How Middle Class Men Control Their Wives ?
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The moral of the story is don't marry... get a maid instead... don't ever think of marriage... Indian men of middle class
7 ways for housewife’s to earn- Sir the link for the app is asking for org code after its downloaded
How can we earn after the pre marital counseling course
Like is he going to provide you some clients or you have to start it at your place on your own
Aap reality dikha rhe hai jo kisy ka Bhot bda pain hai life ka 😅👍
Current generation girls who are working & are of marriagble age are very smart. If husband will mess up with their job they will leave husband not job. No life without financial freedom. 😅
Me being a mother of two grown up kids..now realise how I wasted my precious golden years sitting at home doing slavery of him just for the sake of family sanskar bcoz he was against doing my job..now me having body aches regularly..
Every girl should be financially independent at any cost..no compromise on that..
Hope you find a good wife
@@renug4808completely agree with you
@jaitpurmcd5696 sahi to hai zindgi bhar padhayi ki khud par itni mehnat ki ghar pe naukrani banne ke liye thodi apni khud ki identity ho log aapko aapke naam se jaane na ki Pati ya Pita ke naam se uski Khushi alag hi hoti hai aur financially independent hona pati ke saamne Chand paiso ke liye haath failane ki zarurat na padna. To kya galat hai
I confirm as a defence officer's wife, we do work unpaid for husband's organization.
My husband senior officer's wife once taunted me for giving priority to attending my own education and examination in very pathetic way.
Nonetheless I succeeded and got my own gov job.
@@jyotidasultrapromax dude chill !! My income + his income is family's income. From family income we have our equal pocket money , rest is invested in other things which majorly decided by him because he has better knowledge of finance.
Same
My husband is AVP of a company still I teach in college, my relatives tell me that I love money
@@natureinurbanspace1280 Ha Ha tell me who doesn't love money
@@doctorpanigrahi9975 do you work at max saket ?
I admit your views.
I am in forties I am univ prof.
My mother was working in school.
My sister is lawyer.
I am proud of my mother.
My daughter is also very career minded and says in our family all women have their own identities.
My cousin sisters are also working but they are not getting married.
Boys are confused, girls are more advanced .
Hello ma'am, ky aap bta skti h ki ye saare aapke relatives Jo aj professionally successful h inme se kitne married h (The goal of the question is to understand whether women whose carrier is established and they are financially good have to face issues regarding finding groom due to various reasons.)
Stop putting down Women who don't want to do job.
It's jugg jahiirr : husbands control women based on financial restrictions
Elderly females control bahus based on kitchen overload/ house chores so that physically she gets exhausted and brain proply process hi na kar sake !!!
This vedio has 25minutes 10 seconds of word by word truth 🙌🙌🙌🙌 it's just atleast kissi ne is baat ko publicly bola
And how do wives control some innocent husbands?
No not at all not even 5 k without justification even the husband earns in lakhs .. you are hitting the bulls eye..👍👍
I asked my gf that i will only marry her if she starts earning. No matter if it is just 5000 rs but she needs to build her own identity and respect.
My family has always seen women who have been earning.
5 yrs later she is my wfe and loves the independence and even helps me in running home.
It is all about how you think about women. Thanks to my mom and elder sister that raised me to respect a women’s independence
I am working and earing enough but getting monthly a fixed amount by my husband widout any enquiry....amount is not too much but it gives happiness and indirectly I am also spending that money on him and his parents.
It's matter of understanding.....we are open to each odr for all investments we r doing.
Most of men are creating scene themselves hiding things frm partner....whatever we women's are earning or getting from husband ultimately we are supporting financially to family.
@@shwetashukla2300 you people got a happy life and good partner.
Very true that's why my mom works even if the salary is less and also tells me to get a job so you don't have to ask your husband for even small things ❤❤
I dont want to brag about how me and my wife live.. But this a very powerful video. Adds a lot of perspective for the partners who dont have these issues.. Definately my favourite "How not to be in life" type of a content.
