discussing intimacy with with anyone even parents is strictly prohibited, intimacy after nikah is allowed no issues, its good to delay intercourse after rukhsati, but even if its done there is absolutely no sin or makrooh thing, there is an ayat in quran which you will know i suppose which prohibits discussing one's with-spouse intimacy with anyone and every one, Regarding "one should feel bad.... behind parents backs" there is no sahi hadees or aaya that says one has to seek permission or has to inform parents for having intimacy with spouse.... Dear Faraz please as a request, keep emotions out of islamic dars and follow islam as per hadees and quran, and dont mix your culture/society influenced emotions.
discussing intimacy with with anyone even parents is strictly prohibited, intimacy after nikah is allowed no issues, its good to delay intercourse after rukhsati, but even if its done there is absolutely no sin or makrooh thing, there is an ayat in quran which you will know i suppose which prohibits discussing one's with-spouse intimacy with anyone and every one, Regarding "one should feel bad.... behind parents backs" there is no sahi hadees or aaya that says one has to seek permission or has to inform parents for having intimacy with spouse....
Dear Faraz please as a request, keep emotions out of islamic dars and follow islam as per hadees and quran, and dont mix your culture/society influenced emotions.
The shaykh is doing well in explaining matters. Keep your views to yourself.