I graduated + burnout
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 พ.ค. 2023
- Filmed this about a week ago. I feel better now :) Travel vlog soon
NEW VLOGS ONLY CHANNEL (no coding): @PansDay
WATCH ME LIVE ► / fryingpan
2nd channel ► @FryingPanLIVEE (vlogs & more)
Twitter ► / codefryingpan
Instagram ► / fryingpan.ig
Discord ► / discord
Edited by Cyprian
#burnout #graduation #university #softwareengineering #coding
software engineer If you're looking for a cheaper phone plan, try Mint Mobile (it's what I use!): trymintmobile.com/fryingpan
❤
self love moment
As a computer science student who actively works on problem-solving and deduction skills, I can successfully infer that this heart (which is pinned and has also been hearted by you) is directed towards her.
Sorry for your break up, gym arc? PagMan
Open a Startup.
You have achieved super much already man, got the job, got the degree, got the good start, just take some time to chill and to reward yourself! I am quite certain that people like you will not be slacking for too long and eventually you will come up with some new cool hobbies or people or whatever. Good luck!
Bro put relaxing and going to a funeral in the same sentence lol
🗿
@@A_R_B_Ghuh 💀
So relatable, I also just recently broke up with a long term gf and in addition lost my software engineering job to layoffs. I hadn't felt this lost since I when I began coding 8 years ago. I was feeling burnt out and also felt that setting goals was cheesy. My advice to you ( which will probably not register, since advice is futile to a cloudy mind ) is to focus solely on the body and mind. This will keep you challenged, and also build healthy habits for when you start working. You always "come" first. 😂
Hope things get better my friend. Ty for the advice ❤️
Don’t worry Pan, I felt similarly to you when I graduated. The adult world is more undefined than school since there’s fewer explicit milestones to mark your success. No more tests and a lot more open ended problems with no right answers.
Things will get better once you start working and focus on the journey rather than the outcome. Just enjoy the ride and strive for excellence
i'm 16 and i've been watching your channel for some time now, i want to study computer science too in the future and you just inspire me a lot honestly. i've always loved coding and problem solving and i'm trying to see how it is actually like, even if i don't understand everything you talk about in your videos i just still find it very cool and motivating and i learned a lot of things about the cursus.
i really wish you good luck for the future, what you're doing is very cool.
ngl you have a future in youtube/twitch, you already have over 200k on yt and you’ve already got multiple videos that have blown up. Honestly, there is nothing stopping you from continuing and making a career outta this
Currently selling my soul for daddy Bezos and my manager just told me you're unlucky because we don't plan to hire from our batch of interns. Looking at your journey made me realise that no matter if you do everything right but there are some things just outside your hands! Onwards and upwards better things coming
That sucks
I am sorry man((
Is there a way i can talk to you please?
@@EmbddedJiuSage I'm not sure if you want you're referring to me or pan, if me I'm down
Love that you take the leap and post this kind of real content.
I'm in a somewhat similar situation, so it's assuring that I am not alone.
Appreciate u 🙏
I know how you feel Pan. I'm graduating in a week and I feel the same way. As you said it helps to relax and just go with the flow. Take care of your mental and physical health. All the best for the next stage of your career!
bro im literally addicted to your videos since 2021. im 17 and im starting university this September. you've already achieved a lot. dontcha ever underestimate your progress ❤❤
Congrats on graduating!! And yeah, breaking up is hard. Take your time to heal and put yourself first. Don’t feel pressured to get into another relationship. Just let it happen on its own time. Wishing you the best.
❤️
I have done watching most of your videos and i love the way you document your life. This is not mandatory to set goal all the time. It's okay to relax. We are all human being. We do have ups and downs. You are doing great already and will be doing great. Waiting for videos with a Pan full of energy 💪
I relate pretty heavily to this video, I’m about to graduate and I have a job lined up but I’m stuck in the in between and it’s a very weird feeling. I hope you stay healthy and happy bro, keep up the grind
Hi pan, ive been following your journey since long ago and ill never get tired of telling you how inspirational you are. I would have never get interested in any cs thing thx to you and your advices! I know you can beat all of those problems chasing you :) I thought my life was horrible till i heard of all u went thru and now i know that its not only me against the world, everyone faces troubles. Now that adult life is slapping you, im afraid of it slapping me to a pulp but i can confidently say i will stand to anything just like you did, youre incredible pan, youre "pan divino".