This video will be a hard pill to swallow for many people but you are courageous enough to speak the truth . Thank you.
I wanted my wife to work since beginning even I got her admitted in stenographer class alongwith teaching myself for competitive exams but she couldn't succeed. Anyway I am trying to make her free but she is more involved in puja path. I am just putting my example to make a point that willingness of wife is more important and that will work more efficiently
Along with Pooja path I guess she must be doing her household tasks as well please let her do it, your children will learn from her actions (Sanskar will be cultivate in them). Food cooked by homemaker is always better than maid that will reward your family health in future.
Dear I am not saying that home management is not as good as job. My only point is that let the other half do what she or he likes.
Thats good
Sir mere saath ulta hai. I am encouraged (nearly forced) to earn and not just normal kaam chaalu amount. I have to earn 50% of our family's income. Which sometimes is so hard for me, especially now that we have a daughter. I feel raising her sensibly is a huge huge responsibility which will get sidelined with my divided focus with earning.
I think each partner should try to contribute 50% of family income. Its good that you're getting support from family.
Same with me and we are supposed to maintain house as well ,vacations where also decided by them,kids education is also our responsibility if not then we are failure.
@@jyotidasultrapromax sensible couples are already doing it! If a family has to progress this is the only way!
I can relate! Being a working mother its difficult but quality over quantity is the mantra for us! Even housewives have this guilt as they are occupied with the household chores throughout the day. While growing up she will be proud of your hard work! :)
If your husband is forcing you to work then that is not good. You earn as much as you are capable of and if you earn half of your husband's income, then contribute in the ratio of 1:2. Also, have some money saved for yourself. Yes, women should earn but there are other things men don't have to go through, like pregnancy and childbirth and breastfeeding and taking care of your child in the initial days. In such cases he cannot expect you to be an equal provider, (forcing wife to earn 50 percent all the time is beyond my comprehension 😮).
Men are the providers after all, and that is the most important criterion of selecting a mate, for women. If you are nearly forced to provide your half, are you balancing each and every other thing in the family? Aren't your responsibilities becoming very high? And even if you are managing to balance everything, is your strength and capacity to earn matching your husband's? (It can match, I'm not sure, I'm asking you). Is he, for eg, getting up at night to lull your daughter to sleep?
And even if you are managing to balance everything, is this how a relationship can run? I don't thing Amit ji was hinting at this scenario at all via this video.
Be careful, abusers come in many forms. When some men realise they can't abuse a woman in traditional ways, they'll shape shift and abuse you and take and receive and manipulate you in other ways...
I hope you stay happy
The one who gives money is the power centre (not pay but give)
The one who receives money has to bow (receives and not takes)
200% accurate scenario. Hats off to you sir for bringing such topics .
best way is to self-love, emotionally secure and be as financially independent as possible. never sit at home or leave your job.
My husband does not ask about my salary. I have to spend household expenses from my salary, and remaining i am free to spend/save as i wish. I have closed housing loan with my salary and now saving everything after house hold expenses (maid, grocery, bills, personal transport, kids expenses). I also do not ask my husband about how he spends his salary, generally for common trips and outings, he spends. I dont know if this is good or bad, but we have found this the best way to reduce fights.
I don't think you are living together
You take care of all the kids' expenses and grocery? What does your husband do for you then?
I hope u r not responsible for household chores
Wow still men say women earn for herself.
@telugugovtjobsinfo8773 Some couples live together separately
this is spot on. My mom suffered from this. My father never gave 100rs out of expenses. and above all he used to manage all expenses. If my mom wants 10 rs she could not get.
Now I dont ask my mom about money. I give her and she can ask me any money any time.
I am speculating that sir will say 'TA TA TINNA' atleast once in thie video.
