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  • Chris knows what it means to work so hard and not enjoy the fruits of his labor.
    Here is his honest truth on today's episode of the Lynn Ngugi Show
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You can now watch Part Two here
    th-cam.com/video/lZHRHyXW6hs/w-d-xo.html
    🙏

    • @collombudasky2146
      @collombudasky2146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please Lynn ngugi i could like one day you find one lady from nakuru sachangwan who was in the USA for quite some time but when she came to Kenya for unknown reasons she sunk into alcoholism.. Tell me how i can reach you lynn

    • @ombiahussein9976
      @ombiahussein9976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish my father was alive to share his story in your show Lynn you are amazing

    • @jonesjois3169
      @jonesjois3169 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wueeeh pips got stories. As much as is a good reason 2 be a drunk it has made me know men are never 2 be trusted 4 nothing coz am like if it really is as bad as they say a disease,how come many women as men don't go that way?!. Personally I feel men have been babied like 4ever thru the generations plus their role in the society has been.played down so much such that they even feel.obligated 2 misbehave and waste themselves + many others r empowered ( e.g. when the women would report to his mother only,also the mother just commenting no action taken immediately watching the son go down low, wamama wa soko nyama inakanyagwa na anaenda kureport badala kumkulisha nyaunyo,Karumaido lady having mercy on him and returning the pho e yet she is working with her body) 2 even continue in their way ward ways. I feel nothing 4 those who chose 2 be rude and love the excess coz I know each one of us is fighting their own demons. Why can't men fight,how do women fight yet they pass thru 200% more than a male can pass thru in life. They r a let down and tiz time men stood up and manned up and took they positions esp. Black men and protect the society not this B S they give us. 👏👏 4 him if he changed,Lord have mercy on all females.in the world. Men Wang'ang'ane. Lynn U C if females become credible enough and are no nonsense material from mothers 2 lovers men would straighten up coz they will have no loop hole so watatii na society Itatulia poa sana,then all the SUBMISSIVENESS THEY KEEP LOOKING 4 FROM FEMALES WILL LAND AUTOMATICALLY. JUU angalia si mababa,mabroh,macousins,friends of our bro's, family males,strangers,neighbour men wanasumbua na ata sheria haiwashughulikii vilivyo. I beleive sheria ikiwa poa,society itabalance vizuuuri but they say( I DO NOT KNOW WHO THEY ARE🙄😕🤔) " IT'S A MAN's WORLD. Sasa warun world yao coz this type r the majority we got left. Just saying.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Am loving these episodes that men are coming to speak of their woundedness. Chris i have followed your threads on twitter & bold of you to share the challenges you went through 🙏❤️Addicts are not criminals they just need help😁

    • @thecomingmessiah7886
      @thecomingmessiah7886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @maureenwambui2992
      @maureenwambui2992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wanjiru you are always on time 😁😁😁

    • @daughternotforsaken7499
      @daughternotforsaken7499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sure am also like👏👏👏

    • @gladwelltailor
      @gladwelltailor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true alcoholism it's addiction and it requires treatment of the problem first withdrawal symptoms and detox and then staying clean and sober and maintaining the wiring in the brain.🛐📖🙏🏽🙋🙋🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @MercyLMaina
      @MercyLMaina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's his handle?

  • @kadzoandJoe
    @kadzoandJoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Visiting Kenya last year after twenty years, I noticed alcohol is so glamourised (made up word 🙈). It's on billboards, TV commercials, etc.) I felt very sad. Young people find it very attractive to drink. When I went to the village in Nakuru for my mother's memorial, I was very saddened by the amount of young people lost in alcoholism 😢. I saw young people unconscious by the roadside, I thought they were dead!! But was told they were drunk. I have cousins hooked on alcohol, some died from it 😭😭. I hope something will be done. Here in Ireland, people lost their lives from road accidents due to drink driving. It was a great crisis and the government banned alcohol advertising on billboards and media. The government also sanctioned times alcohol to be bought and served in pubs to 10am-10pn. You cannot buy alcohol anywhere in Ireland outside these times. Because of these measures, death rates on the roads have reduced by a great percentage. A lot of people stopped drinking and majority cannot stand alcoholism. Young people in Kenya and everywhere else in the world need to learn you can have fun without alcohol. You can heal without alcohol. Keep active in sports, community engagement, training, volunteer work, innovation activities, music, dancing, prayer etc. God bless my country Kenya 🙏🏾.

