Gok Helps Blind Bride Lucy Find Her Confidence | Say Yes To The Dress: Lancashire
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- Bride Lucy lost her vision 5 years ago, and now she needs to find the perfect wedding dress to make her feel confident on her big day.
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He treats her so gently but doesn’t infantilize her. She helps her own this experience in her special way and it’s just beautiful!
Yeah he's a very kind, special human being. We need more of that.
@@penny.222 feel so sorry for you. Hope eventually you are able to appreciate goodness.
@@penny.222 did we really need that comment
A big part is receiving what we are getting. Today, a lot of people would take offense to this and think he is asking too many questions or making assumptions. You can treat someone with kindness today and they will take it the wrong way
Gok is one of the few men in fashion who actually likes women, and genuinely wants them to look their best. Describing her like a fox in the snow was inspired. More power to him.
Absolutely! A wonderful genuine human being.. so kind to Lucy and his description was so spot on!!
Him and Randy Fenoli 🤗💚💜
I couldn't agree more! The way he calmly talks to her and let's her feel the dress.. So much respect for him!
Yesss! I love it when men don’t feel like they need to act “masculine” and don’t get embarrassed when they have to do “feminine” things
I actually find it very attractive
Randy Fani and Gok go out of their way for their Brides
He actually gave her a therapy with that beautiful mindset. He is the man that you need when searching for a wedding dress! Who else is crying?
🙋♀
Me, I'm crying T_T
Ugly crying, that was so lovely
Me, I am crying
Meee😭
I like how Gok immediately thought to prioritize a dress that had interesting details for her to feel so it was a good sensory experience. Something that would be beautiful for her and not just for the people who can see her.
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Yes, Auntie Gok came through once again. Instead of just finding something to please the eyes of Lucy's guests no end (which he most emphatically accomplished), he sat down with her, gave her a tactile tour of the dress, and helped her visualize the gown. I loved Lucy's expression of wonder and joy as she delicately traced the scrolls and flowers in the lace. I suspect she'll remember her appointment with Gok almost as fondly as she'll remember her actual wedding day.
I’ve never seen anybody do their job better than this man does his.
Literally my thoughts exactly. Good lord he brought me to TEARS!!!!
Auntie gok loves his clients and his job and it shows in clips like this
Yes
He's the kindest human ever.
HES THE BEST
“How does a blind girl pick her wedding dress? Lets find out...”
i clicked cause on the thumbnail, I was 100% sure shes that tiktok girl
Brooo, samee
She is isn't she
It is as on her “How does a blind girl know what’s in a jar?” She says she has a fiancé called Ollie and Ollie is her fiancé here.
Same she’s so beautiful and inspiring to me!
She has a TH-cam channel
When she said “I did actually get the chance to see him” in reference to getting to see her future husband before she lost her sight I actually started crying that’s so sweet and amazing
I started crying too!
Me too
Samesame
Immediately started crying too. Such a sweetheart.
Watching as Gok held back tears when he realized it was his words that enabled this bride to see...was exceptional. Such a word magician to have that skill. I am richer having witnessed it.
"Richer for having witnessed it." Exceptional indeed! What a gift he has!
All. The. Time. When I watch him.
Yup same
"She owned it, because of Gok!" 😭💖
The way he describes it to her but he is letting her make it up in her brain just makes me feel so happy inside.
Hamilton
@Melanie L yes✨❤
You can find more of her on her channel.
@@laurenprochaska9611 I know I watch her channel.
The moment she said "fox in the snow" you could see gok realizing that the words he said to her will effect her positively for the rest of her life
I never gave this show a chance because it seemed like trashy reality TV. But damn, this is one of the sweetest, most genuine moments I've ever seen. I'm so happy for her, and I hope Gok remembers his impact on this client if he ever feels low.
@@MixyMixerton alot of it is more of a guilty pleasure for trash tv. But anything with Gok is GOLD. I basically look for Gok and then I click 🤷♀️
@@MixyMixerton The US versions are a lot like trashy reality TV, but the UK versions are pure and wholesome. Both Gok, and Jo and Al from Curvy Brides are phenomenal.
@@SamiBabi06 Same here!!!