Best comment till date 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@saumyathapliyal. Thanks.... Lol
Ye kya hota hai
Public demanf
This time it was kamolika music
Middle class mens of prev generation don’t take money out for themselves also for betterment of family 💯
😂😂😂 sir some wives neither get money nor property in their name. They are asked to earn their living on their own as well as look after the family. Not all women have the strength to handle both on their own. What do we do with such husbands 😂😂
Hmm yes I have seen this a lot in my circle. I have the first part where I am asked to earn and look after family. But my husband and me jointly own both our flats, so that way I have more investment in my name
Basic fundamental
60:40 of Take home salary
60 Hand over to family dont ask account and 40 keep in bank for post retirement.
I totally agree with you Sir 💯 I've gone through this situation and now I'm facing a lot of health issues 😞
Wife and I both earn and both have 100% transparency with and accountability to each other about finances. Every purchase, every decision is joint, and it's OUR money, so it's both of our responsibility to ensure we save more of it. I earn more so we spend more from my account and save more from her for tax purposes! So, I think it's as healthy a situation of finances as possible.
And still, I can vouch 100% for what has been said in this video. For an average Indian woman, the confidence that is achieved by having her own income is just incredible. She feels valued, she feels like her degrees were put to good use, she feels like a productive and equal player in the marriage, and of course, proud of the extra savings thanks to her job. No matter what the work - let it be making and selling cupcakes, not more than a few thousands a month - it's a game changer. Heavily recommended.
Woman want a man who is in control but not a controlling man. Know the difference. Waiting for your next video
Thank you guruji 🙏
What about what men wants?
& why a woman's want should be so important?
@@nikhilgupta1563 why men too
@@sheri3219 because men feed women
Like someone who is willing to take equal responsibility.
I do give my wife 25k per month as her own expense, she also does a job...as a man I feel it's her right
wow, you are just like my father
God bless you,your home is heaven...keep it up
Kitna kama lete ho Bhai?
so she has a job and gets 25k from you?
Pisa bccha ka property ma invest kro
Sir please make video how men control their working wives and their finance. Thank you
Male with middle class mentality will have to work hard
To make his wife a Maharani.
Still many working ladies are suffering from financial slavery. They earn but don't have access to their accounts.
Reason.. ..?
Tum se naa ho paayega... :(
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Woman must go out and earn instead of being lazy and stay comfortable at home without any pressure. When you both earn you can afford servants to do most of the house hold. I disagree that most of the time men force and make woman stay home. Even many woman wants to comfortably stay at home and not do any professional work (even with professional degree) which inhibits mental stress. Men are doing responsible work and taking lots of pressure. Men has lost their life expectancy 5-10 year less than woman. Men should not be blamed for every thing at office by boss and at home by wife and parents. That is hell lot of pressure to deal with for them.
Who will look after kids?
@@priyankadsa3488 These question comes when you don't want to work else you can manage. You can even consult families where both man and women are working. Everyone wants a rich husband but availability is not adequate.
Jo koi Nahi Bolte, koi Nahi Bolna cahte Hai - only you are the pioneer ,👏👏 keep it up. I m a Govt.servant but new generation not at all interested to do work either at home or outside. Parents r their servant.Everything is ready in front of them....... sir, continue your such content 👌👌
Saas heart spoke out. 😂who expected to cut off daughter in law job & be dependent on name of looking after housechores kids etc
That's my story. I have studied in DU.I paid for the loan of our house but had to leave it because of the reasons you mentioned now can't get a single penny out of it. Also he criticizes me for not earning but I am so occupied with house chores that I am left with no energy and even if I get a day or two off what is the point of.
Iam 22 and listening this. A very eye opening and informative video. As a men I Support this.