This is really affirming. I'm at a similar crossroads where I'm doing my first internship and it's making me question some of my own goals.
The way I see it, don't think of things as "goals" because that's too big to break down and ends up deterring us from progressing. When I started learning a new language, it was never because I wanted to become fluent at that language. Sure, I knew that if I stuck with it eventually I'd reach fluency, but the goal was never what drove me. I'm sure to an extent, the idea of being a TH-camr isn't what drives you, but the journey of sharing video after video, building a community, watching those subs go up, and reaching a wider audience might. It seems like you're spiraling with no real end in sight, but that's where you'll have to regulate your own learning and seek internal validation to continue moving forward and growing on your own terms.
But also, this is a good time to just relax. Congrats on graduating! Pick up candle pouring as a hobby idk. It's a good time to just exist with no expectations!
Ty ❤️
I hope you can relax and take your time. You're a really inspiring person, always putting in hard work and showing us how it's like to face some problems in life. Your channel helps me not only get better as a programmer but also getting better as a human being. We love you Pan!
❤️❤️
I was burned out on my last year of college. I thought once I graduate, it will get better. But working in the software development field, it just feels like I am working on one continuous group project, it just felt like school 2.0 where I am getting paid instead of paying for it. It has been almost 3 year year since I been working, and I come to feel a lot better just taking life slowly as it comes. Like I still have flexible goals in my life like what I want to do for career growth, when I want to buy a house, and other plans and ambition. But finding a good balance between career and ambition, and personal interest and hobby had really helped me just come to enjoy life a lot. Because not everything needs to be driven by reasons, sometimes it is perfectly fine to do something just for the joy and love of it.
How do you personally find time for hobbies and overall, personal time for yourself? I tend to have a hard time with this and just wondering if you have any tips of finding a good balance with work and personal time.
@@cocothechonk Well, I can only speak from my own experience since I don't know about your personal situation. But I use to let work bleed into my personal time, where I felt like I needed to spend time outside of work sharpening my coding skills or completing work outside of actual working hour rather than just saying, "It will take another day for it be finished" during a stand up meeting. Now, I just work 7-4 with an hour lunch break from. I try to be as productive as I can be in the 8 hours of work and the rest of the day is for myself. Obviously with a big portion of my day spent on work, I don't really have the time and sometimes energy to do a lot of things on weekday. I try to fill this time with hobbies that I can start and stop anytime, like games, youtube, chatting, etc. Then on days off like weekend or PTO, I try to make the most of my time with spending it with friends, scheduled tabletop games, going bowling, or learning to draw. So really, just boils down to time management, drawing a line between work and personal life, personal fitness and a proper sleep schedule also helps with feeling drained after work.
Hey Pan, just started following your channel and I’ve binged watch most of your videos. Anyway, like you mentioned we all want to be productive or have some type of “special” meaning in our life. We are constantly looking for this gratification. This later can become an obsession. I had this same mindset and my advice to you is this. Don’t forget to live in the present, and you’ll be surprise that you can find joy in the most simplest of things. A walk at the park, going for a run. Hope this helps!
Ty ❤️
Congrats big man , more power to you , hope you figures out life.
Good luck!
And condolences
All the best for your next step in life KING
Congrats on graduating!!! i've just started my 5 year CS degree and your videos are always entertaining to watch
love these short honest vids
Wow! Tu as traversé tellement de choses ces derniers temps. Et tu as tout de même le courage d'en parler sur YT.
Ta commu est bienveillante, prends toutes ces bonnes ondes et va de l'avant!