How are you doing Rihanna
The moment Lucy described herself as a fox in the snow, you could see how much it meant to Gok. He looked like he was about to cry. I love this man. He's so amazing as a consultant and as a person!
That's exactly what I was thinking! There were a few times it looked like he was holding back tears
I think it made him realise just how much he helped her love putting on dresses, she really took what he said to heart.
Yes, I saw that too Hilary, and he slipped in behind the female consultant and the emotion on his face.... He deserved that moment, he gave her an amazing gift, she will forever have of herself, a fox in the snow, just beautiful.
That meant so much to me as well. I really love him. He really wants the best for everyone. I can just feel his heart! ❤️
I started crying when she said that because I knew how much that imagery he helped her create meant to her. This one was so touching
"Im a fox in the snow" her saying it, then Goks face...im crying. This is the most beautiful episode ive ever seen. Gok is so wonderful, i wish i could have him help me pick a dress!
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For some reason I imagined a fox the same as her hair color running freely in this big beautifully white snow field and now I cant stop crying
Otaku AnimeWorld omg same 😭
Right?? Me too! I had to look at the comments to find out if that made anyone else cry as well.
He can still pick your wedding dress
When she repeated the “fox in the snow” I bursted into tears, Gok is literally the most amazing person in this show
Same!!! 😢😢
@@bhargavibala2449 he is the sweetest🥺
It’s so lovely because you can see him tearing up when he realizes his description has a real impact on her
@@zohabaig6426 YESSSS🥺🥺🥺
@Anya R France always!! He really cares for what the bride feels
Goks' emotion over the vision that he helped Lucy to see, was a clear indication of his humanity. I think he is a very special person.
Julie Ann I agree
Lucy has her own youtube channel Lucy Edwards, she is a gem, and she is so happy and embarking on a new career and marriage :)
Hi
Using his personal gifts, a combination of art, compassion, and empathy was a fucking gift just to watch, truly inspiring.
Absolutely.
I am moved to tears. He literally helped her see her dress. He gave her permission to imagine herself. That is beautiful, powerful and a gift.
This version of SYTTD is so therapeutic not only for the clients but the viewer as well. Gok shows us how we can look, think and feel like our best self. The use of imagery and feeling of texture had me emotional. 😢
Yes. And how we could treat each other.
Me too I was crying like a baby!
@@JessConstantino PINK, GLITTER, BIG... Is another one which is very special too. I watched it tonight and "cried like a baby" again, as I did warching this FOX IN THE SNOW one. Both girls with exceptional circumstances, and outcomes.
god when gok said “you can create whatever lace you want inside your brain” and the bride said “i never thought of it that way before...i have control...and I’m not usually in control” and started crying god i wanted to hug her so much. Gok is such a genuinely good person i’m crying so hard.
Me too felt that. You would absolutely feel so out of control to stop seeing the world so suddenly and to never see again
I cried too so beautiful 🙏❤️
What am amazing experience for this young lady and Gok is just such a special human being
I absolutely adore auntie Gok! He is and incredible human being ! He changes lives !
God*
Wait a minute . She’s the girl that makes the “ how a blind girl ... “ tik toks right ? OMG !! I love her content!!
Thank you! i thought she lookes familiar and i just couldnt place it. Yes i think she is.
DoridGolld101 I was thinking the same thing!
This is has to be her!!!
It is guys!! Omg I AM sohocked
Same
After watching the narcissistic American moms, this is so refreshing to see a mom who just loves her daughter and wants her baby girl to be beautiful and happy!
the energy on lancashire syttd is completely different. they’re always mindful of budget, so sweet to the brides, entourage is almost always open to whatever the bride wants and if not gok usually talks them down. like the american one is a whole mess in comparison.
I agree. He was ambitioned to make her feel beautiful and amazing and he made sure to describe it in a way she could use to imagine it. It's lovely
To be fair to the American moms, that version of the show thinks of a dramatic theme and gets the families to play along. “You don’t quite like her dress? Tell her you absolutely hate the dress.”
Bitter much!
Wow, none of you people can go a day without trying to make yourselves feel better by bashing America when they aren't even involved. Obsessed much?
