I am wife... respect is more important than anything else... Wife needs RESPECT Respect k bina kuch bhi nahi hai... If husband respects .. that melts my heart.. if i feel disrespected then nothing can calm... not even love... Respect Respect Respect
@@Ashu__108-i5g both genders needs are different, some need are same like love , support etc nd many more But some are different for example women seek more stability and security in relationship more than man , women need more emotional comfort more than man , women need attention more than man , Man need more physical intimacy more than women etc . We are different and thats beutiful becouse we compliment each other The reason we are attracted to each other is becouse of bieng different, just imagine if everyone would be same ,if both genders were same than there would be no attraction to each other People confuse bieng equal to bieng same , we are not same we fullfill each other's need and that beautiful 😍 That's my opinion if you have something else then do share 🙂
Sir, bada beta agar wife ki help kare tho Lattooo. Agar chota beta wife ki help kare tho… haiii bhagwan dono ka pyaar bnaa rahe. Ye parents aisa kyun karte hain????
Vo esliye kiuki bade bhai ke uper koi responsibility hoti hai jonke use dhikhte nhe hai.. Jo ke galt hai... Wife or maa ko ek sath leke chalna chaiye ...
Mutual respect and mutual love with each other and never taking granted for each other , polishing the memories and moments time to time . I think these things will make the marriage heaven
Respect is as important as love for wives.. if your husband disrespects you and talk in an insulting manner and then show love without apology. It feels very toxic.. so yes I firmly believe respect comes before love.. for both
Respect for wives is an equally important ingredient....the husband who humiliated his wife in public, family how can he shower love....so love and respect both matter 🙏
@@maheshnaidu2676 लड़की अपना घर छोड़कर आती है, मां बाप, माल।पहचान तक छोड़ कर, बेघर होकर आती है। उसका यही सांसे बड़ा sacrifice hai, जिसकी बराबरी तुम कभी नहीं कर सकते। तो एहसान मानो और रेस्पेक्टे करो। या फिर उसके जितनी त्याग करने की हिम्मत हो तो खुद विदा होके जाओ और उसका नाम लेके उसका वंश बढ़ा के दिखाओ।
एकदम सही बात कही आपने सर जी.....आपका बस एक व्हिडिओ देखकर मूड अच्छा हो जाता है....even if it doesn't apply one's own life....and feel like interacting with you live and not the recorded one....
I spoke your language long back and when I told my husband to stand up for me and be my shield, he said you are not laachaar, stand up for yourself. So I did;) Now I don’t need anyone to stand up for me, because other people have lost their backbone 😅😂including the husband who has lost his control😂
@@FromProfessor how so? If a husband does not stand up for you, do you just shut up and take shit from everyone else around you? Did you not watch the video before commenting?
@@FromProfessorwow men claim to protect woman . This is how they protect. If one can't take stand just don't marry it's just that simple. Waise bhi bharat Mei bohot faltu aadmi h jinki shadi na hi ho toh future generation or uss ladki ke achha hi hoga.
@@ankitamishra0405Actually men never protect women and never stand up for their wives in front of their parents. They want their wives to tolerate every shit from their in laws and other family members. But in comment section they will get angry over it😂😂
With due respect, I partially disagree with you. Women need respect as well. Respect is more important than love. Infact love without respect is not long lasting. Respect and Love is the requirement of both husband and wife.
Love agar real hai, to respect uske sath sath aati hai.... Agar husband actual love karta hai, to usme respect to rahega hi rahega....aur phir wife bhi bina kuch kahe hi respect karna shuru kar degi .... Lekin har case me husband ko pahal karni hogi.... Things and scenarios have changed now....
When husband is taking side of her her wife for protection of self respect from his family members, it's one sort of respect only..men don't n can't give direct respect..but not disrespecting is also a form of respect...
Raat raat bhar jaagna, bachche sambhalna, unhein padhana, unke saath bina kisi fruatration ke khelna, classes le jana, subah jo ghar se sabse pehle jata hai office us sepehle uthkar naashta tiffin banana aur jo sabse late aata hai, usko khana dekar, kitchen sametkar sona- cook ko khane mein kya banega aur bartan wali ko manage karne se zara zyada kaam hai ghar par sir
madam paisa nahi kamate itne effort ka to kya fayda. no appreciation from family jo chiz measure nahi ho sakti wo chiz dekhi nahi ja sakti. earn money it will show competence to your family that you are more valuable thus earning more will bring respect and appreciation
This is a lie..I am working and used to take care of home as well , giving respect is something that is a personality trait ..don’t be fooled by the idea of earning respect..they won’t give respect even if u go out and earn because it’s their nature..
