe. There are no vagrants, thieves, drugs and guns, and LGBQ+. I wish you a happy life!
I think it's wrong to generalize too much when we talk about people. Jiayi is extremely romantic, and not all Western men are. Everyone is different, but I have heard that some say their Chinese partner won't say, "I love you." Luckily, I can't relate. Also, divorce in China is actually very high (we just talked about it on B), but there's nothing wrong with that. If you aren't happy, it's better to leave each other. Lastly, there's definitely LGBTQ+ here. From what I've seen it's a huge community and I think that's awesome. I embrace all the shapes and expressions we have humanity. It makes us beautiful as a society 😊
小伙子，如果你要想和朱莉永远生活在一起，你应该昄依基督教。这一点对西方文化是很重要的，你可以先学习一下圣经。这对你们以后加深相互之间的信任和感情是很重要的。
Opposite gender? No, you meant opposite sex. Gender is a very different thing. Explains why Julie is at odds with contemporary western culture;)
This is so funny considering one of my best friends in nonbinary and that I usually would assume that you interact with people based on their gender rather than their assigned sex at birth. Obviously, with this, I'm assuming you don't check people's genitalia when you first meet them 😅
However, let's be clear that the majority of the population in English would use the word gender in this type of conversation regardless of where they stand on the debate about gender vs sex, because the world sex is primarily used in a medical context 😊
the food thing asian vs western for food they can't eat - milk lol
Another of those crazy myths. Asia is a big place and lots of them eat dairy and drink milk.
中国不是不信教，应该是多神教，或者不追随宗教，因为宗教在中国没有走上政治层面，少林寺曾经多次被军队攻击。
You seemed all neutral talking about all these topics and issues until you slid your political view under your speech posing being against immigration and abortion is evil. Since you did, I personally oppose the immigration-friendly political stances, because of its relation to the crime rate, cultural colision and the expansion of the lower class. It seems like you forgot that your thought is an opinion, not the ultimate truth. So it’s better to be more careful about this if you don’t wanna offend a lot of people like me. I really related to you in regard of the drug issues in europe you talked about in one of your last videos. also, I support healthy, mature international relationships, meaning, IR takes a lot more efforts and self-sacrifice from both sides or a lot more from one than the other. therefore, when done right, it deserves the respects more than any, whereas a lot of people seem to take it lightly and go for it out of an excitement and don’t realize themselves.
No one is neutral in life. I'm an immigrant, so of course we both support immigration. Anything else would be utterly hypocritical. We also live in a country established by communists, which means abortion is considered a protected right. You're entitled to disagree with us, that is your personal right, but we are also allowed to express our opinions ❤😊
@@jiayiandjulieinchina ‘being neutral’ isn’t something that’s required as to your belief. It’s what’s asked in terms of your attitude and choice words to be moderate and unreflecting when you’re interacting with others. meaning, you should choose neutral words or ways to speak around to the real point you want to make without full-on projecting your individual political view to address, which, I believe, was about ‘knowing who you’re dating’, not the “filter out those who disgree with the immigration policy, guys!” such as making frowny face when you say something about those who have different views, unless you wanna turn your youtube channel or any general human interaction into a dogtable of political rants. This is what’s called being respectful.
@user-cm2ky4uh9y Sorry to tell you, but our channel will be coloured by our experiences and our views. We both are pro immigration, which should not be shocking as we aren't from the same nation and pro womens rights. If that bothers you, you're welcome to stop watching ❤ Hope you have a wonderful day
@@jiayiandjulieinchina Good to know you’re impossible. cool! At least I got that out of this.
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可以信这个，也可以信那个
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