    • @Dee_the_blessed1
      @Dee_the_blessed1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow this is inspirational

    • @firstviolin596
      @firstviolin596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This information is quite insightful lesson to those in this forum wishing to be community leaders. Please try adopt some of these tips to our own situation at least to help those who are vulnerable. Thank you so much for taking time to write, as a community we appreciate. Asante

    • @antonymugambi389
      @antonymugambi389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great post Kadzo. It's interesting to note that Ireland once had to deal with the same challenge but they managed to overcome it. I believe there's hope for our young people as well. The problem with alcoholism is that it's tied up with so many other issues such as unemployment and poverty. Dealing with it is akin to walking on a tight rope because anything can trigger back the habit. These many issues need to be addressed too if we have to deal this scourge a defeating blow. I feel there's opportunity available for us all to make a lasting change. For example, donating to organisations that help alcohol addicts, supporting community based businesses or initiatives etc.

    • @djyoungspark6205
      @djyoungspark6205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Niice🙏💯

    • @annekoibor
      @annekoibor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aaaw ❤️
      Such an inspirational words

  • @wambuiwanyutu
    @wambuiwanyutu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I've been an addict myself and i know how it feels i had to get myself out of that addiction problem..I was top of the class in KU with First class honours degree in Economics had a top job in the government.Was taken to rehab by thw government but never let go of my addiction they even gave me a counsellor but i never came out coz i was also battling depression too.How i came out of that cocoon i just praise God i swear.Addicts are not criminals we normally just need help 😢😢😢
    Edits:My parents disowned me due to alcoholism,i did so many embarrassing things as a woman because of alcohol but no one heard my cry of help even my own mother whom i kept asking why she hated me so much. I've had a tough one while growing up never experienced the parental love and that made me hate myself alot. I've been bullied so.much has happened that made me really hate myself and reasons i never have friends always a solo walker.I lost everything including my kids but i started over again.I wish we could have an AA whatsapp group for us to confide in each other and support others too.

    • @catherinenjuguna2859
      @catherinenjuguna2859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations Wambui and May God walk with you in this journey of life

    • @tedgikonyo
      @tedgikonyo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wish Id meet with you...but it's this feeling of wanting to share a story with someone who has been there...Iam hopeful for that chance..

  • @enolelasoitameno4094
    @enolelasoitameno4094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lynn, this is a touching story. Somebody's real life. I feel for the parents of such children. Iam a victim of this situation and I can say, it is only through God's grace to come out of such a life. I have a daughter, who is exactly the same story of Chris. But the girl started when in form 2, stealing money from parents and after form 4 she became worst, running away from home for days. Sometimes, getting herself into the wrong hands of the law....arrested...being call at night to confirm whether, we know her. When we asked what's her problem, she said she wanted to be taken to rehab. We took her for 6months after coming out, no improvement she became even bad and we thought of returning her to rehab far away. We took her to a rehab for 14months. She came out better and went back again. We decided to leave her. We now concentrated in praying and fasting for sometimes. God is gracious and when we call on His name, He is never late to answer. The girl changed and change completely and now a good girl hustling for her life.
    Such real stories motivates someone who is trying to come out of it. May God bless Chris as he embark on his life. There should be no regret but thank God for preserving your life. My cry always was, God don't let my daughter die in sins and God is faithfully.

  • @nimogitau4194
    @nimogitau4194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is real life! Well narrated, well structured...effortless story telling..Chris' story will help alot of people, not just those struggling with addiction but all those affected by it.

  • @EKKiaiMedia
    @EKKiaiMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Dealing with any kind of Addiction is not easy, takes grace and determination

  • @albertomukointlministries5217
    @albertomukointlministries5217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I know this gentleman back from Moi,happy to hear he reformed .i can relate with what he went through .I was hooked to alcoholism for almost 20 yrs but Jesus saved me 11 years ago while working and living in dubai,Amen.

  • @joerea7461
    @joerea7461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Lynn am seeing my brother seated with you. He started drinking after losing his job. He has young babies but he drinks like shit. He tells me he wants to commit suicide and because am tired of his behaviors, I have always given him ago a head. He is such a stress to the big hearted wife and the children. He blames me for not helping. I have tried the much I can. I even want him to go to a rehab even though I can't afford now I was told 3 months is 150k. I am dedicatedly watching this so that I can learn and see how to help my brother. Lynne I am tired and his family is tired too. Relatives do not care about his actions even our Dad even though mom is late buy he is old enough to man up. I wish I would learn to help him. I have not lost hope yet but I am tired Lynne. Bravo to our guest

    • @mbairendirangu-nettles2440
      @mbairendirangu-nettles2440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pole sana...May the Lord lead you in the way you should go.🙏

    • @islandgurlforever
      @islandgurlforever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Joe I can feel you, I have been through what you are going through and this show here explains lot what I have seen in my own brother too....am praying for you and your family don't give up on him.