100 % agree with you. Butler is the proper word u used. Self esteem ki toh band baj jati hai. Perfectly said. Kabu karne wala trait is true. Yes ghatiya soch bhi hai about affair. Dil tutta hai. Bitterness ho gai hai i agree. N all the illness u said is there. Loved this video
Hello sir, although I also have my youtube channel on the nearly same subject,but your way of presentation is osum,I am sharing this video to all my contacts, this is really a very big Indian male mindset problem which should be addressed seriously, which is consuming lot of time and energy 🎉🎉🎉
We young youth are also listening to sir .. so we'll not treat our future wives not like older male's.. we the new generation also don't want to live our wife like married women are living
@@abhaysoni926Hope every husband will think the same 😊
Sir narrcistic parents pr ak vidio bna dijie ,mujhe samjh me nhi aata mai kese handle kru inhe kuki mai pyar inse bht karti pr ye devil h
I discovered your channel very recently and I'm glad I did. I'm 30 years old Single Male and I stared working now after my MS in germany, my family is poor but now I'm the first generation middle class from my family and with me, my family is also a middle class. I have one 2bhk house (From my father) as a family wealth in a tier 2 city. I will marry an Indian working women here in Germany in 1-2 years so the family will remaining middle class. Can you make video for people like me who are first generation middle class in India on how to create wealth for the family.
In which field have you done your MS. I am graduate (23M) wants to move abroad (sp. Germany) bcz no tution fees , I am from poor background. Can you tell me which field is good to do MS in. I am not interested in IT field. I have done bsc. Zoology and now giving govt. Exams for 3 years.
@@wandererpiper7869 No, the tuition fee is not free in all the universities, only public university (govt funded) that too not all give free education. You have to go to their website, read their admission criteria and apply if you fulfill their conditions.
Sir has videos for Sons.. he says - do things for your parents but in limit..
Also have encouraged my daughter n DIL to work n be financially independent
Absence of father and child is spoilt.💛
Housewives have more extra marital than working ladies.. 💛
Absolutely agree, a dad is necessary especially when they reach teen life
ऐसी housewives भी है जो खुद काम करना नहीं चाहती। पति तो चाहते हैं कि पत्नी कुछ काम करें पर पत्नी ही रोना शुरू कर देती है कि ऐसे ही बहुत काम होता है और कुछ नहीं हो सकता।
True...
Yahi to bta rhe wo ki ladies ko aisa bna diya gya hai ki wo bahar jakar kuch krne ka soch bhi nhi pati.
Now a days girls marry not for family or love, They marry only for financial stability... Women wants their rights without any responsibilities and duties and they termed responsibilities and duties as domestic abuse..... That is why marriage become liability for men....
I belive in - If possible do love marriage , otherwise dont marry... However if it is love marriage or Arranged marriage ready or know what to do and How to protect your asset if wife blackmail you, cheats you or want to divorce you....
100 percent truth
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@@ninanani3322wait... Bacche ko palna acchi baat hai and baccha bhi mata-pita ki help Karen vah bhi acchi baat hai but Puri tarah se bacche ke upar jimmedari dalna yah bhi Sahi nahin hai and mujhe pata hai kuchh aisi SAS hai jo ki around 50-60 ki age hai and vah bhi kam Karti hai aasani Ko Bus baith gaye sab Bahu per dal do ya bete per dal do agar tum kuchh contribute kar sakte ho to karo.
@@monoj3299yah socho ki ek baccha kyon kar rahe hain sab kyunki bacche ko isliye paida mat karo taki vah tumhari se budhape mein seva kar sake usko is tarike se Paro ki usko achcha education mile Healthcare mile vah extra skill Sikh sake aur jo dusri arts activity hai vah kar sake achcha childhood bahut jaruri hai and itne paise invest karke rakho sev karke rakho ki jab Tum bujurg Ho To Kam a sake iska matlab yah nahin hai ki bacche mata-pita ke help na Karen beshak Karen iska matlab yah nahin hai ki bacche mata-pita ke help na Karen beshak Karen per iska matlab yah nahin hai ki bacche mata-pita ke help na Karen beshak Karen yah bahut acchi baat hai but Apne retirement ke liye bhi sev karke rakho Paisa invest karke rakho Tum pure bacche per gram dal rahe Ho chahe vah Bahu Ho beta Ho beti Ho and aaj ki economic system alag hai tum compare karoge To pichhle samay se inflation jyada hai Healthcare education grocery bills clothes house maintenance vehicle maintenance and spending on festivals event in family and vacation and invest bhi karna hai saving bhi karni hai to itna easy nahin hai mere neighbour mein bahut sare couples hai Singh Ko ek aur do bacche hi hai aur donon kapde kam karte hain taki stable rahe Hain sab kuchh.
