It’s absolutely okay to be with someone too , the scamme is a problem but what these women expect ? They know these young guys only want money and these old women want to be with those young guys so it’s always taking something and to giving something .
I am 60 years old. Wrinkled. Overweight. How is it a young man 30 years my junior would be anyway interested in me? Because I have a house in the UK. A pension and a British Passport. Simples.
@ I work for a living. Too busy with my family to think of your lord. Never mind eh. Maybe if I ever get sad and extremely lonely then I might consider praying.
Your case is different from theirs, ma what you need to do is to look for a widower of your age or older than you because loneliness is not good, the problem is that many of these UK women are trying to satisfy their lustful or inordinate affections (desires). Again you need to put your trust in God that is, cast your burden on the Lord because God cares for you.
It's ok for men but not ok for women? Yes they are naive but western men and eastern men have gone for younger women for centuries. These women believe that they're loved it's naive but for them it's real.
You know what makes me angry? These older women who believe these young studs are actually hot for them! Not being mean but you’re old enough to be their moms. How can you ladies be that gullible? Come on now.
I work for the home office, i always get calls from older women, talking on behalf of their african boyfriend claiming asylum, telling me they will be supporting them, it absolutely kills me not to say something
These elderly women are disgusting predators, maybe they should stop going to their countries with the purpose of exploiting less fortunate African and Caribbean men. Let's call it what it is.
@@God-Love-Freedom Exactly, they are going there to exploit those men and the men are doing the same thing. I find it interesting that these people only feel bad for the disgusting women.
I'm from Turkey and living in Bodrum, see this all the time. Older western women hanging with young guys half their age, who are usually uneducated and coming from poor families. Those women can date guys their age and education level, there are plenty guys like that here as well. But they always go after the younger ones, this is predatory behavior. So exploiter becomes the exploited.
Men would always choose much younger women, much more often than women. Older men don't like women their age, unless they have lots of money or can do all the cooking, cleaning and babying them !!!! what are you talking about, did you check the statistics ????
I had a manager at work who did this , she was a good 20 years older than me and i thought she was one of the smartest and most intelligent ladies I’d ever met until she actually thought that a man from Gambia 25 years younger was interested in her - it all ended in tears but he had a very nice house built and the elivated life style along with the Visa he needed to turn his life around on the back of her life savings! Took it all in 4 years !
It’s extraordinary considering all the beautiful young women around. Not that those men are anything to look at but they’re not going to be attracted to any 50+ y.o.
@@Royalty12345 really. I married a beautiful Moroccan man who is 12 years my junior. Hes 43. We have been married 12 years, now and he changed my life with love and care and joy.
When she said this could happen to anyone.. NO!!! No matter how much money I would have there’s no way I would get them any money. A man who you barely know asking for money is not a man . I’m 60 years old , I’m sensitive and a bit naive but no way I would give them a Penny!
@@deborahcurtis1385you’re replying to everyone that’s clearly pointing out their faults as if they’re talking about you. Were you also scammed by some charmer half your age? 🤡
I'm a 66 year old man and i know no women my daughters age would be interested in me unless i had lots of cash and prizes. Even then it still wouldn't happen. My idea of a child bride starts at about 55. Ladies you can't buy love and happiness.
I'm 53 and I'm so glad to finally see a man with his head on straight. I've been widowed for years, and I won't even consider getting into the dating pool. It's gotten so crazy these days.
You're really full of love and compassion for women who weren't looking for love they were looking for a holiday they were vulnerable emotionally and they got scammed. Zero condemnation for the scammers. Noted!
@deborahcurtis1385 we are all embodiments of love divinty resides in all of us. Maybe they have done something similar in this life or another life. Karma, u gotta pay for it sooner or later, it's the cycle of sanatana dharma
These older women know that they cannot get a very young husband in their own country. They travel to less developed countries and expect very young men to genuinely love them? 😮
But why go after a young one, they can find an older man for companionship. I suspect it's a spirit of lust, such a young man makes them feel young. Hum, its sad.
But older men can get a younger woman and be perfectly happy. Or they can be scammed and be in the same position as these women. No one has the same level of disgust for older men with younger women.
It's ok for men right? Geez be real. This is not something they asked for they were vulnerable and targeted. How many times does this have to be said? You watched the entire documentary and all you can do is blame the women. Good on you... how superior!!!!
My bank told me a woman had just lost £150,000 to a scammer. The bank repeatedly held the payments back but she then insisted it was for her daughter abroad. They had to let the money go each time. She was told by him what to tell the bank and now they can't do anything about it.
It's not about being gullible at all. It has everything to do with these women "wearing their heart on their sleeve"... along with feeling neglected from their previous relationship(s). If you're an average or under average female and a very good looking male approaches her while giving her compliments. The sad part is, when these two facts are added together, it equals this type of women almost always being scammed. Have you ever noticed the guys won't pursue a young, beautiful and attractive women? The answer is easy... They're educated and show confidence and would spot thesm a mile away!
Seriously these sad women must be delusional. They must have been living under a rock not to spot a romance scam, particularly where the scammer has no money and looking for a visa into another country!
Repeat: these women are vulnerable at the time and they're targeted by professional scammers. Stop being so nasty as it's the scammers you should be judging.