    • @sylviamattiss6721
      @sylviamattiss6721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel your pain, went through the same with my brothers. Two of them just stopped drinking on their own.They started going to church and everything changed for the better. It was a long journey but we never gave up on them.

    • @wanjalaspha797
      @wanjalaspha797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It will be well,mimi nimekunywa nimekoroga mbaya sana I've been a drunk.but it came a time niliCHOKA na niliwacha

    • @alicethumbi
      @alicethumbi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please don’t give up. Be patient with him. You are his last hope. I am tell you out of experience. Right now my baby brother is on internship having graduating in clinical medicine and surgery. It took God and wisdom to see him through. He always told me that I was his only hope and sure enough I committed to assist him. Trust God only to see you through.

  • @eddnamakori3591
    @eddnamakori3591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The first step to getting anywhere is deciding you're no longer willing to stay where you are. Thank you for making the right decision

  • @favouredblessed2631
    @favouredblessed2631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Lyn I suffered with alcolism I started drinking at 21 here in Europe I thought aki I don't know it started, the day I stopped drinking that was 2 years ago after I started having pankreatisis, woi its so hard because of the lies I was trying my mum, I guess I started drinking because I thought I was so lonely and I was struggling with almost past memories and I was all alone here and nobody knew it but am greatly greaful I have overcome it

    • @scolla81
      @scolla81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Woyeee pole sana

    • @wandiaflorence7712
      @wandiaflorence7712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pole sana, I can understand ,you was far from the family.

    • @favouredblessed2631
      @favouredblessed2631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@scolla81 asanti 🌹💖

    • @favouredblessed2631
      @favouredblessed2631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wandiaflorence7712 thank you 😘

    • @evangacha6936
      @evangacha6936 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for that. I hope you stick to that forever. God is with you.

  • @chriskimrecovery
    @chriskimrecovery 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Thanks Lynne for having us on the show. Speaking out really helped🙏

    • @aliciavalvan70
      @aliciavalvan70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are a strong man ,your story is an eye opener cant wait for part 2

    • @peterwanjohi7708
      @peterwanjohi7708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i appreciate your courage & bravery. That's awesome of you man. This will aid me to know how to support my relatives in this situation👏👏👏

    • @chriskimrecovery
      @chriskimrecovery 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aliciavalvan70 thanks Alicia

    • @janerosakaruu1190
      @janerosakaruu1190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Asante sana Chris for sharing your story. It must have been very difficult to gather the courage to speak out on your addiction journey. Everyone who will listen to you, they will learn. I pray that God protects you and showers you with many blessings. May God keep you sober and strong for ever. 🙏🏿 You are the voice to many who are suffering in silence. Each one of us knows somebody who has an addiction, be it in the family, or friend's circle. Most of us who call ourselves casual or social drinkers, let's check our drinking habits and watch for the warning signs. There is a very thin line between an addict and an occasional user. Thank you Chris and God bless you 🙏🏿

    • @emmamwangi434
      @emmamwangi434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ Chrispus Kimaru your story gives me hope that my brother will get out of it. It's been one long journey for me and us.

  • @cathyajulo4352
    @cathyajulo4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yesterday I cried seeing my brother in late 30s looking like an old man of 60 years coz of alcoholism.i broke into tears,n i told God it's enough now

    • @wandiaflorence7712
      @wandiaflorence7712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cathy ,pole sana, but please try to talk with him, don't ignore him try to ask him why he is taking Alcohol. My brother reason for taking Alcohol ,he got divorced after Retirement, so he was lonely , he had companies in the Bar ,so it got to his normal life. He passed on 2020 December. So sad.

    • @cathyajulo4352
      @cathyajulo4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wandiaflorence7712 so hurting my dea

  • @michaelbasweti6480
    @michaelbasweti6480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    At a period where most inspirational content is geared towards assisting women, I'm glad you brought this man to the show. I hope you can get some more men to come just try and balance the ratio. I'm pretty sure a lot of men related with this story.