Very nice video
. It's true that wife becomes depended on husband n beg for necessary things also. And if wife grow professionally husband feels jealous. They know if wife grows financially she will have more better life. Husband knows how to make his wife fool n emotionally black mail by putting the kids topic in middle. N if wife gets angry they give a tight hug to make her fool once again by saying that he loves her a lot.
I earned a lot of money
But
Due to love I gave away total control to my husband
And at 77
I am struggling to take back
Control my finance .
Really a very nice video and biggest issue which majorly women are facing. During my astrological consultation when ever i see combination, I always advise the young ladies married or going to get married that be financial strong and freedom.
Sir, at the end I have seen ladies winning and making men's life hell in old age as a result of what she suffers her entire life. A time comes when the gidad lady becomes sherni and has full control on the family at later stage and the same saga continues with the next generation in the house.
Exactly.. thats what I am seeing in older women. Chun chun k badla leti he jab bache bade hojate he.. she pollutes children mind against father who had controlled her in yound age and then they mentally harass him
Kyunki saas bhi kavi bahu thi
Soooo tru.
agar middle class 50-60 hazar × 2 ( husband + wife) per month pocket money mein kharch kar de to fir wo middle class nahi hai
If you cannot give them work in the house
I've been trying to say this for such a long time.. thank u sir for bringing this to light.. 🙏
Very nice, fresh, truthful and well articulated perspective 😊 Raja Rani concept was very good 👍
Mere papa ek rupaya bi nai dete mummy ko.. i feel so sad for her
Bolo apne papa ko . Wife hain ki nokrani.
Aur tum nokrani ke bete ho ki apni mummy ki. Mere papa naa dete to main bolta
Mere ghr me bhi aesa hi hota tha
Papa ek Paisa nhi dete the mummy ko , phir mango to ladai krte the aur de bhi denge to ahsaan jatayenge ki " mere paise h"
Phir maine mummy ko hi job dilwa di bahar atleast aise self respect gira ke paise to nhi mangne pdte
If men can bear the same then only they should behave the same. Marriage is a business in kalyuga. 🔱
But i have heard multiple psychologist saying there is no equal relationship 1 is dominant and 1 submissive. No 2 people love equally. Men are logical and women emotional. There are more submissive women than there are dominant men. And women cheat when you either are not dominant or when she doesn’t respect you. Of course this is in general not absolute terms.
I don't see this relevant in the cities i have lived in. Men want working women only.
This was very much needed
Thank you for this awesome advise sir
Me and my wife watched this video.. and we both agree we don't have these issues
सर आप किसी भी विषय को बहुत ही शानदार तरीके से व्याख्या करते है👌👌
Sir also make video on woes of working women..... They become sandwich between job and house managent...
Why do they marry?
Going inside the hell in the name of marriage.
Sir gave a hint to keep a maid and delegate all house work to them.. don't do it self.
He said it's better to teach others kids and take money then to teach own kids and send kids to others. Net income is 0 but it's added in the economy
You have to manage maids also.... Maids also take leaves..
I know its tough. I do it as well, so I know! But working women of this generation are relieved a little than working women of previous generation. My mother used to wake up at 4 am to do all housework before leaving for work. She even did jhadu poncha bartan as my patriarchal father didn't like maids. But things have gotten better for us that atleast we have maids, and we can give them some more work apart from basic cleaning. We also have modern day machines. Hopefully, situation of next generation women will be better when we will be having more machines to work in place of maids, and husband will be more understanding.