No matter what your belief system or lack of ,(like don't advertise your an atheist ) go to a local church ,you'll be surprised at the number of people looking for friend(s) ,
Yes I agree , very similar to politicians, "charismatic ,charmingly slimey like politicians' and theres always a way to tell when your told what you want to here,
@Venus-gn5oi Charismatic and charming is usually a huge red flag for me, especiallyfrom a stranger. It always makes me feel like there's something hiding behind it.
Please ladies...I am an older lady and feel we should know words are only that. There are many older men who are honest and looking for the same things we are and don't want anything from us. Stop this delusions!!
LOL very helpful!!! NOT. The entire documentary is about how they stopped the delusion and realised. You're not just lacking in empathy you're full of your superiority. Nice!
I love Dee's approach - creating an org to help women in this situation and trying to get policy changes vs sitting in depression and 'woe me'. Way to go Dee!!!
I lost my husband of 29 years in 2022 and prior to this he was ill for 16 years. I took care of him an God was always there with us. Im in my late 50w an i wont dear look for a man. Im fine with my memories of my husband and hes in my heart and with the Lord. I dont want to share my heart, onlybwith Christ.
I agree. I’ve been married over 40 years to a good man, and we’ve raised 5 beautiful children. We are both growing old now and need to take care of each other. We made a covenant before God. Our life hasn’t been easy at all but he is a good, kind man and no one will ever take his place in my heart. Jesus will be enough should the day come I’m alone. And of course, my grandchildren and children. I feel so sad for these women. Truly heartbreaking 💔
@@Weissguys6 It's a nice thing to see someone speaking about holding fast to their covenant of marriage and someone who draws strength from Christ. When I look at the comments here I really realize how the road to destruction is broad and many shall find it. I speak Yashua to all these broken lives that the enemy has blinded.
Why go for criminals and narcissists in other countries when you can find them in your backyard. Many of them will marry you to acquire a ticket out of poverty & citizenship to a new life.
She likes those younger men but she needs to be careful she doesn't fall into the same trap; because to be honest why is he interested in her if it isn't because she has money? Wouldn't he rather be with a local girl of his own age otherwise?
Normally its women scamming men everywhere in the world. Do a doco on that please. Still unfair whoever does this to innocent victims male or female. anyone scammed out of money because they fall in love. So cruel
Being an African & growing up there, I can’t tell you how many men told me they loved me after meeting me for just a few minutes 🤣 I actually think they don’t really know what it means to say “I love you” to them it’s “You’re beautiful & I like you” So when you grow up in those countries someone saying I love you doesn’t mean much
@@thelawisthelawhow many times are you going to make this comment? Who exactly are you trying to convince and what does it have to do with the love scammers in this video?
I couldn't believe the last part of the documentary when Tracey said i have met someone else in Turkey who loves me. Would love to find out how that relationship went.
The lady going after 2,000 GBP is wasting her time. Even if she were to eventually succeed, the cost of pursing the case in terms of various expenses and her own time would end up being a lot more than that paltry amount. Also, even if she won a judgement in Turkish court, you can’t get blood out of a stone. If he has not ability to pay, nothing can be done. Better cut your losses and walk. Most of these victim end up losing multiples of that.
Not all these women are unkempt at ALL. Dee is far from unkempt ,she is a really sassy ,attractive and talented intelligent lady who was just taken for a ride. The disabled lady was the one that really made me spit out my tea😢😮
Yes I agree , no matter what you belief system is or lack thereof , these ladies should go down to local church , many people are there to find a friend ,(ok you can't wear an I'm an Atheist T shirt) , but its worth a try , visa hunters are everywhere & they all have some tragedy in common , sick mother, brother had accident , etc , moment money is mentioned (know that by the mere act of asking ,A:they've decided your rich B:they've decided your stupid C: They know your lonely D: You should cease & desist E: Stay staunch your going to get some crying begging lying F:Tell them a Lie ,about your 'New' B/F
Why are they so keen on getting married and so fast? it's been talked about for at least 20 years that poor men in poor countries marry for visas. And 20 and 30 years old men doesn't want middle aged women for more than one night or money.
My friend didn’t even see her “ sweetheart “, but has been convinced to invest $40 000 in his “business “. She didn’t learn from that lose, and it almost happened second time, I held her from doing dumb thing again, she stopped talking to me, then match company messaged her that another “prince”was a scam too.
I cannot fathom what kind of brain it takes to think that someone 30 years younger and poor, dying to get a European passport, would marry a mature woman, middle class, which means rich according to his standards, out of sheer love.
Me I believe these women are the abusers, they know those young men are desperate to crawl out of the from under the rock of destitution and poverty that they were born into!
C’mon ladies….a young, handsome man, in any country isn’t going to be attracted to any woman far older than himself, unless there is an underlying motive. Don’t delude yourself…look for someone your own age….not quite as exciting as the young studs, but will save a lot of heartache in the long run.
All these women are desperate to find love and will believe anything without logic. You have to look at yourself and ask why would someone half your age would go for you??! These men are all not even attractive, it’s obvious the women were vulnerable…
What an absolute load of rubbish. My Moroccan husband is 43. Im 12 years older. We have been married 12 years. He changed my life with love and care. Your concept is not the same as other cultures.
I fly to Africa as a flight attendant a lot and these guys keep trying when I am there . They say age does not matter . I never ever fall for it . They just want to leave because life is very difficult there . Why would they go with an older woman when they all want to have kids because of their religion and we cannot be a mother anymore
@@ScreamingEagleFTW Good point. It seems often the young women are prepared to put the effort in in order to have the material security ,though increasingly I also hear of for example Thai girls scamming and leaving.
