I think everyone has a friend like this at some point in their life. Best friends growing up and then just eventually drift apart. Tried calling mine last week and he still hasn’t texted me back in five days. Really just goes to show how everyone is maturing and moving on with their own lives.
Somehow it feels all three of you are right. Some people drift apart and thats normal, but at the same time if they drifted apart how close were you? not inseparable. Do we ever truly understand each other, love each other? maybe not. Still none of this should change how you behave. Its better to continue to experience the pain of distancing, than to never move closer.
Being distant and aloof is disloyal and, I have found, is not a sign of maturity, but a sign of immaturity. No mature person shuns or denounces their friends without an explanation.
@@aaa-gt8by Maybe, but who am I, do people really need to explain themselves just to not see me again. I think not, I think we’re all much more insignificant than we believe. We should still be the best we can be and love our neighbors
In this video you capture an idea that resonates with me a lot. i was 16 and terrified of growing up, not because i was scared of responsibilities but because i felt like i would be loosing something Raw. something that visits you and never returns again, a visceralness and spirit you only posess when you're a teenager. everything is magnified and more real but not in a naive way, infact i think theres a wisdom and awareness that you have that some people forget as they grow older. But in a few months i found myself not worrying about it so often, and seeing a beauty and comfort in growing older that i still feel. you'll always be the same person in some ways. life is beautiful no matter where you are.
That was beautiful. I often fear the loss of my youth too, and my young youth at that (as in under 20s) as I’m about to turn 19. I’m quite self aware of the time I have left when it comes to that, and it’s scary because it doesn’t feel right yet. I feel like I need another 5 years of being a kid, especially since the world locked down for almost 3 years. However, I did have an experience recently which reminded me that we can still keep those core parts of us alive as long as we nurture them. We may grow up, but we can make sure we never grow old ❤
I needed a video like this. I just rewatched Love and Pop and for the first time I understood how Hiromi had a very hard time accepting her friends are moving on without her. Recently, I’ve noticed my best friend from childhood is also moving on. We are still in touch but he texted me back a full 11 days later. Growing apart is part of growing up.
I watched this video at 5 o'clock in the morning. I slept for one hour and this video is just as melancholy as I was in when watching it. I was very lucky to see him. It touched me to the core. It's not often you see a video with such sincere words. Thank you
i just graduated high school and i feel that only for the past year i've had a best friend like that, some i actually imagine could have been my best friend for my entire childhood if we knew each other that early. however, we're going to universities 8 hours away from each other and i know that i'll soon find myself relating to this video, and maybe my best friend will too. still i'm glad this video helped me see how wonderful things are now, and will help me look back on this friendship fondly the way you do.
This is beautiful. I love this so much. The transition from childhood to teenager years, and even into adulthood. How we can go from strangers to connected to distant all over again, its life. This is so well done, i love the way you worded everything. I relate to this as a teenager, and i see myself inn this video. Beautiful, and def bittersweet, how when we mature our relations with other people grow one way or another as well. Never stop!!
Love how you described exactly what I currently feel in my mid-twenties ♥️wish next video you could raise your voice a bit as I hear the music louder than your voice but loved how calm and soft your voice is thank you
Us; three, were close due to many tiny stuff & situations. But us changing school definitely changed our personality and thought processes. I don't want them to drown along with my worries. This weekend I'm turning 18 & my wish might be to understand each other one day even if we drift apart.
I am lonely and am 16 going on to becoming a junior, I only have 4 real friends, 2 long distant who I connect with deeply, and 2 in real life who don’t really talk to me, we’re just there for eachother if we need help with school or something. The fact I’ll never get to experience going to the mall with friends, going on a picnic, taking photos together, eating together, doing anything with anyone together, kinda breaks me and makes me realize my teenage years don’t really feel like my teenage years, just feel like regular ones as I continue being mostly lonely isolated, I hope this changes.