God bless you long life,we need many more people like you,who will discuss the about the hidden termites in Indian society,
A career girl is not able to get married and have children in a timely manner. People avoid her. It is as if she is punished for being useful to the country
Your all words are true,my age is 30 but still i m suffering from bone disease.my husband and in-laws are against my job but before marriage they are not.But my family always support me in this matter.😊
On the contrary I think the earning man is like a financial slave.
He has to keep working, slogging, paying for every unnecessary expenses etc.
Sir main to kamati hu .. primary school teacher hu.. but aaj tak laga hi nahi ... Paise mujhe mere pati hi dete hain ... Mujhe independent feel hi nahi hota hai
Aur apni feelings aur ikshao ki respect karnewala bhi koi nahi hai ... Apna pati bhi nahi...😢
My wife wants to quit job & nurture Childrens at home.
She wants me to work,
She doesn NOT desire Corporate growth
About 90 percent of
population he is talking .
Producing and nurturing kinds is like full time career. Her decision is right. Support her with your life. She is real woman and deserve a real man.
Support her in nurturing children. Make a plan how children nurturing can be managed with both of you working. Its difficult, but possible. Many people do that.
Financially independent women dont want to marry in the first place.
You said men arent marrying for the reason that women are financially independent. Unhe hi ni karni bhayi jab to men cant fo it by force, no. 😂
What about women who have retired early in their late 40s?
I m 68 n u hv used d word slave ..yes though i was a merit student in school n college bt was nt able to do a job bcoz my husband had shift duty n no one was there to tc of my kids n whole life i was a slave ...so i raised my daughters independent n my son in such a way that he respects his wife ..she is financially free n respects women ..ur videos r very close to heart u gv clarity to thoughts
Middle class don't spend money freely.
Most don't spend Rs 10k freely, every expenses above 10k are done with mutual discussion.
M husband and I both are doctors and still my husband used to take away my money by saying, "I need it for a few days" and never returned back
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Greetings to you Sir !
Your all suggestions are so true.
Sir mainly we all are selfish,from v. Childhood ,in the class,in the family, in politics and due to this arguments arise and clashes grow.
We need to be professional at our home also ,with all family members only then relations remain forever.
sir, first time I love your thought its a bitter truth of our society, most of lady ruined their life of this types of emotional torture and getting deep depression i am also one of them, hats of you
Commendable Sir.. U are amazing for clear Mindset.
Superb.........esko sunke society na sudhre...... phir toh bhagwan hi samjhaye 😂
You speak so good and actual facts. Love it ❤
Wonderful clarity
Oho , so true, 24x7x365 care taker , without medical , no casual leave .
Crystal clear video, thanks Guruji.
Tabahi Content GuruJi..Love Ur Channel From BASTAR Chhattisgarh
Eye opener! Thank you for sharing!
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In some families women are earning enough and men are not earning that much then also men are controlling them.and here also women are having artheriticics. What about that?
It's called conditioning dear 😢 no matter how much they earn 😮 they are mentally weak 😏 or their environment make them weak, their families control her emotions that how she feel, unfortunately these women got wrong parter.......
What if husband's control their earning wife and keep draining her financially besides being highly paid ? Why it's considered that wives have no right to know their husband's salary but instead husband's have full right to manage his wife's salary.
I want to teach but institutions have the timings which doesn't suit
@@InternalExternalJoy How by making You tube videos
Yes. All middle class wives must learn to earn ....
Middle class families are toxic really .. maximum case's me toh saas hi usko job tk nhi krwana chhati.. it's true maximum families just need free slave in the form of women
Nice topic. But what if the wife does not want to work no matter what and creates a scene every time when asked to get some job to keep busy and get money?
if husband doesnt share any household work, many women dont want to take extra burden.
@@ninanani3322 Thank you for the kind response.