    • @CK-ps7sm
      @CK-ps7sm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's not about gender its about humanity

    • @michaelbasweti6480
      @michaelbasweti6480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CK-ps7sm It's just an opinion on what I know most men will relate to. Just check on how many men engaged on this post as compared to others.

  • @annemutabacho1458
    @annemutabacho1458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's how he has vividly documented everything.. well detailed.. A good story teller

  • @eunicewambui2906
    @eunicewambui2906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    May God deliver us from alcohol slavery n all other addiction, Chris I feel you.

  • @jahvivsworld3404
    @jahvivsworld3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When you take charge of your life and let nothing stop you from getting better ,YOUR ENTIRE LIFE CHANGES

  • @elijahm1717
    @elijahm1717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This interview is quite heavy.. So bold and commendable of you Chris. You are a testimony for many alcoholics and their loved ones that it is possible to overcome the addiction. You are an unsung hero

  • @wanjirusspace
    @wanjirusspace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Our guest today is so brave, he has openly shared his story. Alcoholism is an illness that requires treatment and not condemnation. It can be frustrating seeing a family member going through it but supporting them go through rehab is a major step for a turn around. Let us show them a lot of love. Jamo did so well with Chris, even his employer Safaricom. Thanks Lynn for this story. Looking forward to Part 2.

  • @terryjohnson6202
    @terryjohnson6202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Am addicted to your shows Lynn they inspire me for real more blessing 💞

  • @lucywambui1516
    @lucywambui1516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I applaud Chris for coming around to speak about this. We are experiencing this with my cousin a bright boy who cleared university got a very good job but was also sacked over drinking cheap liquor..... I wish there was a way to help him

    • @yesbana49
      @yesbana49 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes you can help him but its untill the boy decided to change for good. If not, even if you take them to rehab , they move out and become worse . This something i have witnessed .

    • @paulinekamau9633
      @paulinekamau9633 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lots of counseling and life coaching when he is sober

  • @kobbimbimu9943
    @kobbimbimu9943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thankyou for coming out to tell your story. I lost my dad to alcoholism when I was little. I believe he was a good man coz sometimes he would promise us that he will never drink again coz he doesn't want to keep embarrassing us. Addiction is a tough battle. He caught pneumonia after he fell in a mtaro on a rainy night and lost his life.

    • @valentineakello9327
      @valentineakello9327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      so sorry

    • @raelwangari6635
      @raelwangari6635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Niko pia hapa praying it doesn't get to my kids coz things r bad wit their dad😔😔

    • @lucynjuguna9653
      @lucynjuguna9653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@raelwangari6635 pray mama pray some more for him.some things are not normal

    • @raelwangari6635
      @raelwangari6635 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucynjuguna9653 last year he was diagnosed with liver hepatic steatosis but still he drinks..not bother wit his health condition 😥😥

    • @jacklinewangui9399
      @jacklinewangui9399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's the problem with addictions,it's because it's a demon that controls someone so most times it overpowers someone,one by themselves they can't drink that's why your dad would promise he won't do it but end up doing it without his will,
      Am so sorry for what you went through ruth

  • @Phillpns413
    @Phillpns413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lynn what this man is talking about is real. Back in the days our teachers knew what was happening some of them even said nikutolewa usoftie. Kuna wengine ata walikua wanaogopa coz these bullies would indirectly threaten them.
    Kwanza sisi kulikua na siku hungewai lala dorm ata the form three and form four would sneak out in the night on Friday to a shopping centre go drink and even sleep with ladies of the night. And upon coming back usiku wanagonga mabox na miti na machupa wanawaamsha muwaimbie na mdance . Heeeee weee nakwambia how I survived all this is God. We umelala unashtukia umeamshwa na ubaya either uendee maji Kwa bafu wife miguu ama uwaoshe nguo .
    Some of those I was at high school with didn't make it to form four without inheriting the habit .
    I remember loosing a guys trouser ente alikua ameniambia nimuoshe na nimuangalilie hadi ikauke. Weeee nliona Moto, he would call me every evening and abuse me some times threatenbto beat me and some times beat me up .
    My God Lynn . I didn't go to school in the 90s like he did but back when I was at high school it was baaad.
    You know the funny thing is I have met the people who did bad things to me I looked at them and wondered how on earth. Some I have met are in their worst conditions . I do not judge them neither am I happy about it . LIFE is such a roller coaster waaaaaaaa.

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I worked as a bartender in one of the prominent yet discreet brothel in Karen and let me tell u I saw things that are not meant to be seen ,men ruining their lives with young ladies and spending money like there is no tomorrow, thank God I left after I got another job abroad.