These women bring these men to the UK, and then the taxpayer is left to foot the bill for the rest of their lives. If you bring someone into this country, you should have to be financially responsible for the entire duration of their stay.
The red flag is when they ask for money don't give them any. They will leave if that is what they are there for. Don't marry them quickly ask the LORD to send you a husband
And most Africans already have a wife and a family back in their homeland. That's why they're always ready to marry some other woman 5 minutes after meeting them in order to gain citizenship in another country for himself and his primary relationship.
The fact she laughed at a goat being sacrificed and if she then ate the goat straight off she would be full of negativity due to the animal suffering - This tells me all I need to know about her .
I feel sorry for all this granma's. They must be really really lonely to believed this love scammers. The Age difference is so disturbing!please open your eyes😢
I'm tired of these old women thinking that these young men really want them. If you think why would he want me? That's your answer. No money and no visa and see if he still want you.
The Canadian Woman who got home from Jamaica whirlwind courtship and began feeling quite ill. Her Doctor did a spinal fluid procedure looking for the cause based on symptoms. HIV yep.
The thing is in these countries men are allowed to have more than one wife, the 1st wife may know about the new wife especially if the husband says this will help them have a better life etc
I think it's unfair to call these women names or to say they are dumb. Its not just a few women, is it? Its thousands every year - so clearly there's a bigger problem here. Part of it, I believe, is that these are more often than not more mature women from an era when you married young, raised a family and looked after the home .. not like women of today where being traditional is mocked. Most have probably been with the same man for decades, the children are grown with families of their own and they are out trying to make up for what they perceive as lost time - sacrificed being a wife, mother... Grandmother even. So, a lot will have no idea how the world has changed, how its full of narcissists and no idea of the vultures right in front of them.... waiting to pounce with absolutely no remorse . And that's not just men. Far from it. They do now though 🤔🇬🇧
Well, you can think what you want and be just as idiotic as these over the hill unattractive looking women trying to steal a younger persons time and in return for their time taken there was a fee! If this can happen to young attractive females rich, famous or otherwise why couldn't happen to them? This is what re-tarded look's like! So you wrote all your nonsense and it changes nothing, dumb-dumb! Now, I love you so much and did you eat 🍔🍟🥤🍰 today my King? 👑 I would be honored to get to know you better! There's someone about you that's so very unique and special. Perhaps we can meet, but only if he who shall not be named 'Voldemort" would release unharmed my captured and very best friends Ron Weasley and Harry Potter and before I can even began to share my life with you, I'll need only $50,000 my 😍😍 so I can hire the very wizard's to release my dearest friends. This would mean the world to me! Yours Truly, Hermione Granger... 💋💋 💋
Dr Phil , no longer registered can;t even diagnose himself ,same as Dr Mehmet Oz ,Oprah should give the nation a Public apology for unleashing these two , snake oil salesman (OZ & supplements) and Phil for the down home folksy ,simpleton ,answers to complicated medical problems solved in a 50 or less minute show (advertising) or trying to sell Robyns new 'something I dreamed up last night product' or trying to convince someone 'he's not interested in politics ' BS , total Republican
I don’t ever want to settle down again as I have too much good in my life. I see life with deep clarity and much prefer my independence vs. potential pain & suffering.🌷
Love is elusive, but status in a First World country is a dream come true for many. Be aware. If you have to be the bacon and he is the eggs, you should skip breakfast; it costs more than it is worth
I don’t think you need a law to stop immigration marriages, you just need to be smart enough to know that these men aren’t really in love with you! If these younger, not too bad looking men aren’t into in your own country, why would they be interested in you from another country??
Whyyyyyy do they always pick guys young enough to be their sons of course its not genuine UK STUCK WITH THESE FOOLS BECAUSE OF THESE STUPID WOMEN MAKES ME SO ANGRY 5YRS THEY SHOULD HAVE TO WAIT TO APPLY FOR CITIZENSHIP NOT 6 MONTHS 😤
When a 20 something man from a far away country calls you “My Queen” you know you’re being scammed 😂
If he calls you at all actually.
Lol it's always the "my queen" too. Not to mention they can't keep all the names straight in their heads so they just use the universal "my queen".
Do not be afraid to be alone, it can be cathartic. Be alone does not mean being lonely. Enjoy your family, friends, and nature
Best comment on here👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
It’s absolutely okay to be with someone too , the scamme is a problem but what these women expect ? They know these young guys only want money and these old women want to be with those young guys so it’s always taking something and to giving something .
@@michellewright6431But stop giving your money to foreign freaks!
Yes but 99%of women can't live without a man in their life self centered easy they deserve what they get 😂
It's cheaper for sure
I am 60 years old. Wrinkled. Overweight. How is it a young man 30 years my junior would be anyway interested in me? Because I have a house in the UK. A pension and a British Passport. Simples.
Time to use that money for some lipo and play them in rerun 😅
RIGHT
SIMPLES!!!!!
Well said and you are 100% right.
Absolutely right.
I’m a widow. I often feel lonely. Watching these fools makes me love loneliness.
Hang on to the Lord and keep busy in your community.
@ I work for a living. Too busy with my family to think of your lord. Never mind eh. Maybe if I ever get sad and extremely lonely then I might consider praying.