Housewives ke extra marital zyada hote hain. Ye point ekdum accurate hai. And first time I am listening ke koi oss important baat ko address kar rha h. Sabse badaa sach hai ye. thanks sir. 💛
Excellent.. too good... outstanding
Thank you soo much sir for this type of videos for addressing the underlying issues .
I'm 28 & I WILL NOT LET MY WIFE WORK IN CORPORATE. The reason is I have seen how women are torchured and loaded with work pressures to meet the deadlines, this will directly affect the household atmosphere. India still doesn't have a very friendly workplace for females. There will be havsi co-workers who are always trying to impress a female co-worker just to get laid. The boss puts unusual amount of pressure to get his advantages or else she will be fired and mentally broken. My dad knew all these things that women face in the corporate and we cannot see our women being dishonoured. So he worked a job and helped set-up a clothing business for my mom as she had studied fashion design in her early days. Now she has a team of 5 workers and its going good.
Now I would do the same, support & encourage the women in our family to start a business or join while we men can work in corporate.
Well, I work in corporate and I absolutely disagree.
@@nirupamasharma4389 well, i too work in corporate. There are majority of workplaces which dont really support females. It happens infront of me.
@@stillbliss1 sorry to say but you are totally wrong. Me and my all female frndz are working for coperate.
And we are happy here 😊😊
Working hours - 8
And if any male try to harras us that was his last day in office.
😊😊
As a woman I completely agree with you.
Always watch you at 1.5 speed goes direct in mind 😂
i watch others at 1.75 or even 2x, but guruji's content always at 1 or max 1.25x.
This is exactly true! This is also the reason for females to be independant.
Sir wonderful video I have seen these things happening with my mother. Waiting for next video part-2
then you have to take some action
U r right sir... Thanks for the video 🎉🎉
Very Well Explained!!
100000001% TRUE YOU POTRAY THE REAL PICTURE OF INDIAN SOCIETY I FELL FROM CHAIR LISTENING HOW YOU TELL THE EXACT SITUATION.
Previously family as a team used to have one capitan, one vice captain and team players...now a family has two captains..
Anyone can be happy as vice captain if they are treated as Vice captain and not a slave. Now the same vice captain has levelled up and became captain... coz being a slave under name of vice captain was really depressing.
@@MeghaKaushik5678 strongly agree with your comments...in this Capitan, vice captain issues team is found missing...which was not the case before...but I also agree that chane is only a constant thing..
@@phaniraj5142 earlier both roles were defined one will provide..other will nurture...bt dont knw why provider of the family started to feel superior and dominated the other half i.e nurturer who is doing equally important work designed by nature. So now nurturers understood that they are not valued if they just handled the housework..n world only recognises and praises provider i.e bread earner.. so they jst leveled up and now there are women who are capable enough to be a bread earner and bread maker both. 😇
If provider played their roles perfectly without disrespecting the the better half this might not have happened. Even I dont understand why this balance was disturbed but this is the reality now 😕
@@MeghaKaushik5678 very true. I agree
@@khushboop6173 very true..
Very good content Guruji❤❤
I am binge watching your videos as I am on leave for few days , I must say , your content is well researched , unbiased , thank you for your insight sir.
This topic you have addressed is very important and nobody addresses it . Sir, you touched many topics superficially, would like to hear more of it . Kindly share your wisdom.
Your work is a social work , our society needs it 🥰🥰🙌
So true sir.. All the points u said everything is right..
As always a unique presentation like it i👍
My husband gave me 2000 and also he wants explanation on this where i spent this 2000 rs..😂
😂
I hope it's a joke 😢
How cheap! Leave him and get a job for yourself dear..!
@@Kashish.talrejadidi job to market me battt Rahi Jo Jake karegi.berojgari dekho to
@@PRAKASHKUMAR-se5dk a basic primary school teaching job is easy to get for any girl. Better than being somebody's free slave and beg for money.