Wow... Just to see Gok's face when she said" I am a fox in the snow"... He hold his tears back! He did amazing! Like always. But this time was extra special. He was Lucy' s eyes.... God bless this man
When he was describing the imagery of her in the dress, from being a fox in the snow to describing the lace and everything, it just brought me to tears. He really meant it when he said "we're going to bring back her sight today"
I am so surprised that you have so few likes compared to all the others.
When Gok said "we're going to bring back her sight today" --- that was so inspired! And then he really delivered.
That was really powerful to me , to @Orianna pls, and the few others who liked her comment!
@@curious1366 I'm glad you liked my comment, thank you! I also resonated with him saying this and I'm glad some people agree too!
She has beautiful red hair! I think that's inspired the fox in the snow imagery. Her hair is shimmering in the light. So lovely😍
@@tiararoxeanne1318 Absolutely! I think that's what he meant too
She is a TH-camr, her channel is called Lucy Edwards. Just saying because most people know her from tiktok but she also has a TH-cam channel!
And Instagram too ☺️
I have been subscribed to her since 5 months lol
Yeah I knew her from TH-cam I didn’t know she had a tik tok until recently
@@carzia_speed2235 same
I just found her yesterday! And now I'm binging all of her videos!! Lol
I didn’t get why everyone in the comments was saying they cried when she said “I’m a fox in the snow” but then she said it and I cried, wtf
I just started watching and I'm waiting for that part to understand what is going on😂
I know right 😭😭
Her hair is red and she is wearing white.
I know this comment is old but literally just happened to me and I felt what you felt just now 😭
SAME like as soon as she said it
I feel like when she said “I’m a fox in the snow” was the highlight of Gok’s whole career. He handled her disability with so much elegance and grace. Absolute gentleman. ❤️
I agree with you. I am blind also, and I have been very inspired by this video.
It has given me ideas for my own bridal gown when I get to choose it.
I presume Lucy has red hair?
She sounds very beautiful to me. 🥲
I think she has a beautiful personality, and I love her videos.
Do you know if they are married yet? I’d love to see the wedding video
She does, fiery red hair 🔥
@@nikkiisrael2708 she does! It's exactly how gok described it. Vibrant orangy rusty red, like a fox. It truly creates the vision of the fox in the snow because the dress is so white! :) I hope you find someone that can help you create your own image in your head for your own wedding gown!!
_”i’m in a brilliant white dress, and i’m a fox in the snow”_
*i have chills*
His analogy was not only perfectly effective, but also outrageously inspirational.
Even Gok was emotional when she said that 🥺😢
who has seen lucys youtube channel give her some love ❤
That line made me teaet
Teary*
This man is not just a stylist, he's a healer.
That is so it. He is a healer!♡
That’s exactly it. He’s such a beautiful kind soul love him God bless him
I do really enjoy how he tries to genuinely connect with every bride he dresses.
Omg he is! He is special!
❤️
The difference between this and the American version is huge.
im American and obsessed with both, but for different reasons. the uk version is more touching in my opinion, while the American is more reality-showy and dramatic with families. Both equally addictive, but yeah, very different
@@madelinea5133 Well said.
I agree the British version is more meaningful this episode is a good example.
The difference between the two shows is very much on purpose. It's a reflection of the culture and audience for sure. I'm not sure where the show originated but a lot of thought went into the importation.
Think the difference is Gok - not a fan of the other UK version but this one I love
For someone who has had darkness as her constant companion for so many years, to make her imagine herself as a fox with fiery russet fur standing against a brilliantly white crisp snow field...Man! Gok is something else. He's not selling a dress to a customer. He is helping a woman feel like a bride! This is such a poetically beautiful episode of SYTD!
4:30 i absolutely love when Gok told Lucy that her dress has lace on it, but that she can take ownership and visualize what that lace actually looks like, I teared up with Lucy in that moment
Absolutely, that's an amazing mindset to give her 🥲
Crying 🥲
6:30
I SOBBED when she said “it’s my story so who cares”. You could hear the power that she had finally given herself permission to have.
Could I please have the time stamp? (●'◡'●)
I feel like everyone sjpuld have that idea because it is a powerful one
@@erinmakato1768 6:48, yw
@@SilvrFox-b2d ah ty ty! （＾∀＾●）ﾉｼ
Gok is absolutely an angel, he truly put his heart into choosing her weeding dress and making her Invision it.
i adore him to bits, so kind nd extremely helpful
He's amazing!