Avoiding marriage is the best way to escape marriage issues these days...🤣...However if one prefers to marry gender neutral mutual respect is a must I think......
Sir aapki video dekh kar meri married life me already magical change aa gya hai.. thank you so much for your wonderful channel.. all I did was I did good, respected everyone and wanted nothing.. husband k sath sath unki puri family mujhe bahot pyar krti h and meri bahot respect krti h ab..
We r also working and put our level best in office, face office politics, work hard at home too. Most of the Indian men do not even cut veggies at home. They don't want to earn respect, just want to get it without deserving.
@@doncorleone3901 he starts being taken as granted for those household tasks. The solution might be just to help/support her in chores instead of doing them completely by himself?
@@akashnagpal not good. Household chore is not gender specific, but in India, unfortunately it is made so even now. And there are other things, other chores , mutual understanding, respect, communication etc. To be considered too.
yes today husbands even those who are highly qualified & very wealthy are mortally scared of showing concern and care for their wives because they fear - really they are s**t scared of - being labelled "Joru ka gulaam" or in today's sophisticated English - you cannot and will not "control me" or "define / dictate how I act or behave in anyway. It may seem like a very small insignificant thing, but as Sangwanji has explained here, it causes a lot of painful experiences in Indian marriages.
You are right sir mostly. Women need more of love and men primarily respect in a manly sense but women also need respect in the sense of feminine energy they give to your life and family.
Would have been great if you have spread some examples of love and respect because people might interpret it based on their own understanding and mindset
Wives need love from husbands; and husbands respect from their wives. Once these needs are fulfilled their relationship becomes heavenly. Wonderful marital advice. But husbands don't expect genuine love will reciprocate respect from wives immediately. It takes time...Forty three days at least. All the best.
Before marriage, I asked my husband to vall me "Aap n jee". He does so even after many years, and ppl look at him so strangely and with jealousy that you call your wife with so much of respect. And we both rock 😂 Touchwood,
You are absolutely right Guruji! Also, India har jagah Saas-Bahu wale serial ki tarah Toxic behave krta he. Mene 4 weeks ki Internship kri thi waha wo Manager "Meri galati ho gayi Tumhr kaam bata diya", "Mujhe hi samajhna chahie tha ki Tum se nahi hoga" aese sab baat krta tha... 🤣 Humne toh bhaag gaye waha se 4 weeks me. India me work place Toxic he kyuki Toxicity Movies se leke TV se leke Ghar tak sab jagha Dusre ki disrespect krne ka demo diya jata he. Guess what, Abroad aya to yaha to Sach me red carpet bicha rakha he inn logo ne. Pesa bhi de rahe he, respect bhi de rahe he, 😂. India's Boomer Generation and also the ones from the 80s need to learn something.
Baki bato se sahmat hu , par abroad me bhi agar desi company me ho ya banks me ho to wahi Culture hai. Indian ka funda hai na jiyo na jeeno do, workplace me showbazi karte raho. 😂
Love and Respect are byproducts of TRUST. This aspect is missing in this video but I feel it's the most important aspect for successful marriage. Your thoughts please...
Sir, I also believe Indian serials act as a big influence on how people react, finally we are a sum total of what we see, what we read, who we hang out with and what we believe. All behaviors emerges from these habit patterns!
Sir husband respect, care aur pyar bahut krte hain pr earn nhi krne dete. Bolte hain sb tera hi to hai pr di kbhi chvanni bhi nhi. Plz btaiye kya kru? Work from home bhi nhi krne dete. Unke tough time mein unke business ko join kiya. Apni education ko kaam mein liya aur business bhi boom pr aa gya. Relationship improve bhi hua. Pr vo mujhe salary tk nhi lene dete. Bolte hain paise pr dhyan jayega to technical aur fundamental skills khrab ho jayenge mere.... plz make a video n guide sir..... mere jaisi bahut hongi jinhe ye help chahiye.... much needed... 🙏
Respect jhootha hai. Wo respect nahi, management hai। Mera swarthi bhai bhi meri kaabil bhabhi ke saath aisa hi karta hai, aur wo mere support ke baad bhi uski baaton mein fans kar koi stand nahi leti aur भुगतती जाती है।
Meri shadi k liye abi searching chal rahi hai, But apke points maine note kar liye hai abi se aur apni aane wali life me apply bhi karunga.. Thank you sir aese hi kirpa barsae rakhna apka gurutatv bahut acha hai 🙏🙏
Aap bahut acha bolte hai. Aur saccha bolte hai. Society mein iski bahut jarurat hai. People became educated but failed to apply it especially in family life. Maine apke bahut sare videos dekhe hai and you are absolutely correct and to the point in almost all the points. And certainly yes, these issues are holding our economy back because women can't apply all their skills and potential at the right place at the right age. They need to wait till their 40s and 50s to do what they are best at. I am also a deep thinker just like you, but no one listens to me. 😂 Thanks to you. Many people like you should come forward. I just pray that your videos should get viral asap..
