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Aww man this speaks to me. I found 2 of my boyfriends had died when they didnt text me back all day. I have severe trauma from not being texted back. Hence my commitment to my celibacy
Cheat me once, shame on you. Cheat me twice, shame on me. Learning from experience is paramount. Unforgettable that’s what you are Unforgettable though near or far Like a song of love that clings to me How the thought of you does things to me Never before has someone been more Unforgettable in every way (Irving Gordon) 12:38 There are steps I can take in order to keep myself safer. (Practical perspective) 16:43 post traumatic growth Thank you Doc Snipes. Thank you for C.R.A.V.E.S and P.A.C.E.R. So very helpful
I am not angry with myself. I am angry with the people who abused me. I was not to blame. I did nothing wrong. The guilt and shame belong to the abusers.
I am sorry you were abused and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
thank you very much! your way of structuring and wording it is fantastic. I especially like the part about keeping a log of such beliefs, I wouldn't have thought it up myself
You're very welcome! I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
As a young woman I have a trauma belief about doctors but it happens to be true in my case. It took 11 years to get a diagnosis for a neurological disease and they still treat me like shit. Neglegence, prejudice, laugh at me, anger when I speak my mind. How can one accept trauma when its still going on and will forever ? This is not some random thing. My life, health and financial situation are in the hands of those horrible people.
True which is why I always underscore that when you notice you are having trauma related beliefs it is important to evaluate the facts in context to decide on their accuracy.
Thank you very much for this information! I have never heard a therapist relay this before, i thought it was just a personal rigid thinking style. This makes sense now and helps reduce shame based thinking.
I thank you for making these videos. In listening I can relate in what I did in the past and not wanting to repeat these "traps of failure in the future forcing me to keep on moving forward. If that makes sense.
I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. You can find more videos on trauma at: th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Very helpful, thank you! It's like you're reading my mind today. This explains so much of a family member's behavior & apparent thought process. His abusive alcoholic father did more damage than I ever knew (never gave specifics). In my psych studies (& experiences in adulthood) I became more aware of the dysfunctional elements of his personality but was never able to describe it as well as you've explained. It overlaps with many traits I've learned from the research available on NPD, yet he is a good person at heart. Thanks again!
You’re so welcome. I sorry for your family member’s past. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m really glad that the video resonated with you and helped put those thoughts into words. Trauma can be so complex, and it’s not always easy to articulate what we’re experiencing. If you're interested in more tips on the topic or if you want to explore my video library, you can use my AI: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes. Was there a specific point or concept in the video that stood out to you the most?
Hey doc snipes, I'm wondering if it's similar to generational trauma info. For example: a family says, "For years x group of people are only out to get us. It's an us vs them." I'm wondering if there's a way to undo that mentality of automatic labels from generational trauma?
That sounds awful and I am sorry it happened to you. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it? Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
I was going to ask is there a difference between “core beliefs” and “automatic negative thoughts/feelings”? For example having the thought: “I am unlovable” I think the movie inside out 2 does an amazing job at showing how core beliefs thoughts and feelings can all be mixed together in our psyche. Would love for you to expound on this
I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
being constantly truamatised by doctors who don't understand agitation from truama now suscidal as no help for the physical effects of the ongoing truama as doc's says it's agitated anxiety which will not be tolerated
I am very sorry to hear that. If you are in the US, I would encourage you to seek out therapists and treatment programs that state they are trauma informed. Unfortunately, doctors do not often have a lot of info about trauma. You can search for MDs that address trauma related issues on Psychology Today's find a therapist website. www.psychologytoday.com/us/psychiatrists/tennessee?category=trauma-and-ptsd Obviously that search was for Tennessee. I do not know your location. YOu can also educate them about complex posttraumatic stress disorder if you think that fits. Here is the link to the description in the ICD-11 (International Classification of Diagnoses) icd.who.int/browse11/l-m/en#/id.who.int/icd/entity/585833559
Identifying trauma-related beliefs often involves recognizing thought patterns and beliefs that have developed as a result of traumatic experiences. These beliefs might include feelings of worthlessness, guilt, or fear. Pay attention to negative self-talk, triggers, and emotional reactions.
You’re most welcome. Thank you for your kind words and for watching the video. Remember, you can use DocSnipes.com/Clones for more tips, tools and in-depth information on all things mental health.