Your case is different from theirs, ma what you need to do is to look for a widower of your age or older than you because loneliness is not good, the problem is that many of these UK women are trying to satisfy their lustful or inordinate affections (desires). Again you need to put your trust in God that is, cast your burden on the Lord because God cares for you.
If you often feel lonely, that's not good at all my queen.
@ to you loneliness is a bad thing. To me, it’s not.
Age is NOT just a number when there are decades difference stop kidding yourselves
@@catherinegriessel56 💯💯💯
These men sleep round with different women - are you not scared of contracting HIV etc…??
It's ok for men but not ok for women? Yes they are naive but western men and eastern men have gone for younger women for centuries. These women believe that they're loved it's naive but for them it's real.
Agreed!!!!!!! 🎯🎯🎯
And when the woman is the older one.
A lady said it well: “must woman like to have a HANDSOME men” and to my eyes none of these dudes are handsome
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So true!!! NONE of them are handsome!
The eye of the beholder and all that.
Especially Tracy's Turk
Tracy’s Turk looks like Ali G
These women will marry a janitor from another country, but would never even think about dating a janitor from their own country
good point
Handsome young janitor
That bbc is like a mesmerising snake
True and same goes for foolish men going to 3rd world countries to chase women. 😂😂 fools.
Disabled chain-smoking 60 year old marries a 26 year old who requires a passport and visa. What could possibly go wrong?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh jesus christ, that one is the most horrific one ever.
Their wedding photos are just......😳🙈🙊
😂😂😂
You know what makes me angry? These older women who believe these young studs are actually hot for them! Not being mean but you’re old enough to be their moms. How can you ladies be that gullible? Come on now.
Exactly!!!they are blinded, and really believed that they are loved and they are really hot!!!this man are hot for their money 💰
...more like old enough to be their Grandmothers!!
Gullible stupid women.
@@nancylk2946yes
I’m sorry I have no sympathy for them,they are delusional old woman sorry but that’s the truth.
I work for the home office, i always get calls from older women, talking on behalf of their african boyfriend claiming asylum, telling me they will be supporting them, it absolutely kills me not to say something
I couldn’t stand it
ONLY. AFTER THE. PASSPORT. it,s Every thing. Free for. Life. Including a. Pension
They know what they’re doing.
These elderly women are disgusting predators, maybe they should stop going to their countries with the purpose of exploiting less fortunate African and Caribbean men. Let's call it what it is.
@@God-Love-Freedom Exactly, they are going there to exploit those men and the men are doing the same thing. I find it interesting that these people only feel bad for the disgusting women.
My neck hurts from shaking my head so much. Can't finish this!
And my jaw finally locked from my mouth hung open in disbelief 😂😂😂
Giiii😢rrl... smdh.
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LOL not thats quality comedy material!!
Same.
I'm from Turkey and living in Bodrum, see this all the time. Older western women hanging with young guys half their age, who are usually uneducated and coming from poor families. Those women can date guys their age and education level, there are plenty guys like that here as well. But they always go after the younger ones, this is predatory behavior. So exploiter becomes the exploited.
Ooh, send some of those educated silver foxes my way! That’s exactly what I’m looking for
Yes ,they are no better than men that go to Thailand for young girls young enough to be their grandchildren.
You said it brother 😂😂😂😂
Men would always choose much younger women, much more often than women. Older men don't like women their age, unless they have lots of money or can do all the cooking, cleaning and babying them !!!! what are you talking about, did you check the statistics ????
@@clareshaughnessy2745🤣🤣🤣
I’d be too embarrassed to go on National tv let alone telling friends and family how stupid I am to fall for such a obvious con
I said the same. These women should have kept this to themselves.
Me too.
Snap! Well said. Lol
Maybe they think they can help others.
Stupid is a strong word, unless you are so perfect
I had a manager at work who did this , she was a good 20 years older than me and i thought she was one of the smartest and most intelligent ladies I’d ever met until she actually thought that a man from Gambia 25 years younger was interested in her - it all ended in tears but he had a very nice house built and the elivated life style along with the Visa he needed to turn his life around on the back of her life savings! Took it all in 4 years !
See! Love can make one stupid.
Jesus Christ 😳
This is SO SAD. Ladies WAKEUP… love dont equale spend all your money on the person. WAKEUP 🤦🏻♀️
@@snobbybeauty2210amen sista
the level of delusion from these women...
It’s extraordinary considering all the beautiful young women around. Not that those men are anything to look at but they’re not going to be attracted to any 50+ y.o.
“When you get a compliment you don’t think they’re trying to scam you”!!!
@@Royalty12345 really. I married a beautiful Moroccan man who is 12 years my junior. Hes 43. We have been married 12 years, now and he changed my life with love and care and joy.
@thelawisthelaw you're one of the lucky one's.
@sylviemorgan9770 perhaps. I knew him for years as friends before I married him.
When she said this could happen to anyone.. NO!!! No matter how much money I would have there’s no way I would get them any money. A man who you barely know asking for money is not a man .
I’m 60 years old , I’m sensitive and a bit naive but no way I would give them a Penny!
Another failure of empathy and blowing your own trumpet post. Well done you!
@@deborahcurtis1385yes,and that’s how every woman,and man,should protect themselves.If you don’t like it,more fool you.