I was going to say the same thing. Hes really is the perfect person to make the bride feel special and beautiful. Hes a kind and beautiful soul.
I remember him from another tv show back in the day, he is such a skilled professional and has the ability to make people feel good about themselves.
I watch Lucy's video's ALL OF THE TIME, and there could NOT have been ANYONE better suited for Lucy than Gok. He gave her power back that she didn't realize she lost hold of.
Gok’s reaction to her saying “I’m a fox in the snow” 😭
I know it made me tear up a bit
😭😭😭
The most beautiful thing ever said.
dee Xooxoo The tears just flowed.
I know right?! I don't know if I saw it right, but he was getting emotional I think. Such wonderful human beings ❤
"I can't stay this low forever." I'm going to carry those words with me.
defo something I still live by even after we filmed xxx
@@lucyedwards I have depression and some days are just hard to even live like a regular person. I'll be telling myself this on those hard days. You are an inspiring young women and I wish you all the best, fox in the snow.
I suffer from depression as well... Please know you are not alone 💖
Fok Julie you aren’t either, sending hugs xx
I too suffer from depression. Major depression...once I felt like I was dieing inside, but I kept telling myself, " this cant last forever" that's what got me through and prayers.
When she said "I'm a fox in the snow" I couldn't hold back the years anymore 😭❤️ I love Lucy so much
Me too
Same ✨
Years? I think you mean tears... But lovely comment!
Umm what does that mean I don't know
@@ok6114 I think it's that she's ginger (like a fox) in a white dress (like the snow)
Me: Why is everyone getting emotional with “I’m a fox in the snow”? Bride: “I’m a fox in the snow” Me: 😭
Me too !! I wld love to meet Gok just to hear his "magic" voice.
His knowledge is immeasurable!!
I'm just bawling about it.
Sameee 😭😭😭😭
sameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee omg so emotional moment
Its 4am. I'm crying my eyes out. Ahh.
This is so wholesome 🥺
He's helping her getting confident without infantilizing her, and she looks absolutely stunning. This image of a fox in the snow fits her perfectly ❤️
Bride: "I'm a fox in the snow"
Me: *starts crying*
Yes, me too.
We all are crying like crazy!!!😭😭😭😭😭
gok beat you to it
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
God, yes. Same.
My 6 year old sister saw me watching this and I told her how she's blind and my sister says "so she can't see how beautiful she is??"
Your little sister is an angel please give her a tight hug from my side
♥️♥️😭♥️
OMG 🥰🥰🥰
Chloe k Sorry to disturb you but your sister dropped this 👑 at the street and I need to give it back.
Wow. From the mouth of babes. I agree with your six year old precious sister. And thank you so much for sharing. You must also be a great big sister!
Wow! When he told her she could control her vision my heart just fluttered! That was so kind and empowering, just beautiful.
Yes that so was! 😍
I must be a horrible person. I thought that was the worst line. To me It's like he's saying "it doesn't matter how it looks. You can't see it anyway so just imagine it the way you want."
Shannon King I understand you cause I’m super pessimistic but I think the way he say it also matter. Judging from Gok’s overall personality, it’s positive. If it’s coming from me it may not...
I absolutely love Gok! I have fallen down the rabbit hole today and watched a lot of SYTTD videos, and he is by far my favorite consultant. The others all support the brides, but also push a little bit of their own agenda. Gok really listens to his brides. I also love how went above and beyond to help her "see" her dress.
Gok's face when she says "fox in the snow!"
and she really does look like a fox in the snow
I cried when I say Gok’s expression… I think he was surprised with what he accomplished. I’d take a bullet for him any day. What a sweetheart. Ay que lindo 😭
I should stop watching wedding dress videos when I'm hormonal. I cried when she said Fox in te snow. Such a stunning lady
Roos Rommens me too
same here...the term hormonal is so appropriate....I started crying just after seeing her beautiful smile...She is so lively and jolly even after seeing so much in such early stage of her life.
haha amen sister!