  • @harrietsandra6369
    @harrietsandra6369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Can't wait for part two the way we judge these people when we meet them but deep down they are really going through alot🥺

  • @petermwathi6334
    @petermwathi6334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is a good inspirational story, I've been there same case and it ruined my life completely.Its been almost 1year sober and am hoping to be sober for the rest of my life.

  • @lucyvibesgermany
    @lucyvibesgermany 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love it when MEN SPEAK THEIR MIND OUT AND CHALLENGE S THEY GET ALONG THE WAY. THAD A STRONG MAN RIGHT THERE..LETS EMBRACE PEOPLE EVEN AT THEIR LOWEST .GOOD SHOW LYN 💝

  • @hoodrats3897
    @hoodrats3897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We really need to start speaking our hearts out I often tell myself that this is the last time I'll ever catch myself drinking and yet I'll be on it by the next morning,tried to quit a thousand times but I'm stuck with it so now all I do is stay alone and avoid people so that I can stay sober for at least a day

    • @swabreenamohamed7620
      @swabreenamohamed7620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My uncle battled with heroine adduction for 20yrs and he is sober now. If he can make it believe you will as well. May God make it easy for you

  • @denniskimani9965
    @denniskimani9965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This hit me sooo hard...exactly what I'm going through right now I spent the better part of this sunday and monday crying. I'm just praying the alcohol I had yesterday will be my last

    • @janeruiter6459
      @janeruiter6459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take heart and just believe in yourself that you'll pull through this. Seek help too if you can. This guy would be the one to talk to coz he gets it. Grace be with you

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dear Dennis,
      Sending you so much love and light🙏

    • @ithankgod5733
      @ithankgod5733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dear Denis,
      I am praying for you. I pray that God hears you out and heals you!
      It may be a struggle but start small and know that the future is bright! When you conquer alcoholism, you will be whole again.

    • @wandiaflorence7712
      @wandiaflorence7712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dennis, all will be well. You are willing to change ,God will help you. The only thing I can advise you is changing your friends with whom you take Alcohol with, and if possible place where you live. There is always reason for a beer or Glass of Wine. I wish you all the best dear. Am sad although I don't know you. I lost my brother from Alcohol in December 2020, I know how it is.

    • @denniskimani9965
      @denniskimani9965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wandiaflorence7712 Excatly what i was thinking Quiting my job and going far far away where theres no one i know...I'm still in a dillema though

  • @marymaina9090
    @marymaina9090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Am lyking how men are coming out n sharing their story it's so encouraging

    • @matovuabu5215
      @matovuabu5215 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He real looks a drunkard

  • @mwangi_mwangi
    @mwangi_mwangi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wah, I'm going through this right now. It's only today I haven't drunk anything since 2017 and my body is so shaky and cold. Wish I will never drink again

    • @relaxandrejuvinate
      @relaxandrejuvinate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can do it Mwangi!!! Get support from your church pastor or an older sober friend..you can do it.

    • @boohookidscreations8003
      @boohookidscreations8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope Chris's story inspired you. You will make, find someone to walk with you. One day at a time brother.

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hugs.. Hugs

  • @faithnjoki1471
    @faithnjoki1471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    His life was interrupted by the trauma in form one. The mind has a way of storing rogue information. The being lined up naked is something he remembers clearly as a setback. Unfortunately adults do not realize how such humiliation messes up our psychi. I hope he went to therapy to awaken that inner child whose dignity was taken away by bullying.
    Alcoholism is a disease. The stigma needs to end.

  • @bentahmaina.7469
    @bentahmaina.7469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amazing episode sure this guy has really transformed....Githae am sure you've inspired someone am proud of a man you becoming you didn't let your past define your future.

  • @faithgesare8209
    @faithgesare8209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Proud of you for being brave and coming out to share.

  • @rispernyatichi9046
    @rispernyatichi9046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not many people come out from addiction alive, thanks to God that he rescued you from this

  • @KavamiMiusik
    @KavamiMiusik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    A few minutes into the story and I already relate to the man. There is alot of internal hardships that come with being good academically. When you dont reach the sky it feels like the end. I wish there was education around that. Sometimes our gifts become our curses coz we dont know how to handle them.

  • @tngmediake1905
    @tngmediake1905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Touching indeed thanks lyn Godbless you changing lives uku njee

  • @juliedavis2482
    @juliedavis2482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have really shared to many people I know affected by alcoholic.
    Thanks Chris for sharing

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was deep! So brave of him to come out and talk about it.