We are a love marriage couple. Before marriage, hum ek dusre ko tu and tum bolte the. Shadi k baad hum dono ne ek dusre ko sabse pehle AAP bolna shuru kiya. It changed one thing "tune ye kaam nhi kiya" sounds bit rude whereas "Aapne ye kaam nhi kiya" sounds like request. It really helped. As Guru ji says ki small changes in your day to day life really helps.
@@tirthaobiswas equality htane se reltnshp nahi bchne wale... try krke dekh lena... Equality hta k dekh lena... short term me ego boost ho skta hai long term me na ego boost milega na aur kuch milega
One follows the other IF men start loving and women start respecting the other will follow But the starting point is different for male and female (AS THEY ARE EQUAL BUT STILL DIFFERENT) And this video clarifies that starting point as people these days lacks basic maturity
Athens Bhai sahab jee : thoda Google kijeye...love and respect are overlapping spaces...and men&women are not equal...they are different...so their needs are different! ( AAP thoda astrology seekho Sir se...aapka mangal bhaari hai... Jai Shri ram😊)
Women today are more aware of their own value today. They very well know that love without respect meaning nothing. Both partners need both love & respect. More respect, little less love will still work out, but not the reverse
Absolutely right you are! All the love without respect(and respect does not mean jee huzooree or capitulating(by giving in to every unreasonable logic by mahilaaen) is useless! and secondly, there should be a certain reality REALISTIC(realism) relationship to call a relationship a real relationship or marriage !
Absolutely-Absolutely correct ✅👍🏻 Hamarey ghar ka kalesh ka main reason yehi hai Sir….. For last 40yrs we are fighting bcz of his lies,manipulative ,extreme double faced,behaviour…can’t tolerate lies Men should realise this makes relationships bitter n makes your wife loose trust n respect….that’s the worst thing ina relationship
Dear middle class/upper class males, marry very carefully, take your time, earn truck loads of money then decide to marry. Discuss finance with your would be or the girl you're going to marry. Lay down each and every condition truthfully. If she sounds like Deepika Padukone or any other PSEUDO FEMINIST, drop the plan of getting married to her. For a safer side, drop the plan to marry and spend your hard-earned money the way to you want in recreational activities.
Genius honest. May god bless you. Thanks for clarity. I hope everyone thinks the way you think. Truth if life sir ji. You know you deserve many designations.
Husband or wife... as a human being everyone wants respect which is much more a necessity for a lady who comes to join another family for the rest of her life. When a DIL cares for her in laws, it is said that she respects them . Then why not the husband care for her ......thouhh he says he loves her and expects respect. When he is not caring for her question of respect does not arise.
लड़की अपना घर छोड़कर आती है, मां बाप, माल।पहचान तक छोड़ कर, बेघर होकर आती है। उसका यही सांसे बड़ा sacrifice hai, जिसकी बराबरी तुम कभी नहीं कर सकते। तो एहसान मानो और रेस्पेक्टे करो। या फिर उसके जितनी त्याग करने की हिम्मत हो तो खुद विदा होके जाओ और उसका नाम लेके उसका वंश बढ़ा के दिखाओ।
Sir, u always talk about relationships where wife is house maker and husband is working, but what about working ladies, they are stressed out at work as well as at managing household.
Yes sir thats right acharaya prashant said this every time jab yeh sunta hu yahi lgta hai yar tum s3x se bahar hi ni nikal paa rhe ek biological need ke liye itna bada dia h jese sirf male ko chahiye wo dono ko chahiye
Sir ap intne ache video banate h plz ek video ghar ki choti bahu par bhi banaye kyuki saas bahu(jethani) ke riste me choti bahu bht pisati h aur koi isbare me baat nhi karta
Sir I belong to Pakistan living in Canada and love to see your posts and they are mind blowing. Very good posts. Kindly cover ur views and suggestions for people in Pakistan as your viewers out side of India as well.❤
Women Also need respect, if there is no respect, there can be no real love. Today women are working and are providing for the family equally. All they need is Respect with love from her husband, and she will face the world, otherwise everything seems worthless
Today protection and respect both are needed.... but to provide same each other especially when both are working person because in practical life out side all nuisance availability .