Trauma is an evil spirit that attaches itself to your ego... you can't get rid of it without knowing God. Life is a spiritual battle between good and evil... you're in an identity crisis. Stop believing your evil twin. Stay free 🙏❤🇺🇲
if we exclude "God" from your statement and write "psychology" instead or replace "knowing God" with "consciously doing your best," we get the same result. you don't have to believe in a higher being to become free.
@@joeshabe ok. Let's assume you are correct. Where is it you're getting your morality? Where is your sense of right and wrong coming from in your scenario?
@@glennjohn3824 people close to me (esp. their feedback), psychologists, the "give what you want to be given" principle - all of this shapes my sense of morality. note how every believer is different. there are common principles amongst them, but they're not exclusive for any religion (or the lack of it). I also believe that everything is relative and contextual: in one case killing is mercy, in another it's an act of atrocity. the same goes for relationships, life goals, etc. there's no universal answer for everything.
👌More videos can be found on this topic at:
th-cam.com/play/PLcB3trehXswhybQkwXotbMizh5DKu6KBs.html&si=ZMbg1JDKxod-uyEe
❤️Self help activities and worksheets and concierge coaching with Dr. Snipes can be accessed at DocSnipes.com
👍Online Courses for Continuing Education (CEU, OPD, CPD) and Substance Abuse Counselor Certification
Aww man this speaks to me. I found 2 of my boyfriends had died when they didnt text me back all day. I have severe trauma from not being texted back. Hence my commitment to my celibacy
That sounds awful and I am sorry it happened to you.
@@DocSnipes thank you so much for validating my reality and not minimizing my trauma. Your videos have been really helpful to me
Cheat me once, shame on you.
Cheat me twice, shame on me.
Learning from experience is paramount.
Unforgettable that’s what you are
Unforgettable though near or far
Like a song of love that clings to me
How the thought of you does things to me
Never before has someone been more
Unforgettable in every way
(Irving Gordon)
12:38 There are steps I can take in order to keep myself safer. (Practical perspective)
16:43 post traumatic growth
Thank you Doc Snipes.
Thank you for C.R.A.V.E.S and P.A.C.E.R.
So very helpful
Thank you for watching the video
"You're afraid if you let go of that guilt..." it means I am powerless and just a victim of circumstances that i am helpless against.
I am not angry with myself. I am angry with the people who abused me. I was not to blame. I did nothing wrong. The guilt and shame belong to the abusers.
I am sorry you were abused and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Thank you for sharing your knowledge in such a way that is simple to understand. Appreciate you.
You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
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thank you very much! your way of structuring and wording it is fantastic. I especially like the part about keeping a log of such beliefs, I wouldn't have thought it up myself
You're very welcome! I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
As a young woman I have a trauma belief about doctors but it happens to be true in my case. It took 11 years to get a diagnosis for a neurological disease and they still treat me like shit. Neglegence, prejudice, laugh at me, anger when I speak my mind. How can one accept trauma when its still going on and will forever ? This is not some random thing. My life, health and financial situation are in the hands of those horrible people.
True which is why I always underscore that when you notice you are having trauma related beliefs it is important to evaluate the facts in context to decide on their accuracy.
This video is so personal to me. I can relate to all of it. Having an awareness of all of this could help me to change. Thank you ❤
You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you wanting the video
Thank you very much for this information! I have never heard a therapist relay this before, i thought it was just a personal rigid thinking style. This makes sense now and helps reduce shame based thinking.
I am so glad you found it! Behavior is communication and always designed (even if it doesn't seem like it) to help you survive.
Really looking forward to this one!
Appreciate your consistent content ❤
Thank you and thanks for watching
Thank you so much for creating and sharing!
You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Thank you for all the hard work that you do! 🤍✨
You are so welcome!
Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Thank you Dr. Snipes for another wonderful video. We appreciate all that you do :)
You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video
I thank you for making these videos. In listening I can relate in what I did in the past and not wanting to repeat these "traps of failure in the future forcing me to keep on moving forward. If that makes sense.
You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching the video
Thank you for elaborating on the power points doc this is very helpful.
I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Thank you for all of your videos!
I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. You can find more videos on trauma at: th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Very helpful, thank you! It's like you're reading my mind today. This explains so much of a family member's behavior & apparent thought process. His abusive alcoholic father did more damage than I ever knew (never gave specifics). In my psych studies (& experiences in adulthood) I became more aware of the dysfunctional elements of his personality but was never able to describe it as well as you've explained. It overlaps with many traits I've learned from the research available on NPD, yet he is a good person at heart. Thanks again!
