Lost an older sibling to stillbirth (40 weeks) and my mom and dad still remember that only ONE person expressed condolences to my father. Men matter too and I'm glad that with every passing generation we're evolving from the myth that men have to be stoic and silent to be strong.
Thank you so much Tyson and Brandon for sharing this with us. All too Often the Dads are kind of forgotten. I will be sharing this with my husband as he went though a lot of what both of you expressed, including his own expressions of grief. I feel he will like watching this♡
This was an awesome video guys The dads of infant loss don't get enough credit They don't think about their own feelings because you're worried about your partner's mental & physical health So you bury your feelings until a later date but then by the later date you don't think it matters to talk about your grief It's great that you two can talk about your experiences Never stop communicating even though it's hard to start that conversation. If I sound like a know it all is because I have had similar experiences twice Thank you for sharing this
Thank you so much for sharing your feelings with us. I do appreciate you pointing out that the men do have emotions and should be able to think out loud. It's good that you are able to process your emotions in a way that definitely allows you to heal and express yourselves :) it would be great to see these things way more often and people process their grief in a healthy way.
My husband blamed me for our loss. I did everything I humanly could but I ended up with an incompetent OBGYN. Maybe he blamed me out of anger.. idk. People deal with loss differently
I hope you know that it wasnt your fault and you did nothing wrong. My boyfriend blames me for things too its not fair. They do it just because they want to shift blame. But there was no one to blame. Your feelings matter and you are deserving of love. Sending much love.
This was a great vlog. I wish more men would speed out. I think we need to know there side of the store. I think we also need to hear from other family members and how they feel. I am a lost mom and grandma. And being on the side of a grandma I am still grieving for a grandchildren I never got to meet. It’s been close to five years. Maybe you could do a vlog on that. Thanks again for always sharing your stories
Mary Beth Goodwin - I also am a Mom who lost two babies through miscarriage. I lost my first grandson at 6 and a half months. That was in 1995. That was extremely hard for me and I still miss him! I remember the two babies I lost 46 and 47 years ago and you grieve forever. A part of you is gone through loss of children. I will one day be joined with my three losses in Heaven. That is the only thing that has given me comfort.
I lost my dad in September 2017. At first I couldn't look at something as simple as a bottle of water or a bag of potato chips without crying (Dad's favorite snack). We used to watch Gunsmoke on TV together, I haven't watched an episode since last September and I still will start to tear when I see it in the guide when I'm looking for something to watch. It does get a little easier over time, I no longer cry over potato chips, but the hurt never goes away.
Thank u guys for sharing your stories. Growing up the only male 'role model' never showed hos emotions unless he was drunk and. Those we'rent emotions i wanted to see. I think eithere by the way we where raised or peer pressure or self choice boyscand men tend to turn everything inward. I realized awhile ago i couldnt live like that and keep my sanity anymore...your children, both thosec lost and those that are with u are very lucky to have u men as role models.
My husband's male relative and his wife recently lost their child second pregnancy loss first stillborn he is at the angry stage he's blaming God he blames life the universe they were devout Catholics he's renouncing his religion.. he is cussing at everybody that says I'm so sorry I'm praying for you and your family he will cuss them out and block them he's just very angry this happened in July right after our son was born and my husband is at a loss do you gentlemen have any advice that I could give him he wants to help his relative but he doesn't want to get cussed out and blocked from his family
Lost an older sibling to stillbirth (40 weeks) and my mom and dad still remember that only ONE person expressed condolences to my father. Men matter too and I'm glad that with every passing generation we're evolving from the myth that men have to be stoic and silent to be strong.
Thank you so much Tyson and Brandon for sharing this with us. All too Often the Dads are kind of forgotten. I will be sharing this with my husband as he went though a lot of what both of you expressed, including his own expressions of grief. I feel he will like watching this♡
This was an awesome video guys The dads of infant loss don't get enough credit They don't think about their own feelings because you're worried about your partner's mental & physical health So you bury your feelings until a later date but then by the later date you don't think it matters to talk about your grief It's great that you two can talk about your experiences Never stop communicating even though it's hard to start that conversation. If I sound like a know it all is because I have had similar experiences twice Thank you for sharing this
"I like the idea of throwing socks" -Tyson
I couldn't help but giggle at that
My heart breaks for both of you guys and your families but it is a relief to see that there are men who feel the same thing that we women do.