SAME. T_T
Me too 😭😂
When she said "I'm a fox in the snow" I cried-
Currently in tears T_T this clip is beautiful
What does that mean
@@muzoriichi it was just beautiful
The camera crew did an amazing job. When you film something, it obviously shows you from the perspective of sight, you film what you would see if you were there. This camera crew filmed from the perspective of touch, they filmed what you would feel if you would be there and touch the dress. Also, the imagery Gok used to describe what shapes and colors she would see was beautiful and vivid, and he even stated it abstract enough to give her full autonomy how to visualize it. He gave her the painting tools for her to paint the mental picture herself. Gok, you are an empathetic soul, this was wonderful. I have a lot of appreciation for how you handled this 🙏🏻💝💖
My God, you're right! He kept it abstract enough so she could imagine it how *she* would! I didn't even realize that deeper nuance! Thank you for pointing it out.
Gok's smile when she cried about how she could control how it looks was so beautiful, I felt like she could feel him smiling
The moment Gok started letting her feel the dress and explain it to her in the best way possible.. I knew his heart was gold
Haven't seen anyone do this job better
I teared up at this one, it really touched my feelers. Gok is very intuitive and that is what makes him so good at this. Those who seek to bring comfort to others, feel the most pain inside.
Professional Commenter You are really a Professional commenter!
Gok is amazing. He always impresses me, but he outdid himself this time. "Fox in the snow." "Your story." Brilliant. Compassionate. Just right.
Hi 🙏
Wait she’s that TikToker who says, “How does a blind girl....” right?!
Yah dude
yep
yep got this one recommended to me as well 😊
@@theblueskyandrainbow oh cool!
yes dude
Gok handled blindness so so well in this, both in terms of trying to make sure she's safe in the shop to just helping craft and shape the narrative, and making her feel empowered, beautiful and special.
As someone who has to deal with transient blindness, I just think this was amazing. I can't speak for what it's like to be blind long term, but I know how much this would help me during my episodes of blindness.
I wish more people were like him when it comes to helping people with disabilities. I’m disabled, and I get so many people who don’t know how to react with it. Some baby me, and try to do everything for me even though there are many things I can do myself. Others are rude af and act like if I can’t keep up with everyone else I don’t deserve to live. This man didn’t make her feel awkward about her disability by asking her a bunch of weird questions. He didn’t baby her or treat her like it didn’t matter what dress she had since she couldn’t see it anyways. He engaged her in the experience and let her come up with her own imagery of it, so she could feel in control and confident with it. He was simply her eyes for her, and explained it in a way she could visualize it, but let her control it all and decide how she felt about it. He also kept in mind that she would be more aware of textures so picking one with good textures was important. He did an excellent job and she looks absolutely stunning!
Am sorry on behalf of all the ill mannered people you have had to endure.
And we learn to be better every day
I totally agree!
On a scale of 1-10, Gok earned a million!
same! i’m also disabled and have a service dog (not a guide dog ), so it made me happy to see this kind of representation! the only thing i didn’t appreciate in this episode was that gok pet the dog and they didn’t show her giving permission. but this was so good!!
yessss as another blind person, I looove how they handled it all with the textures aspect.
@@kyandaila I have a service dog as well! And yeah, hopefully they asked before shooting the video if they were allowed to. But otherwise it was great ❤️
I don't normally cry watching these videos but Gok's kindness, love and compassion so strongly displayed and his gentleness with this bride has me in tears.
Hi 🙏🔥
Oh wow he telling her that she can actually control her vision because it's in her head is such a beautiful way of thinking about blindness. It brought me to tears tbh..
It’s actually really powerful. It gives her control which is beautiful (crying)
I 💕 your horse
@@jennifer4464 thanks!! She is a little fat because she didn't loose her baby belly, but she is soooo good!
Gok is so wonderful. The way he flipped the perspective for Lucy and made her realize that she could actually be in charge of the experience ...That was so powerful. I've got a physical disability myself, and I can only imagine how much that must have meant for her. What a beautiful man. I'd love to meet him one day.
Yeah!
Wow. He just changed her entire perspective of her blindness by allowing herself to make her own story the way she envisions it!! That’s super powerful, what a great experience for her ❤️
Watching this again after some time since it first ran, and its still just as powerful as before. By leaps and bounds this interaction was Gok's greatest SYTTD moment. "A Fox in the Snow" is the greatest gift he could have ever given this lovely lovely woman.