  • @margaretwanjama559
    @margaretwanjama559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am a mother to a Chris. This has really touched me. We have tried everything even that Chiromo he is talking about and others. I would really aprreciate if he gets help. We have used so much resource trying to help our son.

    • @joannemuturi_purposecultivator
      @joannemuturi_purposecultivator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May God meet you at your point of need!

    • @ronaalakie6291
      @ronaalakie6291 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      May God help him overcome this devil that is alcoholism.

    • @njerimwaura6676
      @njerimwaura6676 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a rehab centre that is like a home. May be we can talk

    • @lynnkesh254
      @lynnkesh254 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@njerimwaura6676what's the cost?

  • @perrynmike7433
    @perrynmike7433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chrispus Githae kimaru...
    My primary school classmate,He was among the best students,waaa i didnt know you went through all this,thanks so much for sharing,thanking God with you for saving your life,people lets learn never to judge,

  • @cindylombard4176
    @cindylombard4176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I salute Chris for his bravery in sharing his story. I've learnt that a small mistake can be fatal. So glad that he was able to leave it all behind and start again and flourish.

  • @kuimacharia5413
    @kuimacharia5413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hee his man has made me cry, for all the pain that started from being bullied and feeling l ok me a failure even when you were not....my God Chris thank-you for sharing your story and may God use you to reach the men in your generation as a tool to heal the brokenhearted.

  • @wanguigithaga3305
    @wanguigithaga3305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow!,
    So inspiring n i have learned so much
    Thank you so much for sharing
    God bless you

  • @janewandaka4847
    @janewandaka4847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Chris for the courage to share your experience in alcohol addiction.
    My own brother has been in alcohol addiction for more 35 years.
    Now I understand him better from your story.

  • @davidmbayapambaza4314
    @davidmbayapambaza4314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Boss. We thank God for 5 years of being sober.
    Your story is so natural and inspiring. We pray that it helps many overcome addiction

  • @omondiantony1207
    @omondiantony1207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm Genuinely sorry for the pain you went through. I feel like the pain u felt when you were bullied in high school was supressed and manifested later after you finished school, coz boarding school can get very very very LONELY!!! I know first hand. thank you so much for sharing and May God continue loving you and protecting you. God loves you more than any Mortal! dont forget that.

  • @ritahnabea5045
    @ritahnabea5045 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very buriful story and so inspiring. I have planned to download it and will show my sons just to pick a leaf from it. Thanks Chris for sharing.

  • @KuiWaKamau
    @KuiWaKamau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Notification Gang here. Watching from Ujerumani 🇩🇪
    Am glad that men are slowy coming and opening up. Thank U Lynn for this plattform.

  • @tichy6141
    @tichy6141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Many Kenyan men who attended high school in 90s upto 2010 were thoroughly bullied and beaten in high school. Banning of corporal punishment saved the current kids a lot

  • @njerimureithi6924
    @njerimureithi6924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chris watching you and i can relate to your story. I remember those days in our small village n how things would be, I thank God you are now reformed and the path that God is taking you.You have been a bright champ and you are destined for greatness

  • @Karol_Lynne
    @Karol_Lynne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I didn't know alcoholism was this awful,i thot people drink because they want to and they enjoy doing that .Thank you for educating us..waiting for part 2

  • @paulinekamau9633
    @paulinekamau9633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Seeing alcohol addicts in my family made me hate alcohol and I constantly talk to my children about how alcohol affects lives praying to God that none of my kids will go down that road

  • @stanastana3199
    @stanastana3199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dude is still alive,unafaa kujengewa mnara pale kicc.💪💪

  • @olukpamela8003
    @olukpamela8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have just attended a burrial of a young man who passed away because of alcohol.please let's help our brothers and sisters to come out of it as soon we sense danger.

  • @daughternotforsaken7499
    @daughternotforsaken7499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lynn I have also slapped myself on that part of kuona mlevi and I don't want to associate myself with him..he is dirty God forgive me ...it pains more to hear that they seek for help inwardly but who can listen to a mlevi kwanza we will tell them "enda ukakunywe wewe" it's a sad story😢😢

  • @sarahkarongo838
    @sarahkarongo838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Finally we have men on this show, congratulations Lynn!

  • @bbrabow1gmail
    @bbrabow1gmail 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Crispus: God continue to Strengthen and Bless you and your family

  • @braniceadisa8401
    @braniceadisa8401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wooow i am encouraged
    Lyn aki leta david ogot kwa hii show please..