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I am wife... respect is more important than anything else...
Wife needs RESPECT
Respect k bina kuch bhi nahi hai...
If husband respects .. that melts my heart.. if i feel disrespected then nothing can calm... not even love...
Respect
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when a man is loving his wife , that means he respect her..love comes only when you have respect.respect ka next step is love
@@dreamsdesires agreed
A man shows his respect through love and care
and a women shows love through her respect(Basic difference between being masculine and feminine )
@@Ashu__108-i5g love
@@Ashu__108-i5g
both genders needs are different, some need are same like love , support etc nd many more
But some are different for example women seek more stability and security in relationship more than man , women need more emotional comfort more than man , women need attention more than man ,
Man need more physical intimacy more than women etc .
We are different and thats beutiful becouse we compliment each other
The reason we are attracted to each other is becouse of bieng different, just imagine if everyone would be same ,if both genders were same than there would be no attraction to each other
People confuse bieng equal to bieng same , we are not same we fullfill each other's need and that beautiful 😍
That's my opinion if you have something else then do share 🙂
First, respect each other. Love will bloom automatically. This is the simple funda of happy and successful marriage life.
Sir, bada beta agar wife ki help kare tho Lattooo. Agar chota beta wife ki help kare tho… haiii bhagwan dono ka pyaar bnaa rahe. Ye parents aisa kyun karte hain????
So true... Sare controls bhi badi bahu pe hi hote hai.
True ..ye to hota hai
Very true
Aur damaad beti ka help kare tab bhi Jodi bana rahe
Vo esliye kiuki bade bhai ke uper koi responsibility hoti hai jonke use dhikhte nhe hai.. Jo ke galt hai... Wife or maa ko ek sath leke chalna chaiye ...
I need respect as well. I am the woman. I think respect and friendship is also required for both genders
Mutual respect and mutual love with each other and never taking granted for each other , polishing the memories and moments time to time . I think these things will make the marriage heaven
Respect is as important as love for wives.. if your husband disrespects you and talk in an insulting manner and then show love without apology. It feels very toxic.. so yes I firmly believe respect comes before love.. for both
💯%Truth👍🏻
I second that
💯 % right
One who loves he will not disrespect wife in front of outsiders
True
Respect for wives is an equally important ingredient....the husband who humiliated his wife in public, family how can he shower love....so love and respect both matter 🙏
No husband disrespect wife without any reason, wife should behave like wife first
@@maheshnaidu2676 लड़की अपना घर छोड़कर आती है, मां बाप, माल।पहचान तक छोड़ कर, बेघर होकर आती है। उसका यही सांसे बड़ा sacrifice hai, जिसकी बराबरी तुम कभी नहीं कर सकते। तो एहसान मानो और रेस्पेक्टे करो। या फिर उसके जितनी त्याग करने की हिम्मत हो तो खुद विदा होके जाओ और उसका नाम लेके उसका वंश बढ़ा के दिखाओ।
Not really there are many people these days who don't know to speak with their spouse that includes both genders .
OMG ..I couldn't stop laughing...the way you were explaining. I am married for 29 yrs ..yes I totally agree...mutual respect must be there.
एकदम सही बात कही आपने सर जी.....आपका बस एक व्हिडिओ देखकर मूड अच्छा हो जाता है....even if it doesn't apply one's own life....and feel like interacting with you live and not the recorded one....
I spoke your language long back and when I told my husband to stand up for me and be my shield, he said you are not laachaar, stand up for yourself. So I did;) Now I don’t need anyone to stand up for me, because other people have lost their backbone 😅😂including the husband who has lost his control😂
@@FromProfessor how so? If a husband does not stand up for you, do you just shut up and take shit from everyone else around you? Did you not watch the video before commenting?
@@FromProfessorwow men claim to protect woman . This is how they protect. If one can't take stand just don't marry it's just that simple. Waise bhi bharat Mei bohot faltu aadmi h jinki shadi na hi ho toh future generation or uss ladki ke achha hi hoga.