@@deborahcurtis1385you’re replying to everyone that’s clearly pointing out their faults as if they’re talking about you. Were you also scammed by some charmer half your age? 🤡
@@deborahcurtis1385What? Empathy for the cheaters and the cheated?
Once requesting money starts, I’m done. Nope, no way
I'm a 66 year old man and i know no women my daughters age would be interested in me unless i had lots of cash and prizes. Even then it still wouldn't happen. My idea of a child bride starts at about 55. Ladies you can't buy love and happiness.
I'm 53 and I'm so glad to finally see a man with his head on straight. I've been widowed for years, and I won't even consider getting into the dating pool. It's gotten so crazy these days.
All these women should be lucky. They are still alive and breathing.
You're really full of love and compassion for women who weren't looking for love they were looking for a holiday they were vulnerable emotionally and they got scammed. Zero condemnation for the scammers. Noted!
@deborahcurtis1385 we are all embodiments of love divinty resides in all of us. Maybe they have done something similar in this life or another life. Karma, u gotta pay for it sooner or later, it's the cycle of sanatana dharma
True statement😂
melissaetheridge: I was thinking the same thing. They could have been murdered.
@vampyvintage3111 we should love ourselves and be happy we are all embodiments of love divinty resides in all of us
I love being on my own. I don’t need a man to validate me. These desperate women make me sad.
These older women know that they cannot get a very young husband in their own country. They travel to less developed countries and expect very young men to genuinely love them? 😮
Nice to know they are racists though
But why go after a young one, they can find an older man for companionship. I suspect it's a spirit of lust, such a young man makes them feel young. Hum, its sad.
Very selfish
@@charmainede-gannes5718older dudes likely married
But older men can get a younger woman and be perfectly happy. Or they can be scammed and be in the same position as these women. No one has the same level of disgust for older men with younger women.
Older women looking for younger men young enough to be your sons. Now stop it
I wonder if you would think differently if it was the other way around.
It's ok for men right? Geez be real. This is not something they asked for they were vulnerable and targeted. How many times does this have to be said? You watched the entire documentary and all you can do is blame the women. Good on you... how superior!!!!
Either gender can have fun all they want, but fully assume that pretty young thing is after your assets.
My bank told me a woman had just lost £150,000 to a scammer. The bank repeatedly held the payments back but she then insisted it was for her daughter abroad. They had to let the money go each time. She was told by him what to tell the bank and now they can't do anything about it.
Wow. The guy Kim married was named “laye” but pronounced “lie”. If that’s not a sign I don’t know what is. Dating is treacherous!
So true!!
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I was just thinking that myself don't trust anyone don't get hurt then that's my view .
I don't want to laugh.
🤭 I noticed and said the exact same thing 😞
I don’t understand this type of gullibility
@Rubylily2509 no because its irrational
It's not about being gullible at all. It has everything to do with these women "wearing their heart on their sleeve"... along with feeling neglected from their previous relationship(s).
If you're an average or under average female and a very good looking male approaches her while giving her compliments.
The sad part is, when these two facts are added together, it equals this type of women almost always being scammed.
Have you ever noticed the guys won't pursue a young, beautiful and attractive women? The answer is easy... They're educated and show confidence and would spot thesm a mile away!
@ women are educated as well, and some of these are CEOs and senior executives. They still get sucked in!
Men fall for it the other way around day in day out same game where women aren’t attracted to the men at all
It’s just pitiful
When they ask for money and gifts! Red flag girls!
@theblackbrazillian76 Except that's something nearly all women do to men all the time! Double standards!
@@brobinson8614No, it's not and it's pretty feminine for a man to want a woman to take care of them and buy them gifts.
does that go for men with younger women girlfriends?
Girls? Nah. These are elderly women looking to exploit poor men.
Seriously these sad women must be delusional. They must have been living under a rock not to spot a romance scam, particularly where the scammer has no money and looking for a visa into another country!
Very gullible, maybe it’s a delay on the teenage years !
Repeat: these women are vulnerable at the time and they're targeted by professional scammers. Stop being so nasty as it's the scammers you should be judging.
It’s the same thing with old Brit men or Americans going to south east Asia.
No matter what your belief system or lack of ,(like don't advertise your an atheist ) go to a local church ,you'll be surprised at the number of people looking for friend(s) ,
once they set the hook, reason and logic goes out the window
"Charismatic and charming" doesn't necessarily mean honest, loyal and trustworthy. Why do women always fall for charismatic and charming?
Yes I agree , very similar to politicians, "charismatic ,charmingly slimey like politicians' and theres always a way to tell when your told what you want to here,
@Venus-gn5oi Charismatic and charming is usually a huge red flag for me, especiallyfrom a stranger. It always makes me feel like there's something hiding behind it.
Please ladies...I am an older lady and feel we should know words are only that. There are many older men who are honest and looking for the same things we are and don't want anything from us. Stop this delusions!!
Problem is most women have taken money from men
Oh yeah lol here’s me feeling sorry 🤦🏾♂️ divorce = half! 🤭
LOL very helpful!!! NOT. The entire documentary is about how they stopped the delusion and realised. You're not just lacking in empathy you're full of your superiority. Nice!
the older men are not able to perform sexually as well as the young ones.
I love Dee's approach - creating an org to help women in this situation and trying to get policy changes vs sitting in depression and 'woe me'. Way to go Dee!!!