De chouettes aventures t'attendent et on les attend également! :D
🌼- condoléances pour tes grand-parents -🌼
Merci ❤️
Heyy this was exactly what happened to me few months ago , being a computer science graduate in June 2023 and got a job , but feeling lost somewhere and don’t know what ’s my next step ‘s gonna be , I know I’m so privileged and grateful for getting the job , but I don’t exactly see the road ahead , and 😅also I too watched Andrew huberman videos during these days
Yo pan, I just wanna say that I watch your content for a long time and I enjoy even non tech related videos, gaming streams like 12 minutes or whatever was that game called were really chill to watch. Been feeling burnt out and going through tough times recently as well but I look forward to your future content :)
Ofc I know u pogsauce. Take a break when u can and go somewhere different, it has already helped me a lot. ❤️
It's really strange, such a similar situation man. Programmer, almost breaking up too (and she will move away to a distant place), and i am almost graduating as well. I really hope we didn't have the same age, it would be like getting a glance of a future that will happen in the next months 😂🥲. Jokes aside, i wish a good recovering in this next days, U are awesome man. The best is yet to come. Peace
I found Pan! :) anyway, this video is a lot to think about, in a good way; thanks for sharing, glad to hear you're feeling better now and can't wait for the travel vlog!
Yo you're a huge inspiration bro man. I don't know if you remember me but I used to be a regular at ur twitch stream, I been busy with so much shit over the past year that haven't really had the time to watch anything. Your streams were always a blast and as a HS student I've learned a tons from you. Just know that you're a big fucking inspiration for a bunch of us in here.
Can really relate in the ambiguity of future goals. Not exactly in the same bot but I locked in my dream job last spring and have sort of been coasting in terms of productivity and self-improvement, which I’m really frustrated with.
I actually don’t have any words of wisdom since I need to figure out my own shit but just know you’re not alone and we’re all fighting our internal battles. Congrats on the new job btw! (Let me guess is it bloomberg?😂)
You're my inspiration, sir! Lots of love❤
"I came"... truly inspiring
I remember watching a video on a situation like this. I forget all the terminology, but the lesson remained with me: Just exist and chill for a while and you'll get your drive back to do other things. What you're experiencing is perfectly normal.
Ty
It was a slog getting through college for me, I didn’t even like my major but wasn’t able to change due to my parents thinking I’d drop out. Was super depressed and once I finished I didn’t work for almost a year bc I was so over it all haha definitely pace yourself and make sure you are taking care of yourself through the journey!
What major
Ayy man, I also just graduated from collage. It feels very strange now that I know I shouldn't have to attend classes, listen to professors, or talk to classmates. I feel the same way as you, keep it up. Love from Norway
Congrats on graduating Pan!
Rest is productive, so rest well G and safe travels.
when u said ur thought matter to us or not ,but for me it matter it is like advice for me thku for sharing
Enjoy your time, enjoy the Summer, don't think about work for a while mate, you are insane!
Been feeling a little to overwhelmed and burned out trying to do all the things that I feel I need to do, and hearing you talking about burnout in this way, how you are going on a trip, made me feel a little more calm about all this. I appreciate it a lot man, thx
❤️
I think that you are soo lucky that you are graduated❤️ and now enjoy your life without any fear of study😭😭
Yeah, there are moments when life throws everything at you at the same time, and then, a huge change arrives. It's crazy, and tragic, but beautiful at the same time. A new arc is beginning. Just give yourself a time to rest and heal from all this craziness, 'cuz you know it has been a lot, and still there you are, standing firm with great outcomes. All my respect and admiration for you, Pan.
❤️
Yo take your time and enjoy your vacation. In some sense, losing job at Facebook could’ve been a blessing in disguise since you would’ve been riding a long ass emotional rollercoaster while at the company.
Don’t over stress about new goals, you already have some in front of you (do well at new job, meet new friends in states, etc). Once you’ve taken care of those, hopefully newer goals are already in placed :)
❤️
You have been a dope inspo for me ever since I started with my compsci journey. Love to see you leading a new beginning after all the bad shits.
By the way in which company you are gonna join in ?
❤❤
Thanks:) gonna keep where I work a secret for now!
love your videos pan!
Can understand the burnout, also recently went through two breakups, you're not alone
I also just graduated and definitely feeling the “what’s next?” especially since Uni is something that I have been working towards my whole life. Also broke up with my partner last month and yeah sorry to hear that you’re going thru this time of uncertainty as well but its nice to know i’m not alone!
Bro is always mad relatable
I'm a senior in cs, but maybe not graduate on time as others, (or like you) but wish the best of luck to you in your future journey, better things will come!