@@ankitamishra0405Actually men never protect women and never stand up for their wives in front of their parents. They want their wives to tolerate every shit from their in laws and other family members. But in comment section they will get angry over it😂😂
@@friendshiprocks8673 yup
@@S.A.1me too face this. now I act like u😂😂😂😂😂
With due respect, I partially disagree with you. Women need respect as well. Respect is more important than love. Infact love without respect is not long lasting.
Respect and Love is the requirement of both husband and wife.
100% true. Respect and love both in equal doses.
Love agar real hai, to respect uske sath sath aati hai.... Agar husband actual love karta hai, to usme respect to rahega hi rahega....aur phir wife bhi bina kuch kahe hi respect karna shuru kar degi .... Lekin har case me husband ko pahal karni hogi.... Things and scenarios have changed now....
Husband standing for wife in front of everyone, mainly his own parents is a respect only.
@@anupamaraianvirai1183 what if husband stands for his wife against his own parents but she refuses to acknowledge it ?
When husband is taking side of her her wife for protection of self respect from his family members, it's one sort of respect only..men don't n can't give direct respect..but not disrespecting is also a form of respect...
Raat raat bhar jaagna, bachche sambhalna, unhein padhana, unke saath bina kisi fruatration ke khelna, classes le jana, subah jo ghar se sabse pehle jata hai office us sepehle uthkar naashta tiffin banana aur jo sabse late aata hai, usko khana dekar, kitchen sametkar sona- cook ko khane mein kya banega aur bartan wali ko manage karne se zara zyada kaam hai ghar par sir
Mai exactly yahi soch Rai thi .. aur Mai bacho ko khud hi padati hu aur bartan b khud hi 😂😂😂 bas Jo aye suna k chal de
madam paisa nahi kamate itne effort ka to kya fayda. no appreciation from family
jo chiz measure nahi ho sakti wo chiz dekhi nahi ja sakti.
earn money it will show competence to your family that you are more valuable
thus earning more will bring respect and appreciation
This is a lie..I am working and used to take care of home as well , giving respect is something that is a personality trait ..don’t be fooled by the idea of earning respect..they won’t give respect even if u go out and earn because it’s their nature..
Bartan manjana ek prakar ki excercise hai aunty jiq
Avoiding marriage is the best way to escape marriage issues these days...🤣...However if one prefers to marry gender neutral mutual respect is a must I think......
Sir aapki video dekh kar meri married life me already magical change aa gya hai.. thank you so much for your wonderful channel.. all I did was I did good, respected everyone and wanted nothing.. husband k sath sath unki puri family mujhe bahot pyar krti h and meri bahot respect krti h ab..
Women want respect too. If there's no love (romance) but there's respect, it still would work perfectly with me
Listen carefully, he isn't talking about physical love
Correct
We r also working and put our level best in office, face office politics, work hard at home too. Most of the Indian men do not even cut veggies at home. They don't want to earn respect, just want to get it without deserving.
Despite peeling, cutting, sauteing, garnishing, serving, respecting and loving without any smoking or drinking my marriage didn't work. Still hopeful
@@RajatK91 might be an exceptional case. 🙏
The more he does the household stuff, less she respects him. This is the truth
@@doncorleone3901 he starts being taken as granted for those household tasks. The solution might be just to help/support her in chores instead of doing them completely by himself?
@@akashnagpal not good. Household chore is not gender specific, but in India, unfortunately it is made so even now. And there are other things, other chores , mutual understanding, respect, communication etc. To be considered too.
आपके सोचनेवका तरीका बहुत ही प्रैक्टिकल और तार्किक hai। आप का अनुभव जबरदस्त है जीवन की विभिन्न पहलुओं के लिए❤
yes today husbands even those who are highly qualified & very wealthy are mortally scared of showing concern and care for their wives because they fear - really they are s**t scared of - being labelled "Joru ka gulaam" or in today's sophisticated English - you cannot and will not "control me" or "define / dictate how I act or behave in anyway. It may seem like a very small insignificant thing, but as Sangwanji has explained here, it causes a lot of painful experiences in Indian marriages.
Crct with close relatives label the men
❤ आपको प्रेम पहुंचे, यह आज के समाज की सबसे बड़ी आवश्यकता है, प्रणाम😊
गुरुजी, आप महान हो. आपकी हर बात मन पे पॉजिटिव और पॉवरफुल प्रभाव डालती है..
Working wife ke challenges to double hote Hain na. Ghar me unse sari expectations house wife wali hoti hai.wo kya kare.
Sch me yaar
Love and respect is basis of a healthy relationship
You are right sir mostly. Women need more of love and men primarily respect in a manly sense but women also need respect in the sense of feminine energy they give to your life and family.