I lost my husband of 29 years in 2022 and prior to this he was ill for 16 years. I took care of him an God was always there with us. Im in my late 50w an i wont dear look for a man. Im fine with my memories of my husband and hes in my heart and with the Lord. I dont want to share my heart, onlybwith Christ.
Similar story and I feel the same way 👍🏽🙂
I agree. I’ve been married over 40 years to a good man, and we’ve raised 5 beautiful children. We are both growing old now and need to take care of each other. We made a covenant before God. Our life hasn’t been easy at all but he is a good, kind man and no one will ever take his place in my heart. Jesus will be enough should the day come I’m alone. And of course, my grandchildren and children. I feel so sad for these women. Truly heartbreaking 💔
@@Weissguys6 It's a nice thing to see someone speaking about holding fast to their covenant of marriage and someone who draws strength from Christ. When I look at the comments here I really realize how the road to destruction is broad and many shall find it. I speak Yashua to all these broken lives that the enemy has blinded.
@@charmainede-gannes5718 Amen, dear sister. 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story! I admire your outlook. ❤
Don't think they learned their lesson.
Who the scammers? Yes they need to be jailed.
I don’t think the old women have learned their lesson either.
@@God-Love-Freedom Yep, that's exactly who I was referring to.
Nope
Why go for criminals and narcissists in other countries when you can find them in your backyard. Many of them will marry you to acquire a ticket out of poverty & citizenship to a new life.
Very good point! There’s loads of liggers and lazy b’tards in your own back yard !
Those silly women… If they want to pick up Arabs and Africans, they might as well go to Dover and greet the small boats - it’d be much cheaper 🙄
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Look at these men, you could see they are not in love with these women.
When you have a person of yours "dreams", its a good time to wake up.
They were only dreaming for sure none of it was real.
That’s your cue to wake up yes
The moment a guy asks you for money, just run. I have warned women but they keep on sending money to a name somewhere in Africa.
Romance scammers are rampant
Tracy is so silly that she is hooking up with another one???!! Well she hasnt learned anything has she,what a shame!!
And a lot of these scumbags end up legally living in the U.K. Living on benefits. It’s sick.
She likes those younger men but she needs to be careful she doesn't fall into the same trap; because to be honest why is he interested in her if it isn't because she has money? Wouldn't he rather be with a local girl of his own age otherwise?
How stupid and desperate do you need to be to not know
Love is blind so they say
Normally its women scamming men everywhere in the world. Do a doco on that please. Still unfair whoever does this to innocent victims male or female. anyone scammed out of money because they fall in love. So cruel
Anybody can fall victim, anybody. It can come in ways you do not think of.
Lol men do it too
@@brobinson8614absolutely not it's always been both ways men scam more than anything
Same goes for old men going to Asian and African countries for young women. They are after visa and money, wake up 😂😂
Often they will have a child with the older man to cement the $ train too.
theres no fool like an old fool
I agree look love where you come from silly white ladies
Ain’t that the truth!!
That just about sums it up
Yep, facts
Desperate older women.
Being an African & growing up there, I can’t tell you how many men told me they loved me after meeting me for just a few minutes 🤣 I actually think they don’t really know what it means to say “I love you” to them it’s “You’re beautiful & I like you” So when you grow up in those countries someone saying I love you doesn’t mean much
My husband is Moroccan. Hes 12 years younger than me. We have been marriage 12 years. He changed my life with love and care.
Makes sense.western woman put a great deal in such a small word.
Spot on 🎯😂😂😂
@@thelawisthelawhow many times are you going to make this comment? Who exactly are you trying to convince and what does it have to do with the love scammers in this video?
@@frontstreetteaSaying it until she believes it. lol
Old rich women trying to use their wealth to buy someone living in real poverty.
@@Veganallvegan yep, its no different to the crusty old men who go to Thailand or Philippines and marry a young woman 1/2 their age
Sounds a lot like old rich men doesn’t it!
men do it all the time.
I'd hardly call the old lady living on disability living allowance " loaded" 😩🥹
I never trusted when I got compliments when I was young and desirable……I’d never fall for these words now.
I couldn't believe the last part of the documentary when Tracey said i have met someone else in Turkey who loves me. Would love to find out how that relationship went.
Me too !
She didn’t learned anything !
I think we all knew. She believed every word he said to here. She gave him everything she has. He left her.
I think we all know without her telling us
The lady going after 2,000 GBP is wasting her time. Even if she were to eventually succeed, the cost of pursing the case in terms of various expenses and her own time would end up being a lot more than that paltry amount. Also, even if she won a judgement in Turkish court, you can’t get blood out of a stone. If he has not ability to pay, nothing can be done. Better cut your losses and walk. Most of these victim end up losing multiples of that.
She got off cheap! She should be counting her blessings!
@@kridswonderhowell4541there's men who's swindled women out of 100x times that... literally $200,000, or even more. She's so lucky
She doesn't want him to get the house.
If a woman is unkept and is decades older, why on earth would you believe that a younger foreigner man loves you, its bullocks.
They must be extremely delusional and/ or narcissists
Not all these women are unkempt at ALL.
Dee is far from unkempt ,she is a really sassy ,attractive and talented intelligent lady who was just taken for a ride. The disabled lady was the one that really made me spit out my tea😢😮
Old episode but comedy gold😂😂😂😂
Cannot stop watching them 😊😅😂
It‘s not really funny, it‘s tragic…
It's not funny. It's horrible.