Find a passion, this does not replace people, but it gives you a space in your mind that can connect to others. Without one, it feels like we have no grasp of those who come in contact with us
Huh I’m still in my youth But I feel like I’m missing out on it Cause… I don’t have many friends, and I don’t see the friends I do have very often I am close to them It’s kinda out of my control it seems Aaaaand I’m not in public school. I don’t know very many people
You. The one reading this. I know you have that one friend that you call "best friend". You've been friends for years now, you probably met each other in the first year of school and you've been friends since. You've been friends through thick and skin, you argued, you laughed together, you were there for each other, you were like brothers Then one day life happens, you finish school, one goes to university and the other one starts working and you end up almost not talking anymore and to hang out maybe 3 times a year, and it's ok, life happens. Send him a text, ask him to hangout, talk to each other, you know that's the right thing to do He is not angry with you, and he knows that you're not angry with him Thanks for always being there for me when I needed somebody Phil, I owe you a beer 🍺🍻
I feel like every mention of this movie has such positive / nostalgic sentiments but I found this movie nothing but disastrous and destructive and torturous to watch, like the comments people have about it have nothing to do with the plot but the surface level aesthetics. Spoiler it turns out the relationships made in the movie are harmful and intensely traumatic despite one or two moments of youthful wonder
I think everyone has a friend like this at some point in their life. Best friends growing up and then just eventually drift apart. Tried calling mine last week and he still hasn’t texted me back in five days. Really just goes to show how everyone is maturing and moving on with their own lives.
I don't have any friends
@@StrongmanCopeno one does, really.
Somehow it feels all three of you are right. Some people drift apart and thats normal, but at the same time if they drifted apart how close were you? not inseparable. Do we ever truly understand each other, love each other? maybe not.
Still none of this should change how you behave. Its better to continue to experience the pain of distancing, than to never move closer.
Being distant and aloof is disloyal and, I have found, is not a sign of maturity, but a sign of immaturity. No mature person shuns or denounces their friends without an explanation.
@@aaa-gt8by Maybe, but who am I, do people really need to explain themselves just to not see me again. I think not, I think we’re all much more insignificant than we believe. We should still be the best we can be and love our neighbors
In this video you capture an idea that resonates with me a lot. i was 16 and terrified of growing up, not because i was scared of responsibilities but because i felt like i would be loosing something Raw. something that visits you and never returns again, a visceralness and spirit you only posess when you're a teenager. everything is magnified and more real but not in a naive way, infact i think theres a wisdom and awareness that you have that some people forget as they grow older. But in a few months i found myself not worrying about it so often, and seeing a beauty and comfort in growing older that i still feel. you'll always be the same person in some ways. life is beautiful no matter where you are.
Love the music and visuals.
Thanks! Just posted a new video where I think I refined some of the techniques I used.
@murphyshouse I'll make sure to check it out.
That was beautiful. I often fear the loss of my youth too, and my young youth at that (as in under 20s) as I’m about to turn 19. I’m quite self aware of the time I have left when it comes to that, and it’s scary because it doesn’t feel right yet. I feel like I need another 5 years of being a kid, especially since the world locked down for almost 3 years. However, I did have an experience recently which reminded me that we can still keep those core parts of us alive as long as we nurture them. We may grow up, but we can make sure we never grow old ❤
I needed a video like this. I just rewatched Love and Pop and for the first time I understood how Hiromi had a very hard time accepting her friends are moving on without her. Recently, I’ve noticed my best friend from childhood is also moving on. We are still in touch but he texted me back a full 11 days later. Growing apart is part of growing up.
I watched this video at 5 o'clock in the morning. I slept for one hour and this video is just as melancholy as I was in when watching it. I was very lucky to see him. It touched me to the core. It's not often you see a video with such sincere words. Thank you
I'm glad i found this channel... I'm so tired of this youtube now and genuinely hope that out goes back to how it was, or grows into something better
Growing up feels like a curse but theres no escaping
i just graduated high school and i feel that only for the past year i've had a best friend like that, some i actually imagine could have been my best friend for my entire childhood if we knew each other that early. however, we're going to universities 8 hours away from each other and i know that i'll soon find myself relating to this video, and maybe my best friend will too. still i'm glad this video helped me see how wonderful things are now, and will help me look back on this friendship fondly the way you do.