Thank you for your honesty and sharing Brandon & Tyson.
Thank you for all that you have done for the Pregnancy and Infant Awareness!!! I LOVE YOU TYSON AND AIMEE!!!
awesome dads
I loved hearing your different perspectives on this. Such a difficult subject to discuss but it definitely needs more awareness!
Thank you so much for sharing your feelings with us. I do appreciate you pointing out that the men do have emotions and should be able to think out loud. It's good that you are able to process your emotions in a way that definitely allows you to heal and express yourselves :) it would be great to see these things way more often and people process their grief in a healthy way.
My husband blamed me for our loss. I did everything I humanly could but I ended up with an incompetent OBGYN. Maybe he blamed me out of anger.. idk. People deal with loss differently
No offens but your husbands a jackass
I hope you know that it wasnt your fault and you did nothing wrong. My boyfriend blames me for things too its not fair. They do it just because they want to shift blame. But there was no one to blame. Your feelings matter and you are deserving of love. Sending much love.
@@michellemurphy4148 I know. Thanks
Thank you both for sharing ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing guys.
This was a great video guys!
This was a great vlog. I wish more men would speed out. I think we need to know there side of the store.
I think we also need to hear from other family members and how they feel. I am a lost mom and grandma. And being on the side of a grandma I am still grieving for a grandchildren I never got to meet. It’s been close to five years. Maybe you could do a vlog on that.
Thanks again for always sharing your stories
Mary Beth Goodwin - I also am a Mom who lost two babies through miscarriage. I lost my first grandson at 6 and a half months. That was in 1995. That was extremely hard for me and I still miss him! I remember the two babies I lost 46 and 47 years ago and you grieve forever. A part of you is gone through loss of children. I will one day be joined with my three losses in Heaven. That is the only thing that has given me comfort.
Cheryl Allen Thank you so much for these kind words. I think the hard part is I know what my daughter is going through and I can’t fix it.🤗
Thanks a million for this vlog, you both are just amaizing people!!!! Sending you love from Spain :)
This doesn't have anything to do with infant loss but I lost my mom 4 years ago and I am still having a hard time
I hear you. I have losses i still grieve and if i had lost a child and someone told me to 'move on' or ' get over it' id lrobably deck them!
I lost my dad in September 2017. At first I couldn't look at something as simple as a bottle of water or a bag of potato chips without crying (Dad's favorite snack). We used to watch Gunsmoke on TV together, I haven't watched an episode since last September and I still will start to tear when I see it in the guide when I'm looking for something to watch. It does get a little easier over time, I no longer cry over potato chips, but the hurt never goes away.
@@NoodleyBits I can't go in mom and dad's room
I understand 100%. I lost my dad April 23rd of this year from alcoholism, and the pain is unbearable. Can’t even keep dry eyes typing this.
You guys are so funny! lol I just found your channel and am a new subscriber :)
Love this video & love you guys.
Thank u guys for sharing your stories. Growing up the only male 'role model' never showed hos emotions unless he was drunk and. Those we'rent emotions i wanted to see. I think eithere by the way we where raised or peer pressure or self choice boyscand men tend to turn everything inward. I realized awhile ago i couldnt live like that and keep my sanity anymore...your children, both thosec lost and those that are with u are very lucky to have u men as role models.
My husband's male relative and his wife recently lost their child second pregnancy loss first stillborn he is at the angry stage he's blaming God he blames life the universe they were devout Catholics he's renouncing his religion.. he is cussing at everybody that says I'm so sorry I'm praying for you and your family he will cuss them out and block them he's just very angry this happened in July right after our son was born and my husband is at a loss do you gentlemen have any advice that I could give him he wants to help his relative but he doesn't want to get cussed out and blocked from his family
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