Julie, let it go, chalk it up to lessons learned. Do not allow him to live rent-free in your head
A woman in her 60’s with arthritis gets contacted by a 29 year old !!!!!!!!!! DELUSIONAL. 5 days. Incomprehensible.
The naivety of these women is mind-blowing! It is sad that they are so desperate for love, but come on, where is their common sense???
Yes I agree , no matter what you belief system is or lack thereof , these ladies should go down to local church , many people are there to find a friend ,(ok you can't wear an I'm an Atheist T shirt) , but its worth a try , visa hunters are everywhere & they all have some tragedy in common , sick mother, brother had accident , etc , moment money is mentioned (know that by the mere act of asking ,A:they've decided your rich B:they've decided your stupid C: They know your lonely D: You should cease & desist E: Stay staunch your going to get some crying begging lying F:Tell them a Lie ,about your 'New' B/F
They are youth diggers. The men are gold diggers but let's be honest, the women also got something out of it
Why are they so keen on getting married and so fast? it's been talked about for at least 20 years that poor men in poor countries marry for visas. And 20 and 30 years old men doesn't want middle aged women for more than one night or money.
My friend didn’t even see her “ sweetheart “, but has been convinced to invest $40 000 in his “business “. She didn’t learn from that lose, and it almost happened second time, I held her from doing dumb thing again, she stopped talking to me, then match company messaged her that another “prince”was a scam too.
I cannot fathom what kind of brain it takes to think that someone 30 years younger and poor, dying to get a European passport, would marry a mature woman, middle class, which means rich according to his standards, out of sheer love.
Me I believe these women are the abusers, they know those young men are desperate to crawl out of the from under the rock of destitution and poverty that they were born into!
Young and handsome men can marry young and beautiful women. Wise up. The only draw is money.
And citizenship of a rich country
and ironically the young beautful women will have nothing to do with him if he has no money and is not successful.
You can’t pay me enough to do this.
😂😂😂 no way here either!!!
@anushkavj Yeah but bet you'll sue for money from a many you leave
my names Prince Amediripoldladiesoff do you fancy a date ? 😂🤣😂🤣😉
C’mon ladies….a young, handsome man, in any country isn’t going to be attracted to any woman far older than himself, unless there is an underlying motive. Don’t delude yourself…look for someone your own age….not quite as exciting as the young studs, but will save a lot of heartache in the long run.
A fool and their money will soon be parted. Not sure who said that.
The one's who are doing the scamming.😂😂😂😂
Only God knows when to give and when to take away 😊
The Bible
The name alone should have been a red flag, "Lae/Lie".
Well that cheered me up knowing i may be old but im not completely desperate 😂😂😂😂😂
how dumb would you have to be to think hes actually after them
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I wouldn't say dumb it's more they are gullible.
"Glass half full" type of women 😂
I married a beautiful Moroccan man who is 12 years my junior. We have been married 12 years and he changed my life with love and care and joy.
hopeful x
THE LAST WOMEN NEVER LEARNED HER LESSON.. 100% SURE SHE WILL BE BACK CLAIMING SHE BEEN SCAMMED AGAIN!!! SILLY OLD FOOL
Thank god I am broke
we could start a don't ask club cause were broke lol
😂😂 good one! But you can still supply them with entry into your country!
Thank God I’ve got a brain.
All these women are desperate to find love and will believe anything without logic. You have to look at yourself and ask why would someone half your age would go for you??! These men are all not even attractive, it’s obvious the women were vulnerable…
"Finding love" concept of western culture is also very problematic. In most 3rd world countries people marry for practical reasons, not love.
What an absolute load of rubbish. My Moroccan husband is 43. Im 12 years older. We have been married 12 years. He changed my life with love and care. Your concept is not the same as other cultures.
@@thelawisthelaw your situation is obviously different. Your husband wasn’t trying to get visa into the US. I’m glad it worked out for you!!
@Bbrinks im english
@@KeremcanBuyuktaskinyeah, i can vouch for that 😂😂😂😂
When they seem too good to be true, THEY ARE..wake up people
I fly to Africa as a flight attendant a lot and these guys keep trying when I am there . They say age does not matter . I never ever fall for it . They just want to leave because life is very difficult there . Why would they go with an older woman when they all want to have kids because of their religion and we cannot be a mother anymore
Life is difficult everywhere, because living standards are relative and vary.
Older men understand that they have to come up with cash when they date and marry younger women it appears older women did not get the memo.
😂True!!!
these are actual scammers though. The women older men finance, actually live with them and are faithful and good partners.
@@ScreamingEagleFTW Good point. It seems often the young women are prepared to put the effort in in order to have the material security ,though increasingly I also hear of for example Thai girls scamming and leaving.
That about sums it up...👍
Sometimes its better to get a new dog. Super loyal if you feed them and take the on long walks.
AMEN
This show should be named:
"The consequences of dating down".
In Africa it's very common for older men to marry much younger women. But unusual for a man to marry a women substantially older than himself.
Unless it’s for money. Which is extremely common.
The difference is that child brides don’t have much choice when their parents practically sell them to old, lecherous men to be abused.
These women bring these men to the UK, and then the taxpayer is left to foot the bill for the rest of their lives. If you bring someone into this country, you should have to be financially responsible for the entire duration of their stay.