The way he is helping her to "see" her dress is so sweet and tender. Everyone needs someone like Gok or Gok himself helping them pick their wedding dress.
Gok is a treasure. We need to protect him at all costs! What he did for this bride! What a kind soul.
Is no one going to talk about how good she looks in the dress 😲
she looks very beautiful!!
She looks gorgeous! I was so excited while she was feeling the dress and visualizing in her mind. And I was more excited while Gok was putting it on her. Gok did a wonderful job in letting her regain her confidence! I love them both!
She's the most purest and sweetest soul ever 🥺, she's so beautiful in that dress, it's a perfect fit!
Lucy has a TH-cam channel!!! She shows how blind people can do a lot of things!!
What is the name
@@rowenasankar Lucy Edwards
AND TIKTOK
I thought that was the same girl!!! I was like “there’s no way she just looks like her”
She’s so wonderful, I love watching her videos. 💛
This stylist is how I imagined 'Cinna' would be like, when I read "The Hunger Games" for the first time:
An extremely talented fashionista and skilled stylist, unconventional, a secret rebel with a cause, and a man of integrity and character, with such a beautiful soul and healing effect with his words, actions and craft, that it seems as if he almost belongs to another world...
And almost out of place in this 3D material world, full of shallowness and superficiality.
How he made Katniss not only feel beautiful but also touched her soul in a way no one had ever done before.
The dress he put her in, made her go like ...
"I'm not pretty. I'm not beautiful. I'm radiant as the sun!". The Girl on Fire, he made her.
And Gok made this (absolutely wonderful) girl:
"I'm a fox in the snow"!!!.
*Soulgasm*.
*Speechless*
❄🔥
I agree 1000% that’s a perfect comparison
Oh yes...that so accurate
Completely Agree! Gok is the REAL Cinna!!
omg, yes!!
God I need to reread that series. Nostalgia. I’ll do that after I finish reading A Dance with Dragons.
don't we all wish we had a little Gok on our shoulder to give us that bit of self-esteem?
Love the guy he is so genuine
When he described that first dress I got chills...
This man was CREATED to inspire like this. This is absolutely amazing. And every single one of his videos have this warmth to them.
I don't comment very often but I just had to: This is by far the most amazing SYTCD version. Got is so knowledgeable and looks beyond it just being a wedding dress and understands how women need to feel. He doesn't just push for a sale, he really thinks about the ladies. As a bride myself currently in the throws of planning I would give an arm and a leg to be able to have someone like that help me navigate the madness of bridal. Moreover this episode made me tear up almost instantly and couldn't stop till the end. Thank you for making this. LOVE LOVE LOVE
Congratulations!
And have a great time at your wedding :3
Congrats! Lots of blessings for you and your marriage ❤
I got married just under a month ago...The stress of organising is unimaginable by those who haven't tried it. I hope you are doing ok, and that your spouse to be is supportive.
SMALL RANT/ADVICE from a Bride who survived:
Remember it's all about the two of you. Plates might break, it might rain, a shoe might go missing or you might just forget to wear something old, blue or borrowed (I did forget all 3 on my dresser), but just think of how many perfect, impeccable weddings end in divorce! As long as you love each other and have fun together, the little things won't matter. People put too many expectations, and tell you "it's the happiest day you'll have." or "it's the most important day of your life." IGNORE THEM! It isn't supposed to be the happiest day! That would mean that every day AFTER that is downhill. It is not a healthy mentality, and will only add to your stress.
The anxiety is at its worst just before you get to the isle. Once you see the person you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with, it all melts away and you just want to get to them. Take time to enjoy the day, it goes by so fast, and enjoy the love you found.
@@lindaliriel I love that you said this. I hope for a wonderful Life for you
@@101janine aww, thanks! I wish all the best to you, too! *hugs*
Lucy: I'm a fox in the snow
Me: starts crying immediately
Kaiya Jones same 😭😭😭😭
Yes, ladies, we all are.
Thank you for saying that because I thought it's because I am on my periods.
We all did 😭😭😭
This was the most beautiful dress experience I have seen. I have my sight but the imagery and the time GoK took to give this young lady a vision of what she looked like was AMAZING!! GoK your compassion is definitely one to be emulated!