I feel the same way, im about to graduate here in the next few weeks and I have a full time job offer ive had for 9 months, it feels like I don't have anything else to work towards.
Congrats Bro🎉
Digging the videos, man! Also, the scientist had a good point. I'll need to check that out.
Congratulations on graduating bro!!
This guy know's his shit.
I feel you pan, im in similar situation where i feel that im achieving something but after that it slips through my hands and i can't do shit. Currently im clueless what my goals are, cannot focus on anything. Though good thing is my sleep schedule is better i wake up when sun is rising and just watch my ceiling all day. I make money through freelancing trying to make ways to grow myself but uggh man im stuck. Anways see you again pan.
Congrats on graduation Pan
Ty
Hey Pan thank you for sharing your inspirational story. I'm sorry to hear about your break-up. Break-ups really do suck :/ anyways just keep your head up as things are going well for you now that you finished school and have a good job. I guess life is all about the grind despite tough challenges. I really do appreciate you sharing your story as it only motivates me to pursue my goals.
Literally going through the exact same thing except my uncle passed and I'm still studying lol, everything works out in the end, I'll come back to this comment in 6 months and hopefully we're in better positions in all aspects of life. Stay blessed Matt
Coming back to this comment, I'm now an intern Product Designer and life is doing a hard u turn, everything is getting better even though I got and lost a girlfriend the most important thing is I found myself
I've always been iffy myself with the whole "goal" concept. I'd rather live honest to myself rather than achieve something OTHERs care about and maybe not enjoy my time as I could. Compromises are to be made sure, but there is only as much as you can sacrifice before becoming sort of hollow. Best of luck mate, you got this.
Yo my Boy PAN! Hope you have a great trip man!
Tyty
Seriously... I just graduated last month....and feeling same as you do... I'm working at a startup , got perfect job, learning and most of the things I wanted... Now I'm feeling..which new goals should I make...or even confused whether they'll be worth to work on.. since..future is what we do today ..i guess even if it was not for me... It will give new directions to future happiness and learning 💙
Glad to see I'm not alone lol
@@FryingPan yeahh.. i like you💙 and your content💙. I'm planning to create my TH-cam channel too ..i have a great dream to do TH-cam collab with you in future...💙
Congrats on graduating
Feelings are transitory and I believe you’ll eventually get through this :-3
Ty nat
I love the fact that he turned red while he was talking about his breakup and man I feel you, BREAKUP SUCKS !!!
You guys were looking great with each other but you know Right person and Wrong time i guess ....
I've been following you since the beginning and I can surely tell that you have a long way ahead of you man ...
Keep grinding !! You deserve the best brother ❤
liked after seeing "not really I'm 6'5 and handsome" - so awesome
Your videos are really useful both technically and mentally.....
Sorry for the breakup and the burnout thing. We're all fucked up when we finish something and don't know how to proceed but life is this way. You just have to keep going. You're doing great. PS: I cannot believe you're leaving to the states and I didnt have the chance to have an autograph 😂. Take care and keep going.
I will be graduating next Saturday. I totally understand where you're coming from, but I believe we can conquer this next level and enjoy it
We're all proud of you pan
Congrats On New Job Brother ❤
Ty!
CONGRATS!!!!! Take all the time you need to heal from school and all the time. It's good to take time to find yourself. Take care!
❤️
when do new grad jobs usually start? september? would be cool to have fun during the summer with a job lined up for the fall.
new fan hope to see uploads my major is computer science as well and you graduated that seems like god lvl rn
Ye, I can relate to being burned out. Freakin finals coming up as well.
Graduated too last year. One advice, take your time, and go take some air. In nature preferably. It will do you good just as it did for me.
👍
As a cs student here is an analogy for you my man
Life is like a respnsive website, it can resized to up down left and right, thats the right my man.
yo pan take care of yourself, a lot of changes and stress in your life it's good that you are taking some time for yourself
Tyty
Pan: You're in this super liminal place right now, transitioning between two phases of your life. You know that weird feeling you get when you finish a months-long code project? Same deal, but 1000x bigger.