The red flag is when they ask for money don't give them any. They will leave if that is what they are there for. Don't marry them quickly ask the LORD to send you a husband
Very true.
"Stop being nice to people!" Good advice from someone in the know!
To go and have a little fun, why not? But absolutely no connections afterward!
so a F' fest!
@brobinso😂😂😂😂 come on!!!
Yes, you don't have to pay huge amount in Gambia; just pay him some drinks he will sleep with you ; just make sure he uses protection
And most Africans already have a wife and a family back in their homeland. That's why they're always ready to marry some other woman 5 minutes after meeting them in order to gain citizenship in another country for himself and his primary relationship.
I can honestly tell you there are a lot of things that are worse than being alone
The fact she laughed at a goat being sacrificed and if she then ate the goat straight off she would be full of negativity due to the animal suffering - This tells me all I need to know about her .
Exactly
I feel sorry for all this granma's. They must be really really lonely to believed this love scammers. The Age difference is so disturbing!please open your eyes😢
If you feel alone, join the gym. It changes everything.
Lye (lie) is very aptly named
Hi
I honestly cannot watch this any longer.
I'm tired of these old women thinking that these young men really want them. If you think why would he want me? That's your answer. No money and no visa and see if he still want you.
Tell me yer an idiot without telling me you’re an idiot
Tracey did not just loose her money she also lost her mind and brain power.
The Canadian Woman who got home from Jamaica whirlwind courtship and began feeling quite ill. Her Doctor did a spinal fluid procedure looking for the cause based on symptoms. HIV yep.
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So sad.😢
One word passport
The thing is in these countries men are allowed to have more than one wife, the 1st wife may know about the new wife especially if the husband says this will help them have a better life etc
I think it's unfair to call these women names or to say they are dumb. Its not just a few women, is it? Its thousands every year - so clearly there's a bigger problem here.
Part of it, I believe, is that these are more often than not more mature women from an era when you married young, raised a family and looked after the home .. not like women of today where being traditional is mocked.
Most have probably been with the same man for decades, the children are grown with families of their own and they are out trying to make up for what they perceive as lost time - sacrificed being a wife, mother... Grandmother even.
So, a lot will have no idea how the world has changed, how its full of narcissists and no idea of the vultures right in front of them.... waiting to pounce with absolutely no remorse .
And that's not just men. Far from it.
They do now though 🤔🇬🇧
Well, you can think what you want and be just as idiotic as these over the hill unattractive looking women trying to steal a younger persons time and in return for their time taken there was a fee! If this can happen to young attractive females rich, famous or otherwise why couldn't happen to them? This is what re-tarded look's like! So you wrote all your nonsense and it changes nothing, dumb-dumb! Now, I love you so much and did you eat 🍔🍟🥤🍰 today my King? 👑
I would be honored to get to know you better! There's someone about you that's so very unique and special. Perhaps we can meet, but only if he who shall not be named
'Voldemort" would release unharmed my captured and very best friends Ron Weasley and Harry Potter and before I can even began to share my life with you, I'll need only $50,000 my 😍😍 so I can hire the very wizard's to release my dearest friends. This would mean the world to me! Yours Truly, Hermione Granger... 💋💋 💋
Well stated
Prenups must be signed to say that if and when they divorce theywalk away with what they came with.
Charming = narcissism
Dr Phil cant even help these women. They lost their minds!!!
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Dr Phil , no longer registered can;t even diagnose himself ,same as Dr Mehmet Oz ,Oprah should give the nation a Public apology for unleashing these two , snake oil salesman (OZ & supplements) and Phil for the down home folksy ,simpleton ,answers to complicated medical problems solved in a 50 or less minute show (advertising) or trying to sell Robyns new 'something I dreamed up last night product' or trying to convince someone 'he's not interested in politics ' BS , total Republican
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Better spend Your money for your psychotherapy, traumatherapie and psychoanalysis to prevent this kind of experience!
An throw in some hypnosis , to , dont talk to strangers
He looks like snoop dog.
He could make bank posing as a rapper LOL
LMAO-that was the first thing I thought when I saw him. The resemblance is remarkable.
Hi dear
I don’t ever want to settle down again as I have too much good in my life. I see life with deep clarity and much prefer my independence vs. potential pain & suffering.🌷
The shed 😂😂😂😂
Kinda says it all doesn't it...🤦♀️
Hi dear
This is why I'm Single!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love is elusive, but status in a First World country is a dream come true for many. Be aware. If you have to be the bacon and he is the eggs, you should skip breakfast; it costs more than it is worth
none of these women take any responsibility no self awareness at all
Exactly!💯💯
Sad because these women all seem so kind.
Kind but naive ..kindness doesn't mean you get protection from life, sense does
I don’t think you need a law to stop immigration marriages, you just need to be smart enough to know that these men aren’t really in love with you! If these younger, not too bad looking men aren’t into in your own country, why would they be interested in you from another country??
Every one has to grow up and take a look in the mirror, and realise your value, and stick to your own ?
Whyyyyyy do they always pick guys young enough to be their sons of course its not genuine UK STUCK WITH THESE FOOLS BECAUSE OF THESE STUPID WOMEN MAKES ME SO ANGRY 5YRS THEY SHOULD HAVE TO WAIT TO APPLY FOR CITIZENSHIP NOT 6 MONTHS 😤
Really, One can get UK citizenship after 6 months??? Are you sure?