Wow... I'm a bit speechless because this was such a heart-touching video
Thank you so much, you have no idea how amazing it is recieve feedback like this.
I love this😵💫🔥
Wes Anderson’s works are definitely the epitome of nostalgia- so great
This is beautiful. I love this so much. The transition from childhood to teenager years, and even into adulthood. How we can go from strangers to connected to distant all over again, its life. This is so well done, i love the way you worded everything. I relate to this as a teenager, and i see myself inn this video. Beautiful, and def bittersweet, how when we mature our relations with other people grow one way or another as well. Never stop!!
This made me sad!
All about Lily Chou Chou reference 🔥🔥🔥
Wow man there really is nothing like a person truly expressing themselves ❤❤
Woahhhh Murphy’s House, I’m River’s House, this is a super cool video.
Never stop
Love how you described exactly what I currently feel in my mid-twenties ♥️wish next video you could raise your voice a bit as I hear the music louder than your voice but loved how calm and soft your voice is thank you
Thank you for the suggestion! I'm working on a new video now and I'll be sure to boost the voice audio!
I’ve been surrounded by friends but all of them were temporary, I’m going to college this year and I long for real long term friends
relatable
Thank you for putting this into words❤
This was a really good video, love the way it was done 👍
the way it hits me.
Great stuff!
Us; three, were close due to many tiny stuff & situations. But us changing school definitely changed our personality and thought processes. I don't want them to drown along with my worries.
This weekend I'm turning 18 & my wish might be to understand each other one day even if we drift apart.
This is great
I am lonely and am 16 going on to becoming a junior, I only have 4 real friends, 2 long distant who I connect with deeply, and 2 in real life who don’t really talk to me, we’re just there for eachother if we need help with school or something. The fact I’ll never get to experience going to the mall with friends, going on a picnic, taking photos together, eating together, doing anything with anyone together, kinda breaks me and makes me realize my teenage years don’t really feel like my teenage years, just feel like regular ones as I continue being mostly lonely isolated, I hope this changes.
Find a passion, this does not replace people, but it gives you a space in your mind that can connect to others. Without one, it feels like we have no grasp of those who come in contact with us
The editing is cool man just lower the background audio, its disrupts your voice over. Overall amazing video.
Thanks for the suggestion! I will make sure to di this for my next video.
Yo man, I really loved your video. I'm just wondering, how did you add the song to the description box?
I think it’s a copyright thing, they’ll show up in the description even if the songs used are allowed on TH-cam. I didn’t do it on purpose.
@@murphyshouse Ahhh, thanks homie. Keep up the good work!
now you have a choice
Huh
I’m still in my youth
But I feel like I’m missing out on it
Cause…
I don’t have many friends, and I don’t see the friends I do have very often
I am close to them
It’s kinda out of my control it seems
Aaaaand I’m not in public school.
I don’t know very many people
never had one
Its ok bro. Eventually everyone leaves you and everyone gets seperated anyways
Are you in Japan? I am in Tokyo right now and is feeling kindof lonely. We can be friends :)
Not currently! I’ll be back in September!
You. The one reading this. I know you have that one friend that you call "best friend". You've been friends for years now, you probably met each other in the first year of school and you've been friends since. You've been friends through thick and skin, you argued, you laughed together, you were there for each other, you were like brothers
Then one day life happens, you finish school, one goes to university and the other one starts working and you end up almost not talking anymore and to hang out maybe 3 times a year, and it's ok, life happens.
Send him a text, ask him to hangout, talk to each other, you know that's the right thing to do
He is not angry with you, and he knows that you're not angry with him
Thanks for always being there for me when I needed somebody Phil, I owe you a beer 🍺🍻
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I feel like every mention of this movie has such positive / nostalgic sentiments but I found this movie nothing but disastrous and destructive and torturous to watch, like the comments people have about it have nothing to do with the plot but the surface level aesthetics. Spoiler it turns out the relationships made in the movie are harmful and intensely traumatic despite one or two moments of youthful wonder
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