Wrong. Women need respect first.
Would have been great if you have spread some examples of love and respect because people might interpret it based on their own understanding and mindset
Wives need love from husbands; and husbands respect from their wives. Once these needs are fulfilled their relationship becomes heavenly. Wonderful marital advice. But husbands don't expect genuine love will reciprocate respect from wives immediately. It takes time...Forty three days at least. All the best.
Rubbish. Women need respect. First n foremost. Love follows later.
Before marriage, I asked my husband to vall me "Aap n jee".
He does so even after many years, and ppl look at him so strangely and with jealousy that you call your wife with so much of respect.
And we both rock 😂 Touchwood,
Yeh lecture, 10pm Anupama highest trp drama k time par telecast hona ati avashyak hai. 🙏
Very nice sir ji,
आपकों सामाजिक रूप से अवार्ड मिलना चाहिए..🎉
हर रिश्तेमे प्यार और इज्जत चाहिये . चाहे वो दो बेहेने हो , भाई भाई या पडोसी ताकी हम खुद आनंदी और शांतिसे रह सकते हैं. 🙏🙏🙏
You are absolutely right Guruji! Also, India har jagah Saas-Bahu wale serial ki tarah Toxic behave krta he. Mene 4 weeks ki Internship kri thi waha wo Manager "Meri galati ho gayi Tumhr kaam bata diya", "Mujhe hi samajhna chahie tha ki Tum se nahi hoga" aese sab baat krta tha... 🤣 Humne toh bhaag gaye waha se 4 weeks me. India me work place Toxic he kyuki Toxicity Movies se leke TV se leke Ghar tak sab jagha Dusre ki disrespect krne ka demo diya jata he. Guess what, Abroad aya to yaha to Sach me red carpet bicha rakha he inn logo ne. Pesa bhi de rahe he, respect bhi de rahe he, 😂. India's Boomer Generation and also the ones from the 80s need to learn something.
Baki bato se sahmat hu , par abroad me bhi agar desi company me ho ya banks me ho to wahi Culture hai. Indian ka funda hai na jiyo na jeeno do, workplace me showbazi karte raho. 😂
Excellent Advice Sir! God bless you! I wished that all Indian families could have followed these principles in life, including myself!
Love and Respect are byproducts of TRUST.
This aspect is missing in this video but I feel it's the most important aspect for successful marriage. Your thoughts please...
I have experienced this in my life and am highly appreciative of each and every word of yours, in this video 🎉
Mr Sangwan...Thanks so much for such an awesome and insightful talk and analysis. Thanks for speaking and highlighting unpleasant truths...
Realistic and true to the point .👏
Sir, I also believe Indian serials act as a big influence on how people react, finally we are a sum total of what we see, what we read, who we hang out with and what we believe. All behaviors emerges from these habit patterns!
Sir husband respect, care aur pyar bahut krte hain pr earn nhi krne dete. Bolte hain sb tera hi to hai pr di kbhi chvanni bhi nhi. Plz btaiye kya kru? Work from home bhi nhi krne dete. Unke tough time mein unke business ko join kiya. Apni education ko kaam mein liya aur business bhi boom pr aa gya. Relationship improve bhi hua. Pr vo mujhe salary tk nhi lene dete. Bolte hain paise pr dhyan jayega to technical aur fundamental skills khrab ho jayenge mere.... plz make a video n guide sir..... mere jaisi bahut hongi jinhe ye help chahiye.... much needed... 🙏
He does not love you.
Usko saf bol do , ya toh tum mujhe har mhine paise do ya fir m kaam krungi, but paise toh har hal me chahiye
Respect jhootha hai. Wo respect nahi, management hai। Mera swarthi bhai bhi meri kaabil bhabhi ke saath aisa hi karta hai, aur wo mere support ke baad bhi uski baaton mein fans kar koi stand nahi leti aur भुगतती जाती है।
A must-watch video for all couples. A million-dollar perspective. 🙏
Sir jaise hi aapne kaha 100 mautein Mar kr aati hai sirf ek ke bharoose sir main tou jee uthi gehri baat stay blessed dear
Completely agree with the concept....can say with personal example
You understand the psyche of men and women, Mr. Sangwan 🙏
No. He is Mistaken.
Wimen need respect more than love.
Beautiful advise. We need more people like you in the society. I’m watching you from Dallas, Texas. I love your perspective.