I'm glad you're planning to take things easy on the bigger life goals for a bit. Taking the time to work on your mental health and just chill for a bit is 100% the right direction.
Only suggestion I'll make is: try not to get stuck in a rut. It's so easily done. Make time for friends and family, try out new and interesting things, and always have at least one thing in your life that requires active engagement instead of passive consumption. That's a lesson I'm still struggling to internalise.
You do well to ask yourself these questions because time will go much faster than you realize, it is a source of anxiety. You don't need to find a goal but an horizon and these are completely different, this is your life now not an economic or management class. Goals are all about key indicators, competition and production, insignificant objectives in the grand scheme of things, the second is about the travel. You don't drive a boat like you drive a car, you need to seek the winds, steer to a direction long before the vessel will actually start to turn and last but not least if ever lost do not worry too much, just stick to a cap on your compass that way you will always find a land.
Dude you got a job! I completely missed that, did you make a video about it? Anyways congrats dude, so happy for you!
I graduated(ChemE) in March and still unemployed 😢😢😢. Moved to parents house. Anyway, love you man.
Parents house is great. Love u too
We fkin love u Pan good luck with everything ❤
Love u too ❤️
man joined this channel when you posted your second video, you really winning in life bro
Haha it's been a ride
@@FryingPan i am also a computer science student do give some tips sir
Relatable..
I thought I was done but no, I have to pass my licensure exams so here I am stuck in the middle as well..
After all the stress from college med, here I thought I was finally free after graduating.. I realize it was all a lie, you’re not really free not unless you have this sense of purpose. Right now I’m just aimlessly going with the flow. I also think it’ll go away once I start working tho.
4:58
can totally relate mate. recently i too had to breakup because of that. and yeah, shit's sad and tough no cap
Congratulations brother, can you please share what was the Final Year Project, if you have it in your academic system.
I've pretty listen to Andrew D. Huberman cause one its quote hit me. It's about something like dopamine and keeping your excitement always open no matter what situation is. And that is kinda hard for me tbh, but I have a power to ignore a lot of things bruh.
I am in the SAME situation as yours... I recently broke up with my gf, in a good way but it sad as hell. I graduated recently and I have a new job I don't start yet, as a Programmer.
It is strange, in some way I reach all the goals I had in mind, and I don't khow where I go now, but it is part of the life.
In these times, it is important to give time to yourself, share time with tour friends and family and try things that you always wanted but you didn't have time to made them actually, like travel and discover new places, try a new hobb, activity or sport, start a new project...
You should focus on what makes you happy now. Work is the fuel to do what you want to do with your life. Watch what other people do that you meet at work or come up with your own original ideas. There are infinite possibilities out there in the world the best thing you can do is explore, discover, meet and talk to other people!
burnout is real
just started first job (well not job but intern)
and already wana leave it not even graguated (with no clue what i m gona do instead). Pay's good. I'm just too lazy and homesick ig
i believe i m the only one with this weird thought process. Cuz everybody else seems motivated and exited about their damn new job. F
“It just came” this what she said 😂
🤣🤣🤣
leave. /j
All the best
trueing... i graduated last year... and after that.. i feel empty. plus i still don't have a job at that time.. so i got nothing to do... and i feel like i don't have any motivation to code or learn something.. i just want to netflix and chill all day...
but thankfully all of those burnout phase is pass and i have a job now... hoorayy
Niceu
I'm relating way too hard to everything you're going through man. Shit's tough out here but it will get better we just have to hang in there.
All the bullshiting aside. I feel you man. It's like after I graduated with my computer science degree, I was like what's next? I kinda felt blank for a while. Now I have found some interesting things I want to work on, plus I have my job, and some fewer goals from the past that are still lagging so I am trying to get that done and over with it. When I was still in school I feel like I had direction. Study, write exams, pass, go to the next grade. It was all planned out. After graduating you kinda feel like you are floating and there's no signs of direction to point you at.
you literally sound like ed chen from the silicon valley. the voice is so strikingly similar.
Concordia is just that good you miss it when you're gone
😂
Welcome to the salaryman life. At this point forward, everything changes. But it can be good, it is what you make of it.
Yo this dude is so funny, he kept saying stuff that he didn't mean to say
bro i feel you