I can see why people say they only like watching Gok's episodes and omg the wholesomeness of it all is unparalleled. I was tearing up with the bride
It’s so crazy how less expensive this boutique’s dresses are compared to the ones in America
The prices in America for bridal dresses and other wedding-related goods and services are crazy inflated.
Yeah, the pound is worth much more than the dollar (at least it was before brexit and a few other issues which lowered the pound's value to closer to the dollar). the dollar in America has been inflated and continues to inflate with minimum wage rising and prices rising in response to minimum wage rising :/
Monique Bell then why does Australia have a livable minimum wage but our dollar is worth shit all to the USD 😂
You have to remember it’s in pounds not dollars.
Because America is greedy
This is the first Say Yes to the Dress where I've actually cried. Because it's absolutely pure and beautiful. There's a simple beauty in the way he helped her invision the dress in her minds eye, and when she walked out. She was absolutely breathtaking. She truly is a Fox in the Snow.
Knowing her as a content creator now, and hearing how she explains her perspective and what helps her best, this is even more special. So beautiful! She looks amazing
Fox in the snow is the most beautiful visual mindset and picture you can have. So beautiful and scenery. It is one of my favourite episodes, because I have never seen someone being so good in describing something and make it magical.
She is lucky to have a boyfriend who didn’t leave her even after turning blind..gok is indeed a beautiful soul..
And he's lucky to have her! She's beautiful!
Chris Moeller - was going to say the se thing! :) Her being blind does not take away from her personality, looks and who she is.
crystallinebeauty Exactly!
bonifus sisters no you are wrong, he is lucky to have her...she is like a four leaf clover; hard to find lucky to have
@@roseshirvanizadeh1295 They are lucky to have each other.
I saw her in TH-cam shorts and fell absolutely into her way of living her beautiful life and making everyone a part of it. And this video is a cherry on top😭😭😭
Yes and gok is amazing too
She looks STUNNING in that dress. So cute, it was perfect for her.
Gok looks like he probably cried about this later when he didn't have to worry about being seen
Can we just say how good he was. He was never to touchy and told her what she was looking at he wasn't just like it's a white dress
He doesn't treat her like a child either.
I didn’t ask to cry today.
This was absolutely beautiful!
Not only the way they talked and behaved but also the way it was shot. Lots of closeups of the texture of the lace and the gathered fabric, flowy silky-smooth lengths of fabric. It really made it more about the feel of the dress rather then the actual look and it worked so well.
4:58 “thank you for making me feel good about myself, and I don’t usually” That made me tear up 😢
I loved the way Gok made the girl to vision herself as a bride...She looked tooo beautiful in that dress n her smile just added to her beauty.....The Fox in the Snow....lovely
"I'm a fox in the snow" Ugh my heart. That scene with Gok explaining the dress and then the lace made me tear up so much!! Gok is just so good with every different kind of customer that comes in. He is why this is the best version of Say Yes to the dress. So much better than our American version.
And the other UK one with that guy who constantly puts brides in over budget dresses. I can't stand him. He hasn't got a patch on Gok! Gok handled this so brilliantly. He really got her and the assistant who picked out the dress did an incredible job.
@@amywonderland9297 My (close) second favorite consultants are also in the UK...Jo and Al from Curvy Brides Boutique. I agree with you 💯 about David Emanuel. He's too full of himself.
my god four minutes in and i’m already crying this is an excellent ep and gok was so lovely helping her see herself more clearly in whatever way she wanted
i think "fox in the snow" was a perfect description cause i literally can see it myself! gok is so professional, wow
I respect the boyfriend that stayed with her and even decided to propose! It shows he truly loves her. Sometimes there are people who will walk right out the door when his girlfriend becomes blind and don't want to give them a chance. I am not trying to say she is a burden, but he might have not wanted to try and see that she was not.
You cant exactly call them scum becuz i mean being with a blind person might make a lot of things harder so yeah but her bf is a real one since he didnt leave her
😢😢😢
@ThatRandomLady like i said it still in a way does not make them scum
@ThatRandomLady maybe you are right i have never been in a relationship and am too young so i wouldnt know
I understand that this was said with positive intention, bur please don't praise partners, parents, and guardians for staying with/ taking care of their partner/child -despite- their disability.