All agreed sir.. Valid points., please stop house wife bashing... Point taken..
Meri shadi k liye abi searching chal rahi hai, But apke points maine note kar liye hai abi se aur apni aane wali life me apply bhi karunga.. Thank you sir aese hi kirpa barsae rakhna apka gurutatv bahut acha hai 🙏🙏
ho gii sadi.
Dekha vlog maine. 😂
Apko badhai bhaisaab
Apko achi sundar sushil aurat mile
पति पत्नी का अहंकार विहीन होना ही सफल जीवन की कुंजी है।
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Badiya tha ....
Kaash mere life aapke jaise koi samjdar purush....hota
Aap bahut acha bolte hai. Aur saccha bolte hai. Society mein iski bahut jarurat hai. People became educated but failed to apply it especially in family life. Maine apke bahut sare videos dekhe hai and you are absolutely correct and to the point in almost all the points. And certainly yes, these issues are holding our economy back because women can't apply all their skills and potential at the right place at the right age. They need to wait till their 40s and 50s to do what they are best at. I am also a deep thinker just like you, but no one listens to me. 😂 Thanks to you. Many people like you should come forward. I just pray that your videos should get viral asap..
We are a love marriage couple. Before marriage, hum ek dusre ko tu and tum bolte the. Shadi k baad hum dono ne ek dusre ko sabse pehle AAP bolna shuru kiya. It changed one thing "tune ye kaam nhi kiya" sounds bit rude whereas "Aapne ye kaam nhi kiya" sounds like request. It really helped. As Guru ji says ki small changes in your day to day life really helps.
Sorry Sir, both wife and husband need both love AND respect......
Love without respect is meaningless.
See the video again...aapke upar se gaya 🙆
@@tirthaobiswas equality htane se reltnshp nahi bchne wale... try krke dekh lena...
Equality hta k dekh lena... short term me ego boost ho skta hai long term me na ego boost milega na aur kuch milega
One follows the other
IF men start loving and women start respecting the other will follow
But the starting point is different for male and female (AS THEY ARE EQUAL BUT STILL DIFFERENT)
And this video clarifies that starting point as people these days lacks basic maturity
@@mr.phantom6969 starting point should be both love AND respect for both spouses.
No question of starting with any one of them.
Athens Bhai sahab jee : thoda Google kijeye...love and respect are overlapping spaces...and men&women are not equal...they are different...so their needs are different! ( AAP thoda astrology seekho Sir se...aapka mangal bhaari hai... Jai Shri ram😊)
Women today are more aware of their own value today. They very well know that love without respect meaning nothing. Both partners need both love & respect. More respect, little less love will still work out, but not the reverse
Hats off sir... Ye baatein koi nai samjata.. aap bhut acha kaam kar rahe hain...
Women too need respect. All the love without respect is useless.
Shat pratishat
Mam a man shows his respect through love and care (This is the nature it is very simple to understand)
Respect is earned not begged..
Absolutely right you are! All the love without respect(and respect does not mean jee huzooree or capitulating(by giving in to every unreasonable logic by mahilaaen) is useless! and secondly, there should be a certain reality REALISTIC(realism) relationship to call a relationship a real relationship or marriage !
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Kisi ko uski life se judge nahi Karen baat inki ekdam sahi hai aur logon ke liye kaam ki
Absolutely-Absolutely correct ✅👍🏻
Hamarey ghar ka kalesh ka main reason yehi hai Sir…..
For last 40yrs we are fighting bcz of his lies,manipulative ,extreme double faced,behaviour…can’t tolerate lies
Men should realise this makes relationships bitter n makes your wife loose trust n respect….that’s the worst thing ina relationship
True
Today women are also working and get crap inside as well as outside the house. Well-meant advice, but too simplistic.
Sir even women need respect!!
Exactly
Its a metaphor he used
love is followed by respect
Sir, what about those couple who are in deep trouble from long long time?? Thanks ❤
Gurujii aise topic kaha se late ho aap??
Always others wife is smart,clever and beautiful. Ask any man
Dear middle class/upper class males, marry very carefully, take your time, earn truck loads of money then decide to marry. Discuss finance with your would be or the girl you're going to marry. Lay down each and every condition truthfully. If she sounds like Deepika Padukone or any other PSEUDO FEMINIST, drop the plan of getting married to her. For a safer side, drop the plan to marry and spend your hard-earned money the way to you want in recreational activities.