  • @maureennyarotso4557
    @maureennyarotso4557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People who celebrate alcohol have never been directly linked to its adverse effects.... It's bad

  • @a.muchemi4360
    @a.muchemi4360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mental health is a big society so please don't just judge those in addictions, there is underlying issues

  • @paulinenyawira8317
    @paulinenyawira8317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    May the Lord help me never to judge anyone,as a neighbor and former primary and college mate to Crispus, for sure there is part of you I didn't know of and am encouraged and amused to the fact that you are out there to help others.... May God bless you.
    This is God's doing, soon you will be the one to deliver our youths starting from our village in mentorship.I need you,WE need you in shaping our young ones.
    Happy for you.

  • @EverlineOtienoFitness
    @EverlineOtienoFitness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We need to listen to such stories ,Thanks Chris for sharing your past

  • @quingure2763
    @quingure2763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lynn dress code iko dope 👌
    That's a great episode.

  • @gracenyagaki3830
    @gracenyagaki3830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am from Karatina and I can tell you for free. That town needs redemption. It is such inspiration to see a man get out of that hole.
    We will continue praying and standing with our Brothers, Uncles, Fathers and Sons.

    • @lucynjuguna9653
      @lucynjuguna9653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's central in general

    • @gracenyagaki3830
      @gracenyagaki3830 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucynjuguna9653 true, all our small towns are swamped with young men, wamekaa pale mung'etho.
      May God help us and them.

    • @kenzouleegamer5364
      @kenzouleegamer5364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its countrywide will the cheap liqour all over.. one needs 50 Bob and after a few minutes they are mad drunk.. sorry state

  • @qatoi6943
    @qatoi6943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chris kuna mahali umenichekesha ati Buruburu kuna westlands. You are a fighter and an inspiration.

  • @peterokalo9632
    @peterokalo9632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lynn Many’s families in kenya 🇰🇪 are suffering a lot we needed more topics like this and trying to help those all are going through this 👏🏽🙏🏽😭😭😭😭

  • @extrovert5829
    @extrovert5829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My uncle died due to alcohol unfortunately those days no awareness was there. 💔 His liver was damaged beyond repair.

  • @CoolkenyanInisrael
    @CoolkenyanInisrael 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for having the courage to speak 👌👌... thanks Lynn

  • @millicentwanja5544
    @millicentwanja5544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There's nothing more important than a strong support system...God bless Jaymo because mimi after hiyo story ya kuibiwa laptop alafu bado unatumia pesa zote kwa bank account ningekucharaza . Thanks Steve for sharing this...lifelong lessons 💯💯💯 second chances in life are always the best, so soldier on God's got your back.

  • @georgewabwire824
    @georgewabwire824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing Chris. I definitely will watch part 2.

  • @mukhwanavenon3811
    @mukhwanavenon3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This story touched me a lot..glad have had the visuals too

  • @kimemiawanjiru1814
    @kimemiawanjiru1814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish my ex hubby could see this. I left him coz of alcoholism and up to now he is deep into it.

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Positive personal change is intentional. You cannot let it happen, you have to make it happen.

    • @stanastana3199
      @stanastana3199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      real shit,i gotcha ya✌️✌️

  • @charitywairimungugi-latz1315
    @charitywairimungugi-latz1315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So real, so vivid, simply told from a very vulnerable position Thanks Chris you are genuinr and your story will help many. Lynn you are a gem able to identify what people need to learn by picking your interviews with a Lot of genuine empathy.

  • @mamjoy2110
    @mamjoy2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oww,the guy looks soo much like Lewis nguyai former kabete mp,soo composed,humbleness on higher level...Men rarely talks, ,I Lost all my beloved three brathas thru alcohol😢😭😭..Wish someone came thru to save just one of them....All the best Chris....

    • @joannemuturi_purposecultivator
      @joannemuturi_purposecultivator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was trying to place the face! Thank you for reminding me it’s Lewis Nguyai. They really resemble! Pole for the loss of your brothers. May God’s peace and strength be with you!

    • @mamjoy2110
      @mamjoy2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joannemuturi_purposecultivator Gods knows better dear,thanx

  • @gabikelly8538
    @gabikelly8538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kimaru used to be my English teacher in high school and I'm so proud of him ...

  • @Shizniz
    @Shizniz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    From now moving forward, i will look at that mlevi differently. They might be crying for help.