Praising someone for coping with their partners disability is very backhanded for disabled people, even if you don't mean it in that way.
It implies that our disabilities mean we're less worthy of love and affection, and that we are a burden to our loved ones.
“You’re making me feel so good about myself, i dont usually “
I wish someone reads these comments to her she looked SO GOOD IN THE DRESSS
I love the dress she went with
Gok is the bride to be Whisperer. Makes every bride feel so deserving, good on you Gok, never change may your business grow from strength to strength.
At 4:12 ...Those intimate shots of her feeling the dress, painting a picture in her mind, and the music is such a hauntingly beautiful moment. Yes she's blind but she can see exactly what she feels like. Gok worked magic here.
He explains so much and makes her feel the only one in goks he knows how to deal with people and he is so genuine and emotional. So am I now.
I love that the director took some time to let us *see* what she's *feeling*!
BTW guys she has tik tok so do follow her. She's so inspiring. So pure, humble and her strength is just remarkable.
Whats her name on tiktok??
@@silviaruiz7546 Her latest tik tok she makes a fox in the snow bauble.
Yeah i jst watched her in tiktok,thank u
She has yt too her channel name is Lucy Edwards
I think I said this in another video, but I just love and admire how deeply Gok loves people. It's like he falls in love with every human he meets. Watching him really calms my heart and kind of makes me feel like "Life will be okay."
"I never thought about it that way.. like I can control it" had me in tears cause in a way it is so right
I love her “how a blind girl...” videos.
No joke-
They're actually so interesting. They answer so many questions about blind ppl i used to ask when i was little lol
OMG I JUST WATCHED HER BLID GIRL VIDEOS AND SAWHER DOG AT THE BEGIINING OMG THIS IS HER I THOUGHT IT SOUNDED LIKE HER LMFAO THANK GOD U WROTE THIS COMMENT OT I WOULD BE SUCH A DUMBASS
@@st3phdoesstuff I was soo curious about it before her
Same
Same
Im literally tearing up seeing her in that first dress. She looked stunning and radiant especially with her hair color.
Like a fox in the snow!!!
Ugh, her hair color is so beautiful!!
Back for a third time. I needed to see something positive today on 9/11 and was so happy to see this video cross my feed again. Thank you, Gok, for helping to create a beautiful moment and share your amazing vision with the bride AND with the rest of us as well.
Screw getting a dress in the States. I believe I will have to hunt this shop down for a vow renewal gown. This man is what a consultant should be! Also, does he have a degree in any counselling related areas by any chance?
Wow I didnt even know I needed this man to be a consultant until now. Didnt know him and he just melted my heart. I would love to have my vow renewal gown from this shop as well.
It might actually be a cheaper option. And you can combine it with a fun hen party / trip :)
This reply is super old, but I wanted to pop in and say that Gok is one of the most beautiful people in the world. And I don't think he's a professional consultant/therapist in ways of counseling - BUT, he's a huge advocate against bullying and is very active in helping youth in regards to their mental and emotional health. I think he did a TV spot about it a while ago, and he also hosted a show called "How to Look Good Naked" aimed at helping people gain confidence with their bodies through clothing - and NO DIETING or invasive procedures. He's amazing~!!
Gok ,i called him an amazing Wedding Dress Ambassador hehe , coz he is a Wedding Dress Stylist Wth a Heart...
This is the best way to treat your client...When they walk out of your shop wth a Smile in their Heart...💃💖💖💖🙏🌹🌺
I was thinking the same whilst watching this
“And I’m a fox in the snow”
Me: Sobs uncontrollably
Wow, he really is good isn't he. You'd think he was trained as a therapist for the blind. I am impressed
This episode is a gift and isn't forced. So wonderful
Oh god, when she said "I'm a fox in the snow" with her eyes sparkling, that was just so pure, my heart melted 💞
He definitely wins for best dress stylist out there!! He knows how to work with ALL types of clients and the way he’s describing the fabric and letting her touch the fabric along with giving her mental images is so heartwarming! You can see how confident and happy she was when he was explaining things to her! ❤️
Omg, I'm so moved.