Sir apka jitna dhanyawad Karu utna kam hai.,🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Without spirituality....no one can genuinely love anyone
100%
Video dekh k maja aa gaya. Got lots of learnings
Man needs respect with love and women needs love with respect.
Wrong. Women need respect first.
MAG। Heaven wali baat bilkul sahi hai. Keep it up sir.
Every one wants to be appreciated. Try this and u can get great respect, love and support from others including your wife.
Sirji, bahut khubb, kya baat hai, very nice. Absolutely great practical advice with some funny bones. ❤ it. Kudos 👏 👏 👏
Sir thanks aapne meri problem bata di,i will solve it, some how i will make sure jannat aa jaye mere ghar mein
Jaat hoke etne achee vichaar....phla aadmi dekh rhi hu sir life me😂❤🙏
Koti koti pranam guru ji..apka program broadcast hona chahiye star plus par
Genius honest. May god bless you. Thanks for clarity. I hope everyone thinks the way you think. Truth if life sir ji. You know you deserve many designations.
So beautifully explained. Apne 100% sahi baat kahi hai.
Sir right I have experienced this heaven thank you for reminding me of our beautiful time and memories
Husband or wife... as a human being everyone wants respect which is much more a necessity for a lady who comes to join another family for the rest of her life. When a DIL cares for her in laws, it is said that she respects them . Then why not the husband care for her ......thouhh he says he loves her and expects respect. When he is not caring for her question of respect does not arise.
लड़की अपना घर छोड़कर आती है, मां बाप, माल।पहचान तक छोड़ कर, बेघर होकर आती है। उसका यही सांसे बड़ा sacrifice hai, जिसकी बराबरी तुम कभी नहीं कर सकते। तो एहसान मानो और रेस्पेक्टे करो। या फिर उसके जितनी त्याग करने की हिम्मत हो तो खुद विदा होके जाओ और उसका नाम लेके उसका वंश बढ़ा के दिखाओ।
बहुत ही उपयोगी video गुरूजी
Sir, u always talk about relationships where wife is house maker and husband is working, but what about working ladies, they are stressed out at work as well as at managing household.
How to revive a relationship especially for couples after very strong events.
Try going out some other place for a month or two and spend nice time together all by urselves, more heart to heart talk n less sex.
Yes sir thats right acharaya prashant said this every time jab yeh sunta hu yahi lgta hai yar tum s3x se bahar hi ni nikal paa rhe ek biological need ke liye itna bada dia h jese sirf male ko chahiye wo dono ko chahiye
Please make another video for working ladies....this video is incomplete for us.😅
Respect कमानी पडती है.... Free मे नहीं मिलती.... ये बात लोग नहीं समजते है
Love bhi! Kamana padta hai... Free mai nahi milta!
MAG......thanks for a direct n refined advice.....problem hoti h lekin aapne do words mein specific bata di.....very helpful...thanks
This is such an excellent video Sir...MAG..
Dear online daddy
You are too good. Thank you.. Please talk about nazar. For women men family how does it affect
Kya bat hai muje to lagta h sunte hi rahu❤❤
Sir ap intne ache video banate h plz ek video ghar ki choti bahu par bhi banaye kyuki saas bahu(jethani) ke riste me choti bahu bht pisati h aur koi isbare me baat nhi karta
Very sensible every word , I suggest to young couples who want to get married, pl do vedio in English as south Indians can understand
Sir I belong to Pakistan living in Canada and love to see your posts and they are mind blowing. Very good posts. Kindly cover ur views and suggestions for people in Pakistan as your viewers out side of India as well.❤
Must vision for all for a happy life. Thank you for sharing Sir.
Wife = respect
Husband = love
Very nice videos bhut kuch sikhne ko mila
By the grace of God we both are doing since our marriage and enjoying our married life
Women Also need respect, if there is no respect, there can be no real love.
Today women are working and are providing for the family equally.
All they need is Respect with love from her husband, and she will face the world, otherwise everything seems worthless
True
love > respect , I love my mother and I respect my father
Your videos are simply great.
.And what you say is absolutely true and relatable.
You are doing a fantastic job..
Actually it's true.Excellent observation.But what is the solution to abusive marriage?
Abusive marriage mtlb? Maarta peet'ta hai?
Just go for divorce...
Be safe... Make income
True wala MJA AAYA GURU JI
Today protection and respect both are needed.... but to provide same each other especially when both are working person because in practical life out side all nuisance availability .
Thank you so much for making things easier for us......
You are great, just great! Really inspiring and thought provoking.
Frankly speaking every one seek profit/benefit/gain from everyone else.