You’re so welcome. I sorry for your family member’s past. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Amazing video as usual ! So many points I understood but couldn’t put them into words myself , but you did just that
Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m really glad that the video resonated with you and helped put those thoughts into words. Trauma can be so complex, and it’s not always easy to articulate what we’re experiencing.
If you're interested in more tips on the topic or if you want to explore my video library, you can use my AI: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes.
Was there a specific point or concept in the video that stood out to you the most?
Excited to listen to this one
Looking forward to seeing you at the premiere. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
I think only Therapy can help with trauma. I have been trying to help my self for years without seeing any improvement. I hope I could find one.
Thank you for watching the video. You can find other videos on trauma at: th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
Hey doc snipes, I'm wondering if it's similar to generational trauma info. For example: a family says, "For years x group of people are only out to get us. It's an us vs them." I'm wondering if there's a way to undo that mentality of automatic labels from generational trauma?
Thank soooo much for this help!! ❤
You're so welcome!
I suffered from PTSD .........My dad didnt care about me when i was a child!!!!
That sounds awful and I am sorry it happened to you. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
@@DocSnipes Thanx
You are so amazingly good in your explanations, thank you so very much ❤
You are so welcome! I am grateful to be of service and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it?
@@DocSnipes thank you and to all the ones who had the courage to speak out here
You’re an creators. Thank you for helping me understand and grow❤
You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it? Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
So informative! Thank you!
You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching the video. I am grateful to be of help
I was going to ask is there a difference between “core beliefs” and “automatic negative thoughts/feelings”?
For example having the thought: “I am unlovable”
I think the movie inside out 2 does an amazing job at showing how core beliefs thoughts and feelings can all be mixed together in our psyche. Would love for you to expound on this
Core beliefs from the past (schema) inform our automatic negative thoughts in the present.
Good morning 🙏 🌄 ☺️
Good morning! Thank you for watching the video
Thank you so much🙏
You're welcome
Brava!!
I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=trauma
being constantly truamatised by doctors who don't understand agitation from truama
now suscidal as no help for the physical effects of the ongoing truama as doc's says it's agitated anxiety which will not be tolerated
I am very sorry to hear that. If you are in the US, I would encourage you to seek out therapists and treatment programs that state they are trauma informed. Unfortunately, doctors do not often have a lot of info about trauma. You can search for MDs that address trauma related issues on Psychology Today's find a therapist website. www.psychologytoday.com/us/psychiatrists/tennessee?category=trauma-and-ptsd Obviously that search was for Tennessee. I do not know your location. YOu can also educate them about complex posttraumatic stress disorder if you think that fits. Here is the link to the description in the ICD-11 (International Classification of Diagnoses) icd.who.int/browse11/l-m/en#/id.who.int/icd/entity/585833559
beautiful
Thank you for watching the video
@@DocSnipes Of course💗
How do you identify trauma related beliefs?
Identifying trauma-related beliefs often involves recognizing thought patterns and beliefs that have developed as a result of traumatic experiences. These beliefs might include feelings of worthlessness, guilt, or fear. Pay attention to negative self-talk, triggers, and emotional reactions.
You are awesome 🤍
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I am currently not taking new patients. You can message support@docsnipes.com and we can try to help you find a therapist in your area.
Trauma is an evil spirit that attaches itself to your ego... you can't get rid of it without knowing God. Life is a spiritual battle between good and evil... you're in an identity crisis. Stop believing your evil twin.
Stay free 🙏❤🇺🇲
Thanks for watching
@@DocSnipes thanks for replying 🙏❤🇺🇲
if we exclude "God" from your statement and write "psychology" instead or replace "knowing God" with "consciously doing your best," we get the same result. you don't have to believe in a higher being to become free.
@@joeshabe ok. Let's assume you are correct. Where is it you're getting your morality? Where is your sense of right and wrong coming from in your scenario?
@@glennjohn3824 people close to me (esp. their feedback), psychologists, the "give what you want to be given" principle - all of this shapes my sense of morality.
note how every believer is different. there are common principles amongst them, but they're not exclusive for any religion (or the lack of it).
I also believe that everything is relative and contextual: in one case killing is mercy, in another it's an act of atrocity. the same goes for relationships, life goals, etc. there's no universal answer for everything.