  • @faithkamau3144
    @faithkamau3144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a brave man. Calling a spade a spade. Yani ukifikiria you are struggling,here comes Chrispus story of his past,and you realize you are highly favoured.
    Your story will heal so many lives 👏

  • @user-ur2to5ml3u
    @user-ur2to5ml3u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just can't avoid laughing' I found myself sleeping inside a room without a roof but with stars above'. Thanks for creation of awareness anyway. My principal shall be ' A wiseman learns from other people's mistakes but a fool waits to learn from ones own mistake.

  • @peterokalo9632
    @peterokalo9632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Many’s Adults and younger generation in kenya are going through this big problems of alcoholism somking bangi chewing melaa Megoka some of Kenyans families members are even goes mentally sickness and no where’s to taken them or any helper social worker

  • @aumaKNN
    @aumaKNN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alcoholism is a pandemic I have seen people very close tome getting destroyed by it ..the moment I came to understand that all addictions have an underlying trauma I stopped judging.I just hope one day they will decide enough is enough.

  • @arandomdudeontheinternet1484
    @arandomdudeontheinternet1484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's brave cousin Chris. I remembered how you were a quiet boy when young..didn't know you had a problem.

  • @mzuribeauty4287
    @mzuribeauty4287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so helpful to the whole community more so being shared by a man. Most families have or had a drinking member

  • @randomzwithdaisy254
    @randomzwithdaisy254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The number of campus students drinking sends shivers down my spine.Knowing that some if not most might end up suffering from alcoholism makes me sad.

    • @wanjalaspha797
      @wanjalaspha797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alcohol is satanic .

    • @wandiaflorence7712
      @wandiaflorence7712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wanjalaspha797 Alcohol ,addiction and it's a deases, my brother passed on 2020 December from Alcohol, I couldn't help him

    • @randomzwithdaisy254
      @randomzwithdaisy254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My grandpa died due to liver issues I see how painful mama talks about his period in hospital.But what hurts me is my cousins took up the habit.

    • @randomzwithdaisy254
      @randomzwithdaisy254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kupiga sherehe as campus students call it .

  • @FaridaKaru
    @FaridaKaru 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That “brother Chris” moment made me laugh 😂😂😂

  • @everlineombuna
    @everlineombuna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alcoholism the story of my late father. Sad! Traumatizing to say the least. I hate alcohol so much.

  • @eunicewanjerichege7231
    @eunicewanjerichege7231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May God deliver us from addiction

  • @linetmbugua9785
    @linetmbugua9785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Young people are really getting into alcoholism especially in campus. I've seen people we got admitted in campus with first year but by the time they are in fourth year they cannot do without the alcohol even to an extent of shaking. I kept on wondering why on earth we had bars in campus premises... Alcohol has brought more harm than good 😔

  • @harrietsandra6369
    @harrietsandra6369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lynn you always Inspire me your intro I always sing along with you😂😂

  • @flohMN1356
    @flohMN1356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Its been looong but am back..
    Glad I found this episode .. Here i am ready to listen❤
    #Ambackhome

    • @lovethildah7340
      @lovethildah7340 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome back girl!

    • @flohMN1356
      @flohMN1356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lovethildah7340 thank you

  • @juliuskiunjuri437
    @juliuskiunjuri437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your story is inspiring ☺️ but at the same time am fantasizing the events and episodes you went through while drunk am cracking my ribs with laughter especially the brother Chris part😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @agnesladasha5641
    @agnesladasha5641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The story is so inspiring much love 💕💕💕🙏

  • @margiekamande4795
    @margiekamande4795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how he tells his story with lots of humor. The fact that he came out from all of that, it shows how God can save his people. This is so encouraging!

  • @constancekoech8346
    @constancekoech8346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My uncle died because of alcohol abuse and he was a very good nurse.it still haunts me to date.

  • @joywahu4222
    @joywahu4222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow my English teacher he was the best but always drunk , God is Good

  • @annwandia1632
    @annwandia1632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alcoholism is a real issue in our society and funny enough most people don't know they are addicts cos unlike Chris they don't shake or remove "lock " n it's important to bring such real conversations affecting so many people. Thankyou Chris and I thank God for your restoration.

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good morning team Lynn

  • @bbrabow1gmail
    @bbrabow1gmail 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lynn…. Gurlllll your amazing!!! God Bless You and Blessings in you and your family…

  • @MitchAeric377
    @MitchAeric377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good job Lyn 🔥🔥